Category: Saturday Magazine

  • Nyanya, Karyn White for Easter show

    This Easter celebration is set to be an unforgettable one for fun lovers as La Campagne Tropicana, Beach Resort Ikegun, Lagos State has put together a package to cater for every category of guests.

    The package tagged Easter and More is a mixture of music, beach fun and culinary experience. Top artistes like Nyanya, Karyn White of the United States of America, Afe Onikoko and other local artistes are expected to perform at the beach resort.

    Outside these, the beach offers opportunity for nature walk on the mangrove forest and the beach front.

    The Chief Executive of the resort, Otunba Wanle Akinboboye, said: “As our tradition, La Campagne will once again offer exquisite experience.

    He said: “The Easter festivities will kick off on Good Friday when the guests are expected to start coming in for the weekend of fun. Activities for the first day will include dance aerobic, swimming, canoeing and many other outdoor sporting activities. There will also be a mini-carnival in which people will parade on the beach front to dance of good music.”

    La Campagne Tropicana is the nation’s leading beach resort with the state-of-the-art facilities for sports and other forms of relaxation.

  • The contract: Readers’ reactions

    We have been getting lots of feedback from readers on the stories published on this page. Due to space constraints we can’t publish all here but we hope to publish more at a later date.

    Re: The Contract

    What a touching life story! The concluding part is not yet known though. Please we will like to know what happened when Bennie returned from his business trip. Did Amanda serve him with divorce papers and what happened to the marriage?

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    Amanda did not do the right thing because she made a vow on her wedding day that she will stick to her husband for better for worse. In my own opinion, the fact that your husband is acting strange does not mean he doesn’t love you or care for you.

    Remember, prayer is the master key, the key to all closed doors, the key to all marital problems. Stay true to your marriage despite all obstacles. Don’t leave him. Don’t say because Max is caring and loving, then you will get married to him. You don’t know if he has good or bad intentions.

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    I think that is the right thing to do – ending that kind of marriage and having peace of mind is the best for Amanda.

    •From Esther- 080672697**

    Amazing story! Amanda tried to eat her cake and still have it cooling in the fridge- a serious act of folly. She finally acted right. It’s better late than never. There are no real shortcuts in life; slow and steady wins the race.

    •Victor, 070678017**

    Bennie may likely be into occultism so it was better Amanda put an end to the marriage

    •Reuben Ogunsipe, from Kaduna, 080230790**

    Bennie is a cultist. You may die if you marry Max.

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    Of course she did the right thing! Money is the root of all evil but love is everything. Settle for it.

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    That is the wise action to take as the man might be in secret cult. The lady has now realized her mistake. I wish you luck.

    •Azeez Musiliu from Ikorodu, Lagos, 080297762**

    Amanda has done absolutely well by deciding to dump Bennie, his fortune and his hard line posture. Who knows whether he has any other diabolical plan in the offing. Amanda should just go ahead to divorce him and marry Max.

    •From Seye, Akure (080338944**)

    If you can’t withstand the heat, then don’t enter the kitchen. Amanda got what she wished for, so she can never be right in every sense of the word. This will serve as a bitter lesson to every other young lady out there who still thinks that money is everything in life.

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    Amanda I must say you did the right thing.

    •Chikito Nwa from Aba,

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    Amanda could plunge herself into problems by marrying Bennie because she doesn’t know his motive for such a marriage. What if he’s using her for rituals? Is the money she’s getting more valuable than her life?

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    Amanda, ending that will be for your own best interest but you need to seek divine intervention first from God because this might not be an ordinary contract- your life might be at stake here

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    Since she did not seek advice before getting married to him, she must go ahead and finish what she started because there is no going back. What kind of wealth will one have without romance, sex and children?

    That’s bull**it and not true love. Real love gives without condition and has compassion without hesitation. My advice to her is that she must not think or try to play dangerous games. If she tries it, then law of karma awaits her.

    •Amb. Chime Sunny Elison from Uyo, Akwa Ibom State. 080635387**

    Amanda, your husband is not man enough, so go ahead with your plan.

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    Re: Star of destiny

    Yes, Alex should forgive Muna and take her back because in the game of love, forgiveness is a vital tool.

    •Jacob Feyisola Felix, University of Abuja (0802321326**)

    Alex should forget Muna forever because if he takes her back she will do something worse, moreso that she is more famous than Alex.

    •From Seye, Akure (080338944**)

    If Alex foolishly takes Muna back, he will live to regret it as she does not and will never love him. He has no business going to that hospital as it seems he also wants her back. He should look around and be a real man and find another woman for himself.

    •Ogholi Sylvester (080331677**)

    Objectively speaking, it would be so improper for Alex to forgive Muna as she has not changed. And she will never change. I’m not a cynic but if Alex forgives her, he will soon regret it. Muna is permanently infected with deep-seated and obsessive greed. She wants to have it all. If she claims to have true love for James, she would have accommodated him despite his ‘madness’. She just wants to eat her cake and have it and that is absolutely impossible. Alex should be careful before he becomes as irrelevant as James too.

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    What a beautiful story ‘Star of destiny’ but sad ending for Muna. She saw it coming but failed to take the necessary measures. Even the good advice of her friend Debi did not help matters. There is this proverb, ‘those who the gods want to kill, they first make mad’. She has learnt her lesson the hard way.

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    We will also like to inform our esteemed and loyal readers that this column will be going on a short break. Please bear with us.

    •Send comments/suggestions to psaduwa@yahoo.com or 08023201831.

  • The allure of Oba Ileriji

    The allure of Oba Ileriji

    The receding evening sun was partially hidden by a dark cloudy sky, but not completely as its dark golden glow splashed over the beach fronts, giving it a yellowish hue. The breeze whistled gently sweeping across the coconut trees. The coconut fronts bowed at the touch of the cool breeze as if in reverence to a deity.

    Being intimate with nature has always been a key lure of La Campagne Tropicana, Ikegun. Currently, the romance with nature has gone a notch further with the introduction of a new concept, the Oba Ilerigi (Tree House) range of nature’s suites. It is an audacious new concept in luxury suites that combines modern luxury and the Ijaw primeval architectural design.

    Further from this local flavour, the world over, the concept of sustainable tourism in destinations has become very imperative.

    Sustainable tourism has been described as tourism that minimizes the costs and maximizes the benefits of tourism for natural environments and local communities, and can be carried out indefinitely without harming the resources on which it depends.

    Tourism is one of the largest global industries, with much of the growing market focused around pristine natural environments such as coastal and marine protected areas. Sustainable tourism is deliberately planned to benefit local residents, respect local culture, conserve natural resources, direct more of the profits to the local community and the investors. This is where the new concept of the Tree House accommodation facilities at La Campagne Tropicana Resort scores the bull’s eye.

    Oba Ilerigi is built on about eight wooden sticks, about six feet high that carries the house. Just under the house is a small swimming pool. The swimming pool sides are demarcated by sliced trunks of coconut trees which are in abundance on the Lagos beach front.

    The stairs to the Tree House is also made of slices of wood. The dry stems of small trees serve as part of the staircase. They turn golden in colour as the shaft of the late evening sun cascades on them.

    At the entrance to the house is gangan (Yoruba drum). On the right is a mini-balcony with wooden stools and tables. One could sit here and watch the sun recede and gradually welcome the night that would immediately cast its spell on the earth.

    One could also watch the ocean water in its monotonous crashing on the shore and then receding to repeat the same again.

    The floor is made of wood with an overlay of marble. A six-by-six bed is at the centre of the tree house. The interior décor is purely African. There is a clean modern bathroom and a toilet. The rest room is also built with the bamboo. The house has a thatch helping to cool the inside.

    Although close to 70 per cent of the content of the Tree House is locally sourced from the area, things like the bathroom and toilet are imported. The design of the house is such that it has huge, wide windows overlooking the ocean.

    Dr. Wanle Akinboboye, the founder of La Campagne Tropicana, said of Oba Ilerigi. “Its materials and the builders are from this community and I am indeed very pleased with this development.

    “My joy is that more of it will be built in the nearest future and replicated across Africa. This would no doubt lead to more jobs and opportunities for the entire community where the facilities are made.”

    It is located at Ikegun Village, Ibeju Lekki, Lagos State, a distance of an hour from the bustling of Lagos. It’s a land of palm-fringed, white sandy beaches where time slows down in sync with the rhythm of the waves that gently laps the shore.

    At the resort, you may choose between a dip in the refreshing surf of the Atlantic Ocean on your left or the placid water of fresh water lake on your right. Or simply dive into a book while remaining firmly on the golden sands in between.

    La Campagne Tropicana is the type of resort you dream about, but never realise it is right at your doorstep. Yet, for those lucky enough to have discovered it, this is the tropical getaway that allows you to escape the stress of city life and breathe again.

    As you stroll along the beach, sipping a cocktail at sunset or enjoy the nightly entertainment, you’ll have to remind yourself that you’re still in Nigeria. It is on 65 acres of expansive lawns, scented tropical gardens, mysterious savannah and cool mangrove forests that give La Campagne its unique ambience.

    The rooms and villas mix traditional African architecture and furnishings with all the modern conveniences you would expect in a well-appointed resort, including air conditioner, hot water and room service.

    The view outside your window may look Caribbean, but it is distinctly African inside – with cool circular rooms, high ceilings, basket-woven chairs, traditional fabrics and locally hand-made furniture in dark, polished mahogany.

    For those in search of the authentic African experience, the Oba Ilerigi experience is the ultimate in the sense that it combines the adventure with pure luxury. While one is indulging in the adventure of living on a tree top for a change, comfort and luxury are not by any means sacrifice.

    The house is part of the wider Nigeria’s top leisure resort, La Campagne. During this Easter it might not be out of tune to take a break and head for the resort. It is about 100 kilometres from Lagos. From Lagos, one would take the Lekki-Epe Expressway and then go to the right at the Akodo junction and then head to Akodo, passing also the Lagos Export Processing Zone and Lekki town. Ikegun is towards the end of the long stretch of the expressway. Although is quite a journey getting there, but the one could be rest assured the experience would be worth the trouble.

    At the resort, guests have many options to choose from, ranging from spacious standard rooms, doubles or villas, all with en-suite bathrooms and gorgeous objects that decorate every interior.

    Without doubt, the resort lively bars have on parade vibrant performances of talented artistes. Each night unveils music, dance and comedy of surprising quality, honed to perfection.

    Over the years, La Campagne Tropicana Beach Resort has continuously offered an assortment of packages and deals for family getaways, romantic escapes and group discounts.

    For no one to be left out, the management of the resort created a bespoke experience for every guest’s or visitor’s requirements and ensuring that both corporate and private events go without a hitch.

    Despite all these array of leisure options to choose from, Oba Ilerigi is still the ultimate experience.

  • Marriage: A divine origin (4)

    Dear Reader,

    You are welcome to another exciting and edifying moment. So far, we’ve been discussing Marriage: A Divine origin, Companionship and The Obligations of Husband to The Family.

    This week, I shall be sharing with you, The Wife’s Obligations. What God did at creation clearly reflects the position of the woman in the home. He took a rib from the side of the man, to make the woman. What God did at creation clearly reflects the position of the woman in the home. He took a rib from the side of the man to make the woman.

    Genesis 2:21 says: And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;

    The fact that the bone was extracted from Adam’s head tells you that the man’s position as head is incontestable. Also, the fact that the bone was not taken from Adam’s feet proves that the wife is not to be trodden under foot or trampled upon as a slave.

    It would be demonic for any Christian to question the leadership of Jesus over the church. Similarly, any woman or women’s organization that attempts to question the position of the man in the family, should be regarded as begin under a demonic influence. God expects that just as the church is subject to Christ in everything, even so, women should be in subjection to their husbands in everything.

    When a woman allows her husband to fulfill his covenant role of headship, she has automatically given him the room to play his messianic role over her.

    Sometime ago, my wife’s health was challenged. I then went apart to enquire of the Lord what to do. As I searched the scriptures, I discovered from Ephesians 5:23 that I am the Saviour of my wife’s body, the same way Christ is of the church. I concluded, therefore, that my wife did not require her faith to be healed. I could exercise my God-given authority over her, as head of our home.

    Submission has to be done in love, not out of fear or threats. When it is rooted in love, it is perfect and brings God’s presence down in the home.

    Also, note that if a woman doesn’t submit to her husband, she would submit to someone else. The same is true for the man. If he doesn’t love his wife, he would love someone else. It is, therefore, important that both husbands and wives fulfill their covenant obligations to one another. The end product will be success in marriage life.

    However, for you to be able to carry out your obligations as a wife, you need a personal relationship with Christ. If you are set for that relationship please say this prayer of faith with me: Dear Lord Jesus, I come to You today, I am a sinner. I believe You died and rose on the third day for my sins. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today.

    Congratulations!  You are now born again! Till I come your way next time, please call or write, and share your testimonies with me through: E-mail: faithdavid@yahoo.com; Tel.  No: 234-1-7747546-8; 07026385437; 07094254102

    For more insight, these books authored by Pastor Faith Oyedepo are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all the Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work and Building a Successful Family.

  • Women can have great sex and look good after menopause!

    An older friend of ours who is widowed visited us this past Monday. We had so much fun as we talked about so many things and we didn’t want the night to end, but of course, he needed to go back home. That was when it occurred to me to ask him what he would be doing for the rest of the night – probably watch some football games on TV before retiring to bed?

    With a sly smile, he said he would have wanted his ‘little girl’ to keep him company, but there was no chance that was going to happen since one of his sons was around and he wouldn’t like to lose the young man’s respect.

    “How old is this little girl?” I asked.

    “Well, I’m not too sure; you know they grow fast these days. Give or take, she can’t be more than 28.”

    28 years old! That alarmed me. Having been close to his family even when his wife was alive, I have a rough idea of how old his children are. The last of them couldn’t be less than 25 and she’s a girl. So, this little girl couldn’t be more than three years older than his daughter.

    I asked him in all honesty if he would be pleased to be having a man as old as he is as a son-in-law.

    There was that uncomfortable silence before he said, “My children are all well brought up and I doubt if any of them would want to marry a man my age, except for love of course. You know most of these young girls who date older men are looking for comfort, money and security. I can bet that the love they have for us is not genuine love. They care and profess love just so that their pockets would be full and their lifestyles change for the better.”

    “Since you don’t trust the love of these young girls, why don’t you go for an older woman, who would not only complement you but one whose love you can be sure of?” I asked.

    “Adeola, that’s the problem. I have been close to this beautiful woman in my church for some time now. This woman is charming and would certainly complement me. But I love sex and my fear is that at her age, she may have reached menopause and I hear menopausal women don’t enjoy sex. Some men even joke that women who have reached menopause are so dry that they give you bruises and kill your sex drive ultimately. This woman I’m talking about retired from an oil company and she lives a very comfortable life. She’s the type of woman I can do many things with and be happy, but I doubt if sex is one thing I will get satisfaction with if I go for her and I wouldn’t like to marry her and be cheating on her”, he replied.

    “Uncle, hadn’t your wife reached menopause before she died?”

    “Ha! Adeola, you can ask questions!” He almost screamed.

    “It’s nothing to be uncomfortable about. I should know because my next questions are: if she had reached menopause before she died, were you no longer enjoying sex with her and did you cheat on her?”

    He sighed and responded, “It’s a lot easier for you to accept sex the way it is with a woman you have stayed with for a long time because menopause or no menopause, you have attained a comfortable level of regular sex with her and you can get her to be wet because you know her well. On cheating, most men cheat at some point or the other anyway even with young and hot wives; so if I cheated on my late wife, it wasn’t because of her menopausal state.”

    “Uncle, that’s the point! If you date and later marry an older woman you are in love with, getting to know each other’s bodies would be a gradual process but it would get to a level where both of you are very comfortable with each other. Each person has his or her own sexual plus or minus and these are things you can work on. You cannot pretend to be as active as you were in your younger days, and if there are drugs you take to help you address your weak points, what that means is, if this woman is dry, there are lubricants to tackle that.”

    After some more lively banters and educative talks about sex and the menopausal women, I decided to do justice to the subject matter for the sake of most men who have held on to some wrong beliefs about it.

    I may still be very far from menopause myself, but it will eventually come someday. One thing I know is that menopause is a process and not an event. It is something that happens gradually and not suddenly. With the gentle exercises I do to take care of my posture and the good food and fruits and good health I’m enjoying now, it won’t catch me sexless and if won’t catch me looking drab.

    Common, aunties and younger women who have reached menopause, follow me on the myths on menopause below and take the hints in looking good.

  • 10 myths about sex, menopause, aging

    It’s dangerous to generalize about sex and menopause. There are women who feel sexy during and after menopause, and then there are women who don’t. But there are a few hoary myths about sex menopause and aging we’d like to confront head on.

    It’s normal not to want sex after menopause

    Women are affected by menopause in many different ways.  While some feel less turned on sexually because of symptoms like vaginal dryness or night sweats, others feel “Grandma’s still got it” – and experience a new sense of release and zest when free from PMS, and monthly menstruation.

    They enjoy new-found freedom and independence and say sex is better than ever. The best indicator of whether you will enjoy sex after menopause is whether you enjoyed it before menopause.

    Sex is painful after menopause

    The thinning of the vaginal wall as women age can cause extra sensitivity, and lack of lubrication may require a natural cream to ease movement, but these are both issues that should not stop a woman from enjoying a healthy sex life.

    Once you turn 60 you’re past being sexy

    Sexuality is not age bound.  According to a survey by the National Council of Aging 70 per cent of sexually active women over 60 reported being as satisfied, or more satisfied with their sex lives than they were in the 40s.

    Another study found 84 per cent of older females in 106 cultures studied were sexually active, leading the researchers to conclude cultural factors as much as biological ones determined  whether older people were sexually active or not.

    My sex drive dies after menopause

    Researchers have discovered when a menopausal women enters a new relationship she can be as horny as her 20 year old self.   It seems it is her relationship rather than her gonads which determines how much she wants sex.

    Although sexual drive may be lower, sexual desire may remain strong, depending on whether you have a partner you want to be intimate with and an appreciation that “I can still feel passionate about love at any age, if the circumstances are right.” (Eda LeShan in I Want More of Everything, New York, Newmarket Press 1994)

    As hormones decline, so does libido

    A woman’s libido is not driven by her hormones. Libido is determined more by physical and emotional health, and the availability of a desirable partner.

    Declining hormone levels can always be safely supplemented by bio identical hormones or a natural hormonal regime if necessary. Estrogen creams may be an option – check with a doctor who specialises in this area, rather than relying on your GP for advice.  A locally applied estrogen cream taken in specific doses and for specific periods of time to thicken vaginal walls and restore vaginal secretions.

    However note that vaginally applied estrogen cream should not be used as a lubricant and should not be applied before heterosexual sex, as estrogen absorbed through the penis has been associated with tumor growth in men. Condom use is sometimes suggested for full protection in such cases.

    Too much sex can worsen vaginal dryness

    Doctors who specialize in sexual health are strongly of the view that sex at this stage and age is very much a “use it or lose it” proposition. Having sex regularly actually helps increase blood flow to the vaginal wall, increasing your ability to lubricate during sexual arousal and improving your overall sexual health.

    My slower response is a turn off

    Psychology Today reports men’s and women’s sexual needs tend to converge after 50, with men valuing the emotional aspects of sex – the feeling close to someone – more as they age. Assuming both are in good health, older men and women may be more sexually compatible than ever.

    You may have to work harder to reach orgasm, says Dorree Lynn, PhD, a psychologist and sex educator says,  ”Fifty isn’t the new 20, its being 50 and loving every aspect of who you are and your breadth of experience.”

    There’s nothing you can do for vaginal dryness

    Vaginal dryness happens to almost every woman, according to Sari Locker, a sex expert and author of The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Amazing Sex. But there are plenty of personal lubricants available which can help solve this issue with no fuss.

    Choose one that is personally acceptable to you. Water based solutions are recommended. Some therapists recommend regular massage with a natural cream to improve elasticity.

    No one will fancy my aging body

    Sex drive and function are key ingredients in a healthy sex life. Exercise regularly, maintain good muscle tone, eat healthily, don’t abuse alcohol and keep smiling!

    If you keep yourself fit and active the changes in your body will not be particularly noticeable. And your partner is just as likely to feel insecure about his physical image as he ages. A sense of humour and good communication can quickly dispel doubts over flagging self-esteem.

    And just to reassure you, your vagina will not shrivel up like a prune. While the loss of estrogen does cause some change, it is mostly undetectable to the eye. “Many women don’t notice the changes at all,” says Hope Ricciotti, MD, a gynecologist who teaches at Harvard Medical School.

    I don’t need to worry about sexually transmitted disease

    It’s an unfortunate reality that sexually transmitted diseases are on the rise in the over 50s. Unless you have been married to your partner for years, take care and insist on condoms with new partners.

  • NCPC boss tasks church leaders on pilgrimage

    The Executive Secretary of the Nigerian Christian Pilgrim Commission (NCPC), Mr. John Kennedy Opara, has tasked church leaders and the privileged few in the church to encourage dedicated church workers by sponsoring them on holy pilgrimage.

    He disclosed this recently in Abuja during the 19th annual synod of the Methodist Church of Nigeria, Abuja diocese.

    Mr. Opara, who was the Special Guest of Honour at the event, was represented by the Chaplain of the NCPC, Rev. Ayodele Jato.

    The NCPC boss congratulated the church on their synod which he said was timely in view of the numerous social ills plaguing the peaceful co-existence of the country.

    He described the synod as an opportunity provided by the church to “reflect, brainstorm and project on the spirituality of its existence and the way forward for the church”.

    Consequently, he called on the church leaders to pray against everything that is affecting the country negatively.

    The NCPC helmsman stressed that pilgrimage should be for those who are spiritually rich, but materially poor. Thus, he admonished the church leaders and wealthy Christians to encourage and sponsor Christians on holy pilgrimage, especially those who cannot afford the cost of pilgrimage.

    He equally stated that the era of government sponsoring pilgrims was over as the commission now emphasizes self- sponsorship.

    He said “the commission now operates biannual pilgrimages- October-December and March- April in one calendar year.

    He explained that the Easter pilgrimage, which was flagged off on February 28, would be rounded off on April 1.

  • Achebe’s death and dearth of a reading culture

    He spent most of his life creating magic with the written word. So, it’s no surprise that the death of literary luminary Prof. Chinua Achebe last week, has been marked by copious amount of the written word by many including his legions of admirers, readers of his works and others not just in Nigeria but all over the world who are mourning his passage.

    All well and good for the late writer is one man who deserves whatever accolades is coming his way even in death. But what is the point of so many beautiful things being written and said about him when most of it will not be read by a vast proportion of his compatriots? Besides, how many of those mourning him and saying so many nice things about him including top government officials have actually read his works? How many have even seen or read his most famous book, Things Fall Apart, the novel that put him on the world’s literary map and which has been translated into more than 50 languages and sold more than 10 million copies worldwide?

    The answer is obvious- not very many considering our huge population. The reading culture in the country has been on a decline for years and today, it’s on an all time low. Most Nigerians including many among the educated elite, don’t read and that’s the truth. If they read at all, it’s to pass exams and once that’s done, it’s goodbye to books forever! How sad! For books are not just for acquiring knowledge for academic purposes alone, they help make one a better human being. Books are great repositories of knowledge which open a window to a world hitherto obscured by ignorance. You can learn great life lessons from reading which can enrich your life.

    Some observers of this dearth of a reading culture in the country have attributed it to the harsh economic situation in the country. Many people, they argue are too busy struggling to make ends meet to afford the luxury of reading books. No doubt about that. Things are really tough in the country and many families are struggling.

    But that is not the sole reason. Some who claim they don’t have money to buy books will think nothing of spending thousands buying recharge cards for their various mobile phones each month. So, what is really the problem? Is it due to the low level of education among the majority of the populace as some say? But that can’t be the reason for many among the educated elite don’t read as well. How many of our leaders, top public officials and others who hold the nation’s destiny in their hands actually peruse books? I can bet you, not many! That could be responsible for the dearth of fresh ideas among them, their lack of beliefs, values, philosophy and driving force. They have no idea on how to move this country forward and all many of them think about is how to stuff their already bloated bank accounts with more of the nation’s resources.

    Maybe it’s something to do with our backgrounds as a people. A child who comes from a home where the parents never read books, magazines or newspapers, might not see the importance of reading as a way of improving the mind.

    Whatever the reason for our people’s indifference to books, Achebe’s death should be the right time to have a rethink on this anomaly. For a nation can’t make progress without thinking minds. And this comes about mostly through reading. Luckily, technology has made reading easier now as you can get books on your iPads, smartphones, laptops and other gadgets. So no more excuses. Let’s prove wrong, the white man’s assertion that ‘if you want to hide something from a black man, put it in a book.’

    And one way we can show appreciation and honour for the life of this great African wordsmith, a genuine, shining star who has made all of us proud to be Nigerians, is to start reading his books today. Go out and get copies of any of Achebe’s works and other top writers and peruse them. You say you don’t have money? Make some sacrifices. Use the money you would have spent recharging your two phones to buy books. You will be amazed at some of the things you will learn from books which can even change your life and your perception of life and the world. Happy reading!

  • Appear younger in days

    Some things we do take days, hours, weeks and even months to help us appear younger looking. Then there are certain things some of us go out of our way to do to ourselves that make us look older. Here are some of those things and how to correct them:

    Avoid having an oily face:

    When dressing to go out of the house here’s how to keep your skin moist while wearing make-up, and make your skin appear younger, too.

    1. Cleanse face and neck and use an astringent to remove all oils and any residual make-up.

    2. Apply a good moisturizer.

    3. Apply any make-up your normal way.

    4. “Powder down” to blend makeup colors and “take off the shine.” Make sure you press the powder “down onto the skin” instead of “wiping” the powder across the skin. The powder actually locks in the moisture and helps protect and keep it from escaping during the day. This also helps to protect your skin from the sun’s rays. You now have the advantage of treating the skin while looking younger at the same time. TRY THIS TEST: Before you apply powder, stand sideways to a window while looking in a mirror and study your face. Apply powder. Return to the window with the mirror to see the difference. If you see no difference, you are very young with no lines!!

    Make your eyes come alive: No matter what shape or size eyes you have, with the proper make-up, they will look more youthful and beautiful. Remember, your eyes should steal the show…not the eye shadow. Here are some simple rules: 1. Wear natural colors. My favorite is a soft off- white or light tone eye shadow on the lids and a brown or gray shade above the lids and a little above the bone . (The off-white mostly blends into the eyelid skin after a short time to give a natural look.) 2. Wear eyeliner to bring out the eyes….never wear black – dark brown looks almost like black yet gives a much softer look. 3. Wear mascara – black or brown is fine. if you don’t have long thick lashes of your own – try artificial eyelashes – brown only – no black. (You will need to trim them down both in width and length and don’t buy the thick ones, they will be too much when applied.) If not overdone, these lashes can give a soft youthful look. Can you tell that I wear them most of the time?? Even my manicurist of 3 years didn’t know it until I told her.

    Poor posture ages you: Never underestimate the beauty and health benefits of good posture. Often poor posture is just a bad habit that is easily corrected. Poor posture not only makes you look older, but could be the first step toward dowager’s hump, double chin, potbelly, and swayback as well as some internal problems too.

    To correct poor posture we must be aware of our posture all of our waking hours for a few days or weeks. Make a point to stand straight with shoulders back, chin up not down. Now you are on your way to that glamorous, healthy youthful look!

    Ask your best friend, your kids or husband to keep an eye on your posture and to let you know when you are not standing straight.

    This can help you get out of a bad habit. This may also help others in your life want to correct their posture too.

  • Lagos Water Regatta holds tomorrow

    Lagos State will come alive tomorrow with troupes from all over the state when the state holds the fourth edition of its annual Lagos Water Regatta.

    A statement from the organizing committee, signed by its Chairman, Olusegun Jawando, said the Lagos Water Regatta is an annual water-based cultural sporting and recreational activity put together to showcase what the various coastal communities have to offer in terms of water sport, cultural beauty and aquatic splendour.

    Jawando said Lagos Water Regatta was planned to coincide with the Easter, and it was meant to energize the tranquil nature of the Lagos Island waterfront during the festival

    The event, jawando said, was part of the activities lined up to celebrate the 2013 edition of the Lagos Black Heritage Festival, adding that the regatta was a private sector-led initiative with support from the organized private sector and the state government to promote the tourism potential of the state.

    “The Lagos Water Regatta was conceived as a means to preserve our socio-cultural sporting heritage in water sports, traditional games and other ways of exploiting the water for human social needs. Above all, we are using the annual Lagos Water Regatta to promote the state into the global tourism destination map”, Jawando said.

    The Chairman disclosed that the Regatta will consist of large fishing boats, ferries, water lightening, barges and other marine vessels adorned with each depicting the social, cultural, traditional folklores and occupational aspects of the Lagos people.

    “There will be a parade of floats and canoes with traditional, cultural and social troupes from all communities within the state,” he said.

    Jawando explained that Lagosians will be treated to a pot-pouri of quality fun and entertainment at the Regatta Village, situated at the waterfront area on Oyinkan Abayomi Drive, Ikoyi, Lagos, adding that the theme for Water Regtta still remains the same “Splash the excitement”

    “While all activities will take place on the water, there will be a lot of side attractions taking place at the Regatta Village. There is going to be a children’s fun park, music concert pavilion, rib cracking comedy, live artiste performance and disc jockey raves.

    “In terms of security, adequate provision has been made with the navy, police and ambulance boats. We are going to have participation from LASWA, all boat clubs in Lagos, boat and ferry operators in Lagos and representatives of riverside communities in Lagos”, he said.