DEAR Madam Temilolu, I must confess to you that in this morally-depraved generation, you are forever a rare kind. Keep the flag flying, our own African Mother Theresa!!!
Mr. Oluwabukola
My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,
I know a lot of change is on-going in your lives and I can’t wait to hear your beautiful success stories.
In the last three months, I’ve been discussing Secondary Virginity and I described a secondary virgin as a person who, after having engaged in sexual intercourse makes a commitment not to be sexually-active again until marriage. So far, I’ve given two tips on how to become one which are Mental Renovation which is a spiritual renewal of the mind and then Prayers.
How to become a Secondary Virgin (Contd.)
- Be a Chastity Crusader
You’d recall I earlier mentioned ungodly sex is one of devil’s ways of stripping us of our virtues and stars. A lot of girls never knew what they were headed for and with no proper explanation of the facts of life by those who should look after them (who perhaps are not even aware of the dangers of ungodly sex), innocently danced to the rhythm of their bodies and lost a lot of goodies. Now, check this out-
“And they that be wise shall shine as the brightness of the firmament; and they that turn many to righteousness as the stars forever and ever.” Daniel 12:3 KJV
In case you don’t understand that, Good News Bible says “The wise leaders will shine with all the brightness of the sky. And those who have taught many people to do what is right will shine like the stars forever.” Whoa! What this means is that when you decide to abstain from being sexually active till marriage i.e. all forms of satisfying yourself sexually including masturbating and you want to recover with speed whatever virtues you have lost, you could just preach to every girl around you on why it is so important to remain chaste and be sold out to God. What a good God! Do you know the more you evangelize to others, the more the spirit of God inhabits you and the more you acquire the much needed power to subdue your flesh and command the good things of life to come your way? Your prayers will also carry fire and power. I beg you, if you know you have a star that has been suppressed or your life is downhill instead of uphill, please start campaigning for God and see how the enemies of your destiny will end up your footstool. I see someone’s original destiny exploding and shaking the world within a few months.
To crown it all, why don’t you strike a deal with God? Ask Him for your greatest heart desire or something so big, you don’t even believe you can get from Him in return for your chastity and commitment towards Him. This deal could change the lot of your entire family; make you greater than the greatest in your family; this deal could even make you greater than your role models and turn you to a force to reckon with in the world! You will also be free from all forms of sexual harassment because God will take sides with you and deal with any man who harasses you, you can never lack, you will have good grades, a fantastic job etc. The best things in life will fall on your laps with ease and of course you’ll have the chances of marrying the best man in the world, specially-configured by God for your life. I assure you in the name of the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob!
These three points are the basics of becoming a secondary virgin but I tell you there’s so much more your soul would be fed with subsequently such that no one would convince you till you take the step that will make your life “heaven on earth!”
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