Category: Family Health

  • Garden egg: The health benefits

    Unknown to most people, garden egg is one of the greatest food, in terms of health benefits, for pregnant women.

     

    Promotes weight loss

    Eating of eggplant especially the greenish type is beneficial in weight reduction because they contain low carbohydrates and calories essential for weight management.

    Overweight individuals who want to lose weight or those who wish to retain their normal body weight can add eggplant to their diet as well.

     

     Rich in antioxidants

    Anthocyaninsnasunin and flavonoids are important and powerful phytonutrients and antioxidants in eggplants that help to protect the body system and add many health-promoting benefits to the human body.

    Anthocyanins are responsible for the deep purple color of eggplants and also helps in preventing the development of cancer as well as other diseases that result in bacteria.

    Anthocyanins found in eggplants possess antioxidant properties that are responsible for protecting the whole body system.

     

    Rich in Vitamin B

    Garden egg is a natural source of vitamin B’s such as thiamin, niacin, B6 and pantothenic acid that helps the body in the proper use of fat and protein; and also contributes to the nervous system positively. It helps in brain development and also helps in making sure that the immune and nervous system works properly.

     

    Promotes healthy bone

    They contain a good amount of potent minerals such as folate, manganese, vitamin K, magnesium, vitamin C and copper that help in bone strengthening and general bone health.

    Consuming eggplant regularly is highly beneficial in preventing the risk of bone degradation and osteoporosis.  Garden egg also contains some amount of iron and calcium aids in reducing the chance of osteoporosis, thereby keeping your bones strong and healthy.

    Helps in digestion

    Garden eggs are fibrous fruits that help in proper food digestion and control of bowel movement. Due to this fiber content in the fruit, they reduce constipation and improve digestion.

    Garden eggs are believed to be one of the greatest sources of dietary fiber which is an essential element in any balanced diet.

     

    Good for pregnant women

    These fruits are packed with minerals, vitamins and other nutritional properties that play a key role during pregnancy.

    The properties in garden egg help both pregnant women and unborn children for healthy situational conditions.

    Garden eggs are also rich in folic acid which is beneficial to pregnant women. Folic acid protects infants from neural tube defects that do occur.

     

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    Prevents anemia

    Garden egg has been found to serve as a natural medicine for treating several health conditions such as bronchitis, colic (pain in the abdomen caused by obstruction of the intestine); stress relief, headache, and others, if consumed daily.

    Garden egg is a rich source of iron, which helps in increase in the red blood cell in the body, thereby aids in fighting against anemia or deficiency in iron.

     

    Prevents diabetes

    Garden eggs which are a source of soluble fiber and carbohydrates can help in the control and prevention of diabetes.

    Foods are rich in fiber and carbohydrates help in the regulation of blood sugar levels and glucose absorption.

     

    Maintains blood pressure levels

    Garden eggs contain a high amount of calcium, magnesium, potassium, and phosphorus. These minerals contained in it helps in maintaining electrolyte balance in our body.

    It aids in neutralizing sodium effects in the body, thereby controlling blood pressure levels.

    An antioxidant in garden eggs known as chlorogenic acid also helps in reducing cholesterol levels in the body.

     

    Prevents heart diseases

    Garden eggs are rich in vitamin B1 and B6 (thiamin and niacin). These vitamins are essential in the body for the proper functioning of the heart and cellular respiration. It’s rich in potassium also helps in blood pressure regulation.

    Vitamin B1 deficiency leads to cardiovascular problems. Therefore foods rich in vitamin B1 play a vital role in ensuring a healthy nervous system and improve the proper functioning of the cardiovascular.

    Vitamin B6 helps in maintaining a healthy nervous system. Consuming garden eggs can greatly help in preventing heart disorders.

    Source: finelib.com

     

  • God’s ultimate desire for your family (3)

    By Faith Oyedepo

    Dear Reader, you are welcome to another edition of this teaching series for the month. I have shown you some of God’s desires for your marriage which entails purity and God’s provision of favour and abundance for your home. Today, I shall be exploring the topic: Marriage Is for Better Living.

    Marriage was instituted for better living for mankind. It is not to bring hurts or constitute a hindrance. If you want your home and marriage to exhibit a better living, God must be at the centre of your heart and home. You have to be open to His Words and follow His instructions.

    The Bible says: And it shall come to pass, if thou shalt hearken diligently unto the voice of the Lord thy God, to observe and to do all his commandments which I command thee this day, that the Lord thy God will set thee on high above all nations of the earth: And all these blessings shall come on thee, and overtake thee, if thou shalt hearken unto the voice of the Lord thy God (Deuteronomy 28:1-2).

    God made man with a desire to please and follow His will as obtainable from scriptures. Many people want to eat the fruit of a happy and glorious home, but not many are willing to be obedient to the terms of the covenant. Without obedience, the fruit of a good home cannot be obtained. The Bible says: If ye be willing and obedient, ye shall eat the good of the land: (Isaiah 1:19)

    A good home is a possibility, but only those who are ready to obey the terms of the covenant can have access to it. There are some obedient people that are presently eating the fruit of a good, fulfilled marriage. You too can join them if you wish; God is no respecter of persons. Marriage is meant to be sweet, enjoyable and failure-proof. However, to enjoy this, God must be at the centre of your home.

    Family life originated from the Lord, so He alone can give you the kind of experience He has ordained for you in marriage. Countless people are having a near death experience in their family today.

    Some have had many wives and are still dissatisfied. Others are separated, while some live a cat and mouse life, wishing that someone would deliver them from it. Success in marriage is not by luck, you have to programme yourself for the type of success you desire.

    As a born again child of God, enjoying a better family life is your birthright. It is God’s will and desire for you to enjoy an exciting marriage, home, life and family.

    So, apart from making God the centre of your family, you must also tell yourself continuously that family life is meant for better living and you must obtain this better living in your home. It is meant to build you and not break you. The Bible says: Two are better than one… (Ecclesiastes 4:9).

    Family life was created to help man and not hinder him; it is not meant to make life worse. If that is what you have been seeing in homes around you and may be yours, I declare to you that it is not what God desires for you. Whether you are a father, mother, husband, wife, child or relation, say boldly with sincerity from your heart that you are a help to others in the home.

    Marriage is meant to bring you satisfaction. You should liken yourself to a tree, which could serve several purposes such as being converted into paper, firewood, rubber and used to build a house etc. If you build your depth in marriage and profitably tap from the resources therein, you become a man and woman of many parts; useful in many areas of life.

    Don’t accept less than what God has purposed for you. Don’t allow the devil to cheat you into believing that a better family life and marriage are not for you to enjoy. Your family can still stand out; your situation can still change. The breath of life can still find its way into your family, if you will co-operate with God.

    Read Also: God’s ultimate desire for your family (2)

    One way to enjoy the better living ordained for your marriage is to discover your God-ordained place in the home and operate within your perimeter. As a wife/mother, God has placed you beside that man and those children, so you can help them.

    As a husband/father, God has placed you beside that woman and children, so you can help them, be an example to them and bring them up in the right way. It is not the teachers’ responsibility to train your children. Children, God put you in that family to be a blessing (Psalm 127:3).

    Are you a source of pleasure or pain to your family? If you are about getting married, are you ready to be a help to your mate? Or are you just looking for someone to service your needs? If you are not ready to be a helper, retrace your steps.

    To be a help transcends all areas of life. If one party is faltering, the other needs to lift him or her up. The Bible says: For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow… (Ecclesiastes 4:10).

    No matter how much your success, your connection or family members will also need to succeed. If you ignore their progress, you may eventually be faced with mending their failures. You are also meant to be a financial helper to your family.

    Money has divided many families. Don’t let it bring division into yours. Ensure that members of your family stand as helpers of one another in all aspects of life. However, being a helper comes with grace, which can be received when you are born again.

    To be born again means accepting Jesus as Lord and personal Saviour of your life. You can do this by saying this prayer in faith: Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. I accept You as my Lord and personal Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for delivering me from sin and satan to serve the living God and thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.

    Congratulations! If you prayed this simple prayer of faith with me, you are now born again and a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    With this, you are guaranteed all-round rest and peace in Jesus’ Name! Call or write to share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org, 07026385437 OR 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • God’s ultimate desire for your family (2)

    By Faith Oyedepo

     

    Dear Reader, you are welcome to the second series of this teaching. May the almighty God enrich you as you pay attention to His Word in Jesus’ name! I told you last week that God’s glorious desire for your marriage rides on the foundation of your purity.

    Keeping the marriage bed undefiled paves the way for a fulfilling marital experience, void of guilt and shame. Today, I will be looking at Divine favour, as God’s ultimate desire for you.

    A fulfilling marriage is a function of God’s favour.  Once your marriage is fashioned according to God’s Word, you procure His favour, which is often irreversible. The Bible says: Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord (Proverbs 18:22).

    God’s favour upon a man is what distinguishes him from others. Even men are compelled to favour whoever incurs the favour of God. This favour comes when your ways, including your marriage pleases God. The Bible says: When a man’s ways please the Lord, he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him (Proverbs 16:7).

    When you secure God’s favour, you progress and succeed effortlessly in life. Success in life and marriage is not a function of your smartness or connections, but a function of God’s favour, because the Bible says: The Lord maketh poor, and maketh rich: he bringeth low, and lifteth up. He raiseth up the poor out of the dust, and lifteth up the beggar from the dunghill, to set them among princes, and to make them inherit the throne of glory: for the pillars of the earth are the Lord’s, and he hath set the world upon them(1 Samuel 2:7-8).

    The favour of God elevates you to greater heights that qualify you to be envied by men. When you walk hand-in-hand with your spouse, people see the glory of God upon you; which brings honour and opening of great doors of opportunities. Singles will desire your type of marriage, because of the good hand of the Lord upon your marriage. God’s favour also secures for you liftings and promotions, which also affect your financial and material prosperity.

    God created marriage to give man an easy access to His favour, so that he can live a sweatless life. This shall be your portion, in Jesus’ Name!

    Marriage generally gives you a sense of accomplishment. It is your passage from one phase of life to another; it is a step towards your desired glorious future. Every young man or woman has a dream or vision of the kind of home he or she would like to have.

    No one envisions troubles or divorce for him or herself. Everyone dreams of a joyful, peaceful and fruitful home. God created marriage for the fulfilment of these dreams and aspirations. You will not be disappointed in Jesus’ Name!

    One of the blessings that God’s favour secures for you is abundance. The first family that ever existed was born into abundance. The Bible says: And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth. And God said, Behold, I have given you every herb bearing seed, which is upon the face of all the earth, and every tree, in the which is the fruit of a tree yielding seed; to you it shall be for meat (Genesis 1:28-29).

    Abundance talks of surplus, prosperity, plenty, increase etc. The Lord’s desire for your home is abundance. Prosperity is meant to be your portion not only in your office, Church, or with friends, but most especially in your home.

    God has said concerning your home that it shall be: a watered garden, and like a spring of water, whose waters fail not (Isaiah 58:11). This means you will not be short of provisions at home both spiritually and physically. It is written: And thou shalt have goats’ milk enough for thy food, for the food of thy household, and for the maintenance for thy maidens (Proverbs 27:27).

    God has not changed His mind concerning you. He wants your home not only to reflect increase, blessing and joy but to reflect holiness, righteousness, grace and peace.  Both sides of the coin are necessary; you can’t have one side without the other. You can’t desire the Lord’s prosperity and increase in your home and reject His holiness and righteousness.

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    Abraham, the father of faith, enjoyed abundance and: …was VERY RICH in cattle, in silver and in gold (Genesis 13:2 Emphasis mine). But how did the Lord bless Abraham?  Did he just wake up one day and saw riches, cattle, men and maid servants, etc.?  No!  The Lord was able to bless Abraham and his household because he fulfilled a major requirement (Genesis 18:17-19).

    The Lord’s will and desire is to see you and your household swim in abundance but are you willing to fulfil the requirements? God can’t afford to bless some men financially because they just use the money to acquire more wives and begin to do things that cause their household to turn from God.

    It was Abraham’s diligence in commanding his children (household) in God’s ways that secured abundance for him and generations after. He was not only an example of what the Lord required. God was able to say, “I know him.

    He will make sure everyone follows his example. In your home, can you boldly say others can follow your lifestyle?  Can they look at how you live and see God’s glory, holiness and commendation?  If you can’t answer this questions positively then something is wrong somewhere.

    You need to follow the instructions you have heard God speak concerning your home, family, marriage, parents before you can see His promises come to pass in your life.  For almost every instruction God gives, there is a reward because for almost every reward or promise of God there is a responsibility.

    Abundance in your family is God’s desire for you.  However, it must be accompanied by a God-fearing lifestyle for not only you but your family. The first step to abundance is God’s presence in your heart and home. Make this your decision today by saying this prayer in faith: Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. I accept You as my Lord and personal Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for delivering me from sin and satan to serve the living God and thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.

    Congratulations! If you prayed this simple prayer of faith with me, you are now born again and a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    With this, you are guaranteed all-round rest and peace in Jesus’ Name! Call or write to share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org, 07026385437 OR 08141320204.

     

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

     

  • God’s ultimate desire for your family (1)

    By Faith Oyedepo

     

    Dear Reader, special New Year greetings to you! It is my prayer that pleasant surprises begin to spring forth in your life and endeavours.

    This year, your marriage, career and family will receive new wine from above that will terminate every form of anxiety! Throughout this series for the month, I shall be exploring the topic: God’s Ultimate Desire for Your Family. However, in this edition, I will be dwelling on: Keeping Yourself Pure.

    God is specially interested in your marriage and family. He has made everything available for you to enjoy, including a successful home (1 Timothy 6:17).

    It is God’s desire that His children have the best on earth and in life. God desires your marriage to be peaceful and fulfilling.

    But, God’s intent for your marriage can only be actualised when you keep yourself pure. Purity entails a state of not being contaminated with anything that pollutes you spirit, soul and body.

    To be pure means to be without evil or sin. The Bible says: Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled… (Hebrews 13:4). The word ‘undefiled’ there simply means kept pure. You must, therefore, ensure that you keep the marriage bed pure to enjoy the honour in marriage.

    You may ask, how possible can this be? You must understand that if this was impossible, God won’t tell you to do it. Purity is not restricted to an age grade or gender or a specific period of time.

    It is required that every child of God walk in purity at all times. As the Bible says: The eyes of the Lord are in every place, beholding the evil and the good (Proverbs 15:3).

    As singles, to enjoy honour in your marriage, you must lay a good foundation for it by keeping yourself pure. Parents, begin to train your children against pre-marital sex.

    It does not matter whether it is acceptable in the society or not.  If you say, well, God will forgive me after doing it, what about the scar? Remember the Bible says: What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? (Romans 6:1)

    The truth is: Sex is the seal of the marriage covenant. Any sexual relationship engaged in outside marriage, breaks the seal and attracts God’s punishment.

    Therefore, you must never get yourself involved in it. However, if you have already defiled the bed, God is always merciful and faithful to forgive if you ask Him sincerely (Psalm 86:5; 1 John 1:9).

    Many people get emotionally distorted when they defile the marriage bed to the extent that it disturbs their marital life.

    You can save your marriage from torments by keeping your life pure. When you defile the marriage bed, you are behaving like a beast and whatever happens to a beast can happen to you at any time.

    Therefore, you must make a change in the right direction in the name of Jesus Christ!

    Give no room to the devil if your soul is actually precious to you.  When you get into defiling the marriage bed, whether you are single or married, it is because your soul is not precious to you.

    God made man with certain physiological and emotional needs and marriage provides the best fulfilment for them. Physiologically, man needs sex.

    It is part of his physical nature, and the satisfaction of that urge is permitted only within the parameters of marriage. God honours the physical union of a man and his wife by ensuring that they find fulfilment in each other.

    This is why He frowns at adultery and fornication. 1 Corinthians 7:2 says: Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

    This is not to say that young men and women should rush into marriage just for the sole aim of satisfying their sexual urge. That would make them nothing but bedmates.

    The love and excitement in such a relationship never last and that is not God’s plan or purpose for marriage. As a single man or lady, you are expected to control your urge until you locate a suitable partner with whom you are ready to spend the rest of your life with and are legally married to.

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    The truth is: if you cannot tame your sexual drive while single, you probably will not be able to exercise control even when you are married. Flaunting God’s purpose in this area of marriage can be very costly to your home and destiny. Therefore, don’t do it!

    Refuse to fall victim, if you truly value your glorious destiny. Don’t say you want to earn yourself a living by whoremongering because God will judge those who do that. Stop it!  Don’t wait for the fire of God to come upon you, plead for His mercy, call upon Him now that He is ready to hear you.

    The Bible says: I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service (Romans 12:1). In other words, the presentation of your body unto the Almighty God as a living sacrifice is your reasonable service unto God.

    Any service done unto God without your body being a living sacrifice is not acceptable.  It does not matter what you do and the volume of money you give in church every day.

    If your body is not kept pure, that service is not acceptable unto God.  Whether single or married, illicit sexual affairs render your service to God un-rewardable and will deprive you of enjoying the honour He has destined for you in marriage.

    God is much more interested in your person than your money or what you can do.  When your person is acceptable unto God, then your service will become acceptable.

    Receive grace to practice the Word of God so that you can truly enjoy the honour destined for you in marriage in Jesus’ name!

    If you are not born again and you want to accept Jesus as your Lord and personal Saviour, then say this prayer in faith: Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. I accept You as my Lord and personal Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for delivering me from sin and satan to serve the living God and thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.

    Congratulations! If you prayed this simple prayer of faith with me, you are now born again and a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    With this, you are guaranteed all-round rest and peace in Jesus’ Name! Call or write to share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org, 07026385437 OR 08141320204.

     

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

     

  • Health benefits of apples

    Our Reporter

     

    You don’t have to be a nutritionist to realize that apples are healthy. Not only do they come in their own packaging – meaning you can eat the skin – they are also full of healthy nutrients. The healthy reason to eat them are endless 

     

    Whiter, healthier teeth

    Apples won’t replace your toothbrush, but biting and chewing an apple stimulates the production of saliva in your mouth, reducing tooth decay by lowering the levels of bacteria

     

    Avoid Alzheimer’s

    A study on the benefits of apples shows that drinking apple juice could keep Alzheimer’s away and fight the effects of aging on the brain.

     

    Curb all sorts of cancers

    Scientists from the American Association for Cancer Research, among others, agree that the consumption of flavonol-rich apples could help reduce your risk of developing pancreatic cancer by up to 23 percent. Researchers at Cornell University have identified several compounds — triterpenoids — in apple peel that have potent anti-growth activities against cancer cells in the liver, colon and breast.

     

    Decrease your risk of diabetes

    Women who eat apples — at least one a day — are 28 percent less likely to develop type 2 diabetes than those who don’t eat apples. The reason this is a health benefit of apples is because this fruit is loaded with soluble fibre, the key to blunting blood sugar swings.

     

     Reduce cholesterol

    The soluble fibre found in apples binds with fats in the intestine, which translates into lower cholesterol levels and a healthier you.

     

    Get a healthier heart

    An extensive body of research has linked high soluble fibre intake with a slower buildup of cholesterol-rich plaque in arteries. The phenolic compound found in apple skins also prevents the cholesterol that gets into your system from solidifying on your artery walls. When plaque builds inside your arteries, it reduces blood flow to your heart, leading to coronary artery disease.

     

    Prevent gallstones

    This is one of the apple benefit is eye opening. Gallstones form when there’s too much cholesterol in your bile for it to remain as a liquid, so it solidifies. They are particularly prevalent in the obese

     

    Beat diarrhea and constipation

    Whether you can’t go to the bathroom or you just can’t stop, fibre found in apples can help. Fibre can either pull water out of your colon to keep things moving along when you’re backed up, or absorb excess water from your stool to slow your bowels down.

     

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    Neutralize irritable bowel syndrome

    Irritable bowel syndrome is characterized by constipation, diarrhea, and abdominal pain and bloating. To control these symptoms doctors recommend staying away from dairy and fatty foods.

     

    Control your weight

    This is one of the health benefits of apples most of us are willing to get. Many health problems are associated with being overweight, among them heart disease, stroke, high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes and sleep apnea.

     

    Detoxify your liver

    Your liver is responsible for clearing these toxins out of your body. Many doctors are skeptical of fad detox diets, saying they have the potential to do more harm than good. Luckily, one of the best – and easiest – things you can eat to help detoxify your liver is fruits, like apples

     

     Boost your immune system

    Red apples contain an antioxidant called quercetin. Recent studies have found that quercetin can help boost and fortify your immune system, especially when you’re stressed out. That’s one of the most unexpected health benefits of apples.

     

    Prevent cataracts

    Though past studies have been divided on the issue, recent long-term studies suggest that people who have a diet rich in fruits that contain antioxidants — like apples — are 10 to 15 percent less likely to develop cataracts. So, as you can see, apple benefits are endless!

    Source: besthealthmag.ca

     

     

  • Setting a solid foundation for your home (4)

    With Pastor Faith Oyedepo

     

    Dear Reader,

    You are welcome to the last segment of this teaching for the month. I believe the previous teachings have not only been a blessing to you, but to your family as well.

    It is my prayer that your spiritual life will be engraced to be more effective and you will gain more command by this, in Jesus’ name!

    A successful marriage requires commitment to one’s spouse. No amount of prayer, fasting, and “sleeping” in church can take the place of commitment in marriage.

    Marriage is not a temporary arrangement, but a lifelong commitment.  If this is true, you may wonder why the divorce rate is so high, even among Christians.  The reason is that many couples are not committed to each other.

    Commitment is the framework on which a marriage is built. A man and his wife must, therefore, be totally committed to each other spiritually, physically, emotionally and otherwise, and this will in turn bring security.

    A successful marriage must be exclusive, involving one man and one woman, in one lifetime relationship. Each spouse must be committed to “forsake all others”.

    The home, like any other organisation needs to be managed. It has to be ruled and its affairs controlled and directed in order to find fulfilment and joy in it.

    A glorious home is not a product of wishes, fasting or prayer. It is only attained by operating in the wisdom of the most High God.

    It is not enough to build one; it has to be sustained and maintained also. This week, I will be teaching on the missing link between couples.

    Time Investment

    Many couples have time for themselves within the first few weeks of marriage and afterwards never do. This becomes even worse when they start having children in the family.

    This is the reason many marriages that start off so sweetly fail, as a couples who think they know each other find out that they really don’t.

    Investing time with your spouse will help build trust, confidence, peace, knowledge and a better understanding in your relationship. It will help you know each other better.

    The true nature of man appreciates being noticed because man is a living thing. There is nothing as hurting as when one party is neglected in a marriage.

    Many men just see their wives as a good cook, cleaner, mother of their children and keeper of the home and nothing more.

    This is so, because time has not been invested to know who their wives really are. 1 Peter 3:7 admonishes: Likewise, ye husbands dwell with them (wives) according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

    Every man should invest time enough to be knowledgeable about his wife.  You must spend quality time with your wife so much that you know her taste for things like toiletries, wears, colours and her likes and dislikes.

    The woman, on the other hand, should invest quality time enough to know her husband’s taste for things too.  You must be concerned about his well-being at work, business or career, his success and professional accomplishments.

    Usually, while a man craves respect from his wife first and then others, the woman’s self-worth is in place when she is loved and appreciated, first by her husband and then others.

    Secondly, time must be invested on children to meet their physical, emotional and spiritual needs.  A child is a gift from God, a blessing to the family and a unique blend of husband and wife (Psalm 127:3).

    This is why time must be created for them too.  This will build love, security and trust. The best environment to raise a child is at home and as parents, God mandates us to fulfil this task.

    Once you learn to order your priorities aright, you will find that the time invested in meeting their needs will not be in vain.

    The time invested in building a solid foundation for those children is not wasted. Even when they leave home and are in a place where you cannot see them physically, the knowledge of what they have been taught becomes a guide.

    Invest with them regular time such as play time, homework and assignment time; be available to answer their questions and teach them to seek after the Word of God.

    Wife, if your husband is the busy type, use the wisdom of God to get him to create time for the children.  Time is a very important thing you should invest on your children, not money.

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    For instance, there was a time when our children would come to me with questions that I felt their father should hear and be the one to answer.

    I would walk them to his study door and leave them to go in and meet him. Afterwards, they would come back excited and smiling, having had their questions answered.

    In time, they could confidently go to him and any time they entered his study, he would set them at ease by asking, “How was school today? What did you do at break-time?  Did you eat your school lunch?”  This type of intimacy and open communication was very useful for their emotional stability.

    Finally, time should be invested for your parents, relations and in-laws but this should be done with wisdom.

    The following are the things men and women would like to find in a spouse:

    What a woman wants in a husband

    • Someone who will spend time with her and talk with her.
    • Someone who will be tender with her.
    • Someone who will be her spiritual leader.
    • Someone who will be a good father to her children.
    • Someone who will be a good provider.

    What a man wants in a wife

    • Someone he can have fun with!
    • An interesting and exciting sex partner.
    • A good homemaker, and a good mother to his children.
    • A financially responsible partner.
    • A wife who will respect and admire him.

    Grace to hear and do these becomes available when you accept Jesus Christ and become born again. If you want to accept Jesus as your Lord and personal Saviour, say this prayer in faith: Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. I accept You as my Lord and personal Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for delivering me from sin and satan to serve the living God and thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.

    Congratulations! If you prayed this simple prayer of faith with me, you are born again and now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily; obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    With this, you are guaranteed all-round rest and peace in Jesus’ name! Call or write to share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org, 07026385437 OR 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building a Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • Benefits of watermelon

    Our Reporter

     

    Despite the popular belief that watermelon is just water and sugar, watermelon is actually a nutrient dense food. It provides high levels of vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants and just a small number of calories.

    Watermelons have become synonymous with summer and picnics, and for good reason. Their refreshing quality and sweet taste help to combat the heat and provide a guilt-free, low maintenance dessert.

    Along with cantaloupe and honeydew, watermelons are a member of the botanical family Cucurbitaceae. There are five common types of watermelon: seeded, seedless, mini (also known as personal), yellow, and orange.

    Fast facts on watermelon:

    • The watermelon has been cultivated for thousands of years, with evidence stretching back to the Ancient Egyptians – who were expert cultivars.
    • Over 90 percent of a watermelon is water.
    • According to the Food and Agriculture Organisation of the United Nations (FAO), China is the top producer, with 75 million produced in 2014.
    • Watermelon is thought to aid conditions including asthma, cancer, and inflammation.

    Benefits

    Watermelon is a fruit, and has many of the associated benefits including weight loss and energy levels.

    Consuming fruits and vegetables of all kinds has long been associated with a reduced risk of many lifestyle-related health conditions.

    Many studies have suggested that increasing consumption of plant foods like watermelon decreases the risk of obesity and overall mortality, diabetes, and heart disease.

    Other benefits of the watermelon include promoting a healthy complexion and hair, increased energy, and overall lower weight.

    Asthma prevention

    The risks for developing asthma are lower in people who consume a high amount of certain nutrients. One of these nutrients is vitamin C, found in many fruits and vegetables, including watermelon.

    Blood pressure

    A study published by the American Journal of Hypertension found that watermelon extract supplementation improved the health of the circulatory system in obese middle-aged adults with prehypertension or stage 1 hypertension.

    Diets rich in lycopene – found in watermelon – may help protect against heart disease.

    Cancer

    As an excellent source of antioxidants, including vitamin C, watermelon can help combat the formation of free radicals known to cause cancer. Lycopene intake has been linked with a decreased risk of prostate cancer in several studies.

    Digestion and regularity

    Watermelon, because of its water and fiber content, helps to prevent constipation and promote regularity for a healthy digestive tract.

    Hydration

    Made up of 92 percent water and full of important electrolytes, watermelon is a great snack to have on hand during the hot summer months to prevent dehydration. It can also be frozen in slices for a tasty cold Popsicle-style snack.

    Inflammation

    Choline – found in watermelon – is a very important and versatile nutrient; it aids our bodies in sleep, muscle movement, learning, and memory. Choline also helps to maintain the structure of cellular membranes, aids in the transmission of nerve impulses, assists in the absorption of fat, and reduces chronic inflammation.

    Muscle soreness

    Watermelon and watermelon juice have been shown to reduce muscle soreness and improve recovery time following exercise in athletes. Researchers believe this is likely due to the amino acid L-citrulline contained in watermelon.

    Skin

    Watermelon is great for the skin because it contains vitamin A, a nutrient required for sebum production, which keeps hair moisturized. Vitamin A is also necessary for the growth of all bodily tissues, including skin and hair.

     

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    Adequate intake of vitamin C is also needed for the building and maintenance of collagen, which provides structure to skin and hair. Additionally, watermelon contributes to overall hydration, which is vital for healthy looking skin and hair.

     

    Source: healthline.com

     

  • Setting a solid foundation for your home (2)

    Dear Reader,  I welcome you to this teaching, in Jesus’ name! The quality of success you will ever achieve in any given venture hinges on the quality of the foundation you lay. You cannot enjoy a glorious marital life without paying attention to the foundation you build for your marriage. Last week, I taught on what a solid marital foundation is and that for your marriage to last, it must be founded on God. In this edition, I will be looking at understanding your spouse as one of the foundations for a solid union.

    As male and female partners in marriage, we must understand and appreciate the peculiarities which make up our personalities. Your understanding of your spouse is very important in becoming a good partner.  For you to have a stable home, you need to understand your husband or wife. You must get to know that everything about your spouse is unique. There are no two people on planet earth that are exactly the same. You are unique and peculiar; your spouse and children are equally unique and peculiar, fashioned to fit a particular purpose.  You are not a carbon-copy of anyone; you are an original and so is your spouse.  You and your spouse are wonderfully and fearfully made (Psalm 139:14). You must understand your spouse if you must enjoy a stable family.  Understand his or her background, his or her likes and dislikes, what makes him or her happy and what affects his or her mood.

    For those who are yet to be married, before you say, “Yes I do’ to any man or lady on the altar, ask yourself, “How much of him or her do I really know?”  Someone met me some years back, who had only been married for three months and both of them were already so fed up that they were ready for divorce.  I asked a simple question, “How much of your spouse did you know before you got married?” I was amazed at the next-to-nothing knowledge of the spouse this person had. No wonder in three months, their marriage had technically broken down. If not for divine intervention, that would have ended their marriage with all of its consequent effects.

    Every man should be knowledgeable about his wife and the wife about her husband. Know your likes and dislikes, preferences, choices, etc. It is common knowledge that men and women do not have the same needs. A man derives his self-worth from a sense of respect, recognition and reputation, while a woman wants to be appreciated, loved and praised. Failure to know how to satisfy each other’s needs might be a problem to your relationship.

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    To enhance the understanding of your spouse, two things must be in place:

    1. You must be sensitive: Never walk around with your eyes closed. Your mind is a sound mind; be sensitive.
    2. Communicate effectively: Communication is the life of any relationship. Learn to communicate effectively with your spouse and when you know how to do this, it will help you understand who your spouse is. You need to ask questions. The disciples of Jesus were around Him; they didn’t only listen to His teachings. Whatever they didn’t understand they always asked and Jesus never told them to “shut up”, He always answered their questions.  So, rather than assume to understand what your spouse is saying, ask questions such as, “How about this area? How about that area of your life?”  Communicate so you can have a better understanding.  And when communication is effective, you will become a good spouse.  Understanding is required to have an outstanding marriage.

    Wisdom – The Principal Thing

    Wisdom is the principal tool for securing peace in the home. The Bible says: Wisdom is the principal thing… (Proverbs 4:7). Both the man and the woman in the home need to constantly ask God for wisdom in handling the day-to-day affairs of the home. Most times, what people call affliction in their home is nothing but ignorance. The treatments for ignorance are wisdom and understanding which enhance peace in the home.  In fact, the Bible says: Through wisdom is an house builded, and by understanding it is established (Proverbs 24:3). Also, James 1:5 says: If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and unbraided not, and it shall be given him. Wisdom tells you when to talk, when to keep quiet, what to say and the right time to say it, where to go and at what time.  Do you know it is possible to say the right thing but at the wrong time and thereby jeopardizing the peace in the home? I pray for a fresh baptism of the wisdom of God upon your life today, in Jesus’ name!

    Compliment Your Spouse

    One other way to nurture your relationship is by an often neglected key, and that is compliment. Every human being loves to be praised either for what he/she has done or simply for who he/she is. However, the key is to locate the good qualities in your spouse and focus on it. Then express your appreciation for those good qualities by the words of your mouth. Learn to show appreciation for both small and great acts of kindness. You can also show appreciation by giving little gifts. Make room for praise in your home. Praise God always and compliment your husband or wife and your marriage will be a heaven on earth!

    In all, you must understand that you need Jesus to achieve anything worthwhile in your home. If you want to accept Jesus as your Lord and personal Saviour, then say this prayer in faith: Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. I accept You as my Lord and personal Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for delivering me from sin and satan to serve the living God and thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.

    Congratulations! If you prayed this simple prayer of faith with me, you are born again and now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily; obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21). With this, you are guaranteed all-round rest and peace in Jesus’ name! Call or write to share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org, 07026385437 OR 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building a Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

     

  • Marriage: A garden of treasures (3)

    Pastor Faith Oyedepo

    Marriage is not a trap; it was designed by God to make life great for man.  It is for good, better and best.  Many are scared of entering into marriage because they see it as an instrument of stagnation.  Marriage is meant to advance, increase and promote you. It is not a necessary evil as you may have heard and believed.  Marriage is designed to make life complete for you.  A bachelor may say, “But life is good for me now.” No matter the kind of wonderful experience you may be having now, the Bible says in Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 that: Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.  For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.  Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him.  This is a total package for better living!

    I used to be scared by certain marriage vows I hear couples chant on their wedding day.  They say such things as: “I so and so get into wedlock with you, for better for worse, in sickness and health….”  I saw the ignorance of the statements as the intending couples chant the so-called marriage vows, because marriage is not designed to be “for better for worse”, but “for better for best!”  That is why Deuteronomy 32:30 says: How should one chase a thousand and two put ten thousand to flight? Matthew 18:19 also says: Again I say unto you, that if two of you shall agree on earth as touching anything that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven. Your marriage garden has the treasures of double victory!

    One common treasure in any healthy garden that is well cared for is healthy fruits.  Marriage fruitfulness is a guaranteed treasure in your marriage garden. God Himself commanded this to being, just as He commanded creation to be. Immediately after He conducted the first wedding ever in Genesis 1:28, He said: Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion.

    Every good thing in life has a price; there is always what to do to get what you want. In the search for increase, some bypass the proper channel and look for other ways of getting speedy increase. However, any genuine increase that will last in life must have its source in God. Increase, whether in your health, finances, family life or family peace, must come from God. Unless God is the source of your increase, it will not last. The Bible says: I have planted, Apollos watered; but God gave the increase (1 Corinthians 3:6).

    Before God can bring about increases in any area of your life, there are two basic things that are mentioned in that scripture that you must do.

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              I have PLANTED…. The first step to increase is to plant the seed, which you desire to increase. A good illustration of this process is in farming. Before a farmer receives a harvest, the kind of seed he wants increased is planted in prepared ground. Likewise, the kind of increase you desire to see in your life right now will determine what you should plant.

    Perhaps you have planted in times past and you cannot see increases coming your way, it could be that the seeds died of lack of watering (speaking the right words). Don’t be discouraged, for your time of increase is on the way. The Chinese bamboo tree is an unusual tree you can learn from. After being planted, it is watered for four years without it showing any increase. It may even appear dead. However, the watering process must be consistently done for four years and in the fifth year, the tree would grow to a height of 90 feet within 5 weeks to the surprise of everybody. Who says God does not answer prayers? He will grant your desired increase, but you must not give up. Quitters don’t win and winners don’t quit!

    Though unfruitfulness is a problem plaguing many marriages today, I want you to know that your marriage was designed for fruitfulness.  It should be a natural blessing, addition and favour from God to you in your marriage garden.  Everything He created came to being and is still in existence today.  God will neither lie nor change.  Also, He’s not a respecter of persons but of His Word (Ecclesiastes 3:14).  His counsel stands sure forever (Psalm 33:11). If He said, “Let there be light” and there was light, then when He said, “Be fruitful”, you must be fruitful.

    No biological or any other report from man has the power to keep your marriage garden fruitless.  Mark 10:27 says: With men it is impossible, but not with God: for with God all things are possible.  Disabuse your mind of every scientific explanation.  Trust God by holding Him to His Word and you shall receive a miracle.  Your marriage garden was meant to bear treasure fruits as written in Deuteronomy 7:13-14.  Instead of mourning and weeping over negative reports, wipe your tears and start enriching your mind with the covenant rights of your marriage garden.  Choose to walk in the knowledge of the revealed truth and you will soon find out that no force can hold you down anymore.

    In case you are not yet born again, this is another opportunity for you to do so today. If you want to overcome satanic loopholes in your family this year, don’t miss this golden opportunity. You can become born again by confessing your sins and accepting Jesus as your Saviour and Lord. If you are ready for this new birth experience, please say this prayer: Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. I accept You as my Lord and personal Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for delivering me from sin and satan to serve the living God and thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.

    Congratulations! If you prayed this simple prayer of faith with me, you are born again and now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily; obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21). With this, you are guaranteed all-round rest and peace in Jesus’ name! Call or write to share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org, 07026385437 or 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building a Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

     

  • Malaria: The drugs we use

    With two hundred million people in the most malarial part of the world, Nigeria possibly treats more malaria cases than any other country in the world. This discussion on treatment of malaria is therefore based on treatment of Plasmodium falciparum malaria in Nigeria.

    The main drugs we shall discuss are artemisinin-based combination therapies (ACTs), drugs for the treatment of severe malaria, agents for prevention (chemoprophylaxis), and a few others.

    For Plasmodium falciparum, medical authorities recommend use of more than one drug taking advantage of drugs with different modes of action, drugs having effectiveness on different forms of the parasites (such as blood schizonts and liver merozoites), drugs with different onsets of actions, and drugs with different durations of action such that the drug combination has an overall effectiveness and reliability in killing the plasmodia, achieving cure, and can prevent development of resistant strains of the parasite.  Drug combinations also allow us to reduce the respective doses of the drugs combined and thus reducing side effects.  Pharmaceutical industries have developed several combinations which are marketed as prescription drugs and over-the-counter drugs.    The well-established combinations are:

    ”          Artemether plus lumefantrine

    ”          Artemether plus lumefantrine plus paracetamol

    ”          Artemisinin plus piperaquine

    ”          Artesunate plus amodiaquine

    ”          Artesunate plus mefloquine

    ”          Artesunate plus sulfadoxine plus pyrimethamine

    ”          Artesunate plus pyronaridine

    ”          Dihydroartemisinin plus piperaquine

    ”          Dihydroartemisinin plus piperaquine plus trimethorprim

    Artemisinin-based combination therapies (ACTs) are the most popularly used for treatment of malaria and are the most reliable for common or routine treatment of malaria.  They are regarded as first line drugs that are used before other alternatives. They are generally safe drugs when used according to manufacturer’s instructions.  They are popularly known by their trade names.  Examples are: Camosunate which is an ACT manufactured in China and contains artesunate (100mg) plus amodiaquine (300 mg); P-Alaxin TS is an ACT manufactured in India and contains dihydroartemisinin (120 mg) plus piperaquine phosphate (960 mg); and Gloatem Forte is an ACT manufactured in India and contains artemether (80 mg) plus lumefantrine (480 mg). There are numerous other trade names of ACTs belonging to different drug manufacturers.  EMDEX – The Complete Drug Formulary for Nigeria’s Healthcare Professionals – (2019-2020 Edition) lists two hundred and twenty (224) ACTs according to their trade names.

    Because of issues of age, sex, drug allergy, pregnancy, liver function status, finance, etc., particular ACT formulations may be preferable therefore it is important to seek a doctor’s prescription even if many of these drugs are available over the counter.  Always ask your pharmacist for advice when making an over the counter ACT purchase.

    Because of the nature of the malaria parasite’s life cycle and the adaptability of the parasite within the human host, a person who tends to have malaria often may change formulations to use, for example, for one episode artemether plus lumefantrine and for the next episode artesunate plus amodiaquine, and possibly back to artemether plus lumefantrine for a third episode.  People who take antimalarials frequently may try such methods to prevent hosting of resistant parasites in body tissues. To be continued.

    Dr. Theresa Adebola John is a lecturer at Lagos State University College of Medicine (LASUCOM) and an affiliated researcher at the College of Medicine, University of Tennessee, Memphis.  For any comments or questions on this column, please email bolajohnwritings@yahoo.com or call 08160944635