Category: Saturday Magazine

  • Lawmaker, residents lament as  erosion unleashes horror onAnambra  communities

    Lawmaker, residents lament as erosion unleashes horror onAnambra communities

    Inhabitants of Ekwusigo Local Government Area, Anambra State are in deep sorrow over the menace of erosion in the area. Besides claiming many buildings, two brothers in Urumabiam in Ozubulu, Ignatius Igwemadu and his younger sibling, were said to have died as a result of the menace.

    At press time, many other buildings were under the threat of being submerged by erosion, causing residents to cry out to the Anambra State governor, the Federal Government and donor agencies to come to their aid.

    The House of Assembly member representing the area, Hon. Paully Onyeka, who was in tears when he visited the communities, told The Nation that his people were in serious trouble.

    In a chat with our correspondent, 74-year-old Ichie Ezekwem Ezeana, said Ihembosi community alone had about 14 erosion sites. He said: “We’re appealing to the government to come to our aid. We don’t want to lose more lives before they come. They should come and help us. We are dying in Ekwusigo.”

    At Ibolo erosion site in Oraifite, a mansion erected by 76-year-old Pa Onyejiaka Anazodo is at the verge of being submerged. Already, the perimeter fence has been consumed by erosion while septuagenarian Anazodo was in tears.

    “If the menace finally takes my building, I do not have any place to run to with my family,” he lamented.

    According to him, the traditional ruler of the community, Igwe Daniel Udoji, had made several representations to the state government, all to no avail.

    The erosion problem began in the area in 1996. But, according to Chukwulobe Ifeanyi, another indigene from the area, it was compounded by Consolidated Construction Company (CCC) when it was working on the Onitsha-Owerri Road.

    He said: “The construction giants failed to direct the erosion to Ekulo river. So, all the water from Ichi, Ifite, Oraifite is channelled to this place. If left unchecked, by the next rainy season, this area will be swallowed and many lives will be lost. Numerous buildings will also collapse,” he said.

    The erosion menace in Ekwusigo has cut off some of the major roads linking different villages and communities, like Awo and Ifite. A student of Saint Paul University, Ufondu Emenike, said the Awo road linking Ifite was motorable until the rainy season began this year.

    Also, at Uruokpalamilo village in Ozubulu, the erosion has consumed the building of one Gabriel Asuzu. The site is believed to be the longest erosion site in the entire West African sub-region.

    The building of Ikechukwu Asuzu is also at the verge of being swallowed by the erosion site, which measures about four kilometres. According to 56-year-old Madam Catherine Mbaonu, it began about 15 years ago, and since them, no help has come to the people from any quarters.

    Another indigene of Ozubulu, Anaeto Echezona, told The Nation that the people of the area are not safe anymore, adding that some members of the affected communities had started relocating to other communities.

    He said: “We are dying in this area. We need somebody to rescue us from this problem. The people of the communities no longer feel comfortable in their own land.”

    Some of the erosion sites are man-made; like the sand excavation centre at Egbema Ozubulu, which is five feet deep. Others are natural disasters.

    The Vice President General of Ozubulu Development Union (ODU), Chief Goddy Ulasi, said the Urumabiam erosion site had been there for 20 years. He said most of the people in the area had fled for dear lives to other places.

    “This erosion has cut off brothers, sisters and relatives from one another. Urumabiam village is no more. We have suffered in this place. People can no longer communicate with their neighbours. This has become unbearable to us,’’ he said.

    Hon. Paully Onyeka, representing the constituency, told The Nation that it is unfortunate that communities that had been living in harmony have been separated from their neighbours by erosion.

    “Our Governor, Mr. Peter Obi, I believe, did not know that there is problem here because I know that he is an environment-friendly governor. If he had been aware of this, he would have done something about it.

    “We cannot continue this way. Nobody knows what the future holds for these people. Every community in Ekwusigo has at least 10 erosion sites.

    “We have over 40 erosion sites in the entire Ekwusigo Local Government Area. Therefore, this place should receive priority attention. It has not been a palatable sight in Ekwusigo.

    “We want to bring it to the notice of the state and federal governments as well as international donor agencies. Before now, Anambra had been inundated with erosion stories at Oko, Nanka and Agulu. But today, it is Ekwusigo.

    “This zone should be declared erosion disaster area. All the erosions in other areas combined are not as bad as that of Ekwusigo. We seriously need help from every quarter,” Onyeka lamented.

  • The velocity of benevolence

    Benevolent people may be a gift to mankind, but they can be infuriating to others out of envy. I have on occasions suffered this fury myself, but rather than reduce the tempo of my commitment because of the pain, I increased the velocity of my benevolence because of the gain I derive from doing good. God never lets me down” – Late Engr (Princess) Comfort Olufunke

    The quotation above illustrates the inner logic that drives the outer sensibility of late Princess Comfort Olufunke Ponnle during her life. She was one woman who never flowed with the tide, but did her things out of strong personal conviction. Conviction apart, the late Princess Ponnle was an incurable optimist. She never believed anything was impossible. She was a woman of character, immense courage, strong determination and unhindered love for others. She had great passion for problem-solving, a lot of zeal, enthusiasm, energy and drive for helping people. No wonder, her children have imbibed this spirit of exceptional benevolence and are presently involved in one philanthropy or another.

    Born in Ibadan on November 22, 1944, Mrs. Ponnle died at the age of 68 years. She had her elementary education at Ibadan. She was trained in the modern school and the Teachers Training College also in Ibadan from 1962-1964. She earned her Associate Diploma in Education from the University of Ife, now Obafemi Awolowo University, a programme she completed in 1970. After obtaining the Diploma Certificate, she taught briefly before proceeding to the Polytechnic of North London where she obtained her Higher Certificate in Electrical/Electronics. She emerged as the Overall Best Graduating Student on this programme and returned to Nigeria in 1972, worked briefly in a few places before settling down with her husband to form a company now generally known as MicCom Cables & Wires, the first indigenous cable and wire company in Nigeria today. MicCom is an acronym formed from Michael and Comfort and they both ran this business successfully until recently when they retired and handed the company and others to their children to manage.

    Late Princess Ponnle was a great woman by every imagination as I found this out during the course of my research work on her joint biography with the husband, Dr Tunde Ponnle, entitled— “The magic of pulling together,” published in 2010. Everywhere I went, everyone I met, every home I touched had this impression of Princess Ponnle as a kind-hearted woman, always eager to help people, particularly the youths, whether she knew them or not didn’t matter to her. I once asked her how she was able to separate people in genuine need from those with opportunistic demands and hear what she said: “I am not enough a professional psychologist to comprehend fully the human nature of pretence which makes people behave in certain ways against popular expectation, but I have worked long enough with people in need that through simple introspection, I can instinctively spot an opportunist from amongst the needy whenever I see one.” Clever woman!

    Through my interaction with her over the last few years, I came to realise that life is not about what you get out of a marriage, but what you put into it; it is not about the benefits you derive from your association with others, but what you throw into the ring so you can make a difference in the relationship.

    Princess Ponnle’s life has proved beyond any doubt that differences in age and social backgrounds are nothing if aims and vision are identical. “Similarity in objectives makes the hearts beat with the same conjugal tempo in a marriage,” she said. The late Princess did everything in her power to hold her marriage together and she succeeded to the end: She was a loving wife, a caring mother and a distinguished grandmother. When asked about the secret of her marital success recently, her response was fascinating: According to her, marriage is not one institution people should jump into or jump out of, without adequate self-examination and proper evaluation. “Unless a wife operates on the same frequency and wavelength with the husband, she will always be left behind. And when this occurs, many things are likely to follow: envy and jealousy, anger and provocation, objection and rejection take over while rivalry and vilification entrench themselves firmly on the front burner, thus helping to further heat up the marriage, until final disengagement becomes inevitable,” she said.

    According to Princess Ponnle, wives must be patient to understudy their husbands well enough so that there will be no mis-steps, particularly in the early days of a marriage.

    “While both partners must endure and make sacrifices to keep the marriage together, the woman must make extra and special effort to soften the ambience of the home front to minimise those things that could cause conflict and aggravate the husband’s personal pains and anxieties.

    “This is because in Africa, the culture is lopsided in favour of men and so when a marriage succeeds, society tends to commend the husband for performing his duties well, even where his attitude is in deficit and the wife is the one patching things up daily to save his integrity. But when a marriage collapses, everyone blames the woman without asking questions. Therefore, women must be conscious of these assumptions and think deep before they act,” she affirmed. Even though Princess Ponnle was frank to a fault during her life, she was a woman of peace – Never one to tangle in a quarrel or cause agitation that could stoke fires of anger and hatred anywhere she found herself. “I love peace,” she once told me during a discussion. “I have never gone out of my way to pull or push trouble and when it occurs sometimes as in people offending me, I am always the first to seek reconciliation, even when I am hurt. As I often told my children, anger is destructive and this is why they should not allow the next sun to set before settling their matrimonial differences with their spouses. In my own case, I resolved all issues amicably, same day, so as to keep my mind in focus and my husband’s mind at rest. My husband, Tunde and I have tried in our own little way to raise the children along this sacred path and I believe we succeeded to a great extent.” she stated. No doubt, they succeeded. All their children are successful professionals who are holding their heads high in the society today.

    For Princess Ponnle, being close to her husband brought its own pains. Many people often thought she stood between them and her husband, sometimes preventing him from helping them. How inaccurate! As someone close to the family, I witnessed situations where she was even the one to persuade the husband to consider series of requests from different quarters. She was always eager to please others just as she was eager to forgive those who offended her without any pre-condition. Over the years, she had used her God-given talent to help thousands of people either personally in her own right or in joint partnership with her husband, even when it was most inconvenient for her to do so, especially in the early days of their marriage. Relating with this wonderful woman has convinced me more than ever that as human beings, there is a joy to be derived in helping others within the limits of one’s resources. Late Princess Ponnle was open in her dealings with people. She gave them the opportunity to prove that they could be trusted. She never made up her mind based on established prejudices. She will be sincerely missed by all who knew her.

    She left behind, a big gap that will be difficult for others to fill, particularly in the area of capacity building, youth empowerment and deep-seated philanthropy. The annual MicCom Scholarship from which more than 2000 Nigerians have benefited over the years will definitely continue to be awarded on the instructions she left behind. It is one big legacy that will continue to empower Nigerian youths the more and make them truly self-reliant into the future. Although her face would be missed at the yearly interview panel constituted for this annual scholarship Award, yet her feet remained firmly established in the sands of time, through this and other development schemes put in place during her life. On this score, late Princess Comfort Olufunke Ponnle scored high marks and proved even in death that like light, benevolence can have its own velocity too!

    Asiwaju Yemi Ajayi

    Author, The Magic of Pulling Together.

    The Joint Biography of Prince Tunde Ponnle and

  • ‘Beyond poliltcs, Nigerians love to co-exist’

    ‘Beyond poliltcs, Nigerians love to co-exist’

    From one generation to another, members of Anyiam-Osigwe family have ensured that the legacy of their patriarch, late philosopher, Osigwe Anyiam-Osigwe, endures. In this interview with Mercy Michael, the Coordinator-General of the Anyiam-Osigwe Foundation, Michael Osigwe, speaks, among other issues, on the 13th session of the annual lecture of the foundation, billed to hold later in the month in Lagos. The lecture, which has former President of Sri Lankan, Chandrika Bandaranaike Kumaratunga, as key speaker will address the topic: ‘Ethnic policy and national integration’.

    I suppose this is the first time you’ll be having a female former president as guest speaker at the foundation lecture. What informed the choice?

    It wasn’t based on gender. It was purely based on her experiential knowledge. As a former president, she actually established a ministry of ethnic policy in Sir Lanka. We feel that she has the requisite knowledge to bring an important perspective on the subject of our interest in this year’s session. So that’s really what informed the choice.

    With the growing insecurity in the country, which stems from our ethnic divide, what do you think is the way forward for Nigeria?

    I’m glad you touched on this issue because the issue of federal character presupposes that we do have a country. Fundamentally, the need to address the cleavages that continue to come up in terms of our ethnic divide in the country is essential if Nigeria is going to go beyond where we are now to become, not a nation of different ethnic groups, but one country. So beyond the level of politics, if you come away from the theme of politics, Nigerians love each other and they want to stay together. If you go into a market in the North, say in Kaduna, you will find out that there are probably more Yoruba women and Igbo women there than there are Hausas.

    So, at the level of the people, I don’t think we have a problem of co-existing in one country like Nigeria. But when you elevate the argument and it is about who controls power and all of that, then you begin to see the danger signs. Because it’s more to do with a wrong premise in the power struggle that if it’s our turn, it’s like a winner takes all situation, which we must transcend. And when we begin to address our focus of this year lecture, you will begin to appreciate what we are trying to do. We are saying that Nigeria has to be a country and it doesn’t matter whether the president is from the South East or from the South West or from the South-South, or from the North Central, he should be first of all, a Nigerian president of Nigeria, who just happens to come from whatever ethnic group it is. So we should be able to look at the country from a perspective that this is Nigeria, and it doesn’t matter where you are from.

    That’s really the issue that I think we need to bear in mind. Nigeria is not under threat by the essence of lack of living together by its people, but there is more of a political dimension to the problem which we believe, if we confront the issue and embrace a policy that will address our fears and anxieties from the various ethnic groups, we probably will be able to successfully overcome that challenge.

    Do you honestly see us transcending our ethnic differences to become citizens of Nigeria and not indigenes of tribal groups?

    There is no problem that is insurmountable if you apply effective solutions to it. We’ve been through a civil war, we’ve been through a lot of strives, and we have come through that. Nigeria is not doing extremely badly. It’s just that we have to be conscious of what we need to do as a people. It’s for the civil societies, for the citizenry to buy into this idea, that it is better for us to be one cohesive and integrated country. If we keep talking about Nigeria from the stand point of our different ethnic groupings, why we should control the center and what that means for us, then we are not making progress. If you become a president from the South West for instance, the person in the North West should not feel any different. Opportunities should be opened to him just like they are opened to the South West person. And then merit should be the underlining basis for progress,so that it is not about this is our turn. These are the things that we need to overcome.

    How would you rate the present administration vis-à-vis the subject matter at this year’s session of the lecture?

    The challenges of the present administration and their performance must be weighed against what was there before. It’s like during the time of the campaigns in America, some people pointed out that when Obama came in, the country was more or else on the brink of bankruptcy. The United States had a lot of problems and it was coming from below ground zero to pull back that country’s economy. So I think that if you are asking me whether the current administration is doing well, I believe that they are making efforts in the right direction. On the issue of national integration, I think the fact that we even have someone from the minority, the South-South, is a good sign for Nigeria, in terms of our ability to integrate, to bring people who ordinarily, if we were playing our winner takes all thing, would not have come into power.

    I think it’s a good sign for Nigeria that we have a minority as president. And if you look at the government, at every given time in Nigeria, the cabinet is made up of all people from all the ethnic groups. So we are not doing badly in terms of integration. What I think is crucial is to improve on the sense of belonging, the sense of opportunity being open to every Nigerian, not just because it’s our people that are in power this. We need to improve on that, and it’s not about this administration. It is about every administration that has been in government in Nigeria. And this is not about the person that is president. It’s about the perception that we all have. Now we need to come to a point where a president from the North Central says I want to change the economic situation in the South East.

    For instance, a place like Imo State has a lot of gas reserve; you take a major petrochemical plant and site it there, create thousands of jobs. So if anyone from the South East should try to lure him, he will be like ‘what are you going to do that we are not getting now?’ That’s what leadership has to do. It is not for the ordinary man on the street. It’s for those people who have the grace to be in government and have ability to influence policies, shape policies and implement them. So that’s what I think is missing.

    We have not really had it good with policy implementation in Nigeria. How do you want to ensure that the outcome of this lecture will be implemented in the long run?

    Throughout the history of our lecture series, we’ve been trying to invite a good cross-section of the Nigerian population. From policy makers, people in government, the academia, civil societies, students and community as well. So the audience is pretty much a representation of Nigeria. And then, we also have our publications. Each of the sessions of the lecture series, after the event, we have proceedings that are published and made available. From year one till now, we’ve always published our proceedings. So the deliberations at these sessions and the keynote addresses of the key speaker that are always very insightful, and are available to be consulted. And like I said, we do invite government functionaries who are currently in office and are able to, not just influence policies, but to shape them and implement them. So we do that.

    Do you have a mechanism to monitor their success in doing that?

    Well, I would say that we do impress upon them the need to, and we equally make representations along those lines. Like in the year 2002, we developed a curriculum for model education which was adapted to the Nigerian educational system. Most of the Commissioners of Education of the various states were made aware of that curriculum. The Education Minister then was also aware of the curriculum. And it was launched in Lagos. We do things like that in terms of bringing these policies or these ideas to the attention of government.

    There are places that have been identified as hotbeds of religious and tribal crises. Do you have representatives of these set of people that are also going to participate in this lecture?

    Most of the times, when we have our lectures, we invite government functionaries, like all the governors, we invite them. They don’t always all attend. But to buttress your point, these areas that are, if you like flashpoints, we have written to them to try and send representation or attend in person if it’s possible. But the lecture itself, the topic is topical and I think it is generating a lot of interest, and like I said, the speaker we are bringing is quite experienced. It should attract these areas you have just pointed out are flashpoints in the country. We have made special efforts to invite them.

    Do you see us having a female president in Nigeria?

    Yes. Nigeria is really making progress in that respect. I think we have 35 percent of female representation in political and public offices now. The current administration, I think the First Lady has an initiative which was launched before the last election. It proved quite successful in involving women in public office. Today, we have some very interesting portfolios that are being handled by women. It’s not impossible. To use the word impossible I don’t think it’s even right. It’s quite possible that we have a female president in Nigeria in not too long a time. And you people have more population. You have the votes, it’s just that you need to bring the right candidate and Nigerians will vote. In the world today, people don’t care whether it’s a man or a woman, as long as you deliver. Very soon, the basis for leadership will be on merit. I’m convinced about that.

  • My father met my mother as a virgin; that is why I’m his exact replica

    My father met my mother as a virgin; that is why I’m his exact replica

    Chief Chukwudebe Sylvester Ojukwu is the late Biafran warlord, Ikemba Dim Odimegwu Ojukwu’s 56-year-old first son. Since his father’s death on November 26, 2011, the retired Deputy Commissioner of Police (DCP) has had running battles with other family members. His name was also conspicuously missing in the controversial will read on November 30, 2012. In this interview with Assistant Editors, LINUS OBOGO, GBENGA ADERANTI and SEGUN AJIBOYE, Debe insists he is the true son of his father, throwing a challenge at those who doubt the veracity of his claim. He also dismisses the will as a fraud. Excerpts: 

    You graduated as the best cadet officer of the Nigerian Police Academy in 1985. One would want to ask, why not the army, navy or air force, why the police?

    I joined the Nigerian Police not as a cadet. I enlisted as a police constable. My life and that of my father have always intertwined. He joined the army as a private. So, everything about his life played out in my own life. I joined the police as a recruit constable in 1976. In 1977, I went for the cadet course 22 at the Police College, Ikeja. The former Inspector-General, Hafiz Ringim, was my course mate and he worked under me. People like Audu Abubakar, Yar’Adua, were all my course mates. Along the line, those of us that joined the police force with our school certificates figured that I would not measure up to be actually my father’s son, if I was not a graduate. All of you know about his elocution.

    So, there was no way I would want a situation where his son became an AIG and when you ask him for statistics, he could not deliver it fluently. So, I fought hard to gain admission into the university, University of Nigeria Nsukka in 1981, on study leave. I did the course for four years, graduated in 1985, went to the law school and was called to the bar in 1986. When I was called to the bar, the Nigerian Police started being jittery because by becoming a lawyer, I was far ahead of my mates of course 22. So, they felt that this Ojukwu was going to be very fast, and the force devised a way to slow me down. That was why they delayed me for two years before I went in for the cadet course. Actually, by the time I graduated in 1985, I was entitled to what was called in public service, Notional Promotion.

    Since they were afraid, each time we went for interview, they would always think that my father sent me to police to finish up where he left off in the army. But I always told them that it was not true. But somehow, the then Inspector-General of Police, Mohammadu Gambo, delayed me for two years. So I proceeded to the cadet course in Kaduna then. It was the first time police academy came to Nigeria. It was in Kano but we started with two campuses, Kano and Kaduna. So, we finished the course and I graduated as the best all round. I became the first police officer to get a Presidential Commission, not Gambo’s commission. I got a Presidential Commission, the same commission that military officers get. It became also very turbulent, because if they had promoted me in 1985 when I graduated, they would have given me a notional promotion, I would not have been the first Nigerian Police officer to get Presidential Commission. So the problem became that how can an Ojukwu be the first name in Police Academy? It caused a little bit of trouble at the academy in Kaduna.

    The person that sorted it out was Fidelis Oyahkilome, who was the DIG. He stepped in and put his feet down, challenging the person they wanted to give the award. The man they wanted was a Hausa man who was 18th on the basis of performance and how could 18th be the first? This was because they were insisting that somebody from the North should be the first over all in the academy register. But Oyakhilome’s insistence made it possible for me to have the award. If you go to the police academy now, I am the first name on the honours’ list.

    And then you asked me why police? I am somebody that loves challenges. The root in the military was already built by my father. If I went into the military, some of the people he taught, some that hated him, some that liked and loved him, might be very sympathetic to me or might be very aggressive towards me. So, I didn’t want that to happen. So, I decided to go to a place where he did not have such root. And the police was it. It could have been the customs, the prisons, immigrations, but I chose the police because among the whole spectrums of army, navy, air force, police, customs, that is the place where you have true nationalism.

    When I was starting this interview, I did tell you that I had course mates as Ringim and others. And anywhere I go in Nigeria, I have my mates there. They are all over the place. If I go to the Yar’Adua family, I have friends there and everywhere. And the best place to make friends is in the war front. Outside the force, some people can camouflage when things are going well. Some people can see you in a very exotic car, well dressed and all that and get attracted. But in the war front, you are forced by the situation to be the human being you are. If things get so bad, you might even see that man you are very afraid of going stack naked. That is why the best friend you can make is in the trenches, in the war front. That was what triggered up the Nigerian independence from the colonialists. A lot of Africans had respected the whites but after the Second World War, where Africans also fought, they discovered that the same white man cried like blacks when injured. They discovered that they were also human. That was what led to the agitation for independence.

    Considering your successes in the police force, your father must have been proud of you?

    He was. I am his clone. He did not do anything without me.

    It seems you have so many things in common with your father. do you speak Hausa like your father, too?

    There is one thing you should know about Hausa. Do you know why the NDA is located in Kaduna? The NDA being in Kaduna, most times officers speak Hausa. There is no where you can have training three years training there without you understanding the language, even in passing. So, having trained in Kaduna, there is no way I would not have understood passable Hausa.

    You retired from the police not as DIG or AIG, would you say that you had a fulfilled career in the police, especially when you consider the fact that some of your colleagues either rose or have risen to the zenith of their career, would you say that you had an accomplished career in the police?

    I was accomplished. I was the best of the best. And then, my uncles came to the police and entreated me to come and manage my grandfather’s assets. My grandfather had acquired certain things in terms of estate. And I was told that the things he gathered were perishing. They used that and entreated me. They asked me to leave the police to manage the assets. I felt it was right. I cannot keep on gathering when the ones my patriarch had gathered were wasting away. So, I had to go and manage them. At the time they asked me to manage them, there was no hope and my uncles were quarrelling with my father. In the interest of peace, because they told me that they needed everything to be together just as the old man had it when he was alive. I left to do just that without even knowing where I was going. But God being on my side, what I went into blind-folded became a success story and became very substantial. It is on the basis of all these, that they are fighting me and you see my name allegedly missing in the will.

    Why was your name missing in such an important document as the Will of your father?

    Will, Will, Will, that was not my father’s Will. He did not write that Will. All the things that have been written are within the realm of speculations. The media have been writing without seeing the Will. I took pains to get the Will because it concerns me. I am giving you a copy of what they said is the Will so that the public can get educated. It is not my father’s Will. It was forged. You can see the signatures are different. The signature on the Will is not that of my father. I am a trained police officer. You can take a look at the letters he had written to me and other documents I showed you, the signature on it is different from that which is on the Will. I know what I am talking about. His true signature is in the archives of the Federal High Court. And my father that you are talking about was a former Military Governor of the Eastern Region. He signed edicts, laws. So, his signature is within the domain of public records.

    And because I knew him, he was not the type of person that took rubbish. They went and forged the signature. If you check all the documents, you will find out that the signatures on them do not correspond with that on the will. My father was such a person that when he signed a document, it was like Ikemba. And Ikemba moved straight. Ikemba moved like lightening. If you see his signature, it is deliberate. It is never shaky.

    With the demise of your father, Ikemba Dim Odimegwu Ojukwu, an apparent leadership vacuum has been created in the Igbo nation. What does this portend for the Igbo as a people?

    The Igbo are a unique people. And there can never be a vacuum in leadership. As long as there is exclusion in the polity, where the Igbo perceive themselves to be excluded from the national scheme of things, there will be something like a supernova. There may be jostling for power, but eventually, as biblically promised, God will never leave His children without a champion. And champions emerge because of circumstances. Champions emerge as a result of challenge. If there is a challenge of oratory, God will provide a leader for the Igbo leader who is given to oratory. If it is a challenge of marshal war, which was what produced my father, the Lord will provide such a champion. The situation that created my father was very marshal. So, it will require the same circumstances to have somebody of my father’s stature. So, a leader will emerge. There will never be a vacuum in Igbo leadership.

    We don’t wish for that, but do you foresee a similar circumstance in the future to necessitate the emergence of such a person like the late Ikemba?

    Yes I do. The circumstances that happened then were circumscribed by injustice. The only way to obliterate or prevent a repeat of history is to learn from the past. You know, history is very simple. So, those who fail to learn from history will repeat it. Once we have a situation of injustice again, we will have a repeat of history. But if we make sure that there is justice and equity, there would be no need for that. It is very simple. It is only the human nature that corrupts leadership. If for instance, there are 36,000 kilometres of roads to be constructed across the country and provisions have been made in the capital expenditure for that project, if you make it clear and transparent for everyone to see that each state of the federation gets 1,000 kilometre, nobody will question it. There would be justice. And our leaders would walk on the streets without security. Our leaders would sit down with everybody without fear. It is only when we do not do the right thing that problems will arise because there is an injustice.

    If out of the 36,000 kilometres of roads, somebody decides to take 5,000 to Ondo State simply because he or she is from there, there is no amount of preaching you will do that people will listen to you or be convinced that you have not perpetrated injustice of the highest order.

    An instance is when you have a government official who earns N5 million a month and there is another Nigerian who is earning a miserly N5,000 per month, how do you expect peace to reign? There will certainly be no peace. That is why a leader must rationalise all these contradictions, which is what leadership is all about.

    Given your analysis of the Nigerian situation, would you say there is justice and equity in the land?

    Definitely no! We do not have justice and equity today and that is why you have pockets of dissent all over the place. There is the Boko Haram, the MEND, MASSOB, the OPC. If there is justice and equity, there will be peace and all the ethnic militia springing up will be in their houses sleeping.

    With regards to your exclusion from the Will by your father, what further claim can you still make to the late Ikemba as being your father, as the outcome of the testament has revealed your rejection as Ojukwu’s son?

    My exclusion from my father’s Will does not smack of my rejection legally. As a lawyer, I know that you have the power to Will your property to anybody legally. But being a son or a daughter to someone is more sacrosanct, and so it is. It is not something you can wish away. It is so natural. So, a man’s exclusion from a Will is as far as property goes. And with regards to disinheritance, the law provides that if you want to disinherit your son or daughter, you must state in black and white that you are disinheriting your son. And since the Will did not state that I was being disinherited, there is nothing like disinheritance. What has happened is what could be regarded as an unmentioned child. That is the position of the law. So, that is the way it is.

    You have only tried to employ legalese to explain away the unfortunate development arising from the Will. But the true position, as we speak, is that your father disinherited you and which culturally could be interpreted as his outright rejection of you as his son. Are you still insisting this is not the case?

    No, it is not disinheritance. It is simply exclusion, and by law, it is allowed. If you go to people like Chief Sunny Odogwu, Chief S.N. Okeke and the rest of the elders who were his friends, who had been with my father and me, they know my relationship with him as a son. So, the picture you have painted is not the case. It is only those who are his enemies that are playing this up.

    Why are you (The Nation’s team) here today to interview me? You are here because you have seen a trace of him in me. So, does the current situation not smack of irony that those who claim to be his brothers want to throw away the best representation of Ojukwu? It is because from ab initio, they hated him.

    As the first son of the late Ikemba, why were you prevented from burying your father, which was against the Igbo tradition?

    I took them to court for not allowing me to do ‘dust-to-dust’. I am still in court and that is why the Will suddenly surfaced. The Will came to kill the case in court. There was a build-up to what is now unfolding. I was into the management of my father’s property. My grandfather had told my father not to go to court over his property. That was the injunction he left for everybody. I was mindful of this since I learnt of it from my father before he died.

    When my father was taken to England for treatment, those who claimed to be his brothers went to Abuja to swear to an affidavit that he had become a vegetable. According to them, my father should not count in the management of OTL (Ojukwu’s Transport Company). My father was not happy about this, even on his sick bed.

    I returned from England, where I was with my father to discover that I had been sued. So, you can see that they were the first to run to court over the property of my grandfather in complete disregard to his (my grandfather’s) instruction. They broke my grandfather’s covenant. In any case, I did not shy away from the suit they instituted. The court, however, dismissed their case while upholding my own case over the management of OTL.

    When they realised that the case over my management of the transport company was still subsisting, they had no defence and they had to threaten me to withdraw the case before I could be allowed to play the traditional roles allowed by the first son in the burial rites of my father.

    When they did the funerals of my father and I did not perform the rites because they prevented me from doing so, it was then people began to see through their antics. Again, they realised that I was not cowed.

    Their next trump card was the Will, which they forged purporting that it was done by my father. It is rather curious that if you had to debar someone from performing the ‘dust-to-dust’ ostensibly because he was not the son of the man, how did you know that he was not the son of the man when you have not seen his Will? Or did they see the Will before his burial? Does it not sound strange to you?

    Chukwuemeka junior claimed in some media reports that the Will purported to have been read was not the original Will of the late Ikemba and you are claiming also that what you have given to us was the Will read. Which one are we to believe? The one your younger brother said was yet to be read or the one already read?

    When there are many Wills and there is a contention, it means there is no Will. The answer is that there is no Will. If my brother claims he has a copy of what he deems the original Will and which he is not supposed to be in possession of, that again is fake or warped in itself. He is also challenging the Will which was reportedly read, which I insist was a concoction. I have given you a documentary evidence to prove to you that what was read was a concoction.

    Part of it is that I was not mentioned. I must be mentioned because I am his child. And if they claim I am not his child, then the correct test to determine all that is a DNA. This is not something anybody can wish away. The Will they read would have been sacrosanct if it mentioned my name but that nothing was given to me. So, for it (Will) not to mention my name, means it was fake and somebody has to prove to me that it was the original Will of my father.

    That I was barred from performing ‘dust-to-dust’ was discriminatory and it is against Section 42 of the Nigerian Constitution, which says that no child should be discriminated against on the basis of circumstance of birth.

    There was a report that a DNA test was done on all your father’s children before he died. How true is this and were you part of it?

    Well, they said there was a DNA test. But the lawyer who wrote his Will claimed that he did not see me. According to him, when he came back in 1982, I appeared and disappeared for 30 years. The lawyer who said he wrote the Will said that. This was somebody who said he did not include my name because I fought him over JAMB office. The lawyer who said that was supposed to be the lawyer who wrote the Will. What he said has been proven to be mendacious. So, for a lawyer who could fabricate all this, how is he supposed to be believed? The so called DNA test was said to have been done in secret. But how can a DNA test be done in secret? A DNA is usually done and made public. I doubt strongly if this was so. Everything is a grand conspiracy.

    What is it about you that your siblings and uncles seem to be so afraid to warrant what you have called a grand conspiracy against you?

    Let me give you one hypothesis to make you understand. I made an approach to you and told you I had bars of gold deposited under the seabed and I asked you to try and retrieve it for me. I also told you that if you retrieve them, you will be entitled to 50 per cent of the value of the gold. You are being given 50 per cent because of the inherent danger in going under the seabed. Of course, I am making you this offer because I did not expect that you will succeed. So, I decided to increase the percentage to 60 percent. But unknown to you and me, providence would smile on you as you get closer to the bank of the sea and suddenly a mermaid throws the bars of gold at you even before you dive into the sea. It means that you no longer need to go as far as the seabed to fetch them.

    After that, you tell the man who sent you, here are the bars of gold. Can I have my 60 percent of the value as you promised? He suddenly begins to dribble you because he thought you might not make it or that you would die in the process. The man begins to tell you that the 60 percent you charge was too much. The scenario I painted captures my experience and my current ordeal in the hands of those trying to tell the world that I am not the son of Ojukwu. When I was given the brief or contract to try and recover the property of OTL, nobody thought I would succeed.

    I could jolly well have left the police force to recover the property and ended up not recovering them. And that would have meant that I would not have anything to fall back on up till now. But because I succeeded, they suddenly remembered that the 30 per cent I was given was too much. The 30 per cent meant that I was richer than those who even had shares in the company. If you give someone 30 percent, you will agree unarguably that that person is going to get something big out of the deal.

    They are fighting me because of what they thought I made. So, that was why my siblings and the rest of them felt that allowing me to stand before President Goodluck Jonathan to collect the N1 billion the Federal Government was to give would add up to my already filled sack of money I already had. But they forgot that a labourer deserves his wages and not inheritance. Even the Bible recognises the fact that a labourer is worthy of his wages. Does it not surprise you that the same people my father was in court with are the same people I am also in court with? It is clear that I am fighting his war.

    You were also reportedly quoted in the media to have said that you are richer than your father. Are you actually richer than your father and how much are worth?

    I did not say that. You know, you journalists have a way of colouring stories in a way that makes it appear different from what the true situation is. I remember saying that the assets I have are more than what they are fighting me for. It is not about property but about one’s lineage. And if I leave without challenging it in court, 40 years down the line, somebody will look at my son in the face and ask him, when this thing was done, what did your father do? So, one has to go court to prove that you are his son. You can have one million naira today and robbers can snatch it from you but nobody can snatch your lineage from you.

    It is what I made of my disengagement from the police that has paid off and turning others’ heads against me. The decision I took some years back has paid off for me as wages and some people are trying to take it away from me.

    Your father is believed to have brothers who are professors, engineers and what have you who are established in their chosen field of endeavours. Why are they not rallying round and supporting you as their brother’s first son who needs to be supported? Why does everyone, including your uncles, seem to be supporting your younger sibling against you?

    Their grouse against me, essentially, in their thinking, is that I am cornering everything. But the truth is that if I turn over the estate to them, they will in turn, turn round to sing alleluia to me. But they fail to realise that the estate would not have gotten to them in the first place, but for me.

    Remember that the entire estate was given back to my father by Gen. Ibrahim Babangida. And if the estate were still in the hands of my father till today, it would have been one of the estates Bianca would be suing for in the last suit she instituted. And the case would have remained in court for 20 years. So, by extricating the estate and keeping it, they want to take it from me, but without at the same time giving me what is due to me. And that would be tantamount to enriching them.

    Why do you think they are aligning with your brother against you?

    That is because I am holding the ‘goat’. Chukwuemeka forgot that we were out with our father driving on the highway and suddenly, he (Chukwuemeka) found himself driving into the bush. He remains my younger brother. But he must come out from the bush so that I can show him the way. I cannot meet with him in the bush because I do not know if there are traps. He was also excluded from the funeral rites of our father. He was not part of the burial committee.

    According to Igbo tradition, when a man dies, his first son is expected to inherit his Obi. In the case of your father, who inherited his Obi, you or Chukwuemeka junior?

    It is Emeka because those using him against me encouraged him to inherit my father’s Obi, all in a bid to slight me. I recall that when Emeka’s mother died, my father told him to his face and right in my presence that ‘you are not my eldest son’. He had to beg me to attend his mother’s funeral with him. He cannot deny that he begged me to attend his mother’s funeral. He phoned pleading with me to attend his mother’s funeral.

    In what capacity was he begging you to attend his mother’s funeral?

    Of course, as his elder brother! When our father’s mother, that is our grandmother, was still alive, he took all of us to her homestead in Agbaru and she was asked who were these children she brought home with her? She said ‘they are my grandchildren from where I got married.’ And the elders said bring the first child let us bless him. And our grandmother pushed me forward to be and I knelt down and they blessed me before Emeka and others. Could the mother of our father be lying that I was the first son of her own son? All the text messages Emeka sent to me when our father was sick are still in my phone. And each time he inquired about our father, he would always ask ‘how is dad today’? why did he not say how is mom today?

    How is your relationship like with your step-mother, Bianca?

    She remains my late father’s widow. She is also trying to fight for her children. That was why she ensured that the all property my father acquired when they were married went to her. Of course, nobody begrudges her. But for anyone to go a mile extra to say my name is not in the Will is not something that will go unchallenged.

    Have you ever been bothered about what is happening in the family and tried to settle all these differences without fighting dirty in the media?

    I am one person who believes in the truth. And for me, if you err and recognise the fact that you erred and you are ready to show remorse, there is no reason why forgiveness should not come. But when you try to grandstand, there can be no settlement in sight.

    What role did your father play in the burial of your mother because there are insinuations that your mother allegedly led some federal soldiers in a failed bid to capture him in his bunker during the civil war, a development that reportedly made your father to turn against you and your mother?

    That is also another lie. My mother was a primary school teacher and the most peaceful person you could find on earth. She was teaching in a Roman Catholic convent. It will also interest you to know that my father met my mother as a virgin. That is why I am an exact replica of my father. I was born with purity. I was the child of his strength.

    As for the role my father played in the burial of my mother, I was with my in-law when I heard that my mother was dead. So, immediately I rushed to my father to tell him what happened. He wanted to go for her burial, but he was too frail. I prevailed on him not to stress himself. He drew me closer and hugged me and started shedding tears. So he sent Bianca and his Chief of staff, Colonel Nwobosi, to represent him at my mother’s burial. He told him to go and make sure that Sylvester was doing the right thing. His Chief of Staff returned and told him that from what he saw, he was sure that I had taken care of everything. My father surprised me when he ensured that Bianca was at my mom’s burial.

    My mother made one statement about my father to the effect that he was a very principled man. My father, before he died, regretted not marrying my mother. She was a woman with pure love.

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  • I’m 37 and my lady is 21, is it societally okay for us to marry?

    Hi Aunty, please help me I’m 37 and my lady is 21, is it societally okay for us to marry? Please help me. I don’t have access to your paper these days in our place. – Joe, Plateau.

    You’re both adults and she’s of consent age, so what’s stopping you?

    Except her parents are against the union, I don’t see why you shouldn’t be married. Love, maturity, endurance and other ingredients have to be in every relationship and marriage; do you think you both

    have those? Then go ahead. Below, I have some opinions of your subject matter for you:

    P. Ahmed: So long as you are both legal and grown up enough to know about love, relationships and marriage.

    Creative Guy: One of the strongest & happiest couples I know are a genius blind woman then aged 31 and a super fit ex-commando then aged 75. Over 2 years later, they are still the most fabulous lovebirds and everywhere they go, folks love them. They are both quite exceptional folk.

    Jemil: Well, I’m 64 and my girlfriend is 38. We get on famously even though she does call me father from time to time.

    Goody: My wife is 10 years younger than me and we have been together for 9 years and not many problems at all.

  • Beyond pardon (1)

    In a few months time, I will be 64 years old. At this stage in my life, one would expect that I would be free of such relationship issues like heartache, betrayal, lack of trust and other matters of the heart that lots of people face in life. But it’s not so. A few months ago, I was stabbed in the back, betrayed by someone I loved with all my heart and soul and invested so much in.

    The traitorous person, the snake who has caused me so much pain is none other than my wife, Timi. Timi was my life, my sunshine, the one who made me wake up with a smile on my face each morning. I believed she loved me too and would be by my side for the rest of my days. How wrong and naive I was!

    Looking back now, perhaps I should have known this would happen considering the differences between us especially the age gap. You see, I met Timi when I was already in my mid-50s; that was eight years ago. She was very young then, about 23, just fresh from school and as pretty as one of those models one sees in those glossy magazines. How did a young girl like that with so much going for her, end up with a man like me, that was old enough to be her father?

    It’s a long story and I think I should start from the beginning…

    We met when I was still working, before my retirement. It was in a government parastatal and I had been posted to our office in Port-Harcourt a few years before. I was a very senior staff then, the second in command at the office. There was a day I had gone out of the office to see someone and on my return, I had met the receptionist having an argument with a young lady. She was dressed in the white and khaki uniform of the NYSC.

    “Madam, I’ve told you several times but you’ve refused to listen. My boss said we don’t have any vacancies here. We have enough youth corpers serving here and we don’t need more. So, please go!” she ordered.

    “Please, aunty, try to help me. All the other places I’ve been to rejected me. Where do I…” the young lady was saying when I intervened.

    “What’s going on here?” I queried.

    They both turned in my direction, the receptionist quickly standing up on recognizing me.

    “Welcome, sir!” she greeted cheerfully.

    I looked at the young lady, then turned to the receptionist, who was called Vero.

    “Is there any problem?” I asked again.

    Vero explained the situation to me, all the while glaring at the young woman.

    “She keeps pleading to be taken to serve here, even after I’ve told her we don’t have any space left.”

    I studied the young lady, noting how distressed she looked. I asked her name and after she had told me, I said to the receptionist:

    “It’s ok, Vero. We can take one more person. Take her to admin and tell the manager that she can serve here,” I said, turning to go to my office.

    “Oh! Thank you sir! God bless you, sir!” she stated effusively, genuflecting.

    “It’s alright, Timi,” I said, leaving the reception.

    That was how Timi came to do her youth service programme in my office.

    Some days later, I travelled to Lagos to see my family over the long public holiday. After my transfer to Port-Harcourt some years earlier, my wife had refused to relocate with me to the Garden City.

    “You were transferred to Lagos from Calabar just three years ago and now you are moving again. I’m not going anywhere!” she had declared. I didn’t blame her. Any woman would be tired of moving from one city to another like a nomad because of the peripatetic nature of her husband’s job. In the past, she had always been supportive and understanding and had gone with me wherever my job demanded. But as she noted, this was one transfer too many.

    “Omos has just settled in her new school and it won’t be fair to uproot her now and move again,” she had explained. Omos was our last child and was in senior secondary school. I had four children. Two of them, both boys, had left the university and were already working while the other one, another daughter was in her final year in the university.

    So, based on that, my wife and the family had remained in Lagos and I had gone to PH alone, living like a bachelor again. I visited them some weekends or during public holidays.

    On my return from this last visit, Timi, the youth corps member I had accepted to serve in our establishment, came to see me.

    She arrived with a ‘thank you’ card.

    “There was no need for this,” I said, as I admired the hand made card.

    “I had to sir. I was really desperate that day and you came to my rescue,” she explained, smiling broadly at me.

    “I couldn’t bear to see a pretty lady like you looking so miserable,” I said as I studied her closely. She was dressed in a nice blouse and black skirt and she looked more relaxed and calmer than she did on the first day I saw her.

    The following day, I had closed from work and my driver was taking me to my club to unwind after the day’s work. I saw Timi standing by the bus stop near our office and I told the driver to stop.

    “Where are you going, Timi?” I asked from the car window.

    She said she was going to see a friend at Rumuola before heading home.

    “I’m going in that direction. We can drop you,” I offered.

    She got in and we drove off. Along the way, the friend she was going to visit called to inform her that she had to leave home for an emergency somewhere and she should wait for her at home.

    On explaining the situation to me, I told her to come with me to the club and she could see her friend later.

    We spent some pleasant hours at the club. I chatted and drank with a couple of my friends who had just finished playing a game of tennis. I also played regularly but mostly at weekends. I loved to play golf too at the nice golf course on the posh estate belonging to a top oil company where the club was located.

    After that, Timi, who loved to swim, expressed the desire to visit the club regularly to use the pool. I arranged membership for her and some evenings, after work, we would head for the club together. That was how we began to spend time together but as just friends.

     

    Another level

    At this stage, I just saw Timi as a young, pretty girl with a friendly, cheerful disposition. As a man, I found her very attractive but I never had any intention of getting entangled with her. But things changed about five months after we met. I had a very good friend, who was a top government official in the state. There was a day he held a party to mark his wife’s birthday and I was invited. My wife could not come to PH that weekend and since I didn’t have any date, I asked Timi if she could accompany me as my date.

    She agreed and we attended the party together. She was dressed in a blue evening gown and she looked very lovely.

    “She’s beautiful. Is she your new catch?” another friend of mine, Calvin asked, as he watched her chatting animatedly with another guest.

    I shook my head.

    “She’s doing her NYSC programme in my office. She’s just a young friend,” I explained.

    “Young friend indeed! Francis, you are talking as if I don’t know you,” he stated in a sarcastic tone.

    “You think everyone is like you, that can’t resist anything in skirts!” I fired back, moving away to chat with my host who I saw approaching…

    After the party, it was quite late. I had given my driver the day off and since Timi lived in one of the suburbs, which was a bit far from the venue of the party, it was agreed she would stay in my house located in one of the GRAs that night.

    My houseboy, Johnson who did the cooking, cleaning and other duties around the house, had slept when we arrived at my place. I showed her to one of the guest rooms and gave her some things she would need to make her stay comfortable.

    I was in my room getting ready for bed when there was a knock on my door. Timi was standing there when I opened the door. I noticed she was wearing one of the old T-shirts I had given her to sleep in that night. The top was short and it left her smooth, sexy thighs on display. I quickly looked away from the tempting sight.

    “Is there anything you need?” I asked her.

    “Actually,” she began, then seemed to change her mind. Then she asked if she could come in.

    I let her in, looking at her curiously.

    I went to switch off the TV set and when I turned back, I could not believe the sight that met my eyes.

    There was Timi standing there stark naked as the day she was born. By her feet was the T-shirt she had been wearing.

    “What the…? Timi, what are you doing?” I queried, my eyes fixed on her tantalising body. She placed a finger on her lips, walked towards me and wound her arms round my neck…

     

    •To be continued

    What happened between Timi and the narrator that night? Read the exciting details next Saturday!

     

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  • Court dissolves 10-yr-old marriage

    The Isolo Customary Court, Lagos has dissolved the marriage between a Lagos–based businessman, Anughere Kingsley Elochukwu, and his wife, Adaeze   Tina.

    Anughere had dragged his wife before the court on the grounds that she had abandoned her matrimonial home to engage in adultery.

    The petitioner, who resides at No 13, Ofokarie Street, Okota, Lagos State, claimed that his 10-year-old marriage to the respondent had broken down irretrievably, hence it should be dissolved.

    The respondent, however, denied all the allegations.

     In his ruling, the president of the court, Mr. A. Haastrup, said that it was not love that brought the feuding couple together as husband and wife but mere infatuation.

    The judge gave the custody of the two children produced by the marriage, Onyekachi and Ogechukwu, to the respondent.

    He, however , ruled that the petitioner should be allowed access to his two children and that he should place them on a monthly allowance for their upkeep.

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  • He’s 7 years older but his jealousy is affecting our relationship

    Hi Adeola, I’m 19 and an undergraduate. I’m dating a guy who truly loves me although 7 years older than me but he happens to be to jealous whenever he sees guys’ calls on my phone although he does not receive lady’s call the way I do. I hope his jealousy cannot lead to a breakup.

    Put yourself in your guy’s shoes and let’s see if you would be happy to see him receiving regular calls from other girls. The future of this relationship depends on you. If your man is unhappy about your constant frolicking with other men, stop it. Have friends he knows about. These should be friends who ask after him when they call and who may even want to say hello to him. If you allow flippant calls to be the bane this good relationship, you would be shocked that none of these other guys would give you the kind of love you just lost. Be wise.