Renowned dancer and choreographer, Kaffy has advised parents to establish clear boundaries and educate their children about appropriate physical touch and personal space.
In a video posted on Instagram, Kaffy revealed that she experienced inappropriate behaviour from a trusted family friend when she was younger.
She said: “It happened right in front of people who trusted the person. At that age, I didn’t understand what was going on. But I knew something about it was wrong.”
Kaffy stressed that people who harm children often don’t fit the stereotype of a “monster” and may even be seen as caring or helpful.
“Many of them appear caring. They may be the ones who always want to help or be around the child. That’s why parents need to pay attention and set clear boundaries,” she said.
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She warned parents against being overly trusting of familiar figures, such as “favorite uncles” or “favorite aunties,” and urged them to teach their children that it’s okay to say “no” to unwanted touch or interactions, regardless of the adult’s identity.
“Parents need to be cautious of the favorite uncles, the favorite aunties, the favorite nannies, the favorite drivers. There needs to be boundaries. Many children face uncomfortable situations from people who are close to them,” she added.
The dancer also spoke out against making unnecessary comments about children’s bodies or giving physical affection without consent, emphasising that children have the right to their personal space and autonomy.
Kaffy encouraged parents to create safe emotional environments for their children and to recognise early signs of potential harm.
