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  • The Christmases I remember

    The Christmases I remember

    Betty Abah, a Lagos-based writer, activist and coordinator of CEE-HOPE Nigeria recalls Christmas celebrations while growing up in Otukpo, Benue State.

    I remember especially the rice, the stew-saturated and meat laced-rice that arrived our home shortly after dawn, as the special morning breaks into a toothless smile. They were borne on the bent heads of fellow kids or in the hands of beautiful maidens. We would suspend our work ‘supervising’ the roasting goat. We would devour those as first course while awaiting our mothers’ which would come late, inspite of Baba’s chiding.

    The good, old Christmas was indeed a day of suspensions. The rebukes, the spanks suspended, tied up to the rafters; the cold, early morning ‘flight’ to Army Children’s School, Ojira also suspended till January when Mr. Fasako would await us, eyeing offenders, brandishing his trademark cane….. and gladly too, the painful routines of pushing Baba’s jalopy station wagon which emitted smokes directly into our young lungs in the early morning breeze as we stomped the red, rising dusts, eight, ten tiny pairs of feet at a time…a routine from which we had no escape on ordinary days for to disobey Baba was tantamount to embarking gleefully on a suicide mission.

    A Christmas in Otukpo was a day of immense goodwill. After the rice, topped with the usual brewed cereal drink (umu or kunu), we start pounding the roads to show off our new dresses, shoes, eye glasses etc (sometimes over-sized or undersized), and visit relatives, where, after boutfuls of yet more meals and a shout of ‘Api Klismas’, we were sure to return home, our petite made-in-China handbags sagging with coins or stuffed with a few notes. Oh, even Mama who always ensured we minimized our meat intakes so we don’t turn out ‘bad children’ somehow forgot her principles and allow us the Christmas-day-spoiling…

    And, isn’t it amazing how the road-side masquerades and booming bangers broke through our sanctimonious walls and airs obtained at the Methodist Church, Jericho Section during the previous night’s carol? We would yell with abandon, and run after the masquerades, or they gave us hot chases, whip-in-hand, our shoes dangling in our hands. Sometime too, we would recognize a masquerade, especially if it/he had a limp!

    One of our major destinations was Ogwonu-Igbalapa (‘stumble-seven-times’) area of town, named for its crooked, stony streets, some, sadly, still unchanged. But we didn’t mind the stones. Our minds were on the coins. We dare not go near the Babylon area of town which had the railway line, for why, the trains would magnetize and kill us if we dare!

    Our ideal Christmases were borne to us on the breezy backs of the harmattan in the mid-eighties and early nineties in Otukpo aka ‘Texas’, the red-soil enclave of Benue. Those were Christmases of immense goodwill. Christmases that smelt so good. Christmases of sweet re-unions… Christmases where the rich from the cities returned, showing off their wealth without fright of mid-way stops, temporarily enriching the have-nots with their city-scented crumbs… when bachelors, after year-long labours in Lagos or in the textile mills of the north came home and had a rethink of their status at the sight of maidens…

    Oh, for Christmases saturated with love!
    There was something spiritually elevating, there was something electrifying, even magnetizing about those Christmases, whose day we counted three  months ahead—- the happy Christmases of yesteryears… Christmases without cracks, Christmases without chaos, Christmases without the Kalashnikovs..!

    Oh! My by-gone Christmases of new clothes, bogus meals… Christmases without strife,  where people attended carols without looking over their shoulders for fear of the unknown… Christmases without fear of kidnappers lurking in the dark— hungry, angry youngsters holding the haves down in dingy hells, magnifying anarchy— while politicians say is all well…
    Oh, how I love, love the Christmases of my childhood! How I love to reincarnate the Christmases of unblemished years…

    For some curious reasons the rice rarely arrived here in Lagos. Relatives here think I am too old now to be given a coin or two (that is if they are even still legal tenders and could still purchase the tingling goodie-goodie chocolate), and the traffic is in no mood to pamper Christmas revelers. I miss the special aromas of Christmases-made-in-Otukpo, an aroma arising from the sweet blend of roasted goat meat and the specially made rice stew.

    Kai, I loath Christmases in Lagos…! Drab..drumless..goatless..coinless…
    Oh, for Christmases back in Otukpo… The Christmases of my childhood… Christmases which were scented. Christmases which were serenading.
    Christmases which were safe nation-wide…
    Christmases of Christ-like innocence…When God became man that man may become God…!
    Those are the Christmases I will always, gladly REMEMBER…!

    Abah is a Lagos-based writer, activist and coordinator of CEE-HOPE Nigeria.

  • Jonathan replies Obasanjo’s letter

    Jonathan replies Obasanjo’s letter

    December 20th 2013

    His Excellency,

    Chief Olusegun Obasanjo, GCFR

    Agbe L’Oba House, Quarry Road,

    Ibara, Abeokuta.

     

    RE: BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE

    I wish to formally acknowledge your letter dated December 2, 2013 and other previous correspondence similar to it.

    You will recall that all the letters were brought to me by hand. Although both of us discussed some of the issues in those letters, I had not, before now, seen the need for any formal reply since, to me, they contained advice from a former President to a serving President. Obviously, you felt differently because in your last letter, you complained about my not acknowledging or replying your previous letters.

     

    It is with the greatest possible reluctance that I now write this reply. I am most uneasy about embarking on this unprecedented and unconventional form of open communication between me and a former leader of our country because I know that there are more acceptable and dignified means of doing so.

     

    But I feel obliged to reply your letter for a number of reasons: one, you formally requested for a reply and not sending you one will be interpreted as ignoring a former President.

     

    Secondly, Nigerians know the role you have played in my political life and given the unfortunate tone of your letter, clearly, the grapes have gone sour.  Therefore, my side of the story also needs to be told.

    The third reason why I must reply you in writing is that your letter is clearly a threat to national security as it may deliberately or inadvertently set the stage for subversion.

     

    The fourth reason for this reply is that you raised very weighty issues, and since the letter has been made public, Nigerians are expressing legitimate concerns. A response from me therefore, becomes very necessary.

     

    The fifth reason is that this letter may appear in biographies and other books which political commentators on Nigeria’s contemporary politics may write. It is only proper for such publications to include my comments on the issues raised in your letter.

     

    Sixthly, you are very unique in terms of the governance of this country. You were a military Head of State for three years and eight months, and an elected President for eight years. That means you have been the Head of Government of Nigeria for about twelve years. This must have, presumably, exposed you to a lot of information. Thus when you make a statement, there is the tendency for people to take it seriously.

     

    The seventh reason is that the timing of your letter coincided with other vicious releases. The Speaker of the House of Representatives spoke of my “body language” encouraging corruption. A letter written to me by the CBN Governor alleging that NNPC, within a period of 19 months did not remit the sum of USD49.8 billion to the federation account, was also deliberately leaked to the public.

     

    The eighth reason is that it appears that your letter was designed to incite Nigerians from other geopolitical zones against me and also calculated to promote ethnic disharmony. Worse still, your letter was designed to instigate members of our Party, the PDP, against me.

     

    The ninth reason is that your letter conveys to me the feeling that landmines have been laid for me. Therefore, Nigerians need to have my response to the issues raised before the mines explode.

     

    The tenth and final reason why my reply is inevitable is that you have written similar letters and made public comments in reference to all former Presidents and Heads of Government starting from Alhaji Shehu Shagari and these have instigated different actions and reactions. The purpose and direction of your letter is distinctly ominous, and before it is too late, my clarifications on the issues need to be placed on record.

     

    Let me now comment on the issues you raised. In commenting I wish to crave your indulgence to compare what is happening now to what took place before.  This, I believe, will enable Nigerians see things in better perspective because we must know where we are coming from so as to appreciate where we now are, and to allow us clearly map out where we are going.

     

    You raised concerns about the security situation in the country. I assure you that I am fully aware of the responsibility of government for ensuring the security of the lives and property of citizens. My Administration is working assiduously to overcome current national security challenges, the seeds of which were sown under previous administrations.  There have been some setbacks; but certainly there have also been great successes in our efforts to overcome terrorism and insurgency.

     

    Those who continue to down-play our successes in this regard, amongst whom you must now be numbered, appear to have conveniently forgotten the depths to which security in our country had plunged before now.

     

    At a stage, almost the entire North-East of Nigeria was under siege by insurgents. Bombings of churches and public buildings in the North and the federal capital became an almost weekly occurrence. Our entire national security apparatus seemed nonplussed and unable to come to grips with the new threat posed by the berthing of terrorism on our shores.

     

    But my administration has since brought that very unacceptable situation under significant control. We have overhauled our entire national security architecture, improved intelligence gathering, training, funding, logistical support to our armed forces and security agencies, and security collaboration with friendly countries with very visible and positive results.

     

    The scope and impact of terrorist operations have been significantly reduced and efforts are underway to restore full normalcy to the most affected North Eastern region and initiate a post-crisis development agenda, including a special intervention programme to boost the region’s socio-economic progress.

     

    In doing all this, we have kept our doors open for dialogue with the insurgents and their supporters through efforts such as the work of the Presidential Committee on Dialogue and the Peaceful Resolution of the Security Challenges in the North-East. You also know that the Governor of Borno State provided the items you mentioned to me as carrots. Having done all this and more, it is interesting that you still accuse me of not acting on your hardly original recommendation that the carrot and stick option be deployed to solve the Boko Haram problem.

     

    Your suggestion that we are pursuing a “war against violence without understanding the root causes of the violence and applying solutions to deal with all the underlying factors” is definitely misplaced because from the onset of this administration, we have been implementing a multifaceted strategy against militancy, insurgency and terrorism that includes poverty alleviation, economic development, education and social reforms.

     

    Even though basic education is the constitutional responsibility of States, my administration has, as part of its efforts to address ignorance and poor education which have been identified as two of the factors responsible for making some of our youth easily available for use as cannon fodder by insurgents and terrorists, committed huge funds to the provision of modern basic education schools for the Almajiri in several Northern States. The Federal Government under my leadership has also set up nine additional universities in the Northern States and three in the Southern States in keeping with my belief that proper education is the surest way of emancipating and empowering our people.

     

    More uncharitable persons may even see a touch of sanctimoniousness in your new belief in the carrot and stick approach to overcoming militancy and insurgency. You have always referred to how you hit Odi in Bayelsa State to curb militancy in the Niger Delta.  If the invasion of Odi by the Army was the stick, I did not see the corresponding carrot.  I was the Deputy Governor of Bayelsa State then, and as I have always told you, the invasion of Odi did not solve any militancy problem but, to some extent, escalated it. If it had solved it, late President Yar’Adua would not have had to come up with the amnesty program. And while some elements of the problem may still be there, in general, the situation is reasonably better.

     

    In terms of general insecurity in the country and particularly the crisis in the Niger Delta, 2007 was one of the worst periods in our history. You will recall three incidents that happened in 2007 which seemed to have been orchestrated to achieve sinister objectives.  Here in Abuja, a petrol tanker loaded with explosives was to be rammed into the INEC building. But luckily for the country, an electric pole stopped the tanker from hitting the INEC building.  It is clear that this incident was meant to exploit the general sense of insecurity in the nation at the time to achieve the aim of stopping the 2007 elections.  It is instructive that you, on a number of occasions, alluded to this fact.

     

    When that incident failed, an armed group invaded Yenagoa one evening with the intent to assassinate me.  Luckily for me, they could not.  They again attacked and bombed my country home on a night when I was expected in the village. Fortunately, as God would have it, I did not make the trip.

     

    I recall that immediately after both incidents, I got calls expressing the concern of Abuja.  But Baba, you know that despite the apparent concern of Abuja, no single arrest was ever made. I was then the Governor of Bayelsa State and the PDP Vice-Presidential candidate. The security people ordinarily should have unraveled the assassination attempt on me.

     

    You also raised the issues of kidnapping, piracy and armed robbery. These are issues all Nigerians, including me are very concerned about. While we will continue to do our utmost best to reduce all forms of criminality to the barest minimum in our country, it is just as well to remind you that the first major case of kidnapping for ransom took place around 2006. And the Boko Haram crisis dates back to 2002. Goodluck Jonathan was not the President of the country then. Also, armed robbery started in this country immediately after the civil war and since then, it has been a problem to all succeeding governments.  For a former Head of Government, who should know better, to present these problems as if they were creations of the Jonathan Administration is most uncharitable.

     

    Having said that, let me remind you of some of the things we have done to curb violent crime in the country. We have reorganized the Nigerian Police Force and appointed a more dynamic leadership to oversee its affairs. We have also improved its manpower levels as well as funding, training and logistical support.

     

    We have also increased the surveillance capabilities of the Police and provided its air-wing with thrice the number of helicopters it had before the inception of the present administration. The National Civil Defence and Security Corps has been armed to make it a much more effective ally of the police and other security agencies in the war against violent crime. At both domestic and international levels, we are doing everything possible to curb the proliferation of the small arms and light weapons with which armed robberies, kidnappings and piracy are perpetrated. We have also enhanced security at our borders to curb cross-border crimes.

     

    We are aggressively addressing the challenge of crude oil theft in collaboration with the state Governors. In addition, the Federal Government has engaged the British and US governments for their support in the tracking of the proceeds from the purchase of stolen crude. Similarly, a regional Gulf of Guinea security strategy has been initiated to curb crude oil theft and piracy.

     

    Perhaps the most invidious accusation in your letter is the allegation that I have placed over one thousand Nigerians on a political watch list, and that I am training snipers and other militia to assassinate people. Baba, I don’t know where you got that from but you do me grave injustice in not only lending credence to such baseless rumours, but also publicizing it. You mentioned God seventeen times in your letter. Can you as a Christian hold the Bible and say that you truly believe this allegation?

     

    The allegation of training snipers to assassinate political opponents is particularly incomprehensible to me. Since I started my political career as a Deputy Governor, I have never been associated with any form of political violence. I have been a President for over three years now, with a lot of challenges and opposition mainly from the high and mighty. There have certainly been cases of political assassination since the advent of our Fourth Republic, but as you well know, none of them occurred under my leadership.

     

    Regarding the over one thousand people you say are on a political watch list, I urge you to kindly tell Nigerians who they are and what agencies of government are “watching” them. Your allegation that I am using security operatives to harass people is also baseless. Nigerians are waiting for your evidence of proof. That was an accusation made against previous administrations, including yours, but it is certainly not my style and will never be. Again, if you insist on the spurious claim that some of your relatives and friends are being harassed, I urge you to name them and tell Nigerians what agencies of my administration are harassing them.

     

    I also find it difficult to believe that you will accuse me of assisting murderers, or assigning a presidential delegation to welcome a murderer. This is a most unconscionable and untrue allegation. It is incumbent on me to remind you that I am fully conscious of the dictates of my responsibilities to God and our dear nation. It is my hope that devious elements will not take advantage of your baseless allegation to engage in brazen and wanton assassination of high profile politicians as before, hiding under the alibi your “open letter” has provided for them.

     

    Nevertheless, I have directed the security agencies and requested the National Human Rights Commission to carry out a thorough investigation of these criminal allegations and make their findings public.

     

    That corruption is an issue in Nigeria is indisputable.  It has been with us for many years. You will recall that your kinsman, the renowned afro-beat maestro, Fela Anikulapo-Kuti famously sang about it during your first stint as Head of State. Sonny Okosun also sang about corruption. And as you may recall, a number of Army Generals were to be retired because of corruption before the Dimka coup.  Also, the late General Murtala Mohammed himself wanted to retire some top people in his cabinet on corruption-related issues before he was assassinated.  Even in this Fourth Republic, the Siemens and Halliburton scandals are well known.

     

    The seed of corruption in this country was planted a long time ago, but we are doing all that we can to drastically reduce its debilitating effects on national development and progress. I have been strengthening the institutions established to fight corruption. I will not shield any government official or private individual involved in corruption, but I must follow due process in all that I do. And whenever clear cases of corruption or fraud have been established, my administration has always taken prompt action in keeping with the dictates of extant laws and procedures. You cannot claim to be unaware of the fact that several highly placed persons in our country, including sons of some of our party leaders are currently facing trial for their involvement in the celebrated subsidy scam affair. I can hardly be blamed if the wheels of justice still grind very slowly in our country, but we are doing our best to support and encourage the judiciary to quicken the pace of adjudication in cases of corruption.

     

    Baba, I am amazed that with all the knowledge garnered from your many years at the highest level of governance in our country, you could still believe the spurious allegation contained in a letter written to me by the Governor of the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN), and surreptitiously obtained by you, alleging that USD49.8 billion, a sum equal to our entire national budget for two years, is “unaccounted for” by the NNPC. Since, as President, you also served for many years as Minister of Petroleum Resources, you very well know the workings of the corporation. It is therefore intriguing that you have made such an assertion. You made a lot of insinuations about oil theft, shady dealings at the NNPC and the NNPC not remitting the full proceeds of oil sales to the of CBN. Now that the main source of the allegations which you rehashed has publicly stated that he was “misconstrued”, perhaps you will find it in your heart to apologize for misleading unwary Nigerians and impugning the integrity of my administration on that score.

     

    Your claim of “Atlantic Oil loading about 130, 000 barrels sold by Shell and managed on behalf of NPDC with no sale proceeds paid into the NPDC account” is also disjointed and baseless because no such arrangement as you described exists between Atlantic Oil and the Nigeria Petroleum Development Company. NPDC currently produces about 138, 000 barrels of oil per day from over 7 producing assets. The Crude Oil Marketing Division (COMD) of the NNPC markets all of this production on behalf of NPDC with proceeds paid into NPDC account.

     

    I am really shocked that with all avenues open to you as a former Head of State for the verification of any information you have received about state affairs, you chose to go public with allegations of “high corruption” without offering a shred of supporting evidence. One of your political “sons” similarly alleged recently that he told me of a minister who received a bribe of $250 Million from an oil company and I did nothing about it. He may have been playing from a shared script, but we have not heard from him again since he was challenged to name the minister involved and provide the evidence   to back his claim.  I urge you, in the same vein, to furnish me with the names, facts and figures of a single verifiable case of the “high corruption” which you say stinks all around my administration and see whether the corrective action you advocate does not follow promptly. And while you are at it, you may also wish to tell Nigerians the true story of questionable waivers of signature bonuses between 2000 and 2007.

     

    While, by the Grace of God Almighty, I am the first President from a minority group, I am never unmindful of the fact that I was elected leader of the whole of Nigeria and I have always acted in the best interest of all Nigerians. You referred to the divisive actions and inflammatory utterances of some individuals from the South-South and asserted that I have done nothing to call them to order or distance myself from their ethnic chauvinism. Again that is very untrue. I am as committed to the unity of this country as any patriot can be and I have publicly declared on many occasions that no person who threatens other Nigerians or parts of the country is acting on my behalf.

     

    It is very regrettable that in your letter, you seem to place sole responsibility for the ongoing intrigues and tensions in the PDP at my doorstep, and going on from that position, you direct all your appeals for a resolution at me. Baba, let us all be truthful to ourselves, God and posterity. At the heart of all the current troubles in our party and the larger polity is the unbridled jostling and positioning for personal or group advantage ahead of the 2015 general elections. The “bitterness, anger, mistrust, fear and deep suspicion” you wrote about all flow from this singular factor.

     

    It is indeed very unfortunate that the seeming crisis in the party was instigated by a few senior members of the party, including you. But, as leader of the party, I will continue to do my best to unite it so that we can move forward with strength and unity of purpose. The PDP has always recovered from previous crises with renewed vigour and vitality. I am very optimistic that that will be the case again this time. The PDP will overcome any temporary setback, remain a strong party and even grow stronger.

     

    Instigating people to cause problems and disaffection within the party is something that you are certainly familiar with. You will recall that founding fathers of the Party were frustrated out of the Party at a time.  Late Chief Sunday Awoniyi was pushed out, Late Chief Solomon Lar left and later came back, Chief Audu Ogbeh and Chief Tom Ikimi also left. Chief Okwesilieze Nwodo left and later came back. In 2005/2006, link-men were sent to take over party structures from PDP Governors in an unveiled attempt to undermine the state governors. In spite of that, the Governors did not leave the Party because nobody instigated and encouraged them to do so.

     

    The charge that I was involved in anti-party activities in governorship elections in Edo, Ondo, Lagos, and Anambra States is also very unfortunate. I relate with all Governors irrespective of political party affiliation but I have not worked against the interest of the PDP.  What I have not done is to influence the electoral process to favour our Party. You were definitely never so inclined, since you openly boasted in your letter of how you supported Alhaji Shehu Shagari against Chief Obafemi Awolowo, Chief Nnamdi Azikiwe and others in the 1979 presidential elections while serving as a military Head of State. You and I clearly differ in this regard, because as the President of Nigeria, I believe it is my duty and responsibility to create a level playing field for all parties and all candidates.

     

    Recalling how the PDP lost in states where we were very strong in 2003 and 2007 such as Edo, Ondo, Imo, Bauchi, Anambra, and Borno, longstanding members of our great party with good memory will also consider the charge of anti-party activities you made against me as misdirected and hugely hypocritical. It certainly was not Goodluck Jonathan’s “personal ambition or selfish interest” that caused the PDP to lose the governorship of Ogun State and all its senatorial seats in the last general elections.

     

    You quoted me as saying that I have not told anybody that I will seek another term in office in 2015. You and your ambitious acolytes within the party have clearly decided to act on your conclusion that “only a fool will believe that statement” and embark on a virulent campaign to harass me out of an undeclared candidature for the 2015 presidential elections so as to pave the way for a successor anointed by you.

     

    You will recall that you serially advised me that we should refrain from discussing the 2015 general elections for now so as not to distract elected public officials from urgent task of governance. While you have apparently moved away from that position, I am still of the considered opinion that it would have been best for us to do all that is necessary to refrain from heating up the polity at this time. Accordingly, I have already informed Nigerians that I will only speak on whether or not I will seek a second term when it is time for such declarations. Your claims about discussions I had with you, Governor Gabriel Suswam and others are wrong, but in keeping with my declared stance, I will reserve further comments until the appropriate time.

     

    Your allegation that I asked half a dozen African Presidents to speak to you about my alleged ambition for 2015, is also untrue.  I have never requested any African President to discuss with you on my behalf.  In our discussion, I mentioned to you that four Presidents told me that they were concerned about the political situation in Nigeria and intended to talk to you about it.  So far, only three of them have confirmed to me that they have had any discussion with you. If I made such a request, why would I deny it?

     

    The issue of Buruji Kashamu is one of those lies that should not be associated with a former President.  The allegation that I am imposing Kashamu on the South-West is most unfortunate and regrettable.  I do not even impose Party officials in my home state of Bayelsa and there is no zone in this country where I have imposed officials.  So why would I do so in the South West?  Baba, in the light of Buruji’s detailed public response to your “open letter”, it will be charitable for you to render an apology to Nigerians and I.

     

    On the issue of investors being scared to come to Nigeria, economic dormancy, and stagnation, I will just refer you to FDI statistics from 2000 to 2013. Within the last three years, Nigeria has emerged as the preferred destination for investments in Africa, driven by successful government policies to attract foreign investors. For the second year running, the United Nations Conference on Trade and Investments (UNCTAD) has ranked Nigeria as the number one destination for investments in Africa, and as having the fourth highest returns in the world.

     

    Today, Nigeria is holding 18 percent of all foreign investments in Africa and 60 percent of all foreign investments in the ECOWAS Sub-Region. Kindly note also that in the seven years between 2000 and 2007 when you were President, Nigeria attracted a total of $24.9 Billion in FDI.  As a result of our efforts which you disparage, the country has seen an FDI inflow of $25.7 Billion in just three years which is more than double the FDI that has gone to the second highest African destination. We have also maintained an annual national economic growth rate of close to seven per cent since the inception of this administration. What then, is the justification for your allegation of scared investors and economic dormancy?

     

    Although it was not emphasized in your letter of December 2, 2013, you also conveyed, in previous correspondence, the impression that you were ignorant of the very notable achievements of my administration in the area of foreign relations. It is on record that under my leadership, Nigeria has played a key role in resolving the conflicts in Niger, Cote d’Ivoire, Mali, Guinea Bissau and others.

     

    The unproductive rivalry that existed between Nigeria and some ECOWAS countries has also been ended under my watch and Nigeria now has better relations with all the ECOWAS countries.  At the African Union, we now have a Commissioner at the AU Commission after being without one for so long. We were in the United Nations Security Council for the 2010/2011 Session and we have been voted in again for the 2014/2015 Session. From independence to 2010, we were in the U.N. Security Council only three times but from 2010 to 2015, we will be there two times.

    This did not happen by chance.  My Administration worked hard for it and we continue to maintain the best possible relations with all centres of global political and economic power. I find it hard therefore, to believe your assertions of untoward concern in the international community over the state of governance in Nigeria

     

    With respect to the Brass and Olokola LNG projects, you may have forgotten that though you started these projects, Final Investment Decisions were never reached.  For your information, NNPC has not withdrawn from either the Olokola or the Brass LNG projects.

     

    On the Rivers State Water Project, you were misled by your informant. The Federal Government under my watch has never directed or instructed the Africa Development Bank to put on hold any project to be executed in Rivers state or any other State within the Federation. The Rivers Water Project was not originally in the borrowing plan but it was included in April 2013 and appraised in May. Negotiations are ongoing with the AfDB.  I have no doubt that you are familiar with the entire process that prefaces the signing of a Subsidiary Loan Agreement as in this instance.

     

    Let me assure you and all Nigerians that I do not engage in negative political actions and will never, as President, oppress the people of a State or deprive them of much needed public services as a result of political disagreement

    I have noted your comments on the proposed National Conference. Contrary to the insinuation in your letter, the proposed conference is aimed at bringing Nigerians together to resolve contentious national issues in a formal setting. This is a sure way of promoting greater national consensus and unity, and not a recipe for “disunity, confusion and chaos” as you alleged in your letter.

     

    Having twice held the high office of President, Commander-In-Chief of the Armed Forces of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, I trust that you will understand that I cannot possibly find the time to offer a line-by-line response to all the accusations and allegations made in your letter while dealing with other pressing demands of office and more urgent affairs of state.

     

    I have tried, however, to respond to only the most serious of the charges which question my sincerity, personal honour, and commitment to the oath which I have sworn, to always uphold and protect the interests of all Nigerians, and promote their well-being.

     

    In closing, let me state that you have done me grave injustice with your public letter in which you wrongfully accused me of deceit, deception, dishonesty, incompetence, clannishness, divisiveness and insincerity, amongst other ills.

     

    I have not, myself, ever claimed to be all-knowing or infallible, but I have never taken Nigeria or Nigerians for granted as you implied, and I will continue to do my utmost to steer our ship of state towards the brighter future to which we all aspire.

     

    Please accept the assurances of my highest consideration and warm regards.

     

    GOODLUCK  EBELE JONATHAN

  • What Christmas means to The Nation facebook fans

    What Christmas means to The Nation facebook fans

    It’s that season of the year when Christians around the world celebrate Christmas. The Yuletide, marked every year to acknowledge the birth of Jesus Christ brings merriments, it is a time to share, exchange gifts, visit friends and celebrate.

    When November elapses, the spirit of Xmas takes the centre stage even though the actual celebration is 25th of December. The streets wear new looks, Xmas light and trees adorn public places, homes and offices with inscriptions like ‘Merry Xmas’ all over.

    The Nation Newspaper sought to know what Xmas really meant to people. As expected, people have diversed views of what the celebration of Christ’s birthday means to them.

    The Nation facebook fans submitted commented on what Xmas meant to them, below are some of their interesting responses:

    Olalekan Folorunso: It means the birth of divine redemption to humanity, it’s a confirmation that God came in form of human and lived among men, it means generosity- because it was a product of love for God’s grace to have permitted a carpenter to be the father of our Lord Jesus Christ- Matt.13v55. Christmas has demolished the middle wall of partition between God and man, you need no contractor to fast, pray and see vision for you anymore. Christmas has restored the lost friendship between man and God.

    It is a confirmation that our existence must be a blessing to our world 1 John 2v2. For this reason I say to you, though your beginning may not have beautiful story like Jesus that was born in a manger but ended up as Messiah of universal, with your focus on God you will end yours in glory IJN amen Lk.2v7.

    Mohammed Malabu: It means a lot to d Christians, and also we Muslims join our Christians friends in celebrating it, I hope this period will be a turning point for Nigeria’s peace and unity.

    Victor Ezeugo: To me, it means always remembering the sacrifice of Mary and the loyalty of her son Christ Jesus, and remembering me of His mercy and forgiveness to others and also to keep myself like a child.

    Adebowale Geronimo: It means the birth of Christ. We need a messiah born for us. That is important.

    Golden Mark: A season that heralds the birth of Christ, the birth or nativity of Christ, a season of unspeakable joy and expectation a season that reminds us of the second coming of Christ.

    Idachaba Ocholi: It means the celebration of my lord Jesus Christ.

    Kolawole Ajpower: It means the depth of Christ love which we are supposed to replicate.

    Thompson Omie Noah Peter: Love was born on xmas day

    Fabong Venkur: It’s a moment of reflection, celebration, Love, sharing and resolution.

    Ogba Chidi Sammy: This is what Xmas means: no more beating on closed doors, but an open heaven, Angels ascending and descending freely. Our prayers reaching the throne of God and the Holy

    Spirit constantly pouring, on us like sunshine from a cloudless sky. God with us- Emmanuel!

    Brian Ryan: Christmas is the most celebrated day of the year. When God gave salvation freely to mankind!

    Kollis Olawuyi: New things, new born, new glories, new message and many more.

    Cajetan Onuoha: The birth of our Lord and Saviour- Jesus Christ. It is a time for us to reflect on our Lives, Repent of our Sins and turn back to God our Creator. A time to help the Needy in our Society, care for the Sick and visit the prisoners. The Mass of Christ.

    Ubanwa Michael: It means Christ and the reason for the season

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  • Benefits of taking fruits

    Benefits of taking fruits

    Fruit are very important to carry out daily activities; a healthy body cannot survive without fruit.

    However many people are still unaware about the health effects of fruits. The good news is that – fruits are loaded with fibres, water, vitamins, minerals, antioxidants, phytonutrients and have significant chewing resistant which reduce cholesterol, slowed absorption of carbohydrate and contribute in weight loss.

    A study on 9,665 Adult in U.S found that fruit intake was associated with 40 per cent lower risk of diabetes in women but there was no different in men

    Another study looked at how different type of fruit affect the risk of type 2 diabetes those who consumed grapes, apple and blueberries had the lowest risk

    The study that looked at fruit and vegetable separately found no risk of breast cancer. Multiple observational studies have shown that people who eat fruit and vegetable have a lower risk of many diseases.

    Fruit and vegetable tend to reduce 7 per cent of heart diseases. There are also few randomized controlled trials showing that increase fruit intake can lower blood pressure, it reduce oxidative stress and improve glycemic control in diabetics.

    Even thought fruits are very healthy for most people if not all, the same cannot be said for fruit juice and dry fruit, many of fruit juice in the market are not “real” fruit juice as they consist of lot of water with some sort of concentration and a whole bunch of added sugar.

    How to select your fruit

    Select fruit that is fresh, bright in colour and flavour and feel heavy in your hands. Look carefully for blemishes, spot molds and signs of insecticide spray; buy a whole fruit instead of section of them for example by a small size watermelon instead of a section of big size of melon.

    After selecting your fruit try to wash them immediately after shopping. Rinse them with salt water for few minutes and then wash in cool running water until you are satisfied with complete cleanliness. It is recommended to eat at least 2-3 serving fresh fruit every day.

    At the end, fruits are real foods. They are highly nutritious and so eating fruits can help you feel more satisfied with less food.

     

  • 5 places to visit this yuletide

    5 places to visit this yuletide

    It’s Christmas and at this time of the year, people ask the question “Where do we go right now?” If you live in Lagos, you have many answers to that question.  If you’re on the look out for fun places to exciting time with your family, friends or close associates, then these are the top five places that might interest you…..

     

    Rhapsody’s Victoria Island

     

    This is a must place to visit for a night out or drinks with friends. It’s the perfect blend of great ambience and delicious meal.

     

    The Lagoon Restaurant

     

    If you want to go out in groups or as a family, then this is the perfect place to visit. It has affordable food and an expansive menu ranging from brazillian to traditional menus.

     

    The White Space, Ikoyi

     

    If you’re artsy at heart and want to meet like minds while shopping and partying, then you can’t miss the white space.

     

    La Manga luxury Beach Villas, Ilashe

     

    This is one spot that is highly recommended for couples who want some time away. If your idea of a quick getaway includes stunning beach and luxury accommodation in a quiet and private environment, then La Manga Luxury Beach Villas in Ilashe Island, Lagos, Nigeria with its spectacular and invigorating view of the ocean is the place for you.

     

    Lacampagne Tropicana Beach Resort

     

    This is a very tranquil place located just an hour’s drive from Victoria Island in Lagos State. The resort offers a perfect blend of natural environments and the warm Atlantic sea.

    It also provides accommodation and a variety of activities like hiking, horse riding, canoeing and exquisite cuisine.

    It might be a perfect place to visit with family or friends

     

  • ‘My secret ingredient for success’

    ‘My secret ingredient for success’

    Atiti Sosimi is a UK based entrepreneur, author, speaker and creator of the ‘Shh or Tell it’ board game. She spoke with Adetorera Idowu about herself, business and how she was able to surmount the daunting challenges in business to get to where she is today.

     

    How did you become an entrepreneur?

    I believe the entrepreneurial spirit was awakened in my childhood. When I was about 10 years old I had a mini tuck shop/kiosk where I was selling all sorts of extras we’d convinced my dad to buy when we went shopping.

    The transaction process, negotiations and making the sale all excited me, anticipating what I could sell and watching what others were doing, so I could compete, gave me a thrill. My dad shut us down when we convinced our house help to buy us cigarettes to sell since someone down the road was selling them and pulling in a bigger market than we were.

    Setting up a business for me was borne out of a situation where I was facing some serious life challenges and I needed to make a decision to sink or swim. Undertaking a personal skill audit and identifying what I had to offer gave me the evidence that I was worth something and using my creative mind enabled me to define what that could look like. Pivotal to this decision was the fact that whatever I opted for needed to make me fulfill as well as have a positive impact on the lives of people I engaged with in both personal and professional interactions.

    Let us into your background

    I wasn’t a fan of school and didn’t consider myself an academic. As an educator I can say that the teaching style I encountered was not designed to bring out the best in either my abilities or learning. I have always been creative and been able to retreat into my creative shell to express myself when I feel frustrated with life.

    I have a BSc degree in Sociology & Anthropology, a Post Graduate Certificate and Advanced Diploma (PGD) in Educational Studies (Dyslexia) University of Cambridge and an MA (2014) in Learning & Teaching for Higher Education.

    Is there anyone in your family that inspired you to become an entrepreneur?

    Yes!  Several aunts and uncles from my immediate and extended family.

    Tell us about Eyato?

    I did art for A ‘levels and I’m a lifelong student in design. I also trained in shoe making at Prescott & Mackay to enhance my knowledge.

    Eyato is a brand of Handmade in London high end accessories comprising Bags, Clothing (Outerwear) and Footwear. I believe I have aptly described my intent in the Eyato Story, the Eyato story is simple, it’s all about you; I am because you are! Eyato promotes exclusivity in every way celebrating the style, preference and strength of every uniquely crafted beautiful woman.

    What stands your clothing line out from the rest?

     

    Eyato is stylish, sexy and full of attitude. Eyato says “you can’t help but notice me… for all the right reasons”, it’s indulgent without apology (and “why the heck not?”), you work hard enough after all… Eyato says “spoil yourself and allow yourself to be spoilt!”

    It is designed with a high end couture niche clientele in mind.

    Eyato is for the business woman, the boardroom woman and the Senior Executive Management woman; the woman not to be messed with who dares to put her intellectually driven femininity right into the equation. Eyato is a lovingly sourced handmade in London label by a woman for women!!!

    How did you conceive the idea for a board game?

    Ever since I wrote my first game, The Big Secret, listened to, observed people’s reactions and read their feedback.  I had this burning desire to take the underlying message of The Big Secret to another level. I wanted to recapture and duplicate the ‘build up’ feeling of being caught in a situation /dilemma and needing to admit to you whether you would keep it a secret or tell it.

    I developed an ideas board to refine the elements and components which I felt needed to be integrated and had lots of input from different people in my team and outside of work.

    I started thinking about which resource would work best in bringing people together i.e people who think they know each other pretty well. At the forefront of my mind was the family setting since this Big Secret had lived in a family without anyone knowing it existed and this is something that is very common to all of us, so I opted for a board game.

    A board game seemed an excellent way to get family friends and people in general together to play talk, share deliberate, give us greater insight into who our friends and family are in a safe non- threatening, non-judgmental engaging way. I decided a board game would be the ideal way to confront serious issues alongside fun issues and situations (a healthy balance).

    So, I did a lot to get us here, but I did not work alone over the five and a half years it took. I have been privileged to meet and work with some of the most gifted talented and amazing people one could wish for. I am thankful to each and everyone who in one way or another has contributed to us arriving at this point; amazingly gifted, talented kind people who have shared ideas, given us feedback or contributed to any aspect which has resulted in bringing the initial idea to life.

    How is the ‘Shhh or Tell it’ board game different? What stands it out from other board games?

    Firstly, it was invented by me; it’s an original board game idea and concept. It emerged out of four and a half years of research and testing. It was presented at the Argos New Supplier Event to the games team at Argos in June 2010.

    Shhh or Tell it is a unique scenario game, a new game idea and with very strong graphics and packaging.

    Tell us about the books you’ve authored

    U Know U Can Go The Distance, U Step to WalkThen Run, The Big Secret. The books are available on Amazon Kindle in English and available in 8 languages (English, French, Spanish, German, Italian, Japanese, Greek and Chinese – Cantonese) there are other languages in development.

    How do you juggle so many responsibilities? Family life, running a business, writing books, inventing/producing/selling a board game etc

    This is an interesting question because I believe this goes to the heart of who I really am. I believe a lot has to do with the way I was brought up to think. We often think we can’t stretch time but we can and not by magic but by investing time in developing a full understanding of who we are and how we function. When we are prepared to critically appraise ourselves and make the changes that we know we need to make, then and only then are we prepared to make our 24 hours count!

    What would you say is your secret ingredient for success?

    My Faith: I made a commitment to God to use every single talent and gift He has deem fit to bless me with whilst I walk this earth to inspire others.

    My Passion: Life is precious, cherish it and find a way to make a difference to the lives of others. Our thinking which must translate into affirmative action needs to shift from me to we, otherwise what hope? United we stand divided we cease to exist. My love for humanity keeps the fire in my belly burning!

    My Beliefs: I don’t do ‘lazy’ and haven’t got time to waste on the frivolous. Time is precious and I like to make mine count. I work hard, am highly disciplined (I wasn’t initially, but life seasoned me); I do however take downtime which is precious to me as it’s the time I spend with my loved ones.

    I hate limitations and restrictions, I hold on firmly to the belief that ‘impossible is nothing’ (John C Maxwell) “Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live the world they’ve been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It’s a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing”, you just have to be open to finding new and different ways to achieve your objective! The statement think outside the box is overrated and annoying because when you start off anything with the premise of a limitation you have already narrowed your scope; there is no box, there never was a box so get rid of the idea. I’m brief and straight to the point, I don’t mind rolling up my sleeves and getting my hands dirty, I’m a doer, team player who questions everything and as an aside I really hate interviews.

     

    You worked for a while before starting your business, would you say work experience is important for a successful business?

    Yes I would and I would go further to say, every single experience paid, work, voluntary, being a housewife, being a sibling/child all bring immense value to entrepreneurship.

    Any plans to expand your business to Nigeria?

    Most definitely, Eyato is global and Nigeria has always been on the cards!

    What are your other professional/non professional interests?

    Professional:  Innovation, Design and Technology; its application to learning and life.

    Non-Professional: Swimming, Running, Dancing, Fine dining, watching films and mucking about with my family!

    What are your remarkable achievements and the highlights of being an entrepreneur?

    My family still loves me!!! I am a finisher and my word is my honour. The quality of what I produce exceptional. Nominations for and winning of business awards

    List some of the challenges you’ve faced as an entrepreneur?

    Having the right workspace, the challenges of running a business premise, sifting and filtering which network events to attend, aligning with the wrong partners to develop an idea, recruiting competence, Marketing and advertising – this is a huge problem for small businesses and they easily fall prey to unscrupulous agents whose only interest is in securing an account and not the right option to raise the profile of the business in front of the right market.

    What has been your lowest point so far?

    When Argos couldn’t place an order for my board game because I didn’t do TV advertising!

    Who are your mentors?

    Some of my amazing mentors include: Mrs. Patricia Etete, Ms Sophia L Johnson, Ms Marlene Ryder MBE and Ms Helen Dupigny. Others are: Otunba Oladele Bankole-Balogun, Ms Muni King, Pastor Omawumi Efueye, Mrs. Esther Gurvits, Mr. Jeremy Coker, Mrs. Helen Martin-Gee, Ass. Prof. Digby Warren, Dave Grifth, Ms. Charl Fregona and Mr. James Huggins.

    What advice would you give budding entrepreneurs?

    Don’t be in a hurry to fail, spend time developing your idea and ensure you’re prepared to go the distance to see it through. The depth and level of understanding you have including accepting that there is plenty you don’t know demonstrates how serious you are. One of the things which inspires me to lend my support, time, expertise etc is when I see how enterprising the budding entrepreneur is. What have they done with ‘little’? Being enterprising is about your spirit how iron clad are the plans, contingencies and options, what will you do when you encounter unforeseen challenges, but your attitude, spirit and response to these will keep all your associates and those watching from the wayside interested in your journey.

    Develop a support network of people who have the skills you lack, get their buy-in (possibly by offering some incentive, or just because they believe in you. Everything is open to negotiation).

    What other big projects are you working on and what are some of your future prospects?

    For Eyato; we are planning new designs, new collections and a summer event and for Shhh or Tell it; we are in talks with a UK company about the whole package ‘The Big Secret, Shhh or Tell it and Tiddles’ package.

    How would you like to be remembered?

    Atiti…distinctly different!!!

     

  • ‘Why you need to volunteer’

    ‘Why you need to volunteer’

    Samuel Akinlotan is the Relationship Executive; Volunteer in Nigeria a group for Nigerian volunteers. He speaks with Kelechi Amakoh on volunteering, why more Nigerians should volunteer and benefits derived from it.
    What does it mean to volunteer?

    Volunteering is any activity or service that involves spending time, energy without pay, doing something that benefits someone else, the local community or the environment. It is
    an act of selflessness and adding value to someone else or the community at large.
    To volunteer, there shouldn’t be any form of prejudice or bias. Thus, anyone can volunteer, regardless of age, experience, background, ethnicity, gender, religion, sexual orientation,
    disability or refugee status. In normal volunteering sense, It is good practice for organisations to
    pay their volunteers expenses.

    This usually includes travel to and from the volunteering placement and the cost of any training or equipment that you need to carry out your volunteer role. So volunteering shouldn’t cost
    you more than your time and energy

    What does a volunteer stand to benefit?

    Volunteering is a win-win act, in which you help yourself while helping others.
    The benefits of volunteering are enormous to you, your family, and your community. The
    right match can help you find friends, reach out to the community, learn new skills, and
    even advance your career. Volunteering can also help protect your mental and physical health.

    What has been your volunteering experience so far?

    In my own experience of volunteering for over 4years, I will list a few benefits I have
    gotten from volunteering.

    It has created Networks for me, and helped me meet new friends with common interest. It has helped me develop and master my social and interpersonal skills. It has developed and improved my self- confidence, self-esteem and Life satisfaction.

    It has also helped me gain experience in my field of professional interest, meet people in the field and thus advanced my career. It provided me with valuable job skills and
    career experience, while volunteering have also had fun and gotten opportunities.

    Why Nigerians don’t volunteer/ don’t know or value volunteering?

    The first problem I see with Nigerians not knowing about Volunteering or partaking is lack of time we have to consistently donate in service.

    Most people in their 20s are busy people; we want to do it all, so we fill our hyper-schedules with demanding careers, hobbies, social activities and diversions of all sorts. When all is said and done, we have very little time to spare, so while we still feel the call to serve, we are at a loss for how to fit this into our daily lives.

    Also, our lack of interest in neighbours, our community and the Nation at large. A majority of Nigerians, even our leaders are full of self-interest and are thus self-focused and are thus self-focused.

    Some people also don’t know the benefits of volunteering, so once they hear they are not going to get paid they never come back or even answer calls. I have experienced this several times. Another thing is that, some people are really willing to volunteer but they don’t know how to, where to go to, or what to do. Volunteering might be a simple act of staying at bus-stops to help school children cross the road, helping Old people cross the road, bringing about a positive cause in the immediate environment.

    In my opinion, I don’t think Nigerians don’t know about Volunteering. There are local Men that control traffic in their community, Women sweeping their dirty environment, children helping to park wastes as well.

    These are local people that are not even educated, so illiteracy is not an excuse to not know about volunteering. If we take it upon ourselves to support a right cause, and help someone in need. We are directly or indirectly volunteering. So I implore everyone to always have a give-back attitude. It’s what you give to Life that Life brings back to you.

  • 5 things Mandela taught me

    5 things Mandela taught me

    During my first year in school, I wanted to be heard, make impact, and with the speaking gifts I had, I thought it would be an easy task. My first public speaking competition opened my eyes to many weaknesses. I was not only ridiculously shy; I began to stammer once I was asked to speak in front of a large crowd.

    My dream of making an impact in my school slowly but persistently began to shatter. But another opportunity came during a speaking competition again and I decided to test myself once more – with the help of my teachers who motivated me and I began to speak. I remember a time when one of my teachers gave a speech, he adopted a quote from Nelson Mandela and Marianne Williamson, “Our deepest fear” – I loved the quote so much that I went ahead to search it out. I found many other wonderful quotes from Mandela which opened me up to a world of new found bravery and victory over my fear for the competition.

    Mandela taught me with the wonderful quotes from his book, “Long Walk to Freedom”. Below are some of these quotes:

    He taught me to fight my fears

    He said, “I’ve learned that courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not the man who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.”

    I would not say after reading this quote I stopped being afraid, I just learned to fight it. Fear is natural, what makes me brave is that I learned to fight it.

    He taught me never to give up

    “There were many dark moments when my faith in humanity was sorely tested, but I would not and could not give myself up to despair. That way lays defeat and death.”

    I learned not to give up. There’s always light at the end of every tunnel; yes I may feel different sometime, even many times, I just learnt never to act different or defeated. I am not quitter.

    He taught me that leading often does not involve being seen

    “A leader… is like a shepherd. He stays behind the flock, letting the most nimble go out ahead, whereupon the others follow, not realizing that all along they are being directed from behind.”

    I’ve always wanted to lead, to be seen, to be heard; but I chased this wrong away. Seeing this quote made me realize that leading doesn’t often involve being seen. It most times involves action. I learnt to let my actions speak for me.

    He taught  me never to expect the same results from my past

    “I could not imagine that the future I was walking toward could compare in any way to the past that I was leaving behind”

    Mandela made me realize that to get to the future I dream of, I have to let go of the present I currently live in and walk towards my future making it my present and my past. He also made me understand that the future is the future when I start getting different and better results

    Above all, he taught  me to love

    “No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than it’s opposite.”

    He thought me to love, and with that love I can fight for what I want and believe. He thought me that if I loved something so much I would fight for it.

    He said,“I had no epiphany, no singular revelation, no moment of truth, but a steady accumulation of a thousand slights, a thousand indignities and a thousand unremembered moments produced in me anger, rebelliousness, a desire to fight the system that imprisoned my people. There was no particular day on which I said, henceforth I will devote myself to the liberation of my people; instead, I simply found myself doing so, and could not do otherwise.”

     

  • Posthumous birthday wishes for Oshiomhole’s aide

    Posthumous birthday wishes for Oshiomhole’s aide

    He would have been a year older on December 7, but Olaitan Oyerinde’s life was cut short by assassins — he was until his death the Private Secretary to the Governor of Edo State, Adams Oshiomhole.

    Oyerinde was gruesomely murdered by four assailants in the early hours of May 42012 in the presence of his helpless wife and other family members.

    Facebook friends of the late comrade whose killers are yet to be brought to justice posted their wishes on the social media platform.

    Below are some of the posts:


    Jagunmolu ‘OluwaDare Lasisi

    Today is Comrade Olaitan Oyerinde‘s birthday. Do we still remember this Nigerian human rights activist and former Special Adviser to Edo State Governor Adams Oshiomole? He was brutally gunned down in his bedroom in Benin City 2 years ago and his killers are yet to be arrested. Many friends not aware of his assassination are still saying ‘Happy birthday’ on his Facebook wall. Anyway, life goes on, may Olaitan’s killers never smell peace in this world and hereafter. If they and their sponsors have the power, let them live beyond 500 years on earth. Fellow Nigerians, let us remember this great guy murdered in cold blood. No evil deed shall go unpunished.*Sun re o Olaitan Abdulkabir Oyerinde*

     

    Yemisi Ilesanmi

    Comrade Olaitan Oyerinde today, I cannot help but wonder if his killers will ever be brought to justice. Is there hope for a true democracy in Nigeria and where exactly did the left go wrong?  Olaitan, I really do miss our fights, laughter, banter and all the office drama. R.I.P. Adieu and Goodbye.
    The Dictators are not only those

    Who terrorized us in military clothes

    Banned the ballot boxes, rolled out armored tanks

    From their hallowed barracks their records stank

    The dictators are not only those

    Who unleashed on us bullets doses
    Arrests we endured, Teargas we inhaled
    Bullets we survived, in victory we exhaled

    The dictators are more than men in khakis
    Now they strut around with official cardkeys
    They dined with the military killers
    Frolicking and posing as civilian rulers

    The dictators are the beneficiaries of our struggle
    The throats of the people they now strangle
    Feeding fat on the carcass of the masses
    Belching on empty electoral promises

    The dictators are the pot bellied old men
    Toasting their ‘do or die’ politics with a mien
    Drinking the blood of our youth
    While our treasury they loot

    With our blood we paved the way for elections
    With our limbs new mansions are now erected
    Assassins they wantonly hire to come and raid
    As they willfully gun down our trusted comrades

    Arise comrades, for our work is far from done
    From the wrinkled, bloodstained hands of the dons
    Our country we shall capture and reclaim
    Our comrades’ blood shall not be in vain

    The dictators are the 1 percent
    We the masses are the 99 percent
    With unity, might and strength
    We shall sniff out their odious scent

    The dictators we shall once again oust
    Our flag they shall no longer hoist
    They shall all be gone
    Before we are done.
    BY © YEMISI ILESANMI

     

    Oladoyin Siyanbola

    Though u’re gone Sir, U’re always remembered. May ur soul continue 2 rest in perfect peace. Happy post humous birthday

    Okey Onwuchekwa

    Evil men and their self-imposed hapless security operatives who remained clueless to bring justice to you may be having their wicked laugh, but God will not allow your blood remain uncounted forever.  Happy birthday, in the world beyond.

     

    Aderiike Kolawole

    Continue to rest in peace. And may those that sent you to your early grave never know peace. Their unborn generation shall share in their pains and bitterness. May the Lord continue to be with your wife and the children you left behind. .

    Izekor Amen-Joy

    Dis household will continue 2 remember u. I’m sure it would have been a great day if u were to be alive. Continue 2 rest in peace.

    Rilwan Olowo Eko

    May the happiest day of the year bring you what you care for the most. Continue to rest in peace

    Oghene Olu Dester

    Posthumously we shall continue to celebrate you! May your gentle soul continue to rest in Perfect peace!!!

    Adeyemo Adeyinka

    Happy posthumous birthday comrade. May you continue to rest in Lord’s bosom and may peace elude those that cut your life @ your prime.

    Comrade Femi Taiwo

    My Great Comrade! May ur gentle Soul continue to rest in d blossom of Almighty God, Till we meet and part no more, I love u bro,but God love u more.

    Orish Mayor

    Happy post-mortem birthday comrade,don’t let your assailants rest until they are hacked down too.Farewell comrade!!!Aluta continua,victoria ascerta!

    Juliana Taiwo Obalonye

    Continue to RIP comrade & may God continue to keep your family you left behind. Amen

    Rasheed Raji Ropo

    As we remember you today comrade… Pls continue to rest in peace… Still your killer has not been found but we know that one day you killer will also join you in the underworld and from there God that has power over everything will pass judgement on every soul.. Rest in perfect peace comrade Olaitan Oyerinde

     

  • Between Wedding and Marriage

    Between Wedding and Marriage

    As far as many people are concerned, wedding and marriage is a matter of the use of words; they are synonymous. On the other hand, there are those who are of the view that wedding and marriage are two different events in one’s life.

    Ideologically, wedding is a one-day ceremony of the beginning a nuptial journey whereby a “life contract” is signed by the couples involved and other witnesses in the public glaring. Therefore, their ideology posits that while wedding is a one-day festivity, marriage is a life time celebration. In other words, marriage is termed life after wedding.

    Having said that, another side of the story has it that people invest a lot of time, energy and money while perfecting preparation for a spectacular wedding at the expense of other relevant matters, especially issues that are germane to a successful and lasting marriage.

    They are of the view that a large percentage of people who are prone to elaborate wedding do not actually have the wherewithal, in practical term, to sustain and maintain such lifestyle after wedding. Consequently, all kinds of matrimonial acrimonies arise, especially financial matters which eventually often lead to divorce.

    So, these categories of people wonder why someone would go extra mile badly in debt because of one-day merriment at the expense of their future’s financial well-being. They argue that inasmuch as a celebrated wedding is important, wisdom demands that one exhibit moderation in such a transient event.

    One of the supporters of this school of thought is one Alhaji Mutiu Agbede, a Nigerian politician and businessman. In a chat with him, having been married for 16 years, he is of the opinion that considerable planning for marriage should be prioritised, not excessive spending on a one-day festivity.

    According to him:“One can have a low-key wedding or an elaborate wedding; it depends of the financial capability of the persons involved. Wedding is just a day ceremony while marriage is for a lasting period of time. What matter most in marriage is the caring that must be invested in the marriage by both couples.

    This is important because you have to invest your time on your marriage in order to make it work and last. The problem most people are having in marriage today is that they spend a lot of money and time on their wedding at the expense of the life after wedding. It doesn’t make sense to go and borrow just because you want to have an elaborate wedding. Such action stands a potential threat to one’s marriage in future.”, he expressed.

    In the same vein, one Mrs. Latifat Adeleye, a fashion designer, whose marriage clocks three years in 2013, is of the same mind with Alhaji Agbede’s stance. While chatting with her on the issue, she is of the view that a lot of people failed to plan for the life after wedding, which has often led to most breaking marriages. She emphasises “deep love” as the key to weather any unexpected matrimonial storm. She said: “Deep love is the key to a successful and lasting marriage. This will help both husband and the wife to exercise longsuffering and patience for each other during matrimonial problems. So, in my own view, I don’t support elaborate wedding at the expense of the resources and time needed for a lasting marriage. So, as far as I’m concerned, spending a lot of money on wedding is a wastage. I would rather invest that money to plan ahead for the life after wedding.” She stated. Also, one Mr. Akeem Omotosho shared his considered opinion. He also threw some light on the difference between wedding and marriage. According to him, he said: “Some people don’t know the difference between wedding and marriage. Wedding is just a call for people to come and celebrate with you for the new life you are about to enter. But the most important thing is the marital life itself which is the marriage and it is for a life time if all things work well for the couples involved. Therefore, instead of extravagance spending on wedding, one should be concerned on how to show necessary attributes that are needed for an enduring marriage. Both couples should prioritise on how to make their home peaceful and live in love, endurance and patience instead of exhausting all their resources on one-day celebration.” He advised.

    Still on the same line of thought, one Mrs. Hawau Badru, a stylist, also shared her philosophy on the subject matter. She said: “My stance on wedding is that one should endeavour not to spend beyond one’s financial capability. It is unfortunate that most people have invited problems into their lives through elaborate wedding. The reason is that it is often difficult to know who truly loves you in this part of the world. Therefore, elaborate wedding is often termed an open invitation to unnecessary enmity in the life after wedding. Although a lot of people came to celebrate with me during my own wedding, we didn’t spend beyond our financial strength. Now I give thanks to Almighty Allah for His goodness towards my family after seven years in marriage. (Alhamdulilahi).”, she expressed. Also, another young lady who has married for five years, one Mrs. Rukayat Adebayo, a businesswoman, said: “I would encourage a low-key wedding, so that one can spend substantial time to plan for the future of one’s family, which is most important.”, she stated.

    Based on the above concept, it is, therefore, suffice to deduce that inasmuch as a celebrated wedding is important, wisdom demands that one should be more concerned about how to live the life that comes after wedding successfully, despite several unforeseen matrimonial challenges. Based on the people’s concept, the difference between wedding and marriage is one’s emotional stability and intellectual prowess to handle daunting issues that could militate against the life after wedding.

    Bakare is a student of Mass Communication at the University of Lagos.