Category: Saturday Magazine

  • Please help I’m in love

    Hi Adeola, my name is Caleb am from Kaduna State but I am working in Cross Rivers. I want you to help me. I am in love with a girl in Calabar and I want her to be my wife but her church doctrine is not making it work and she is complaining that I am from the North. Please help me; what do I do? I love her so much I can’t stand losing her; she is a Jehovah’s witness.

    Dear Caleb, a lot of people know that Jehovah witnesses do not marry outsiders just as they are not allowed to attend another church. I clicked the internet and got this for you:

    It is an offense if caught. Marriage is for life. The only solution for remarriage is that of adultery or death of a spouse. Here is some scriptural facts as follows:

    1Cor. 7: 39—Marry only in the Lord: This means that a baptized servant of Jehovah should marry a fellow worshiper. They study God’s Word and do family study together. This strengthens the marriage and makes it easy to manage family problems. There is no compatibility if a Witness marries an unbeliever, be they church goers, Muslims, and idol worshipers. Because the two have antipodal or opposing beliefs and ways of life.

    Gal. 6:4,5 – Each one will carry his own load: We should not compare ourselves with the other person. Each one’s circumstances differs. We should think before making decisions. Because our decisions can have beneficial or adverse results. And they may be irreversible. Whatever decision we make, we should be ready to live with it whether for good or bad.

    Gal. 6:7—We reap what we sow: Some Witnesses have disobeyed Jehovah’s laws and are reaping the sad results. With regard to marriage, I know Witnesses who married outside the organization for different reasons but who experienced things shocking to relate in their marriage. It means that there is “punishment” for anyone who disobeys Jehovah’s laws.

  • Outrage as policeman shoots bus driver

    DATELINE was Thursday April 2, 2013. A mob was in a hot chase for a thief who allegedly stole tires in Ile-Epo bus stop along Lagos-Abeokuta Expressway. In the middle of the pandemonium, a police inspector joined the mob but took a wrong approach toward apprehending the thief. In a fit of fury, he squeezed the trigger but the bullets allegedly missed the target and instead sent an innocent commuter bus driver, Ibrahim Fagbohun, to his early grave. He was shot while his fingers were still on the steering.

    The 29-year-old driver was rushed to the nearby Orile-Agege General Hospital, where he was pronounced dead by doctors while the policeman is currently detained at the State Criminal Investigation Department (SCID), Panti, Yaba, Lagos.

    Recounting the incident, Ademola Alao, a colleague of the deceased bus driver, said:” The errant policeman, attached to Elere Police Station, Agege, was passing by with some colleagues in a patrol vehicle when he saw some people chasing a man accused of stealing tires. He then shot indiscriminately but his shots missed the thief and instead hit Ibrahim on the forehead.”

    It was gathered that the detained police inspector was on patrol with other policemen when they sighted some drivers who were trying to apprehend a man for allegedly stealing two tyres.

    Describing the incident as unfortunate, a colleague, Rahmon Okanlawon, said: “The killing of Ibrahim was rather sad. We were trying to apprehend the man who stole our tyres when a police patrol team came. The Inspector jumped down and started shooting indiscriminately into the air. The bullet hit one of our members, Ibrahim Fagbohun, on the forehead and he died immediately. When we rushed him to the hospital, he was confirmed dead. He is the breadwinner of his family and his wife was only three months ago delivered of a baby girl.

    “I was also arrested by the policemen from Elere and taken to the station where I was detained for several hours despite the fact that it was an officer from that station that killed our colleague.”

    A relative of the deceased, who spoke in confidence, explained that the late bus driver was on the first trip of the day when his life was gruesomely terminated.

    “He was just on the first trip of the day when he met his untimely death in the hands of the policeman. He had two kids, Rasheed, 4, and Nimota, three months old. There is need to prevent situations whereby innocent persons are killed by policemen who ordinarily should protect citizens. The police officer who killed him was irrational in the use of fire arms and should be penalised for his indiscretion.”

    Commenting on the murder, Lagos Police Command Spokesperson, Ngozi Braide, confirmed the arrest of the Inspector, adding that he had been detained at the SCID for interrogation.

    “We have arrested the Inspector and he has been detained at the SCID. We are interrogating him and if he is found guilty, he will be prosecuted,”

  • I’m troubled because I’m in a mixed-status relationship

    Good evening ma, I am 20 and dating a guy whom I just found out is HIV positive and I love him so much. I am just confused whether to leave him or stay with him. The problem here is that we have had sex just once and I am troubled if am also positive. But he is not just coming to me for friendship, he is coming for marriage. Please ma don’t include my number. – TA.

     

    TA, of course, I don’t use people’s real names and telephone numbers; sure you must have noticed that already. That’s that.  It’s too late to cry over spilled milk, you have already had unprotected sex with this guy, so  the next thing should be to ensure you know your HIV status and re-do that after six months. During the period between now and when you do the HIV test again, make sure you are well protected if you must have sex.

    Let’s pray you come out negative. If you do, you would then be in what is generally known as a ‘mixed-status’ relationship. A mixed-status relationship is a sexual relationship between partners with different HIV statuses: one partner is HIV-positive and one is HIV-negative. This can involve a couple in a long-term relationship or a single encounter between two partners.

    Now the question to ask is: is it safe for mixed-status couples to have sex?

    For mixed-status couples, the possibility of HIV infection is a constant reality. There is always a risk, but you can minimize it.

    If you are in a mixed-status relationship and you have sex, you can protect against HIV and other sexually transmitted infections by using condoms and dental dams consistently and correctly. If you are part of a mixed-status couple, it is important that you and your partner communicate openly and often about safer sex practices and HIV prevention. Healthcare providers and local HIV/AIDS organizations can be important sources of information and support for you and your partner.

    As he is the HIV-positive partner in this mixed-status relationship, he can lower the risk of transmitting HIV to you if he is on antiretroviral therapy. Taking all your medications, on time, will help to lower the viral load in his body fluids and decrease the chance that he will transmit HIV to you. But remember, even if he has a low viral load, he can still transmit HIV to you. So it is important to always use a condom and practice safer sex. Talk with your partner about condoms and safer sex practices. If you are very sure you love him and want to remain in this relationship for the sake of love and not just because of the promises of marriage, then  you have the responsibility of  supporting him in taking all of his HIV medications at the right times.

    Help us reduce the spread of the HIV virus. The more understanding and love we show to those who are positive, the more they come out clean about their status and make others aware about the dangers.

  • Beautiful  moment for  Oyinda  Adeyemi

    Beautiful moment for Oyinda Adeyemi

    Oyinda Adeyemi, the beautiful wife of former skipper of the old national football team, the Green Eagles, Chief Segun Odegbami, added another year a few days ago. Oyin, as she is popularly called, is no doubt a force to reckon with both in the corporate world and the corridors of power.

    The well-connected lady, who once worked closely with former Vice President Atiku Abubakar, recently celebrated her birthday. Although it was a low-key ceremony, close friends and associates were on hand to celebrate with her. This parade of top shots was not unexpected as Oyin had always wined and dined in the right circles before she decided to settle down when matrimonial responsibilities demanded.

    Oyin, a young but influential woman in Lagos and Abuja political and social settings, played a prominent role during Atiku’s presidential campaign in 2007. Segun Odegbami also used the occasion to show how loving he was as he moved about hand in hand with his lovely wife.

  • My wife is zero both socially and romantically

    My wife with her education is zero socially and romantically and I am the timid type. I have tried known methods but to no effect- a big regret. J.

    Dear J, if your wife was anti-social alone but hot romantically, it would have been a fair deal. At least, when others complain about her, you would be consoled with the fact that she is making you happy in the right places. But for her to be cold to strangers and even colder to you is a cause for alarm. I guess she needs counseling. You may need to schedule an online counseling session with me and her. You both can overcome this problem, if she is willing to change.

    Being romantic is actually not a pen and paper thing. Most of the most romantic people I know have it in them. Being romantic varies widely from person to person, but at its core, romance involves doing something to express affection in a meaningful yet unexpected way. A true act of romance requires creativity and sincerity, often inspired by love (either its presence or its possibility). While harboring affection for someone might be easy, translating it into romance usually is not. There are millions of romantic ideas in books, movies and on the Internet, but true romance comes from within. But I’m sure we can learn it somehow. So, I’m putting some tips below to help address both her social and romantic coldness:

    How to be romantic

    Focus on the little things. Romance can be practiced every day, and it doesn’t have to be expensive or grand. In fact, sometimes the most romantic moments are simple, spontaneous and free. There are millions of ways to say “I love you” and “I’m lucky to have you.” Think of the world as your medium. You can write it, say it, sculpt it, look it, hide it, shout it, paint it, kiss it, fold it, grow it, touch it, and express it in unlimited ways. Make it a habit to find a new way to be romantic every day. Be creative and have fun with it!

    Be thankful. To make someone feel appreciated, you have to really, truly be thankful for their presence in your life. Maintaining that sense of gratitude takes conscious effort. It’s easy to forget how amazing someone is when you see them every day, but if you constantly remind yourself how lucky you are to share your life with that person, every day will be the most romantic day of your life.

    Court them. Pretend that you and the person just met, and you want the person to fall for you. What would you do to impress them? To show them that you’re interested? To win them over? Treat your partner like they’re single, like you’re trying to earn their affection and trust. The opposite of being romanced is being taken for granted. No one wants to feel like they’ve already been “caught” and it’s over and done with. Put on a show! Stay on your toes! The most romantic ideas come to people when they fear they might lose the one they love. But you don’t have to actually be on the verge of losing someone in order to tap into that mindset!

    How to be socially confident

    By: Braniac (Read more on: http://www.ehow.com)

    1. Remember that no one is any better than you are. If someone can perform well in a social environment, why can’t you? Really, what’s the worst thing that could happen? Why do you feel better when talking in front of your family and friends, but not when dealing with new faces? We’re all people with the same abilities. Stop wondering what others will think of you. Just get out there and do it.

    2. Stop worrying ahead. When dealing with social situations, for example, people immediately start thinking about the public’s reaction. Furthermore, have you noticed it’s never a positive one? Do not get ahead of yourself. Do not start thinking “what if”; This will only turn any (negative) possible outcome into reality. Live in the present.

    3. Let’s say you’re in an atmosphere where you don’t know anyone, and no one knows you. Instead of feeling awkward and shy, take this opportunity to make a great first impression. Remember, people don’t know you, therefore they can’t tell what to expect of you. This is your chance to shine before them and pass with flying colors.

    4. If you need to speak, do it out loud. This will automatically send a signal to your audience that you’re in control of the situation, and nothing can stop you. On the other hand, if you let people know you’re shy by not letting your words be noticeable, they will immediately think you’re a failure before they even know you.

    5. Be yourself, and stop letting anyone else into your head. If someone can do a fancier job at explaining a problem, it doesn’t mean your methods are useless; It only means you have another way of exploring issues which might even teach people a thing or two.

    6. Control your breathing. Instead of feeling tense and breathing from your chest, stop and breathe normally from your stomach. This will get you incredibly relaxed, and thus allow both your words and your self-image to be exposed beautifully.

    7. Physically relax, followed by mentally. The best way to start is by relaxing your muscles. If you’re making a fist, stop this bad habit. Take control of yourself in order to manage the situation you’re presented with. Once in a stable state of mind, you will notice your body language, expressions, and words will flow naturally.

    8. If socializing, a very useful tip is to keep your eye at someone you know from the crowd. If this person makes you feel at ease, try to focus most of your attention on him/her (while occasionally staring at others, of course.)

    9. Model someone you admire. Do you know a motivational speaker, or a good, confident comedian on TV? How well do they perform? Try to act like them while teaching yourself new techniques. Model the way they talk, how they behave, as well as their body language and movements. If you’re in front of a crowd, never stay still – Keep taking small steps to express a confident, successful body language to your audience.

    10. It’s okay to prepare in advance for a situation, especially a social one. However, try not to overly practice what you’re going to say. In the end, this will only cause you to draw a blank when you realize that not every word remained stuck in your head. Instead, know what you will say, but make the final practice when you’re actually ready to demonstrate it.

     

  • Lagos Airport Hotel opens institute to the public

    Lagos Airport Hotel has opened its training school to the public. The institute, the Lagos Airport Hotel Hospitality Institute, which has been in existence since 1997 as the training arm of the Lagos Airport Hotel, has now been approved by the government to award certificates and diplomas to its graduates.

    Speaking during a training programme for 50 students that are being sponsored by the Lagos State government, the Controller of Training, Lagos Airport Hotel, Mrs Ebunoluwa Oyaleke, said the institute was currently training 50 students on different areas of hospitality management.

    According to her, the four-week intensive training on housekeeping management would allow participants have broad knowledge of what housekeeping and cleaning are. It will give the participants the skills needed so that at the end of the programme, they will not only be self-employed, they would be fit into any organisation that requires their skills.

    In the four-week programme, students would be taken through both practical and theoretical aspects of the training.

    The institute is now officially opened to outsiders who want to be trained in hospitality management, catering housekeeping, event management and other things.

    A participant at the training, Olukoga Oluwafunmilola, a professional caterer was full of praises for the Lagos State government and Airport Hotel for the quality of the training. She said the training had broadened her knowledge. According to her, “The training is good. With the knowledge I gathered here, I can start my own business that will help those who are jobless.”

    Orekoya Basirat, another participant, who is a banking and finance graduate, also applauded the training, describing it as interesting and total. Like Olukoga, she is thinking of establishing her own business after the training.

    The training was done by the Lagos State Ministry of Women Affairs and Poverty Alleviation in collaboration with the Lagos Airport Hotel Limited, Ikeja, Lagos.

     

  • The return of Biola Okoya

    The return of Biola Okoya

    After a long leave from the social radar, Biola Okoya, the fun-loving daughter of the landlord of Oluwanisola Villa, Chief Rasak Akanni Okoya, is back. Her stunning deportment betrayed all that had been written about her since her sudden departure from the social arena.

    Before her recent re-emergence in the social space, her whereabouts had been a subject of widespread speculations in the news media. The media was agog with various stories about her health status and her relationship with her Eleganza boss father. But all that has become history as she has returned with a bang.

    Celeb Watch gathered that she has also dumped some of her friends and is now very close to popular Abuja-based architect, Fifi Ejindu. With her latest public appearance, we can only hope that the former wife of Akinwande Johnson has come to stay.

     

     

     

     

     

  • Re:10 signs she faked her orgasm

    •I like your article on orgasm and I also like you. – 07031929204.

     

    •It was a good write-up. Orgasm – reflex response to sex. Faking it for whatever reasons is absurd. How about virginal spasm felt as soon as penetration is achieved? How could a vagina ‘expel’ (push out) penis after ejaculation when the woman is relaxed and wants the man to remain inside? You try to cling on but the spasm pushes it out.

    – 08057776….

  • Building a sound relationship (3)

    Dear Reader,

    You are welcome, this week, to another exciting time in the presence of the Lord. My focus is still on Building A Sound Relationship. Last week, I unveiled the two types of relationships. This week, I shall be sharing with you some fundamental factors. To build sound and meaningful relationship, certain fundamental factors must be in place. Let us examine some of them here.

    Define the purpose: This is the principal factor that must be in place, if a sound relationship must be built. To everything under the sun, including relationships, there is a purpose (Ecclesiastes 3:1). Whatever relationship you are into, whether with your mates, superiors or juniors, it is crucial and fundamental to define its purpose, right from the outset. Dr. Myles Munroe said, “When purpose is not known, abuse in inevitable.” Purpose is power and relationships thrive on it. Purpose enhances your focus.

    Constantly keep the purpose of your relationship before you. Defining and knowing the purpose of your relationship, will help you to fight and overcome distractions. With well-defined purpose, you are able to know whether you are on track or not. It makes correct evaluation possible.

    Be Sincere to yourself: Another major factor is that you must know, understand and be true to yourself. Remember, you are the principal actor in any relationship you are involved in. So, refuse to play the game of self-deceit! Know, understand and be true to yourself.

    Where knowledge is present, power is present for performance. Where there is understanding, there will be outstanding accomplishments. For any relationship to be outstanding, a good understanding is required. Be practical, be real! Find out your weaknesses and your strength, attitude and temperament. To build sound and meaningful relationships, learn to seek and receive help in your area of weakness.

    1 Corinthians 10:12 says: Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall. Successful relationships begin with you. Do not hide from your own flesh. Do not pretend to be super-strong, when you know you are not. A sound relationship is possible when the principal actor, which is you, is sincere.

    Examine your motives: Motive is defined as the reason for doing something. Motives are powerful and they are everything. No wonder, 2 Corinthians 13:5 says: Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith: prove your own selves: know ye not your own selves, how that Jesus Christ is in you, except ye be reprobates? Examine your motives; you are the best examiner of your life, whether there is an ulterior motive or whether your motive is pure and godly. Your motive is clearly known and never hidden from you.

    Interestingly, God sees beyond your actions. You may succeed in deceiving man, but can you deceive God? Impossible! So, right from the outset, sanitize your motive, before you enter into any relationship whatsoever. This will make it sound, healthy and rewarding.

    Be a contributor: It is very important for you to enter into a relationship as a contributor, not a burden. What you take into a relationship will determine what you get out of it. Take a close look at Proverbs 27:17 which says: Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend. Seek to sharpen and add something to the life of the other party involved in that relationship.

    Don’t keep looking for what to get, what to grab and what to take. What to benefit. Instead, think of what to add and give. Constantly bear in mind the fact that what you make happen for others, determines what God makes happen for you.

    Giving, you must remember is living! So, give, contribute and invest spiritually, materially and otherwise, to the development and growth of the relationships you are involved in. When contribution is one-sided, it cripples relationships. Beware of selfishness! Stop taking undue advantage of people. Refuse to join the company of those who keep sucking life out of others, rather than adding to them. Don’t always sit at the receiving end in a relationship.

    Engage in Constant Evaluation: Constantly evaluate your relationships. In evaluating your relationships, ask yourself: Is this relationship profitable, both to me and to the other person or persons involved? Is it contributing anything to me and the parties involved? Is it leaving me refreshed, energized or is it draining me?

    In a sound relationship, there will always be mutual respect for each other. This means that each person values who the other is. You need to evaluate whether this respect is there or not and if it is, whether it is growing or diminishing.

    Another important area that requires constant evaluation is trust. No relationship at any level for that matter can be healthy, without trust. Evaluate whether there is trust and if it is present, whether it is growing or not. Examine your spiritual walk with God, because any relationship with man at any level, male or female that draws you backward in your walk with God is not godly and does not deserve your consideration or attention.

    The questions then are: is He Lord over your life? Or are you lord over yourself? God must become the Lord of your life, so you must be born again. To get born again, you have to confess your sins and accept Jesus as your Lord and personal Saviour.

    If you are ready to be born again, say this simple prayer with me, in faith: Dear Lord Jesus, I come to You today. I believe You died and rose again for my sake. Forgive me of my sins, take over my life, make me Your child and let Your peace reign over my life. Thank you for saving me. Now I know I am born again.

    Congratulations, you are now born again! I believe that you will begin to experience the reality of the price that Jesus paid for your sins at Calvary. All round rest and peace are guaranteed you in Jesus’ Name!

     

    Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through:

    E-mail: faithdavid@yahoo.com Tel. No: 07026385437; 07094254102

    For more insight, these books authored by Pastor Faith Oyedepo are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Single With A Difference, Building A Successful Family, and Success In Marriage (Co-Authored with Bishop David Oyedepo).

     

  • Elina : Ghana castle where dark history comes to life

    Even today, it towers above its surroundings like a white beacon of hope. The scenery is beautiful, peaceful and serene with the huge structure framed by the surging ocean on one side and ringed by rows of tall coconut trees on the other.

    This cool ambience, though is deceptive, for in its heyday, this majestic building, the Elmina Castle, Elmina, Ghana, was the location of one of the most horrendous, horrible and brutal acts ever committed by man against his fellow human being. It was in this place that thousands of African slaves were kept in subhuman conditions, brutalized and eventually shipped to America, the Carribean and other far-flung parts of the world to work as slave labourers.

    “It is difficult for us today to imagine what these captives or slaves went through both while they were kept in this place and even before they arrived,” said Phillip, a guide at the castle.

    On this bright and sunny afternoon, he was taking a small group of foreign tourists, including this reporter, round the huge castle. He is very knowledgeable about its history, often giving graphic descriptions of life within its walls both for the captive slaves and the slave masters.

    It’s a tale of immense misery, pain and suffering beyond belief. Indeed, the contrast between the beautiful castle and the horrors that took place within its thick walls is just too hard to contemplate.

    A hellish life

    The castle was like a transit point for captives before they were to be transported to foreign lands. They were brought from all over the west coast, trekking barefoot all the way, sometimes about 300 miles from the places where they were captured to the coast.

    “The slaves walked from all over West Africa- from the present day Nigeria, Togo, Benin Republic, Ivory Coast, other parts of Ghana and other places. The journey could take months,” he explained.

    He noted that the captives, who were in chains, were given very little food and water and never bathed. Those who became very weak and sick, he added, were left in the forest to die or to be at the mercy of wild animals.

    “By the time they arrived the castle, they would have grown very weak, sick and exhausted. Many died in the process. Those that survived were kept in the dungeons inside the castle,” disclosed Phillip.

    There are several dungeons for male as well as female slaves in the castle. The main female dungeon is a long, narrow room. Apart from a little opening at the upper side of the wall, there are no windows. In this stuffy, airless enclosure were kept about 400 women slaves.

    Life in the dungeons was hellish. The captives were held in there for a maximum of one or two months, depending on the availability of ships to take them away. Given enough food and water to keep them barely alive, they were rarely brought out for exercise and sunlight, nor allowed to bathe.

    “In the case of the women who had their menstrual period, they were not given clothes or pads for the flow. So, they just did it there on the floor. Those who were too weak to ease themselves in the containers placed at corners of the dungeons as toilets were forced to do it on the floor,” said Phillip. Thus, the floor on which the captives slept was often filled with human waste, blood, urine and vomit. All this stench, coupled with the heat, made life harrowing and unbearable in the dungeons. “It’s no surprise that many of the captives died before they were transported abroad,” Phillip stated.

    As if the dehumanising conditions under which the captives lived was not bad enough, they had to contend with all forms of harassment from their captors. The female captors, for instance, were sexually abused by the slave masters.

    Hear Phillip: “Whenever the governor of the castle wanted a woman, he went about it this way. He would stand on the balcony overlooking the female dungeons and order the women to be brought out and assembled. He would then pick the woman he wanted.”

    The chosen female would be by this time, filthy looking and unkempt as she might have been in the dungeon for a month or so without a bath or other forms of personal hygiene.

    “Since she could not meet the governor in her condition, she was usually cleaned by the soldiers, dressed, fed and taken up a flight of stairs and through a trap door off the inner courtyard known as the private entrance to the governor’s bedroom,” said the guide.

    These regular sexual assaults by the captors resulted in pregnancies among some of the captives. Those who became pregnant were freed, but it was a bittersweet freedom as many could not make their way back to their places of origin.

    “Since the captives came not only from present-day Ghana, but also from Togo, Burkina Faso, Ivory Coast, Benin and a host of other places, when these women were freed, they could not return to the villages where they originally came from,” Phillip explained.

    Some of the captors who had impregnated the women subsequently built houses in the village where some of them were kept to deliver their babies.

    Door of no return

    When the ships that would take the captives away arrived, those sold were taken to a room now known as the “room of no return”. A very low door leads to this room. Unless you are a dwarf, you will need to bend to enter. The captives, all in chains, were led to this room and made to exit through another door. From this door (known as the door of no return), they were taken down a ladder to canoes and finally the ships that would take them to unknown places in the world. This journey called the “middle passage” saw the captives being shipped across the mighty Atlantic Ocean to Europe, the Caribbean, the Americas and other places. It was a long tortuous journey in which many of the slaves died from hunger, disease and brutality and horrible conditions in which they were kept. Those who perished were thrown into the sea.

    “Over 60 million Africans were captured during the three centuries or so the evil trade in humans lasted. Only 20 million survived and ended up in foreign lands to work as slaves under terrible conditions,” stated Phillip.

    From one power to the other

    The castle, which was at the epicentre of the evil trade, began life innocently enough. Built by the Portuguese in1482, it was originally used as a trading post for goods. The Portuguese first arrived Elmina in 1471 and began to trade with the Africans. Back then, the system of trade was by barter, that is the exchange of goods for goods. The Portuguese exchanged items like guns, hard liquor, gunpowder, enamel bowls, tobacco, iron bars for such items like gold, ivory, spices and artifacts from the Africans. The locals had a lot of gold to exchange with the foreigners. This gave them the impression that the village was full of gold. Thus they called the place, “El Mina” (the mine). This name was corrupted to today’s Elmina.

    This mutual trade in goods continued till the early 16th century when the trans-Atlantic slave trade began. In 1637, the castle was taken over by the Dutch after a fierce battle. They held fort there, using it as a transit for shipment of slaves to the West until the British gained possession in 1872. By this time, the trade in slaves had mercifully been abolished.

    Today, the castle, with its different sections such as the courtyards, dungeons, cells, official quarters for the slavers, church, mess, kitchens and others, stands empty of both slave masters and ill-treated captives. All that remain within its thick walls are echoes of a past that saw the worst form of man’s inhumanity to man. Well- maintained by the Ghanaian government, it’s a magnet for tourists from all over the world. Briana Wilson, an African-American from Atlanta, Georgia, is one of them.

    “I had heard so much about this place that I just had to come here. This is my first visit to Africa. Seeing the place where my ancestors stayed before being taken away to other parts of the world gives one goose pimples. There are no words to describe the feeling. You can read all you want and watch all the documentaries you like about slavery. But they don’t give you the same experience as being there and seeing and feeling how those people must have suffered. It’s an unforgettable experience,” the 56 year old school teacher stated.