Category: Entertainment

  • ‘Marriage is a blessing from God’

    The marriage of Adedapo Adekunle Titiloye and Oyeronke Temilade Oyedeji has become the talk of town in Offa, Kwara State. It was held at the First Baptist Church, Station Road, Offa.

    The officiating ministers were Rev A. G Odediran; Rev Canon Tayo Fayemi; Pastor Kunle Ogungboye, and Deacon Yinka Olayonu, among others.

    Reception followed at the Offa Grammar School Sports Stadium. The stadium was filled to capacity.

    It was like a competition when the twin brothers of the groom, Taiye and Kehinde Titiloye, took on themselves on the dancing floor.Their performance added glamour to the occasion.

    The groom’s father, Mr Femi Titiloye, the Registrar of Rainbow College, Surulere, Lagos also displayed his dancing skills to the admiration of guests. “It (dancing) runs in the family”, some guests whispered.

    The reception was chaired by Mr Sunday Pinmo, a friend of Mr Titiloye.

    He urged the couple to listen to each other in order to build a successful home.

    He also advised those in attendance to pray for the couple.

    Adedapo, a graduate of Industrial Chemistry, described his wife, Ronke, as a “ friend and somebody I trust”.

    Mr Titiloye’s Social Club Iledun Club Oke Onigbin presented a banner gift to the couple.

    The bride’s father, Prince Oyetunji Oyedeji, urged the couple to be patient with each other and put God first in whatever they do.

     

  • Men diligent in their jobs

    Men diligent in their jobs

    EVERTHING about the event was well planned. From the cameramen on the red carpet to the exotic design of the exquisite hall, everything was in shipshape. The setting inside the hall was breath-taking. It met the taste of the calibre of guests.

    At the event were finest of the political class and the captains of industry.

    A newspaper was honouring two men who have excelled in their fields.

    Step in Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi, Rivers State Governor, who isVanguard Personality of the Year winner; and Aigboje Aig-Imoukhuede, Access Bank Group Managing Director, runner-up.

    They were the cynosure of all eyes last Saturday at the Expo Centre of Eko Hotel and Suites, Victoria Island, Lagos.

    Amaechi was accompanied by his Ekiti State counterpart, Dr Kayode Fayemi. The night took off on a musical note with a performance by Team Quba.

    Shortly after, Aig-Imoukhuede arrived with his wife and children.

    Holy Mallam and Gordons, comedians who emceed the event, were in their element, dishing out ribcracking jokes.

    Many guests made fashion statements with their resource control hats.

    Timi Dakolo set the hall rolling with the recitation of the national anthem. The anthem was on when House of Representatives Speaker Aminu Tambuwal and the principal guest, Gen Ibrahim Babangida, arrived. Gen Babangida chaired the occasion.

    Vanguard Publisher, Sir Sam Amuka-Pemu, while delivering the welcome address, extolled Gen Babangida.

    According to him, it was just a phone call that got the gap-toothed General to chair the function.

    Amuka-Pemu also thanked Tambuwal who he described as Peoples’ Speaker. He beckoned on the General Manager and Editor -in- Chief of Vanguard, Mr. Gbenga Adefaye, to make a more formal welcome address on behalf of the company.

    In his speech, Babaginda showered encomiums on Amuka-Pemu who he described as “my good friend, in-law and compatriot.”

    The former military president said: “Looking back at those good old days like a series of snapshots in an album, with different phases and faces in our journey through life, one cannot but thank God for the successes we have recorded in our various undertakings, I make bold to say that Uncle Sam is that, uncommon Nigerian who understands the nexus between media and power, and the value and virtue of good friendship. I deeply cherish this association.

    “Despite the fact that one of my Military Administrators briefly suspended Vanguard in 1990, it did not strain my relationship with Uncle Sam. We have trudged on like two great Nigerians who understand the dynamics of political power and the vanity of human nature.”

    Babangida congratulated Amaechi and Aig-Imoukhuede.

    “To me, the two gentlemen represent the normative order of a new generation leadership orientation that is anchored on love for country, service delivery and patriotism. In fact, given their humanity, there is nothing extra-ordinary about their creation but there is something extra-ordinary about their leadership emanations. For example, Governor Amaechi is not just a Governor in whom I am well pleased, but one that has been able to make a bold impression about promise and performance in a Nigerian political space that is grappling with challenges of development and good governance,” he said.

    His speech drew a standing ovation.

    Afterwards, Dakolo, winner of the maiden edition of Nigerian Idol thrilled the gathering.

    Tambuwal presented the runner-up award to Aig-Imoukhuede who came on the stage with his family.

    He dedicated the award to his wife.

    According to Aig-Imoukhuede, there are only two banks in Nigeria that are older than Vanguard, First Bank and UBA.

    “All the great deeds you ascribe to bankers, Uncle Sam has surpassed; for Vanguard to have outlived most of the banks, underlined the vision, capacity and tenacity of the leadership of Vanguard Media Limited,” he said.

    Yemi Sax performed for a while before IBB as Babangida is fondly called mounted the podium again to present Personality of the Year award to Governor Amaechi. IBB, Tambuwal, Amaechi, Aig-Imoukhuede and Amuka-Pemu took a group photograph before Governor Amaechi gave his acceptance speech.

    Amaechi dressed in the regalia of the Ikwere, people of Rivers State, dedicated the award to the team working with him and the people of Rivers State.

    The governor said he felt the absence of his wife, given the fact that Mrs. Aig-Imoukhuede was present.

    Amaechi, who came with a strong delegation from Rivers State said he paid little attention to awards in the past because he thought he was doing his job.

    Omawumi was later invited to the stage to entertain the gathering.

     

  • Celebrating ‘a man of character’

    Celebrating ‘a man of character’

    The atmosphere was serene. There was Country music in the background, as guests eagerly awaited the arrival of the man of the moment. Venue was the Oriental Restaurant, Victoria Island Lagos, where friends of Edo State Information and Orientation Commissioner Louis Odion organised a 40th birthday bash for him.

    The atmosphere became charged when the Master of Ceremony (MC) announced his presence. Many rose to catch a glimpse of him.

    Odion was dressed in a black Agbada. It was an evening of encomiums from those who know the birthday ‘boy’. The celebrator shed tears as accolades were showered on him.

    A band, the Manifest, thrilled the audience. Upcoming comedian ATM ensured that there was no dull moment. The MC read the citation of the celebrator. The birthday cake was cut and a toast made to the celebrator.

    Managing Director, Leadership Azubuike Ishiekwene’s accolades on Odion were moving.

    Odion broke down in tears, when Ishiekwene told what he called the ‘unknown Odion story.”

    He said Odion was a friend who sticks closer than a brother, a family man and an astute professional.

    Narrating how the celebrator helped salvage his relationship with a mutual friend of theirs, Ishiekwene said Odion is endowed with wisdom that is above his age, adding:“he is a young man with the heart of a lion.”

    As a family man, Ishiekwene said Odion carries a lot of responsibilities gracefully.

    ‘’When we hang out as friends, you never know the burden that each of us carries because the clothes that we wear cover a lot. The role that Louis plays in his own family is far beyond him but, he carries it with dignity. He is doing a lot and I keep praying that God will strengthen him and give him the resources to keep doing well,‘’ Ishiekwene said.

    Former Health Secretary Prince Julius Adelusi-Adeluyi described Odion as a man of character, adding that he needed no special notice to come and celebrate with him.

    Adelusi-Adeluyi said: “The voice of Nigeria is wholesomely represented here and that is how it should be because we are honouring one of your own. We are honouring a young man who has a very good name, born in a good month and has attained a unique age.

    ‘’His name, Louis, has a very proud pedigree. In French, it is given to describe someone as a famous warrior. Odion is very dear to me and I cherish him a lot because he is a man of character and it is only a man of character that can be trusted. He has been a good ambassador for the journalism profession.”

    Lagos State Commissioner for the Environment Tunji Bello said his relationship with Odion dated back to 1989 when the Sunday Concord was established and strong hands were needed for the political desk.

    ‘’We discovered that there was this man who has been writing and every time he writes, it gets published. So, we decided to look for him and discovered it was a young boy inside Concord. He was with the advert department. So, I met the advert manager and told her she has to let Louis join us and that was how it started.

    ‘’When our newspaper was shut down and other papers were wooing us to come, I was surprised that somebody like Odion who was still very young stayed with us. He was not willing to go while some others left until the paper was reopened. It was later shut within six months but Louis still stayed with us.

    ‘’So, we became very proud of him because we thought that someone like him should look for something else to do. Even when Abiola was in detention and things were very difficult for the paper, he stayed and we advised him to take up the offer with ThisDay,” Bello recalled.

    Lagos State House of Assembly Speaker Adeyemi Ikuforiji, described Odion as a young successful fellow who knows his onions, adding that he is gifted.

    Ikuforiji said: ‘’If these elders can come here to celebrate with Louis, and I know I am not the only elderly person who has Louis as his friend. Even my own leader, the national leader of our great party, the Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN), is a friend to Louis and I am sure if not for his own very tight engagement, he would have personally been here with us.

    ‘’I do not know him at the professional level that the likes of Tunji Bello know him. But the much I know of Louis, I feel very grateful for the invitation that was extended to me to be here because truly, he is a man of character.

    ‘’The very day I met him, I knew he is a special breed. When you think of somebody like Louis, you will be happy that all hope is not lost. There is a generation coming that represents hope. Nigeria is in dire need of the help of ’men of the pen.”

    Chairman, Edo State Internal Revenue Board Chief Oseni Elamah, also spoke glowingly about the celebrator. Odion, he said, conquered fear on the palace ground of the Oba of Benin, when he came out to make the threat to his life by a politician, a media issue, adding“and that was how he gained his freedom.

    He described Odion as “Mr. Character and Integrity,” adding that he brought a professional touch into the Adams Oshiomhole administration with which they have been able to achieve many things.

    Overwhelmed by the outpouring of emotions, Odion said: ‘’I am honoured by such great love. I do not even know what to say but I can tell you that I was fortunate to have a great boss in Tunji Bello, who aside mentoring me, gave me the opportunity to go back to school while working.

    ‘’If he did not give me such an opportunity, I would not be here today. It is not just about talent because there are so many talented writers out there who have not excelled. So, I remain grateful to Tunji Bello and my other friends, who believed in me as a young man.”

    Former Ogun State Governor Olusegun Osoba; Chairman, Editorial Board of The Nation Sam Omatseye; Editor-in-Chief, Vanguard Gbenga Adefaye; Ekiti State governor’s Deputy Chief of Staff, Mojeed Jamiu; publisher, Global Excellence, Mayor Akinpelu; Special Adviser to Lagos governor, on Media and Publicity Hakeem Bello; General Manager, Mobil, Captain Victor Iriobe; Publisher, Encomium Kunle Bakare; Chairman, Ejigbo Local Council Development Area (LCDA), Kehinde Bamigbetan; Chairman, Bevista, Benny Obaze; Yomi Idowu; Ted Iwere; Omisore Abiodun and Ogbeni Goke Odeyinka were at the event.

  • 50 royal beads for a Princess

    50 royal beads for a Princess

    She wore a golden brown traditional outfit with blue pattern. The blue gele (headgear) spread about her head like the tail of a peacock. She kept waving her hands and dancing to and from the altar at the request of the officiating minister, Pastor Wale Adetuberu, at the Trinity Cathedral, Orital Obele, Akure, the Ondo State capital. Each time she smiled, her face revealed well-set teeth which accentuated her beauty. Beads adorned her wrists and neck.

    She acknowledged dignitaries and fellow permanent secretaries in the Ekiti State Civil Service who attended the church service and the colourful reception at the her Awule mansion with smiles.

    Many did not believe Princess Obaisi was 50 as she looked younger.

    The tunes from the church choir kept drawing the celebrator and her husband, Bishop Daniel Obaisi, to the dance floor. They were occasionally joined by their children – Rereloluwa, Obaloluwa, Alaanuloluwa, Olubukunloluwa and Ajagunmoluloluwa.

    Pastor Adetuberu, in his sermon, congratulated the couple for a successful marital journey, noting that not many had been equally successful. He encouraged mothers to mother their children rather than “murder them” through condemnable conducts.

    Urging a ‘live and let live principle’, the pastor noted that the “value of the life of a man is the amount of good seeds sown in that of others”.

    The reception was grand.

    The shades of red and white that dominated the venue added colour to the event. The cake covered with a golden veil lent a tinge of elegance to the venue; it accentuated the class and high taste of the celebrator.

    Guests had more than enough to eat and drink. The versatile Ekiti State cultural group enlivened the reception with various songs which often had the Princess and her husband on the dance floor.

    Princess Obaisi recounted the difficulties her mum, now late, underwent bringing them up after the death of her father and the initial opposition to her proposal to marry Mr Obaisi. She also recounted the material hardship she went through at the early stages of her marriage, adding: “But, I thank God for this great day.”

    Her husband, Bishop Obaisi, recalled the periods of courtship and the opposition from his wife’s mother and siblings, noting that the opposition was actually meant to protect Princess then as there was no way the family could have guessed the purity of his intention and purpose.

    One thing which worked well for our marriage is that whenever we quarrelled over any issue, we ensured that we found a way to make amends within ourselves.

    ExpressING his appreciation to Mrs. Obaisi for making Efon Alaaye, her roots, proud. The Alaaye of Efon-Ekiti kingdom, Oba Emanuel Aladejare, said each time he met Obaisi, she would ensure that she tried her best to ensure that he gets answers to her demands.

    The Head of Service, Mr Olubunmi Famosaya, commended her courage and attainment. He mentioned her dedication to duty which he described as great, noting that whenever you give her any assignment you can go to bed.

    Dignitaries at the service and the reception included the Secretary to the State Government, Alhaji Ganiyu Owolabi; wife of the monarch of Ado-Ekiti, Olori Eyesorun Bosede Adejugbe; Chief Judge of Ekiti State, Justice Ayodeji Daramola; Aare Kunle Olajide; Ekiti State Commissioner for Women Affairs, Social Welfare and Gender Empowerment, Mrs. Fola Richie-Adewusi and other commissioners in the state including, Dr Eniola Ajayi, Chief Ronke Okusanya and Mr Funminiyi Afuye.

    Others included Chairperson, Ekiti State Universal Basic Education Board, Prof. Modupe Adelabu; Special Assistant in Governor’s Office, Mrs. Kehinde Daramola; Special Assistant to the Governor on Strategy, Mr Bisi Omoleye; Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) chairman, Ekiti State, High Chief Jide Awe and his wife; Justice Toyin Abodunde; and Elder and Mrs. Segun Bankole.

    Permanent secretaries in attendance included Dr. Bola Fakunle; Mr. Lekan Ayeleso; Mrs. Bimpe Aderiye; Mrs. Peju Babafemi; Mrs. Florence Oke; Mr Fred Ologuntoyo; Mrs. Funmi Ajayi; Mr Tayo Aluko; Mr Sesan Alabi; Mrs. Funke Falodun; Mrs Folake Olomojobi; Mr. Kola Ajumobi.

    Church heads at the event included Bishop Felix Adejumo, Revd Kayode Aboderin; Revd Marylance Olaoye; Revd Tola Afuye; Revd Funmi Ojumu; Pastor Olusoji Bello among others.

     

  • ‘We met on the campus’

    ‘We met on the campus’

    It was a wedding that drew the cream of the society. Top government functionaries, military brass, former political office holders and captains of commerce were there.

    It was the wedding of Fiyinfoluwa Oluwatunmise, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Adeyemi Obakin, owners of the popular Abuja eatery, Biobak Kitchen, to her lovebird, Olukayode Adebayo Aladejebino last Saturday.

    The wedding was preceded by a traditional engagement at BMO Centre in Wuse District of Abuja.

    For the two families, it was a journey back to their roots in Ijeshaland, Osun State as they displayed the rare cultural heritage which make the Ijesa tick.

    Besides the melodious tune of ace musician Yinka Ayefele at the traditional engagement, there were words of exhortations at the church service on Saturday from the Senior Pastor of the Family Worship Centre, Mrs. Sarah Omakwu, who charged the couple to make God the foundation of their home. Quoting from Deuteronomy 30:5, she said: “My prayer for the couple is that you will achieve greater things than your parents in life.” She also asked the couple to write down all the prayers offered by the clerics in the church and work towards the points for fulfilment.

    Guests were later regaled with the couple’s love story at the reception held at the International Conference Centre, Abuja.

    The bride, Fiyinfoluwa said: “Kayode and I met about five years ago while I was still at the university. We attended the same university and even studied the same course (Accounting). So, we had been mutual friends but we didn’t start talking until I was in my final year. My friends and I had gone to cinema and one of my friends was invited for a birthday dinner afterwards. So, we all tagged along…lo!

    “He was one of the guys who attended the dinner and I remember him really trying to catch my attention and talk to me but I was fronting…! Later that night, he just walked up to me and asked for my number and willingly I obliged…strange!

    “He called me later that night and we had one of the most beautiful and interesting conversations ever and that was the beginning. Since then… he has become my best friend, my confidant and the love of my life. Everything is easier when I’m with him and I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with this amazing man.”

    Olukayode, the son of the late Mr Gabriel Aladejebi, said his courage at a friend’s birthday hangout in his final year in University of Lagos (UNILAG) did the magic to win Fiyin’s heart.”

    He said: “My first contact with Fiyin was during my final year in the university when a friend introduced her as the younger sister of one of our mutual friends. Since then, we never met again until 2008 at a friend’s birthday hangout. While at the outing, my eyes caught a glimpse of the beautiful face across the table and that was ‘it.’

    “By the time we were all set to leave the venue, I summoned courage and walked up to her and ‘politely’ asked for her number to which she obliged. By the time I got home that night, I had made up my mind that there was no need to further waste time over what my heart was already telling me. We have grown so much in love and are fond of each other that I feel so incomplete without her. Words cannot best describe how much I have looked forward to this day to take the vow to commit the rest of my life to my pride and joy.”

    In attendance were Minister of Agriculture and Rural Development, Dr. Akinwumi Adesina; the former Deputy Governor of Ekiti State, Mrs Biodun Olujimi; former Minister of Health, Prof. Eyitayo Lambo; former Deputy Inspector-General of Police, Deacon Adedayo Adeoye; Justice Edward Ojuolape (rtd); Brig Gen M.A.O Amolegbe; former governorship candidate in Lagos State Chief Oluremi Adiukwu-Bakare; Alhaji Bisiriyu Adenle and Chief Bolarinwa Obakin.

     

  • Yeyelaje, the minister’s wife

    Yeyelaje, the minister’s wife

    The public seldom cast a glance at the other side of glamour of the politician’s wife. We know about the Better Life, the glitz of first-ladism, but what of the lonely peril of the wife of the soldier who failed at coup plotting or the politician on the run for his life after a misadventure? Chief (Mrs)Hannah Folorunso Osuntokun certainly had an untold story. She was married to Chief Oduola Osuntokun who served for eleven years as a Minister in the old Western Region, first in the cabinet of Chief Obafemi Awolowo and later that of his successor, Chief Ladoke Akintola. She knew the peril of power and the gory side of the glamour of being the minister’s wife.

    In the Okemesi of the 1960s, the Osuntokuns had a dominant presence. One was the minister. Another was a captain in the Nigerian Army and yet another was a high-flying medical doctor who was to become world famous as Professor Oluwakayode Osuntokun, the neurologist who became the first person in the world to win the Charles Drew award for medicine. Coming up then were Taye Osuntokun, later to become the Auditor-General of Local Government of Ekiti State and Akinjide, distinguished professor of history and first Nigerian ambassador to united Federal Republic of Germany. All these people were names in the air. The one we knew and saw everyday in Okemesi-Ekiti was iyawo Osuntokun, Folorunso.

    In 1965, at the time of the regional elections in the West, she was a teacher at Local Authority, L.A. School, where one of her brothers-in-law, Tunde Osuntokun, was the headmaster. Though her husband was a regional minister, she did not have a car. Accompanied by pupils from Ile Osuntokun and other parts of Ile Aro Ogeregere, the ancestral compound of the Osuntokuns, she would trek the almost three kilometres to school everyday. Often on her heels were Gbonjubola, her daughter, Akin, her son and the late Adekemi Ibipomola Bamigbade, daughter of Mrs Kehinde Bamigbade, the minister’s only uterine sister, who was destined to become my wife. Though the distance was long, Iyawo Osuntokun loved to count her steps. She was very slim, elegant and carries herself with an air of dignity. Those were the days when Nigeria was simple and a minister’s wife can do without a car of her own. Think of the first lady of a local government now!

    Then the storm came after the election. Chief Akintola’s Nigerian National Democratic Party, NNDP, was said to have won the regional election of 1965, defeating the Action Group of Chief Awolowo, who was then serving a 10-year term for treasonable felony at Calabar Prison. Many of the NNDP candidates were “returned unopposed” because the candidatures of their opponents were invalidated fraudulently. Everyone knew that Akintola had stolen the election, but that would not dampen his supporters’ spirit in Okemesi. They trooped into the street singing:

    Akintola wo’le Asofin,

    Ese wo!

    Ki e ma ba ku ni kekere,

    Ese wo!

    Akintola has recaptured the House of Assembly,

    Be careful!

    So that you will not die young

    Be careful!

    We followed the dancers round the town. I was in primary four at Saint Andrew Anglican Primary School, and like most of my mates, we did not understand the full import of the drama. We thoroughly enjoyed ourselves.

    Then one day in early 1966 before the coup that killed Akintola and his powerful friends, Alhaji Ahmadu Bello, the Premier of the Northern Region, and Alhaji Abubakar Tafawa-Balewa, the Prime-Minister, Okemesi was overcast with fear. Everyone ran indoors. Thugs were in town as part of the general campaign of the opposition resistance against Akintola known as Operation wet e!

    That day, the two houses in the Osuntokun compound were gutted. One of them was razed to the ground and the other is still standing till today. It was renovated after the extensive damage. Folorunso and her children, fled to Esa Oke through the bush path. Mama Ootola Osuntokun, the matriarch of the house and mother of the Osuntokun boys, relocated to her family house in Okeloro quarters of the town. Few days later, the First Republic was toppled in a military coup. After some times in Ibadan coping with the aftermath of the loss of power, Chief Osuntokun relocated home. Never again was he to mount the rostrumin electoral gladiatorial combat. Instead, he picked up a job as the principal of Amoye Grammar School, Ikere Ekiti. This was a man who had been a minister for more than 10 years. We can just imagine what would have been the situation today for a man who has been a minister for 10 months! Osuntokun was an honest man who served his country with passion and patriotism.

    But the Osuntokuns remained foreshadowed with the halo of power and politics. Iyawo Osuntokun was Baba Osuntokun’s second wife. The first was Chief (Mrs) Mabel Osuntokun, Mama Tinu, who was (and still is) based in Ibadan. She was the daughter of Bishop Osanyin, the first Bishop of Ekiti Diocese of the Church of Nigeria, (Anglican Communion). She is an eighty-something great grandmother.

    But Folorunso remained anchored in Okemesi. She picked up a teaching appointment with Okemesi Grammar School after obtaining a higher certificate from the Adeyemi College of Education, Ondo. In the early 1970s, she opened the biggest supermarket, including a medicine store, in Okemesi. Though she did not play any visible role in the politics of the Second Republic, there was no doubt that she had learnt a lot from the master, Chief Oduola Osuntokun. She was a significant member of the Alliance for Democracy, AD, and Egbe Afenifere, at the dawn of the Fourth Republic. Her son, Akin, had grown into politics, serving first as an aide of late Major-General Shehu Musa Yar’Adua and later as a fiery critic of the General Sani Abacha dictatorship. Akin later served with distinction as the managing director of the News Agency of Nigeria, NAN, and political adviser to President Olusegun Obasanjo.

    Mama Osuntokun, who had been installed as the Yeyelaje (Mother of Commerce) of Okemesi, had lived to see the political coming of age of her first son Akin. Events had come full circle before our very eyes.Yeyelaje was the pillar of the home front while her husband and later her son were out there weathering the storms of politics. Her greatest strength was her capacity to remain busy and relevant. Throughout her life, she remained a dominant business person in Okemesi.

    The last time I met her was in August last year at Akin’s house in Abuja. Her daughter, Bukola Ogunsina and my niece and Akin’s wife, Ronke, were present in the house and some of her grandchildren too. She was still her jovial self, though it was evident that her illness had taken its tolls. She was in good spirit, her laughter, ringing through the house like in those days when she was the lady in command.

    Now, she commands no more. Today, Friday April 12, 2013, she would be committed to Mother Earth in Okemesi, ending a part of a story she started as the minister’s wife more than half-a-century ago. She was a significant part of the Osuntokun story, bringing her practicality and common sense to blend with the tradition of public service that is the hallmark of the Osuntokun legacy. Now she is gone, but the Osuntokun family saga continues.

     

  • Good Speaker or Great Speaker; Your Choice!

    Do you know we sometimes settle for ‘good’ when we can be ‘great’? O yes we do. Sometimes we don’t put as much effort into what we do because we think we have nothing (physical) to gain. But when we invest ourselves into any activity, the knowledge and experience we gain become ours for life. We have to develop the attitude of being the best at whatever we do, whether we are rewarded or not. Excellence is not an action but a way of life. If you are given any task, do it so well that little or nothing can be added.

    Excellence is the best bargaining chip you can have. I heard the true story of a man who chose to engage in vigorous self-development and to put his best into all he did at work. While his colleagues stylishly escaped responsibilities, he gladly took them up. While his colleagues mocked him for always “being available,” he was busy developing himself. Unknown to them, he was making himself indispensable. One day, he told the management of his place of work that he was quitting and there was confusion! An emergency board meeting was called and he was asked to renegotiate the terms of his employment; the board was willing to give him a raise and even a better position just to retain him in the organization. Imagine that!

    In relation to public speaking, you also have a choice to make. You either go the extra mile to be outstanding or you vanish in the crowd as ‘yet another speaker.’ I listened to a speaker recently and I was left unsatisfied after his presentation. He delivered a good speech but I wished he had made it a great one. So, instead of writing his points, I found myself writing what made him good instead of great. Here are my findings:

    •Facts without proofs: the speaker made brilliant points, but he couldn’t convince us that they actually work. If he had cited examples of those who achieved success busing those principles, we would have benefited more from the presentation. Fact without proof is like wind without rain.

    •Expression without experience: the speech was eloquently delivered. The speaker was quite expressive, but he obviously didn’t have any experience to fall back on. It is actually easy to know when someone is speaking from wealth of experience and when he/she reads up the topic just for presentation.

    •Presentation without passion: when a speaker is not passionate, there is no way his/her speech can ignite fire in the audience. An unmotivated speaker will turn a great speech to a good one any time any day; in fact he can do worse.

    •Definition without depth: if a speaker has 15 minutes to speak and he spends 10 minutes giving definition, when should we expect the substance of the speech? Depth is not how much you understand your subject matter, but how much you can show your audience its applicability.

    •Volume without Value: public speaking is not about how much you say, but how valuable your words are. Someone can deliver a 20 minutes speech with only 2 minutes value with someone else can deliver 5 minutes speech with 20 minutes value. It is not about the number of points you make; it is about the relevance of your words to your listeners.

    At this juncture, I’d like to appreciate my readers immensely, I mean you reading right now. I also want to appreciate those who have sent mails and SMS, both to express goodwill and to ask questions. Most of the questions I received have been answered in one article or the other, while some that required direct information have been attended to. Here are a few of your messages (you can be sure I will publish more from time to time):

    Good morning. I’m both impressed and blessed with your articles on communication. Thank you for teaching me. I know I will learn a lot from you. –Chinkata, FUTO

    You wrote a great piece today. I enjoyed reading it especially the Barber’s story. – Dr. Biodun

    Your article “intrapersonal communication” is such a remarkable one that no one would like to be left out of sharing in the wonderful IDEAS!! Kip it up. – Idris, Kano

    I applaud you for such a wonderful and inspiring piece on mass communication. Kudos to you. – Jessica, Abia State

    Shallom. I read your article in today’s The Nation. Keep it up. – Elder Olutex, Kwara State

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  • ‘My life as only surviving child’

    ‘My life as only surviving child’

    He didn’t ask for honour; he earned it and he is worthy of it. He was not born with a silver spoon but rose from grass to grace. His ministrations are always inspirational and charismatic. He is an epitome of heroism and a great man of God.”

    Those were some of the words the children of Pastor Gabriel Olutola, the National President of The Apostolic Church, Nigeria, used to describe their father, who clocked 80 last week.

    The President of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN), Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor, also praised Pastor Olutola, for his humility and hospitality.

    Pastor Oritsejafor described Pastor Olutola as an “apostle, a pastor, an evangelist, a leader by example who defends, yet doesn’t compromise his integrity. He is an epitome of humility and indeed an incredible man.”

    The CAN president prayed for the celebrator.

    “May heaven reward you for the goodness you have done humanity; for the love he has for the church and the price you have paid for Christianity”, he said.

    With praise and thanksgiving, his children, friends and members of The Apostolic Church, Nigeria ushered Pastor Olutola into the octogenarian club. Clerics from other denominations were there in large numbers to celebrate with him.

    A reception followed at the church’s expansive International Convention Ground on Lagos-Ibadan Expressway, Ketu, Lagos.

    The temple was decorated in orange and green. There were ushers in the several walkways and entrances of the church.

    People came from far and wide. The rich, the poor and Apostolic faithful were there.

    Earlier in the week, Pastor Olutola visited the motherless babies’ home and Ikoyi prison. There was also a launch of the celebrator’s biography and a lecture by former Lagos State Attorney-General and Commissioner for Justice, Prof. Yemi Osinbajo.

    Last Saturday’s thanksgiving climaxed the weeklong events.

    Special anthems were sung by the Choir of Samuel Adegboyega University (SAU); Lagos Metropolitan Areas Combined Choir and the Temple Choir of the church. The last anthem was sung by the children and great grand children of the celebrator.

    The Anglican Archbishop of Lagos, Revd Adebola Ademowo, who delivered the sermon, said he first met the celebrator in 1972 in Ilesha, Osun State. He prayed that Pastor Olutola’s strength be renewed like the eagle.

    Revd Ademowo said: “We have been friends for over 40 years and I have come to know him as a man of God to the core. He is a role model of who a role model should be. I admire him so much. He is a dogged evangelist.”

    Ademowo said because of his admiration for The Apostolic Church, he did a special research as a theologian and a historian and wrote a book on it.

    Wishing the celebrator a longer, healthier and peaceful life, Ademowo turned to him, saying: “You have been diligent and straightforward. You haven’t been a chameleon, but rather, a leader of great repute with quintessential personalities.”

    Pastor Olutola looks younger than his age as he still moves sprightly. He danced and sang joyfully without showing signs of old age. He danced to the front of the church to drop his offering, accompanied by his children, as loud chants of praise worship songs filled the arena.

    Before he gave the testimony of his life, he read Psalm 126 to glorify God. After that, he began his testimony in Yoruba, and it was translated to English. It went thus:

    “I thank God today because He has been faithful to me in all his promises. My mother had seven sons but since 1937, I have been the only one left. My mother used to pamper me though she was very instructive. So, I chose not to celebrate any birthday till I was 50. By then, I was sure I would have been married with children.

    “Thank God for the woman He gave me to marry. She is inestimable. On the 16th of this month, we would have marked our 57th wedding anniversary. Though we lived for 46 years, none of our parents settled any quarrel between us, so I needed not remarry because of how good she was.”

    After the service, guests moved to an open field, where two gigantic tents were erected. Sunny Melody and his band dished out gospel juju music to the delight of guests. The celebrator sat on a special seat with his family members receiving pleasantries and gifts. More than eight cakes were cut by the celebrator and every guest went home with souvenirs.

    In attendance were Lagos State Deputy Governor, Mrs Adejoke Orelope-Adefulire; wife of the Lagos State Governor, Dame Abimbola Fashola; Vintage Press Limited Executive Director, Finance and Administration, Mr Ade Odunewu; all LAWNA Executive Council Members; representatives of the Ondo State government; the Bible Society of Nigeria (BSN); Chairman, Osun State, Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) Elder Adelowo Adebiyi and elders and leaders of the church.

     

  • Destined to be unique

    Destined to be unique

    THEY conceived the idea six years ago when they met overseas at a function. Mr Mike Igbokwe (SAN) and Chief Godwin Obla thought it was time members of the University of Lagos (UNILAG) Law Class 1980/83 came together as a body and sold the idea to others. Their meeting at the International Bar Association (IBA) Conference in Singapore in 2007 has become a blessing of sorts to the set.

    Since its coming, the set has been promoting the good of their alma mater and the welfare of members. Its objectives are to promote professional cooperation and collaboration among members; to facilitate the highest standards of professional conduct and support the Law Faculty of their alma mater, in any way possible to make it a world class faculty.

    For members of the Class often referred to as “an unstoppable, unique and accomplished set,” March 22 to 24 will remain memorable.

    They gathered at the Hotel Presidential in Port Harcourt, the Rivers State capital, to celebrate their sixth the annual reunion.

    The set can boast of being among the best in the profession.

    Members of the set has produced 20 high court judges, four professors, seven Senior Advocates of Nigeria (SANs), a senator, a member of the House of Representatives, four attorneys-general, three permanent secretaries and solicitors-general, army general, banks’ directors, top government officials, pastors, traditional rulers and Resident Electoral Commissioners, among others.

    Their meeting in the Garden City attracted eminent personalities.

    The group meets every year to cement the relationship which began over 33years ago.

    The local organising committee headed by Hon Frank Okwor ensured that everybody had a good time.

    The reunion started with a cocktail on March 22. On March 23, there was a business meeting where issues affecting members and the alma mater were discussed. Awards for commitment were bestowed on some members.

    The group also decided where subsequent reunions would hope. The next one hold in Abuja. It will be the turn of Las Vegas in the United States (US) in 2015; Abeokuta in Ogun State, 2016 and Benin, Edo State 2017.

    The high point was the election of Justice Adedotun Onibokun as President; Mr. Omoruyi Omonuwa (SAN), Vice-president; and Mr. Jide Owootori, General Secretary, among others. Senator Effiong Bob retained his position as Chairman, Board of Trustees.

    An elated Justice Onibokun thanked her ex-classmates for the confidence reposed in her.

    “We won’t disappoint you. We will keep the flag flying as we throw open our doors for words of advice,” she said.

    Business meeting over, the train moved to the massive premises of a member of the local organising committee, Mrs Onimim Jacks where they were treated to sumptuous meals. On Saturday evening, the Banquet Hall of the Hotel Presidential where the dinner was held became an Haven of many colours.

    There was no dull moment as the Kikali Cultural Troupe added flavour to the evening.

    Justice Adolphus Karibi-Whyte, who chaired the occasion, congratulated the alumni.

    Justice Adolphous Karibi-Whyte, a pioneer lecturer of UNILAG in 1962, who quit teaching almost 40 years ago, praised the alumni for their comradeship.

    “The Faculty of law, University of Lagos was a huge one but I admire the fraternity of a people to hold on. There is a lot of merit in what I call self-esteem and if you can keep it, you can justify it. UNILAG has survived and I am happy to be associated with you. As the only class that is organising this meeting yearly, I implore you to sustain it because if other groups can emulate you, it will improve physical infrastructure and learning,” he said.

    A former lecturer, Prof Emeritus Adedokun Adeyemi said the class needed no prophets to say it will be prosperous.

    “During my interaction with you in your undergraduate days, I was able to assess the level of an individual and a group as a whole. The comradeship had existed since your school days and we noted it. I have been in that faculty since 1967 and I am proud that you have made me proud. You are what you are today because of your commitment and dedication to work. You have not reached your pinnacles as I pray that you move from glory to glory. Your set was unique both at entry and exit. You have been the most prominent set in terms of contribution to the upliftment of the faculty,” Adeyemi said.

    President, Nigerian Bar Association (NBA) Mr Okey Wali, the special guest of honour, described the set as the genesis of the Law School Class of ’84, which now has a reunion.

    “I want to congratulate your teachers for being fulfilled as they have seen you excel,” Wali said.

    Senator Bob said it was fulfilling to see his ex-classmates excel.

    We met 33 years ago and we have been interacting as brothers and sisters. We continue to do this yearly, renewing our acquaintance, discussing the needs of the Faculty of Law of University of Lagos and the areas where we can contribute or uplift the faculty. That is the essence of this annual reunion and we have been doing that in the past six years,” he said.

    Another former lecturer, Prof. Isaac Agbede said sitting among this unique set makes him fulfilled.

    He said: “You came out and attained national and international reputation for yourself. I don’t think the sky will be the limit of your achievements. When a group becomes unstoppable, it is because it has distinguished itself as a product that is set to conquer the world like Harvard. That is what you have made yourself as products of UNILAG.”

    He urged the group to change its name to “Class of 1980-1983 Unique” because it is unstoppable.

     

  • A preacher’s tale

    Senior Pastor of Love of Christ Churches International, Prophet Niyi Olowoporoku has celebrated his 47th birthday in Lagos. NNEKA NWANERI reports.

    At 17, Prophet Niyi Olowoporoku left his father and mother for Jesus. Since then, he has been serving in the vineyard of the Lord.

    Last Friday, the shepherd was celebrated by his flock at Lisabi Hall, Ebute-Metta, Lagos Mainland when he turned 47.

    It was a two-in-one celebration – the birthday of the General Overseer of Love of Christ Church and Good Friday.

    As early as 7am, the church’s faithful gathered to sing, praise and give thanks to God.

    The congregation eulogised the celebrator and talked of his fatherly gesture.

    For Mrs Dauda, she was in tears as she told the congregation of how the man of God had turned her home into bliss. “We listen to your messages on radio and my family is always in joy. I used to be a trouble maker in the neighbourhood, but now, your messages have changed me.”

    There was a brief sermon from Pastor Sunday Ephraim, a childhood friend of the celebrator. Pastor Ephraim said he knew Olowoporoku since their teen days adding that his experiences show that there is hope for everyone.

    “He began his ministration from a humble beginning and was raised by God who gave him a voice that has liberated many today. His bed was a pew inside the church, where mosquitoes feasted on him,” he said.

    The cleric enjoined the audience to go after God as a family and a nation by choosing the path of righteousness.

    After the sermon, a large multi-coloured cake was wheeled into the hall. It was decorated with small cupcakes and bottles of wine placed on the table. The celebrator cut his birthday cake with members of the church who came out in batches to pose for photographs with him.

    Prophet Olowoporoku thanked the members for honouring him.

    He recalled his early days when his parents had given up on him having done a lot of atrocities.

    “I caused them pain so much that they renounced me and told me I was from the devil. Even though I was less than 17, I became a negative picture of humanity by painting the entire Ibadan town where I grew up red.

    “When I gave my life to Christ 30 years ago, I went round the neighbourhood begging for forgiveness from all and since I got arrested by God; my life has never been the same. God has given me a new value added life,” he said.

    The celebrator worked with the African Alliance Insurance Company, Ibadan, until he got his calling.