Category: Saturday Magazine

  • Neck that speaks

    Neck that speaks

    THE necklace is an accessory that cannot go out of vogue. Either classic or apparently simple, it just speaks right of the clothing. Anyway, you don’t just wear neckpiece for the fun of it, else, you tend to ignore the value and effect it creates on you.

    Neckpieces are now in different designs ranging from pearls to bead accessories, ankara accessories, chokers and all sorts.

    Trying any of these is not a bad idea; or, even buying more of them especially if they are of different colours, shapes and designs. They will go a long way in beautifying your wardrobe or jewelry box.

  • Best dressed over 60

    Best dressed over 60

    THE best-dressed competition becomes a little fairer, intriguing and more interesting when youth and beauty are taken out of the equation. Even the most genetically and divinely blessed find that while cheekbones may last, the spell cast by youthful beauty loses its power. Beauty fades while style endures and becomes more important.

    With this in mind, we present the over 60 age. It’s more interesting than your average best-dressed list, because style over 60 has a depth of character with which no youngster can compete, however good she may look in hot pants.

  • Their Royal Hotness

    Their Royal Hotness

    ANYTHING worth doing is worth doing well; what a celebrity wears on the red carpet is usually the most important thing she can wear all year.

    It’s always fun to see our celebrities rocking the red carpets, looking at the most gorgeous dresses is always a pleasure that everyone can indulge in.

    This is a collection of nicely dressed ladies on the red carpet.

    From their hair to their makeup, style ensemble, posture and general finesse, these are nominees for style crowns from different carpets around the globe, take a cue from them, so you can find your name in the style book of life.

  • Beverly’s Top 10

    Beverly’s Top 10

    UK-based Nigerian model and Nollywood actress, Beverly Naya, reveals her top favourites to Kehinde Oluleye

     

    Favourite shoe designer

    Christian Louboutin

     Favourite bag designer

    Salvatore Ferragamo

     Favourite hairdo

    Braids

     Favourite Nigerian fashion designer

    April by Kunbi

    Favourite perfume

    Flower Bomb by Viktor & Rolf

    Favourite nail polish

    Red

     Favourite quote

    A lady should be two things, classy and fabulous- Coco Chanel

     Favourite car

    Red Ferrari

     Favourite holiday location

    Tokyo, Japan

    Favourite food

    Chinese food

     

  • ‘Open University not for distribution of degrees’

    ‘Open University not for distribution of degrees’

    Prof. Vincent Ado Tenebe is the second Vice Chancellor of the National Open University of Nigeria (NOUN). The professor of agronomy is saddled with the responsibility of changing the perception of Nigerians about the institution. It was during his tenure that the institution organised its first convocation ceremony and most of the courses offered by it accredited by the National Universities Commission (NUC). In this interview with Tony Akowe, Tenebe speaks about the challenges facing the institution and the plans to make it compete with its counterparts across the globe.

    You have been in office for about two years now as the Vice Chancellor of the National Open University of Nigeria. What have been the challenges of managing the institution?

    When I came into office, I met a lot of challenges and I knew from the very beginning that it would not be possible to solve all the problems. But I decided to focus on the key problems to ensure that the university gains the confidence of the people. Before I came in, even getting admission into the university was a big problem. We were faced with complaints from people buying forms and not getting admission, including people trying to indulge in some scam to get people admitted. So the first thing I did was to make sure that the admission was electronic. As I speak to you, you can walk into any of our four banks and purchase NOUN form. You will be given a pin code and then you can go on the internet and fill in your data and get your admission. That solves a lot of problems. There was also the problem of students who said they had been in the system for long without writing any examination, some people spend two to three years without writing any examination. When I came in, I made sure that we put a system in place, to the extent that we are now writing examinations regularly and the results are released without delay. We introduced the e-exam, whereby you can write your exam online and get the result immediately. The system will ask you whether you want to retake the paper if you couldn’t make it. We had the challenges of perception from some people who were saying that our programmes were not accredited and not recognised. Some didn’t even believe that we are an existing university. That was because for the almost eight years that the university was in existence before I came in, there was no any accreditation by the National University Commission (NUC). I made sure I prepared the university for accreditation. Last year, 30 out of our 31 programmes were accredited. We are working towards ensuring that the one programme that was not accredited is accredited. With the accreditation of our programmes, nobody should doubt whether we are doing the real thing or not.

    Many Nigerians are not conversant with the operations of the institution. What are you doing in this regard?

    I agree with you on that. We have the problem of advocacy and that is why there are still millions of Nigerians who don’t know that NOUN exists. That is why I have been trying my best to partner with the media to enlighten Nigerians. Nigeria is blessed with high population and there is no how we can educate the whole of this population using conventional system. We don’t have the materials and human resources to do that, but using the Open and Distant Learning which is the mode through which we operate, Nigeria would be able to accomplish this. This is because it has been proven in countries like China, India, United Kingdom and Indonesia that are highly populated that this system is working. So if we do it well, it will work. So I can say that within these few years, I have been able to bring the university to the confidence of Nigerians. I have been able to take the university to the international world. I have been able to prove that we can perform as any other conventional university or even better. We have even beaten conventional universities in this country in some programmes, So, I can say that even though we have not arrived yet, we are now on track.

    You have just enumerated some of your challenges and how you have been able to address some of them, how do you get funds to operate?

    Bringing finance as one of the challenges to problems is now old fashioned in the sense that I can tell you that finance is not the problem of Nigeria. Whether we like it or not, we have a lot of money in this country. Whether we like it or not, this country is rich compared to our neighbours. The problem with us is the management. How do we allocate this finance? How do we prioritise the use of this finance? So definitely I have the problem of finance, but I did not go singing the problem of finance as the first problem because even if the federal government gives half of its budget to NOUN and we do not plan how to use it, we will still be in problem just like the whole country is in problem because we have not prioritised our finances. You know that the education sector in this country is underfunded. It is not a hidden thing. It is something that the academia has been fighting for the past 25 years. No government has adequately financed education, but then we have to utilise what we have to get what we want. We don’t just sit down and say we don’t have enough finances; the question is what do you do with the meagre one you have? But honestly, if the government is able to finance education generally, we will have fewer problems because unless we solve the educational problems of this country, then all other problems will just follow.

    Most parents and even the younger people find NOUN unattractive and prefer to go to conventional universities where admission is often very difficult. Why is this so?

    It is because of ignorance. You know to accept change is difficult. This is a new system that is coming and you don’t expect the younger generation and even the older ones who are not used to Open and Distant Learning to grab it. To them, unless a student gets admission, goes to live in the hostel, goes to the classroom and all those routine, they will not believe they are students. But very soon, this will be the reversed just like it is in India and China. This is a system that will allow the young ones to come to the university full time like any other conventional university. Because we are flexible, we enable them to go out there and look for some means of sustaining themselves. More than half of Nigeria’s population is not in school, not because they don’t have the qualification, but because they don’t have the financial support. We have a lot of brilliant people whose parents are poor and cannot sponsor them to the university. So even if you have the admission and you don’t have sponsorship, you will sit at home. But the Open University system gives admission to you and we allow you to keep working and we even teach you how to work better without losing the quality in education. That is why in the UK, China and India, you will see young men and women go for Open University. Even if you give them admission into the conventional university, they will reject it because nobody can sustain them there as they have to be studying and fending for themselves.

    The law in conventional universities is that every student attains 75 percent class attendance before being allowed to write examination. What is the position in NOUN?

    In our system, there is nothing like 75 per cent of class attendance before you sit for exams. That is the requirement in the conventional system whether you are in the polytechnic or university or college of education. The system with these institutions is that if you don’t have 75 per cent class attendant, you cannot write exams. Here is a system that even if you have zero per cent attendance, you can write your examination. In the international world, the young men and women are after freedom, they don’t want anything that can affect their decision. This is the new thing that the Open University is bringing in and that is the change. This is a system that is democratising education, giving freedom and the world is going democratic now. So we democratise and demystify education. That is why with time, Nigerian youths will prefer the Open University system to the conventional system.

    Every Nigerian graduate within a specified age is expected to go for the mandatory National Youth Service Corp (NYSC). Have those you have graduated been mobilised for the NYSC?

    That is another challenge that we are fighting now. The NYSC Act and the laws that governs it, prescribes that if you are 30 and below, you go for NYSC. If you are above 30, you get an exemption letter. We are a special university, our case is peculiar. We are not just dealing with youths; this is a university for everybody – both the old and the young. There are people who are reading courses in NOUN, even though they are reading first degree, they are already graduates. In this university, I have seven Vice Chancellors of other universities including myself who are students. So you are already a graduate and you enrol into Open University to study Law, after you graduate from Law, you are not going to do NYSC again because NYSC is once.

    But we are also mindful of the youths who are coming fresh and that is why we have now reached an agreement with the Joint Admission and Matriculation Board (JAMB). The board has made it mandatory for us to pay for every graduate that is in the age of participating in NYSC so that they can send to NYSC. We have just done that, so all our graduates who are below the age of 30 will key into the NYSC system. I will also use this forum to tell the federal government that you do not deprive any graduate of Open University who is supposed to go for NYSC because if you do that you will be discouraging the youths from coming into the system. If you discourage them from coming to the Open University, you don’t have space for them in the conventional universities. If you don’t allow them to go to the conventional universities, you are building up a population of illiterates. When you build a population of illiterates, you build up crises in your society and then you have a time bomb.

    What is the carrying capacity of the Open University at the moment?

    That is another interesting aspect of our university. We are limitless, that is why we are called Open. Our capacity is at infinity. Open universities today can accommodate five million, 10 million students. As much as many are interested in acquiring education, we have the room for them. We are opened as wide as the capacity of this country. As I speak to you, the Open University of India has a student population of 3.8 million students. At the moment we are already at the capacity of 132,000 students. I want to assure you that in the next two sessions, we want to hit 500,000 students. My dream for the Open University is that in the next five years, we should have at least 1.5 million students. So there is no carrying capacity. This is the only university that has the mandate to admit as many students as possible because we have the technology to accommodate the academic need of these students. Open University is a peculiar and special university, designed to do this without undermining quality.

    Apart from former President Olusegun Obasanjo, how many prominent Nigerians have graduated from the institution?

    In our last convocation, we convoked 7, 222 students. I don’t have the statistics of earlier graduates before now. We don’t want to focus on prominent Nigerians alone because people may think it is a political university. We are more concerned about those in the rural areas. We are more concerned about those boys and girls in the streets. I have just told you that I have seven vice chancellors from other universities including myself as students of NOUN. I am a student of post graduate diploma in education. I have the Vice Chancellor of Berita University who is a student of Law; I have the Vice Chancellor of Nnamdi Azikiwe University, Awka, who is also a student of Law. I can tell you so many prominent Nigerians who are students of our university. The Awujale of Ijebu land, somebody who is 78 years old and has been on the throne for 52 years, is a student of 100 level Law in NOUN. The more than 22 Obas under his domain have also enrolled in NOUN just because the Awujale, the paramount ruler of Ijebu land, enrolled. The Emir of Bauchi has just filled in his form for admission; the Commissioner of Finance, Nasarawa State. Some people thought that NOUN came on board to distribute degrees or sell certificates. Until you come in, you discover that it is more difficult for you to pass exams in Open University than the conventional universities.

    We learnt that a group is kicking against the admission of your law graduates at the Nigerian Law School. How do you react to that?

    I am a man who wants to do things step by step. Because I am a scientist, I like convincing people practically by showing you. I do appreciate and respect the school of thought which said Open University Law graduates should not be admitted into the Law School. It is because they are not aware, so it is my duty to educate them and enlighten them because the beauty of Law is the fact that when you are arguing cases, you make reference to what has happened before. That is what gives a lawyer an advantage over the others in court. As I speak to you, the Open University of UK produces the best lawyers in the UK. This year we have 400 level Law students. Every year, the faculties of law of all universities in Nigeria have what they call “Moot Court Competition” where they argue cases and so on. The university that emerges winner at the end of the competition goes abroad to represent the country. This year they were about to do it and I asked my students to key in, but they said Open University is not recognised. I virtually lobbied for my students to participate. As I speak to you NOUN is the winner of that competition this year. Our students defeated all other Law students of conventional universities to emerge winner. So our Law students are going to the United States of America in April to compete among 80 other countries of the world. So when the time comes for the Council on Legal Education to admit our students to the Law School, the situation will speak for itself. We are using the same curriculum as given by NUC to all universities. I tell you that our students are far better than students of other universities because Law is studied based on experience.

  • The book that encourages women to use condom in sex outside marriage is causing problems between a wife and her husband

    The book that encourages women to use condom in sex outside marriage is causing problems between a wife and her husband

    We want you to help us resolve a matter. A wife told me that the husband doesn’t trust her. She said there was a book she had about marital ethics written by a pastor. In a portion of the book, the pastor supposedly advised married women to use condom in case they want to have affairs outside. And when the husband read it, he told her he hope she uses it (condom). She said she was shocked by the husband’s comment. She said that since then she has changed her attitude to him and they’ve been living like cat and rat. What is your take on that? – Victor.

    Dear Victor, if indeed there is a book like that, then it has the potential of surpassing the notoriety Salman Rushdie’s book, Satanic Verses. Really, I wouldn’t have wanted to waste time addressing this issue because I still find it difficult to believe that a pastor would publish a book encouraging sex outside marriage by advising that if it should be done, a condom must be used. But on a second thought, I’m going ahead to address it because so many things are happening now in the world of religion. Many heads of the different religions are losing it daily and so much sex is taking place in the secret. A friend told me just like week that the married head of her religious denomination gave her an appointment to meet him at a luxury hotel for the weekend. His wife has travelled for business and since he had been trying through gifts to get my friend’s attention (and she too had been accepting with joy), he felt it was time to cement the relationship. She didn’t find the invitation funny and wanted to embarrass him by informing other members. She came to me to see if I could help publish the drama if she carried out her plan. I advised her against embarrassing the man, and instead put a call to him man to desist from practicing his fantasies on members whom he was supposed to lead to God. So such religious leaders are everywhere, but writing a book and trying to put a stamp on adultery is crazy!

    On your friend’s issue, I guess the husband is just being too reactive in this matter. Yes, it might have shocked him that his wife could be reading a book like that. Maybe things would have been different if she had called his attention to that controversial portion of the book and they had discussed it together. Maybe the husband is acting the way he is doing she didn’t show much disdain for that portion and in any given relationship, an I-don’t-care attitude to issues of cheating, even in a joking way, gives a wrong impression.

    Your friend has to have a talk with her husband and let him know where she stands on the issue of sex outside marriage. She has to make him know that she doesn’t support extra-marital affairs condom or no condom and if there are things she’s doing to make the husband suspicious, she should stop them. She was the one who brought the book; she should be the one to tear all forms of suspicions from the man’s mind. As for the book, can I have its title and probably a copy?

    I may be able to see if or not the pastor is being quoted out of context or not.

  • NCPC ends airlift of pilgrims

    NCPC ends airlift of pilgrims

    The Nigerian Christian Pilgrim Commission (NCPC) successfully ended the airlift of pilgrims for the second Easter pilgrimage exercise on March 23.

    The last batch of pilgrims arrived on April 1.  The commission kept to its promise of embarking on two pilgrimages in one calendar year, October- December and March – April.

    The commission introduced the first Easter pilgrimage exercise in 2012 to give states who could not meet up with the deadline for payment of the October- December pilgrimage the opportunity to embark on pilgrimage during Easter and importantly for pilgrims to experience the power of resurrection in the holy land during the Easter pilgrimage exercise.

    The year 2013 Easter pilgrimage was officially flagged off on February 28 at the Nnamdi Azikiwe International Airport, Abuja by the Deputy Speaker of the House of Representatives, Hon. Emeka Ihedioha.

    Other dignitaries who graced the occasion included the Chairman of NCPC, Rev. Nicholas .D. Okoh , Minister of State for FCT Oloye Olajumoke Akinjide, Rev Williams Okoye, Venerable Obioma Onwuzurumba who is the Chaplain of Aso Villa Chapel, House Committee Chairman on Foreign Affairs, Hon Nnenna Ukaeje, Senator Christopher Babajide Omoworare, Vice Chairman Senate Committee on Inter-Governmental Affairs and Federal Character, Senator Philip Taminu Aduda, among others. About 376 pilgrims from FCT and Benue State were the first batch to be airlifted.

    Welcoming the last batch of pilgrims at the local wing of the Nnamdi Azikiwe International Airport, Abuja on April 1, the representative of Mr. President, Navy Captain Caleb Olubolade, who is the Minister of Police Affairs, received the pilgrims on behalf of Mr. President.

    He addressed them in the Atlasjet aircraft which landed at 5:45pm. He urged the pilgrims to continue to pray for the success of the administration of Dr. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan. He assured them that Mr. President was happy to see them back safely.

    Also, the Minister of State 1 Foreign Affairs, Prof. Viola Onwuliri, in her address, said: “I warmly and happily welcome you back to Nigeria. You came back with the resurrection power of our Lord Jesus Christ.”

    She further stressed: “We thank God for the grace, we thank God you came back safely without any abscondment.

    “This is great because it will encourage the government to continue to support pilgrimage exercise. The administration of President Jonathan will continue to support anything that will make the people happy.”

    Prof. Onwuliri also commended the Executive Secretary of NCPC Mr. John Kennedy Opara and his workforce for their commitment and hard work.

    She stressed that the prayers Pilgrims offered for the country during their sojourn in Israel will usher in permanent peace in Nigeria.

    In his remarks, the NCPC boss, Mr. John Kennedy Opara described Pilgrimage as a tool for moral transformation and spiritual rebirth. He affirmed that the Easter Pilgrimage exercise would continue to grow in leaps and bounds. He prayed and thanked God for the safe arrivals of the pilgrims and urged them to live a transformed life by impacting positively to their immediate communities.

    A total of 18 states with a combined total number of 3130 pilgrims were airlifted during the Easter Pilgrimage Exercise. It is important to state that about 83 Christians sponsored themselves to the Holy Land during the Easter Pilgrimage Exercise.

    The Commission made use of Atlasjet Airline as the official carrier for the Easter Pilgrimage Exercise. The package was the same as it was for the October- December exercise.

    The Commission rather than increase the package fee for pilgrims for the Easter Pilgrimage considering the cost and the season in Israel during the period, had to reduce the number of days from the usual 10nights and 11 days to 8nights and 9 days.

    The Commission by the grace of God recorded both zero abscondment and zero mortality rate for pilgrims throughout the exercise.

    The Nigerian Christian Pilgrim Commission (NCPC), having successfully ended the second edition of its Easter Pilgrimage Exercise which in all ramifications is adjudged to be much better organized and executed than the maiden edition of 2012; it is therefore obvious that it is possible to have two pilgrimages in one calendar year and this will be sustained as the Commission will continue to strive for excellence and improve upon its service for the Nigerian Pilgrims.

    The last batch of pilgrims from the Holy Land were made up of about 138 pilgrims from Bayelsa and about 38 were self sponsored pilgrims and Consular Officers.

  • The Past Beckons

    The National Museum in Esie, Kwara State is the oldest in Nigeria. It is also reputed to have the highest collection of soapstone images in Africa. Soapstones are soft rocks which were used for many generations in different parts of the world for carving and making of household utensils.

    The museum was established in 1945 by the colonial government to house about 1,500 soapstone images brought to the limelight in 1933 by one Inspector for the Oro area under the Church Missionary Society, Mr. H.G. Ramshaw.

    At the museum, tourists have the opportunity to see some figurines that date back to the 12th and 13th centuries. The access to the museum for members of the public has been difficult due to the location of the museum and bad roads.

    But those who are able to brace these odds are rewarded with having the opportunity to see these rare artifacts.

    Getting to Esie, one gets a vehicle from Osogbo, the Osun State capital, or from Ofa which is even closer to the town.

    Although the Esie museum is rich in artifacts, it is suffering neglect. This has reduced to the minimal the number  of tourists to the place.

    Professor Bolanle Awe spoke on that: “Even though many people may not realize the importance of what we have there, others do, and I would readily cite the example of Gen. Yakubu Gowon when he came there in the 70s. He was so excited by what he saw that he gave the instruction that the road to the museum should be tarred so that people would have easy access to the place.

    “After that, the military did try in its own way to do something about the museum. Thereafter, there had also been other people who had shown recognition like the late Prof. Ade Obayemi. He was a historian and Director-General of the National Commission for Museums and Monuments (NCMM). He was very enthusiastic about refurbishing the museum, but unfortunately he could not actualize what he wanted to do before he died.”

    The people  decided to come up with  a festival as a way offering visitors to the town the opportunity to experience the culture of the people.

    Awe spoke on this: “When we decided to start the Esie Monuments Festival, Dr. Eluyemi, who was the Director-General of the NCMM, then showed so much enthusiasm. One of the events we always had was the seminar to discuss the significance on an intellectual basis, of the museum, what did it connote for the culture of the people. And it was such an interesting thing.

    “The fact is that as far back as the period before 1775, people were able to carve those images out of stones. They must have had knowledge of a lot of things-knowledge of carving, knowledge of hewing stones and knowledge of all sorts. They must have had quite a high level of technology to be able to do that.

    “These were some of the things that we also wanted to highlight and Eluyemi was very keen on that. He actually came the very first time to deliver a paper and promised us a lot of support, but unfortunately he died suddenly as well.

    “During one of the editions of the Esie Monuments Festival that we had, the minister in charge of culture sent his representative. The Director-General of the NCMM also came. So, they all showed interest in the Esie Monuments Festival and we feel that the way forward is for us to sustain that interest.

    “That is why we have the Esie Monuments Festival Committee to focus attention on the museum to make the international community know about it.

    “We are already working on the idea of having a website where we would further focus attention on the Esie National Museum, look at some of the items there, talk about the history , talk about even the community there and how that community came to produce something that is so interesting.

    “The Esie festival  is still on course. The only problem is that the organizing committee is having some little challenges which it is battling to surmount.

    “The committee set up and saddled with the responsibility is still working on modalities to have a befitting festival this year, precisely next month. It is not the problem of the members of the committee alone, but they have to move in terms of mobilizing the community to support them to understand what they are doing.

    “Also for the people living outside the community and in the Diaspora to show interest in the festival will definitely take some time. There is also the factor of money. The members of the committee have been dipping their hands into their pockets to finance the activities of the committee. It does not mean that the interest has waned or that the interest is no longer there. They are just trying to take their time to see that they come out with something worthwhile.

    “Let me also inform you that the committee was established by concerned culture patriots of Esie origin with the primary purposes of ensuring the preservation, protection and projection of all Esie cultural heritages for the economic benefit of the people, Kwara State and the country. One of the platforms by which we seek to carry out this task is this annual Esie Monuments Festival which is premised on the first ever National Museum in the country.”

    She also spoke about the Esie monuments: “This is where we have the first museum set up by the government. It was established because of what the white men saw there, more so that it really fascinated them. Unfortunately, we don’t have information as to how the stone images got there. Well, there are all sorts of theories about how they got there, but I don’t think I will be competent to speak about it because my colleagues who have been working on that are the ones one can regard as the authorities on the Esie soapstone images.

    “Some have said that the people came from Ife, others said they came from Oyo North, some have said there are other figures like these in some neighbouring towns which seem to suggest that perhaps there was a community there which was highly developed technologically. But how they came to assemble there is still a mystery that people have not been able to solve.

    “Of course, the local people have their own suggestions on how they came about, how an oba went out when he was not supposed to go out and for punishment his people were turned into stone images. That is a way of explaining it. This mystery accounts for why we decided to be holding the yearly festival. Second, we have lots of tourism potential and it has been generating some revenue for quite a while. So, the tourism potential has been there for a long time and I think what we need to do now is to beef it up to actually encourage people to come.

    “This is an area where the media can be of great help to us by letting people know what we are doing and inviting them to come. The community is already putting in place the infrastructure for tourism. You will note that there is now a hotel where people can stay and where they can have something to eat.

    “Some years ago, some of us women wanted to have chalets, a small canteen and small shops, but we didn’t quite make it. Then, there was somebody else who had a play ground for children there. So, the potential is there. It is just a question of getting support in the right places and we are happy that the Elesie himself sees it as his own and has been giving tremendous support.”

  • Becan Garden begins operation

    The Lagos State Governor Babatunde Raji Fashola has been urged to beef up security, improve power supply and open more intra-community roads in the state.

    If this is done, it will further enhance tourism in Lagos while also encouraging free movement of Lagosians across the state without fear of arrest, intimidation, kidnapping or killing.

    Chairman, Becan Garden/Suites,Okota, Chief Donatus Nwanfor, made this appeal at the formal opening of the hotel located at Ariyo Akinloye , Jakande Estate, Isolo, penultimate Saturday.

    Commending Governor Fashola on good leadership in the state, especially in the area infrastructural development, Chief Nwanfor said Ariyo Akinloye where the hotel is located is an eyesore, adding that if opened up, it would be more accessible to all prospective lovers of tourism, thereby increasing government’s revenue base.

    He said: “I would like to call on the government of Lagos State to come to our aid by accelerating the road construction which is very expedient for a hotel-tourism venture to thrive. Security is another problem. Without it, clients will not feel safe within the area. Sustainable power supply is also a factor in tourism management.”

    In the presence of friends, guests, hotel owners and traditional singers, Nwafor said Becan Gardens and Suites had come to take its rightful place in the tourism industry with the one of the best services to clients.

    Assuring all that the new tourist centre would bring peace and success in Okota community and its environs, Nwafor further said the management of the hotel would cooperate with the people and the public in ensuring best customer service.

    Earlier, supervisor of Becan Garden, Miss Obidike Onyinye, said the official opening was to show appreciation to God for the completion of the project and to “bring to public notice the kind of world-class quality services that we provide trough our good facilities.”

    According to her, each room is equipped with a flat screen TV with free channels, refrigerator, internet wireless, bath tub, and well-stocked mini bar.

    Other facilities are: word desk, complimentary daily newspaper and centralized heating air conditioning, among others.

    “You don’t need to travel overseas before you can have a wonderful vacation. Give us a trial. I am proud to say that a trial will convince you. Our vision is to be a leading continental hotel. We guarantee your privacy and safety, Oyinye added.

  • Consequences of defiling the marriage bed

    Dear Reader,

    I welcome you to this glorious edition of this month’s teachings. This month, I shall be sharing on one of the loopholes found in marriages, today. It is why many homes are under the heavy load of self-inflicted burden and the reason for the lack of peace and love in many marriages.

    Marital infidelity has been the major problem in most marriages in this present dispensation.

    This week, I shall be teaching on: Understanding The Marriage Bed. This foundation will help you to better understand and know the importance of the marriage bed. When a man and a woman are joined together in marriage, they enter into a formal agreement, which is legally binding.

    In the presence of their friends and relatives, they pronounced their vows and commitment to stay together for life (Matthew 19:5-6). This can be accomplished by a feast in the family of the bride. Jesus was a part of such a feast as recorded in John 2:1-2: On the third day a wedding took place at Cana in Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there, and Jesus and his disciples had also been invited to the wedding.

    Marital relationship is a covenant relationship. Marriage is the only covenant in the Bible that allows two people to be perfectly joined in all areas of life, from the physical to the spiritual. This legal contract has a seal. The seal lies in the consummation of the marriage – sexual intercourse. The ‘altar’ upon which this covenant is cut is termed ‘marriage bed’. It is not just the physical bed upon which you first slept on your wedding night or a piece of furniture in your bedroom that is important to God, but sacredness of the union that exists between you and your spouse.

    Sex is sacred to God because God is a God of covenants. For every covenant God makes, He gives a sign. There is the rainbow as a seal of the covenant that God will not destroy the earth with water again (Genesis 9:12-13). For marriage, there is a blood covenant between the two individual that are involved.

    On the wedding night, as the marriage is consummated, God expects to see the hymen break and blood flow, thus sealing the covenant of marriage between husband and wife. Virginity, therefore, must be taken seriously. No human custom or modern day ideology can change that. Here is one of the Old Testament commandments as it concerns virginity: But if…the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel: then they shall bring out the damsel… stone her with stones that she die… (Deuteronomy 22:20, 21). This implies that you must keep yourself pure as a young man or woman that desires to have a fulfilled marriage.

    Therefore, any sexual relationship engaged in, outside the covenant of marriage, defiles and is called sin. It must be repented of and forsaken.

    Perhaps you have defiled your bed at a point in time, there is a place of mercy that allows for repentance. First, you need to acknowledge your sins and be ready to forsake them. Give your life to Jesus Christ and you shall be saved. Do you want to be born again? If you are ready, please say this prayer in faith: Dear Lord Jesus, I come to You today, I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins. I believe You died and rose on the third day for my sins. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today.