Category: Saturday Magazine

  • Bisi Olatilo, Dele Momodu, others celebrate at Niteshift

    Today is a special day for relations, friends, associates of the Alake of Egbaland, Oba Micheal Adedotun Aremu Gbadebo. Celeb Watch gathered that there will be Grand House Reception at Niteshift Coliseum, Opebi, Ikeja, Lagos in honour of the monarch. Glamour and glitz will be on offer as the Guv’nor of Niteshift, Ken-Calebs Olumese replicates his magic.

    The evening event will feature music, comedy and an interactive session with the 70-year-old monarch. The events will be moderated by the likes of Taiwo Obileye, Bisi Olatilo, Ohi Alegbe, Emeka Ossai, Cynthia Yinkere and Chief Dele Momodu.

    The high profile event is strictly by invitation. It promises to be a grand occasion for the First Class monarch.

  • West Park celebrates

    After a successful one year business activity, coupled with a strong conviction of having made a good impression on its patrons, going by their inspirational compliments, Westpark Hotel, another entrant into the hospitality business is set to celebrate its first anniversary.

    According to the Chairman, Westpark International Hotel, Mr. Oseni Razak, Westpark Hotel is an evolution of his passion for the hospitality venture. He said as a businessman and a widely travelled tourist, he has come to appreciate the enormous potential inherent in the hospitality business, especially the socio-economic advantage, hence his resolve to also be part of the players of the hospitality industry.

    “I had always wanted to be part of the hospitality business. But I felt I couldn’t wait forever. I just felt I should start from somewhere which culminated into the hotel a year ago. lt was last year I decided to give it a final shot”, he said.

    Located in the bustling town of Egbeda, a town noted for its high rate of human traffic and commercial activities, the hotel is, however, tucked in the reserved area of Seliat Estate, an exclusive reservation of the urbane. West Park Hotel is being managed by well trained and motivated professionals in the hospitality industry.

    The hotel offers impeccably high service standard tailored towards the need of discerning local and international business patrons, as well as leisure seekers who value clean, comfortable, secured and affordable accommodation facilities.

    “At the inception of the hotel, we decided that exclusivity is going to be our watchword. Of course, we are opened to everyone, but our exclusive offer will actually go a long way in giving direction and setting the agenda for our patrons”, Razak added.

    Speaking further, the Manager, Westpark Hotel, Mrs Celestina Adewunmi, said the hotel boasts of every facility expected of an international hotel. “It’s a home away from home. It has air conditioned 17 rooms with other trappings of comfort one could imagine. The hotel offers you round-the-clock service, including restaurants and bars, offering local and international cuisines. It also boasts of latest and best of technology in the industry with 24 hours electricity. All the rooms have Wifi- internet access, electronic key card system, LCD television system and excellent food and beverages facilities”.

  • The torn veil (1)

    The first day I took my fiancé, Denis home to meet my parents, was supposed to be a happy occasion for the family. My parents had known about my relationship with him for sometime and had always wanted me to bring him home. But I had delayed their meeting him until I was really sure he was the right man for me.

    A few months ago, I finally took Dennis to meet them. As things turned out, it was one meeting that should never have taken place. Why? You might ask. Well, read my story and you will get the answer.

    Meeting Dennis

    I first met my fiancé at work. In fact, he was my supervisor and boss at the company I worked with when I newly joined. Initially, I was wary about him because of my experience with my former boss at the last place I worked. That man gave me a tough time all because I turned down his advances to date him. And this was a man that was married with seven children!

    Anyway, I should not have worried about Dennis. He treated me fairly, more like a younger sister than a boss. He was always giving advice both on the job and even in personal matters too like relationships. Maybe because I was the new girl in the office, a lot of the guys there wanted to date me. They kept pestering me for dates and would not give up even when I had no interest in them.

    “Don’t take them too seriously, Meg. That’s what they do whenever a new female staff comes. Especially a pretty one like you,” my boss advised me one day after observing one of my co-workers, a notorious womaniser giving me his ‘manifesto.’

    With time, I got to know more about my ‘oga’. Though of mature age, he was about 35, he was not married and seemed to have no fiancé. It was a colleague of mine who told me his story one afternoon during our lunch break.

    “He was engaged to be married about three years ago. But unfortunately, his fiancé died before the wedding,” Esther, my colleague revealed.

    “What happened?” I asked with interest.

    “Well, I heard she was sick. They said she had cancer, something to do with her blood or so,” she added.

    “What a pity,” I said shaking my head. I felt sorry for my boss for losing his woman so young.

    “Yes. He must have really loved her for since then, he has never been close to any woman again, whether in the office or outside,” she noted.

    She could be right. In the one year or so that I had known my boss, I had never seen any female visitor coming to see him at work.

    Sometime later, my boss was transferred to another department of the company. And that was when our relationship changed. From being just my boss, we became friends and grew closer than we were before.

    He started inviting me out for drinks and even took me out to dinner. It was while we were eating that he made a confession to me. He told me how he had been attracted to me while we were working together but could not do much about it back then.

    “Why?” I asked, feeling curiously thrilled at his words. The truth was that, I had had feelings for him for sometime too but had kept mum about the way I felt.

    He took a sip of water before he said:

    “I didn’t want anything to affect our working relationship. But you are no longer under me now. So…”

    From that day, we grew closer. With time, he took me to his home and I met some of his relations. Dennis and I were very compatible, despite the eight year age gap between us. We seemed to like the same things and had the same goals and dreams about life. As our relationship blossomed, I fell more deeply in love with him. He was my ideal man and in him I saw the man I wanted to be with always.

    He seemed to feel the same way too. About seven months after our relationship started, Dennis proposed to me. That day, we had gone to the cinema to watch a movie. It was on the way back that he stopped the car and asked me to marry him. I was so happy that I had flung my arms around him and said a loud, ‘Yes!’

    Before then, Dennis had been asking to meet my parents, to get to know my family members. But I had always told him to be patient, that when the time was right, he would get to meet them.

    A few days after we got engaged, I told my mum that I would be bringing him home.

    “Really? That’s good. I can’t wait to see the young man that has made my daughter look so happy!” she enthused.

    “Ah! Mum! I always look happy!” I stated.

    “But not like this. There’s a glow about you that was not there before. You must really love him,” she said.

    I nodded.

    “A lot, Mum. I can’t imagine what my life will be without him,” I said.

    “He must be really special. What does he look like? Is he handsome?” and she began bombarding me with questions about my fiancé.

    “Ah! Mum! Take it easy! You will get to meet him soon so don’t be so anxious!” I stated laughing.

    My Mum and I were very close. Maybe because I am the first child and only girl out of four children. Sometimes we were more like sisters than mother and daughter. Often, when we went out together, people often mistook us for siblings. We looked so much alike and my mum looked so young for her age. You see, she married quite early and had me when she was still very young, as a teenager in fact.

    I loved her so much and because of our closeness, there was nothing I didn’t tell her including details about my love life.

    The weekend that Dennis was to visit, was spent by my mum and I cooking and cleaning our home.

    “I want him to know he’s getting a wife who can cook, that he’s not getting a Mr Biggs wife!” she remarked as she stirred a sizzling pot of soup with an enticing aroma that pervaded the whole house.

    I laughed, full of joy and anticipation at the meeting of my beloved with my family…

    •To be continued

    •What happened when Dennis met Meg’s parents? Keep a date with us next Saturday!

    •Names have been changed to protect the identities of the narrator and other individuals in the story.

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  • Etteh prepares for showdown with Adeleke

    Patricia Folake Etteh, a former Speaker of the House of Representatives, is allegedly preparing herself for the Senate in 2015. The Ikire, Osun State-born woman is currently pursuing a law programme in the United Kingdom, but that has not precluded her from erecting structures to actualise her dream of remaining politically relevant in the state.

    Some close watchers of political events in the state had thought that the beautician-turned-politician would retire from party politics after the controversial manner she left office as the Speaker of the House of Representatives. But like Oliver Twist, she wants more, and some hangers on in the state are already singing her praises.

    The former Speaker may yield to pressure from her supporters and take a shot at the Osun West Senatorial seat in 2015. But the move is bound to bring her into direct confrontation with Senator Isiaka Adeleke.

  • Be a fashion icon with  your choice of hat!

    Be a fashion icon with your choice of hat!

    CAP your look with the wide range of hats in the season, from trilbies, fedoras and fascinators to beanies and berets, visors and floppy straw sun hats.

    Head caps in general, especially fedora and big ones, have left the church to take a place on the fashion stage.

    This should not be surprising. Fashion is never static, it is always evolving. A hat may not come with or with a brim nor festooned with flowers. But one thing you can be sure of is that, it will come with a tasteful variety of styles.

    All over the world, most hats are fashioned after the traditional French and English hats, featuring sinamay, straw, raffia, and soft, cosy and flexible wool, which allow a snug fit for any shape of the head.

    Though worn traditionally to rest more at the centre of the head than the other parts, most hats, apart from beret, can also be pulled with the help of elastic rubber securely over the ears for added warmth. Hats are versatile, lightweight and easy to slide on. Their colours vary, and the fit is great. So, go funky with one

  • ‘Asaba people were victims of genocide’

    ‘Asaba people were victims of genocide’

    Having written about the civil war, what is your take on it considering the fact that part of the war was fought at Asaba?

    I lost my family in the war. And this is a product of the civil war. There was a genocide committed by the Nigerian Army at Asaba. We were not Biafrans. The Biafrans would take their case anywhere. We Asaba people, we were not in Ojukwu’s Biafra map. We were in Nigeria’s map. Some of us fought for Biafra. Some people fought for Nigeria. General Iweze fought for Nigeria. My uncles, some of them fought in the Nigerian Air Force. So, for anybody to come and tell you there was no genocide is talking nonsense.

    How about Biafran involvement in genocide?

    There was no Biafran genocide. Because the underlying word in genocide is plot. Did they plot for any Nigerian side to be wiped out? There is a United Nations conclusive finding under Dr. Edem Kojo, in 1969, that there was a genocide against the Igbo. I can give you the paper. It is not a question of somebody cheating anybody. Nobody sat down and planned that this part of Nigeria would be wiped out.

    What is your impression about General Alabi Isama’s war memoir, Tragedy of Victory?

    General Alabi Isama’s book is incomplete because he failed to talk much about Chukwuma Kaduna Nzeogwu. The leader of the January 15th coup was Christian Anuforo. Nzeogwu was not in the coup. Nzeogwu came later because of his way of life. Nzeogwu did not drink. Nzeogwu didn’t smoke. Nzeogwu’s driver was a Hausa boy. Nzeogwu never attended any Ibo town union meeting. He never attended any local, tribal meeting. His best music was martial music and his mentors were Gen (Tito) of Yugoslavia, Patrice Lumunba, and Che Guevara. Those were his mentors. And he would wake up 7am and go to mass but he was a Hausa boy, shaving, and wearing babariga. He never chased any woman. He wasn’t going to get married. His mission was to go and fight in South Africa. So, he needed a Nigerian leader that would help him. That was why he switched from the Sardauna to embrace Awo, no Igbo. The other leader was Emmanuel Ifeajuna, who has been into revolutions from the University of Ibadan. Revolution has been on his mind. And if you’re from my side, Onitsha people say that they are Igbo, like Ngwa people say they are not Igbo. Some people from Nsukka area, they relate with Idoma. We know who are the Igbo. Ifeajuna at his time was the greatest high profile athlete when he scaled 6.9 (metres) in Vancouver. He was the first black athlete. He pulled off his shirt, like what these athletes do now. And there was pandemonium in the city of Vancouver. If you go to any exercise book in the 50s, 60s, 70s, you will see him on the cover. All his life was at Ibadan and his best friend was Segun Awolowo, Christopher Okigbo, Wole Soyinka. Achebe was not a revolutionary, he was just a writer. And they were chasing the best women in Ibadan. That was why Christopher Okigbo was able to marry the princess from Attah. These boys were not talking tribes.

    Some of those authors of books on the Nigerian Civil War were players in the war and could not have had the benefit of hindsight and research which you had. Why do you give much credence to Gen Olusegun Obasanjo?

    You know Biafra surrendered unconditionally. I won’t come here to denigrate Ojukwu. But if Ojukwu had listened, Biafra could have gotten back its currency, it could have gotten its army reintegrated. Go and read the Think-Tank Memoranda of the Addis Ababa Peace Conference. A man, (Habeeb Bogiva) from Tunisia, said, when the British troop came, they said they’re bringing Obasanjo, he’s the only one who has the humanity that can make Biafra surrender and you’re telling me that he is a coward, that he was shot in the buttocks. That is their problem. Then, you have demystified the surrender. Biafra can now go and claim that they didn’t surrender. That is the meaning of that lie. What happened when the Biafrans came to Mid West, they were involved in collateral damage. And it was not a Biafran Army. There was no order from the headquarters for them to do what they did in Warri, which I acknowledged in my book. In fact, they were to move straight to Lagos. Gowon was flying to Zaria until the same Obasanjo you’re saying had no courage said no. And it was the same Obasanjo that took Nzeogwu’s paper from Kaduna to come and negotiate with Agunyi Ironsi during the fledging days of the 1966 coup. And I’m telling you, the coup was a perfect success. Go and read the biography of Mallam Aminu Kano. Aminu Kano was to be deputy to Awo in that coup. The principal aim of January 1966 coup was to install Obafemi Awolowo as the Prime Minister of Nigeria. And the boys would now move to South Africa. Nzeogwu was not interested in Nigeria.

    We have spoken enough about genocide. Let us move away from that. There is this argument that the battle in Owerri was not conclusive. What to you were the elements that made it impossible for each of the sides to cave in during the crisis that lasted more than one year?

    You know, I’m not an authority in military battles but I know that in a way, you’re asking me about the commander. They said Scorpion (Gen. Benjamin Adekunle) was the best that Nigeria could offer. I do not disagree with him on battleground confrontation. That is not my area. My area is on civilian consequence but I know about Owerri. The greatest Biafran commander was not my uncle Achuzia. Achuzia would go to battle with a battalion, he would come back with a company, sometimes the mission was not complete. He would shoot some of them himself. The greatest commander of Biafran Army was Timothy Onwuatuegwu and that is why I am saying here that Danjuma and all of them, in military convention, after the war and you announce that you have surrendered, you don’t touch soldiers, you arrest them. Obasanjo did that. He arrested all the soldiers in Owerri. And he was very nice to them, even though they said they didn’t get this or that. Up to when they got to Lagos. Black Scorpion would not do that. And I told you the story of Murtala Muhammed. Three trailers had koboko, (whips) not bullets. So, what would koboko do, if they had entered Biafran heartland? Koboko was for us – for gentlemen to be flogged to death. So, in answer to your question, Owerri was concluded. Remember that Major Utuk, the Calabar commander at Owerri, was surrounded by the 8th Brigade commanded by Timothy Onwuatuegwu who was the best. Any time that there is crisis, he’s the one they call. So, Owerri was taken back from the federal troop but at a stage, they allowed an area for them to escape back.

    Who wanted to bomb Port-Harcourt?

    The man is alive. I can give you his number. It was these people who did Ogbunigwe. So, when the British came and they knew, that was reversed – that they were bringing this commander down who had a lot of humanity in him. In fact, the man who stopped the war was Akanu Ibiam. Ojukwu was not ready. Ojukwu believed he was going to win because they knew (Aju Ala). The Ogbunigwe became (Aju Ala). In artillery acquisition, the Russians are better than the US. The Russian mortar can go 24 miles but the Biafran artillery, the (Aju Ala) was going 26 miles. The Russians were alarmed. That was the main reason they supported Nigeria. They had sympathy for the Biafrans because every revolution claims sympathy for the Eastern countries, like the MPLA, Ethiopia, Lumumba, they had this. For the first time in Africa, Russia said ‘we’re suffering from yellow malaise – that is China.’ This black danger is coming – 26 miles was this Biafran mortar. It’s very crude, it may not be direct. There were many other problems but people were still dying. So, what I’m saying is that, I’m not here to defend Obasanjo. I’m here to say that man has managed, whether it is luck, whether it is destiny, to remain like Peron of Argentina in the balcony of the power corridors of the world.

    January 15 coup’s main purpose was to topple the federal authorities under the corrupt regime of Abubakar Tafawa Balewa and at that point in time, there was genocide established going on in Gboko, Tiv land. There was mayhem on the streets of Lagos, Ikorodu, Ibadan, Ijebu-Ode, Ijebu-Igbo up to Ekiti area. Balewa was like Jonathan. He couldn’t arrest the situation. Go and read The Man Died; that is why I don’t joke with Wole Soyinka, no matter what they are saying. Nzeogwu was the first Nigerian trained intelligence officer. He started the SSS at Apapa in 1963. It’s in my book, Nzeogwu, the unknown. So, they knew there was going to be a January 17th coup. The coup was to eliminate all the western intellectuals; Tai Solarin, Wole Soyinka, Bola Ige. What happened was that they were fed up with what was happening. If you come out to the streets of west, they burn you alive, whether you’re for this or that. This was the situation when the boys came out. You cannot just say somebody murdered Sardauna or Balewa. Nobody shot Balewa. This was corroborated by Segun Osoba. He was there at the launching (Isama’s Book). He (Osoba) was a Daily Times reporter at that time. And I wrote my own because my aunty was a girlfriend to Balewa at that time. If you want a wife, you must come to Asaba – Babangida, even Balewa who wasn’t chasing women, they gave him my aunty. She told me that Balewa had asthma. Balewa couldn’t swim in that their State House, Marina. Living opposite Balewa was Okotie-Eboh, the richest man then. And when the January 15th boys came, they came for him. He was to be shot at sight. Mbadiwe was to be shot at sight. Balewa, not to be touched because he was a gentleman. Sardauna of Sokoto shot at sight. Akintola shot at sight. Agunyi-Ironsi shot at sight. People are mixing it up. So, Nzeogwu said, give me Agunyi-Ironsi, I know him. If you don’t get him dismantled, that is the word, not shot, the coup would not happen. They said, ‘go to Sardauna’. So, what he did in Kaduna, the coup was successful, coup was successful in the west. So, which place was the coup not successful? Lagos. Who stopped the Lagos operation? Major Obienu, another Igbo man. He was the commander of a unit in Abeokuta. He didn’t show up. His boys had taken over the key security structures. The man who was to announce the coup who was not Nzeogwu, not Ifeajuna, it was Ademulegun. That was his only job. Up till now, we’re still researching why he didn’t announce the coup. And he was to announce that there was a revolution and Obafemi Awolowo is released. That was Nzeogwu’s number one purpose. He said, ‘if you don’t bring Awo as the Prime Minister, I will not join you because he is the only one talking about free education,. And his best friend was Segun Awolowo. How did he die? Mystery. How did the man that they suspected killed him die? The same place that this publisher of Tribune had his own motor accident.

    So, when Nzeogwu waited for them for four hours, he made that spontaneous announcement in Kaduna. He wasn’t supposed to announce it. So, who is telling me it is tribal? So, in summary, what I am saying is any book that starts writing Nigerian military without first acknowledging that first, there was a lot of blood on the streets. I’m not talking about military people. Blood in Ibadan, you couldn’t come out on the streets in 1966. I’m coming back to the second phase of Nigerian crises – the war. Gowon benefitted from the coup. There was nothing like revenge coup. Nobody did any coup. What happened was that the Nigerian federation came together and every group wanted something. The Igbo, I don’t know what they want – up till now, I cannot find their interest. But, I can tell you straight, the northerners always wanted power. They want to control the army. They want their religion (Islam) to be dominant in our culture. The Yoruba want all the banks, the stock exchange, they want to control the financial events of the country. And they want Lagos to remain the capital, no matter if Abuja is there. And they want the Yoruba language spoken not only in Nigeria but up to the world. And I acknowledge them for that. The minorities, I’ve read The Kahama Declaration by Isaac Boro. They wanted to be out of this federation because their wealth was being depleted but now that things have changed, it looks like they want to stay. Now, during serious conflagrations by these major tribes, they always go with the north. This time, they’re there. It seems the easterners are the main support. I’m looking at the two sides before we make our conclusions. Those of us who are Midwestern Igbo had it so bad during the war from both sides. Because the Biafrans came, they didn’t tell us they were coming in. And if they were coming in, that plan originally was Nzeogwu’s plan. Nzeogwu said he was going to lead it. And he told Ojukwu, don’t declare Biafra, let us fight against the north. These people have everything. Like now, the whole military instalment is just in Kaduna, Zaria. So, if there is a massive air force attack on Nigeria concentrated on Kaduna and Zaria, we’re finished. There is nothing here. So, I’m saying we cannot write a Nigerian civil war book without telling us about Nzeogwu. I thought the General, being a commander of a training school – he started with training school according to his book, should have told us more about Nzeogwu, whether he believed or not. He should have started with what happened before the military came in. He just went straight into the war and tried to defend what they were doing.

    You cannot prescribe what someone is going to write. Someone is writing a book, he has a right to say, this is my focus.

    I am being called to comment. I have a right to critique also. There are areas I agree with him. I’m not saying he has no right to write the book. It’s just that somebody said, why did Achebe do his own? I agree with you. What I am saying is if I’m doing a review of that book, I have a right. In fact, to me, that book should have been three books because I know Nigerian readers. They won’t finish that book.

    But what is your overall impression about the book?

    This book is a classic. It is the first chronicle coming from the Nigerian side since the edited Nigerian Army book from General Momoh. That one is vast and very complete. But, this one from a personal diary – that establishes Alabi Isama as a General. Most generals never kept diaries; this man kept diaries, kept photographs – so you can compare his book to the other category on the other side of Alex Madiebo. I’m talking about field diaries of Generals. The only thing that I’ve said is missing is he could have told us about the man who started it all – Kaduna Nzeogwu. And he didn’t.

    Secondly, I agree with him that even though the Nigerian First Division was the most favoured in armoury, in administration, in support, in equipment, the Third Marine Commando gave the Biafrans black eye. They were the most deadly army Biafrans faced. I agree with him there.

    You said something like there was never a counter or revenge coup.

    There was no revenge because when you say revenge, that means some people were against it. The people who organised the January 15 coup were not Igbo.

    That’s your claim

    It is not a claim.

    Before the war, the Igbo were prominent in politics, in the army and there was co-habitation. That first coup truncated that. So, the perception was that the Igbo wanted to take over and the first coup was to go back to status quo.

    Scientifically, from our studies, there is nothing like a revenge coup. When somebody took away your wife and you go for revenge. When somebody stole your money or beat your child up, you go for revenge. That word, I want to define the word revenge. When you say there was revenge, that means somebody did something to them, right.

    Let me say this. Up till now, the mainstream of Nigerian politics, even the Igbo, believe that there was a revenge coup. Even if you go through There was a Country, Achebe said that, ‘okay if we killed them on January 15, killing the 200 Igbo officers, why did we go to civilians?’ I’m saying the boys may answer Igbo names. (But) Nzeogwu was not Igbo, he was Hausa. Nzeogwu is from my area, Okpanam in Asaba. He spoke Hausa more than any other language. What I’m saying is that Nzeogwu was extraordinary. Nzeogwu had a brother – a professor of Agro-economics, one of the best in United States. His name is Okeleke Nzeogwu. He went to school at Mayflower School, (Ikenne). He was trained by Mrs. Sheila Solarin. And who brought him there? Olusegun Obasanjo. He didn’t bring him to Lagos. And if you go to that part of Nigeria (Ikenne), there is Chukwuma Kaduna Nzeogwu Street. There were still fighting when Tai Solarin put the street there. There is a reason. Nzeogwu was the one who wrote the people who were to be – Tai Solarin was to be minister of education.

    You said something now that if Obasanjo had been there and Nzeogwu was coming, the forces would have been resolved. I want to compare that to when Soyinka went to meet Obasanjo. He gave Banjo message to him. And he said, so long as he was the head of the Ibadan Garrison, his allegiance was to Lagos. Would he have given a different answer to Nzeogwu?

    I don’t talk battle line diaries. I’m not a military expert but I’m an expert in conflict resolution in Africa. I have in my confidential report that originally, it was Nzeogwu’s plan. Nzeogwu had told Ojukwu, ‘don’t declare Biafra. If you declare Biafra, you’re inviting Nigerians who can fight on any pretext.’ At that point in time, the northerners had everything. There was only 89 enlisted Yoruba in the Nigerian Army. It’s there in my book. There was Daramola, Majekodunmi, Obasanjo, mostly Majors. The biggest of them had been killed – Samuel Ademulegun and Sonije killed because of their positions. So, what I’m saying is that Nzeogwu planned it. ‘Don’t give these people frontal confrontation. Let’s go through the west. Ogbemudia was part of their group. Obasanjo is not with Alabi. It is clear. He has shown it.

    So, it was to be south against the north. Soyinka, Solarin, all were prepared to support it. Gowon was about to fly to Zaria. That was why Wole Soyinka came and he didn’t come with the Awo group. They were extreme radicals. He came with the Aluko, who was still teaching at University of Nigeria, Nsukka then. He mentioned three forces – the first one was Gowon, the second force was Biafra, then, the third, anyone that wins. That was why they were incarcerated. He wrote it in a book, ‘The Man Died’ in prison. But for anybody to come and denigrate Obasanjo while I’m still alive is not possible.

    What do you mean by denigration? That the man did not run away from enemy fire? That he wasn’t shot in the rump? Because Daramola was there at the launch and he said that the general fled!

    What I’m saying is that commanders are different. He wants to demonstrate that Obasanjo had no courage. I don’t think so. It shows that the Biafrans were not push-over. So, if Obasanjo saw the fuselage coming, it would be suicidal not to run away.

    But, look at the context. The man wrote in ‘My Command’, and if you link it with ‘Not My Will,’ you’ll see the full gamut of the Obasanjo personae which ensured to put everybody down and pronounce himself as the only hero. That is the context in which the author wrote.

    I’ve defined what that man said. He has destroyed the myth surrounding the Third Marine Commando and the Nigerian Army winning of the war when you say your commander ran away. That is what I’m saying. And I’m comparing what has happened.

  • Isi Atagamen’s style Copy her elegant two colour look

    Isi Atagamen’s style Copy her elegant two colour look

    WHETHER it’s on the red carpet at show or strutting what she knows how to do best on the red runway, model and fashion designer, Isi Atagamen’s style in recent years has been beyond reproach. Isi’s style by itself is worthy of a few minutes of any professional woman’s consideration.

    Over the last few years, Isi has dressed with aplomb in a slew of situations from skirt & blouse wear to stunning dinner pieces. But it’s her combination style that has us most enamored.

    The keys to turning this simple garb into show-stopping class are ingenious and figure-flattering cuts, high-quality materials and disciplined posture.

    Her stunning monochrome skirt and entire looks is a combination for both the office and after-hours. So, it wouldn’t hurt us to copy Isi’s style.

  • Health tips

    1. Copy your kitty: Learn to do stretching exercises when you wake up. It boosts circulation and digestion, and eases back pain.

    •Don’t skip breakfast: Studies show that eating a proper breakfast is one of the most positive things you can do if you are trying to lose weight. Breakfast skippers tend to gain weight. A balanced breakfast includes fresh fruit or fruit juice.

    •Brush up on hygiene. Many people don’t know how to brush their teeth properly. Improper brushing can cause as much damage to the teeth and gums as not brushing at all.

    5. Get what you give: Always giving and never taking? This is the short road to compassion fatigue. Give to yourself and receive from others, otherwise you’ll get to a point where you have nothing left to give. And hey, if you can’t receive from others, how can you expect them to receive from you?

    •Knock one back. A glass of red wine a day is good for you. A number of studies have found this, but a recent one found that the polyphenols (a type of antioxidant) in green tea, red wine and olives may also help protect you against breast cancer.

    •Bone up daily. Get your daily calcium by popping a tab, chugging milk or eating yoghurt. It’ll keep your bones strong. Remember that your bone density declines after the age of 30. You need at least 200 milligrams daily, which you should combine with magnesium, or it simply won’t be absorbed.

    •I say tomato: Tomato is a superstar in the fruit and veggie pantheon. Tomatoes contain lycopene, a powerful cancer fighter. They’re also rich in vitamin C. To enjoy the benefits, eat five apples a week or a tomato every other day.

    •Eat your stress away: Prevent low blood sugar as it stresses you out. Eat regular and small healthy meals and keep fruit and veggies handy.

    •No folly in folic acid: Folic acid should be taken regularly by all pregnant mums and people with a low immunity to disease. Folic acid prevents spina bifida in unborn babies and can play a role in cancer prevention. It is found in green leafy vegetables, liver, fruit and bran.

    •Pure water: Don’t have soft drinks or energy drinks while you’re exercising. Stay properly hydrated by drinking enough water during your workout

    •The secret of stretching: When you stretch, ease your body into position until you feel the stretch and hold it for about 25 seconds. Breathe deeply to help your body move oxygen-rich blood to those sore muscles. Don’t bounce or force yourself into an uncomfortable position.

    •Do your weights workout first: Experts say weight training should be done first, because it’s a higher intensity exercise compared to cardio. Your body is better able to handle weight training early in the workout because you’re fresh and you have the energy you need to work it.

    •Burn fat during intervals: To improve your fitness quickly and lose weight, harness the joys of interval training. Set the treadmill or step machine on the interval programme, where your speed and workload varies from minute to minute. •Your dirtiest foot forward: If your ankles, knees, and hips ache from running on pavement, head for the dirt. Soft trails or graded roads are a lot easier on your joints than the hard stuff.

    •Burn the boredom, blast the lard. Rev up your metabolism by alternating your speed and intensity during aerobic workouts. Not only should you alternate your routine to prevent burnout or boredom, but to give your body a jolt.

    •Cool off without a beer: Don’t eat carbohydrates for at least an hour after exercise. This will force your body to break down body fat, rather than using the food you ingest. Stick to fruit and fluids during that hour, but avoid beer.

    •Stop fuming: Don’t smoke and if you smoke already, do everything in your power to quit. Apart from the well-known risks of heart disease and cancer, orthopaedic surgeons have found that smoking accelerates bone density loss and constricts blood flow.

    •Do self-checks. Do regular self-examinations of your breasts. Most partners are more than happy to help, not just because breast cancer is the most common cancer among SA women. The best time to examine your breasts is in the week after your period.

    •Beat the sneezes: There are more than 240 allergens, some rare and others very common. If you’re a sneezer due to pollen, close your car’s windows while driving, rather switch on the internal fan and avoid being outdoors between 5am and 10 am when pollen counts are at their highest

    •Fragrant ageing: Stay away from perfumed or flavoured suntan lotions which smell of coconut oil or orange if you want your skin to stay young. These lotions contain psoralen, which speeds up the ageing process. Rather use a fake-tan lotion. Avoid sun beds, which are as bad as the sun itself.

    •Laugh and cry: Having a good sob is reputed to be good for you. So is laughter, which has been shown to help heal bodies, as well as broken hearts. Studies indicate that laughter boosts the immune system and helps the body shake off allergic reactions.

    •Strong people go for help: Ask for assistance. Gnashing your teeth in the dark will not get you extra brownie points. It is a sign of strength to ask for assistance and people will respect you for it. If there is a relationship problem, the one who refuses to go for help is usually the one with whom the problem lies to begin with.

    •Sugar-coated: This type of diabetes is often part of a metabolic syndrome, which includes high blood pressure and other risk factors for heart disease. More than 80 percent of diabetics die of heart disease, so make sure you control your glucose levels, and watch your blood pressure and cholesterol counts.

    45. Good night, sweetheart. Rest heals the body and has been shown to lessen the risk of heart trouble and psychological problems.

  • I spend my spare time counselling people in need

    I spend my spare time counselling people in need

    Priscilla Otuya is a woman of many parts. As a business woman, she runs the administrative arm of Swansdredge, a dredging company owned by her husband. She is a great family woman with 12 biological children.

    A number of her colleagues have attested to the fact that if you want to accomplish anything, just call her and consider the job done.

    As a dependable rallying point, she recently took over the leadership of United Gospel Churches Organisation of Nigeria (UGGAN) from her predecessor, Bishop Okose, when she emerged the first female president to lead the organisation.

    The Amazon, who is also the founder of the Christ Mega Church Nigeria and Overseas, was consecrated as Bishop in Lagos at the Chapel of Christ the light, Alausa, Ikeja.

    Speaking on her, Bishop Okose said: “I have known this woman of God for over10 years. In my honest assessment, she is a woman who fears God. Her whole life is saturated with God. Once she hears from God, she runs with it. She is respectful and faithful with all assignments.”

    Otuya spoke on her new position and explained how it all began. “The lord called me and said that I should serve him as an agent of salvation. Today, I am very happy that I took the call seriously and I have every cause to thank the lord. When I was in Israel by the tomb side, God gave me a message that as I was going back to my country, I should tell my people that anyone in the body of God should work in unity. We must always strive to do things that would not divide the church. To make a remarkable difference, those who are called to do the Lord’s business must work in unity.

    “The important principle at this point is to have a church without spot or wrinkles. But the truth is that we have a lot of problems in the church today. Most times, we are concerned about our allegiances, acquaintances, instead of following His vision. However, it is better to follow the fruits, leave the shadows and get the substance. So, whatever you see today should not make you afraid.”

    Having lived a selfless life of service, she is rededicating her energy to ensuring that women accept and understand their identity.

    “A new beginning for women can therefore be achieved by discovering themselves, understanding and accepting who they are. We should be ready to serve others, be a slave that works for others without expecting reward. At the right time, the reward would come and your works would ultimately speak for you.”

    While urging women to wake up to their responsibilities in the home, church and the larger society, Otuya noted that success would not come on a platter of gold.

    “How long are we going to cover our pains with clothe? In the days of Esther, a seed of God, you discover that she found herself living as a slave against her wish. Many still believe that a true child of God should not be in captivity without a reason. But the truth is that this is not always the case. Esther was totally submissive and did not have any personal ambition. These are the quality of women that God would use. Another good example is Deborah. When the whole Israel was in trouble, God gave her divine solution.”

    For Otuya, the last one year has been challenging but interesting. She explains: “We have done some projects that include the civic education project to sensitise ministers to their rights and responsibilities. When I came in, I realised that there was a need for reorientation so that we can be better representatives of God and the people.

    “We have also had the women’s programme aimed at sensitising them to their role in nation building. One other area that I am passionate about is the future of our youths. In this vein, we did a youth’s programme aimed at mobilising them about their role and how they can carve a niche for themselves. We encourage them to do most of the things youths in faith-based organisations abroad do.

    “We are embarking on a campaign crusade for the restoration of the ideals that we stand for, with lesser emphasis on prosperity. We are focusing more on things that would foster unity and oneness. The structures that divide us are gradually being dismantled.”

    Despite her very tight schedule, both in the house of God and the secular world, she has also found a way to ease off tension whenever the need arises. According to her, “I had to device a way for me to relax. And I use such time to mix with people and counsel those who need counselling. But when I am not doing this, I use my time to study the words of God.”

  • Dwelling according to knowledge (5)

    Dear Reader,

    I welcome you to this last edition of the teaching for the month.

    I like to conclude this teaching by showing you the Duties Of The Children.

    The injunction to dwell according to knowledge was specifically addressed to the men. However, children also need to know their responsibilities to their parents, in order to enjoy family success. Ephesians 6:1-3 clearly states: Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise; That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.

    Honour for your parents is a commandment. In fact, this scripture says it is the first commandment with a promise attached to it. The reason we find a lot of people today, who can’t seem to make it in life, in spite of their hard work, is perhaps because they have dishonoured their parents. If you want to see good, then obedience to God’s command is required. Showing honour and respect to your parents is a commandment that is not negotiable. It does not have any given conditions when it may be disobeyed. That means whether your parents are good or bad, insensitive or irrational, born again or not, no matter their state, honour for them is a must.

    The American Heritage Dictionary defines honour as “esteem due or paid to worth; high estimation; respect; consideration; reverence; veneration; manifestation of respect or reverence.” That means you are to give to your parents due respect and reverence, and esteem them highly under every circumstances of life.

    For failure to honour his father, Reuben lost his glorious place in destiny. The Bible records in Genesis 35:22: And it came to pass, when Israel dwelt in that land, that Reuben went and lay with Bilhah his father’s concubine: and Israel heard it…

    In Genesis 49:3-4, when Jacob was pronouncing blessings on his sons, what Reuben got was this: Reuben, thou art my firstborn, my might, and the beginning of my strength, the excellency of dignity, and the excellency of power: Unstable as water, thou shalt not excel; because thou wentest up to thy father’s bed; then defiledst thou it: he went up to my couch.

    It is sad, because Reuben by destiny was the excellency of dignity. He was by destiny supposed to be a man of dignity. But he lost it for one singular act of dishonour and lack of respect for his father.

    Jesus further emphasized this point in Matthew 19:16-19: And, behold, one came and said unto him, Good Master, what good thing shall I do, that I may have eternal life? And he said unto him … but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandments. He saith unto him, Which? Jesus said … Honour thy father and thy mother…

    Longevity on earth and eternity with God are both tied to the honour given by children to their parents. This also is part of the 10 Commandments given to Moses in Exodus 20:12. The Bible says in Ecclesiastes 4:12: …A threefold cord is not quickly broken.

    If you want to see many good and fulfilling days on the earth, then as a child in a family, respect for your parents is non-negotiable. You will make it, in Jesus’ name!

    Effectively handling your duties as children demands a life in Christ. This entails confessing your sins and accepting Jesus as your Lord and personal Saviour. If you are ready to be born again, please say this simple prayer with me, in faith: Dear Lord Jesus, I come to You today. I believe You died and rose again for my sake. Forgive me of my sins, take over my life, make me Your child and let Your peace reign over my life. Thank you for saving me. Now I know I am born again.

    Congratulations, you are now born again! I believe that you will begin to experience the reality of the price that Jesus paid for your sins at Calvary. All round rest and peace are guaranteed you in Jesus’ Name!

    Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through:

    E-mail: faithdavid@yahoo.com Tel. No: 08141320204; 07026385437; 07094254102

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Single With A Difference, Building A Successful Family, and Success In Marriage (Co-Authored with Bishop David Oyedepo).