Category: Saturday Magazine

  • ‘Sustainability, basis of ITB Berlin success’

    Nigeria will be part of this year’s ITB Berlin tourism fair where social and ecological responsibility in tourism is a key subject. Numerous events will be used to address various aspects of sustainability and socially responsible travel.

    The programme in the Adventure and Responsible Tourism includes discussions and papers dealing with human rights, travel for the deaf and developments on the Caribbean island of Haiti three years after the disastrous earthquake. This year’s environmental protection and social responsibility have also been taken into consideration in the production of the ITB Berlin catalogue and ITB Quickfinder which have been printed using a climate-neutral process with the aim of supporting a geothermal project in this year’s partner country, Indonesia.

    Dr. Martin Buck, Director, Competence Centre Travel and Logistics, Messe, Berlin, said: “For many years, ITB Berlin has recognized the importance of corporate social responsibility. As a result of a growing awareness among travellers, the next few years will see increased demand in this sector. This is a development that we, as the world’s largest travel trade show, reflect and actively promote through our events by featuring various aspects of the subject on our agenda.”

    The compensation derived from the climate-neutral printing of the ITB Berlin catalogues is being used by ITB Berlin in some innovative ways this year which include the support that it is providing for a geothermal project on the Indonesian island of Java. By supporting this climate protection project valuable jobs are created there, local people are being trained in new technologies, the availability of electrical power is being improved and support is also being provided for a school for the benefit of girls in particular. On Friday, 8 March, this year’s partner country is presenting some other ecological and sustainable projects on the small stage in Hall 4.1.b. In addition the ITB Berlin Convention is offering some fascinating insights into the innovative “STREAM project”.

    A number of parks from different parts of the world will be presenting their own eco-friendly concepts. Another of the topics will be the protection of animals living in the wild. This year’s Convention and Culture Partner of ITB Berlin, Azerbaijan will be providing details about its own sustainable tourism concept.

     

     

     

     

     

  • We operated with master keys and fake guns

    THE Lagos State Police Command has smashed a suspected robbery gang made up of panel beaters, drivers, car dealers, native doctors, private security men, auto mechanics, landlords, fake pastors and businessmen without fixed business addresses.

    Suspected members of the gang arrested by the police include Seyi Oyewale, Saheed Adebayo, Isa Adegbenro, Kayode Quadri, Afeez Ibrahim and Femi Ashiru. Others, including one Kazeem a.k.a. Naira and Alaba, were said to be at large.

    Narrating his role in the series of robbery operations they allegedly carried out before their arrest, one of the suspects, Afeez Ibrahim a.k.a. Sharpman, a 35-year-old indigene of Odogbolu town, Ogun State, said: “I am a panel beater. I was doing well in my job before I met Femi Ashiru (one of the suspects in police net).

    “I made so much money that I built a house of my own. I was contented with the money I made on a daily basis. I worked seven days in a week. The moment Femi came into my life, my character changed. I started lying to my customers. At times, I deliberately destroyed a part of a car and collected money from the owner to buy a tokunbo (fairly used) part to replace it.

    “At times, some customers would give me their cars to work on but Femi would advise me to sell it. He later started supplying me cars and jeeps snatched by his gang to sell. I became a receiver of stolen vehicles.

    “Unfortunately, the new business I found myself doing dragged me into a lot of police cases. This affected my job as a panel beater. Hence, I abandoned the job and sold my house and other belongings in order to survive. When life became too difficult for me, I joined the gang and started going to robbery operations with them.”

    Asked how many vehicles he received from Femi before joining the gang, he said: “It was the devil who made me an armed robber and receiver of stolen cars. Somebody in our village made the charm against me to become a criminal. What happened to me was not ordinary. I was doing well but suddenly, I became a liar, cheating my customers. I became a receiver of stolen goods and eventually joined the gang.

    “In fact, I joined two gangs. The vehicles I received included Toyota Camry, which I sold for N200,000, and Toyota Muscle, which I sold for N600,000. I also received a 4-Runner Jeep from Kazeem and resold it for N450,000. My gain here was N50,000. Kazeem, known also as Baba Ope or Naira, is still at large.

    “I also sold a Toyota Highlander for N500,000 and gave the money to Kazeem, but till date, he did not give me a dime. He promised to give me the balance when I brought another car. I later brought a Hyundai and he gave me N30,000 only. I gave him a Rav4 which was sold for N350,000, but I was given only N20,000.

    Asked how he was arrested, he said: “Femi was first arrested by operatives of the Special Anti-Robbery Squad (SARS) of the Lagos State Police Command. He led them to my house and they saw me and arrested me.”

    The second suspect, Seye Oyewale a.k.a. Sheyi Campus (27), who hails from Osogbo, Osun State, said: “I am happily married with a set of twins. I was a member of the National Union of Road Transport Workers (NURTW) before I became an armed robber. But we don’t use real guns. We operated with fake guns and master keys.”

    Explaining how he joined a robbery gang, he said: “I was called by one guy called Alaba to follow him to Ifako Ijaiye area (Lagos) to rob in November last year. We were three in number, namely myself, Isa Adegbenro from Ogun State and Alaba. I reside at No. 5, Adara Martin Street, Agbelekale area, Oke-Odo.

    “When we reached Ifako at about 9 pm, we collected a Toyota Camry car parked by the road side. When the owner saw us and came to stop us, I used the fake gun to scare him away and zoomed off with his car. The man was forced out of the car and Isa drove it. We took the car to Afeez Ibrahim and he paid N150,000. I was given only N30,000 when the money was shared.

    “The second operation occurred at Oko-Oba Road. We snatched a Toyota Muscle car. The owner left the key at the ignition and went to buy something nearby. We took it to Afeez and collected N400,000, but I was not given a dime for my efforts. Isa gave the whole N400,000 to Afeez.

    “When I confronted Isa, he told me that Alaba collected my money for me. Alaba is still at large. Alaba is the gang leader and we operate at the Oko-Oba axis in Lagos.

    “I was the one who sold a Samsung handset to Sunday for N3,000. He was our regular handset buyer and receiver, but he did not follow us to operations. We heard that he had been charged to court because he was using the handset he bought from me and SARS operatives tracked him down.”

    The third suspect, Kayode Quadri (37), an indigene of Ilorin, Kwara State and resident of Oke Otaona, Ikorodu, said he was a driver at a secondary school in Otaona on a monthly salary of N25,000 before he joined the robbery gang.

    He said: “I joined the robbery gang because my salary was too poor. How can I manage N25,000? If I were a commercial bus driver or trailer driver, I would be getting more than N50,000 every month. If you see the insult I receive from teachers as a school driver, you would pity me.

    “When I joined the gang, my role was to drive them to points of operation and bring them back. I still go to school to drive, depending on the time we fixed our robbery operation.”

    On how he joined the suspects, he said: “I know Saidi, Naira and Sharpman. We used to smoke Indian hemp at the same joint. One Sunday, I followed Sharpman and Naira to do one job (armed robbery) at Adama side, Ikorodu. I was their driver.

    “After robbing some people we had met on the road, we saw one man in a Toyota Highlander and stopped him, dragged him out and zoomed off with his car. I was not paid a dime until I was arrested by operatives of SARS. That happened this January.

    “We drove a Honda Civic car to the robbery scene and snatched the Highlander. Afeez was both the receiver and one of the strikers. I was not given a dime because they told me that the Highlander jeep had not been sold. I was told that they were going to snatch a vehicle before I joined them. So, I was not forced to become a part of the action.”

    The fourth suspect, Isa Adegbenro a (27) from Abeokuta, Ogun State, who resides at 25, Musiliu Street, Agege, said he was an auto mechanic and driver. He said: “I am happily married with two children. I live in Oko Oba. SARS operatives arrested Seye and they used him to arrest me. I don’t know these people. They belong to another gang entirely. I belong to Alaba’s gang, though the police has not arrested Alaba. He is still our great gang leader.

    “Other members of our gang are Seye and Isa. We are a three-man gang and we operate around the Oko-Oba axis. There was a time we snatched a Toyota Camry and sold it for N150,000 to Afeez. I got only N35,000. We also snatched an Orobo Toyota Camry, the one they call Toyota Muscle, and sold it for N400,000. I got N100,000.

    “I had my workshop at Pleasure Bus stop area, very close to Ile-Epo market before the owners of the land demolished our workshop and built a residential building and shops there. When I was chased away from there, I had no alternative but to join this gang in order to survive.

    “I vow that I will never operate with real gun because I had no intention of killing my victims. We used to use master keys and fake guns. Alaba is the gang leader and he does not use a gun. He uses master keys.”

    The fifth suspect, 27-year-old Saidi Adebayo, who hails from Itamaga village, Ikorodu Lagos State, is married with a nine-month old baby. He said: “I am a plumber. I also dig borehole. I was on a playground in Itamaga area one evening when Kazeem came to meet me. He asked why I had decided to suffer like my father who did security work, because I was doing a security job at Mowonla.

    “It was there that I knew Kazeem, Afeez and Quadri, a wonderful native doctor. They asked me to follow them to do one job. I asked them what job but they said they would tell me the next day. They only said it was a job that would give me quick and big money. The next day, he told me that the job was about collecting vehicles from people. I left in anger. He later called me on the phone but I refused to pick his call.

    “He came later and asked why I refused to pick his calls and I told him that he said I should join them to collect people’s cars and I could not do such a thing as a security man who was well known in the area. The Police later arrested me and I told them that I had resigned from armed robbery but I could still lead them to those who were still doing the job.

    “I met Kazeem, Alfa, Sharpman and Afeez about one and a half years ago. I had once followed them to snatch a car, but the car had an accident, which led to their arrest. They were charged to court and sent to Ikoyi Prison. I ran to Ugheli in Delta State and stayed with a tailor friend named Tony for some time. I came back when my wife gave birth to a baby boy. I resigned from armed robbery job and faced private security work at Mowanla land.

    “So, tell them that I am innocent because I did not participate in this case. The Police declared me wanted when they charged my colleagues then. How can I be arrested because I was once an armed robber? I have repented. Let them release me.”

    The sixth suspect, Femi Ashiru (36), said he was a car dealer with his stand, FM Motors, in Ikorodu, Lagos State.

    He said: “I have an auto stand at Ikorodu. It is called FM Motors. I reside at Igbogbo Bayoku Road, Ikorodu.”

    Asked how he got his supplies, he said: “I do go to Cotonou to buy vehicles and resell in Nigeria. My sister, Mrs Dupe Fakua, who is based in France, also sends cars to me to sell.”

    On when he started patronising car snatchers and armed robbers, he said: “I met Sharpman, Afeez and Ibrahim through a guy called Wale Polo, who is in detention right now for selling and receiving stolen cars from Sharpman. I knew Sharpman as a panel beater also.

    One day, he told me that a customer for whom he normally repaired cars used to bring cars for sale and they were very cheap. I told him that if it was the kind I liked, I would buy. He later brought one RAV4 jeep and I looked at the vehicle, tested it and found it okay. I paid him N450,000.

    “There were documents in the vehicle. The particulars were pasted on the windscreen. The insurance and road worthiness papers were all originals while other documents were in photocopies. He promised to bring the original copies of those ones later.

    “He also brought a 4Runner and I paid him N700,000, though it had no registration number or vehicle particulars. But he said it was not snatched. Another one he brought was a Toyota Camry car and I paid him N450,000. He later brought a Hyundai Santate jeep and I paid him N650,000.

    “He also brought a Toyota Camry 2010 model and I paid him N950,000. Although that one had no particulars, he assured me that it was genuine. He later confessed to me that the Camry 2010 model was snatched. Therefore, when he brought a Highlander Jeep, I refused to buy it. I told him to take it away, but instead of taking it away, he went and parked it at my house and said he would remove it later. He covered it with tarpaulin.

    “When policemen arrested me in my office, I told them on our way to the police station that there was one jeep that was parked in my house, which I had told them to come and take away but they refused, and I could not report them to the police because they are dangerous with guns.”

    He said he later took the police to Sharpman, the supplier of the vehicles’ house and he was arrested in his house at Agufoye area, a new site in Ikorodu. He was the only member of the gang he claimed to know.

     

  • What do I do to make him know I love him?

    I’m 19 years old, I am in love with someone but he does not know that I love him. I’ve tried to forget about him but I can’t, please help me; tell me what to do to make him know I love him. Thanks. Hussaina.

    Dear Hussaina, in as much as I don’t have much fears about people of your age falling in love, I like letting them know that 18 to 20 are still vulnerable ages when men can work on your innocence and take you for granted.

    Talking about a girl coming out to tell a guy who hasn’t noticed her that she’s in love with him could spell trouble if the guy is not matured enough. It might be interpreted to mean free invitation to sex. It might be interpreted to mean desperation and it could be used against her. So before walking up to a guy to say you like him, be very sure he’s exposed and matured and has good friends who won’t tell him to use the opportunity as an awoof to devour easily.

  • Etihad to upgrade Lagos service

    Etihad Airways, the national airline of the United Arab Emirates, will upgrade its Lagos service to a daily one to meet the growing demand from passengers travelling to and from Nigeria.

    The airline initially launched its service between Lagos, West Africa’s most populous city, and Abu Dhabi on July 1, 2012 with six flights a week, enhancing the links between Nigeria and the United Arab Emirates.

    The new daily service will be introduced on March 31, coinciding with the start of the airline’s new summer schedule, and will significantly improve connections between Nigeria and the United Arab Emirates, and beyond to key destinations across the airline’s network in Saudi Arabia, the Middle East, India, Malaysia and China.

    Maurice Phohleli, Etihad Airways’ General Manager, Nigeria and West Africa, said: “We have received a very positive response from the Nigerian market since launching our service six months ago. Clearly, the people of Nigeria appreciate the superior product and service of the world’s leading airline and we are proud to serve them.

    “Our passenger loads are strong, and we are confident that this route will continue to support the growing flow of business and leisure travellers who fly from Nigeria to the United Arab Emirates and onwards over the airline’s hub in Abu Dhabi to key commercial and tourism destinations in the GCC, North and Southeast Asia and markets in the Indian sub-continent.”

    The service, comprising a mix of morning and evening departures, is operated by an Airbus A330-200 aircraft configured to carry 22 Pearl Business class and 240 Coral Economy class passengers.

     

  • My pastor boyfriend talks to me only when he wants to kiss me

    Good afternoon madam. I’m 16 years old. I met this man; he’s 23 years and he’s a pastor and we’re dating. Each time I visit him he doesn’t talk to me, but he will rather drop recharge cards on the bed for me to load in my phone and exchange SMS with him while we’re in the same rum. But when I leave, he will call and talk to me telling me how much he enjoyed my company. And when I’m around, he will never talk to me, the only time he looked at my face and talked was when he asked me to kiss him. Please madam, I am confused; what should Ii do? I need your advice. Reply me please. J.

    Dear J, shy people find it hard to express themselves when they’re around the people they love but I doubt if your pastor boyfriend plays dumb when you’re around due to shyness. Shy people don’t play dumb, they talk, but you could tend to be uneasy when they’re around the people they love and they may not be able to lock eyes with you for a long time. They may get busy doing something to hide their uneasiness.

    But not talking at all means something else. I suspect that Mr. Pastor is just playing games with you and he’s enjoying the fun the suspense is generating.

    The world is full of pastors these days o! Who made him a pastor at 23? Why would he make a small girl of 23 his girlfriend? Why would he be in the same room with you and not utter a word to you and why would he drop recharge cards on the bed for you?

    Watch how you go visiting this queer guy alone. The Ibos (I think) have a saying that one day, monkey go go market, e no go return. I pray he won’t make a monkey out of you. He has started by dropping

    recharge cards for you on the bed and asking you to kiss him. It will progress from there as you encourage him in this deaf and dumb game.

    He will ask you to touch something one day and from there others things may set in.

    J, your age mates these days are discovering their talents and making good use of it. There are so many of your age mates in the university now going after course work and all other important things. A lot of your age mates who are not so lucky to be in schools are learning vocations that will make them better people. Face what’s important and let Pastor go and face church work. His own pastor is one of the bad ones that will ask a small girl to meet him in the bedroom. Please give me his full names and the name of his church; I will help you find out if their church doctrines allow unmarried people of different sexes to stay together in a room.

     

  • God’s master plan for the family(2)

    Dear Reader,

    Last week, we saw the fundamental nature of the family. This week, I will be teaching on, All-Round Blessings as part of God’s plan for the family.

    There is no limit to the pleasure and blessings God can bring to you in all areas of your life, through a successful family life. There is joy that comes along with family success, which simply spills over into every area of life. These blessings include the following:

    Divine Dominion

    To have dominion is to have control or to exercise control. God has established the family, therefore, to have dominion; that is to have and exercise control. The family is to be in control of circumstances and situations of life. …And have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth (Genesis 1:28). God designed the family as an unbeatable team on the earth, but because Adam failed in the family government, he lost control and was sent out of the Garden of Eden.

    Divine Favour

    Once divine favour is present in your home and family, it is irreversible. Even men are compelled to favour you, because when a man’s ways pleases the Lord, He causes even his enemies to be at peace with him. The favour of God elevates you to such great heights that men begin to envy you. You become a reference point for a good marriage.

    God’s favour also secures for you a lifting and promotion in status, often occurring in an increase in material possessions, finances, etc.

    Taking a look at the first family (Adam and Eve), one discovers that even after the fall, Adam’s family still enjoyed God’s favour. They had sewed fig leaves together and made aprons to cover their nakedness. But because of the special favour God reserved for the family, God overlooked their betrayal and clothed them with animal skin. He clothed their nakedness and thus removed shame from them.

    Divine Security

    God, the husband and wife form a three-fold cord that is not easily broken. As man co-operates with God and establishes God’s purpose for marriage in the home, God honours that family by ensuring that nothing prevails against it. They (the man and his wife) are equipped to withstand, with the help of the Lord, all demonic forces and the pressures of the secular world. God’s Word says: …If one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken. (Ecclesiastes 4:12).

    Divine Presence

    The enemy is walking to and fro looking for “cold” homes to infiltrate. When there’s fighting, discord, selfishness, quarrelling, and unforgiveness, the home can be said to be “cold.” But when there is love, understanding and harmony in a home, God rewards it with the warmth of His presence and peace that burns off the attacks of the devil which could cause tension. In His presence are fullness of joy and pleasures (Psalm 16:11).

    To enjoy all-round blessings is to become a born again child of God. If you want to become a child of God, please say this prayer of faith with me: Dear Lord, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me my sins.  Cleanse me with Your precious Blood. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour.  Now I know I am born again!

    Congratulations! Till I come your way again next week, please call or write, and share your testimonies with me through: E-mail: faithdavid@yahoo.com Tel. No: 234-1-7747546-8; 07026385437, 07094254102

     

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all the Living Faith Churches, and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work and Building a Successful Family.

  • A piece of history at lander museum

    This month is exactly 179 years since the death of Richard Lander, a British maverick traveller and explorer. He was killed on February 6, 1834 during his third exploratory trip on the lower Niger. Ironically, Richard Lander was also born in February.

    In 2004, the Lander brothers marked 200 years of the death of the patriarch of their family, as part of the activities to celebrate the epoch. An expedition trip was organized to follow the same route that Richard Lander took. Richard Lander’s trip took off from Bussa where he presented a medal to the king of Bussa and in return he got the boat he needed to embark on his expedition.

    After the trip, the team decided to donate the boat to the Asaba people. A museum was later built in memory of Richard Lander. The museum chronicles the voyage and activities of Lander. The boat formed the fulcrum of artifact museum.

    The museum is located off the busy Nnebisi Road beside the colonial grave yard. In front of the museum is the imposing sculpted work anchorage. The Richard Lander Museum is appeal is the huge information on display, not just about the Richard Lander, but an insight into the complexion of the area in the 19 century when Europeans became unsatisfied with trading at the coast and became interested in hinterland. These are mostly in form of pictures and text materials.

    The six members of the Lander expedition trip made thier way from Bussa to Asaba just like their forebear. The boat used for the trip was called Goo- will. The team decided to donate the boat to the people of Asaba. This boat and other artifacts that have to do with the expedition and Europeans’ contacts with the people of Asaba are the artifacts one sees, while visiting the Richard Lander Museum.

    Richard Lemon Lander (1804-1834) was an English explorer who made three trips to West Africa. He and his brother, John, were the first Europeans to canoe down the lower Niger River to its delta (where it meets the sea).

    Richard Lander was born in Truro, Cornwall, England on February 8, 1804. He had no formal education, but went on an extended trip to the West Indies as a child.

    As a young man, Lander worked for the Scottish explorer, Hugh Clapperton, and went with him on a trip to West Africa. The expedition (1825-1828) was designed to travel down the Niger River, but it was unsuccessful due to illness and many deaths.

    Clapperton and Lander’s European companions all died early on the trip. Lander and Clapperton both had bouts of illness, and Clapperton died on April 18,1827. African tribesmen later accused Lander of witchcraft, forcing him to drink poison to determine whether or not he was indeed a wizard. Since he survived, the charges of witchcraft were rescinded, and Lander eventually returned to England in July 1828.

    In England, Lander published “Journal of Richard Lander from Kano to the Sea Coast” in 1829 and “Records of Captain Clapperton’s Last Expedition to Africa, with the Subsequent Adventures of the Author”.

    Lander returned to West Africa with his brother, John Lander, in 1830. They followed the lower Niger River from Bussa to the sea, travelling in leaky canoes. Along the way they were kidnapped by some natives,rescued by another king, from Brass, and were reluctantly helped by a British ship. Lander later published “Journal of an Expedition to Explore the Course and Termination of the Niger” in 1832.

    For those who want to know a little more about the period of the scramble and partitioning of West Africa, Asaba and some other places, the Lander Museum is not a bad idea.

  • My Valentine’s Day treat

    I have fond memories of my days with Granny Fanny-Jane (aka Mama Saro). I was the only grandchild who lived with

    her from infancy till mid teenage years, and later sometimes during adulthood. We used to sit together baking or cooking during the day time and you could bet that all the hours were spent gisting.

    Towards early evenings, we would retire to the balcony or the living room to talk some more. Many times, she would help cut my nails, clean my ears and generally groom me to become a lady. As I grew older and she weaker, I started helping her dye her hair, cut her nails and I was (and still bad with weaving of hair), I would just comb her hair for her and part it in the middle. We had so much laughter and fun.

    And with all those books and novels, my mum used to buy for me, I always found time away from Granny to read and enrich my mind. I was the best Government student in my set at St. Teresa’s College, which was a shame because with so much creativity packed into my head, I should have been the best in Literature. I got by in Literature too, at least I never failed to make my As up to GCE and WAEC. I tried.

    I used to fantasize a lot too and I put all my thoughts into drawing.

    All my mates in school would remember all the cartoons I used to draw. I could remember how some of them brought exercise books for me to create stories for them in graphic details, which they would take home to read.

    What all that did was creating in me a very soft and romantic person.

    As an adult now, I enjoy evening strolls with my partner as much as I enjoy soaking his feet regularly in the foot tub I got especially for him. I make cooking and serving of it such a delight that people just love eating my meals. I wake the household with soft music most days and make sure there is enough fragrance in the atmosphere to kick-start the day. And oh goodness… we can talk and talk and talk!

    With us, there’s no limit to gisting. Even when we’re having our usual misunderstandings, we always make up by talking some more. Hmm… Mama Saro’s style!

    Saturdays are spent either at any of the parks with us playing games or visiting our favourite fura-de-nunu joint or just driving around town to see and admire the best architectural designs in the hope that one day, we would have one of them someday soon.

    We often have fights over eating out because I love oriental meals while he loves local dishes. He almost always wins though because he blackmails me with the question of whether I’m not the full and happy Nigerian that I say I am.

    We must have done all the romantic stuff under the sun that when this year’s Valentines’ Day came, we were at a loss on what to do to make it different. For us, everyday is a celebration of love. We were so undecided about what to do express our love. We often spread some of the love we have with those less fortunate than us. We all have them in neighbourhood and in our religious assemblies.

    So, what we did to celebrate this year was to give even more to those who may not be able to express love the way we do. I fried and baked and cooked, and we took it to whose smiles at receiving such goodies drew us even closer. It was a very big treat from us to them and the smiles from them just gave us the best Valentine’s Day, yet.

    Mama Saro never gave me a Valentine’s Day present, but the love she taught me has lived with me ever since.

    I pray we all learn to show love to those around us. For you all, I’m bringing these fabulous tips for spreading around a little love to those you care about.

    Food is always a good choice when it comes to spreading your Valentine love. How about cooking food and taking to charity homes this weekend.

    Clothes and shoes are always appreciated, whether they are your new clothes/shoes or old (but not torn ones). Make those less fortunate than you look gorgeous too. Your sweetheart is sure to be impressed with the love you both share with others.

    There may be childless people around you. Give them the opportunity to be called daddy and mummy by arranging for children to visit them and help them with small chores. Give them the opportunity to tell stories to these children and encourage them to be hugged and kissed. It is still a part of spreading love and making other people happy.

    Looking for something to do this weekend into style and waoh people?

    Why not arrange for you and your amiable neighbours to talk to those miscreants in your neighbourhood and let them know the dangers of smoking weed or living dangerous lives. Showing a little love and lending a hand of support (without bringing them into your homes until you’re sure about them) can save our youths and the society. Get them jobs if you can and monitor their progress.

    Looking for date ideas? Visit somebody who is more of a recluse and draw the person out. Most people who keep indoors are lonely and some are suicidal. Save a life but don’t visit alone.

    Volunteer with your partner and your neighbours for a cause. It is a great way to spend time together on something that you are passionate about. You can think of visiting a hospital and making someone’s day a little brighter.

    Perform a small act of kindness. You can truly show someone the power of love just through a simple act of kindness. Don’t ignore that man or woman on your street who doesn’t have a car and has to trek to the bus-stop with all those children in tow.

    All in all, celebrate the power of love. Though, this is belated, but love is still very much around, Happy Valentine’s Day!

     

    How to Get Closer with Your Partner or Spouse by Jasmine Starr

    Being intimate with your partner or spouse sometimes needs to be worked out. The intimacy that once was very available during the start of the relationship becomes hard to find after several years of being together. Raising a family, maintaining a home and career moves usually overwhelms you with too much stress that you tend to forget to get closer or intimate even with your partner or spouse.

    This intimacy is very much needed in order to keep the marriage working. You must take time and give extra effort in getting closer with your partner or spouse. The following are some of the tips that you can use in order to maintain the bond between you and your partner or spouse.

    •Take time to listen to your spouse or partner. Be keen about the non-verbal signal that your partner is showing you. If you think that he has become distant from you, entice him to a talk and discuss your issues.

    •Make sure that you keep a cool head and you listen to his ideas and vice versa.

    •Be honest always. Keeping secrets from your spouse will make you worry which will affect your behaviour towards him. It is always advisable

    and healthy in a relationship that both of you do not keep any secret from each other. And open line communication is the key to this and an honest attitude should guide you.

    •Let your spouse feel that he is important. Showing your partner that he is important to you will keep you close to each other because you can only show the importance of a person in your life when you always take time to spend quality time with him. It does not need to be long but a simple greeting as soon as you see him walk in the room will surely make him feel important because you noticed him.

    Never forget to make contact a physical one with your spouse. Even when you are walking to the grocery store hold his hand or when you are watching TV lean you head on his shoulder. These are just simple gestures but it is important to keep the intimacy between the two of you.

  • Make up tips for Val day

    Make up tips for Val day

    TO  look good on Valentine’s Day means to be the centre of attraction and here are some of the beauty products to make sure you look your best on this romantic day!\

    •A great eyeliner liquid liner, which makes your eyes look dramatic, is perfect for a date. Use it on your upper lash line to make it look thicker.

    •A flirty lip-gloss – Revlon colour stay mineral lip glaze has the gleam and wearability of a gloss plus strong, pigmented colour.

    •A sparkling smile makes sure your teeth are sparkling white for all that smiling you will be doing! Go for whitening toothpaste.

    •Dramatic mascara that will thicken the lashes while also making them look longer; you can also put the glitter over your eye-lid making the Valentine’s Day appearance more romantic and exciting.

    •Another touchy makeup tips for Valentine’s Day is to have powder blush. This will make your cheeks rosy and more stunning.

    •Lastly, envelope yourself in the perfume your man likes, the good fragrance can play a big part on his senses.

  • The lunch date

    The lunch date

    WOULD you be going out for a nice lunch or just go out to have a good time with friends? Why not try a nicely-cut pencil skirt or pants, which is always a winner. Slip on a nice shirt dress and update the look with platform heels and complement this with a handy handbag or small purse.

    Guys can combine a nice top with a pair of bandless pants, knock-off with blazers. Or a blazer jacket with a shirt or tank top Jeans is indispensable to any man.

    Cocktail/evening date

    Stay stylish and standout on Valentine night with a striking cocktail dress with a touch of red or pink, and keep everything else simple. Now one thing that is very important to note before buying a dress for Valentine’s Day is whether it’s a daytime event or an evening event.

    Guys, the perfect hue for an evening date is black. It’s the most versatile colour of all time. Trainers or sneakers are not allowed. This is the period to flaunt your leathers. So, dress up smart and wear something that reflects your style and attitude.

    But remember these fashion hubs of Valentine’s Day: dresses are not just for those with partners. Singles should also celebrate and go out for Valentine too!

    So whether you plan dining at a fancy, romantic restaurant with your hubby, or you plan to hit town with friends, consider dressing festively for the occasion without seeming too tacky!