Category: Saturday Magazine

  • ‘FTAN committed to Investors’ Forum 2013’

    The Federation of Tourism Associations of Nigeria [FTAN] has held its council meeting with the federation restating its readiness to leave no stone unturned to ensure the success of its proposed “Nigeria Tourism Investors Forum” scheduled to hold this year.

    The meeting, which was well attended, brainstormed on the way forward for the tourism industry, most critically the much-talked about “Tourism Intervention Fund” which is yet to see the light of the day.

    Apart from discussing the Tourism Investment Forum which the council hopes when approved and operational, it will bring relief to operators that have been left alone unlike other sectors of the economy that several billions of naira has been pumped into.

    Chief Sam Alabi, President of the federation, assured the council that necessary contacts are still being made within and outside the sector to ensure that the issue of intervention fund is given the deserved attention.

    He informed council members that, going by the information made available by the Federal Ministry of Tourism, Culture and National Orientation, the approval by President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan had no government seed money, unlike as done for many other sections.

    According to him, the position of the Federal Government on the sector’s intervention fund of not making money available and that the fund be put together through local and international donors is unacceptable for a sector that has created so much jobs and still doing to be treated with such levity.

    The federation’s zonal vice presidents also took time, one after the other, to brief the council on situation and progress reports of what have been done, what are still being done and what should be the focus in the coming years.

    FTAN urged the government to quickly address the issue of intervention fund for the sector because of the difficulties its members are facing, especially those who are paying heavy interests on loans that the current level of occupancy in most troubled areas across the country cannot support its repayment.

  • Aero wins Best Domestic Airline Award

    Aero, the leading e-air line in West Africa has been awarded the Best Domestic Airline of the Year 2012 by the Transport and Society Weekly newspaper at its 2012 Transport Stakeholders Excellence Awards held at the Sheraton Hotel and Towers Ikeja, Lagos.

    This came barely a month after the airline won the Best West African Airline of the Year 2012 Award at the West African Tourism and Hospitality Awards (WATHAWARDS).

    Aero was awarded the Best Domestic Airline of the Year 2012 based on its existing record of safety and excellent customer satisfaction in air transport industry.

    According to the organizers, “The Excellence Award was instituted to promote excellence and selfless service to fatherland with a view to encourage the rapid development of the transport sector by recognizing outstanding transport stakeholders who have exhibited unparalleled professional standards.” Aero was selected after an extensive survey through advertisements in The Punch and in-house research of The Transport and Weekly Journal team.

    Commenting on the award, the Acting Managing Director of Aero, Mr. Obaro Solomon Ibru, said: “We are pleased to have won the Best Domestic Airline of the Year Award.

    “Only recently, we won the Best West African Airline of the Year 2012 Award at the West African Tourism and Hospitality Awards. Our focus is to become the leading e-airline in Africa and these awards represent a true recognition of the frontline products and services that Aero is delivering to its customers.

  • Sheraton Abuja Hotel marks year with party

    In line with the Sheraton brand philosophy, “life is better when shared”, the theme, “Christmas is better when shared”, the hotel’s staff converged at the coconut beach for an end of the year party.

    Part of the packages included drinks, a delightful buffet set up with peppered meat, chicken, salads, fried and jollof rice, peppersoup, prawns, fried and roasted fish to mention a few.

    A variety of awards were presented such as “Champion of the Year, Happiest Man of the Year and Supervisor of the Year.”

    The spotlight of the event was the special guest appearance of Charley Boy aka Area Fada to the venue.

    Charley Boy inspired the staff with words of encouragement and praise for good performance for the year.

    The climax of the event came with the raffle draw which ushered in winners of various items such as washing machines, 42 LCD lat screens, Deep Freezers, Refrigerators, fans, split unit AC’s, Water dispensers, ovens, microwaves and furniture amongst others.

    The General Manager of Sheraton Abuja Hotel, Boris Bornman in his closing speech lauded associates for their diligence, hard work and resilience through the year as he wished associates a merry Christmas and a prosperous New Year.

  • Lagosians welcome 2013 with mega concert

    The newly reclaimed Eko Atlantic City played host to the biggest cross-over party in Africa as the bouquet of activities created by the Lagos State government to mark the Lagos Countdown 2012 went into full gear on New Year eve.

    Part of the high points of the months of preparations for the Lagos Countdown event being driven by the Lagos State Signage and Advertisement Agency (LASAA) was the arrival of experts brought in by the state government to manage the spectacular fireworks and for the first time in Africa, a lazer beam and water projection display to herald Lagos into the New Year.

    Managing Director, Lagos State Signage and Advertisement Agency, LASAA, George Noah, who met with newsmen, while inspecting facilities for the fireworks, laser beam and water projection display at the Eko Atlantic City, venue of the event, hinted that “the strategic intent for hosting the event was to put Lagos on the global tourism map in the league of cities as New York, London, Sydney, Paris, Los Angelis and other major destinations that will be commemorating the crossover into the year 2013 in spectacular ways.”

    He further added that, “what the agency is doing on behalf of the state government is leveraging the proposition of Lagos as a premium destination for business and leisure.” The Bar Beach end of the Eko Atlantic City became a beehive of major commercial and leisure activities thronged by thousands of domestic and foreign tourists who are entertained every evening by different artistes at the instance of Nigerian Breweries Plc, one of the sponsors of the event who give away various mouth-watering freebees night after night.

    The celebration officially began on December 20, 2012 as the Lagos State Governor, Babatunde Fashola officially “switched on” the Lagos Festival of Lights, heralding the holiday season.

    In his remark at the flag-off ceremony, the governor said the Lagos Countdown was conceived to create an end-of- year crossover tradition that engages citizens of the state, tourists and investors throughout the end of year holiday season.

    “This year, Lagos State will be amongst many global cities and states that will be under much focus and attention as we march on from December 31, 2012 into the New Year. It would be a new year unlike any before, as we will be celebrating in Lagos with the whole of the world participating with us,”he said.

    Over 100,000 people converged on the Eko Atlantic City on the year’s eve to welcome the New Year in the true Lagos style, while millions of people experienced the event via the mass media as well as the social media.

    The Lagos Countdown activities came to a climax with a thrilling display of spectacular fireworks, laser beam and water projection as never seen before in the entire continent of Africa. This was preceded and followed by rich musical performances led by an array of A-list Nigerian artistes which included Tu Face Idibia, Dbanj, Tiwa Savage, Olamide, MI, Burma Boy, Ice Prince, Brymo, Dr. Sid, Durella, Jessy Jagz, amongst others. Other activities billed for the cross-over night included an interdenominational prayer session for Lagos State amongst other side attractions.

  • I’m already in love

    For certain reasons, I couldn’t see my dad for two whole years. I must say that it was really tormenting thinking about what my dad would be thinking of me all those days and moths, which turned into two years that I didn’t travel down to see him.

    Even my sister, Dolapo and my other siblings who live abroad have never missed seeing him in any given year. I tried to make up by making the occasional calls to him, but it wasn’t the same. Seeing one’s parents as they grow older is very important and so, the guilt of not seeing and rubbing minds with him was much. I finally made the trip down to Ibadan last week to see my dad and the joy on his face at seeing me was so much I wanted to cry. As a matter of fact, he was still talking about me when I came. He immediately asked them to slaughter chickens and we all had a feast of his favourite ground rice and vegetable.

    My dad, as usual went into the story of how he met my mother years back and I listened once again to the love story. Many events came up and I found myself going to see dad over the next three days. The highlight of it was the blessing I got at the end of the visit. Coincidentally, the prayer session for me came just a few hours before the New Year. So here I am with no resolutions for the year and no grand plans except to follow up on unfinished job of last year and set new goals for the year, but I’m already in love with the year 2013. Entering a new year with parental blessings, to me, is a great way of facing all the uncertainties the year may present. I pray that all of us will have the blessings of God and have a very happy year. Happy New Year!

  • Putting your relationship on the front burner in 2013 Ngozi’s story

    Ngozi and her husband had been together for over five years when she realized that they were growing apart. They barely saw each other anymore between the demands of their careers and raising their two year old twin boys, and, when they did see each other, it seemed like all they did was snap at one another.

    Ngozi missed the way their relationship had once been and wanted things to be different. She worked up the courage to talk to her partner who, much to her surprise, felt the same way.

    They decided to make their relationship a priority and agreed to make some changes in order to make this happen. They started by setting aside some time to spend together two nights each week after their boys went to bed and decided to go out as a couple once a month.

    At first, Ngozi and her husband felt a little awkward spending time together. They weren’t sure what they should talk about or do, but stuck with it and were able to come up with some ideas to try. They gradually noticed that they were arguing less and felt more connected than they had in years. Today Ngozi and her husband feel that the time and effort they put into making their relationship a priority has helped them have the kind of satisfying and loving relationship they always wanted.

    The Lesson

    It is normal for people to occasionally let their relationships slide to the back burner but it can cause problems if you let it stay there for too long. 3 easy steps you can take to make your relationship priority are:

    1. Invest in your relationship

    2. Make time for your relationship

    3. Spend your time wisely

    Next Steps

    Take what you have learned in this article and consider whether your relationship is currently a priority in your life. If not, try the suggestions given in this article to see if they help. Please seek the help of a qualified professional if you need or want support while making these changes or if you feel your situation is not improving despite your efforts.

    Is Your Relationship on the Back Burner?

    When was the last time you spent time with your partner? I don’t just mean being in the same physical space, like being in the same room together while one of you plays on the computer and the other watches television. I mean REALLY spent time together talking, enjoying each other’s company, and connecting emotionally with one another. Take a minute and give it some thought…

    If you couldn’t come up with an answer or if the answer you came up with was so far in the past that you can barely remember it, then its probably safe to say that your relationship has been put on the back burner and is not currently a top priority in your life.

    Why is this a problem?

    Just as when a pan is left unattended on a hot stove, leaving your relationship on the back burner for too long will eventually cause your relationship problems to boil over and make a huge mess. Couples who do not make their relationship a priority tend to feel less invested in their relationship, feel distant and disconnected from one another, and argue more frequently which, in turn, can lead to couples making their relationship even less of a priority.

    How did this happen?

    If you are like most people, you stay busy trying to juggle the demands of whatever you have going on in your life. There are deadlines to be met at work and/or school, children to be cared for, endless chores to be done, and so on… Among all of these competing demands for your time and resources, relationships often get put on the back burner because the short-term consequences for not attending to them tend to be far less immediate and negative than the consequences that go along with not attending to these other things. You are probably highly motivated to make your job a priority because you need to work in order to get paid, but your partner will most likely still be there for you even if you don’t spend much quality time together…right?

    Another reason why relationships tend to get put on the back burner is because dealing with them can be painful. When problems exist in the relationship, it is sometimes easier for people to distance themselves from their partners than it is to try and re-connect with them.

    What you can do…

    Making your relationship a priority is an essential part of moving your relationship off of the back burner. Here are 3 tips to help you do this.

    1. Invest in your relationship. Your relationship, like everything else in life worth having, requires an investment of your time and effort in order for it to be as good as it can possibly be. Recognize that your relationship is unlikely to magically or spontaneously improve on its own and then take active steps to build and maintain it.

    2. Make time for your relationship. In today’s busy world, things that are not scheduled become much lower on our list of priorities because we are too busy and/or tired to get to them, and relationships are no exception. Regularly set aside time for just the two of you to be together as a couple. Have a conversation with your partner about how often and how much time the two of you can dedicate to your relationship and then put it on your calendar. Doing this increases your sense of commitment and makes it much more likely that you will follow through with your plans.

    3. Spend your time wisely. Work with your partner to generate a list of ideas for how the two of you can spend time together as a couple. Choose activities that will allow you to enjoy each other’s company and converse with one another about whatever you want or need to discuss. Remember that it is important to periodically spend some of your time together talking specifically about relationship issues, such as how each of you thinks the relationship is going, where you want it to go in the future, and how you can make that happen.

    Making your relationship a priority does not need to be an elaborate production: even relatively small but consistent investments of your time and effort can go a very long way toward improving your relationship.

    If you and your partner have very serious problems and/or if there is a considerable amount of animosity between the two of you, it may be necessary for you to resolve these issues before you begin the job of reconnecting with one another. Consider working with a qualified professional if you need or want someone to help you do this work.

  • 10 tips for a happy marriage

    To have a really good marriage, you need to work at it. As the saying goes, the only place you find success before work is in the dictionary.

    Here are some things you can do to help build a strong marriage.

    1. Watch Your Relationships. To preserve your determination to make your marriage succeed, don’t get too close flirt with members of the opposite sex. If you do, in the back of your mind, you might begin to view them as alternatives in the event that your marriage doesn’t work out. This will weaken your resolve. After all, why work so hard when you have an escape route? Also, these types of close relationships are likely to make your spouse feel threatened.

    2. Pay Full Attention. Listen to your spouse when he or she talks to you. It’s a sign of respect. Try to give him or her your undivided attention. Also, nod in agreement occasionally—it tells your partner you’re listening. If your spouse talks to you when you’re in the middle of something important, say so, and suggest a time when you’ll be able to pay full attention.

    3. Share Enjoyable Activities. Do fun things with your spouse. Exercise together, take leisurely walks, or share a pursuit that’s mutually enjoyable. Such activities strengthen your relationship and make it easier for the two of you to endure the hard times that come in every marriage.

    4. Learn from Your Experiences. Learn from the past. For example, if you find that you’re often tense when you’re very hungry, minimize your conversation with your spouse during those times. Similarly, if you see that your spouse gets worked up whenever you mention the name of a certain relative, don’t mention that person’s name unless absolutely necessary. Try to learn from the past.

    5. Be Polite. Be courteous to your spouse. When speaking with him or her, use phrases such as “please,” “thank you,” “would you mind if I….,” and so forth. It will make your spouse feel appreciated and respected.

    6. Never Say “I Told You So.” Remove the phrase “I told you so” from your lexicon. Saying these words only causes ill will between you and your spouse.

    People say this phrase for two reasons:

    · To show off that they were right,

    · To get their mates to listen to them in the future.

    What they don’t realize is that the message that comes across is, “Aren’t I smarter than you?” which is insulting.

    When you’re proven right after an argument, your spouse will realize this on his or her own. There is no need to point it out.

    The poet Ogden Nash wrote the following poem to encourage people to act this way:

    To keep your marriage brimming,

    With love in the wedding cup,

    Whenever you’re wrong, admit it;

    Whenever you’re right, shut up.

    7. Don’t Keep Score. Don’t walk around with a watchful eye making sure your partner carries his or her share of the workload. Instead, take the view that it doesn’t matter if you end up doing more than half of what has to be done. Making sure your relationship stays fifty-fifty will put so much tension into your marriage that it’s not worth the effort. So unless your spouse is very lazy or a real responsibility shirker, don’t keep track of who does more.

    8. Watch Out for the Little Things. A family court judge once commented that in 99 percent of the divorce cases he presided over, the couples were upset about very small matters. Here are some of the types of complaints he was referring to:

    · “She never lets me leave the window open at night.”

    · “He always wears that loud shirt that embarrasses me.”

    · “She never replaces the toilet roll when it’s finished.”

    · “He always leaves his socks on the floor.”

    These small matters can be very detrimental to a relationship, so watch out for them.

    There is, however, a silver lining to this cloud: Just as little things can ruin a relationship, they can also build one. A brief call to ask how your spouse’s day is going can make a big difference in his or her feelings toward you. Remembering your mate’s birthday with a little gift can mean a lot. Even just bringing your partner a chocolate bar or a novel you think he or she will enjoy can mean a great deal, because it shows you care.

    Women in particular often need small but frequent gestures of love.

    9. Greet Your Partner Happily. Smile at your mate when you greet him or her. It will make your spouse feel appreciated and loved. Even if you’re in a bad mood, be sure to flash that grin. It’s a small investment that can go a long way.

    10. Respect Your Spouse’s Privacy. Don’t go through your partner’s things out of curiosity or in an effort to make them look neater. Privacy is a fundamental need all humans have, so be sure to respect it.

    Similarly, make it a habit not to repeat your spouse’s words to others. You never know what your mate wants kept secret.

  • For me, seeing her was strange; but I’m not surprised she passed the exam –Her centre’s proprietress

    MRS. Clara Olufunmilayo Adenodi is the Proprietress of the Wisdom Spring College, a sprawling compound comprising a nursery, primary, and secondary schools, in Ogun-Ojule Area of Egan town in Igando, Alimosho Local Government area of Lagos State. A place mostly inhabited by low and middle class people of Lagos State. With the board of governors of the school chaired by city lawyer, Otunba (Barr) Olu Adenodi, the 15-year-old school, according to Clara Adenodi, has been a regular spot for use by the GCE examination body. She said: “Our school is approved for use for GCE/WAEC and JAMB examinations.And I am proud that when the candidates come here, they appreciate the environment and the quality we put here to ensure smooth education for people. As for the girl you are talking about, Patience Ijeh, yes, she was here for the examination. I still recall middle last year when the examination was on, I had just returned from a trip to America, and you know, having such a candidate taking examination in the school brought about some excitement. When the teachers told me that there was such a person who writes with a pen between her toes, of course, I did not believe it. ‘’But I sooner saw it myself. I remember that after the papers, I called her aside and spoke to her at length. I was sad to find out that she lost her mother at a young age and that her father is in the village working as a security guard; such beauty and brain but struggling. You could tell that this one has a good head.” On hearing that Patience had passed the examination which she sat for, Clara Adenodi simply told us that she is not surprised. She has not called to tell me. But I am not surprised because you could see the meticulous way she went about writing the examination. I believe that she deserves to continue with her education and achieve something in life. I saw in her a young girl that is ready to excel. “For me, seeing her, was strange. We normally read about such things in foreign newspapers, but seeing it real life in our school was strange to me. I was moved and I’m glad to hear that she passed. I wish spirited Nigerians can come to her aid because I know how expensive university education is right now in Nigeria. She will constantly need financial support. I wish her success in her future endeavours.”

  • ‘This has given me hope that one day, I may be an undergraduate’

    AFTER living two years in depression, hope finally came alive once again for the girl who writes with her toes. Patience Ijeh had given up on further education, when two years ago, her General Certificate of Education (GCE) examination result was seized. It was an examination that she said she had prepared so diligently for, and expected so much that the result would be good. But it turned out that her result was seized with no explanation from the examination body, and that was enough for the young girl to suspend everything about education. She was just not interested again. So for two years, the young girl from Ubulu-Okiti in Delta State, who was born with deformed hands, which her mother later on told her was caused by the nature of her delivery, felt that the only hope that what she wanted in life would be realised through education was gone. So she slipped into depression. “I was not happy and I told myself to forget about education. I floated. I didn’t have anything that I wanted to do again. I just wanted to float. But early last year, I started seeing my mates moving on in life, people who I knew that I am even more brilliant than. ‘’I then started thinking of putting in for the GCE examination again. But this time around, I was not as enthusiastic as before. I did it with less interest. But now that I have passed, I am sure that by the grace of God once again, I am going to further my studies,’’ she said. For Patience, life has always been a struggle. For no fault of hers, her birth to Mr. and Mrs. Jonathan and Theresa Ijeh, at Saint Mary’s hospital in Delta State, became complicated because the baby was not properly positioned in the womb. “According to my late mother,” began Patience, “caesarian birth was not popular then in my village. My mom who is late now, told me, I was already coming out from her womb with my hands. So in the process of pushing me in again and trying to reposition me to come out normally, my hands were affected. I was being turned all over. Little did they know that my hands had been affected! Even when I was out, it was not noticed. Unfortunately, it affected both hands. My father said it was the fault of the nurses that handled the delivery.” Patience cannot recall how the miracle of writing with her toes started. “I actually don’t know when I started writing. I guess I grew up to find myself writing this way. I have never known how to write in any other way. The earliest period I can recall is when I was 5. I remember seeing myself writing with pen between my toes. Then I was living with my mother in the village in Delta State. I remember I was at Ikeliki Primary School then.” But she soon became the mother’s sole responsibility when her parents parted ways. “I don’t know what happened between my mom and dad, but when I grew up, I saw myself living with my mom at her own village; though my dad used to come around from time to time. I later attended St. Rose Girls Grammar School. Growing up for me was not much different from that of other kids. Though I found out that there were some things that I could not readily do like others. For instance, I couldn’t wash my clothes like other girls do. I couldn’t also carry things with my hands like other girls do. However, I mixed well as a child more than I now do as an adult.” But her troubles were compounded again when death struck and took away her mom. “I miss my mom, she was the only one that was close to me and assisted me with almost everything. I left the village to live with my brother in Benin City, because he is the only one that can take care of me. I lost my mother when I was in secondary school. That was when I decided to gain computer knowledge. I got a diploma in Computer Studies. I was learning to use my legs to operate the computer and competed very well with the others. The only difference is that I had to put my own computer on the floor to operate it.” She was doing well academically and the future looked promising. “Much early in life, I grew up, dreaming of becoming a lawyer one day. I kept this in my mind and spoke about it to my mom when I was growing up. But much later, as I was growing up, people around me kept telling me that I would not be able to achieve it. They gave me reasons of my disability, which would not make it possible for me. They told me to look for simple things. And hearing such things truly affected my ability to push. I didn’t know of simple things and I didn’t want to do simple things. I wanted to be a lawyer or study mass communication. I wanted to do a job that is challenging, despite my inability to use my hands effectively. I told myself that I would be okay working in an office.” Patience later moved to Lagos with her brother in 2008. “It was an opportunity for me to further my education. So I sat for the GCE ordinary level examination. Unfortunately, it did not work for me the way I planned. My efforts did not show because the result of the examination was not released. My result was seized.” Depressed, pushing ahead with her dream became an uphill task. “It really affected me because I didn’t put in for any other examination again until last year when I picked up the interest again and that was how I sat for the GCE/NECO examination this year.” Having had the ambition of being a lawyer, Patience recalls being studious at school. “I loved school, I used to tell my mom then that I wanted to be a lawyer and she used to tease me about it. But she is late now. She was so kind to me. She was my best friend because she encouraged me to do everything that I wanted to do. You know because I could not use my hands, she was always there to make sure that I got the personal assistance that I needed from time to time. Even now I still miss her.” Her mother may not be alive today, but she did stay alive to see to some extent that her daughter, despite her handicap, may become successful in life. This is because, after scalling through secondary school at St. Roses Girls Grammar School in Ogwashi-Uku in Delta State, Patience immediately went for Computer Studies and emerged with a diploma. “How I did it? I was simply putting my computer on the floor. I typed the keyboards using my leg and passed the examinations. I was also taking notes using my toes and it was not that difficult for me. Though now people look at me with wonder when I write with my toes. When I was a child in primary school, my friends in school were not looking at me like that. They just saw it as a different way that I used to write. ‘’Truly, when I moved to Lagos where I now live with my brother, I used to feel embarrassed. You know I am a shy person. But I have told myself that education is what I need, so I just face it.” So now that the GCE result she sat for in the middle last year is out and she did well, we asked Patience how she feels. “I feel very happy; it has been a big cause of anxiety for me since I sat for the examination. You know, the last one was seized and I knew that I did well in that particular examination because I was still fresh from school. ‘’But this time around, I had stayed at home for long and depressed. I had even given up on continuing with further studies for two years before I summoned up courage again to put in for that GCE examination. So I am happy knowing fully well that once again, I could be on the right track to get a good future for myself and the society at large.” The school where she sat for GCE is Wisdom Spring College comprising nursery, primary and college, WAEC, GCE and JAMB approved. It is located in Wisdom Avenue, off Ogun-Ojule Area of Egan town in Igando, Alimosho Local Govt area of Lagos State, a place mostly inhabited by low and middle class people of Lagos State. How was the examination? Were you treated in anyway like a special student? Patience was asked. She replied: ‘’Getting round to Egan in Igando area in Lagos was difficult for me in my circumstances, but that of course was a small challenge. I was, however, cheered up when I arrived at the school the first time and saw that it was a very clean school. I mean, everything was well arranged for the examination. It was not rowdy and I was also worried since I was going to be placing my papers on the floor. I needed somewhere that I could do that and still make sure that my examination papers were clean and readable. So I was happy that the school was clean and the floor had neat tiles. ‘’Part of the reason I suspect that my result was seized the other time could have been because, where I had the examination was not clean. The papers I submitted were rough and slightly dirty. So even if I had done well, those who marked my answer sheets would’ve wondered why my papers were that dirty. You know, but I thank God; this has given me hope that I may one day be an undergraduate.” Patience now has her six credits: C5 in Biology and C6 in all the other five subjects; that is, Literature in English, Economics, Government, Mathematics and English Language. “I know I can do better. I just needed this to convince myself that I can do more.” So what are her plans? “Though I would have loved to go into the university and, like I said, study Law. People are telling me that taking such a course is very expensive. I would also love to study Mass Communication, but I also hear that it is expensive. These are the only courses that appeal to me. But you know, my mom is late, my dad is in the village and my brother is just managing. We don’t have any rich person in my family. I can only continue to pray and hope that God makes a way for me.’’

  • There is  a dark cloud  hovering over Nigeria, but we won’t break up

    There is a dark cloud hovering over Nigeria, but we won’t break up

    Pastor Ayodele Oritsejafor is the General Overseer of Word of Life Bible Church, Warri, Delta State. He is also the President of the Christians Association of Nigeria (CAN) and the Pentecostal Fellowship of Nigeria (PFN), the first to hold the two offices simultaneously. Pastor Oritsejafor is a man of God known for his bluntness and blistering comments on national and religious issues. He is usually not given to yearly predictions, but this seems to have changed in 2013, as he has reeled out predictions about the nation. In this interview with Assistant Editors, LINUS OBOGO and GBENGA ADERANTI, Pastor Oritsejafor spoke on sundry issues and at a point, wept over the anguish brought on the Christian North by Boko Haram Islamic sect. Excerpts:

    You are everything rolled into one, a pastor, an author, an apostle, an evangelist, a teacher, but above all, a prophet. We have just entered 2013 today (January 1). As a prophet of God, what prophecy do you have for Nigeria, given that 2012 was bleak, harrowing and tormenting? What does 2013 holds for Nigeria?

    First of all, let me begin by saying that every nation has its own spiritual atmosphere over it and Nigerian is not an exception. So, every manifestation you see has its own problems. What is going on is as a result of what is in the atmosphere. Every problem has its spiritual aspect.

    What I’m going to tell you now is something I have not done in 40 years. I’ve been very careful not to say things that will hit people hard. But I think the way we are now, I need to say this and I say it with all humility that there is a dark cloud over this nation in 2013. It is very dark. That is the truth. There is a wind which is about to blow this nation (Nigeria). This wind has the capacity to clean up the spiritual atmosphere over this nation.

    There are some powerful people who will lose their power base this year. Also, there are some unsung heroes who will be celebrated this year. There are also some unknown people who are nationalistic and who will emerge this year. But I must stress that despite the dark cloud hovering over Nigeria, it is not going to break up. The name Nigeria is not going to disappear from the face of the earth. We should not be afraid, but the unity of this nation is seriously going to be tested to its very foundation. It is going to be pulled to the limits, to the very limits of its existence. We are going to feel all that this year. And on account of all these, I’m saying I want to seriously plead with Christians, especially and also Nigerians of goodwill to join me every last Friday of every month throughout this year, beginning on Friday 25th of January in fasting and prayers and asking God to intervene. It will only bring good out of whatever that wants to happen in this country. And only good will come to us. That is what I have for the nation.

    I pray that people will understand what I’ve just said. But if they don’t understand at all, they should at least join me in the last Friday of every month beginning from the 25th of this month. Let us pray and fast because at the end of the day, as I said, every problem has a spiritual side and physical side. Many times, the physical side is a manifestation of the spiritual. I say this with all sense of humility. I’ve never spoken like this in all these years because there are people who think that some of us are just concerned about spiritual things that are floating out there. That is why I avoid saying things like this. I’m a realist and at the same time, I believe that there are issues you and I must deal with. I wish I’m talking to everybody and not just you, The Nation editors sitting in front of me.

    I mean everybody who understands spiritual things. If you read your Bible, you will find in the book of Daniel where Daniel was praying for the nation and he went on a 21-day fasting. He was trying to understand the problem of the nation of Babylon and one day while fasting, he was asking God for something. He had just begun fasting and as he went on in fasting, at the end of the second day of fasting, an archangel appeared to him and told him that ‘Daniel, the first day you began your prayer, God heard you and sent me with the answer, but you see, as I was coming, I was stopped in the spirit realm’. He said he was stopped by the Prince of Persia.

    There was the physical Prince of Persia, and there was a spiritual Prince who the angel spoke about. But there is another ruler elsewhere in the spiritual realm, somebody who is manipulating things in the spirit realm. That was what the archangel was saying. He said: ‘He stopped me and we fought there until God sent an archangel Michael to join me in the battle. I left Michael to continue until I brought you the answer.’ Now this is my first time of talking this way, I usually don’t like talking this way. But there is hope for this country.

    Have you shared this with other great men of God in Nigeria?

    This is something that has just been revealed to me in the last one or two weeks. I’ve been in prayer for the country, I do that every year when we are coming to the end of the year. In my position, I have to spend some special quality time with God at a time like this. The most fruitful time I have was actually yesterday (December 31, 2012). Yesterday, I was able to stay alone throughout the night. This is something I’ve just developed. We were entering the New Year and I could not be talking to everybody. I could not even call my friends. But when I return from my travel, there are some people, Christian leaders that I will be meeting with whom I will share something. But you have to understand that what I’ve just told you, it is not everybody that I have shared them with.

    When you are leading a large and diverse people, or how do I put it? The Christian church is made up of people of different shades of beliefs and doctrines. You don’t force what you believe on people. I think that is very wrong. People have the right to believe what they want to believe, and that is very important. I respect what you believe. You can’t lead people when you think you know more than everybody and I must say that I don’t know more than anybody. So I’m humble enough to understand that whatever I know is between me and God, but I must respect the views of everybody.

    What you have just told us about the country may not be different from what a lay man has already known about the socio-political outlook of Nigeria in 2013. Did God or the Holy Spirit reveal this to you? Or you merely imagined what is going to happen in 2013?

    I’m telling you something spiritual. I just told you now that there is a dark cloud over this country and I also told you that some powerful people are going to leave their power base. I also told you that some unsung heroes will be celebrated. Then I told you that some nationalistic personalities unknown will begin to emerge this year. I also told you that Nigeria will not break. Let me be honest with you, I had always felt that Nigeria will break because when you look at the kind of things that are happening, in my own opinion, the worst is the disdain for human lives, the lack of value for the sacredness of human lives. When you consider the way people are being slaughtered, the kidnappings and armed robberies, you cannot but reason that Nigeria will break. The worst is the Boko Haram.

    Sometimes, you think every other problem in the country is probably more than the Boko Haram menace. But for crying out loud, this is human blood and every human blood is going to cry out to God for vengeance. Everyone and even the military said that in the last three years, over 3,000 human beings had been killed. These were innocent people, and you don’t think that the 3,000 people will be crying out to God? I hate corruption, but for people to even think that it is corruption that created Boko Haram, I do not agree. It is not true. It is like saying that it was corruption that created Bin Laden, it is still not true. I do not agree that it was corruption that made a Nigerian boy to want to bomb the American plane mid air, no, it was not. It is religious fundamentalist idea.

    Not until we start addressing the real issue plaguing the country. Corruption is very bad. It stands side by side with Boko Haram. But Boko Haram has a little edge over corruption.. If Nigeria breaks today, are we going to be talking about corruption? if there is no Nigeria, will you be talking about fuel subsidy? Who is going to use the fuel? Dead people? What I’m saying now should be put in proper perspective. Don’t misunderstand me. Corruption is a terrible thing that is actually eating this country. It also has the potential of destroying this nation, but Boko Haram is much worse.

    That was why I felt terrible when one international human rights group was accusing the military of extra-judicial killings. But the group did not mention about 3,000 innocent people killed by a group of mad men. They were more concerned about the criminals who are killing people than them being killed by anybody.

    Still on your prophecy Pastor, will the Boko Haram menace and corruption end this year or when will that be? Or what is prophecy concerning Boko Haram?

    Again, I don’t want to spiritualise it because as I said, every problem has a spiritual and physical aspect. I told you that there is a dark cloud hovering over this country, Nigeria. Dark cloud is symbolic of some of the problems we just spoke of. But don’t forget that I said there is a wind that will blow and which has the capacity to bring Nigeria to a place where peace that has eluded us for so long will gradually come into the country. But it is hard for me to say that Boko Haram will end but I can tell you that Boko Haram will lose its battle. They will lose and lose big time. What is very terrible about this is that what they are doing now will affect some real people, I mean notable people in this country. It will affect them but for me to put a time line, I don’t know, I will not tell you what I don’t know. I don’t know the time it will end, it is a losing battle for them. Gradually you will see an end to this thing. Evil can never prevail over good, it can’t happen and Nigeria will never be an exception. Even this corruption issue, corruption has now been brought to the front burner in this nation.

    There was a time when nobody talked about corruption. It was something that was becoming very significant in the affairs of this country, but today, in fact, a little child now has the idea of what corruption means, if nothing else, the word corruption. For me to give you a time line as to when corruption will end is difficult. Remember, that was why I said I’m pleading with my Christian brethren to join me in the last Friday of every month to let us pray. God speaks, I don’t know what other Christian leaders have been saying. Many times God’s mind is to do something, but don’t forget that when God wants to do something, there are forces that don’t want such things to be done. It is not as if God cannot superimpose. But He doesn’t.

    For example, Jesus would have just dropped from heaven and just landed and say I’m Jesus, but He was born. He came through a natural process. Why? because the way God created this world, He created it for human beings not spirit beings. So, when God wants in human form, just His appearance alone will destroy this world. Even the devil himself does not have the legitimate right to live in this world because it was not made for him and when the devil wants to do his work, he makes use of human beings. God uses human beings and the devil uses human beings as well. If you are a good student of the Bible, you will understand that just like Jesus came through the virgin Mary, the same way, some anti-Christ will come. There is gong to be a strong personality in this world, I don’t know when, who will come into this world and take charge of so many things and try to turn people away from God.

    You and I know that he will be very strong. That personality is going to be born like any other human being. It is not as if he is going to come and say I am a spirit being, it is going to be a human being, somebody that will come and be accepted by human beings. He will be born somewhere by parents. He will be very intelligent, have two, three or ten degrees, PhD in this, PhD in that. I’m just imagining a powerful peace advocate that is going to connect people and everybody will be hailing him until he gets to a certain position where he will control certain resources and certain things and begin to take control of this world. He will be a very good student of the Bible. God does not interfere in the affairs of the men without using man. There is something going on, that is why those of us who have faith through Jesus Christ are calling on all Nigerians of good and faith to join me in prayer.

    If you were asked to proffer solutions to the Boko Haram menace, what would that be?

    Again, as I said, every problem has the spiritual side and physical side, but for the spiritual side, I say join me, let us pray. For the physical and practical side, first, I’m back to what I have been saying in the last one and a half years that one of the reasons why security agencies have not been making a headway is because they have certain elements within the security agencies that are part of Boko Haram. Some of them are in strategic positions in the security agencies and it is a fact. But the truth is that in the security agencies, there are some people who are in the strategic positions who shouldn’t be there because most of the time, Boko Haram elements know what they are planning. As soon as they finish planning, the information gets to them. And instead of the military people ambushing Boko Haram, it is the Boko Haram ambushing the military.

    What does this say? It is because Boko Haram is getting intelligence information meant for the security agencies. They know more than the military themselves. Sometimes, they know the number of military personnel involved in an operation they know the type of weapons they are carrying and they confront them with more sophisticated ones. What I’m saying is that a lot of these security agencies have been polarized along religious lines. There are some people who believe that they are protecting their religion. Unfortunately, they believe this and they will do everything to make sure that Boko Haram is not apprehended.

    Number two, we should stop pretending that this problem is an economic problem because it is not. If you refuse to admit this, you have a problem and you will never solve it. When I open the pages of newspapers and I see responsible people in vantage positions telling us that the reason why Boko Haram exists is because of injustice, inequality, poverty and neglect, I just sit back and ask myself, how can people be so wicked? They know the truth, they know that is not the truth. The truth is Boko Haram is a religious extremist ideology. I’m not calling all Muslims in Nigeria extremist. If you go round the world today, you will also hear the word I’m using, If we keep running away from it, insisting that it does not exist, the problem will remain with us.

    But if we can admit that this ideology problem is there, then what must happen is that government and others must find ways of engaging some of our northern political, religious and traditional leaders, but with more emphasis on religion. They must locate a lot of Imams, sheiks and clerics who are at the grassroots who preach to people in mosques, people they have influence on that Nigeria belongs to all of us, that Christians are not their enemies; Christians are their brothers and sisters and we are fighting the same cause, we are together, we are one, they should not give them the impression that Nigerians hate them.

    It is an ideological thing. If we have not dealt with this, we have not done anything. So far, I have mentioned two crucial things that must be critically looked into. If these two things are looked into and dealt with properly, you will be surprised how far this issue will go.

    That brings us to the final one which is for the ordinary Muslim on the street in these key states to speak out about their sponsors. Some of them are afraid because they feel they will be killed. But a times comes in this life when you will begin to ask yourself, if I speak, I may be killed, if I don’t, we will all be killed. So, we must take quality decisions, we must decide what we want to do. If I don’t speak, not only we will be killed, my children, my children’s children will never have a place of their own called Nigeria.

    Let me take you back to January 2012 when Nigerians protested against the removal of fuel subsidy. Many people believe that you have a close relationship with President Goodluck Jonathan, what did you tell him during the protest?

    First of all, let me begin by saying that I believe that the issue of fuel subsidy is a complicated and complex one. It is complex and complicated because when you look at it, there are people who say that there has never been subsidy anyway. There are those who question the way it is removed. There are so many different ways of looking at it. I agree that it is very complicated but let me say this, it is only the living people that can fight the issue of fuel subsidy.

    So, help me amplify the issue of Boko Haram because if Boko Haram kills all of us, we will not be talking about fuel subsidy and protest. It is very important that we look at it. When I said it then, some people shouted at me saying: ‘you are with them, you are one of them’. Don’t I buy fuel myself? Do you think I like to be buying fuel at a higher price? I don’t want to say something and it will be taken as rude. I was going to say why can’t we have fuel for free? You just go there and pump into your car, after all, I’m from the Niger Delta, my people are suffering. What I’m saying is that we should first solve the security problem of this country and the fuel subsidy thing will be handled.

    People say I have a relationship with Mr. President, he is not my enemy. So, I cannot tell you that I don’t know him. But the kind of relationship some people seem to describe sometimes, I don’t know. I don’t just wake up and say Mr. President, here I’m. By my position, I should have contact with the Villa in such a way that if I say I’m coming to see Mr. President, there should be no restriction. That will be the kind of relationship I should say I have. But is that the true position? However, that is not to say that I do not chip in my advice to the President when it is necessary. And it is not something I have to broadcast to the whole world. Should I be telling everyone I see whether or not I advise the President? This kind of thing is that you will not have another opportunity to give that kind of advice tomorrow. But anything that will make life difficult for the common man, I’m against it.

    Still on Boko Haram, Mr. President reportedly said that some Boko Haram elements had infiltrated his cabinet. Has it bothered you as to ask him to name them or why he has not flushed them out?

    Honestly, I don’t know because I’m not in Mr. President’s mind. My advice is that you should go and ask Mr. President what he meant. Mr. President had a media chat the last time, I was surprised that I didn’t hear any of your colleagues ask him such a question. Honestly I don’t have answers to that. He may have his reasons for saying that. It may be that he does not want you and me to know.

    Just last week, you made some donation of six cars, 15 tricycles, sewing machines, 200 bags of rice, among others, to the less-privileged from varied religious leanings. What informed the gesture?

    First of all, if God who created you and me allows everybody to live in this place called world, I don’t think I will be in proper place to be the one to question why all these people do exist. When I look at atheists, I look at “juju” worshippers and Christians alike, they all have one nose, two ears, one mouth, two eyes and I don’t see any difference. Religion is by conviction. Some people are born into certain religions, sometimes when they grow up, they will change because they have a conviction to do something else. That is the way I believe the way of God for everyman. Recently, a group of Muslim youths visited me and we had a chat and we discussed many things and I asked them, when we really talk about freedom of worship, do you believe in it? There are some things we see happen, maybe by accident, if a member of my household comes across the street from where I live and sees you mount your preaching equipment as a Muslim and you begin to preach Islam and he listens to you and says I think I like this and he goes, I’m not going to do anything because that is his choice. It is that person’s choice to make that decision. But also, if a Christian preacher in Sokoto or Kano, should stand up to preach freely, and a Muslim living in the home of an Emir decides that what he is hearing is what is best for him, he should not only accept it, but must be allowed to accept it. This, to me, is the true freedom of worship Nigeria needs today.

    When I’m dealing with people and it comes to poverty, poverty does not know religion, poverty does not know ethnicity. Poverty is poverty, a man who has not eaten has not eaten so what he needs is food. So when Jesus fed 5,000 men not to talk of women and children, did he select those who were believers? It was a multitude of people who came to hear Him. They could have been from different religions. Christ was not interested in their religion as far as their stomach was concerned. He didn’t say if you have accepted what I have preached come to this side, if you know you have not accepted, go to this side and stay hungry, he didn’t. He described true religion as when you take care of people.

    Let us come to something I do every year. It is something that I have been doing for years. It is a way of life for me. What some people don’t know is that I used to charter a plane to the north, Maiduguri, Jos and other places to distribute relief materials to everybody. I’ve been doing that for years not because I’m the CAN President. I have been doing it before I became CAN President. Even before I became the PFN President, I’ve been doing that. Let us take time to give because God so loved the world and what did He did to show this love? He gave his only begotten son as sacrifice. The wise men who came to look for Jesus, when they found him, they brought Him expensive gifts. So, the best expression of Christmas is to give people who don’t have. I wish I could do much more, I wish I had 1,000 brand new cars.

    Governments at all levels as well as many of our big corporations and big private companies can afford to give but I wonder why they are not. I do this because at every point when you look at yourself and see what God has done in your life, you must give back to others. There are many people whose lives have been turned around by this little gesture. overnment is not the only business in Nigeria today, but the only business that is thriving is government. If you want a contract, go to government, if you want good money, look for a position in government. Some of these things we do is to see how we can take some of the people who are in the official list of disadvantaged people, poor people, active poor people. It is just my own little way of saying let me help them. We have been doing it officially now for seven years and unofficially I have been doing this for 15 -20 years. There are so many people I have seen through schools. Some have long graduated and are working. Many are in various universities in Nigeria and abroad. It is my joy when I meet them and see that they have become useful to themselves and their relatives. Some of these people, I can’t recognise them any longer. When they see me, they say you did this you did that for me.

    You said government is the only thriving business in Nigeria, but several people out there know that government and churches are not only the two thriving businesses, but lucrative businesses in Nigeria today. Why are churches and government the only thriving businesses in Nigeria?

    Let me ask you a personal question, do you believe that churches are a thriving business in Nigeria?

    (Reporters)Yes Pastor

    Then, why have you not opened one? A sensible person, who is normal and who knows that something can fetch him money should go into the business. I’m still surprised that you are still a journalist. I know that an average Nigerian if he sees any opening that can give him a little bit of money and I know you are not different, will not waste time to exploit the opportunity. I know that you are a Nigerian and since churches are making so much money, even if you cannot leave your journalism profession to open a church, why don’t you get your younger brother, just help him to open a church so that you can start making money, so that in the next three months you can help and feed me since there is so much money in the church?

    You people deceive yourselves. Just because you see a few rascals here and there doing the wrong thing, you just make a blanket statement and then decide this is how much churches are making. Sometimes some of us are pained by some statements being made by not only some of you in the media, but others as well, but we try and overlook it, we take it like that. You are a journalist, you have the power of the pen, but I have the power of my knees, and you can destroy with your pen, all that I can do is to go on my knees and pray. Sometimes you people use your mouth to say something that will destroy you tomorrow. Some Nigerians see churches as a money spinner, I really don’t understand. If churches are like private businesses, every Nigerian should go into it.

    Let me ask you this question, how many people pay tithe in churches? In an average church, according to statistics, only about 20 per cent of members pay tithes. The average poor man does not pay tithe. Is it the man I’m trying to give a car or grinding machine to and who may not even go to church, that will pay tithe? He does not have money to put slippers on his feet. He cannot even give an offering. So when you look at a church, the people who keep that church going sometimes are just a handful of people who by their own conviction would say let me do this or do that for the church.

    Let me give you an example, we have a beautiful brochure in our church, I don’t know how many pages, but it costs about N800 plus to make one, but we were selling it for N500. As at last week, they told me that they were still quite a number of them lying around. I have a number of pastors who have good jobs and some of them are businessmen. I have discovered that every businessman is a potential leader either in church or in a secular world. One of my pastors happens to be somebody who occupies very good position in the society, when he heard the announcement, he just wrote a note that I pastor so, so and so will pay for the remaining copies of the brochure, let it be given out free. Some pastors even said don’t sell the brochure again since we still have them remaining, obviously many people can’t afford it. So what did we do? We gave them out free. This is how a lot of churches are able to survive today. a number of people in the church who by their conviction want to thank God for what He has done for them, usually come out to say let me do this, let me do that.

    So when you see churches the way it is, it is not because everybody that goes there is able to afford something for that church to grow.

    As I said, you don’t look at one or two rascals and conclude that everybody is like that. When some of us started preaching about 40 years ago, it was a taboo to give your daughter to a pastor. But what you have to understand is that 40 years is a long time. After 40 years as a journalist, shouldn’t there be a difference in your life? There should be. Some of us have come a long way to get to where we are. there are some people who agree that we have contributed to their lives and they blessed us.

    So, please, don’t add churches as a thriving business in Nigeria, don’t do that because it insults the sensibility and sensitivity of some people. Let me repeat the fact that just because some people are doing some things that are not correct does not mean everybody is doing it. Just because there are counterfeit dollars, does that mean you won’t spend dollars again? Does that mean you don’t have the real one? Please, Christianity is genuine; there are many men or women of God who are preaching unadulterated gospel that is changing people’s lives as we speak.

    As a man of God, what is it that will grieve your heart as to make you cry and have you ever cried as a pastor?

    About one or two or three things, today as we speak, that grieves my heart and it is the killing of Christians in the north. It does not just grieve my mind, it breaks my heart because it is difficult for me to understand why anybody in the name of God will just be slaughtering human beings. People wonder why I speak the way I do; imagine the other day when a former governor, a two-time governor of Yobe State, Senator Bukar Abba Ibrahim, came out and said that not only should Federal Government dialogue with Boko Haram, if he had just said that, I would not be bothered because we have heard that several times. I would have just laughed it off, if he had stopped at that. But he went on to say that the reason why Boko Haram is here is because of neglect, injustice and inequality. In fact, he was saying this from his very Yobe State, a place called Piri.

    People went for Christmas eve service at Piri; they were in church and lo and behold, they started killing them (suddenly, the pastor caves in to emotion, breaks down sobbing). What is this? They slaughtered them in tens. This is a man who was a governor of the same state. Why do we allow this in our country (sobbed profusely)? We should not allow this in our country, it is not right (sobs again). It is not right, I’m so sorry, but why? It is so sad.

    Despite the avalanche of other men of God and Christian leaders, why are you seemingly the lone voice in the fight against the menace of Boko Haram?

    Again, that is where you the media come in. Some of you in the media should ask questions. I should not be the one you should be asking. You should be asking other people why they are not talking. I’m talking because I feel what they feel. I’m a human being and I cannot sit by and watch these things happen like that. They break my heart.

    There was a day, I was shown a video clip of the killing of Christians by Boko Haram. I broke down and started crying. They tied a young man’s hands behind his back and then cut off his head. I felt it and if anybody saw it and did not feel anything, that person shouldn’t be alive. Secondly, I am the President of the Christians Association of Nigeria and if nobody else says anything, I am not in the luxury of not saying anything because I was elected by Christians to lead and defend them. Part of the reason I was elected was to be a voice to the voiceless. If I keep quiet, then something is definitely wrong. I should resign because it must have come to a point where if I cannot do the job. The only option is to resign and go home. I am a pastor of Words of Life Bible Church. There is no Word of Life in the North. I might as well stay in my Warri base. I was elected to do a job. I cannot afford to sacrifice the lives of people on the altar of friendship.

    Government seems to have failed on Boko Haram, while some people believe that prayers do not seem to have made the required impact. What is the way out?

    I don’t want to say government has failed. Why did I say this? At least, you have seen that they have caught some suspects. They have done some things and we have seen some things they have done, but we are saying it is not enough. I will also tell you that prayers have not failed. Why did I say this? Now if with the prayers we have prayed we are where we are today, can you imagine what would have happened if we did not pray? It probably would have been worse than what we have today. God is supreme, God is sovereign and God is God. What makes God God is that He has the final say in all situations. If you read your Bible, you will remember the story of Elisha. Through Elisha, the Shunamite woman became pregnant and had a child in her old age. But as you study your Bible, you will find out that later that child died.

    First of all, why would a miracle child die? Where was God? As I said, He is sovereign. The child died and the woman started searching for Elisha. Finally, the woman found him. Elisha confessed something. He said God hid this from me. So, why would God hide this from him? That is why He is God. There are some things you cannot question God about. That is why I said how Boko Haram will wind up, I don’t know. I know they will lose the war and the battle and they will lose it big time. I can tell you that prayer is working and it is working very well. That is why Nigeria will continue to survive and that is why Nigeria will continue to be Nigeria because of the payers that are going on. But government can do better than it is doing now.