Category: Saturday Magazine

  • Entrepreneur seeks govt participation in hospitality

    The Chairman/CEO of The Residence Holiday Inn,Prince Bola Soetan, has called for proactive efforts from government and private entrepreneurs to boost the hospitality industry in the country.

    Speaking to reporters recently during the official opening of the hotel located in Lekki, Lagos, he said if the hospitality industry in the country must grow, entrepreneurs must be willing to partner government to take the industry to greater heights.

    Soetan maintained that hospitality in other countries is a huge investment which has become their major source of national income earners. “If this attitude is adopted in Nigeria, the over-reliance on the oil and gas for major revenue will be reduced. This on it own will provide jobs for the legions of unemployed graduates roaming the streets.”

    The Residence Holiday Inn also has a club house which he said was capable of providing relaxation for those who normally take time off to refresh after the week’s hectic job.

    “When you take time to relax, you are rebuilding in order to face future challenges, but when you work and hardly find time to refresh then you are preparing your self for danger.”

    He called on the government to tar the Alpha Beach Road where the hotel was located, this, according to him, would enable tourists and holiday makers access the beach easily and earn income for the state.

    He stated that if government provided he enabling environment for those who are willing to invest in the hospitality, the industry would attract other investors and this would be a big advantage to the Lagos State Government, especially now that it was aiming a mega city.

    “Let me say the investors would trickle in to build more hotels which will help the state in tourists’ attraction. Though at The Residence Holiday Inn, we ensure that the facilities are there, we equally want government to play its role which this will help the industry,”Soetan said.

    He further stated that countries where hospitality provides major revenue for their country, the government ensures that the enabling environment for easy operations is created. This, he remarked, encourages the private sector to sink money into it.

    Soetan thanked those who have contributed in one way or the other to the emergence of the hotel and promised not to relent in the standard already set.

     

     

  • Ntdc, boat operators set  for Borgu festival

    Ntdc, boat operators set for Borgu festival

    The Nigerian Tourism Development Corporation (NTDC) and the Association of Tourist Boat Operators have stepped up preparation for the Borgu International Cultural Festival slated for April.

    The festival, which is rooted in the rich culture and tradition of the famous Borgu Kingdom, is expected to attract the Borgu people from Ghana, Togo, Niger and Benin Republic will revive all aspects of the economic and cultural values of the people.

    Also to grace the occasion, which will have a special fishing segment, are members of the diplomatic corps, senior northern emirs and other traditional rulers in the country. A grand durbar, boat regatta and cultural troupe will add spice to the festival that may rival the Argungu fishing festival in Kebbi.

    Already, the Borgu kingdom is wearing a new look as the festival ground at Sabuke Square and the beachfront near the Kainji Lake Dam site is nearing completion.

    Significantly, the festival is endorsed by the NTDC as an international tourism forum, and, therefore, will be placed on the international tourism festival circuit within and outside Nigeria. As a plus to the richness of the festival, the vibrant Nigerian Tourist Boat Operators led by their president, Tarzan Balogun, has agreed to put up a signature showpiece event at Borgu beachfront.

     

  • Nigeria, Ghana hold tourism show  in April

    Nigeria, Ghana hold tourism show in April

    The Ghanaian government through its tourism coordinating agency, Ghana Tourism Authority, has thrown her weight behind Tribe Media towards the successful organization of the second edition of the Ghana-Nigeria Tourism and Culture Showcase 2013.

    The two-day event which was first held in 2011 is scheduled to hold from April 18 to 19 at the Accra International Conference Centre, Ghana. Though initiated by Tribe Media, publishers of Horizons Int’l magazine in collaboration with Pan-Africa Ghana, the Ghana-Nigeria Tourism and Culture Showcase remains not just the first privately organized bilateral arts, tourism and culture event in the West African sub-region, but the biggest Private Public Partnership (PPP) in the sub-region credited to be the most prestigious and best attended arts, tourism and culture forum geared towards promoting Africa’s tourism potential as well as the restoration and sustenance of the people’s cultural heritage.

    A statement by the Deputy Executive Director/Operations, Ghana Tourism Authority, Frank Kofigah said: “The board is very pleased with the efforts of Tribe Media aimed at maximizing the tourism and cultural potential of both Ghana and Nigeria for mutual socio-economic gains”.

    In a similar vein, the Nigerian High Commission in Ghana, having endorsed the event in a letter signed by Andrew Idi for the High Commissioner, Ambassador Ademola Onafowokan, the High Commission expressed delight in endorsing the event, while urging Tribe Media to improve on the remarkable success of hosting the 2011 event just as “the High Commission hopes this year’s edition of the Ghana-Nigeria Tourism and Culture Showcase will further provide a greater basis for the projection of Nigeria’s culture”.

    This year’s edition, which has an expanded scope is already eliciting so much enthusiasm in the tourism, arts and culture sector. Some of the supporting partners include: National Council for Arts and Culture, Osun State Government, Ghana Ministry of Chieftaincy and Culture, Artists’ Alliance Gallery, Ghana, among others.

    The high points of this year’s event will include: The conference with intellectually stimulating expert discussions and interaction intended to annex the tourism potential of both nations, reawaken the intrinsic cultural values of Africa and as well enliven her people’s pride and prestige. There shall be musical performances with the very best of indigenous Afro-centric music and dance. The exhibition will focus on a showcase of our rich tourism potential cultural heritage, showcase of African fashion/fabrics in the fashion parade by some leading Nigerian/Ghanaian designers, display of traditional African hairstyles and cultural performances from selected participating states in Nigeria and regions in Ghana as well as invited cultural troupes. While the gala night will feature the regional West Africa Business, Tourism and Culture Award in special recognition of efforts by individuals and organisations committed to evolving a new culture to promote values for growth and development in different spheres of African renaissance especially with regional business interest, promotion of tourism and sustenance of our cultural heritage.

     

  • How can I save my relationship with my hot temper?

    How can I save my relationship with my hot temper?

    Good evening, I am a 20-year-old student of English and Literary Studies, (200Level). I want my relationship to last for me. My guy is 27, loving and caring. My problem is that I’m hot-tempered. Please tell me what to do to stop it. I don’t want to lose him. My name is Kenny from Uyo.

    There are definite triggers that may cause you to lose your temper – stress, anxiety, demanding workloads, hectic lifestyles, family, social and financial responsibilities and unrealistic expectations of people. If someone constantly calls you names, bullies, torments or humiliates you, this is bound to cause a reaction.

    Some people have a shorter temper than others and often become easily provoked and enraged. When it hampers your personal relationships with friends and family, leads to violence, creates trouble in your professional life and people fear your temperamental nature, you need help.

    The next time you get angry, try to breathe calmly and slowly. Science proves that breathing is directly related to anger. If you breathe faster, your blood pressure increases which results in anger. On the other hand, if you breathe slowly and calmly, the body temperature becomes neutral and you are able to control yourself in that situation.

    For the long run, deep breathing meditations benefit in many ways. Like mentioned above, it helps you form thoughts in your mind. Thoughts arise, and dissolve. There are three kinds of thoughts you can expect: Positive, Negative, and Neutral. Your mind helps you choose the best one for you since your breathing is in control. Breathing meditations actually make you realize that the choice, you thought you didn’t have when you were angry and did something you regret, is now available to you.

    Deep breathing increases a man’s will power, to bring self-control over himself, to bring him the strength to make the right choice.

  • My girlfriend is a two-timing, lying person, yet I want her in my life

    My girlfriend is a two-timing, lying person, yet I want her in my life

    Dear ma, my girlfriend whom I have been dating for the past three years broke up with me early this year. When I insisted that she should tell me the reason she lied to me that her family is not in support of the relationship, which I found out is not true. She also told a lot of lies against me to her friend which she said were her reasons for breaking up with me. One of the reasons she gave was that I’m not capable of taking care of a woman, that if she gets married to me when things are tough I would send her back to her parents because I once asked her when I was duped to get some money from her mum so that I could fend for myself. The most unfortunate thing is that this girl is not schooling at the moment she was once in school but expelled because of exam malpractices and when it happened she lied to me that someone implicated her which I later found out to be a lie. I still forgave her because of the love I had for her. I later on sought admission for her so that she would go back to school through my uncle but she didn’t meet up with the university’s cutoff marks for the course she was applying for. It was during that time that we broke up. Ma, sorry to say that this girl wasn’t sincere to me when we were dating. She was dating her two of her former boyfriends whom she dated before me, yet I was patient with her and I always talk to her in a calm voice so that she will understand that what she was doing is not right till when we finally broke up. It hurts me so bad that after showing her so much love we still broke up. Recently she called and apologised to me about what happened and she confessed that she wasn’t sincere to me though I was sincere with her and I showed her real love. She said I’m the kind of man that she would ever wish to be with but it is not possible. When I asked her the reason why she said that, she has been posting me till today. Nowadays she always calls me and we talk and crack some jokes but inside me I still love her and I want her back to me but I don’t want to openly tell her that she should come back to me. Now what I should I do? I need your advice please. – Danaka.

    Dear Danaka,

    We all know what we see in the people we love, so I cannot question you for loving somebody who has done everything in this world to dishonour you. She has lied against you, she has cheated and she continues to make you feel like a fool, yet you love her and want her back after she left you. It’s obvious that with her, you have nothing like pride; just emotions, so set your shyness aside and tell her you want her back.

    One thing I’ll like you to know is that if she comes back to you without you giving her the chance to be penitent, she will continue to sleep with other men without feeling guilty; after all, you knew about her hot pants and still asked her to come back. Don’t expect her to go back to school if she’s not ready and if and when she does go back, don’t expect her to be clean. If she’s set in her ways, you may just have to put up with her the way she is since you have been blinded by love.

    But if I were you, I’d ignore her for a while and let her realise her mistakes and turn a new leaf. Love is worth waiting for when you’re sure it will come to you without much complications.

  • Let’s get natural

    Let’s get natural

    HAVE you ever wondered about the secrets behind the astonishing glow of our fore-fathers’/mothers’ skins? Black soap, also known as African Black Soap (Anago Soap, Alata Simena, or Ose Dudu), has long been used to heal skin problems. It is good for thinning fine lines, evening out dark spots, eczema, razor bumps and eliminating blemishes. It is also used to lightly exfoliate and give you healthier looking skin.

    The soap can also be used on your body or hair or for oily skin, dry skin, skin rashes, scalp irritations, body odours and is good for sensitive skin. The black soap has got different skin beautifying properties like vitamins A, E and iron. You could basically mix your soap to what you want it to do for you, add some amount of shea butter for UV protection, coconut oil and honey for the baby-like glow.

    Camwood or African sandalwood are also naturally derived from tree barks, grounded and mixed with black soap or used alone as exfoliants and or added to some of the skincare products out there. The benefits of naturally derived skincare products outweigh that of the chemically derived ones; they have skin healing properties that can help get rid of most skin problems a lot of people face and they also help keep the skin balanced and stay in its possible youthful state.

  • Make  statements with Sari/Saree

    Make statements with Sari/Saree

    ALTHOUGH the traditional outfit which is known as sari was not originally designed for Africans, recently ‘sari’ has steadily become an integral part of African women’s wardrobe. A sari or saree is a strip of unstitched cloth, worn by women, ranging from four to nine yards in length that is draped over the body in various styles which is native to the Indian subcontinent.

    The most common style is for the sari to be wrapped around the waist, with one end, then draped over the shoulder. The sari is usually worn over an underskirt with a blouse forming the upper garment.

    The blouse should have short sleeves and a low neck. Blouse may be backless or of a halter neck style. These are usually dressier, with plenty of embellishments such as mirrors or embroidery, and may be worn on special occasions. Including a well-tailored sari dress in your colourful wardrobe won’t be a bad option.

    9 steps in wearing sari dress:

    Determine the shoes that you plan to wear.

    Hold the sari so the fall is facing towards you.

    Wrap the sari around your waist and tuck it in once.

    Wrap it around again, but don’t tuck it in.

    Tighten the cloth and tuck it in 3 to 4 inches to the left of your belly button.

    Pleat it: Stretch your left hand and hold the cloth with your thumb and pinkie fingers.

    Tuck in your pleats.

    Drape the remaining fabric around yourself from left to right, and over your shoulder.

    Secure the end portion on your shoulder with a safety pin.

    Things you will need:

    A sari, a blouse, an underskirt, safety pins and shoes.

  • This Season’s biggest trends

    This Season’s biggest trends

    Pastel/Neutral

    Don’t shy away from sleeveless tops or shirts, thoughlayer them or pair with black tights now. Later, they’ll fit into your warm weather wardrobe easily.

     

    Little lace dress

    In this season of hotter temperatures, here comes a new fashion trend to boost your look: it is the little lace dress, always makes you look beautiful in whatever way you choose to wear them.

     

    Little black dress (LBD)

    LBD is the easiest and safest of colours, and this season we have a lot of styles to experiment with, such as peplum.

     

    Tie-neck blouses

    The tie-neck blouses are the hottest fashion item; they are turning up everywhere, from classic and chic bow-tie necked blouses and even shirt-dresses, in every imaginary colours, pattern, design, style and texture, from twinkling sheer fabrics to thick prints.

     

    Vivid floral prints

    Beautiful and stylish floral prints are in vogue. They are remarkably apparent this season and add a subtle and sexy appeal to one’s look.

     

    High/broad waist skirt & trousers

    If you have been following the fashion trend, you would have noticed that gorgeous broad/wide waistband skirt and trousers are now the king among skirts and pants and despite the hot weather, it is getting hotter by the day.

     

    Jeans: not just a casual

    The big fashion statement this season is jeans. They are everywhere and vibrant in different hues: from striking and vital black, cream and white, to alluring blue.

  • My regret: ….not believing God as much as I ought to

    My regret: ….not believing God as much as I ought to

    Since she sprang into national consciousness three and a half decades ago, Bishop Bola Odeleke’s path has been laced with fame, controversy, miracles of healing and great bravado. Before becoming a preacher of the word of God, youthful Bola Odeleke had some measure of popularity as a businesswoman who operated a boutique and happily married to a general in the Nigerian Army.

    However, growing up, brought with it, a particular consciousness that her life would be a tool in God’s hands, to bring peace and salvation to mankind. In those days, it was unheard of to find a woman climbing the pulpit in Jesus name to preach. But with God’s assurance, Bola Odeleke fought the conventional and eventually emerged the First African Lady Bishop.

    Tragedy struck early in her marriage when she lost her husband, Brigadier General Lasun Odeleke to a motor accident. He was a member of the then Provincial Ruling Council, during the regime of President Ibrahim Babangida. It slowed her down but she now admits, she weathered the storm and emerged stronger. The proponent of Agbara Olorun Kiibati (the power of God never fails), celebrated recently and spoke to Paul Ukpabio.

    You just celebrated your church’s 30th anniversary how has the journey been so far?

    The 30th anniversary celebration was about the year I entered Okota, an outskirt of Lagos, with my ministry: Though I had been in Christian ministry since 1974. That means I will be celebrating my 4o years in the ministry next year. In

    February 1983, God sent me here. This is the first church I established in my ministry but before then, I had established many church branches for Christ Apostolic church. So we felt we needed to celebrate God’s grace for our existence. When I got here, we were the only thing you saw around here. No other structure was in sight except one went further inside to Ago junction where the land-sellers location was.

    In the entire Okota, we met only one church here and that was Foursquare Church. Now there are over 3000 churches all around Okota by the grace of God. This spot that we are located was a groove for masquerades. I still recall all the fetish things that we found and dug out of the ground, when we got here.

    I used to go on all the road paths of Okota and pray over them. As you can see today, those road paths are now major roads to a big town, which Okota has now become. We also did massive radio publicity to open up the town. Whenever I was on radio or television, I used to clarify to listeners, the difference between, Ojota and Okota. So we indeed attracted a lot of people down here. I bought 3 acres of land for N48,000, but today, one plot is going for N30m on the major road, while inside the town it goes for N20m. So things have changed.

    Can you compare what the ministry looks like now to the period when you set out?

    It is better now. I started at Christ Apostolic Church where I received Christ. God called me in 1974 as Lady Evangelist because the church was not ordaining women. I was there for almost 18 years. God used me to do a lot of remarkable things there especially in the area of establishing new church branches and revival crusades.

    But a time came, when the church started a revolution. The church came up with ten laws, with one of the laws being that a woman cannot lead a church. Meanwhile, I had been leading churches since 18 years. So there was a problem, how was I going to drop all that? Was I going to turn to a floor member, more so, when I knew my calling? I decided, that the laws were man-made, that I had to follow God instead of man.

    I left. However, I was the only one that was given a peace letter when I decided to leave and I guess that is why I can still preach in CAC today. They told me “let the peace of God go with you.” That was when I started the Power Pentecostal Church Ministry. During the period I was in CAC, I was famous because of what God was doing through me. People were seeing God in me and not the church that I belonged to. If it had been my power, when I changed church, it would have affected me. But the power was of God.

    But you were into business before you started preaching God’s word

    Yes, but when I was selling clothes, I was not much known. The fame I got was because of God that I carried in me. I could not heal headache on my own. It was the spirit of God that was performing miracles through me; that also built the new church that I founded. I was in Umuahia last week for a crusade, the lame worked, the blind see, and many marveled. This is the power of God. It has nothing to do with me as a person. I preach the gospel of peace, healing and deliverance. And people are receiving these.

    What have been the challenges that you have been facing?

    I have been my own challenge. Most of the time, I doubt God! I sometimes do not believe as much as I should. When God does a marvelous thing, I just stop and wonder about such power. But as I keep growing, I get to know more and more about God’s ways and His acts. The way God started with me was strong. I was just 23 when God called me into the ministry. I had not even found my feet when God began using me beyond my imaginations.

    Sometimes then, God used to tell me, don’t do that! The next thing would be that I question God on why I should not do it. I sometimes went ahead and did such things and fingers got burnt. But the good thing was that, when I returned to Him, He was always there, waiting for me.

    As a matter of fact, He would even be the one that pulled me back to Him as if nothing had happened. That is why I can say that, God has been very good to me, despite everything. When my husband died, my first child was merely 16, but thanks God today; she has her own home and children. All my children are all okay and having their own families. God comforted me when I had the challenge of losing my husband early in life, He took care of everything. I thank God for men and women who God used to help me get to where I am today. Right now, I have no challenge that is bigger than God.

    How did you receive your calling?

    My calling was a great miracle in itself. My husband and I received Christ in 1974, but before then, God had been talking to me about my ministry. During those days, any prophet that came round to our home, used to say to me that they see me holding a bible and bell. I used to question them which bible? Don’t you see my boutique? However, I was in the habit of reserving gifts for ministers of God who stopped by.

    So to me, that was enough God’s work that I was already doing! But in 1973, the spiritual pressure on me to go into the ministry became very obvious. That year the Lord asked me to observe a fast for three days. I was perturbed that, why does God want me to die food denial. I did not do it until the October of that year. I felt God touched me, like somebody pushed me to do it.

    After the fast, God started showing me different things. As a matter of fact, most of the things that are manifesting in my ministry even till date, are things that God showed me in those three days. When I took a nap, I went into vision or trance. When I sat or knelt to pray, prophecy poured out. On the night of the second day of my marathon prayer, I was sitting outside our compound, in Akure, reading the scripture. My husband was in Kaduna where he had just been posted.

    All of a sudden, I felt something drop on my forehead, I thought it was an insect, so I rushed to brush it away, but alas, it was oil! I was shocked. Where could that had come from, I asked myself. I was not sitting under a tree, I reasoned. So where could it have dropped from?

    I touched my head and I noticed that oil had soaked my head. I became frightened and started to tremble. I ran quickly to see Pastor Obadare, but was told that he had gone to Lagos for a crusade. I went to meet the president of CAC then, being an elderly man, he understood immediately. I was trying to describe to him the experience, and even told him to touch my head. He simply said that they already knew, that God told Pastor Babalola and them, that He will bring up a woman, and anoint the woman Himself. He assured me that I should not panic that nothing is wrong with me, that it is an anointing from heaven. He suddenly began to pray for me and before I knew it, he busted into prophecies and ecstatic prayers. When he was through, he told me to continue with my fasting, that I should listen to God, that whatever He tells me to do, I should do it.

    So what happened after?

    I went back home and in the night about 5am, I saw the door of my room open. Immediately what came to my mind was that armed robbers had come into the house. I quickly put my children’s legs under me for protection. But as the door opened further, there was this strange light that beamed into the room. My cloth became transparent I could see the person coming in. I could not see the down part or the upper part of the person. But I knew it was somebody that is tall. He came in and said peace to me. He told me that he had come to confirm to me the prophecies that I had been receiving. He prayed for me and gave me a bible. As he was giving it to me, the bible entered into me and I saw a sign of nail in my palm representing Jesus. He gave me a bottle of water, and that is why I bless water for people. He also gave me a ringing bell. He told me that any where I ring bell or stand to shout Jesus, people will gather and I will win souls unto Christ. He told

    me that these are the signs; that I should go out there and preach salvation message: That I should tell people what He did and that He is coming back. He told me that when I’m doing all these things, that miracles will happen. When he finished the prayers, and left, my clothes became normal.

    But before he left, he told me that for me to know that all what he had told me is true, that I should to Oke Igbala Itura, Pastor Obadare’s church, that a mad woman is tied down there, that I should go and meet her, and loose her. As soon as I remembered, I stood up and headed there in outright curiosity. I did not even wait for my driver; I jumped into the car and drove away. Behold, as I packed the car, I saw the woman tied down. I walked towards her, but Pastor Owoeye who was the pastor in charge of the parish, saw me and shouted, trying to warn me against going there, that the woman is dangerous. They ran towards me, but before they could get to me, I was already with the mad woman. I laid my hands on the woman and said be healed in Jesus name, and right there, she became healed.

    It was a big story. The woman upon realizing herself asked where she was. The pastor and the other people had reached me then and they all marveled at the difference in the mad woman’s sudden change. That was when I told them how God asked me to come to loosen the woman. They all started looking at me like I was an angel. They told me that in truth, God has called me because nobody could go near that woman. She used to break the chains that were used to tie her down. That same woman is today a pastor. That was the day that I started to believe that God had given me a ministry. It was also during that 3 day fast that I saw it that I would one day, become a Bishop, and that I will be praying even for foreigners in foreign lands as it is happening today.

    But how did your husband receive all these?

    I went to Kaduna to tell my husband. He believed because we were friends, we were childhood friends in Ibadan. We believed so much in each other. However, we didn’t know what to do, we had to consult with spiritual superiors. We therefore went to The General Evangelist of CAC. We met him and I began to relate my experience. He was busy and appearing not to be listening. At a point, God told me to stop talking. He turned to my husband and asked him to mention any woman who was doing such things. But truly, there was no woman doing such things at that time. He instructed him to take me home, to hold and keep his wife of five years, that he should not let me do these things; else pastors will take his wife away. The man rubbished the whole thing and we left. But as we were going, God told me not to listen to him, that He has already shown me a sign to show that He is the one that has called me.

    The next day however, at 6am, we heard a knock on the door and it was the man. He was shouting “please woman of God, you are called!” His mouth had bent to one side. So I told him, “but you said I am not called?” He replied, “No, you are called, I was beaten terribly all through the night. I was even asked, who told me that you were not called,” he said. He told us further, that he was told that his own calling is not even as high as my own. That made me even more afraid because the next thing was that the man asked me to pray for him and I did. His bent mouth straightened back to normal. It was amazing. This led to a crusade in Kaduna and there were many miracles and healing. Miracles started coming even through my blessing of water for people. I don’t keep water, people bring their water. Yesterday someone with stroke was brought with water, I prayed on it and the person is now walking. The person is even a pastor.

    Challenge of being the first woman in the ministry

    At that time nobody believed in a woman coming out to do ministry work. But it was only miracle that made people to start believing. It was God that started proving to them one after the other, that yes she is a woman but He has called me to the ministry. There was a time I decided to go to the bible college because I wanted to know more about the word of God and His ways: Though at night God was revealing lots of things to me. During the day too, I used to drift into trance.

    So in 1975, I went to Baptist Seminary in Ogbomosho to get enrolled for studies. The principal told me outright that I am a woman. That my place is in the kitchen I told him that God called me but he replied that I should go and meet the God. Tears rushed that my cheeks. I implored him that he should allow me to buy my own table and chair and sit at the verandah just t be listening. That was when he told me to leave. But before I left, I stood at the middle of the compound, lifted up my eyes and asked God to teach me His word by himself. I told God my desire to know His word and also my desire to have a bible college like that, to teach people especially the women. With anger, I left the place. In 1978 and for three years from that day, God taught me the bible Himself. Those who wrote the books of the bible like Moses, Luke, all came to teach me.

    When I went back to Ogbomosho to do a crusade, the man came there. He asked me if I still remember him. “Of course I do, I can’t forget you, I replied.” He said he was sorry that at that time he did not understand but he now understood.

    God makes way for me even till now. When I want to break into new grounds, God sends somebody to me and it will be done. When it was time for me to go to South Africa for evangelism, somebody came from there to meet me here. Same thing when I was to break into America, a woman came all the way from there here, to meet me. That was in 1988. Someone introduced her to me, she saw what was going on here, and then invited me over. I went there and I was treated like a queen because they saw what I was doing here. I don’t beg for doors to open, when I get near the door, it opens. I have travelled to several countries. London, America, Italy, Amsterdam, I have preached in Singapore, Malaysia, South Africa, Kenya, Cotonou, even in Egypt. When my children opened the Face book page for me, more connections poured in. it is God.

    As a Lady Bishop, what is your life style like?

    I am a social person, but I do not go out. When I do, it means I’m going there to preach. People come to see me and I give God the glory for that.

    How did you hit the limelight?

    The media shot me into fame through a miracle that came through me. When we were in Yaba, Lagos Mainland, I was still at CAC then. One evening, a woman that had been pregnant for over 38 years, gave birth on the crusade ground to something that looked like a monkey. As it happened, a ‘Daily Times’ reporter who was covering something else in the area, heard the pandemonium from the crusade ground and checked it out. He took the picture of the monkey-like creature and it was on front page of the paper the next day, and that was how I got to limelight. Even how I got to preaching on television, was like that. I was invited to an interview but ended up being given space on television to be preaching regularly. So it is usually God at work for me. The goodwill of God is always at work for me.

    What material things has success in ministry given you?

    I have enjoyed a lot in my private life. God has given me people. Everything I have is gifts from people: Happy people who love me from all around the world. The day you meet me, you fall in love with me and the next thing is that you are asking me, what can I do for you? That is not limited to us ‘blacks’ alone; the ‘Whites’ love me too.

    What keeps you going?

    I enjoy my peace of mind. I do not worry over anything. People tell me they can’t sleep. But I am not like that; I sleep and sleep when it is time for me to sleep. I pray and go to sleep. I enjoy myself on my IPAD, my free time I use it counseling people on the internet.

    What is your view on women, gold, trinkets and trouser wearing to church?

    I thank God that I am a woman, the first African Lady Bishop. I am an authority in my field; I have written books on aspects of Christianity, so I can say that, they should leave my women alone! Please just take us as we are. Let people concentrate on their own lives and stop petty worries about what women wear. That is because, whatever you wear, has nothing to do with your soul. Jesus came to save souls and not trouser or earrings. He came to save souls and if your soul is saved and you love God, that love makes you want to wear anything.

    I must tell you that there is joy that belongs to a redeemer in Christ and with that joy; you want to adorn the image of God in you. That is what female dressing is all about. Female dressing is not about attracting opposite sex. A mad woman is attractive to the opposite sex. So it is not until you are adorned that you become attractive to the opposite sex: So female adornment is about rejoicing in you. A woman looks at the mirror and she is happy. We look in the mirror and see our beauty and we say ha father, I thank you for this beautiful image that you have given me. It has nothing to do with salvation.

    People who criticize female dressing give me the impression that they don’t know the bible. Eve was to make Adam happy for eve to be eve. Adam didn’t know that eve was inside of him until God brought her out. And Adam was surprised that this kind of beauty was inside of him and called her a ‘woman.’ And woman means ‘mother of all living’ that is what it means in Hebrew. Without a woman there is no production. When a man has trouble, where does he go, but to his woman! There is a special place for a woman so let no one rubbish them. When a man sees a woman that is well dressed, he is happy except he is deceiving himself. If your woman is not dressing well, it’s likely there is no happiness in that house. That can even make the man to look outside and probably commit. When a woman is a prostitute, she doesn’t even need to dress well. It is modest women who dress well, because a modest woman has rest of mind. Where it is said that the adornment should not

    be

    too much, is an advice, it doesn’t mean not to use at all. Using it doesn’t mean a woman doesn’t love God. Some people say a woman should not preach, but can you stop the police woman when she catches you, or a female judge who sends a man to jail? So why not listen to a woman of God who brings you peace? So what I can say is that it boils down to ignorance and then jealousy because God answers women faster than men because we can cry more.

    What accessories do you not do without?

    I don’t miss anything; the beauty God has given me is there already. Sometimes though, I use make up and sometimes I don’t because I always think that it may stain people’s clothes when I hug them. You know as a preacher, I hug a lot. But that does not mean that I hate powder. I use it when I do photo-shoot. I can do with anything and do without anything. I advice women that when they have money, they should use it to buy properties, build houses for their children, and use the excess for trinkets and gold. Women should think of the future in case they die before their husbands, who may marry another wife.

    Tell us your regrets?

    It is, not believing God as much as I ought to. Sometimes I doubt Him until he performs yet another miracle. When it comes to my personal issues with God, I drag things with Him. I ask Him why He tells me not to do some things. That has been my regret. I wish to be a better woman, a better preacher, I am still growing, things are different now, I want to speak to the youth and speak their language, speak to the rich and get across to them and reach out to everybody. And I will love that President Goodluck Jonathan who we know is a good man should also be more strong and bold. He should make decisions and stand by it. The bloodshed in the country is much. Let him come up with a resolution to stop it. I am not saying that he should be like Obasanjo but please let him act now and fast.

  • How our parents were gruesomely murdered by religious fanatics  —Inmates of Ogun orphanage

    How our parents were gruesomely murdered by religious fanatics —Inmates of Ogun orphanage

    Since the religious riot that claimed thousands of lives in Kaduna in 2000, scores of men and women have been killed in religious and sectarian violence that has ravaged the northern part of Nigeria. Although religious organisations, government agencies and other groups have doled out relief items to victims, the hopes, survival and educational development of the children whose parents were killed during these crises remain threatened. Most times, their houses and business outfits are set ablaze, prompting a non-governmental organisation, Stephen Centre, to offer help to more than 320 children whose parents were victims of religious persecution. ADEOLA OGUNLADE recently visited the centre in Abeokuta, Ogun State.

    Entering through the gates of Stephen Centre in Aregbe community, Obantoko area of Abeokuta, Ogun State, it looked quiet and homely. The children were warm as they welcomed the reporter.

    Most of them had been orphaned as a result of the religious crises that have rocked the nation in the last couple of years, particularly the activities of the Boko Haram sect in the northern part of the country.

    Some of the inmates relived the horrible circumstances in which they lost their parents to rampaging Islamist sects in the north before the centre came to their rescue.

    One of them is Blessing Justin.an indigene of Anambra State, who was born in Kaduna State. She said: “As a result of the religious crisis going on in Nigeria, particularly the northern part, so many people have been killed because of their faith in Christ Jesus. Happy homes have been turned into homes full of sorrow and tears. I am a living testimony to this crisis.

    “On February 21, 2000, we were all at home when it was announced that there would be a peaceful protest against the Sharia law that was being imposed. It started peacefully until the next day when houses were set on fire with people in them. Shops were burnt with people in them. Schools were burnt with students in them and people were being slaughtered like animals.

    “On February 22, my father left the house early in the morning for early morning prayers in our church. He asked my mother to stay at home and watch over us the children. After he left, our house was attacked by the rioters. Car tyres with fire on them were thrown at the house, but with God’s intervention, only the roof of the building caught fire and it was quenched.

    “We waited for our father till later that evening, but he was nowhere to be found. Later at night, my uncle who witnessed the killing came to relay the news of my father’s death to us.

    “Being a man of God (pastor) with strong faith in the Lord, my father was asked to deny his faith in Christ Jesus in order to save his life, but he refused. He was tortured but he still refused to deny Christ Jesus. This got the rioters angry and they killed him. He was shot with a gun.

    “His body was brought to us. There were so many injuries inflicted on him while he was being tortured.

    “All hope seemed lost for us. Things became difficult. But as it is written in the Bible, Jesus is the father to the fatherless and the husband to the widows. He remembered us through the Voice of the Christian Martyrs (VOCM). I thank God for VOCM and the director of Stephen Center International Group of Schools, Rev. Isaac Oluwole Newton Wusu, for bringing me, three of my siblings and other people that have also lost one or two parents during the religious riots to Stephen Centre International/Stephen Children’s Home in Abeokuta, Ogun State.

    “I came here in the year 2001. Then, I was just seven years old. I was given free education, free feeding, clothing and other basic needs of life.

    “At first, I never wanted to stay because we had to manage everything. The water was not good. We slept in classrooms and so on. But it was better than going back to nothing. The director kept encouraging me and my colleagues to be strong. As the years went by, things began to change for the better. We now have buildings of our own, a secondary school and so many social amenities. Things are now great here at Stephen Centre International.

    “To the glory of God and the help of Stephen Center International, I graduated from secondary school in 2010. Even though the road has being tough, God saw us through. The following year, 2011, I also got admission into the Olabisi Onabanjo University (OOU) for a diploma course.

    “I have been with Stephen Center International for 12 years now. This place is a home to me. It is not just where I stay but where I learn educationaly and morally.

    “I thank God for VOCM and Rev. Isaac for giving me and the other children here a second chance to live a good life.”

    Another inmate, 13-year-old Silas Victoria, an indigene of Enugu State, whose parents were killed in Jos in 2009, said: “I was brought here in April, 2012. My growing up in Gombe was very nice as I enjoyed the company of my friends. I spoke their language and ate good foods like nwake, tuwo and others. But it was like a joke when in 2011, Christians were told to leave within three days. It was on the fifth of January when we went to a revival service in Deeper Life BSGA.

    “Around 7pm, there were shootings by some unknown gunmen. They shot my father, brother, and elder brother on his two laps and his spinal cord. I jumped from the window and I felt no pain after I saw my younger sister with bloodstains. It was very painful. After two days, daddy died. They shot me in the left side.

    ‘Ironically, we had good relationship with our Muslim neighbours who behaved like Christians. They wept when they heard that we were leaving. We trusted the Muslim brothers, their ways and culture so much. I will love to go back to Gombe. I only implore the religious fanatics to change because the end is near.”

    Sunday James, a 15-year-old indigene of Plateau State, recalled that he was in primary 5 when at about 3 am, some religious fanatics set fire to their house. We came out to escape being burnt and then my brother and I fell down and they started cutting us with machetes so much so that I landed in the hospital where they later told me that my parents and brother were killed in the massacre.

    “I feel bad whenever I remember the incident. I want to be a banker. I had thought of fighting back, but I stopped the idea and gave peace a chance.”

    Racheal David, who was rescued in Maiduguri, said : “Since 2009, life was always boring as the Boko Haram sect made life unbearable for all of us.

    “One day, they passed by our house and saw my younger brother, but they did not do anything. They came back to ask where he was. I was standing by the door when they came in, but he had gone to play.

    “They started shooting into the air. They took my father and asked whether to shoot him in the back or in the stomach. He did not say a word. but kept praying. They shot him in the ear and the bullet got out through the other ear. His teeth and brains popped out and he died.’’

    In a chat with the Executive Director of Stephen Centre, Mr. Isaac Nelson, on what led to the initiative, he said it all began sometime in 2000 while he was distributing relief materials donated by an international organisation, Voice of the Martyr, where he had served for more than 30 years, to victims of the Kaduna riots. He said he came across two women at the refugee camp who gave birth to two girls and both named them Mary

    He said: “The circumstances leading to their birth was touching. By the time I went back to search for the two Marys, I discovered that one had died with the mother. The other Mary survived and I brought her with me to Abeokuta, Ogun State.

    “Stephen Centre was not actually founded as a school. While we were in Lagos, the harassment during the Abacha regime was so terrible that my brother suggested that I move to his apartment in Abeokuta. Incidentally, we spent little time there since the situation in Nigeria was not conducive for our activities. We moved to Ghana.

    “After the death of Abacha and Abiola, I decided to use the apartment I was given in Abeokuta as a computer school and Christian library. That is why the name of the school is called Stephen Centre.

    “I first brought eight children from Kaduna and called them Kaduna Special Children. Without funding and support, we increased the number to 14, then to 40 and later to 50. We later brought children from Kano, Bauchi, Jos, Maiduguri, and from the Boko Haram uprising. Now, there are 300 of such children here. We call them the family of Mary.

    “Each of them lost one of their parents or both parents in the religious uprising in most parts of the north. When we brought them in those days, we could not communicate. I cannot speak Hausa very well and none of the children could speak English. So, we used signs to communicate.

    “By the end of July 2011, we had 44 of them who had graduated from the college here. Twenty of them are in the university. Till today, the 20 students are not sponsored by anybody other than us. We have not got any external help for them.

    “The journey has been exciting, though it is full of ups and downs. But the most important thing is that we are focused on where we are going. At Stephen Centre, we are dedicated like the biblical Stephen who was persecuted. Our trademark is for the church because we are children of the persecuted. There we started with the Kaduna riot in 2000.”

    On whether Nelson had the capacity and experience to shoulder this responsibility, he said: “For me, it is just a miracle. How we got here, I can’t tell, as we wake up every day with God as our guard. We trust Him to support us and He has never failed us.

    “We have also sponsored 20 children to higher institutions, studying courses that range from Law and engineering to Medicine and the humanities. We just bought an uncompleted building in Ijebu-Igbo to house the children who are in Olabisi Onabanjo University, Ogun State.

    “It was a big challenge to start and to get approval from the Ministry of Education. We thank Mrs. Sore and Rev. Sofuluwe who supported us, took our plight into consideration and made sure that Stephen Centre was approved. It was a very big challenge which we could not have handled on our own. But the children within the community supported and welcomed the children.”

    He recalled that when the orphanage started, the community thought that the children would be violent because they were products of crises. But with time, they saw that the children were calm and upheld godly virtues. Hence, they opened their arms to accept the children.

    He said there were 60 teachers at the centre and their salaries were being paid regularly. “We have quality teachers who are totally committed to us and our goal. We are grateful to the parents, children and teachers who are working very hard on this project, as it is very challenging.

    “Everything about us is a miracle. God has always been with us at this centre. We have graduated 44 students and several of them are in the universities in Nigeria. Often times, my answer has been very logical when people ask me how we are able to do this great work, because it is not a dream you can conceive or an idea that can just come to one’s mind. Feeding, housing and providing vocational and formal education to 320 children is never a child’s play.

    “The churches have been helpful. The children were recently invited by Pastor Wale Adefarasin, the Senior Pastor of Guiding Light, who welcomed the children and gave them the opportunituy to share their stories with the congregation and were thereafter supported with several thousands.”

    Funding for this humanitarian project could be a daunting task. How has he been able to work around it? Nelson said: “I worked for a Christian mission for more than 30 years, and I do a lot of publishing. At first, I thought I could feed eight children conveniently. But when the number increased to 20 and 50, it became difficult for me. To worsen it all, neighbours could not imagine what I was doing. They thought we were into child trafficking. I had to sell my books to feed the children.

    “Some of the children are today reading Law. And when I think about the struggle, it is not an issue to remember. The God of the widow is also the God of the orphan. The church is really making a big mistake when orphans are seen as beggars. James told us that true religion is to visit the orphan and the widow in their affliction. God has not abandoned us and the church is realising it. We need to store up together and not fight one another, because our arch enemy is Satan, not the people that are killing us.

    “The Voice of Christian Martyr, which I worked with for more than 30 years, gives us the most support. We are doing our best to rescue these children and their families, so that tomorrow when I die, I will be happy I have done my part towards saving lives.”

    Asked whether the fact that he had worked in the North had given him a leeway in his intervention projects, he said: “I work in the North through an international Christian mission where we give relief materials to families of Christian martyrs. We are also working aggressively, reaching out to help persecuted Christians. We are the only mission recognised in most parts of northern Nigeria. We created a library where we fabricated artificial limbs for Christians whose legs were broken or damaged with bombs.”

    Religious crises have pervaded the world, with Nigeria as one of the major trouble spots. But Nelson said there had not been a time when the church was not persecuted. “Jesus was crucified. And bible scholars record that only Apostle John, the brother of Jesus, died a natural death. The remaining apostles died harrowing deaths.

    “Christianity was borne out of persecution. I will like to recommend this book, Foxes Book of Martyr, which gives a detailed report of Christians’ persecution. Today’s world can never be defined, because when you think you are at peace serving Christ, you should see yourself as being parochial. But when we open our eyes to the world, there are countries where you cannot mention the name of Jesus Christ.

    “In Iraq, Egypt and America, Muslims are using oil money to buy churches and turn them into mosques as Christians no longer go to church and in most climes do not stand for the faith once delivered unto the saint. It is very alarming what you see around the world. Interestingly, the Bible is still the best seller in the world. A former senator in America, Thomas, said that evil triumphs when good people sit down and do nothing. It is not news that Christians are facing intense persecution around the world.”

    What then should be the attitude of the Christians suffering intense persecution? To this, he said: “Extreme persecution should not deter Christians from following the path of truth. It is like the death of Stephen in the Bible, which added great impetus to the spread of the gospel after the ascension of Jesus Christ. We must also understand that serving Christ does not consist only in some fake and cheap miracles, screaming for prosperity without salvation, even to the neglect of the persecuted.

    “The church must lay emphasis on preaching on persecution, passion for Christ and its attendant suffering, which is a must for all Christians.

    I have heard of CAN (Christian Association of Nigeria) President agreeing with Muslim leaders that Boko Haram is not a religious group but a political one. But the group fights with the Quran and machetes in their hands. While I agree partially that some of the reasons for the unrest are political and some economic, we can recall that a former presidential aspirant once boasted that because of the election rigging in Nigeria, Nigeria would never know peace.

    “I hope there will be a remedy to the issue of children given to early marriage and the almajiri (street urchins) who are often used for political or religious reasons. Until you take these almajiri children off the streets, we cannot know peace.

    “Let me tell you, some of the leaders of the North will not do anything about taking them off the streets, no matter the effort of the government in tackling the menace. This is because the belief is that any city in which you do not have beggars on the streets cannot be blessed. So, these children grow up in hopeless conditions. They sleep on the street. They are covered with flies and live in inhuman conditions. They therefore kill without passion because they themselves grow up in hopeless conditions.

    “If the Boko Haram sect kills all the infidels in Nigeria, only the Christians would be left for killing. People should not think of fighting for God because God is so great, good and full of mercy. Why do we now have to use cutlass to fight for God? It is political as well as religious.’’