Category: Saturday Magazine

  • My husband has other women maybe because I’m not good in bed

    I am a good cook and dress moderately, but i’m not good in bed. I have once told him to teach me any style he enjoys or to buy sex film we can see together. If my hubby is going to Oyo, he would tell me it is Ondo. Yes, he has many women. Deola, please tell me, is it right for me to fight any of the girls\women because there is this particular one I fought via SMS. He never appreciates me, my cooking or dressing. He never takes me out and the outings we attend together are his family parties not mine. He has never given any gift except the ones given to him which he doesn’t like or says it looks feminine. He never remembers my birthday. Please help me; I so much love my husband.  Please my sister, advise me now on what to do to make my marriage enjoyable.

    My dear sister, the most important of all you wrote is that you love your husband and you would really like to make your marriage enjoyable. God bless you. I haven’t met you, but speaking with you has given me a glimpse into your mind – the mind of a very good woman. I say God bless you again.

    I’m glad you know some of the areas where you may have missed it in your marriage. Good sex is very important, and most men will go out to seek for it if they think they cannot get it in the home front. The truth is that most men are polygamous in nature, so they rush out to other women under any excuse to seek for sweeter juices. Don’t worry, you won’t lose this marriage. You may wonder how I know. I’ll tell you. That he still tells you he’s going to Oyo when it’s Ondo means he still has respect for you and doesn’t want to hurt you with the blunt truth.

    During our telephone conversation, I told you that it was wrong of you to have contacted the other woman with abusive words. There’s no point fighting with a fellow woman over any man. You must play your part and leave the rest.

    Yes, it’s bad that he doesn’t remember your birthday. That can hurt. It’s bad that you don’t go out as couple and it’s unfair that he doesn’t appreciate your gifts. These are fundamental crisis in any marriage and I know how you must he aching. It’s okay. Since he still comes back home and you still talk and make love, all these would be addressed. I have promised you a personal session free of charge, so, we’ll go over all the grey arrears together and you will win back the love and bring back the smiles I’m sure you once had.

    Below are some tips from other people about how to make your marriage exciting:

    Telling it like it is: Whether it be married couples, or those in a long-term relationship with a significant other, it should be understood that happy and healthy relationships take a lot of work. The effort involved with deepening the connection between the couple can be enjoyed by both husband and wife (or significant other), thus developing a close intimate bond unlike any other.

    Begin each day with the question, “What can I do today to show my husband/wife how much I love him/her?”

    Grooming: You would be surprised how many people have mentioned basic grooming habits being a problem in their relationship. Brush or comb your hair, brush your teeth, take a bath or shower every day, put on some makeup, get rid of those old nasty sweats and put on an outfit that shows that you care about your appearance. You know that old, worn out “favorite” shirt you’ve been hanging onto for years? Get rid of it! There isn’t much that can diminish the romantic feelings between husband and wife than to see your spouse looking frumpy and disheveled.

    Ladies, put your hair up in a nice clip instead of a “scrunchy”, or take the time to curl your hair and make yourself look nice for your husband. Get rid of the granny panties and wear some underwear that is attractive and sexy for your man.

    Physical Touch: Begin each day by physically touching your spouse with hugs and kisses. Hold hands while sharing a cup of coffee or tea together; place your hand on your spouse’ leg while sitting together watching the morning news; gently caress your spouse’ face and say “You’re so beautiful, I love you”. Physical touch is very important in creating romantic atmosphere in the home, so when you arrive home from work be sure to hug and kiss your spouse, and continue physically touching each other throughout the evening.

    A common problem in many marriages is where there is virtually no physical touch throughout the day and evening, but as soon as the children are in bed and the couple retires to the bedroom, there is an expectation that hot, sizzling sex is going to miraculously heat up the bedroom. Not! Frequently offer foot massages, shoulder massages and full-body massages to your spouse.

    Listen: Pay close attention to subtle hints and comments about something your husband or wife wants to buy for themselves, and purchase it for them as a surprise. It doesn’t have to be anything expensive, but if your wife sees a purse she likes or a set of earrings she wants, make note of it and stop by the store and pick it up for her. If your husband mentions wanting a new tool for his toolbox, or mentions wanting a new gadget of some kind, take the time to go buy it for him as a “just because” gift. Pay close attention to clues for birthday, holiday or anniversary gift ideas, making a point to write them down so you won’t forget and end up struggling to find a gift your spouse really wants.

    Communication: Make time during the day to call or text message your husband or wife to let them know you are thinking about them. Don’t use that time to complain about the kids, or the in-laws, or bills piling up. Text message your husband or wife with a little naughty message in the middle of the day, with a teaser of what you have planned for the two of you once the kids are asleep in bed. Brag to your friends, family and co-workers about how lucky you are to have found such a wonderful, loving and supportive husband or wife. Talking in front of your spouse about your partner’s good qualities is romantic; notice the way your partner’s face lights up when you speak well of them to others.

    Couples often complain that they don’t have much time to really communicate with each other, not with taking care of the kids, holding down one or more jobs, doing household chores and paying bills. If your children don’t have a normal bedtime routine, make one. Putting the kids to bed at a reasonable hour gives parents time to unwind from their day at work or other family responsibilities, allowing couples the needed time to focus attention on each other and the marriage.

    Romantic Atmosphere: Make the home atmosphere as peaceful and romantic as possible. Turn off the TV. Make the dinner time meal with the family a peaceful and calm one, rather than using that time to complain and gripe about how the kids upset you, or how the “honey-do list” is still untouched. Keep a ready supply of scented candles to make the home smell nice, turn on some soft romantic music and dim the lights. (I sell scented candles and oils o).

    Keep the home clean, toys picked up and put away, so your husband/wife doesn’t come home and wonder what you’ve been doing all day.

    Sex, Sex, Sex Baby!: Make sex and romance fun in your marriage. Buy some naughty adult sex games to play when the kids are asleep. There are many intimate games for couples available to spice up your sex life, regardless of whether you are married or not. Christian couples want and need sex in their marriage too, and by the way…, Adam and Eve had SEX, and SEX for married couples is talked about in the Bible too!

    Create your own private collection of sex toys and change up the routine of when or where you have sex, because your sexual health and wellness depends on finding creative ways to spice up your marriage and your sex life! Have a playful pillow fight, chase each other around the bedroom (if there’s enough room), turn the game of Scrabble into a striptease game.

  • Happy Eid el Kabir to Alhaji Aliyu Abubakar and to you all!

    Phew… I actually just sucked in a big breath and then I exhaled. It’s been 29 long days… My days in the last one month were so packed that I had to keep telling myself to take it easy. Thank God, we’ve all come to the end of the fasting period. During the Ramadan period, I was visited by personal grief, but I was able to handle the sadness as I held on to God in prayer. Yes, I cried many times and I held my pillow at nights asking ‘why’. I found it difficult to handle the fact that the friend I shared so many happy memories with in London and a die-hard fan of the Hearts page, Bola Gbadebo Adegbenro would die of malaria fever; just like that! And to think she died with a much-awaited pregnancy a few hours after she had a plate of hot amala. My head was still spinning when the news came that Tunde Ogundoju, a charming boy that grew into a fine young man that grew before my eyes had been gunned down in front of his house in Surulere, Lagos. Oh God, I cried. Yes, I cried.

    Then Sallah came and God in his way of making us know that He is watching over us brought so much joy through Alhaji Aliyu Abubakar popularly known as AA Oil.

    I had been inundated with demands here and there from known and unknown people and as the fasting period was coming to an end, the demands mounted. I watched helplessly as men and women bowed down to the financial crunches being felt everywhere in Nigeria at the moment. I woke up every morning to telephone calls I couldn’t ignore, but ones which I had no words of hope to offer. I waited for a miracle to know where to go to. Then help came in the form of Alhaji AA.

    It was a chance meeting at my place of worship. I was with my resource person, Bashiru Oyinlola (Arabambi Abuja), and we were in a corner, talking about how I was going to meet all the needs before me. I said aloud that I felt like running away. A friend whose wife just abandoned their children on him in his joblessness had called earlier that he was thinking of suicide. A friend whose daughter was dying was crying out that I should help. An old classmate and a dear friend became partially blind due to an illness and she needed help for her hospital visits. Songs of agony rebounded from all around me, but there I was, unable to help even myself. I conveyed my pains to my companion that I felt like flying to an unknown place to hide from all the demands I was unable to meet.

    And like it happens in films, somebody had heard me and the message reached Alhaji Aliyu Abubakar, who, unknown to me was also at the place of worship at that period in time. There and then, the cries of most of those who had been crying turned to joy. My friend’s daughter is getting the treatment she deserves as I type this. My jobless friend has enough food for his two kids now and they’re having a good celebration. Even my driver, Amisu went home with joy to his pregnant wife. My blind friend is yet to get any help and as for me, I do not have more than the laughter on my face for the beautiful deeds this man has done through me to those I could reach.

    As I consider the giant and out-of-the-world structures Alhaji AA is erecting in Abuja, I cannot but see why some people are so blessed. It is because they bless other people.

    To those I’ve not been able to reach, I say Happy Sallah with a heart filled with love. And to you, Alhaji AA, I say Happy Eid el Kabir with appreciation!

  • The tycoon’s son (6)

    Lexie made his plans quietly and carefully to ensure the success of the ‘deal’. To him, there was no room for failure. It was a ‘do or die’ affair as he knew the implication of not succeeding. With the assistance of a banker friend, he was able to secure an offshore account where the money totally about four hundred million naira would be paid into. His travel documents were ready. All that was left was for his father to go abroad for his annual vacation and medical check up before making his move.

    There was only one hitch in the carefully laid out plans. His father wanted Selina to accompany him on the trip stating that he would miss her too much if they were separated.

    “That’s impossible. There’s no way you can go with him. It will spoil our plans,” Lexie protested when she informed him about his father’s request some days later.

    Selina nodded.

    “I know. But what can I do? He has already made all the travel arrangements. If I refuse to go with him, he might think I want to stay back in Nigeria because of another man. You know how jealous your dad can be,” she pointed out.

    “Don’t worry about it. I will think of something,” he said.

    Two days before Chief and Selina were to travel, he sat in his private sitting room and study going through some files. He wanted to put his business affairs in order before leaving. That way, he would not have to worry too much about work while he was away. The few weeks vacation he took yearly was the only time he had for himself, when he could get away from the hassles of running his large business empire which kept growing by the day.

    He removed his reading glasses, yawned and flexed his arms to loosen his shoulder muscles which felt stiff. Just then, Selina came into the room. She wore a short blue night-gown with a matching blue wrap wrapped round her shoulders to ward off the chill night air.

    “Ah! Chief! You are still working! Do you know what time it is? It’s nearly midnight! Leave the rest for tomorrow and come to bed!” she said. She went to the table, and closing the file he had been reading, took his arm.

    He stood up, then hugged and kissed her lightly on the lips. Then cupping her face in his hands said:

    “You are so caring. That’s one of the things I like about you…you are always concerned about me.”

    “I have to Chief. Your wellbeing is important to me. You work so hard. I don’t want anything bad to happen to you. Remember what the doctor said, that you need to reduce your workload, take things easy a bit because of your health…” she said.

    “I know, my dear. That’s why I want you with me on my vacation. I know you will help me unwind,” he said. Then noticing her outfit, he added: “You are looking very sweet tonight, Selly baby. Are you planning to keep me awake all night?” he asked teasingly.

    “No o! You need rest. I will sleep in my room tonight,” she stated.

    “Says who? We are going to my room. Come,” and holding her by the shoulder, they walked out of the study…

    The following morning, they were having breakfast when Selina’s mobile phone rang. Picking it up, she listened to the voice at the other end before exclaiming:

    “What? Papa? In the hospital? What happened?”

    Chief stopped eating when he saw the worried expression on her face.

    “What’s wrong, dear?” he enquired when the call ended.

    “That was my younger brother Osas. He said my father collapsed early this morning and is in a coma. He’s in the hospital right now,” she stated in a worried tone.

    “I’m sorry to hear that. I hope he will be alright,” Chief stated. He reached across the table and took her hand in his.

    “I pray so. He has been having these health problems lately…something to do with his heart,” Selina said. Then getting up announced:

    “Chief, I may have to go home and see how he’s doing. And also give my mother moral support. I know she will be so worried.”

    “Ok, dear. I will call David to book a flight for you and make other arrangements,” Chief said, getting up from his seat.

    About two hours later, Selina was ready to go to the airport to catch her flight to Benin where her parents lived.

    “Call me as soon as you arrive,” Chief told her. They were outside at the large courtyard of his home. They stood watching as one of his drivers who was taking her to the airport placed her small traveling bag in the boot of the sleek, black SUV that she used whenever she was in his house.

    “I will do that, Chief. Thanks for your concern,” Selina stated. She hugged him close and gave him a peck on the cheek before entering the car.

    She waved as they drove towards the gate of the large compound. As soon as they were on the main road outside the gates, Selina brought her cell phone from her bag and quickly sent a text message to Lexie.

    After the driver had dropped her at the departure lounge of the airport and left, Selina stood at the entrance and scanned the throng of travelers in the hall. She spied Lexie standing in a long queue of people waiting to buy tickets at the counter of a popular airline.

    He smiled when he saw her.

    “The plan worked. I told you not to worry,” he said as they made their way outside.

    “You are right. Chief believed the story and he even made all the arrangements for me to travel. He just wasted his money booking a flight I won’t take,” she stated with a wry grin.

    The truth was that there was nothing wrong with Selina’s father. He was neither sick nor in the hospital. It was Lexie who had called her during breakfast pretending to be her brother. It was all a ruse, a lie planned by Lexie so that Selina would not be able to travel with his father for his vacation.

    In the cab they took into town from the airport, they finalized their arrangements for the next few days which were crucial to their ‘project’.

    “You have to lie low until my dad leaves town. You are supposed to be in Benin so you must not be seen around town,” he told her.

    He had booked accommodation for her in a very secluded hotel where she would stay for a few days. Lexie left after dropping her off, promising to call her later in the day.

    Airport showdown

    “I’m sorry Chief. I was really looking forward to being with you on your vacation. But with the way things are…” Selina said. She had just told Chief on the phone about her father’s ‘condition’ which she said was critical. “Though he has regained consciousness, the doctor said, they need to observe him for sometime as his situation is still critical,” she added.

    Chief was sympathetic, telling her to ensure he was in a good hospital where he could get the best medical care.

    “Don’t worry about money. I will take care of all medical expenses,” he told her.

    It was later agreed that he would still proceed on his trip as planned while she could travel to join him later.

    “I promise to join you once my father’s condition stabilizes a bit,” she said before hanging up.

    “Alright dear. Love you,” said Chief.

    “Love you, too,” Selina responded.

    ‘Travel to join who? I will be far far away in a place where you can’t reach me in some days time. Yeye man!’ she stated with a smile after the call with her rich lover ended.

    The following day, Chief travelled out and Selina was able to move about freely. She went to her apartment and packed all her belongings. She got a safe place where she moved them to, leaving the few bags she would be traveling with out of the country with Lexie once their scheme had been concluded.

    Some days later, early in the morning, Lexie and Selina went to the bank and paid in one of the forged cheques from his father worth about N200m. He had earlier opened an account specially for that in one of the new generation banks.

    From there, they moved to another branch and paid in the second cheque. While Selina worried incessantly while they waited for the cheques to clear, Lexie was calm. He trusted the man who had forged the cheques, though he still prayed silently that all would go well.

    His prayers were answered for a few days later, the two cheques were cleared.

    “Wow! We did it! We are rich!” Lexie exclaimed. They were in her hotel room where she planned staying till they jetted out of the country in a few days.

    “Yes! The plan worked. Congrats for such a brilliant plan,” Selina enthused.

    She brought out some chilled bottles of wine and they sat toasting and drinking till very late, celebrating their success and making plans for their bright and happy future abroad…

    Lexie transferred the bulk of the money into his offshore account, while he paid the rest into another account. As he left the bank with the teller, he felt a sense of satisfaction, that he had at least done something worthwhile for his community, a place that had suffered so much through the greed of people like his own father and uncaring public officials and others.

    The itinerary for their trip included a stop-over in Dubai as Selina wanted to do some shopping. “I want a completely new wardrobe. A total make-over,” she had told Lexie. From there, they would leave for the Carribbean for a holiday before finally settling in Canada.

    Lexie looked forward to his new life with some excitement. The only downside was that he would be separated from his mother whom he loved so much.

    ‘Anyway, she can always come over for visits,’ he reassured himself. She was unaware of what he had done to his father as he knew she would not approve of such a dubious scheme.

    He had only told her he was traveling to London to see an old school mate who had invited him over.

    The day of their trip came and Selina and Lexie were at the airport on time for their flight. After checking in their luggage and going through passports control, they sat chatting while waiting for their flight. Later, Lexie went to the rest room, leaving Selina by herself.

    She was checking her phone when some one tapped her on her shoulder.

    Two men she had never seen before stood, looking grimly down at her.

    “Are you Miss Selina Daniels?” one of the men asked gruffly.

    “Who wants to know?” she retorted, looking at her watch. It was nearly time for their flight to be called.

    He reached into his breast pocket and brought out a card.

    “We are from the Police Headquarters. We have a warrant of arrest for you. You are under arrest for forgery, conspiracy, obtaining under false pretenses and other offenses…” the first man stated while his colleague brought out a pair of handcuffs.

    “What do you think you are doing? You must be mistaken! I’m not…” Selina began to protest while fellow passengers in the lounge looked on curiously. Just then, Lexie, unaware of the unfolding drama came out of the toilet. Seeing the police with his cohort, he tactfully withdrew and made his escape. As Selina was being led by the police into a waiting vehicle, he quickly left the airport and taking a cab disappeared into the city.

    Epilogue

    Chief cut short his holiday and returned to Nigeria a week after Selina’s arrest. Lexie, meanwhile had disappeared completely, leaving no trace behind. Chief was not bothered about his errant son. He would deal with him later whenever he showed up as he surely would one day. It was the conniving ‘snake’ as he now referred to Selina that he reserved all his wrath for.

    “After all I did for her, she could treat me this way. Gang up with my own son to dupe me!” he ranted when he heard about the scam. To think he was even planning on making her his wife! It was due to the vigilance of one of his accountants who had noticed the huge withdrawals from his personal accounts in his absence that had exposed the fraud. The security cameras at the bank had revealed the identities of the fraudsters.

    “Make sure she’s not released from that cell until I say so,” he told the police officer in charge of her case. The man nodded, thinking of the large envelope stuffed with Naira notes that Chief’s man had given him earlier. He would lock her up for life if that was what Chief wanted. Though that would be such a waste as she was such a beauty…

    Meanwhile, the people of Igen were in a joyous mood. An unknown benefactor had just donated over a hundred million naira to the community towards some developmental projects. Igen sorely needed the money as things were no longer the same after the discovery of oil in their land. None of the promises of the oil company to execute projects that would benefit the community were fulfilled. Worse still, their land was being despoiled by oil exploitation activities. Even their own son, Chief Agbah was rumored to be conniving with the oil company to defraud the community of royalties due to them. But the people were helpless, too weak to fight the oil giant and their other oppressors.

    They saw the donation as a godsend to ease their many years of suffering…

    •Concluded

    •What should Chief do to Selina and his fraudulent son, Lexie?

    •Send comments/suggestions to 08023201831(sms only) or psaduwa@yahoo.com

    •Names have been changed to protect the identities of the individuals in the story.

  • Osun Osogbo: ‘Iwopopo’ begins festival

    Osun Osogbo: ‘Iwopopo’ begins festival

    From Monday, Osun Osogbo festival will kick off. It is a two-week celebration that would culminate in the grand finale on Friday, August 23. The festival is the most consistent in the country and has been held for many years now.
    Okorie Uguru reports all is set for the Iwopopo on which begins the festival.

    The fever of expectations is building up. It the dawn of the annual Osun Osogbo fesitval. The festival kicks off on Monday with the Iwopopo, the traditional city cleansing.

    It would be a day royalty would mix with the high and the low. A day when the people of Osogbo would again rekindle the spirit of their common ancestry, celebrate their humanity and generally thank their creator for seeing them through the full circle of their tradition year. It is the traditional town cleansing day that also ushers in the official count down to the grand finale of the annual Osun Osogbo festival which will be on August 23.

    Activities will kick off with royal procession led by the Ataoja of Osogbo, Oba Jimoh Oyetunji. The royal procession would kick off from the Ataoja’s palace, following pre-determined route. The Ataoja would be the harbinger of good tidings to his people. Every step he takes tells the people their ancestors and gods have preserved them for another year and that the people should rejoice. As he takes each regal step, he is also wading off every form of evil in the land and ushering in a period of festivity and celebration. The oba, along his route, will receive homage from the high and the low, princes and commoners, kingmakers and ruling houses would also be on hand to pay homage to the oba.

    This will not be all. On Thursday, the traditional lighting of the 16-point lamp (Olojumerindinlogun), would also take place. The lamp is not just apiece light stand. It is history in itself. The candle stand has witnessed the rise and demise of kings in Osogboland. The candle stand is reputed to be about 500 years in existence. The lighting of the lamp is done in the night and the light burns till the dawn of the next day. It is done as part of directives given by the Osun deity.

    After lighting the lamp, the king, at interval, during the night, would come out and dance round the lamp. This continues till the next morning. Early in the morning, the lamp will be turned and returned to the custodian to be kept till the next yext.

    However, in lighting the sixteen pints of the candle-stand, it goes deeper to signify the riddance light brings into a community.

    The grand finale of the Osun Osogbo festival, will hold on August 23, but from Monday till then, Osogbo would be bubbling with activities.

    Outside Christian religious tourism, the Osun Osogbo festival attracts the highest number of tourists on faith visit to the country. That underlines the importance of the festival in the tourism calendar of the country.

    Knowing the importance of festival, the Osun State government has put in great deal of resources and efforts to grow and promote the festival.

    In a recent festival’s corporate sponsors’ unveiling, the Special Adviser to the Osun Governor on Tourism, Mr. Ladi Soyode, said the state government has rebuilt the pavilion inside the grove to only improve on the number of people it can take , but also on aesthetics. He said it is part of the bigger efforts of the state government towards making the state a tourist destination and in the process reaping the economic benefits of tourism. He mentioned most of the tourist sites in the state being worked on by the state government and promised that the government would continue to support the festival.

    The Osun Osogbo festival has been in existence since the establishment of the Osogbo. The festival, according the indigenes, is built on a kind covenant between the Osun deity and the ancestors of the Osogbo people. According to the history of the town, many centuries ago, hunters from a nearby village (Ipole Omu), Larooye and Olatimehin, and their subjects migrated in search of water.

    They finally settled at a place very near the Osun River in present day Osogbo. Later, Larooye became the first Ataoja (King) of Osogbo, as one of the initial builders of the settlement. These men and their subjects knew nothing about the administration of the goddess of the Osun River. As time passed by, members of the established community were engaged in preparation of the grounds for a planting season when a tree fell into the river and a mysterious voice was heard from the Osun River saying:“Larooye, Olatimehin, gbogbo ikoko aro mi leti fo tan”, meaning, you have destroyed all my dye pots. Having heard this mysterious voice, they were afraid for they never knew how the goddess of the river knew their names. After Oba Larooye and other lesser spirits within the community pacified the goddess of the river by saying: “Oso igbo pele o; Oso igbo rora”. The ancient city was said to have derived her name from the mysterious voice the lesser spirits made to pacify the goddess of Osun River, thus Oso igbo pele o; Oso igbo rora, was abbreviated to Osogbo. Same goes for the royal title, Ataoja which was derived from the function which the goddess of Osun River advised the first Oba (King) to perform during the last day of the then festival, Atewogbeja, which is abbreviated to Ataoja.

    The dense forest of the Osun Sacred Grove on the outskirts of the city of Osogbo is one of the last remnants of primary high forest in southern Nigeria. Regarded as the abode of the goddess of fertility, Osun, one of the pantheons of Yoruba gods, the landscape of the grove and its meandering river is dotted with sanctuaries and shrines, sculptures and art works in honour of Osun and other deities. The sacred grove, which is now seen as a symbol of identity for all Yoruba people, is probably the last in Yoruba culture. It testifies to the once widespread practice of establishing sacred groves outside all settlements.

    Because of the huge number of visitors, the festival has become a huge opportunity for corporate organizations to showcase their products. Companies such as the Nigerian Breweries, telecom giants, MTN and many smaller companies are involved in sponsoring the festival, and in the process get opportunity to push their product brands.

    Mr. Ayo Olumoko, the CEO of Infogem Limited, the official marketers of the festival, said the quality of corporate sponsors that always identity with the festival is a pointer to the huge interest the festival attracts and also the fact that each year, the festival witnessed improvement from the past edition.

    Meanwhile, security at the grove has been tightend. According to sources, although no security breach is expected, the organisers are not leaving anything to chances.

    In line with this, both the police and the O’odua People’s Congress (OPC) are collaborating to make sure the place is secured.

    “The security has been tightened and it is a round the clock security. This is just to make sure that every thing went well, ” a source said.

    Some of the other activities lined for the year include FTAN Osun hospitality workshop, art exhibitions, golf competition, musical and theatre nights and many more. But for the core traditionalists, after the lighting of the sixteen-point lamp, the next important event is the Iboriade on August 19 where all the crowns of the past kings of Osogbo will be on display.

  • Movenpick launches luxury project

    An exclusive project is to be launched in Accra. Comprised of only 18 luxurious homes in one of the most coveted locations in the city, Ambassador Heights will deliver world class design and build quality.

    Modern glass facades, manicured private gardens and beautiful interiors complete with luxury finishes, fittings and appliances will complement an unrivalled ownership experience.

    Ambassador Heights is designed to be an urban sanctuary within the city for a privileged few. This impressive development offers immediate access to all of Accra – from the vibrant central business district to the sprawling seashore. Merely minutes away from the Arts Centre, the National Museum and directly opposite the National Theatre, there is no shortage of local culture and entertainment to cater to those with a discerning urban lifestyle.

    Developed by the owner of the Movenpick Ambassador Hotel and within the same compound, Ambassador Heights is luxury personified with each home enjoying direct access to the services and amenities of the surrounding complex; private concierge, world class dining, shopping, fitness, swimming and meeting and event facilities, all with the comfort of being in a secure environment supported by continuous 24-hour electricity and water supply. Owners will enjoy an unparalleled lifestyle experience.

    With only 18 city homes, Ambassador Heights offers a phenomenal investment opportunity in what is Accra’s premier downtown address.

  • Unrest drives Egypt’s tourists away

    The 2011 revolution that toppled dictator Hosni Mubarak dealt a severe blow to the country’s tourist industry, once a mainstay of Egypt’s economy.

    And things have gone from bad to worse since June when violent protests broke out against President Mohamed Morsi. On July 3, the army ousted the Islamist leader, leading to further deadly violence and an ongoing standoff between the two sides.

    The tour buses that lined the streets around the pyramids have disappeared.

    “We hope to the Lord that He will bring back those busy days because all of us rely on tourism alone,” said Gameel Hassan who has run a shop near the pyramids selling papyrus prints for nearly 20 years.

    Now, his shop is empty. Only a few tourists come each day to browse the hundreds of pictures of Egyptian gods and pharoahs that cover the walls.

    “To bring tourism back, we need stability and security,” he said. “The parties must calm down and leave the president to rule the country in the way he sees fit,” he said, referring to the country’s new interim authorities.

    Out in the street, Mahmoud Attiyah, who offers horseback tours of the pyramids, is glum about business.

    “There have been no tourists coming from outside. From June 30 until now, there have been none,” he complained.

    But Morsi’s removal cheered Attiyah. Like many of the vendors, he thought the Morsi government was harming Egypt’s tourist industry which once accounted for some 10 per cent of GDP.

  • Family pilgrimage is to add value —Ncpc boss

    The Executive Secretary of the Nigerian Christian Pilgrim Commission has said that the introduction of family pilgrimage is to entrench and teach value orientation and re-orintation.

    This disclosure was made when he led his sensitization team to the governor of the state, Alhaji Mukhtar Ramalan Yero, in Kashim Ibrahim House, Kaduna.

    Addressing the governor, the NCPC boss said it has been observed that parents nowadays do not have time to stay and pray with their children and inculcate the fear of God in them and that is why the level of crime in the society is on the increase. He told the governor that with the introduction of the Family Pilgrimage, NCPC now operates three three pilgrimage exercises in a year.

    Earlier on, the NCPC boss eulogised the governor for his ability to sustain religious harmony between the Christians and the Muslims in the state. He also praised the Governor for making fertilizers and tractors available at subsidized rates. This, he said, has encouraged massive participation in agriculture and engagement of youths in productive ventures.

    Mr. Opara used the opportunity of the visit to present to the governor the 2013 pilgrimage package as approved by Mr. President and also to inform him that a total of 1000 seats had been allotted to Kaduna State. He equally told the Governor that the theme of this year’s pilgrimage is: “Pilgrimage, Tool for Moral and Spiritual Transformation”. This, he said, is to complement the transform agenda of Mr. President.

    Responding, the governor thanked Mr. Opara and promised to sponsor the 1000 seats allotted to the state. He specially appreciated the NCPC for the introduction of the Family Pilgriamge. He said the high rate of crime and criminality among our youths is as a result of the embrace of foreign culture and values that are not destroying our value system.

    The governor then called on the religious leaders not to relent in preaching family value orientation and also to continue to preach peace, unity and respect for each other’s religion among their followers.

    In his conclusion, the governor promised to provide a bus for the commission and a piece of land for the building of the NCPC Zonal Office in Kaduna.

    Earlier in the day, the NCPC boss had met with the leadership of CAN where he talked about the introduction of the family pilgrimage and the need for Christians to see pilgrimage as their own and not the prerogative of the government. He said the emphasis of the NCPC now is on self sponsorship, he then called on rich Christians and churches to compliment the efforts of the state and Local Governments in sponsoring pilgrims.

  • Airport fire: Airlines pacify passengers

    Airlines were forced to appease thousands of passengers whose travel plans were disrupted in the wake of the fire at the Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. According to reports from a Kenyan daily, airlines will dig into their cash boxes to provide alternative transport or compensation to passengers.

    “There will be huge costs. Airlines cannot abandon their passengers. They will provide alternative transport and accommodation,” said the Kenya Association of Air Operators chief executive, E.K. Waithaka,

    Kenya Airways diverted 1,080 passengers to Mombasa on Wednesday morning while 200 were taken from Mombasa to Nairobi by road. Emirates said it would provide free re-bookings.

    The financial repercussions of the fire will extend to tourism and horticulture.

    August is a peak month for international arrivals.

    On the insurance front, APA Insurance, which provides cover for the Kenya Airports Authority, said it had sent a team to the airport. “We have sent loss adjustors to the site,” said APA chief operating officer Suresh Kumar in a statement.

    “Jomo Kenyatta Airport has been a major problem for Kenya Airways and the aviation industry here,” said Standard Investment Bank analyst Eric Musau.

    British Airways commercial manager for East and Central Africa, Mr George Mawadri, said: “There will be a huge ripple effect in the region because Nairobi is a link to many other cities on the continent.”

    Domestic flights resumed in the afternoon and the airport cleared airlines to receive international arrivals through the domestic terminal from this morning.

  • UNWTO highlights cultural routes’ value

    The sixth UNWTO International Meeting on Silk Road Tourism highlighted the increasing interest in developing cultural routes associated with the Silk Road and succeeded to raise the profile of tourism along this emblematic route.

    The event was jointly organized by UNWTO, the China National Tourism Administration (CNTA) and the People’s Government of Gansu Province (1-3 August 2013, Dunhuang, China).

    Topics discussed ranged from heritage management, investment, travel facilitation and product development with aims to establish the Silk Road as one of the world´s most outstanding travel routes.

    As the largest Silk Road event to ever take place in China, the meeting marked the opening of the 3rd Dunhuang Silk Road International Tourism Festival which showcased cultural festivals and events. The province of Gansu, in China´s northwest region, has prioritized tourism as a key pillar for economic growth. For centuries, the province was the vital corridor between China and Central Asia and comprised about 1,600 kilometres of the Silk Road.

    UNWTO Secretary-General, Taleb Rifai, acknowledged the strength and commitment of the People’s Government of Gansu Province for hosting the meeting in the wake of the 6.6 magnitude earthquake that hit Dingxi in Gansu´s southeast region ten days before.

    “In welcoming the international tourism community to Dunhuang at such a difficult time, Gansu has impressed the delegates not only with its outstanding tourism offer, but with its courage and dedication to supporting the sector,” he said.

    The meeting showcased China´s diverse range of Silk Road destinations while highlighting the growing importance of the Chinese outbound market, expected to reach 93 million by the end of 2013. Tourism is playing an increasing role in China´s ongoing economic development, with double-digit growth of domestic tourism and the China Tourism Law set to be enacted on October 1.

  • I know my bounds  at home  as  a soldier’s wife —Olufunke Adekoya, SAN

    I know my bounds at home as a soldier’s wife —Olufunke Adekoya, SAN

    Mrs. Olufunke Adekoya is Head, Dispute Resolution Practice Group at AELEX, a firm of legal practitioners and arbitrators. She was appointed Notary Public in 1986 and elevated to the rank of Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN) in 2001 (the fifth woman to be so elevated). She has been a member of the Body of Benchers since 1999 and was elevated to a life bencher in March 2007. In the field of arbitration, Mrs. Adekoya represents both local and transnational parties as counsel in both domestic and international arbitration proceedings within Nigeria and abroad, and has acted in numerous disputes as either-party appointed arbitrator, sole arbitrator and presiding arbitrator.  In this interview with Assistant Editor, LINUS OBOGO, the wife of Air Vice Marshal Oluwole Adekoya (rtd) speaks on the rise of women on the Bench, corruption in the judiciary, as well as the balance between her role as a lawyer and wife to a soldier. Excerpts:

    DOES coming from a family of lawyers mean anything special to you?

    My father was a lawyer, I am a lawyer and my daughter is also a lawyer. The one thing I could say I gained from having a father who was a lawyer is that I had to explain and give reasons for every demand that I made of my father. For instance, if I needed N100, I had to explain to him why and what I needed it for and how I was going to spend it. That was the kind of man my father was as a lawyer and a father. But if it was just any other man, he could say okay, here is the N100 or that he does not have exactly N100 and if I could manage N50.

    So, for my father, everything was in debate and in discussion. He taught me how to think logically and to be able to explain my actions at all times. There was no time I needed to go out and to return at say 8 pm or 9 pm, that my father would not insist on me explaining to him in detail why it had to be that time.

    As a lawyer married to an army officer, what was the atmosphere like in the house, given that in the military, there is this command and obey structure, or ‘obey before complaint’?

    As a lawyer married to a military officer, I knew and still know that I could only be a lawyer in the office and not in the house. Also, sometimes when there is a discussion between my husband and me, as a lawyer, what I usually say is ‘let’s reason it out, this is what I think should be done’. But as a military man, he will say ‘no, this is how I want it to be. I will say okay, you are the boss. So if it turns out the way I had earlier suggested, next time when such situation arises, he will remember and align with my position. But if he does not remember, we will do it his own way again until such a time that he realises that we may have to try my own point of view.

    Over a period of time, if I hold a view contrary to his, he will listen and engage my own view. There is the tendency for him to look at issues from the angle of the military, while I will like to consider the same issue from the position of law. That is how we have managed ourselves over the years; 35 years to be exact.

    What would you consider your most embarrassing moment as a lawyer?

    My most embarrassing moment was not exactly in court. It was in the office of my principal in Kaduna, where I started practising as a lawyer. We were the second set of youth corps members then. It happened that a male client walked into the office and demanded to see my principal. He was not only surprised to see a woman but one he actually regarded as a Nyarinya (young girl) as a lawyer. When I wanted to attend to him, he said ‘no, I want a lawyer’. He probably thought I was a secretary. Even when I told him I was a lawyer and that I was assigned to his case, he said no; that he wanted to see my boss who he thought was probably the only lawyer in the chambers. I went in to tell my boss that Alhaji did not want me and that he said he wanted a lawyer. Unfortunately for him, my boss led him out of his office with his file, and asked him not to come to his chambers any longer. He told him he was not handling his matter and that he could go elsewhere. The man started trembling.

    My boss told him that if I was the one handling his case and he did not respect me, it also meant he did not respect or have confidence in him (boss). Eventually, he allowed me. That, to me, was very embarrassing; for somebody to walk in and assume that because I was a woman, I was supposed to be a secretary and I could not be a lawyer, and he wanted to see a lawyer. Not even when I had told him I was a lawyer. He said ‘no, I want to see a lawyer, a man.’

    I went home that day and reflected on what being a woman was. For the first time, I was confronted with the issue of being a woman and actually came to terms with the gender issue for the first time. The assumption then was that as a woman, you could never be a lawyer.

    How do you relax?

    I read novels. And if I have the time, I go to parties and dance. That is just about it.

    If you were not a lawyer, what would you have been?

    If I was not a lawyer, I would have been in Nollywood as an actress. When I was in the university, Ife (OAU), to be precise, I used to be very active in the theatre. I was in the drama group, acting plays. We used to travel to Dakar, Senegal. During the holiday, I used to act in the now rested Village Headmaster. So, if I was not a lawyer, I would have been an actress.

    What would you consider as the most expensive piece of apparel in your closet?

    Honestly, I am not into fashion and so, I cannot see any expensive clothing in my wardrobe. What I have are just my office wears. I am not a style person. Rather, I am a functional dresser and I wear what I am comfortable in at any given time.

    What would you regard as your worst habit?

    What I will consider as my worst habit is perhaps the fact that I do not give much attention to myself. I am always busy doing one thing or the other for one person or the other without giving much attention to myself. I would not know if that is a habit. If it is, then, that may be my worst habit.

    With the elevation of a woman as head of the country’s apex court and with more promoted as justices of the Supreme Court, would you say the women are finally assuming their right of place, particularly in a sector dominated largely by men?

    Sincerely, I will say yes. The women are assuming their rightful place in the judiciary. Having said that, it is pertinent to point out that we have had women chief judges at the state level, in the northern, western and eastern part of the country. It is only at the Supreme Court that we are finally getting to the apex. Again, I will say that it is only a question of timing, because as we all know, from Justice Aloma Muktar’s CV, she has been in the profession a long time.

    However, I want to say that women in any career will also know that it takes a longer time to get to the height of their career than their male counterparts. This is because women have additional responsibilities as wives, mothers, other obligations and family commitments to take care of. So, while we are balancing all these various roles, one thing will take precedence at a particular time and another will take precedence at another time. Therefore, it generally takes a woman a little bit longer to rise to the top than it does take a man. And this is not any different in the legal profession.

    What, in your view, would you consider as challenges likely to constrain women, who have risen to the top from succeeding, whether in the judiciary or other sectors?

    Whether one succeeds or not, having climbed to the top has nothing to do with gender. Anybody who has risen to the top has the same responsibility to use the time to make a mark, to be different and stamp her own imprints on where he or she finds herself at that point in time.

    Maybe for Justice Aloma Mariam Muktar, I think because she happens to be the first woman to have risen to the position of Chief Justice of Nigeria, all eyes are on her. Also, given the state our judiciary has found itself at the time she assumed office, there will be a little bit more of the searchlight and the spotlight on her as people will expect her to be a magician and move mountains. But this may not be possible in the two years she has to be in office.

    But so far, she is doing her best and most people are quite happy with what she has been able to do. She has a two-year-tenure because she has to retire at 70 years.

    A lot of people would want to imagine that judges should be full of wisdom as they get older. Does it not amount to robbing the country of the wealth of experience and wisdom, when judges are statutorily stampeded into premature retirement at the age of 70 years?

    Absolutely! But while I wouldn’t link tenure to age because we have people who are well over 70 years and who are still very active. If I had my way, I would rather that at that level, it should be tenure than age. For instance, the late Justice Kayode Eso was well over 80 years, yet he was still very active at the arbitration community, even though he had retired from the Supreme Court. Conversely, we have people who are under 50s and 60s, yet they are already tired and finished. So, I would want to suggest that tenure should perhaps be reviewed to some renewable terms, in the same way that we have four years renewable term for the presidency. This is worth considering to have the chief judge of a state or the chief justice of the federation to have a four-year-tenure, during which if he or she fails to perform, he goes back to being part of the Bench and someone else takes over. But if you perform, your tenure should be renewed for as long as you are physically able to perform. I do not subscribe to the 65/70 years retirement age for our judges. If as a judge, you do not perform, you should rather return to the Bench, because leadership skills are not the same as the skills to judge or decide a case.

    Someone could be good at judging a case which makes him or her a good judge, but because by seniority you become the chief justice or the chief judge, if you do not have the administrative and leadership skills, you may not be able to lead. Apart from being a good judge, you need management skills as well. And if you cannot balance the two, in a situation where you have a good judge who is good at judging cases in leadership position, one of either will fall apart. The administration will suffer. So, if you cannot be the administrative head, you might as well go back to the Bench and someone else becomes the chief judge.

    There is this refrain that has gradually acquired a dated appeal, which is that ‘the judiciary is the last hope of the common man’. Today, the common man’s hope is irredeemably dashed, no thanks to obvious institutional corruption that has held the senior officers of the bench captive. Who, in your view will bell the cat?

    I must say that the Chief Justice is doing her best to face up to these issues. Additionally, the Bar also needs to face up to these issues. On our part, we are also trying to do something by setting up the anti-corruption committee. But on the whole, we really need to engage with the populace. Just like the SERVICOM, we can also have complaint boxes in the court rooms and court premises, where people can write and drop their complaints about corrupt legal officers. There can also be a website where people can send posts about legal officers demanding bribes to facilitate or obtain justice.

    Honestly, I think we are getting to a point where we must face up to the issues that confront us both as members of the Bar and the Bench. Hopefully, things will change if we continue like that. Obviously, the Bench is disciplining itself. Even in the profession, we have gotten to a point where we have said that as a legal profession, we are also involved. Some of our members are not helping the situation by corrupting the judicial process.

    We can also see that the Legal Practitioners Disciplinary Committee is becoming more active in publicising it activities. And once the public gets to know that once you make a complaint, there will be a quick decision, confidence will definitely return. That is what we are trying to do.

    The trend all over the world today, is in the direction of how to settle dispute outside the usual court method through arbitration. Why is the emphasis still more on litigation in Nigeria than arbitration?

    I think that firstly, the arbitration community or practitioners in Nigeria have woken up to the fact that we are losing focus. People go to arbitration because they want a quick decision and they do not want to go to court. But we find a situation where people get a decision and yet they go to court to challenge that same decision. What the arbitration community has decided to do is to educate ourselves and secondly the judiciary. To educate ourselves as lawyers is to explain to our members that look, today you are in court and tomorrow, you are before the arbitration. If you appear before the arbitration and you are not satisfied or successful and you take the case to court, at the end of the day, you have destroyed 50 per cent of your potential income. For instance, if those who are bringing arbitration matters to you think that at the end of the day they will still end up in court, they will rather not bring arbitration matters to you.

    So, we are actually cutting down our own practice. Secondly, they may decide that they are not going to court at all. They may decide to leave the country and forget about the whole matter entirely. Alternatively, they may decide to take the arbitration abroad. What we are trying to do therefore, is to tell our members that in arbitration, you must choose the correct person as your arbitrator and once the correct arbitrator has given you the right decision, accept it and let your client accept it.

    We are also talking to judges to explain to lawyers what arbitration process is and that we are both partners working together, so that when arbitration matters come to their court, they should dispose of them quickly. And over a period of years, people will come to appreciate that it is not worth going to court to prolong what ordinarily should have taken a short time to resolve.

    How can arbitration be made accessible to the ordinary man without undue financial encumbrances to him and in a binding manner?

    Well, one of the things, for instance, that the Lagos State Government has done is that from January 2012, if you file any paper anywhere in court, the court will decide if it should go for mediation settlement or arbitration, and why it should not come into the full courtroom. That is one of the ways in which many cases will be resolved at the arbitration stage, or even mediation, trying to negotiate a settlement between the parties. Many of these instances will affect smaller disputes where you will not have to spend a lot of money and time in court.

    Courts also have mediation courthouses attached to them. You will find this in Lagos, Abuja and Port Harcourt, where you also have arbitration courthouses or court annex. Here, if you have a dispute, you just pay a small amount, after which they will collect your paper and call the other party and help settle the matter.

    Arbitration appears to be narrowly skewed in favour of a few privileged lawyers, despite that it is somewhat an integral part of legal service delivery, why the seeming segregation?

    You are not totally correct. In the law school, every single student takes a course in arbitration. In fact, it is called Alternate Dispute Resolution, ADR. It is arbitration, mediation conciliation and negotiation. Every law student takes the course. What has happened is the mentality of a typical Nigerian lawyer to want to try something new.

    In our part of the world, we have always been brought up to reason in a way that unless you put on the wig and the gown and go to court, you are not a lawyer. And this is what we have been trying to preach to everybody that arbitration is open to every lawyer. It is not restricted to select privileged lawyers in a way you are trying to paint the picture. If you want to be involved as a lawyer in arbitration, it is simple. If you have a dispute, do not try to rush to court. First and foremost, you have to check the agreement. If the agreement has an arbitration clause, you commend the arbitration proceedings.

    Sadly for many lawyers, when they have a dispute, they want to prove they are lawyers by rushing to court first before considering other options. That is what we are trying to explain to lawyers who think that arbitration is only for privileged lawyers that once you have taken that route of first going to court, you cannot go back to arbitration. You have to first think arbitration and it is only when that fails that you then explore the option of court.

    You recently chaired a workshop organised by the Centre for Corrections and Human Development (CCHD), an advocacy group against human and child/sex trafficking. What do you imagine to be the underlying motives behind the trade and the constraint in arresting the boom?

    It is purely economic. Both the trafficker and the trafficked are involved purely for the fundamental reasons of economic. Those engaged in human and child/sex trafficking do so purely for money and nothing else. They prey on the fact that the women and the children they are trafficking also want to make money. The workshop which was very well attended was an eye opener. It was the general observation that many of the women and the girl child do not go into it with the knowledge that they are going into prostitution or human slavery. They are usually told to begin fending for themselves soon after they leave secondary school and with the prospect of furthering their education apparently bleak. They are baited with fantastic pictures of European countries and the abundant job opportunities. The young hapless women see the opportunities as one to better their lives and they unknowingly jump on the chance. It is the same story with the woman in the village who begs a city woman to take her child to Lagos or Abuja to be assisted with one form of trade or the other. By the time the child gets to Lagos, he or she literally becomes a slave without the parents knowing it.

    The challenge, essentially, is to persuade people not to believe everything they are told. Many Nigerians are engaged in one form of menial job or the other in Europe and the U.S. without those back home knowing what they are into. Occasionally, they will send home a few dollars and some good photographs. Their innocent parents hardly get to know that their son or daughter wakes up as early as 4.am to clean the toilets for a white man or wash plates at the restaurants.

    The only way out is that we must make our economy as buoyant as possible to make our people stay back in Nigeria. The economic environment must be made conducive so that people do not fall victim to human trafficking. We need this kind of workshop from time to time to sensitise the unsuspecting and gullible public.

    As head of AELEX, a firm of legal practitioners and arbitrators, how is it like managing over 40 lawyers?

    It is all about being focused and knowing what it is that you want. You have to be prepared to make the compromises necessary. Managing a chamber such as ours is like marriage. Today the man wins and tomorrow the woman wins. That is it. It is also like putting yam in oil or putting oil in yam. As long as both come together, that is what is important. That is how we balance things in our chambers, among the partners and even among the lawyers. We understand and agree that we are looking at a common goal, which is to improve the profession and improve ourselves as lawyers. I think that women are better managers and administrators than men. As women, we have to manage our children, our husbands, our brothers and their wives and that makes women better managers.

    Speaking of women being better managers, why has it taken the women lawyers so long to rise to the headship of the Nigerian Bar Association, many years after Mrs. Priscilia Kuye, who was the first female NBA President?

    Well, I am aspiring to that position in the next election. But I do not think being the NBA president is an issue of gender. Rather, it is about whoever wants to be the president must be for a reason. You must have objectives or goals you think can be done differently or that can be achieved either differently or even better. We have a lot of women who are actively involved in the activities of the NBA. We have women who are chairmen of branches.

    But I think in the same sense in which before the CJN could rise to the top of her profession and become the CJN, this takes time because of other commitments. It is the same for women, even within the bar association. You cannot rise at the same as the men because you have other commitments and you have to do the balancing acts. But then, we have a lot of women who are actively involved in the Nigerian Bar Association.

    As for the next NBA presidency, I will put my hat in the ring when the time comes. But I will not say more than that so that I will not be accused of campaigning ahead of time.

    The NBA used to be known for its radical socio-political and economic activism. But same cannot be said today with allegations of the association reportedly becoming a willing tool available for hire by politicians for rallies. At what stage did the NBA sink to this level?

    Well, I am not really aware of the NBA being rented for rallies at any given time. NBA, like any association, has to move with the situation in which it finds itself. The stance of the NBA when we are in a military regime will be different from when we are in a civilian regime. So if you say we are no more radical, it is because if we were in a military regime, we may have to be a bit more vocal and more radical because you are confronting a regime, which from the point of view as a lawyer, does not have legitimacy and it is more likely to trample on the rule of law because of the manner of its training.

    In a civilian regime, you need to be a bit more circumspect to ascertain that the position that you are trying to put forward is one that has democracy behind it. If we all agree that democracy is government of the people, by the people and for the people, and if everybody says ‘that man is a thief, but we want him as our leader’, that is the voice of the majority, even when you as a lawyer would want to say this is wrong. So, one must be more circumspect. The role of the Bar association in a civilian regime is more of a partner with the government, the civil society and with the people to elevate everybody’s standard. Yes, we should speak out when we should, particularly when the government is not doing what it ought to do. But at the same time, we are expected to educate the populace about their rights.

    To say we are not radical may be as a result of the change of regime because we are no longer in a military regime. But having said that, I think we can do better and engage more.

    Some lawyers, not long ago advocated for the scrapping of the award of the Senior Advocate of Nigeria, arguing the award tends to confer undue privileges on the bearers of the title and which in turn tilts the balance of justice. Do you agree with this?

    I think SANship is still relevant and I do not subscribe that it should be scrapped. What I think should be done is for the process of elevation to be reformed. I feel it is relevant because everybody needs something to aspire to. Otherwise, we will become complacent in our comfort zone.

    Even in the media, a correspondent in the newspaper wants to be chief correspondent, a sub-editor wants to be editor, a publisher wants to be a proprietor etc. In every profession, there should be something for everyone to aspire to. In our profession, the privileges that we are given are for a reason. The major privilege is that your cases are often called first when you get to court.

    For me, my understanding is that even the courtroom is supposed to be a learning experience so that the younger lawyers who are there can acquire and acquire some level of additional knowledge and erudition from the senior lawyers who are Senior Advocates.

    Like every facet of our national life, the elevation procedure has its problems and this needs to be reviewed. I do not think that the award should be done by age or length of practice. As we speak, there are lawyers of forty years who have never practised, but have been doing tenancy agreement for the last forty years.

    Meanwhile, a lawyer of ten years may have been at a point where he is negotiating transactions with international lenders or international financial institutions, which brings us to what is called exposure. With that being said, we need to reform the award procedure and make it more transparent. This will bring back the prestige and the glamour.

    Also, among the Senior Advocates, we need to look at ourselves and tell each other the home truth that even as SANs, we are not performing up to the level expected of us as SANs. There are many Senior Advocates today who, having been made SANs, no longer go to court. It has become like a chieftaincy title to them. They are alright being addressed by the title and nothing more. They no longer lend their intellectual capacity to lift the younger lawyers. The process needs to be reformed but not scrapped. It should not be something of a monopoly. There is the notion that once you are made a SAN, it is million, million all the way. It is not true. The experience is that once you become a SAN, the first casualty is that you begin to lose your clients. Those who could afford your services before you became SAN will tell you, look, I can no longer afford your services. Having lost some of your clients because of SANship, you begin to build a new clientele all over again. I became a SAN in 2001 and I experienced it. I lost some of my clients who thought they could no longer afford me.