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  • A club’s twin celebration

    The Lagos Country Club, Ikeja Special Marshal marked the 25th anniversary of the Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC) and the 20th year of the Special Marshal and Partnership (SMP). OLATUNDE ODEBIYI was there.

    Officers of the Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC) converged on the Diamond Jubilee Hall of the Lagos Country Club penultimateThursday for the celebration of their 25th anniversary and the 20th year of the Special Marshal and Partnership (SMP). The event featured a public lecture by the Sector Commander, Mr Nseobong Akpabio.

    Members of the Lagos Country Club marched into the hall in their numbers for the celebration.

    From the gate of the venue, it was obvious that the FRSC and SMP were holding an event. Majority of the corps marshals were in uniform.

    Before the event started, people sat in groups; chatting, shaking hands and laughing. There was revelry. Some took pictures as the documentary of the club was being screened.

    All these were to kill time until the arrival of Akpabio. The event started after his arrival.

    The air conditioned hall was decorated in blue and white; chairs were set in rows. There was a session of Merit award for four people in the club. They were honoured for their contribution towards the club and for the works done in ensuring road safety.

    Akpabio arrived with the club’s Vice President, Trombi Fillipo, Unit Coordinator, Geraid Olunaike, members of the club, officials of FRSC, SMP, and several others.

    The national anthem and the club’s anthem followed the sector Commander’s entry.

    Then came the moment the people had being waiting for – Akpabio’s lecture. He spoke on the topic: ‘“Road safety is everybody’s business, what can you do?”

    Akpabio said: “About 1.2 million people die annually worldwide due to road traffic crash, about 20 to 50 million suffer various degrees of injuries, while some are permanent and, about 260,000 children under the age of 18 die annually due to road crashes.

    Akpabio said road crashes have reduced since the establishment of FRSC, 25 years ago.

    “Road users also have a role to play by avoiding road crashes in all the way they can and, also by reporting cases of road crashes to the commission immediately and helping out road crashes victims,” he said.

    Road crashes, he said, were rampant in the less developed countries with poor road infrastructure and poor safety education. This, he said, is because of some human, mechanical and environmental factors.

    Akpabio said: “80 per cent of road crashes are caused by human, which include; over speeding; dangerous, aggressive and distracted driving; over confidence, fatigue, and talking or drinking while driving.

    “Mechanical factors like break / engine failure, bad tyre, faulty lighting, inconsistent loading, faulty wheel alignment and faulty electrical system also cause road crashes. Environmental causes of road crashes are bad roads design, weather, road obstructions, inadequate / lack of road signs, congestion and spillage amid others.

    Olunaike highlighted the roles of a special marshal to include, patrolling the highways and controlling traffic on group basis; monitoring road users and road marshals with a view to providing constructive information or feed back to the commission.

    He added that they are also there to ensure life saving ventures, giving prompt attention to road victims and they must be ready to expend resources and time to evolve a better road culture.

    Earlier, Fillipo said the goal of the lecture was to ensure the safety of our road users in the country.

  • Starting with prayers

    Members of Lions Club International, District 404B Nigeria, last Friday observed Jumat prayers at the Lagos State Secretariat Central Mosque, Alausa, Ikeja to begin a new calendar year, reports TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO

    On Fridays, the expansive Lagos State Secretariat Central Mosque, Alausa, Ikeja has never been short of worshippers.

    But last Friday was different. Reason – it coincided with two events: the first Jumat service in the month of Ramadan and visitation of members of Lions Club International, District 404B Nigeria.

    Many were not surprised with the large turnout, especially those tagged ‘Ramadan Muslims’ as it has become a normal yearly event.

    The surprise of the day were the people clad in foreign and traditional attire and capped with yellow apron.

    “This year’s Ramadan is going to be special,” a worshipper on his way to the ablution centre, said in Yoruba language.

    “Why do you say so?” his friend inquired.

    “Can’t you see members of the Lions Club coming to worship with us?” he replied rhetorically.

    “Well, maybe they want to benefit from the spiritual reward inherent in the month. Moreso, today is the first Jumat service in this Holy Month,” he said.

    Their discussion was cut short with the Athan (Call to prayer) by Muazin, which signifies the commencement of the sermon.

    The congregation in the mosque and at the pavilion kept mute. The Chief Imam of Lagos State House of Assembly (LAHA) Alhaji AbdulHakeem AbdulLateef mounted the podium.

    Popularly known as Hon Iyepe (sand), his appearance brightened the face of the congregation the more.

    Alhaji AbdulLateef, a former LAHA lawmaker and former Special Adviser to Lagos State Governor on Political Bureau was known for his eloquence.

    He did not disappoint the worshippers as his sermon was a mixture of happenings in the country and the essence of Ramadan.

    AbdulLateef decried the Rivers State Assembly saga where “five members turns majority over the rest 27 members.”

    This, he said, can only happen in Nigeria.

    He cautioned the political class to be wary of their actions, saying the children are learning from their untoward attitude.

    He did not fail to highlight the numerous rewards of Ramadan if properly observed.

    The politician-turned-cleric enjoined the congregation to emulate the early Muslims in action and deeds so that their final abode can be paradise.

    Barely 10 minutes to the end of his sermon, Lagos State Governor Babatunde Raji Fashola was ushered in with some of his commissioners.

    After the two-rakats prayer, a special session was held for members of the Lions Club.

    The club, led by its Vice-Chairman, Alhaji Abdul Ganiyu Abiodun Adediji took pictures with the Ulamau and distributed Iftar (breaking of fast) package to the worshippers.

    Speaking with The Nation, afterwards, Adediji said Lions calendar runs from July 1 to June 31 the following year.

    “So this year, we are putting God first; we want Allah to be with us throughout our year so that we can accomplish our goals,” he said.

    “We have the less privilege in our society and part of what God has given to us we want to give back to our community and to join hands with the government and other organisations to help the less privileged in our community. Our main project is on sight, we usually help those who have sight problem and it has been the biggest among other programmes we have for the year,” he added.

    Alhaji Adediji urged members of the public to join them lift the society.

    Also speaking, the district Cabinet Treasurer Lion Olaniyi Olagoke described as fantastic the experience of being a member of the club.

    He said: “It has enabled you to reach the public, see what their needs are and find a way of assisting them in terms of provision of sight, provision of water and some other requirement that the less privileged members of the society need.

    “As a matter of fact the one that moved me most was the restoration of sight that we did for more than 1,000 members of the society two years ago. We removed cataract from the eyes of most members of the society in places such as Abeokuta, Ibadan and Lagos to mention a few. That year was awesome.”

    Olagoke thanked the management of the Mosque for hosting them.

  • All for a legal luminary

    All for a legal luminary

    Eminent lawyer Aare Afe Babalola (SAN) last week in Ibadan, the Oyo State capital, marked his 50th anniversary at the Bar. The event, which featured the inauguration of a new office and launch of two books, attracted the A-list. ADEGUNLE OLUGBAMILA was there.

    Ever seen renowned lawyer Aare Afe Babalola (SAN) digging it on the dance floor? He did just that in Ibadan, the Oyo State capital, last week and onlookers marvelled at his skill.

    With his wife, Yeye Modupe, the octogenarian clutched the horsetail which was extended to him by the lead singer of a traditional dance troupe.

    Many began to wonder what magic Babalola would perform with the tool which he held for a while. Then he whispered to his wife, who also held a horsetail and the couple rose from their seats on the high table and walked towards the dancers. Waving the horsetails, their action provoked laughter.

    It was breathtaking! 50 years of a flourishing legal practice, and Babalola is still firing from all cylinders. Last Tuesday, the quintessential legal icon and philanthropist marked 50 years of his call to Bar with pomp and ceremony.

    The Ekotedo, Mokola, Ibadan premises of his Emmanuel Chambers where he inaugurated a new office complex and the Nigerian Bar Association (NBA) multipurpose Hall in Iyanganku, Ibadan, where a lecture/book launch were held in his honour, were a beehive of activities. The events drew the crème-de-la-crème across legal, political, royal and business circles. The dignitaries showered encomiums on Babalola, at an occasion tagged: “Aare Afe Babalola 50 Years at the Bar.”

    It was simply a display of wigs and crowns. Notable lawyers, monarchs, traditional rulers, and technocrats first thronged the chambers before ‘reconnecting’ at the NBA hall for the lecture. The event was akin to a reunion. Many who had passed through Babalola’s chambers before setting up theirs were there.

    A small crowd thronged his chambers on the Mokola/Dugbe expressway to behold the dignitaries that arrived at the venue in their glory, one after the other.

    The atmosphere, became charged when former President Olusegun Obasanjo arrived. He responded to chants of “Baba Iyabo” from those that gate crashed into the venue despite the heavy security.

    Then the Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Lamidi Olayiwola Adeyemi and Olugbo Of Ugbo Kingdom Oba Fredrick Akinruntan stormed the venue with their retinue of aides and posh cars.

    Babalola was decked in a sky blue suit, a black-blue tie with orange stripes, and a pair of black shoes to match; his wife donned an orange apparel with a jacket that bore a black flowery design on an orange-like background.

    Decked in white agbada with purple dots, Obasanjo, who was chairman on the occasion, was as usual in his humorous best. His short speech was a temporary comic relief to the excited audience.

    Reliving his days as president, he said he made some mistakes adding that the celebrator was one of those mistakes.

    “I made a mistake when I appointed him (Babalola) as the pro-chancellor of University of Lagos (UNILAG). Many people also considered it a big mistake but it turned out to be a successful mistake,” Obasanjo said, throwing the gathering into laughter.

    According to him, Babalola proved his mettle at UNILAG by emerging the best pro-chancellor twice and producing the best vice-chancellor under his administration, capping it up by establishing the Afe Babalola University, Ado-Ekiti (ABUAD).

    Denying that he is Babalola’s client, Obasanjo said he would rather see himself as a beneficiary of the SAN’s legal services, than a patron.

    “Let me correct an impression some of you are making here that I am a client to Aare. But I will rather see myself as a beneficiary of Aare’s legal services, and his industry and passion for work which we must all emulate,” he said.

    Obasanjo said he and the celebrator shared a lot in common. He said aside being old buddies, they possessed a miniature image, are dark skinned, but above all, are great farmers, drawing another bout of laughter from guests.

    Ondo State Governor Olusegun Mimiko, who cut short his trip to China, said he did so because “Baba deserves the attention of all.”

    “What better way can we celebrate our Baba than being here to rejoice with him. Baba is one of the few distinguished Nigerians who made it from a humble background to become one of the best lawyers, not only in Nigeria but the world at large.”

    Most of those who came onto the podium showered encomiums on ‘Baba’ as he is fondly called.

    Former Attorney-General of the Federation Chief Akin Olujinmi (SAN), who once served in Babalola’s chamber recounted how hardworking and passionate he is to the legal profession.

    “His (Babalola) day in the chamber begins at 8am, and that is when he is not travelling outside Ibadan for a case. With a short break in the afternoon from about 3p.m and in the evening from 6p.m till about 10pm, with occasional stretches to 11p.m. For him, everyday of the week, including Sunday, is a work day.

    “Aare loves the law. He lives for the law and no wonder the law has made him great.”

    Yusuf Alli (SAN) said: “This event is elevating, encouraging; and it shows that if a man is hardworking, he will stand tall among men.

    “The lesson I draw from this is that uprightness, hardwork, honesty and faith in God pay. Baba Afe is a great human being.”

    In his tribute, Alhaji Lasun Sanusi (SAN) said: “One great thing about this teacher of lawyers, and Nigeria’s greatest producer of the highest number of Senior Advocates of Nigeria is that he is a man with a large heart. He accommodates all and he is a detribalised Nigerian.

    “There is hardly any counsel that passes through him that will not become a renowned practitioner as he exposes all to the rudiment and nitty gritty of law. He is a workaholic and easily falls in love with whoever appears ready for his grooming and learning.”

    Wale Olanipekun (SAN), who presented the two books: Thoughts of a legal icon and Current legal issues in contemporary Nigeria, said the books were veritable literatures which cut across board. “They are ideal for students of Law who dream to make it big like the celebrator,” he said.

    Olanipekun, the Pro-Chancellor of the University of Ibadan said: “Aare’s achievement in the law profession is known across the world. So what I mean is that these books are tools, especially for young minds still curious to know how Baba rose from humble background to a global figure. That is why I said it is not only books for lawyers alone but anybody who wishes to succeed.”

    Babalola thanked the guests and the National Association of Nigerian Theatre Arts Practitioners, Oyo State chapter, which presented a play in his honour the previous day.

    The play, he said, revealed the ills plaguing the country. He urged all to work together on the Nigerian project.

    “What ails the project Nigeria is dishonesty, mismanagement of funds, corruption, poor planning and execution at all levels, strikes and cultism in our tertiary institutions. There is an urgent need to administer the correct dose of treatment to cure these ailments; otherwise, project Nigeria may die. A serious disease needs drastic treatment. The answer is a new constitution and not palliative treatment termed amendment to a deceased federal constitution,” Babalola said.

    Babalola recounted how he cut his legal tooth under the late Justice Olu Ayoola. Nearly two years after he joined the late Judge’s law firm, he left to establish his own chamber – Afe Babalola and Co, where majority of the cases he handled then were magistrate court matters and later divorce cases. Through dint of hardwork, he said, he soon broke away, delving into landmark cases many of which he won.

    In attendance were Permanent Secretary, Federal Ministry of Justice Abdulahi Ahmed Yola, who represented President Goodluck Jonathan; Oyo State Governor Abiola Ajimobi; his Ekiti counterpart, Dr Kayode Fayemi; former Ekiti State governor Segun Oni; former Judge of the World Court Prince Bola Ajibola; Ohinoyi of Ebiraland Ado Ibrahim; first female Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN) Mrs Folake Solanke; Chairman, Energy Group Dr Jimoh Ibrahim; Minister of Police Affairs Captain Caleb Olubolade (rtd) among others.

  • Persuasive Speech (5) How to Persuade reluctant audience

    Need to rehearse before speech presentation: (I watch Professor Sobowale prepare for a public lecture he delivered at Covenant University on 17th May 2013. He rehearsed in his office at least four times and also at the venue of the event. He successfully reduced a 1hour 30 minutes paper to a 45 minutes presentation). It is important for you to practice because you don’t want to speak out of context. You also want to manage your time. And like the experience of Friday (the public lecture), you are not in control of all the elements involved; you have the studio, the school management, and several other people. You want to be sure that you are not just ranting. Time management matters so much because if you speak without controlling yourself or managing your time effectively, you either find people leaving the hall, sleeping or engaging in side-talks. And you don’t want that.

    Understanding your audience: it is important to know your audience. That will help you to determine you pitch and the tone of your voice. For instance, if you are talking to people who have seen it all in terms of life experiences, the way you talk to them will be different from you talking to secondary school or primary school students. Know the pace you want to go, the level of your inflection, and make sure that you are, every now and then, looking at their faces and their reactions so that you can adjust, if need be.

    Reading vs. speaking speeches: They both have their advantages and disadvantages. When you read, you remain within your prepared speech, so the temptation to veer off or digress is minimized or totally removed. So far you keep looking up and checking the reactions of your audience, I think it is ok. But when the situation does not call for as much seriousness, and you are speaking extempore, you should feel relaxed and free to engage your audience in a cordial atmosphere.

    Advice: My first advice is that people interested in public speaking should not try to adopt any new mannerism. They should just speak as naturally as issues come to them. They must be simple in their choice of language. If they are not simple, chances exist that they will commit a lot of blunders- in terms of grammar, sintax, agreement, malapropism, etc. But when they are simple and natural, it will flow well and easily, and people will understand them. Many people think that unless their listeners carry dictionaries to understand them, they have not spoken. Such people are trying to impress, but the idea of speaking is to communicate. If people cannot share your meaning with you, you have failed to communicate.

    I believe you have learnt a lot from our icon this week. Several other public speakers will be interviewed for your enlightenment and to bridge the gap between principles and practice. Please send me questions you want our icons to attempt. You may also suggest names of public speakers you want interviewed and I will do all I can to reach them.

  • Socialite gives out two daughters in one day

    Socialite gives out two daughters in one day

    Two daughters of Lagos socialite Alhaji Buhari Abu Oloto – Tawakalitu and Adijat – got married to Nasir Dawodu and Bolaji Aremu at The Haven Events Centre in Ikeja Lagos. AMIDU ARIJE was there. 

    THEY are of the same parents and the two of them got married in one day.Tawakalitu Folashade and Dolapo Adijat are children of business mogul and Lagos socialite Alhaji Buhari Abu Oloto. They bid farewell to spinsterhood on June 30.

    Tawakalitu Folashade got married to Oluwaseyi Nasir Dawodu; Dolapo Adijat tied the nuptial knot with Bolaji Saka Aremu.

    It was serene at the Balmoral Event Centre, Ikeja, Lagos. The weather was clement. The hall was well furnished; draped in white and ash. It was filled to capacity.

    Guests from different cadres of life gathered to rejoice with the Olotos, Dawodus and Aremus.

    The Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Lamidi Adeyemi, led some traditional rulers to the event. They were received by Alhaji Oloto.

    Shortly after his arrival, the engagement began. The Nikah took place after the engagement.

    The brides were dressed in yellow, with a touch of gold and green. They were the cynosure of all eyes.

    The grooms looked good in agbada and sokoto with green caps to match.

    Oba Adeyemi was asked to pray for them and he did with joy. They knelt before him for royal blessings.

    The reception was anchored by Abiola Atanda (A.k.a Madam Kofo).

    The brides changed to white flowing gowns for the reception; the grooms appeared in black suits with matching pairs of shoes.

    Before the reception started, King Wasiu Ayinde Marshal (KWAM 1) mounted the stage to entertain guests.

    At this stage, Oba of Lagos Oba Riliwan Akiolu arrived. Virtually everyone stood in reverence to the Olowo Eko Baba Fuad, as he is fondly called. He was ushered in by Alhaji Oloto with other dignitaries.

    Oba Akiolu supervised the cutting of the cake and also blessed the couples.

    All took to the floor to dance to KWAM 1’s music.

    The couples were the first to dance, followed by their parents and guests. It was like a dancing competition when all of them took to the dance floor.

    Other Obas on the occasion included the Onitire of Itire, Oba Abdul Lateef Abayomi Dauda and Oba of Odi Olowo, Oba AbdulFatai Adisa Irawo.

    Also in attendance were: Lagos State Commissioner for Home Affairs and Culture, Alhaji Oyinlomo Danmole; Senator Ganiyu Solomon; Prof A.B. Kasunmu (SAN); Prince Bode Oshinusi; Chief Olatunde Badmus; Chairman Muri International Television, Alhaji Muritala Gbadeyanka; Chairman Itire Ikate Local Council Development Area, (LCDA), Hon Hakeem Bamgbola; Hon Wasiu Bashua; Director of Programme, NTA, Lagos, Alhaji Tajudeen Usamot; Ajiroba of Itire land, Alhaji Taoreed Idowu; Chief Bisi Kuye; Alhaji Ajao Minako; Chief Adisa Olatunji; Alhaji Tajudeen Adenekan; Alhaji Hakeem Kosoko; Mrs Riskat Adeniyi Adegeye; Actor Taiwo Hasan (Ogogo), among others.

  • ‘He’s my superman’

    ‘He’s my superman’

    The son of Deputy Chairman,  House of Representatives Committee on Finance, Yomi Ogunnusi, Moyosore, got married to his hearthrob Joy last Saturday at the Catholic Church of Presentation, GRA, Ikeja, Lagos. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

    It was fun when Joy and Moyosore went to the altar to say ‘Yes, I do’.

    Families, friends and well wishers gathered for the celebration of love.

    Many came in exotic cars, dressed in traditional attires.

    The groom, Moyosore, wore a sharp blue suit with a white shirt; his bride was in a flowing cream gown with a pair of white flat shoes.

    The bride’s father was clad in an expensive black suit and white shirt. The groom’s father was in blue agbada and cap to match.The couple’s mothers wore the same pink native attire with a blue head gear and ipele to match.

    The church hall was painted white and decorated in pink, blue and gold. For the reception at Banquet Event Centre, Ikeja, the decoration was the same as that of the church, but the chairs were set round tables. There were ushers at strategic points, welcoming guests and ensuring their comfort. They wore pink Ankara dress with black shoes. Itinerant drummers were rewarded for their service.

    Igumbor Kingsley, a.k.a Kaycee and Akuidolo Oreraogbheme a.k.a. Forever were the masters of ceremony.

    The event was spiced up by DJ Lammy and Ajegede live band.

    Joy, a Nursing Science graduate of Babcock University in Ilishan Remo, Ogun State, hails from Delta State. Moyosore, an Economics graduate of the same school, is from Ogun State. He later studied International Business and Management at the University of Manchester for his Masters. They met seven years ago at Babcock.

    Senator Oluremi Tinubu urged the couple to take good care of their children and love each other perfectly, noting that marriage comes with its ups and downs. Senator Tinubu said God would see them through.

    She said the most important thing in the life of any couple is that they should have love just as the Bible says, ‘Love conquers all things’.

    “They should make sure that they are able to maintain the love they share, so that it will endure and keep them to the end. From loving each other, they will understand the love of Christ, and that is the most important love of all. I wish them all the best; a graceful life and a fruitful marriage,”she said.

    Managing Director African Independent Television, Mrs Tosin Dokpesi urged the couple to put God first because without God they can never make a home.

    “They should make God their solid rock so that things will go well and they should always pray for wisdom of God to guide them. I wish them all the best,” she said.

    A renowned essayist, Prof Adebayo Williams, said the wedding was a Nigerian wedding where two tribes have come together to be one.

    Chairman of the occasion Prince Lowo Adedeji praised the parents for taking good care of their children.

    Adedeji, the Chief Executive Officer of Oba Foot Holding Ltd, told the bride: “Be careful of your friends, especially the ones that are not married, or the ones that have issues with their marriages. There should be no third party in your marriage, not even your in-laws or your parents. Marriage is ordained by God, therefore, all issues should go back to God.”

    After the couples had kissed and cut the cake at the spelling of J-E-S-U-S, they took to the dancing floor. Others joined them.

    Earlier at the church service, the opening prayer was said by the Revd Father Alfred Matthew Nworie.

    The church choir sang the hymns and songs.

    In his sermon, Bishop, Catholic Diocese of Ijebu-Ode, Bishop Albert Fasima, said marriage should be a reflection of the love of God. He urged the wife to be respectful, and told the husband: “Love your wife even as Christ loved the church.”

    He urged them to train their children in the way of the Lord, praying that God would grant them wisdom, knowledge and understanding.

    The couple exchanged rings; after which they were presented as the latest couple in town.

    The groom’s father, Otunba Ogunnusi, enjoined the couple to be prayerful.

    The bride’s mother, Mrs. Olusola Njokanma, advised them to learn to forgive each other daily.

    The groom described his wife as beautiful, pleasant and God-fearing.

    “Her good heart got me attracted. Her behaviour, the way she stands out and the way she takes care of me is such that I longed for. I love her so much,” Moyosore said.

    Joy said: “I feel very happy and elated today because I am getting married to my better half and my superman. He is loving, caring, hard working and God-fearing. He loves me and I love him too.”

    At the event were: the Accountant-General of the Federation, Mr Jonah Otunla; Senator Femi Lanlehin, Hon Toyin Surau, a Wema Bank Director, Chief Ope Bademosi; Chief Executive Officer, Tasty Fried Chicken, Mrs Olayinka Adedayo; Chief Mosun Awodipe; Chairman of Daar Communications Plc, Raymond Alegho Dokpesi; Oru of Imoru-Ijebu Oba Adeposi Bashorun; Commissioner of Police, Dr Abimbola Macaulay, among others.

  • Anambra glows for politicians’ children’s wedding

    Anambra glows for politicians’ children’s wedding

    Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) Board of Trustees (BoT) member Chief Chris Uba has  given out his daughter Nonye in marriage to Anyim (Jnr), son of Senator Anyim Udeh, at Uga in Aguata Local Government Area of Anambra State. ODOGWU EMEKA ODOGWU reports. 

    THE couple rode on the political wings of their parents. The groom is the son of a Senator and the bride, the daughter of Chief Chris Uba, a member of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) Board of Trustees (BoT). So, on June 29, all roads led to Umuoru Village in Uga, Aguata Local Government Area of Anambra State, for the traditional wedding of Anyim Udeh (Jnr), son of Senator Anyim Udeh and Nonye, Uba’s daugther.

    It was a grand ceremony which attracted the who is who in Anambra and Ebonyi states and other parts of the country. They came to Uga, the Uba’s countryhome for the fairytale wedding. The Junior Udeh, an Abuja-based businessman is the fourth child of the Senator. They hail from Akaeze village in Ebonyi State.

    Over four groups wore a uniform fabric aso ebi, with each accompanying the bride, the groom, the bride’s mother, and the Uba family.

    The ceremony began around 3:30pm.

    Chief Morroco Maduka and his band as well as a musician, Flavour, entertained guests before the arrival of the community elders.

    They asked Nonye to go and collect a cup of palm wine from her father as tradition to give her to husband.

    Nonye complied; walked round; knelt before a handsome guy and handed him the cup of palm wine, a gesture that signifies, “take me as your wife.”

    Anyim (Jnr) drank from the cup and returned it with a wad of notes.

    The gathering yelled as the duo stood up, dancing towards the elders who called on some dignitaries to pray for them.

    Blessing the couple, Uba prayed God to bless the union. He urged his daughter to love her husband.

    “Any day you have a problem, don’t call me or your mother, but go to God. He has a solution to every problem,” he said.

    Deputy Senate President Senator Ike Ekweremadu enjoined the couple to live in peace and to place God first in all they do.

    The groom’s father, Senator Udeh, who has been in public service for over 46 years, said: “It is a thing of joy for parents to be alive and see their children through educational institutions and get to the age of getting married. I pray God to give them as many children as they want and the resources to train the children. I expect them to go beyond the level I attained in life.”

    Senator Andy Uba urged his niece to respect her husband.

    “I will want them to respect themselves. We have never abused our wives in my family. My prayer is that they will live together forever till death do them part; and they will be better, richer, and more prosperous than we all are,” he said.

    Chief Victor Umeh, the factional national Chairman of All Progressive Grand Aliance (APGA)said: “People from all parts of Nigeria are here to witness this event and, because of that, they have no option in life than to live together in love. Marriage is not as easy as people think. But with love and prayer, they will succeed.”

    In their vote of thanks, the couple prayed God to grant the guests journey mercies back home and replenish their purse.

    Nonye said: “I am glad for today. For those who are still waiting for their Mr. Right, let them pray and be patient; with time, everything will take its normal shape.”

    Anyim (Jnr) said Nonye is the apple of his eyes.

    “Based on my relationship with God, I know she is the wife I have been waiting for. She is really wonderful and I am grateful to God,” he said.

    In attendance were governors of Anambra and Abia states Peter Obi and Theodore Orji and their Kano State counterpart, Rabiu Kwankwaso; Senators Ayogu Eze (Enugu); Bello Tukur (Adamawa); Kabir Marafa (Zamfara); Garuba Gamawa (Bauchi); Nenadi Usman (Kaduna); Aisha Al-Hassan (Taraba) and the Deputy Speaker, House of Representatives Hon. Emeka Ihedioha.

    Also there were Former Minister of Foreign Affairs, Major-Gen. Ike Nwachukwu; former Governor of Old Anambra, Jim Nwobodo; former Minister of Aviation, Ambassador Kema Chikwe; the Corp Marshal of Federal Road Safety Commission (FRSC) Chief Osita Chidioka; former Inspector-General of Police Ogbonnaya Onovo; Special Adviser to the President on National Assembly Matters, Senator Joy Emodi and her Technical Matters Counterpart, Chief Nze Akachukwu Nwankpo; Enugu State Commissioner of Lands, Dr. Emeka Ujam; Hon Justice Chuma of Ebonyi State High Court; Dr Alex Obiogbolu; Arthur Nwandu; Treasurer of Ohaneze Ndigbo Damian Okeke; Anambra State House of Assembly members, Hon Rebecca Udorji, Val Anyika and Tony Muonagor.

  • For a blissful union

    For a blissful union

    Last Sunday, the convener of Awesome Treasures Women Foundation, Mrs Jumoke Adenowo, launched a book titled: Designed for marriage at the Muson Centre, Onikan, Lagos. NNEKA NWANERI reports.

    They filled the seats listening with rapt attention to speaker after speaker.

    It was the mid-year summit of the Awesome Treasures Foundation, with the theme: Marriage: where are the real men.

    Women turned out in their Sunday best. Even the married ones looked chic. They were accompanied by their husbands. The younger ones were gorgeous in their outfits. There were as many men as there were women. Everyone came to gain something from the talk.

    Comedian Ali Baba anchored the event. He spiced the occasion with rib-cracking jokes.

    It was an interactive session, featuring notable personalities, such as the Managing Director of Standard Chartered Bank, Mr Korede Adenowo; Managing Director, L’Oreal Central West Africa, Idorenyen Enang; Chief Executive Officer of Stanbic IBTC Bank Yinka Sanni and Tonye Cole, the Executive Director of Sahara Group.

    They sat on the stage, which was set in form of a sitting room with a centre table. They were visible from every angle of the hall. A large banner bearing Awesome Treasure, with its lion head logo, was hung on the wall.

    The discussion centred on how leadership starts from the home. Many of the discussants spoke on the many challenges that mar young marriages.

    At the end, it was agreed that real men are those who bear their responsibilities and are masters of their households.

    Just as the session was about to end, Ekiti State Governor, Kayode Fayemi walked in with his entourage. He was clad in an all-white agbada.

    The governor waited on the front row of the hall till he was called upstage to present the book, Designed for Marriage. As he stepped up, he acknowledged cheers from the audience.

    Lauding Mrs Jumoke Adenowo for her love for youths and how she is contributing to national development, Fayemi described her as a true Ekiti daughter, though married to an Ijebu man.

    He urged couples to sustain their partnership for the benefit of all, recommending the book to public office holders, campuses and the political class.

    Former Deputy Governor of Lagos State Princess Sarah Sosan said the book is a must- have for the married and those who intend to marry.

    “This is good for the youth who have now found themselves in critical moments.” she said.

    On the book, Mrs Adenowo said it was based on her experiences in counselling, real-life situations as well as time-tested wisdom.

    “So, I decided to have an interactive session with real men who live in the real world and face real issues so all can ask questions, speak up and be heard, because we need education on what it means to be a real man.

    “No marriage is perfect but I believe men and women can find imperfect spouses who are a perfect fit for them, just as simple as following some basic principles,” she added.

    Others at the event were General Overseer of Guiding Light Assembly, Ikoyi, Pastor Wale Adefarasin, and Lt Col Paul Edorobi (rtd) among others.

  • Public speaking icon

    Have you ever heard this saying, ‘it is easier said than done’? Well, one hears that a lot when it comes to public speaking. A lot of people believe it is easier to pile up principles about speaking than actually doing it. On the other extreme are those who think there is nothing at all to speaking. ‘Anyone can speak,’ they would say, ‘so why learn it?’ Today, I have brought you a meeting point between these two opinions. Every once in a while, I will be interjecting our topics on public speaking with interviews of public speakers who would share their experiences and lessons over the years. This is aimed at making you see that public speakers are made and not born, the most unlikely people can become effective speakers, challenges can be overcome, and that self development, diligence and excellence are non-negotiable.

    It is my pleasure to bring you the first icon in this series. He is a distinguished personality who has influenced too many people for one to attempt to count. Not only is he a mentor, he also supervised my thesis. I proudly present to you Professor Idowu Akanbi Sobowale. I will give you a little background on his life, and then leave him to speak for himself.

    Professor Idowu Akanbi Sobowale

    Idowu Sobowale was born in a village called Ashipa, near Abeokuta, Ogun State, Nigeria, and his parents were peasant farmers. At the age of 13, all he could think of was an apprenticeship at a mechanic workshop. Fortunately, he moved to Lagos to stay with his brother, who enrolled him at St. Peter’s UNA School, Oyingbo, to spend two years in primary school and be numerated in preparation for his apprenticeship. When he had an excellent result in the elementary school, his brother decided he could sit for entrance examinations to four high schools, and he passed them all. He attended Baptist Academy, Lagos, and later went on to the University of Lagos for his Diploma and Degree in Mass Communication, and Syracuse University, where he completed both his M.Sc. and Ph.D in three years. Idowu Sobowale also has wealth of professional experience as he worked in and rose to the position of a senior editor at the Daily Times newspaper, and also served as Managing Director/Chief Executive of Prime People, among several others. As a government official, he served as a Special Adviser on Education during the administration of Alhaji Lateef Jakande, he served in the same position under the administration of Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, and later became the Honorable Commissioner for Education in the same administration, all in Lagos State. Professor Idowu Akanbi Sobowale is currently the Head of Department, Mass Communication, in Covenant University, Ota, Ogun State. Here are his views.

    Interest in Communication: My interest in communication started when I was in form 3 at Baptist Academy. I had a senior, Ajibade Fasina Thomas, who was later to become a reputable sports journalist at the Daily Times; he was reporting school activities on the notice board, and I just took after him when he graduated. After that, the day Chief Olabisi Onabanjo, former Ogun State Governor, was released from detention for the treasonable trial of Chief Obafemi Awolowo and other notable Nigerian politicians, a delegation went to see him from the school. He was the managing director of the Daily Express then, so I told him I was interested in journalism, and would like him to engage me in the Daily Service. He said no, that the Daily Service was dying, but his friend, Alhaji Babatunde Jose, had just established a training school at the Daily Times and he would give me a note to him. He wrote a note instantly. I took the note immediately to Alhaji Jose, who minuted on it and sent me to Ikoyi, where the school was. That was how I started in the Daily Times training school, which also began that day. Ten of us were to spend one year, but after one month, our Australian instructor took two of us and sent us to the newsroom to continue our learning.

    First time before a crowd: that was probably when I was in the primary school, because I was the Senior Prefect. I was also the Labour Prefect in secondary school, so I had to face students.

    Initial anxiety about speaking: The first few occasions were not easy. I was afraid and I probably stammered. But when I became a journalist, it became rather common for me to face people, interview them and ask questions. Also, when I became the Chairman of the committee that transferred pupils from private to public schools in Lagos State, I had to address mammoth crowds. So, from then on it was easier. But when I became a lecturer, speaking became a way of life.

    How to out-grow stage fright: If you speak consistently for a number of times, you will muster sufficient courage. Secondly, there are some techniques that can be adopted such as looking at the crowd instead of a particular person. Sometimes I look my audience in the face and some other times I don’t even look at anybody at all.

  • Their school, their pride

    Their school, their pride

    Old students of Olivet Baptist High School, Oyo State, have held their yearly dinner and award night at the Lagos Sheraton Hotel and Towers, Ikeja, reports SEUN AKIOYE

    INNUMERABLE lights dazzled the eyes as one stepped into the expensively furnished banquet hall of the Lagos

    Sheraton Hotel and Towers, Ikeja, venue of the yearly dinner and awards night of old students of Olivet Baptist High School, Olivet Heights, Oyo State, last Sunday.

    The alumni association has eight chapters – Lagos, Ibadan, Osogbo, Abeokuta, Abuja, Kano, Delta and the United Kingdom.

    At the right corner of the hall stood a small band, which played evergreen highlife music. Men and women stood in small groups exchanging pleasantries and engaging in discussions, which were intermittently followed by hearty laughs, pumping of hands and tight hugs, especially by friends who had not seen for long.

    As more people arrived, the groups expanded, with the new comers taking their seats. Some were elaborately dressed, others modestly.

    The Olivetians – as the old students call themselves – are from diverse backgrounds but are united by a common belief which they hold to passionately: that their alma mater is the best secondary school in Africa.

    At the gathering were captains of industry who had made their marks in their fields; politicians, legal luminaries and media gurus.

    The alumni’s brazen display of love and affection for their alma mater delighted the non-Olivetians present.

    After the exchange of pleasantries and with all seated, the school anthem was sung by Lola Odele.

    “The foresight of God’s own people, a new school created…by the highway stands the school, breaking, moulding, preparing for the future. Olivet Heights my school, oh my school,” brought back old memories.

    The association’s President, Mr Olusegun Ahmadu, an engineer, said the dinner was organised to bring old students together, identify and celebrate those who have excelled at their professions. He said the dinner provided a platform to draw attention to the beloved Olivet Heights.

    “We have rehabilitated the famous Jubilee Hall; we have also upgraded and dualised the road leading to the principal’s office. We donated a Toyota Coaster bus for the use of the students,” Ahmadu said to the delight of the gathering. But he warned that a lot still need to be done to develop Olivet High School and education in Nigeria.

    ” We need to partner to develop education in this country. These days you see students roam around streets at a time they should be in classes. They have little parental care. They go to bars and restaurants and share things with adults. We appeal to the government to allow us to partner to develop education,” Ahmadu said.

    Seven distinguished alumni were honoured for their contributions to the school and the society. Leading the group was Speaker, Oyo State House of Assembly Hon. Monsurat Jumoke Sunmonu.

    Others were Dr. Olasupo Ayokunle; Registrar, Samuel Adegboyega University in Edo State, Mr Adeleke Adeboye; Permanent Secretary, Osun State Civil Service, Chief Bidemi Agbedahunsi; a lawyer, Mr. Biodun Laniyonu; Ayo Shamond an architect and a law Professor at the University of Lagos, Taiwo Osipitan (SAN).

    The event was not just about singing and dancing. The former students also charted a way for the development of Nigeria. The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) Chairman, Prof Attahiru Jega was the guest speaker.

    Jega decried the state of education as he identified ‘chronic underfunding’ as the critical factor militating against the sector. He praised the industry of Olivetians, saying two old students of the college work at the management level at INEC.

    “I am proud to associate with you; your ambassadors at INEC are proud examples of your industry,” he said.

    While he praised the Olivetians for what they have achieved for their beloved alma mater, he urged them to continue in their efforts to lift education. The INEC boss also listed some of his programmes to ensure free and fair elections in 2015.

    He assured that even if corrupt politicians get hold of the voter’s cards it will be impossible to use them.

    “Even if politicians’ succeed in buying these cards, on voting day in 2015, God willing, it will be useless. We believe this is an important step forward that can add to the credibility of the electoral process.”

    As the evening wore on and the heavens opened up, the Olivetians continued their celebration. Toasts were given, speeches made and banters shared. Senior students mingled with the juniors, sharing drinks and discussing latest business trends. There was no discrimination, just a common love for Olivet Heights.

    Olivet Baptist High School was founded by American Southern Baptist Mission on January 29, 1945. The school became a force in the 1960s when it excelled in inter-school academic competitions and sports, earning its place in the hall of greatness.

    Some of the notable old students include Ayoola Oba Otudeko; former governors of Ekiti and Oyo states Ayodele Fayose and Rasheed Ladoja; Chairman, First Bank of Nigeria and Chairman of the event Prince Ajibola Afonja; businessman and Chairman, Bi-Courtney Ltd, Wale Babalakin; Director-General, Nigeria Hydrological Services Agency, Ayo Shamonda; President, Nigeria Baptist Convention, Revd. Olasupo Ayokunle.

    Others at the event were Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) National Publicity Secretary Alhaji Lai Mohammed and Speaker, Lagos State House of Assembly Hon. Adeyemi Ikuforiji.