Category: Saturday Magazine

  • Socialites, celebrities gather for Pastor Paul Adefarasin’s 50th birthday

    Socialites, celebrities gather for Pastor Paul Adefarasin’s 50th birthday

    Leader of elite Lagos Church, House on the Rock, Pastor Paul Adefarasin, added another year to clock the golden age of 50 penultimate Friday. And the clergyman did not fail to show gratitude to his Creator as family and friends joined him for a thanksgiving service.

    In appreciation of their spiritual leader, members of House on the Rock also joined Adefarasin’s family and friends to engage in a horde of activities aimed at making the birthday a memorable one. These included a holy communion service held at the church’s cathedral and on the Lekki-Epe Expressway that Friday. There was also an exclusive dinner later in the day at Eko Hotels, Victoria Island, Lagos, as well as a thanksgiving service held at the church on Sunday January 27.

    Eyewitnesses said the birthday dinner was not an all-comers affair because it was style and class incorporated. The tables were said to have been tagged with colour codes, and right at the entrance was a board indicating the sitting arrangement vis-a-vis the guest list placed at the entrance. There were polite bouncers to keep off uninvited guests, just as courteous ushers stood guard to welcome those that were invited.

    The occasion was graced by eminent persons, including Aigboje Aig-Imoukhuede and Segun Agbaje of Access and GT banks respectively; fashion designers Folake Akindele and Charles Toye; controversial businessman, Terry Waya; Central Bank top shot, Chike Moghalu; Guardian Newspapers boss, Maiden Ibru; oil magnate, Tonye Cole and his wife Sylva; musician Sammy Okposo; Koffi Sagoe; Yemi and Bimbo Cardoso; Ernest and Lizzy Ebi, among others.

  • She wants to use our daughter to get a second chance at marriage, but that could be deadly

    You’re doing a good job on your page; keep it up. Women can be irrational! How do you react to this? A woman leaves her hubby’s home in Kaduna, visits her mom in Port Harcourt, without the consent of her hubby.

    She was away for a month and barely two weeks of her return, she wanted to go back and she actually did. She was away again for one month.

    In the third week of her second trip, she sent an SMS- “Give me a divorce & I’ll send my siblings to pack my things.”

    I replied: “You only know what’s yours, not your siblings. be bold and pack by yourself. Before you finish packing, divorce note will be ready!”

    Eventually, she came back and I waited for her to pack. One month after, she returned. I was on the phone at about 8pm when she entered our bedroom and attacked me physically because I was talking to another zwoman. It took the man in me to free myself. In my life and 18 years of previous marriage, I never hit a woman, but in this attack, I had no other option. I taught her a lesson. After the attack, I divorced her after three years plus of marriage with a daughter. Now she wantsto use our daughter as a reason to come back. A second chance could be deadly. I want my daughter to have a dad!

     

    Dear brother, issues like this are delicate and I must be very objective in my response to you. Let’s take a look at all the intricate parts of your story before we sum them all up and arrive at a conclusion. I must however call your attention to the fact that this is a one-sided story and full of holes. It may take us knowing the other side to do justice to this problem. But since there is no other side of the story (yet), let me attempt to ask some questions and answer them at the same time.

    Question: What would make a married woman pack her things and go to her mother’s place so far away in Port-Harcourt all the way from Kaduna and stay for a whole month without her husband’s consent?

    Answer: It could be that the marriage has broken down so much that the woman doesn’t care about what the husband thinks anymore. They might have been having arguments over money or other such issues, keeping malice in the house or have stopped enjoying each other’s company.

    Question: What would make that same woman come back home and pack almost immediately back to her mother’s house and the husband is still not making an issue out of that? Meanwhile, she’s a Nigerian and the family members who should know about family and marriage values in the Nigerian context are aware of her frequent movements away from her husband’s house and none could call the man to speak with him on what was going on.Why would the mother for instance not even call the man to say hello and to announce that her daughter and granddaughter were with her on the two occasions that the daughter went home?

    Answer: It could mean only one thing, the wife’s family are well aware of the problems in the marriage. After all, the wife would have regaled them with different tales and they may have been biased. Let us not forget that that is their daughter and they would want to protect her by all means even if she is wrong.

    Question: What kind of man would just keep mute and allow his wife to stay just like that after she had threatened on the phone to come and pack her things without raising it with her and setting rules about such irresponsible movements between Kaduna and Port-Harcourt. And what kind of man would just take her back like that without ironing things out with her parents?

    Answer: You may think you’re a strong man by remaining calm in the midst of a storm, but you’re not that strong, I’m sorry to say. Even if within you, you’re aware that some of the problems in the marriage are pushing your wife away from you, one would have expected you to use the opportunity of her irrational movements to tackle it once and for all.

    Conclusion

    Two rights don’t make a wrong, so, there must be a frank roundtable discussion between you and this woman to identify where you both went wrong. You both must be able to come out truthfully about the factors that led to your separation and divorce in the first place. If you think you can take her back just like that, it would be like covering a bad wound without treating it; it will fester and cause worse damage. Be real about the emotional pains and the things that went wrong or got right when you were apart. NEVER come back to a bad marriage for the sake of children. If the underlying factors leading to problems are still visible, the children would be affected psychologically and may blame you for coming back.

    It’s a hard fact that some people are just not compatible and you cannot force that. More than anything pray about it and ask God for directions. Shun sentiments and don’t rush into going back together. Start afresh and go for dates as if you were meeting each other for the first time. Inject romance into the whole show and be truthful about finances. If she doesn’t have a job, get her something doing. Respect each other’s need for privacy and don’t go calling other women in her presence. God help you.

  • We operated with master keys and fake guns —Suspected robbery gang members

    We operated with master keys and fake guns —Suspected robbery gang members

    THE Lagos State Police Command has smashed a suspected robbery gang made up of panel beaters, drivers, car dealers, native doctors, private security men, auto mechanics, landlords, fake pastors and businessmen without fixed business addresses.

    Suspected members of the gang arrested by the police include Seyi Oyewale, Saheed Adebayo, Isa Adegbenro, Kayode Quadri, Afeez Ibrahim and Femi Ashiru. Others, including one Kazeem a.k.a. Naira and Alaba were said to be at large.

    Narrating his role in the series of robbery operations they allegedly carried out before their arrest, one of the suspects, Afeez Ibrahim a.k.a. Sharpman, a 35-year-old indigene of Odogbolu town, Ogun State said: “I am a panel beater. I was doing well in my job before I met Femi Ashiru (one of the suspects in police net).

    “I made so much money that I built a house of my own. I was contented with the money I made on a daily basis. I worked seven days in a week. The moment Femi came into my life, my character changed. I started lying to my customers. At times, I deliberately destroyed a part of a car and collected money from the owner to buy a tokunbo (fairly used) part to replace it.

    “At times, some customers would give me their cars to work on but Femi would advise me to sell it. He later started supplying me cars and jeeps snatched by his gang to sell. I became a receiver of stolen or vehicles.

    “Unfortunately, the new business I found myself doing dragged me into a lot of police cases. This affected my job as a panel beater. Hence, I abandoned the job and sold my house and other belongings in order to survive. When life became too difficult for me, I joined the gang and started going to robbery operations with them.”

    Asked how many vehicles he received from Femi before joining the gang, he said: “It was the devil that made me an armed robber and receiver of stolen cars. Somebody in our village made the charm against me to become a criminal. What happened to me was not ordinary. I was doing well but suddenly, I became a liar, cheating my customers. I became a receiver of stolen goods and eventually joined the gang.

    “In fact, I joined two gangs. The vehicles I received included Toyota Camry, which I sold for N200,000, and Toyota Muscle, which I sold for N600,000. I also received a 4-Runner Jeep from Kazeem and resold it for N450,000. My gain here was N50,000. Kazeem, known also as Baba Ope or Naira, is still at large.

    “I also sold a Toyota Highlander for N500,000 and gave the money to Kazeem, but till date, he did not give me a dime. He promised to give me the balance when I brought another car. I later brought a Hyundai and he gave me N30,000 only. I gave him a Rav4 which was sold for N350,000, but I was given only N20,000.

    Asked how he was arrested, he said: “Femi was first arrested by operatives of the Special Anti-Robbery Squad (SARS) of the Lagos State Police Command. He led them to my house and they saw me and arrested me.”

    The second suspect, Seye Oyewale a.k.a. Sheyi Campus (27), who hails from Osogbo, Osun State, said: “I am happily married with a set of twins. I was a member of the National Union of Road Transport Workers (NURTW) before I became an armed robber. But we don’t use real guns. We operated with fake guns and master keys.”

    Explaining how he joined a robbery gang, he said: “I was called by one guy called Alaba to follow him to Ifako Ijaiye area (Lagos) to rob in November last year. We were three in number, namely myself, Isa Adegbenro from Ogun State and Alaba. I reside at No. 5, Adara Martin Street, Agbelekale area, Oke-Odo.

    “When we reached Ifako at about 9 pm, we collected a Toyota Camry car parked by the road side. When the owner saw us and came to stop us, I used the fake gun to scare him away and zoomed off with his car. The man was forced out of the car and Isa drove it. We took the car to Afeez Ibrahim and he paid N150,000. I was given only N30,000 when the money was shared.

    “The second operation occurred at Oko-Oba Road. We snatched a Toyota Muscle car. The owner left the key at the ignition and went to buy something nearby. We took it to Afeez and collected N400,000, but I was not given a dime for my efforts. Isa gave the whole N400,000 to Afeez.

    “When I confronted Isa, he told me that Alaba collected my money for me. Alaba is still at large. Alaba is the gang leader and we operate at the Oko-Oba axis in Lagos.

    “I was the one who sold a Samsung handset to Sunday for N3,000. He was our regular handset buyer and receiver, but he did not follow us to operations. We heard that he had been charged to court because he was using the handset he bought from me and SARS operatives tracked him down.”

    The third suspect, Kayode Quadri (37), an indigene of Ilorin, Kwara State and resident of Oke Otauna, Ikorodu, said he was a driver at a secondary school in Otauna on a monthly salary of N25,000 before he joined the robbery gang.

    He said: “I joined the robbery gang because my salary was too poor. How can I manage N25,000? if I were a commercial bus driver or trailer driver, I would be getting more than N50,000 every month. If you see the insult I receive from teachers as school driver, you would pity me.

    “When I joined the gang, my role was to drive them to points of operation and bring them back. I still go to school to drive, depending on the time we fixed our robbery operation.”

    On how he joined the suspects, he said: “I know Saidi, Naira and Sharpman. We used to smoke Indian hemp at the same joint. One Sunday, I followed Sharpman and Naira to do one job (armed robbery) at Adama side, Ikorodu. I was their driver.

    “After robbing some people we had met on the road, we saw one man in a Toyota Highlander and stopped him, drove him away and zoomed off with his car. I was not paid a dime until I was arrested by operatives of SARS. That happened this January.

    “We drove a Honda Civic car to the robbery scene and snatched the Highlander. Afeez was both the receiver and one of the strikers. I was not given a dime because they told me that the Highlander jeep had not been sold. I was told that they were going to snatch a vehicle before I joined them. So, I was not forced to become a part of the action.”

    The fourth suspect, Isa Adegbenro a (27) from Abeokuta, Ogun State, who resides at 25, Musiliu Street, Agege, said he was an auto mechanic and driver. He said: “I am happily married with two children. I live in Oko Oba. SARS operatives arrested Seye and they used him to arrest me. I don’t know these people. They belong to another gang entirely. I belong to Alaba’s gang, though the police has not arrested Alaba. He is still our great gang leader.

    “Other members of our gang are Seye and Isa. We are a three-man gang and we operate around the Oko-Oba axis. There was a time we snatched a Toyota Camry and sold it for N150,000 to Afeez. I got only N35,000. We also snatched an ‘Orobo’ Toyota Camry, the one they call Toyota Muscle, and sold it for N400,000. I got N100,000.

    “I had my workshop at Pleasure Bus stop area, very close to Ile-Epo market before the owners of the land demolished our workshop and built a residential building and shops there. When I was chased away from there, I had no alternative but to join this gang in order to survive.

    “I vow that I will never operate with real gun because I had no intention of killing my victims. We used to use master keys and fake guns. Alaba is the gang leader and he does not use a gun. He uses master keys.

    The fifth suspect, 27-year-old Saidi Adebayo, who hails from Itamaga village, Ikorodu Lagos State, is married with a nine-month old baby. He said: “I am a plumber. I also dig borehole. I was on a playground in Itamaga area one evening when Kazeem came to meet me. He asked why I had decided to suffer like my father who did security work, because I was doing a security job at Mowonla.

    “It was there that I knew Kazeem, Afeez and Quadri, a wonderful native doctor. They asked me to follow them to go and do one work. I asked them what work but they said they would tell me the next day. They only said it was a job that would give me quick big money. The next day, he told me that the job was about collecting vehicles from people. I left in anger. He later called me on the phone but I refused to pick his call.

    “He came later and asked why I refused to pick his calls and I told him that he said I should join them to collect people’s cars and I could not do such a thing as a security man who was well known in the area. The Police later arrested me and I told them that I had resigned from armed robbery but I could still lead them to those who were still doing the job.

    “I met Kazeem, Alfa, Sharpman and Afeez about one and a half years ago. I had once followed them to snatch a car, but the car had an accident, which led to their arrest. They were charged to court and sent to Ikoyi Prison. I ran to Ugheli in Delta State and stayed with a tailor friend named Tony for some time. I came back when my wife gave birth to a baby boy. I resigned from armed robbery job and faced private security work at Mowanla land.

    “So, tell them that I am innocent because I did not participate in this case. The police declared me wanted when they charged my colleagues then. How can I be arrested because I was once an armed robber? I have repented. Let them release me.”

    The sixth suspect, Femi Ashiru (36), said he was a car dealer with his stand, FM Motors, in Ikorodu, Lagos State.

    He said: “I have an auto stand at Ikorodu. It is called FM Motors. I reside at Igbogbo Bayoku Road, Ikorodu.”

    Asked how he got his supplies, he said: “I do go to Cotonou to buy vehicles and resell in Nigeria. My sister, Mrs Dupe Fakua, who based in France, also sends cars to me to sell.”

    On when he started patronising car snatchers and armed robbers, he said: “I met Sharpman, Afeez and Ibrahim through a guy called Wale Polo, who is in detention right now for selling and receiving stolen cars from Sharpman. I knew Sharpman as a panel beater also.

    One day, he told me that a customer for whom he normally repaired cars used to bring cars for sale and they were very cheap. I told him that if it was the kind I liked, I would buy. He later brought one RAV4 jeep and I looked at the vehicle, tested it and found it okay. I paid him N450,000.

    “There were documents in the vehicle. The particulars were pasted on the windscreen. The insurance and road worthiness papers were all originals while other documents were in photocopies. He promised to bring the original copies of those ones later.

    “He also brought a 4Runner and I paid him N700,000, though it had no registration number or vehicle particulars. But he said it was not snatched. Another one he brought was a Toyota Camry car and I paid him N450,000. He later brought a Hyundai Santate jeep and I paid him N650,000.

    “He also brought a Toyota Camry 2010 model and I paid him N950,000. Although that one had no particulars, he assured me that it was genuine. He later confessed to me that the Camry 2010 model was snatched. Therefore, when he brought a Highlander Jeep, I refused to buy it. I told him to take it away, but instead of taking it away, he went and parked it at my house and said he would remove it later. He covered it with tarpaulin.

    “When policemen arrested me in my office, I told them on our way to the police station that there was one jeep that was parked in my house, which I had told them to come and take away but they refused, and I could not report them to the police because they are dangerous with guns.”

    He said he later took the police to Sharpman, the supplier of the vehicles’ house and he was arrested in his house at Agufoye area, a new site in Ikorodu. He was the only member of the gang he claimed to know.

     

  • ‘FG should sign BASA agreement with Israel’

    The Chairman of the Nigerian Christian Pilgrims Commission (NCPC), Most Rev. Nicholas D Okoh, has called on the Federal Government to sign a Bilateral Air Service Agreement ((BASA) with Israel to reduce the number of hours spent by pilgrims, while travelling to Israel. Okoh made this call, while presenting the reports of the 2012 pilgrimage to the Secretary to the Federal Government (SFG), Chief Pius Anyim.

    He told the SGF that a total of 16,000 pilgrims were airlifted during the 2012 pilgrimage exercise, but would have been more but for the flood disaster in the country last year which prevented most states from participating.

    The Chairman also stated that the commission had two pilgrimages last year, the Easter and the October-December pilgrimages. He explained that those states which could not meet up with the deadline for payment for the December pilgrimage last year would be accommodated in this year’s Easter pilgrimage.

    The Chairman who described last year’s pilgrimage exercise as successful and flawless”, said this was possible because of the excellent relationship the commission had with the stakeholders. He added that the zero-mortality rate recorded last year was due to the thorough screening exercise embarked by the commission to ensure that only intending pilgrims who met the set criteria were selected for the exercise. However, he regretted the death of one pilgrim who died as a result of ill health.

    He revealed that some of the challenges the commission faced during the period under review was the heightened security situation at Sinai Peninsula which prevented pilgrims from visiting the area based on expert advice from the Nigerian Embassy officials in Israel.

    Most Revd Okoh did not forget to mention the issue of signing the Bilateral Air Service Agreement (BASA) with the State of Israel which he described as “reoccurring”. His words, “BASA is reoccurring. If this agreement is entered into, it will reduce the journey by almost four hours. According to him, “this is the major appeal in the report”.

    Chief Anyim, while receiving the report, commended the NCPC for the zero-mortality level recorded during the 2012 Christian pilgrimage exercise to Israel and Rome.

    The SGF regretted the flood incident in the country last year which he described as unprecedented which had adverse effects on the participation of some states in the last year’s pilgrimage exercise. He was optimistic that this year’s pilgrimage exercise would be better and devoid of such natural disaster.

    Chief Anyim equally commended the NCPC for the progress made in the ongoing pilgrims reception camp being constructed at the NCPC corporate headquarters. He promised to inform the President about it and the need to ensure that the project is completed as seheduled.

    He also assured the NCPC board that the critical issue of the Bilateral Air Service Agreement (BASA) with the state of Israel would soon be a thing of the past. According to him “the issue of the BASA by this time next year will not be a factor”.

    The NCPC Chairman led the delegation to the SGF for the submission of the 2012 Christian pilgrimage report. He was accompanied by the Executive Secretary of NCPC, Mr. John Kennedy Opara.

  • About  Dangote’s new addition

    About Dangote’s new addition

    Alhaji Aliko Dangote, Nigeria’s acclaimed wealthiest businessman, appears to be dashing ahead of his peers with the speed of light. The Kano-born business mogul recently consolidated his reputation as Africa’s richest man as he took delivery of a new yacht worth $23 million. The custom-made luxury yacht arrived in Nigeria a few days ago and currently sits in front of Femi Otedola’s Zenon Place on Walter Carrington Crescent, Victoria Island, Lagos.

    Named Mariya, the yacht is a 2013 edition. His company, Dangote Group, has become a giant with sculptured physique and boundless energy. It enjoys the front seat in many sectors, and business experts say its assets can only be calculated with the aid of the most sophisticated adding machine. He was rated Africa’s richest man 2012 by Forbes magazine last year, with a net worth of $11.2 billion.

  • Gbemi Saraki charts fresh course

    Gbemi Saraki charts fresh course

    Senator Gbemi Saraki, the delectable daughter of the late godfather of Kwara politics, Dr. Olusola Saraki, is currently enjoying life to the fullest even though she is said to be missing her late father and confidant.

    She had recoiled into her shell after losing the 2011 governorship election. The election was said to have taken a lot out of her, but the affable young woman is also said to be content that she gave a good account of herself in the contest.

    While the campaigns lasted, she had made not a few enemies from those who at some point wanted her silenced. Family sources informed Happenstances that she has finally settled the political tiff between her and her elder brother and former governor of Kwara State, Senator Bukola Saraki. At the moment, the duo are said to be working together towards reviving their family bank.

    We gathered that the former Societe Generale Bank Nigeria (SGBN) owned by the late Olushola Saraki, which had its licence revoked by the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) some years ago, resumed operations last Tuesday with a new trade name, Heritage Bank. Happenstances gathered that the bank has already poached many of the top bankers in the industry from the existing banks.

  • The real secret of my success – Olanipekun

    The real secret of my success – Olanipekun

    Former President, Nigerian Bar Association (NBA), Chief Wole Olanipekun, a Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN) is not happy that Nigeria, despite its endowments, is still tottering. He bares his mind in this interview with Assistant Editor DADA ALADELOKUN. He also clears the air on some insinuations around his philanthropic gestures as well as his professional practice. Excerpts:

    Keen watchers of Nigeria ‘s democratic odyssey are quick to give the judiciary knocks over its role so far. What is your view as a stakeholder?

    The judiciary in Nigeria has fared fairly well. However, I must confess that we could have done better, but when you consider all the extenuating factors, one cannot but say that the judiciary has fared considerably well. In governmental nomenclature, we have the executive, the legislature and the judiciary. Without any fear of contradiction, of all the three, the judiciary is the best. Our judiciary is overwhelmed and afflicted by the problems it did not initiate. For now, there will be political lull in the United States of America for two and a half years or more, except when you go to the Capitol where there will be debates on national issues. But here, right from the day Jonathan and the other governors were sworn in on May 29, 2011 , the struggle for 2015 started and at the end of it all, the unfortunate victim is the judiciary.

    But let me say this as a lawyer; the person we have as the Chief Justice of Nigeria (CJN) now, I think, we are lucky to have her there. I don’t go to her office because I don’t patronise people. But I know that she is not bendable; she is not a woman that will take dictations from anybody. She is not politically inclined and she is not a respecter of any person, powers or principality. So, having her at the helm of affairs strengthens people’s hope in the judiciary.

    Practitioners in the echelon must not hobnob with the bad eggs in the society because you and I have transferred our independence and sovereignty to them. Ultimate justice is of God but they represent Him on earth. And for anybody who will occupy the seat of a judge, he must not make conscious mistakes.

    By your assessment, is that all about the ills plaguing the arm?

    There must be precedents and that is where I have reservations about the judiciary in the country. There must be certainty in law to some extent. More often than not, now, precedents seem to have no place in judicial decisions and this is worrisome. But I am happy that the Supreme Court is trying to address it.

    Another worrisome trend is the way our judges are being appointed as if they are state commissioners. These are people who will be invested with the power of life and death over fellow human beings. Lobbying should not be a factor. The Supreme Court should open its doors and windows to the very best in the profession in order to give room for a confluence of ideas that with strengthen the sector, all in the overall interest of the people. There are a lot of issues to be addressed. When a client brings his case to a lawyer, it is unethical for the latter to say, ‘you will win this case.’ I will always study your case and if I have a positive feeling, I would say, ‘your case is not frivolous; we will try our best.’

    But the issue of corruption is still there…

    When you talk of corruption, you talk of bad eggs; you talk of people who should not be there. Such a situation ought not to have arisen at all because it is a very delicate position vested with enormous power and authority over you and I. The President of Nigeria will say he is the Commanded-in-Chief of the Armed Forces of Nigeria. But he cannot say that I have contravened the laws of the land and therefore, I must be killed; he cannot say that.

    But the Constitution has invested somebody with that power to say, ‘with the evidence before me, you have been found guilty; therefore, you are sentenced to death.’ I therefore won’t buy the argument in some quarters that because our judges live within the Nigerian environment, automatically, they must be inflicted with the virus of corruption; it is nonsensical. The judiciary must be independent.

    Is it the same picture both at the federal and state levels of the arm?

    Let me say this that the judiciary at the federal level is by far freer than the judiciary at the lower levels, especially the state. A good number of the governors see the High Courts in their states as appendages of their offices; that is not good enough. Sadly, we keep on talking about the Federal Government to our own peril when we are talking of the judiciary. Nobody makes a microscopic foray into what happens at the states.

    Look at what happened in Kwara; the state House of Assembly and the executive removed a Chief Judge and nobody raised an eyebrow. The Chief Judge was already booted out, though she later went to the Supreme Court for justice. Nobody sympathised with her. Everyday is always awash with what happens at the federal level when worst things happen at the state level.

    On corruption, we focus on what happens at the federal level without considering what goes on at the state and local government levels because our federalism is an aberration.

    So, whether it is about corruption, education, judiciary and what have you, we must consider things globally and generally without a biased focus on the federal level. I am from Ekiti; the state used to be the bastion of cocoa production when we were growing up. I had my education through proceeds from cocoa; my father did not borrow a dime from anybody to train me. But where are the cocoa trees not in our country? When we were growing up till mid-60s, there was only one Federal Government school in the Western Region-Government College and Queens College , both in Ibadan .

    We all attended public and mission schools; where are they today? In our life time, where are the virtues that we keyed into while growing up? Where are the teachers? Where are the role models? Where are the politicians? Many youths today may not know how great people like Enahoro and Akintola were. To some, Akintola was only versatile in Yoruba language. Go through the archives and see how Awolowo, as the leader of opposition, would marshal his research-rooted points. Are we improving? No. Shakespeare would say that ‘the fault is not in our stars but in our selves.’

    Let us look at the whole noise about the absentee governors that is causing uproar in the country today…

    It is the height of irresponsibility. In the Book of Isaiah, God asked, ‘Who should I send?’ Prophet Isaiah said, ‘Here I am, send me.’ But in our own country, you see people saying they had a dream or heard a voice to serve as governor, forcing themselves on the people, begging them. Some would say, ‘oh, God has told me to contest,’ as if He is their fiefdom. So, if you volunteer to throw your heart into the ring in a bid to serve your people, it is, unequivocally, irresponsible for you not to be at your seat for four months.

    And sad enough, the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) is urging us to sympathise with them. Why did they not say that during the case of Yar’Adua? And in any event, the constitution does not want anybody to sympathise with it. The constitution makes it clear that for any political office, especially, there shall not be a vacancy for a split second! Yakowa, the late Kaduna State governor died in that unfortunate crash. Even before his remains were taken to Kaduna , his deputy was sworn in because political offices, like nature, abhor a vacuum.

    Look at the case of Chime in Enugu . The position of Chime is not peculiar to him. He is a colleague of mine but we must say the truth in the interest of our nation. It is only a monarch that says, ‘this position is ours until we die.’ I had been out of the country for some days; so, I would not know if his deputy whom he purportedly handed over to, has presented a budget. The entire state has been held to ransom because of an individual. See what the state has been suffering and we are all looking as if nothing has happened.

    But if it were to happen at the federal level, the whole country would have literally been on fire. It is worrisome that Nigeria does not have a system; we are running people’s affairs like a game of chess. You practise whatever catches your fancy and impose it on the people. We in Africa always say ‘yes, a black man is the President of America; who told you? Yes, Obama may be, but his orientation and character are American; his focus is American; his conscience is American because there is an enduring system there. Anybody can live in America and be President because you cannot change the system. The same Bible with which the first President of America took his oath is still there. The seat of power is still there. Nobody will sell it off and say they are monetising.

    But the Enugu Assembly should have acted appropriately; don’t you think so?

    Oh yes; but they are not doing their job. The National Assembly is far more independent than all the state Houses of Assembly combined. They are lily-livered. Many go into the Assembly without any idea or ideology. All they need is a sponsor whose bidding they will get there to do. Now, people are talking about 2015; it is going to be the same old story. I am not an incurable pessimist; I am a realist.

    You sound not too comfortable with the situation of things in the country…

    Oh, yes! We are running an unhealthy system. And bad enough, the constitution is in a terrible state of health. It is amusingly worsened by the ongoing attempt by the National Assembly to revamp it; but the effort will take us nowhere. We have to sit down to chart a new course for our future. Let us forget about the contentious word, ‘sovereign’ and let us sit down to talk. We must not allow the disintegration of this polity. Look at the argument about state police. Some would say the governors will use it to haunt their enemies or opponents; is the President using it against his perceived enemies now? Who says my home town, Ikere, does not deserve its own police? This is the surest way to ensure security of lives and property in the country. Do we have political parties? All we have are groups without ideologies. I respect personalities but the general run of the dramatis personae in our political arena today is there to capture power without any clear-cut intention to serve the people.

    The Federal Government would say they want to ‘capture’ Lagos. Party ‘A’ would say ‘we want to capture this ‘state’. Rather than argue based on facts and criticise, our politicians would be cursing themselves; and this is among why people like us run away from politics. It is disheartening the word, ‘capture’ has assumed pre-eminence in our political lexicon. These are among the issues that have coalesced into an Albatross on our neck.

    Based on your experience as a lawyer, has it been happening in your professional constituency?

    Woe betides any lawyer that would tell a client, ‘give me some money to give a judge.’ I cannot say I have not heard it; but it is alien to our practice in my chambers. A lawyer must be sure-footed and creative. He must be a doctor, a psychologist; he must be the melting pot of all the professions. Above all, he must be close to God and always ask for the wisdom of the Holy Spirit. If God gives you wisdom, your opponents and adversaries will say you are cutting corners of using juju. Here, we employ knowledge and fidelity to law and what is good. And in any event, we don’t win all our cases; we lose some.

    I thank God because this is what I prayed for when I was going into this profession. The only Congress for Progressive Change (CPC) governor in Nigeria , I led the team for his defence in Nasarawa, from the Tribunal up to the Supreme Court. Yet, I was counsel to Jonathan against CPC. Despite that, CPC had confidence in me. I’m happy; I’m enjoying my profession.

    The Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) and PDP are not the best of friends. On November 21, 2011 , the Federal Government charged Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, the ACN national leader before the Code of Conduct Tribunal. Three months before the charge was served on Tinubu – a brilliant, very sagacious man – he had called me and Yemi Osinbajo and put us into confidence. He said, ‘Wole, my friend, you will handle the situation.’ I led his very formidable team to ask the Tribunal to discharge and acquit him. I finished my submission around 12.30 pm that day. By 2.30 pm same day, I was in the courtroom of the Court of Appeal in the same Abuja to join my colleagues on the leadership of the defence team of the Jonathan election petition. It was the same day; defending Tinubu in the morning and Jonathan in the afternoon. That is the joy of the profession. I heard from the rumour mill that some people went to tell Jonathan that Wole is Tinubu’s friend and so on, but Jonathan reportedly told them: ‘Leave Wole; I have implicit confidence in him; the man will never compromise your case.’ If you know your onions, research well, conduct yourself well, refrain from abusing judges but not necessarily patronising him, with solid facts, your case is sure.

    Of recent, I have been lucky to lead very formidable teams of equally good, if not better lawyers than myself. But the defence would say, ‘come and lead the team.’ And they have been cooperating with me. I am a triangular person from my house, to my office and back home. I’m a member of the Island Club and many others, but the time is not there for me to club. The earliest time I leave office daily is 8 pm . I go to bed earliest by 11 pm . With the help of the Holy Spirit, I naturally wake up by 2 am everyday to read for three hours after fervent prayers and meditation. When I was young, I had dreamt of becoming a workaholic and successful practitioner like Chief FRA William. This has remained part of me and a secret of my modest accomplishment.

    Many still wonder how you cope, defending clients of opposing political leanings…

    Although I work for President Jonathan, I don’t go to Aso Rock; I’m not a contractor. Tinubu respects me and I respect him too. That would not have anything to do with my defence of Mimiko (Ondo State governor) in any electoral dispute. Apart from being my friend, he is my soul-mate. When my mother was alive, I would be in Ilorin ; he would leave his town, Ondo, for my house at Ikere and my mother would cook for him. He is one of my few friends who have shared same bed with me. The process of Mimiko becoming governor started when both of us were commissioners in the old Ondo State in 1992/93. I constituted and led the team of his election petition four years ago. We have been that close. He respects me and he will dare not ask me about my association with Tinubu or others. I don’t do the politics of my clients; I handle my job uncompromisingly. For me, my career is a covenant. If I have chosen to handle a

  • He says the other girl will go with time

    Good evening, I am in a relationship with a guy who has another girl.

    Though last year he asked me to be his girlfriend and I refused but I had feelings for him. It was after that, that he started dating the girl. Now we are together he says it is not for him to tell the girl it is over and he says the girl will go with time. He is always saying he loves me. I don’t know if he really loves me but I love him very much that anytime I think of breaking up with him I feel like I will lose my heart. What should I do? I do not want to share my guy anymore. – Destiny.

     

    My Yoruba people have a saying that what you will eventually put in your mouth should not first be smelled dispassionately. While you were still trying to perceive the guy’s smell, someone else took him away. Too bad!

    I don’t know how old you are and how old the boyfriend is because age matters when we’re advising people on matters of this nature. If you’re both adults and at that age when one should start thinking seriously about marriage, then you have to decide now whether you want to play along with this game the guy is playing. It’s obvious he finds the other girl too interesting, if not, she would have left the moment she has a whiff of you, and if she is not one to give up easily, she would have started causing the guy enough trouble to make him either leave her or reduce the time he spends with you in order to satisfy her.

    The guy might be telling her he loves her too, after all, they started before you made up your mind. And if there’s no reason to send her away, he might just be bidding his time before he chooses one of you or even another girl you’re not aware of; that is if he’s ripe enough for marriage. That is the world of men – they are polygamous in nature.

    You can’t afford to blackmail him that you will leave. If you really want to, simply walk away without making any fuss about it. If you want to stay on, it is your own decision. Only time will tell what happens to you in this relationship.

  • How do I handle men

    Deola, a young lady I met recently with whom I became very friendly asked me, “How do I handle men that keep running after me everywhere?”

    – Yinka, Minna.

    Dear Yinka, please tell that young girl that women in their sixties who look good are still being chased everywhere they go by men, so it is normal for the attention of a young girl to be sought by men of all ages.

    Tell her to bask in the euphoria of being admired and asked out, but never to get carried away. Also tell her that if she wants to choose, she should choose wisely and let her know that a girl is entitled to only one man.

    She should be nice to people generally and should know when a man is becoming a nuisance enough to ignore him.

  • Is oil thicker than blood?

    Is oil thicker than blood?

    In a film, Delta Boys, an American, Andrew Berends, traces the Niger Delta struggles. He looks at the region’s challenges through the lense of former militant leader Ateke Tom. Berends, who was once held hostage by militants, writes from the position of one who could be described as an ‘insider’, having observed certain things first hand. But his documentary is generating heat as some Niger Deltans perceive it as derogatory. Victor Akande reports

    It is the goose that lays the golden egg. Then something snapped, and the oil-rich Niger Delta erupted in violence. The agitations are yet to cease despite the amnesty for militants by the Yar’ Adua administration in 2009. The woes of the region were brought home when the militant groups across the creeks, started abducting expatriates, blowing up oil installations and seizing control of oil flow stations.

    This action by the inhabitants (who are fishermen and farmers), over alleged neglect by government and its multinational partners disrupted the region’s economic activities.

    Some film makers saw the potential of a motion picture, as a tool of international mediation and have captured the dramatic moments of the rebel camps, from various points of view.

    Jeta Amata’s film Black Gold is one. It once made it to the film market segment of Cannes International Film Festival, France. It addresses the sufferings of inhabitants. The award-winning filmmaker was said to have fled the country at a time, claiming to have been threatened by a group which felt he did not make adequate consultation on the true state of affairs in the area.

    Another effort is coming from Andrew Berends, an American documentary filmmaker, who was arrested and charged with spying in Nigeria in 2008, while working on a film about militants in the Niger Delta.

    Whereas Amata’s account may have offended the supposed disgruntled leaders who have been playing politics with the people’s lives, as captured in the film, Berends’ film, on the other hand, may be seen to offend the advocates of the struggle. According to the American, the militants have called for greater distribution of wealth and jobs. But many feel that while the Niger Delta cause is just, the militants’ motives are not so pure.

    Changing the film’s title from Black Gold, which seems to debase the essence of the struggle, to Black November, which underscores the bloody climax of the agitation, is a better way to present the story of Nigeria’s wealth tussle. But critics are querying the pay off in Berends’ movie that “oil is thicker than blood”. They reason that Berends’ position makes a mockery of the maxim: “Blood is thicker than water”.

    Since negative stories from Africa and other developing countries constituted a chunk of the archival materials for the western media, the story of the struggle, beginning with the stunt pulled by pioneer armed Niger-Delta activist, Major Isaac Adaka Boro to the late Ken Saro Wiwa saga and the activities of militants who now enjoy amnesty, has continued to attract attention.

    Berends, who hit the limelight during his 10-day ordeal and the campaign to secure his release, is obviously fulfilled at the moment: the resulting documentary, Delta Boys, was released online a few weeks ago.

    The 55-minute film was largely shot inside the camp of the rebel leader, Ateke Tom, who at the time led 2,000 young men, claiming to fight for the people. A slice-of-life production with minimal narration and a smattering of news reports for context, Delta Boys doesn’t present alternate points of view, though Berends raises the question of whether the militants are in it for justice or just for money and violence.

    Delta Boys follows the lives of militant “godfather” Ateke Tom and Chima, a 21-year-old who left home to join the fight. The film also shows life in a tiny fishing village caught in the crossfire of the conflict. Mama, a 22-year-old, struggles to give birth without access to modern medical care, while rebels launch raids from a camp across the river.

    Berends said the struggle in the Niger Delta caught his attention, because of its relation to oil, a subject on which he had earlier shot two films in Iraq: “I had seen striking images of heavily armed militants moving throughout the creeks of the Niger Delta in speedboats, sabotaging flow-stations, blowing up pipelines, and kidnapping foreign oil-workers. I researched the story and learned that while Nigeria is the fifth largest supplier of oil to the United States, the inhabitants of the oil-producing Niger Delta region live in poverty. So, I travelled to Nigeria to try to meet the militants, and start my next film,” says the filmmaker.

    But what is the position of Ateke Tom on the essence of the struggle? he shares his thoughts on some of the issues revolving around the situation with the E4PR team, with which this reporter visited his Lagos home.

    “We fought because we couldn’t bear the continued injustice any longer,” he says, as he opens up to the interviewer in his tastefully furnished Ajah home, close to the highbrow Lekki in Lagos.

    “We decided to take up the struggle because if we didn’t, our children would face the same problems and blame us for doing nothing about it. The situation was very unfair and something other than talk, which had hitherto fallen on deaf ears, had to be done.” He speaks calmly in pidgin, his expression almost hard to decipher behind gold rimmed dark shades.

    “Of course, for now, amnesty is in place, and that’s why we have decided to give peace a chance in order for the government and others concerned, to redress the wrongs done by many years of untold hardships and pains.”

    Now living as a free man, after embracing the amnesty, he spends most of his days attending to guests, friends, business associates and the like, who throng his home daily.

    Life in the creeks, however, had its fun moments, which he relives with nostalgia.

    “Life in the camp was fun,” he says to the guests, as he calls one of the boys to play us a video. “Sometimes in a bid to relieve tension and to boost morale, we used to have sessions where we ‘gyrated’ to drum beats and singing. Even the soldiers (Joint Task Force (JTF) meant to combat the ‘freedom fighters’) afar off could hear our voices and singing from deep within the hearts of the creeks but could do nothing about it’; here he manages a smile.

    “Some other times, we had girls, lots of them, coming in from the nearby university, who came of their own volition to make the camp lively. If I was indeed a bad person who cut off human heads and killed at will as some would have you believe, would that have happened?” He has worked himself up to a state of excitement now as he remembers some of the unfounded stories about him.

    “I was made out to be a beast, a terror and an unfeeling machine, who mowed people down whenever I felt like. But even you have seen for yourself the kind of person I am,” he looked across everyone in the living room.

    Indeed, it was clear, from the video recordings and interviews conducted on him in camp, that Ateke, has an amiable side that attracts people to him. And as described in one of the editions of The Nation newspaper, the ex-militant, or ‘freedom fighter’ as he prefers to be called, is a Nollywood friendly lion.

    During this reporter’s visit to his home, a number of Nollywood stars were spotting having pleasant time with him. Interestingly, some of the videos of activities in the creek were shot by notable Nollywood filmmakers and actors.

    But it appears that the bargains for amnesty have not finally been met; an indication that film sequels on the struggle may still be forthcoming. The amnesty programme, he said, has not finally settled the grievances that led to the insurgency in the first place. ‘They (government) said they were going to train the boys and give them good jobs; up till now, not much has been done.

    “In my own case, after having been granted amnesty, why then am I still being hunted? My house in Okrika was raided and bombarded by soldiers who were looking for Ateke Tom. I used to have a lot of dogs there too, but one day, they came and shot all of them, because when they didn’t see me, they assumed I had turned to one of them and decided to kill them all.” There was laughter across the room.