Category: Life – The Midweek Magazine

  • Sunmi: A personal close-up

    JANE BRYCE, a professor of African Literature and Cinema in The University of The West Indies, writes on former Managing Editor of The Guardian Sunmi Smart-Cole .

    It’s hard to believe this man, whom I first met as Photo Editor of The Guardian in the 1980s, is now in his seventh decade. In those days, I would encounter Sunmi strolling coolly into The Guardian office on Apapa-Isolo Expressway, with some entertaining gist about endangering life and limb pursuing an image on the ever-changing Lagos street.

    No matter how hair-raising the experience, he was always immaculate, the consummate calm professional. Now at 70, he strolls out to collect an award at one of the many ceremonies in his honour, just as cool, just as immaculate – and just as professional. He has never stopped working.

    This volume is a testament not only to the enduring appeal of his photographic vision, but to the hours and years of dedication to his craft, the images a distillation of a lifetime of looking, observing and recording. Meeting Sunmi today, you would be forgiven for taking him for a member of the privileged class whose rites of passage he so lovingly documents. Yet Sunmi was brought up in Port Harcourt in the 1940s by his dressmaker mother, who was devoted to the Assemblies of God, Nigeria’s first pentecostal church.

    It was long before universal education became the norm, in a Nigeria under British rule where schooling was either for the elite or delivered by missionaries. Sunmi, despite being a bright student who qualified for secondary education, was forced to leave school at the age of 14. At 15, he found himself teaching elementary school, living in a small single room with space only for a bed and a pile of magazines on the floor.

    The strategy he evolved then has remained his mainstay even till today: buying second-hand copies of Time, Newsweek, National Geographic and Reader’s Digest, he read, voraciously and with intent, sucking up language, information and ideas. In conversation today, Sunmi displays a breadth of knowledge that puts many scholars to shame.

    Similarly, growing up in a pidgin-speaking environment, he would get up early to listen to the BBC before going to work, imbibing the sonorous tones of the announcers.

    Today, Sunmi code-switches easily between pidgin and the most perfectly expressed “Queen’s English”, equally at home in both. This hard-won facility was not without its cost in pain and insecurity. In some respects Sunmi bears the traces of it still, in his restless drive to achieve at higher and higher levels, in spite of the accolades that routinely come his way.

    This is why, far from resting on his laurels, he marks the occasion of his 70th birthday with an exhibition and a major publication of his work. These photographs, taken between 1976 and 2011, rather than being displayed in chronological order, are arranged in such a way as to highlight key thematic trends, placing images dialectically to bring out their common elements even when taken decades apart.

    One of these thematic trends is nature, and some of the earliest pictures are from Sunmi’s time in the USA in the 1970s, where he went to work and study. Back in Port Harcourt at the age of 17, he had apprenticed himself to a master draughtsman and taught himself the principles of architecture, and this skill took him to Lagos, Freetown (where he designed the country residence of the Prime Minister, Sir Albert Margai) and thence to California. With a potential career as a senior draughtsman at a California company, what prescience made him enroll at a community college to study photography?

    The visual sense that is everywhere present in his work – which we recognise as his personal vision, transmuted and conveyed to us in black and white – must have asserted itself and driven him to this step, which now looks so inevitable. Within two years, Sunmi’s talent was being showcased with his first solo exhibition at Stanford University, Stanford, California, in 1978. Citing the foremost American photographer Ansell Adams as an influence, Sunmi has consistently paid attention to still-life and natural subjects in the many places he has found himself.

    Consider the way “From My Home” (2007) and “Happening on El Camino Real” (1977) speak the same language of closely observed detail emerging out of the play of light and shade; or the way grass, leaves, road surfaces and water are texturally rendered, not as back drop, but so as to convey the materiality of daily life and human activity.

    Another noticeable thematic trend is music and the musicians who create it, and here Sunmi’s personal participation in the key musical moments of his time lends authority and depth to the framing of his subjects. For, when he was let go from his architectural firm in Lagos in 1957, after they discovered his lack of paper qualifications, he was rescued by the famous impresario and broadcaster, Steve Rhodes, who gave him a job as Artist and Road Manager in his production company.

    In this position, he became intimate with Rhodes’s musicians, notably Fela – then Ransome-Kuti – from whom he learnt to play drums by hanging out and listening. In 1966, Sunmi managed Fela’s tour with the Jamaican singer, Millicent Small (of ‘My Boy Lollipop’ fame), and the Ghanaian dance troupe, the Rolling Beats.

    He also formed a group, The Soul Assembly, with three others, Segun Bucknor, James and Mike Nelson-Cole, while promoting appearances of the Fela Ransome-Kuti Quintet at the Ivy’s Nest club in the Cool Cats’ Inn, off Apapa Road, Ebute Metta, Lagos. Sunmi made posters by hand and stuck them up on the trees that then lined the roads in Onikan and other Lagos districts.

    He was staying in the background, watching and listening, but planning for Soul Assembly’s own professional debut. Fela’s group, under pressure from his redoubtable mother, the social activist Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti, was renamed the Koola Lobitos and began playing a high-life inflected jazz. According to Sunmi, Fela was at this stage singing in Yoruba, and it was Sunmi who suggested he switch to pidgin so as to address a wider audience. Eventually, the Soul Assembly got a night a week at the Maharani Club, Martin Street, Lagos Island, where Fela also played one night a week; as a result, he lost his job with Steve Rhodes for conflict of interest, and thus was propelled into a completely different sphere – running a barber shop for the next four years.

    The 1984 portrait of Fela, relaxed and smiling after a jam session at two o’clock in the morning, lacks the fierceness of his public persona and reveals the man in the presence of a friend. Sunmi tells how, for six months after he lost his job with Rhodes, Fela made sure he ate at least once a day. Other photographs capture the drama of performance – Ray Charles and the Raylettes, “Seale In Flight” at a concert (2008), D’banj, Christina Aguilera – while others focus on the anonymous traditional musicians of Nigeria’s indigenous tradition: a horn player, a dundun drummer.

    It was music that took him to the US for the first time: Sunmi’s barber shop catered to the fashion-conscious at a time when African-American hairstyles led the way, and attracted those who appreciated listening to jazz as he cut their hair, including visiting African-Americans. Through such contacts, Sunmi participated in the African-American Dialogue in Lagos in 1971, when he met Jesse Jackson who invited him to the Black Expo in Chicago.

    He made his way across the US by road, and once there, played conga drums with Jullian “Cannonball” Adderley, while Quincy Jones admired his specially designed Ghanaian danshiki (batakari). This experience opened up a world of possibility and led to his next great step into photography.

    The musical theme is a sub-set of the portraiture that dominates the collection, and here Sunmi’s extraordinary sensitivity and versatility complement each other. The faces that return our gaze as we look through these pages constitute nothing less than a social history of the last quarter of a century. Here, heads of state, generals, traditional chiefs and the creme de la creme of society rub shoulders with the urban and rural poor who largely populate Nigeria. The achievement of these photographs is the equal respect accorded their subjects, regardless of their social standing.

    Even while Sunmi’s intimacy with power – look at the close-up, unmediated portraits of Generals Babangida and Buhari, Mandela caught with his shoes off, Nobel prize winner, Wole Soyinka, in close conversation with Attorney-General, Bola Ige – titillates and enthrals the viewer, we are constantly reminded of the life that presses at the margins of every such encounter. Some of the most powerful images are surely the street snapshots – heightened moments caught on the fly by someone who, we feel, is never off his guard, camera always at the ready for such spontaneous outbreaks of human drama.

    A civil defence man and a mini-bus driver confront each other in tatters after a fight; a thief is made to crouch on his haunches by a policeman; another thief is tackled to the ground by plain clothes police outside a tube station in London; a boy does a back-flip on a piece of waste ground. But there are also contemplative moments when the photographer makes us see something we are normally too busy to notice: the shadows of two children on a street in Surelere, a barefoot game of football, two workers relaxing on a temporarily empty cart, the triumph of ordinary people whose lives are a daily struggle for survival and who still have the capacity to appreciate a joke.

    Sunmi loves photographing beautiful women, and there are many here. His camera dwells sensually on skin, hair, clothes, but those wide smiles, we feel, are surely for him. The warmth of his personality brings out the best in his subjects, who seem to relax and enjoy the moment. For this reason he is much in demand as a society photographer, but he has taken this role to a higher level – that of social chronicler.

    As Editor of Lagos Life (from The Guardian stable), between 1985 and 1988, Sunmi provided an outspoken and illustrated weekly commentary on the exploits of his fellow Lagosians. Sometimes they objected and threatened him with retaliation, but for many he was just another Lagosian having his say (he was later appointed Managing Editor of The Guardian newspaper group). Outside Lagos, our attention is drawn to both the best and the worst of his hugely diverse country.

    The black smoke belching from an oil refinery in the Delta tells its own story, as much as the delicate line of froth left by a single wave on an empty shoreline. Lastly, some of the most moving photographs are those which take us into Sunmi’s own life, and his origins in the Saro community from which his absent father came. He expresses great pride in this identity, and the history of educated Sierra Leoneans who spread out across West Africa in the nineteenth and early twentieth centuries.

    Sunmi’s own grandfather came to Lagos Colony as a theologian in 1897, and his father also came as a theologian, becoming a curate in Port Harcourt where he met Sunmi’s mother, a Nigerian. Two portraits are of Saro matriarchs: Mrs. Alphonsa Paulina Richard-Sawyerr, a friend’s grandmother, smiles down at the great grandchild in her arms, while facing her is the expressive face, crowned by a gele, of Mrs. Jessica John-Dalley, Sunmi’s cousin. Now 96, she was born in 1914, the year Lord Lugard united north and south Nigeria. Elsewhere, pictures of Sunmi’s son Bankole 30 minutes after he was born, and of Bankole with his elder brother, Tobi, testify to Sunmi’s own part in this extended history. At 70, he marks a further milestone in his family and the nation’s story, and, as ever, shares it with us, his many admirers.

     

    • This piece was published in Cole’s third coffee-table book, entitled: Sunmi’s Lens: A medium between man nature to mark his 70th birthday.
  • Publishers: Books will play visible role in campaign for national peace

    As the country moves into an election year, publishers under the auspices of the Nigerian Publishers Association (NPA) have vowed to ensure that books play more visible role in campaign for national peace.

    While decrying the negative effects of piracy in the country, the group called for more stringent measures to curb the menace. The publishers made the call at a conference held at Sheraton Hotel, Lagos.

    The occasion, which doubled as the group’s general meeting, had as theme: The Book: An Instrument for National Integration. It was chaired by the Executive Secretary of Nigerian Educational Research and Development Council, Professor Ismail Junaidu, while the keynote speaker was Mallam Yusuf Olaolu Ali (SAN).

    In his address, the NPA President, Mr Gbadega Adedapo, urged the Federal Ministry of Education “to intensify its collaboration with stakeholders and hasten the process of finalising the National Book Policy” in order to address the multifaceted issues surrounding the book sector; while calling on “government to establish accessible grants to support book publishing in Nigeria as a strategic intervention programme to boost national integration and improve the nation’s educational system”.

    On the conference’s theme, the president assured that “publishers will devote more time and resources to ensure that books play a more visible role in the campaign for national peace, unity and progress.

    On the negative effects of piracy and other copyright abuses on the industry, he called on relevant government agencies to address the menace as a matter of urgency.”

    He commended publishers for their contribution to national cohesion through their publications, observing that their contribution  to the sustenance of the education sector despite the enormous challenges is noteworthy.

    Delivering the keynote address, Ali highlighted some of the problems and challenges that Nigeria has been faced with as a nation since its formation in 1914; while tracing the history of the book and its power as a tool of social cohesion and integration, he advised government on the need to pay more attention to the publishing industry in order to maximize the contribution of the book to national integration and economic growth.

    Mallam Ali also highlighted the importance of a sustained reading culture and urged parents and teachers to encourage their children and wards to devote more time to reading as a pleasurable pastime. “Books as an enduring medium for knowledge dissemination and information sharing play very significant roles in the advancement of civilisations. Publishers should to invest more in well-written books with quality contents that would have positive impact on national integration, social cohesion and economic development,” he said. He advocated for more literature against social injustice, economic imbalance, religious intolerance, bigotry and other practices that easily divide us as a nation and people.

    While thanking firms for their financial contribution towards the newly acquired plot of land in Ibadan for the building of the proposed NPA Headquarters, NPA president gave a report on the group’s achievements in 2018. He updated members on progress made towards the establishment of the Publishers Institute of Nigeria. Members unanimously adopted a new constitution, even as certificates of membership were presented to the newly admitted member firms. The outgoing Executive Council was returned unopposed to serve for another term of two years, beginning from 2019 with Mr. Adedapo as its President.

  • Family celebrates mum with books

    It was a feast of books, when the family of Mrs Adebisi Abiodun Onipede, Chief Executive Officer of  Leumas Cassi Synergy Limited, marked her 50th birthday with the presentation of  three books.

    The event organised by her husband, Taiwo Abimbola Onipede and daughter, Omoremi, was held at the Event Gallery Iba, Lagos.

    The husband presented two books, entitled: EwaTomi and Okan Akewi Egba (The heart of Egba poet);  Omoremi, a part three student of Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU), presented an anthology of poems, entitled: Traveller’s Pen.

    Onipede, the Principal of Ilogbo-Elegba Grammar School, has authored  over 12 books, including fiction and non-fiction. He extolled the sterling qualities of the celebrator.

    Describing his wife as “a virtuous woman who gives much and expects less, he expressed joy at having to celebrate her in a grand style.

    He said EwaTomi is a novella about the experiences of a woman in her husband’s house: the things she suffered, endured and conquered, while Okan Akewi Egba is a collection of Yoruba poems written in Egba Abeokuta dialect.

    Education Secretary, Ojo Local Government Education Area,   Sule Tolani, who chaired the event expressed joy to be part of the celebration, saying: “I am grateful to God for the privilege to chair the birthday and book launch. I pray to chair another celebration of theirs in 10 years to come”.

    The  books were reviewed by Dr Kemi Aboderin,  an Associate Professor of the Department of African Languages, Literature and Communication Art, Lagos State University (LASU).

    A student of the Department of Linguistics, University of Lagos (UNILAG), Alagba Deji Medubi, performed some Yoruba poems.    Omoremi’s reading of Maami, a poem dedicated to the celebrator, filled the hall with emotions

     

  • Lessons from Anambra Homecoming Festival

    Anambra was agog penultimate weekend for the maiden edition of its Homecoming Festival, organised by the Ministry of Diaspora Affairs, Indigenous Artworks, Culture and Tourism. For four days, Anambra in Diaspora and friends of Ndi Anambra were treated to a rich bouquet of visual, poetry, musical and theatrical performances, reports Assistant Editor (Arts) OZOLUA UHAKHEME.

    The frequent applauses by the audience were not unexpected. The audience had waited patiently for the begining of the drama, which was preceded by Anambra Christmas Carol of Nine Lessons, featuring presentations by St. Cecilia’s Choir, All Saints Choir and St. Joseph the Worker Choir and a group art exhibition in the same hall.

    But, the reactions of the audience reached a crescendo when Okonkwo, the lead character in Chinua Achebe’s classic novel Things Fall Apart, defeated Obianika in a wrestling context. Every scene in the drama was a refresher of sorts, especially the symbolism that Okonkwo and Umuofia represented in the pre-colonial Nigeria.

    Except for the ages of the casts, who are mainly undergraduates, the young thespians gave a good account of themselves as they thrilled guests to a rich drama presentation of Things Fall Apart, a true homecoming bouquet for Ndi Anambra and their friends.  The choice of the book may not be unconnected with the fact that the author, the late Prof Chinua Achebe, was from Ogidi in Anambra State, and Things Fall Apart, which is one of the most translated African literatures, is 60 years old this year.

    The drama presentation, was held at Hollywood Garden and Event Centre, on Enugu-Onitsha Expressway, Awka. Present were Governor Willie Obiano; Obi of Onitsha, Igwe Nnaemeka Achebe; Aare-ona Kankanfo of Yorubaland, Gani Adams; Secretary to the State government Prof. Solo Chukwulobelu; Head of Service, John Harold Uduh; Commissioner for Diaspora Affairs, Indigenous Artworks, Culture and Tourism, Mrs Sally Mbanefo; her Permanent Secretary, Mr Tony Ezenwaka; Director of Programmes, Nigeria Diaspora Commission, Obienu Tobechukwu represented Mrs Abike Dabiri-Erewa, and Commissioner for Information and Public Enlightenment, Mr. C. Don Adinuba.

    Others included Health Commissioner Dr. Joe Akabuike; his Trade and Commerce counterpart, Dr. Vincent Madubuko; Very Rev Monsignor Jerome Madueke; House Committee on Culture  Chairman, Kingsley Iruba and popular thespian, Bob Manuel Udoku.

    Earlier, at the opening of a permanent exhibition centre at the ministry, Obiano said it would serve the ministry and other parastatals. The exhibition, tagged: “Mmilioma Anambra”, featured paintings and sculptures by renowned artist, Chike Okoye.

    •A performance at the festival

    In her remark, Mrs Mbanefo said the treasure in living together joyfully, homecoming and keeping in touch with one’s roots was immense, noting that homelands are the bastions of Diaspora’s strength. “This makes experts in development economics to advocate healthy and harmonious regular interactions between homeland and the Diaspora. Though, the economic benefit of regular interactions between home and abroad are often noticeable in the gross domestic product (GDP) and other indexes of an economy, the real treasure in such a harmonious relationship is the human capital.

    “Anambra state’s wealth in human resource is not quantifiable. At home and in Diaspora, the state’s economic impact is hugely impressive. What feeds that huge economic growth is the rich homeland and Diaspora harmony.

    “This is why Anambra State government always creates opportunity for the sustenance of that relationship through such programmes as this annual homecoming festival, which is marking its maiden edition this year. This year, the festival package comprises several aspects of our people’s arts, culture and tourism. The goal is to, once more, create a memorable opportunity for all Ndi Anambra, home and away, to freely enjoy homeland in an atmosphere of security, joy and love, while celebrating with citizens and friends of Ndi Anambra. Hence, a whole day of activities in the seven-day festival is dedicated to friends of Anambra,” she said.

    According to her, the exhibiting artists have made distinctive studio creations that communicate the attributes of the special homecoming event, which is holding for the first time in Anambra State and the entire Igbo land during the Xmas and New Year season. She said through their creativity, “we see ourselves and our society in ways that make us feel nostalgic about homeland and see our lifestyle in new days.  The exhibition collection is rich. It is a delight to savour”.

    Senior Special Assistant to the President on Foreign Affairs and Diaspora, Mrs Abike Dabiri-Erewa said it was not the surprise that Anambra is the first state to have a Commissioner for Diaspora, setting the trend for other states. “Anambra State is certainly following the steps of President Buhari as his administration was the first to have created an office of a Senior Special Assistant on Diaspora and now Nigerians in the Diaspora Commission. Therefore, I can rightly say that Anambra State is the leading state for Diaspora affairs. Anambra Homecoming Festival and Diaspora day is obviously in sync with the Federal Government in bringing Diaspora investment to Nigeria through arts and culture,” she added.

    At the launch of Diaspora portal, Mrs Mbanefo said the portal was designed to promote Igbo culture, especially the language, which many Igbo indigenes cannot speak these days. She noted that the ministry enjoys the full support of Governor Obiano, who took the lead as the first governor to create a separate ministry of Diaspora in the country. She disclosed that in April 2019, the ministry will be launching the Ogbunike Cave to promote domestic tourism in the state. The day also witnessed Palm wine festival, tasty cuisine and folk songs.

    On Saturday, the festival’s train moved to Owerre Ezukalla Cave and Waterfall in Orumba South of Anambra State, which was formally inuagurated by Mrs. Mbanefo.

  • How persons with special needs can enjoy museum

    Museums exist for the society. They can be a vibrant force in society; a place for learning, discussion, debate and deliberation. They can be welcoming, warm and inclusive. They can celebrate diversity and shape our views of the past and present in the planning for the future.

    Every museum desires to satisfy its visitors, this includes the able bodied and persons with special needs. Aperson with special needs require special attention while visiting the museum to enable him/her enjoys the visit and get maximum benefits of the experience.

    A person with special needs may be that person, who because of a kind of impairment has suffered a disability which eventually leads to a form of handicap the totality of these difficulties, inconveniences and circumstances therefore prevents him from living a normal life. Persons with special needs may include among others:

    Persons with mental retardation, persons with visual impairments, persons with hearing impairments, persons with physical bodily impairments  and persons with multiple impairments.

    As a museum professional, therefore, whose responsibility it is to ensure pleasurable museum experience of these classes of persons, one needs to adequately plan ahead and put together a series of resources to achieve this. These provisions range from the physical to the psychological and even, methodology of  approach.

    As a museum professional, one needs to first recognise that persons with special needs deserve our love and care, hence the need to avoid any form of discriminations against them. One needs to get close and devise ways and means of establishing rapport with these class of people by making visits to them when necessary. This builds trust, confidence and a bond between us in the first instance and getting them to visit the museum becomes easy.

    In addition to this, one can organise sensitisation/outreach programmes to bring people with special needs to the gallery. This can be achieved by establishing links with local societies for people with disabilities, holding consultations and educational programmes that will whet their appetites for making a visit to the museum.

    As a museum professional one needs to strive to remove all forms of physical and architectural barriers as this will reduce certain difficulties they are likely to face during their visit. Such things to be considered may include provision of wheelchairs, ramps to access lower levels, adequate lighting of movement paths and noticeable floor designs that can assist this class of persons.

    The museum professional equally needs to be attitudinally flexible. One should be able to essentially accommodate easily, their feelings behavior and beliefs at all times. He should avoid discriminatory attitudes and making disparaging comments during their visit. He needs to draw them closer by making them feel loved and wanted. He should be able to create a warm and friendly atmosphere to make the visitors relax and relish the tour.

    Provision of specialised resource materials are also important. Materials like audiovisual aids, Braille interpretations and other tactile facilities and object replicas will go a long way in making visits of persons with special needs enjoyable and rewarding.

    Personally, the education officer should demonstrate essential qualities of eloquence, understanding, accuracy understanding and orderliness.  He should be able to exhibit vital ethical practices of decorum, etiquette and careful and cautious dressing as well as avoiding the use of distracting objects. He should be seen as a role model and an example to follow.

    Having said all these, as a museum professional, one will need to employ specific goal getting methodologies in interacting with persons with special needs while on museum visit. These among others include engaging them in activities that can keep them busy, employing series of demonstrations,discussions and questions, lectures, and introduction of projects to be carried out. All of these will encourage deep assimilation and understanding that will ultimate guarantee a rich and enjoyable experience.

     

    • Ikokwu is of National Commission for Museums and Monuments, Abuja
  • Church celebrates anniversary in style

    It was fun, glitz and glamour at The Breath of Life Youth Church in Lagos State, which clocked three in December.

    The event featured ministrations and diverse performances including, rap; singing; chant; spoken words and dance; playing of the drum set; key board and guitar, as well as other musical instruments, which spiced up the occasion. It was held at the church hall Obanikoro, Lagos State.

    Guests came elegantly dressed and danced to their hearts’ delight, even as the master of ceremony ensured there was no dull moments.

    The youths displayed lots of talents, while some distinguished ones were given awards in recognition of their contributions to the growth and development of the church, the academia and the society at large.

    The awards presented to the deserving youths included “academic excellence award”; “vocalist of the year award”; “musician of the year award”; “evangelist award; “most promising youth of the year award”; “best dressed award” and “leadership award”.

    While commending the winners, the Youth Church Pastor, Temitope Odebiyi, said all nominees were those who had shown commitment to the service of the church over the years. She said: “People were nominated in each award category, but the winners got the award. Every nominee deserves the award, but there must be a winner.

    “These people have been committed with their time, ideas, money and innovation in all areas and this is why we decided to reward them. The award is to encourage and charge them to forge forward.”

    She was of the view that the church has contributed to national development of the main church and societry at large by creating an enabling environment where the strength of the youths can be harnessed.

    While stating that the church has several events and programmes that help to develop the youths, including youth empowerment programmes and training, she said the its musical and handworks trainings were also aimed at equipping the young to make money, fend for themselves and contribute to the national development.

    “Our goal is soul wining and our mission is to empower the youths to make an impact in their lives. As a Youth church, we discovered that young people are energetic, vibrant and strong and this is why we decided to create an environment where we can enhance the strength of this young people to make an impact in the society. This is one of the things that gave birth to the youth church three years ago.

    “We often times bring young people together to train them on several skills, including employment skills, to make our graduates employable.  This is a major skill that graduates lack, they need it and they are not taught in school. We also train youths in what we call ‘imagine skill’, we teach them etiquette and we train them in respect to new technology. All of these and more are what we do to impact our society as a youth church,” she said.

    She urged youths to ‘start local but think global’, even if there are no resources.

    “Youths must learn to think big and the sky will be their starting point.”

    On the part of the award she received, she said she feels great, noting that leadership has to do with service.

    She described the award as a challenge, saying she has to keep on with the standard.

    One of the award recipients, Victor Marcus who won the Evangelist Award, said he felt excited about the award, saying it means a lot to him.

    “I feel very excited on this award, even though I was not expecting to be rewarded. I just did my duty in the church as required. This award means so much to me, it is a privilege to be awarded alongside others and I hold it in high regard because it is a thing of joy to me,” he said. He urged youths to be focused on whatever they do.

    Another award recipient, a singer and first-class student of the University of Lagos (UNILAG), Precious Bassey, who won the Academic Award and Vocalist of the Year Award, said she felt privileged and humbled to have received two awards.

    “I don’t know what I did differently, but I think it is God’s Grace.”  According to her, youths are going through challenges because they go to church and not Jesus.

    “Most people think Christianity is about going to church and I think we have to uplift our sight from going to church alone, but also meeting with Jesus and having a personal relationship with Him.

    “This award signifies a charcoal under a pot that needs more fire, the standard must not drop, God needs to help me and I also need to put more work to ensure that next year, I won’t be the only one receiving the award, many others will be receiving too,” she said.

  • In Dealt, passion is vision

    In Dealt, passion is vision

    To celebrate the International Day of Persons with Disabilities, a documentary, Dealt (2017), was screened at the American Corner at Co-Creation Hub (CcHUB) , Yaba, Lagos Mainland. The film documented the life and career of a 64-year-old American card mechanic, Richard Turner, who is visually impaired, reports Chinyere Elizabeth Okoroafor.

    In Dealt, the astonishing talent of the award-winning ‘card mechanic’, Richard Turner, comes alive in the 86-minute documentary. What Turner could do with cards, a magician could not. He said so in the film, yet completely blind.

    The captivating film, directed by Luke Korem, followed Turner’s troubled childhood as he tried to come to terms with his disability. In denial and out of a sense of anger and frustration, the young Turner took risks: motorcycling, cliff climbing and enrolling in a karate class. However, struggling with his reality, he relentlessly pursued perfection, before ultimately making peace with his blindness.

    Dealt started with Turner’s nimble hands manipulating deck of cards. It did not take a minute to agree that he is a master of card tricks, seeing how he dealt round after round of poker and blackjack, pulling of magnificent card tricks without the ability to even see the deck, let alone what card was before him. He also knew exactly which cards would go to each player. For such an astonishing talent, Turner worked hard for it. He practices cards 16 hours a day and often sleeps with a deck in his hand and what we saw backed that up: “Wherever he is, whatever he’s doing, Turner has at least, one hand cutting, shuffling and fanning cards”. A friend recalled seeing him go to bed shuffling, only stopping when he drifted off; in the morning, his hands started working before he opened his eyes. His wife, Kim, has even caught him practicing while they were having sex. But Turner is not all that; he is also a fitness enthusiast, a black belt, and a loving father and husband. But behind the facade of a self-assured showman is someone who tries to keep to himself.

    Turner’s blindness infuriates him as seen in his interviews in the documentary. He is candid about his discomfort around strangers showering him with sympathy and his attempts to hide his blindness in public by refusing to use a cane or a guide dog. He wouldn’t learn Braille or use a cane when attending a school for the blind. He doesn’t want to be the blind magician. He doesn’t want to be famous for how good he is for a blind card player.

    He usually leans on his wife and his son, Asa, who accompany him to events around the world, read his emails for him, and generally help him facilitate the life of a traveling magician. His son, who remained his right hand man, made things so easy on him that some in the audience didn’t even realise the man working the crowd couldn’t see the cards he dealt. When his son left for college, it became difficult to navigate the town on his own. Still he said: “I didn’t want to be helped.”

    Dealt, which won the SXSW Audience Award for documentary features in 2017, showcases how James Garner’s TV show called Maverick, inspired and fascinated his love of playing cards as a child growing up, and how learning to manipulate them gave his high level of nervous energy an outlet. At nine years old, he would never get the chance to watch his favourite card TV show when his eyesight suddenly began to fail him. A form of macular degeneration was diagnosed and young Turner would have to go blind eventually for the rest of his life.

    Admittedly, Turner’s skills with cards trick would be astonishing for a person with no disability, and that gave the film some thrilling moments. While audiences may wish for a bit more technical information about how Turner keeps track of cards without being able to see them, Korem understandably seizes on the emotional arc before him by following Turner’s late-middle-age crisis through to its happy resolution. The story is useful to those, who like Turner, were born with eyesight and lost it over time. As Turner showed in his biography Dealt, life doesn’t just go on after the news of blindness, it can be filled with marvels.

    Meanwhile, at the screening of the documentary, award-winning Google local guide volunteer, Emeka Ulor, urged Nigerians to build accessible platforms such as ramps, elevators escalators, public address systems, Braille on doors/buttons and other features that will help physically challenged and visually impaired persons navigate on their own without help. “Physically challenged persons in Nigeria don’t know if a certain place are conducive for them to access. For example, if you are going to the Island and you are on wheelchair, you don’t know if the place has ramps for you to enter, you can make this assessment, using the Google map, if the place has a ramp, lift or signs that physically-challenged persons can easily use without someone coming to assist you.  So, Google map things help them to prepare ahead,” he said.

  • Customers’ time at Eko Hotel

    As a way of giving back to its customers, Eko Hotel and Suites, Victoria Island, Lagos has unveiled attractive discounts on its services and leisure activities to promote a fun-filled celebration.

    Reservations Manager, Eko Hotel and Suites, Lagos, Mr. Ayodeji Adewale, said the hotel uses the season to market lots of its services and facilities with the intention of making them affordable to many of its customers.

    Adedeji, who spoke with writers in his office in Lagos, said the packages (50 per cent discount for room charges and breakfast) will run till January 8, 2019.

    He disclosed that during this yuletide season, about 60 per cent of the rooms have been fully booked, adding that the packages are also available during Easter celebration, Independence anniversary, among others.

    “In the past, people will be thinking of going abroad for holidays. Since the recession period people have changed their attitudes as they prefer to stay back in Nigeria, holidaying in their choice destination, which is Eko Hotel and Suites. We had packages for Christmas, which is the most prominent of all. We have for Easter, Independence anniversary and others. During this holiday season we are trying to market a lot of things to enable people use our facilities, especially the rooms. To do that, in most cases we reduce our room rates by fifty per cent. For example standard room is about 90,000 naira per night but for the season it is put at 45,000 naira with complementary breakfast. We usually exclude our rates for breakfast. But this season we added complimentary breakfast not for one person but for two persons so that a family can come in.

    “On 1 January, the hotel hosted concerts featuring stars such as Wizkid, Davido and others, who are in showbiz. For now, about 60 per cent of the rooms have been booked for the season for people to come with their families,” he said.

    According to Adedeji, at Eko Hotel during this season customers will not pay for the swimming pool and the gym, saying it is a time the hotel gives back to the society after they have done a good business for the year.

    He noted that all the hotel expects from its customers is loyalty. “The environment itself stands them out as it is quite conducive for everybody, such that one can stay for four days without being bored. We are trying to be a leisure conscious hotel, but we do not forget the business angle of it. The hotel is 80 per cent business and by that time of the period the business is coming up again. They have to switch from leisure type of hotel and go back to their businesses,” he added.

  • Why New Year resolutions fail

    Happy New Year! E ku odun, eku iyedun! Ezi afo ohuru! Barka da sabon shekara!

    We are still in very high spirits from the Christmas/New year concerts, parties, food, and for some residual alcohol from all the parties attended.

    In the spirit of the new-year a very common occurrence is the legendary ‘new-year resolution’ those assuring decisions we make on the eve of the new year, that we expect will magically transform us into new creatures, that usually start with ‘in the new-year, I will not…..’

    Sometime in October I took a poll via my social media page, asking people if they set new- year resolutions and their reasons.

    Those that answered in the positive said for as long as they remember, they have been making new year resolutions, some said it was just a way to start the new year on a fresh note, you know the popular saying ‘new year, new me’. It’s amazing how many people really think the new-year comes with a new version of themselves. I didn’t bother asking these people if the resolutions worked for them or not, simply because res ipsa loquitur -the fact speaks for itself, to borrow the old Latin term we use at the bar.

    For those who replied in the negative, their answers were all the same, ‘they do not work, so why should I bother myself’, some even said in typical Nigerian parlance ‘gbemz I cannot come and kill myself o jare’

    A research done by Psychology Today showed that every year, by February 80% of resolutions fail,  often times this failure leads to lack of self -worth, depression and a host of unhealthy behaviours.

    After I read this research I took it upon myself to educate and train people in the art of setting new- year resolutions that work. The best way to know how a thing works, is to discover how it doesn’t work.

    In this article I am going to be sharing with you three succinct reasons why most of your new- year resolutions have failed, and left you frustrated.

     

    You don’t apply goal setting formula

    to your resolutions

     

    In my professional experience as a certified Life Coach most people who intentionally make their resolutions more goal oriented record more success. A good example of a goal oriented resolution using goal setting terminology will be: I Mr X by June 15th 2019, want to weigh, 10kg less, thereby weighing 85kg considering my current weight of 95kg, this is my desired weight goal because, I want to live longer and be around for my wife and children whom I love so much. I also want to be around long enough to run my company and enjoy the money I have made on earth. I will do this by following a strict diet consisting more plant based meals, my wife and those in charge of preparing my meals are on board with this plan, I will also ensure I play tennis for a minimum of thirty  minutes daily and swim for another thirty minutes at the gym that I just signed up for.  I will know I am making progress with my resolution if by March I can wear the Ralph Lauren shirt that is a size smaller than what I currently wear, and if by June the same shirt is loose on me. I have enlisted the help of a coach and my three close friends to encourage me and keep me in check.

    If you compared Mr X above to Mr Y whose new-year resolution was simply ‘to lose weight in the new year’. Who do you think will be frustrated and feel like a failure by the time half of the year is gone? I would leave you to be the judge of that.

     

    You do not know your why

     

    He who has a why can endure anyhow. – Frederick Nietzsche. A lot of people who set new-year resolutions, know what they want to do, but have not identified why exactly they want to do it. Your reason for doing an action must supersede the action itself.

    Most people’s new-year resolutions follow the band wagon mentality; hence they set themselves up for failure. Your why must be strong enough to convince you to stick to your resolution, with the first point stated above, Mr X knows that if he decides to stay unhealthy, he will lose, his family and his wealth to untimely death, those reasons are strong enough to keep him on track.

    In order to discover your Why for making a resolution ask yourself the following questions:

    –            What will this resolution do for me as a person?

    –            What will I lose if I don’t stick to this resolution?

    –            What will not happen if this resolution fails?

    –            What will happen if I succeed at this resolution?

    –            How will the success of this resolution affect, how I relate with those around me?

    –            How will the success of this resolution affect how I perceive myself?

    If your why for making a new year resolution is not strong enough to convince you, then you may just be making a wish, and as I like to say, if wishes were a Rolls Royce, we would all own one.

     

    New year, no new you

     

    There is nothing special about a new year, this is the hard truth, we pay less attention to ourselves and more to the buzz around the new-year. What you could not achieve last year without making the needed change to your personality, qualifications or social networks, would most definitely not be achieved simply because it’s a new year. The difference between the new -year and the last year asides the calendar date, should be you.

    Instead of getting swallowed up in the new year buzz, focus on the you coming into the new year, whether the year is new for you or not depends on the version of the you that goes into the new year. So before you write down that resolution, ask yourself if the current version of you can meet up with that resolution, if you are honest with yourself, go ahead and make the needed changes that will indeed make the new year, a year of the new you.

    In conclusion we can see that the problem may not exactly be new-year resolutions we have set, if you ask me, I will tell you that these resolutions are good, and that if you create sustainable systems they work, but if you base your new-year resolutions on willpower alone, you are sure to fail.

    The proper way to create these systems is by effective and proper goal setting, there is a proper way to set goals.

    Be intentional about the new-year by taking advantage of the 20% discount for my one-on-one goal setting sessions, limited slots are available. To fail to plan today, is to plan to fail tomorrow, and throughout the year. In the next article we would be discussing ‘why goal setting?’ and I would be sharing on the importance of setting intentional goals in the new year as opposed to floating into the new-year and waiting for things to happen.

     

    • Gbeminiyi Obadan is a Life Coach
  • The window

    Two men were critically ill and they shared a hospital room. Stories always sound better with names so let’s call the first man Chris and the other man Joe. Chris just had a major eye surgery and his eyes were wrapped in bandages. Also, he was temporarily unable to sit up. Joe had fluid in his lungs and he was made to sit up for an hour every day to drain the fluids from his lungs.

    Soon, Chris and Joe became cordial and they discussed several aspects of their lives. Nevertheless, Joe couldn’t help but notice that Chris was mostly sad. Out of concern, he asked his friend why, to which Chris replied, “Do you know what it is like not to be able to see a thing? I feel like the whole world is passing me by. You are fortunate to have your bed next to the window”.  Indeed, Joe had his bed next to the only window in the room; so, he decided to start to describe the ‘outside world’ to Chris during his daily one-hour sit-ups.

    Joe would describe the busy streets outside the hospital, the pedestrians going about their daily businesses, the theme park across the road, children giggling and lovers strolling arm-in-arm, birds chipping, etc. With time, the one hour became the highlight of Chris’ day. He would awake in the morning with great anticipation of the day’s narratives. After the precious one hour, he would spend the rest of the day reviewing the story and painting the mental pictures.

    Gradually, days became weeks and weeks became months. Until one day, Chris awoke in the morning with the usual anticipation, but he did not hear the voice of his favourite storyteller. His several calls were met with silence so he raised an alarm. To his greatest dismay, Joe had died peacefully in his sleep. Chris grieved the death of his friend. By that time, his bandages had been removed. When he considered it appropriate enough, he requested the nurse to move his bed next to the window and the nurse happy obliged. As soon as he was settled in bed, Chris propped himself up to take his first glimpse of the world he had only imaged. To his greatest shock, the only window in the room faced a blank brick wall! He was so bothered that he inquired from the nurse where Joe got all his stories from. She responded, “Perhaps he wanted to encourage you and cheer you up. You see, Joe was totally blind and he couldn’t see anyway”.

    This story has been told in different variations but the theme has always been the same- the selflessness of the blind man. This time, I would like to take a different angle to the story by focusing on the window instead. From the story, it is clear that the window does not necessarily refer to an opening in the wall of the building but the outlook of the mind.  Joe, whose sightlessness was compounded by sitting next to a “walled window”, saw more than Chris did with his two eyes. The window represents our attitude towards life and the power of our inner eyes. Let’s consider the following kinds of windows:

    • Small vs Big Window: Some people possess a very limited outlook to life which makes them close up. Unfortunately, as they hoard all the good things in their lives from flowing out to others, they also keep good things from flowing in. Joe expanded his view of the world and shared his inner vision with his friend. Open your window and let light in.
    • Dirty vs Clean Window: when your window is dirty, all you see through it will be tainted. A negative attitude will always affect your disposition towards life. We may all be looking at the same thing but our interpretation of it depends on our positive or negative disposition.
    • Barred vs Free Window: some people are trapped in their own lives because of fear. They are suspicious of everything and everyone. While it is necessary to be cautious, fear can keep us from living totally. Les Brown says, “There is no safe position in life; you can’t get out of life alive”. We might as well make the best of our lives.

    You may be face by a blank window, but what you choose to see it what matters. As you decide to love and not hate, give and not hoard in this special season, I wish you a Merry Christmas in arrears and a most Blessed New Year in advance.