Category: Saturday Magazine

  • He wants us to be seen together but I don’t want to

    Hi sister, great job so far, I love your column. I’m a girl of 19 and in a relationship. I love my guy so much but d problem is he thinks am not proud of him on account that I don’t and wouldn’t want anyone from the church to see us together. I admit to that because I’m afraid of how my mum will feel when she gets to know that I’m dating someone in church. Although I’ve tried explaining things to him but he wouldn’t listen. As a matter of fact, he wants us seen together. Please help me out, I love him so much and I really want to eraze that thought from his mind. Betty.

     Dear Betty, there are dangers in dating a guy and hiding it for whatever reason. Even in relationships obvious to the world, you still see people trying to make passes at one or both of the partners in that relationship. So what do you think would happen to both of you when people don’t even know you’re dating? Fine girls from the church will be giving your guy the come-on signs and praying he notices them. A lot of these girls wouldn’t wait to be noticed by him before they announce it to the pastor that they are in courtship. A friend of ours who is recently divorced started getting friendly with two girls who were both co-workers with him on the same church unit. In his mind, he was just being friendly and would occasionally drop one of them who didn’t have a car off. He got an invitation by the church pastor one day and to his astonishment, the pastor told him he should chose just one out of the two sisters and not confuse them by proposing to the two of them. The sisters had had an open fight over him in the church. That is how desperate women have become now. So when you have your own, make it known that he has a ‘mark’ and save him from other girls.

    If your guy is god enough for you to love and date then, it shouldn’t be a problem to let mummy know about him. As a matter of fact, it is even better for him to meet your mum properly as your boyfriend. That could set the pace for a happy and decent relationship.

  • NANTA generates N125b for airlines in 2012

    The National Association of Nigerian Travel Agencies (NANTA) said its members have generated more than 125 billion naira in the volume of business for the airlines in 2012. This was disclosed by the association’s president, Alhaji Aminu Agoha, in a paper, titled ‘The Role of NANTA in Aviation and Tourism business’, at the just-concluded African Travel Market (Akwaaba). He said the huge volume of business transacted by the agency has made it mandatory that the activities of travel agencies be properly regulated and controlled. He said this would ensure that the business is conducted within the confines of the law.

    One of the key roles that the association can play in the development of tourism in Nigeria, he said is to encourage airlines to promote Nigeria as a destination, as is done by the airlines for other countries. The NANTA president said there was an impression that air fares in Nigeria were among the highest in the world. According to him, “The general perception, according to him, was that the air fares to Nigeria from the rest of the world were the highest in terms of flights time and rates, thereby creating a disincentive to potential tourists.”

    He said NANTA, as an association maintains a comprehensive data of the travel agencies in Nigeria to effectively regulate the activities of the agencies and see to it that they operate within the ambit of the law.

    Agoha said it is important that both the government and the public understand the role of of NANTA as critical in the development of the travel industry. He spoke further: “By law, NANTA seats on the board of the Nigerian Tourism Development Corporation (NTDC) by virtue of which it is put in a vantage position to contribute to the growth of and development of the tourism industry in Nigeria. NANTA also enjoys a robust relationship with the ever supportive Director General of the Nigerian Tourism Development Corporation (NTDC), Otunba Segun Runsewe, who is committed to promoting tourism in Nigeria, inspite of all the obstacles and challenges. The NTDC’s participates and showcases Nigeria in some of the major international trade shows, such as the ITB-Berlin, Arabian Travel Market and other. This has created a great deal of awareness, but is yet to translate to boom for our tourism sector.”

    Agoha encouraged his members to attend trade shows and promote Nigeria with the NTDC telling them the the NTDC has offered to sponsor willing NANTA members to such events. He said there was no one in better to market Nigeria as a tourism destination than the travel agents.

  • Sheraton Abuja holds Check-out for Children challenge

    Sheraton Abuja Hotel recently hosted over 1, 000 participants at the annual UNICEF ‘Road to awareness walk’ for 2012. The event is a 5km Walk interspersed with motivational music and dance from various bands. An aspect of the event was held at the Ladi Kwali Conference Centre of the hotel and had participants drawn from various organizations, government bodies, schools and orphanages.

    The wife of the Nigeria’s Vice President, Hajia Amina Mohammed Namadi Sambo was the special guest of honour. She was represented by the Minister for State for FCT, Mrs. Olajumoke Akinjide and a host of other dignitaries and family members.

    Top officials from the Airfrance KLM Royal Dutch Airlines, Signature Holidays, Dufil Prima Foods, makers of Indomie noodles, Nigerian Bottling Company Plc (Coca Cola), National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons and Other Related Matters (NAPTIP), Capital Hotels plc, owners of Sheraton Abuja Hotel, True Expressions, NIPOST, Measure Evaluation Nigeria, Federal Road Safety Corps, European Union representatives, major Corporate, public and private organizations, the management of Sheraton Abuja Hotel and the UNICEF country Representative for Nigeria, Dr. Ibrahim Fall, were present to grace the event.

    In her address, Hajia Namadi Sambo, thanked Starwood Hotels and Resorts World Wide and the Management of Sheraton Abuja Hotel for the initiative. She also appreciated the efforts of all the sponsors.

    The Check of Children Challenge heart is a Starwood programme devoted to achieving the UNICEF Road to awareness target for 2012, which aims to facilitate the construction of pre-schools and help 50,000 children under the age of 6 to get ready for primary education in Africa.

  • I wept because Mama died without giving me scholaship, says 11-yr-old Mayflower pupil

    I wept because Mama died without giving me scholaship, says 11-yr-old Mayflower pupil

    I knew Mama very well. We all loved her because she loved all of us. She gave scholarships to students whose parents could not pay their school fees. She even sent people overseas to study. I cried when I heard that she was dead. This is because I had hoped that one day she would give me a scholarship

    Sheila Solarin, humanist and wife of late educationist, Tai Solarin, knew her time on earth was up and prepared for her eventual transition. As she prepared to breathe her last, the words on her lips were: “I want to go home. I want to seeTai.”

    Sheila, who died on Sunday, October 21, 2012 at the age of 88, according to her daughter, Corin Solarin, lived for humanity. “I was with her when she went home. And the last thing Mama said was: ‘I want to go home. I want to see Tai.’ She knew she was going, and she prepared herself.”

    Corins said witnessing her mother’s transition had further strengthened her resolve to live life like her and makes her (Corins) bold to face her last moments gracefully the way she did. “We’ll all get old someday. I hope that I can face it with as much courage and grace as she did,” she said.

    Indeed, since she passed on, her home, located inside the premises of Mayflower Schools, Ikenne, Ogun State, has continued to receive visitors who troop there to pay their last respects to a woman acknowledged by many to be passionate about education.

    Speaking with The Nation, Corin said although her mother’s death was painful, she and the rest of the family were happy that she lived a “Christ-like life” because of her untainted love for children.

    And it was for her love of children that the Scripture Union (SU), Remo, Ogun State, stated in the condolence register: “Adieu Mama. Your love for children and youths brought us together to camp our youths for annual long vacation camp.”

    The SU was not alone in the outpouring of emotions since news of her death broke. For Corin, the comments and outpouring of emotions were testimonies that “Mama has gone to be with the Lord.”

    She added: “What I’d miss most about her is her hard work and her love for the people around her. She was an inspiration to everyone, especially me. She was a dynamo. I have been in this house receiving guests, and it is a sign that she was widely loved. I don’t think she had any enemy. You can imagine, the governor of the state, Ibikunle Amosun, was among the very first set of people to visit the hospital. The students have been here to show how much they will miss her. That shows you how the people viewed her.”

    Corin is also not unaware that she cannot fill the vacuum created by the death of Mama. “She is one in a million and I will never be Mama, though I share the same DNA with her. I hope for my own sake that there is a lot of Mama in me, though I know that there is a lot of independence in me because I have been told that. I try to be as upright and caring as Mama was, but there was only one Mama.”

    Talking about the legacies of Mama, Corin said they were never in fancy buildings or in wealth. And sure enough, you need not be told about this aspect of Mama’s life. Her living room remains Spartan, austere and devoid of the type of splendour and ambience you would expect to find in the home of a woman of her stature. The most conspicuous treasures on the wall were two paintings of Tai and Sheila. In another corner was a rich library of National Geography magazines.

    Among the other things that make Corin proud of Mama’s legacies is her love for humanity. “I am humbled to be the child of a woman who lived her life for the people. All the people who have come to pay condolences have not come to see me. They came to see Mama. I am very proud to be the daughter of somebody who, as simple as she and Papa were, have continued to command the respect of the people.”

    Corin is not alone in this outpouring of emotions for a woman who viewed education as the only way to set oneself free from poverty. Eleven-year-old Oso Aramide is a JSS student of Mayflower Junior School. She was among the many students who broke down in tears when news of the death of the woman they had all come to regard as Mama filtered into the school last Monday.

    Oso, who started her education from the Mayflower Kindergarten, had hoped to benefit from Mama’s scholarship any time soon. But her death has robbed her of that dream.

    “I knew Mama very well. We all loved her because she loved all of us. She gave scholarships to students whose parents could not pay their school fees. She even sent people overseas to study. I cried when I heard that she was dead. This is because I had hoped that one day she would give me a scholarship.”

    Her friend and classmate, Elizabeth Ajabu, felt sad that Sheila was dead. Her death, she said, would rob the younger generation of students at the school the chance to benefit from her wealth of experience.

    “As children, we heard a lot about Mama. She was loved by all of us because she showed concern for all of us. If she noticed anything about you, she would call you to find out. She was a mother to all of us.”

    It was the same story for Farouk Olasunkanmi. A lively boy, Farouk said he and his friends were sad that death had taken away “our mummy.”

    The Vice Principal of the school, Mrs. Kemi Yussuf, believed the teachers would miss the late educationist more than the children. According to her, Mrs. Solarin was a mother figure to the entire population of the school.

    “Would you believe she still came to school till last July before we went on vacation? She was the Head of Department of the English Language. She took special interest in all the teachers and students. She taught letter writing and essay writing. She was too good. We will all miss her.”

    The children are not the only ones that will miss Sheila Solarin. This was the message of the Ogun State Commissioner for Education, Olusegun Odubela. Speaking with The Nation when he paid a condolence visit to the home of the Solarins in Ikenne, Odubela described Sheila as a pillar of education.

    “You know Mama was a pillar when you talk of education in Ogun State. She was a woman of substance. She dedicated almost her entire life to the development of education. For us as a government, particularly in the education sector, if you talk about education in Ogun State and Nigeria, you must mention her name. For our governor in particular, he really cherished her. You know for him, education is key.”

    Interestingly, Odubela’s first official function as a commissioner was a visit to Sheila. “My first official function after being sworn in as a commissioner was a visit to Mama. The governor had only administered the oath of office on us when he called me and said I would accompany him to Ikenne,” he recalled.

    He also expressed optimism that the state government would do something to immortalise her. “Though it is too early for me to talk on that now, knowing our governor for who he is, I am sure he will do something to immortalise Mama.”

    With her funeral fixed for November 8 and 9, 2012, her burial plans have no doubt eclipsed that of her husband who was buried in a simple grave a few hours after he passed on, in respect to his request.

    But Corin explained that her mother’s funeral plans will not take anything away from her simple lifestyle. “Mama did not make any request on how she should be buried. But if you look at her very well, Mama was a simple woman. You wouldn’t catch her in lace material or gele (head gear). She was a very simple woman, and we will make the burial ceremony in keeping with what she would have wanted.

    “We also want to ensure that the community of Ikenne and every other person who had contact with her are given the opportunity to pay their last respects to her. Mama had many children, though she had just two (biological) children. So, all of these people would be given the opportunity to say goodbye to her. But I can assure you that it will be devoid of any form of ostentation.”

    While it is true that Mama had only two biological children, there are thousands of others who regard themselves as her children. Bonded together by their Alma Mata, Mayflower Schools, they all regard and address themselves as ‘Ex-May’.

    One of them is Dr. Wale Omole, the Chief Medical Director of T&S Hospital, Mushin, Lagos. Young Omole first met Tai and Sheila Solarin sometime in 1973 when he arrived at Mayflower Schools for his secondary education.

    The son of a farmer and a petty trader, Omole went to Mayflower, courtesy of an elder brother. But within a short time, the young boy had drawn the attention of Tai and his wife.

    “My first encounter with Mama occurred sometime in 1973. I wanted to travel, so I needed permission to enable me travel. I went to see Papa to request for an exit but he wanted to know why I wanted to travel and I told him I wanted to go and see my brother for my school fees. He simply refused to let me go because, according to him, the roads were bad and I was too precious to the school. There and then, he offered me a scholarship.”

    But Omole would end up not using the scholarship. He said: “One day, I was in the classroom when I received a note from Madam (that was what I called Mama then) that I should see her. When I arrived at her office, she simply smiled and gave me a strong handshake. She told me that I had won the Western State scholarship.”

    From that point, he became a kind of unofficially adopted son of the Solarins. “I stopped going home for holidays. It really surprised me that people who didn’t know my parents would decide to take me as their own child. We were many like that who found home with them.”

    The late Sheila was born in Carnforth, Lancs, England in 1924. She came to Nigeria in 1952 when she joined her husband to work at the famous Molusi College, Ijebu Igbo, Ogun State. She left three years after to become the principal of Ijebu Igbo Girls’ School.

    She would move again to team up with her husband to establish the famous Mayflower School, Ikenne, in 1956. Her love and dedication to children made her a toast of the students who found a mother figure in her.

    She was also appointed the founding principal of Ikenne Community High School in 1980. Four years after, she retired to oversee her pet school, the Mayflower Junior School.

    Funny enough, the history of the pet school is tied to that of Corin. “Mama started that school with me and a few other children of our neigbours. When it was time for me to start school, she discovered that there were no schools around, so she decided to teach me and others. That was how the school started.

    As the November burial date for Sheila draws near, her home continues to attract sympathisers who want to celebrate a woman who lived her life to ensure that as many children as possible get education.

  • Akwaaba: World tourism managers meet in Nigeria

    Akwaaba: World tourism managers meet in Nigeria

    In Ghana, when an Ashanti person says Akwaaba, he is simply welcoming you to his home or country. This normally comes with a broad smile that lights up his whole face. This friendliness and warm welcome are common features in every West African country. It has become an important tool with which the region woos visiting in-bound and local tourists. The essence of this key feature in West Africa is what has been captured to create the West Africa Travel Market, also known also Akwaaba. It is the only international travel fair in West Africa. For a region with a population of 270 million people and 15 countries, numerous airports and the largest number of travellers, it is not a small achievement for the country.

    Akwaaba is the marketing platform for travel companies in the region. It provides a unique opportunity for those in the travel and tourism business. It also helps travel companies to establish a presence in the market, maintain existing sales and also offers the opportunity to promote the products ,increase market share of products, reach a set number of new customers, assess the competition, foster relationships with existing clients, extend brand reach and grow corporate image. It is also a positioning platform and a feedback mechanism. It has become a yardstick to feel the pulse and to measure the industry in West Africa.

    This year’s fair has companies and governments from Nigeria, South Africa, Ethiopia, Zimbabwe, Ghana, the Gambia, the United States of America, the United Kingdom, United Arab Emirates (UAE) and many other countries. It is the gathering of tourism practitioners to do business. The Akwaaba Travel Market has become a landmark in the annual tourism calendar of West Africa. It has become a barometer to access the tourism market in Nigeria.

    One of the high points of this year’s event was the presence of an American based tourism marketing expert, Mr. Paul Cohen. He came at the invitation of the Nigerian Tourism Development Corporation (NTDC) to help in capacity building for tourism practitioners. He talked about how Nigeria could reap tremendously from the American travel market by understanding it and creating the product that American tourists desire. This is in line with the theme of the fair: Showcasing the tourism and cultural potentials of Nigeria.

    Speaking on why Paul Cohen was invited to deliver the lecture at the fair, the NTDC Director General, Otunba Segun Runsewe, said it was in line with his effort to move the the industry beyond the realms of indoor discussion and give the private operators practical guides on how they can packageand market their tourism products in Nigeria.

    He said knowing the multiplier effect of tourism, this will also impact on a large number of Nigerians who will make their livelihood from such visits.

    Otunba re-emphasised his parastatal’s desire to continue to partner with credible tourism practitioners that would impact positively on the tourism fortune of the country like the Akwaaba.

    The fair also saw large presence of the aviation sub-sector of the travel industry with top airlines like the Emirates, Delta Airline, Ethiopia Airline, South Africa Airline leading the aviation industry.

    He said that the fair seeks to provide marketing and networking platform for the practitioners. Unlike in the past whereby the fair’s participants are drawn from only tourism, hospitality, aviation industry and the parks, the insurance industry, as part of the ancillary service needed in the industry, also showed their presence.

    The fair has in the past had its share of top personalities who have contributed in no small measures to the development of tourism in Africa. Among these are former President Dauda Jawara, General Olusegun Obadanjo, Danny Jordan of South Africa and many others. This year was not different.

    Chinyere Kalu, Nigeria’s first female pilot and the Rector of Nigerian College of Aviation Technology, Zaria, along with Captain Desta Zera of Ethiopian Airways the first African to fly a Boeing 787 Dreamliner was honoured with Legend of Africa award. Cross River State for the third consecutive year won the Outstanding Tourism State of the Year.

    Delivering a paper, titled, Training future aviators, Mrs. Kalu saw the training of future aviators as paramount in the development of aviation in Africa. She said the development of Africa’s economy is tied to the development of the transportation system, especially air transportation. Using statistics, she explained that about 99 per cent of investors that come to Africa came through the airport. She continued: “the state of aviation secftor of Africa is almost moribund due to dearth and declining manpower development in Africa. Although Africa is the second largest continent and home to over 17 per cent of the world population, it has the least developed transport system, including air transportation.”

    She said to train future aviators, government must see the need to make policies that position the aviation industry as a top priority area of development. Such policies should be developmentally biased than merely utilitarian or service driven,” she said.

  • Keys to a lasting marriage (3)

    Dear Reader,

    I thank God for the opportunity He has given me to bring His Word to you again. This week, we shall be expounding on the benefits of a lasting marriage.

    God designed marriage to involve the spirit, soul and body. So, the blessing marriage carries is expected to affect your spirit, soul and body. When God blesses the union of the man and woman, certain things follow. These include:

    Spiritual strength

    God expects the married couple to become stronger spiritually, than when they were both single. Two of them brought together in the warfare against the devil will cause 10,000 devils to flee. Deuteronomy 32:30 says: How should one chase a thousand, and two put ten thousand to flight, except their Rock had sold them, and the LORD had shut them up? Thus, they become a greater terror to the devil than they were before marriage.

    However, many people (women in particular) complain of not being as active as they were before marriage. Some claim it is because they are faced with greater responsibilities (a husband and children to look after, meals to cook, and general household chores), particularly if they are also employed outside the home.

    However, this does not negate God’s Word which declares that: Two are better than one (Ecclesiastes 4:9). The blessing of a husband and children should not be used as an excuse not to stay in touch with God; otherwise you’re opening up for the blessing to be turned into a curse. All you need to do is to believe God for better time management, so that nothing suffers – not your walk with God or your family.

    Divine Favour

    Another benefit of marriage is divine favour. Favour of God elevates you to such greater heights that men begin to envy you. You become a reference point of a good marriage. When you step out hand in hand with your partner, people will begin to whisper, “See those two. You will think they only got married yesterday.” Marriage then becomes desirous, which is what it should be.

    God’s favour also secures for you a lifting and promotion in status, often bringing about increase in material possessions, finances, etc.

    Taking a look at the first family (Adam and Eve), one discovers that even after the fall, Adam’s family still enjoyed God’s favour. They had sewed fig leaves together and made aprons to cover their nakedness. But because of the special favour God reserved for the family, God overlooked their betrayal and clothed them with animal skin. He clothed their nakedness, and thus removed shame from them.

    Also in spite of the fact that Eve was the one deceived, and the primary cause of the fall, out of favour, God made her a promise in Genesis 3:15: And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel.

    Divine Security

    God, the husband and wife form a three-fold cord that is not quickly broken. As man co-operates with God and establishes His purpose for marriage in the home, He honours that family by ensuring that nothing prevails against it. They (the man and his wife) are equipped to withstand, with the help of the Lord, all demonic forces and pressures of the secular world.

    Physical Fulfilment

    God honours the physical union of a man and his wife, by ensuring that they find pleasure and fulfillment in each other’s body. Apart from preventing temptation, both husband and wife satisfy their sexual urge. They are provided with legitimate avenues to release their sexual desires.

    This is why God frowns at adultery, because your partner should be enough to satisfy you. I often say humorously, that there is nothing another man or woman has that your partner doesn’t have. All you need is to be content with your spouse, and then you will enjoy the blessing of marriage.

    Fruit of the Womb

    The marriage union is expected to produce children. That was God’s plan from the beginning (Genesis 1:26-28). If it doesn’t, grief and frustration often set in.

    The fall of Adam and Eve was what opened the door to barrenness, but God sent Jesus to redeem mankind from every curse of the law. Now, if you are born again, you are exempted from barrenness! Therefore, see your griefs and frustrations ending right now. Children are your entitlement, if you’re serving the Lord.

    To enjoy the benefits of marriage, you have to first be in a oneness relationship with God. You secure this oneness relationship with Him, by confessing your sins and accepting Him as your Lord and personal Saviour. If you are set for this, please say this prayer of faith: Dear Lord, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me my sins.  Cleanse me with Your precious Blood. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour.  Now I know I am born again!

    Congratulations! Till I come your way again next week, please call or write, and share your testimonies with me through: E-mail: faithdavid@yahoo.com Tel. No: 234-1-7747546-8; 07026385437, 07094254102

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all the Living Faith Churches, and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work and Building a Successful Family.

  • From London with love

    In the past, I wouldn’t think twice before packing a bag to go abroad on holiday. Holiday for me could be just anytime in the year I needed a more clement weather. The good thing about all those years was the fact that I could do my journalistic job from any part of the world. And with the internet, my stories never failed to get to my editor’s table right on time. I was nicknamed the ‘visiting editor’ while I served as Society Editor of The Nation. My overseas trips were so regular even I could not predict when I would take off again.

    Of course I was five to six years younger then and even though I was focused, I still had some excesses. All that has changed.

    The last holiday I took was last year. I have learnt that as we grow older, many things change naturally and we have to be more grounded to handle life. It’s been an eventful period for me between last year and now. All in all, my Maker has not left my matters in my hands. I have seen my Feranmi become a freshman at Babcock University at his very young age. When you send teenagers well under 18 off to university, it takes all your strength in prayers and counselling to do that. You constantly need God and the workings of angels. God help us.

    I have also had to watch my business and endeavours rise, dwindle and rise again. The good thing is my ability to plan ahead and have a Plan B in case of business disasters. Thank God for my plan Bs.

    Maintaining a happy home and a life and striking a balance are things we all continually have to work hard at. The last few months have seen me putting my all into the home-front and working on the challenges. So when the pull to take a holiday to London via France came this week, I felt I truly deserve it. So here I am, sending love to you all as I stretch my legs and savour my sweet cup of hot chocolate. God knows I need this one break. Happy Sallah to you all.

    Sen. Umaru Dahiru, thanks for the big ram they just informed me you have sent my way again. My Allah bless you.

  • It’s a shame that I ensured peace in Liberia, Angola, Sierra Leone, yet no peace in my home state

    It’s a shame that I ensured peace in Liberia, Angola, Sierra Leone, yet no peace in my home state

    After a glittering military career spanning over 30 years, Gen. John Shagaya (rtd) made his foray into politics as a senator representing Plateau Central Senatorial District of Plateau State from 2007 to 2011. A one-time ECOMOG Commander, and variously head of peace keeping operations in troubled parts of Africa and Asia, Gen. Shagaya ensured that peace was restored in war-torn Liberia, Sierra Leone, Angola, among others. An emblematic trouble-shooter that he was in his days as a soldier, his home state of Plateau is encased in intractable crises of bleeding proportion with none able to guarantee peace. Senator Shagaya speaks about the trouble in Plateau, the collapse of the ‘monolithic North, his botched attempt to return to the Senate, among other issues, in an interview with the Assistant Editor, LINUS OBOGO. Excerpts:

    One would have expected that you would have made it back to the Senate, but that was not to be. What would you say went wrong?

    What I believe went wrong as at the time was the forcible nomination of a candidate by the governor of Plateau State under whose rule the state lost more lives and property since its creation in 1967. Some of us at that time thought that the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) would have allowed all the candidates of the party to emerge and go through the primaries for the people to choose whom they wanted to represent them. I lost hope in the democratic practice where someone else will be selected over the choice of the people, so I quit PDP and decided to just stay quiet.

    The convener of the North East Forum for Unity and Development (NEFUD), Alhaji Bello Kirfi, was reported to have called for the secession of the North from Nigeria, although some others elders disagreed with him. What do you make of this call, especially when considered against the background of the reported American Central Intelligence Agency´s (CIA’s) report predicting that there might be no country called Nigeria by 2015?

    Let me say that you have raised two issues and that is the so-called prediction by an American Central Intelligence Agency (CIA) and secondly, the content of the outcome of the North East geo-political zone of the Northern Elders summit in Bauchi. For the latter issue, I want to say that I was not part of that meeting and I have not read the content or communiqué from the meeting and so, I cannot hold brief for the conveners of the conference. But suffice it to say that some youths of the Southern part of Nigeria have irresponsibly raised the issue of the Delta region seceding from the rest of Nigeria. So, if there is any truth in the report of the Northern Elders summit, it might be in response to the reckless comment of the Niger Delta youths. And I believe that it is as a result of that reckless comment that must have given vent to whatever might be coming from the North.

    The President has consistently in the last nine months, in every address of his, maintained that nothing will cause Nigeria to break up. And if nothing else, he cannot be the variable at this point in the country’s history to be used to cause the break up of Nigeria. There have been those comments all over the place and anybody is free to want to make his comment heard.

    With regards to comments from America, I addressed a conference of the armed forces about two years ago on the issue. It was just about the time President Olusegun Obasanjo was leaving office and the late President Umaru Yar’Adua was involved in his electioneering, when suddenly, there was an outburst of a prediction allegedly by the CIA that Nigeria would break up in 2015. Following the frenzy, I went to America to do an investigation and it has since revealed that there was no such prediction by the CIA. What emanated from the so-called CIA prediction could have been a sponsored research. There was a young man, an American student, who was working on his PhD programme. The research had to do with global peace, global economy, crises, diseases and global everything. In his research paper, a copy of which I obtained from the university and which I have in my library, he touched on America and a host of countries and continents.

    What did he say about America? He said America would soon be destroyed by cancer because of the concentration of chemicals in their diets. Most of what the Americans eat synthetic-based food like vegetables, meats and other dairy products. For instance, it is no longer a thing of surprise to find that a two-month-old broiler being consumed. Eggs are no longer naturally laid by chickens but genetically modified. So, that was that young man’s research on America. When it was the turn of Africa, the young man decided to narrow his research down to Nigeria and Kenya, but with emphasis more on Nigeria. What he set out to say is almost coming to pass with regards to the US and China. China today may be pretending to be feeding themselves, but in actual sense, they cannot feed themselves. They are all over the continent of Africa today looking for farmlands to farm and ship back to their people. And that was exactly what the young PhD student was saying in his thesis.

    In the case of Nigeria, all he was saying was that the country was a very powerful sub-regional country in west of Africa. He said Nigeria has managed to take up the responsibility of the security of the sub-region in the ECOWAS and the ECOMOG. And next to Nigeria would have been Egypt, but it has been bastardised because of its involvement in the Middle East crises. Next to Nigeria also, as an emerging power is South Africa.

    On Nigeria, he tried to publish from the result of the World Health Organisation research on HIV/AIDS epidemic and concluded that if we did not do anything about it to control the scourge and its spread, the country will lose so much of its population. And if Nigeria loses so much of its population, then the Nigerian armed forces would also be depleted and so, by a certain period, if the situation is not properly handled, the country will not be able to perform the sub-regional watch-dog it is known for today. He also dealt with corruption and so many things that had to do with Nigeria.

    But some mischievous Nigerians just took one line from the thesis and went to town with it. It is akin to those who never read Salman Rushdie’s The Satanic Verses, only to be the first to go to the streets in protest against the book. I have read the book three times and I can tell you that unless you studied English or literature, you cannot understand what the author is talking about. Yet people who never went to school started carrying placards on the streets. Unfortunately, our politicians decided to just pick up one line from the thesis and went to town that the CIA predicted that there will be no country called Nigeria by 2015. It was purely an outcome of a research work by a university student. The CIA never predicted anything of that kind.

    What will make Nigeria to be no more is the inability of our leaders to handle some of the security issues and other challenges confronting us as a nation and blaming them on others. That is why when a man has a problem in Kano, he blames it on the President. When there is a problem in Jos, he blames it on religion and when there is a problem in the Delta region, it is blamed on Abuja. There is a growing tendency that when something happens in your state, you look for a scapegoat somewhere to hang it on.

    With due respect to the Yoruba, they have the most learned Islamic clerics in West Africa today. Do you find any religious crisis in the region? My answer is no! The reason why there is no religious tension in the South West is because of the high degree of literacy. The Yoruba respect each other’s right to religion. That explains why they inter-marry and still practise their different religions. While the Yoruba can fight and set themselves ablaze if it has to do politics, they will definitely not disagree and go to war on the basis of religion. That says a lot about their level of sophistication. The North is not more Islamic than the Yoruba. Whenever there are Christian festivities like Christmas or Easter, you will find their Moslem brothers and sisters celebrating with them and vice versa. Why is this not obtained in the North? The reason is simple, illiteracy.

    The crisis in the Northern Nigeria today is illiteracy. This has fuelled much of the trouble plaguing the region. As we speak, I am yet to find a professor of Islamic Religion from the North. There is none. Knowledge is grossly lacking and illiteracy stalks the region like an incubus.

    There is one Bishop Josiah Fairon of the Anglican Communion, Lokoja, an ex-military school boy. He was my junior in the military school. He holds PhDs in different areas of studies including Islamic religion. Yet he is a Christian cleric. He can discuss the Koran with the Sultan of Sokoto on an equal footing and knowledge. The Catholics also have a man who is well learned in Islamic knowledge in the person of Bishop Mathew Hassan Kukah, the Bishop of Sokoto. He is a Master’s degree holder in Islamic Religion. This is an addition to the PhD he holds. The truth is that once Nigerians realise that there is value in education and pursue it vigorously, we will understand ourselves better.

    The North is today believed to be at cross purposes with one another or a region of a babel of voices, leading to the argument whether there still exists what was once a monolithic North. Was there ever such a bloc and if so, what may have gone wrong?

    I am now 70 years old. And I am old enough to be able to understand and to have seen the politics of Nigeria, the politics of the North and other parts of the country. By 1960, I was already a young man standing on a parade ground to be part of the Nigerian armed forces that ushered in Nigerian independence on October 1, 1960. So, one has seen and heard a little bit of what it used to be.

    There is one question we need to ask ourselves and that is, why is it that from 1953 till date, the Middle Belt decided to have a voting relationship, a political relationship with the South West? There was the United Middle Belt Congress/Action Group, a relationship which started in 1953, yet there was Northern Nigeria. The situation will be likened to what I described earlier in the Delta region, the Isaac Boro uprising of 1964. The youths of the Middle Belt of the early 40s and 50s believed that they were not being adequately carried along in terms of involvement in the administration. So, they discovered that in the South West, there was value, knowledge and understanding. But in the late 50s and early 60s, when Sarduana discovered the move by that geo-political zone, what he did was to get closer to the Middle Belt and he found out what was likely to be a revolution that would take part of the North to align with either the South West or the South East. When he discovered what the problem was, he drew the leadership of the Middle Belt in people like the late Joseph Tarkar, Paul Unongo, the late Sunday Awoniyi, Abdulraman Okene, among others, closer to him.

    Having brought them closer to himself, he decided to send them to universities outside Nigeria to acquire more education and come back to form a very good link between their communities and the administration of Northern Nigeria. That was how he handled the issue and that was why a lot of the Middle Belters respected the late Sarduana. Even though he was a Moslem, he was the leader of the North who respected everybody and treated everyone equally until the coup of 1966 consumed him. His most trusted person was his principal private secretary, the late Sunday Awoniyi, a Christian. Each time the late Sarduana travelled to Israel, he would buy the latest version of the Bible for Awoniyi. He would tell Awoniyi: ‘Your God is a good God. Stay close to Him’. There was nothing people didn’t do for Sarduana to sack Awoniyi because he was not following him to the mosque on Fridays. But the Sarduana said no, because he felt there was one God and there is still one God and there shall be one God. So, when I hear people speak about monolithic North, I come to the conclusion that it is used for cheap acceptability.

    Since 1967, when Gowon decided to break northern Nigeria into six states with six more from the South, bringing it to 12 states and subsequent state creation, each state has been ruling itself. So, the so-called monolithic North will not arise again. Only leaders who lack the initiative will want to go on hanging onto something which no longer exists. Even though others may think differently, that is what I think. I was a Minister for Internal Affairs for five years and I was the first Christian to be in that ministry for five years. The point I am making is that for those five years, I was the chairman of the inter-religious committee and I made sure that through dialogue and understanding, the North and the South West observed Sallah on the same day. Until 1985, the North would not accept the sighting of the moon of the South West. So, there were two Sallahs and different Sallah holidays. It took a lot of understanding to manage the situation. We need that kind of understanding today.

    When Izalla Moslem sect wanted to create problems in 1982/83/84, no one knew who they were and the only way we could destroy the Maitasine sect was to acknowledge that there was a sect called Izalla. We recognised Izalla and we gave them a certificate and told them that they could practise but they should make sure that JNI and CAN knew who they were. When we did that, Maitasine disappeared. The Izalla was fighting for recognition and as soon as they did that, they sheathed their sword. They have their headquarters in Jos which is a Christian state. So there is value in respecting people and knowing their worth. Again when in 1987, there was this big religious crisis in Northern Nigeria and I was made the chairman of Organisation of Islamic Conference (OIC), I had the responsibility to handle the issue and I worked with people from other religions.

    I remember then that we were desirous to be in the OIC, but the timing was wrong. We said since we were still suspicious of one another, it was better we pulled out and return to the status quo as an observer country. That was the decision at the time. But the question is, who launched Nigeria into an observer status of the OIC? It was General Yakubu Gowon (rtd), who was a Christian head of state and I saw nothing wrong with it because as human beings, we must recognise the existence of each other.

    If OIC was handled the way you explained it, why was it alleged to have caused the resignation of the former Chief of General Staff, Commodore Ebitu Ukiwe (rtd), from the IBB-led military junta?

    What happened then was high level politics which I am incompetent to speak on. That was not the reason. Unfortunately, Gen. Sani Abacha is now late, but if he were still alive, then he could contradict me. What happened was that there was conflict as to who truly should be number two and it had nothing to do with the OIC. Ukiwe, as the Chief of General Staff, was the number two, that is second in command to Babangida, but Sani Abacha would never recognise him as number two. He believed that as the Chief of Defence Staff, he should have been number two. So that was the high level politics that was going on then. Ukiwe lost out because something happened, and it is that something that you should investigate.

    Was that what obtained in previous military regimes before your time, lack of respect for hierarchy?

    The answer is no, which was why I said that at that time, there was crisis of leadership. You can go as far back to Gowon’s regime. He had just spent a few hundred days then and there was confusion as to whether his regime would survive or not, because of the killings in the North and part of the West, so there was that lack of confidence. When Gen. Gowon was in the saddle, the number two man would have been Brig. Ogundipe. But he gave an order to a corporal to do something and the corporal told him that he could not take orders from him. Immediately he told Gowon that he could not be his number two, since an ordinary corporal could tell him that he could not take orders from him. So Gowon sent him as High Commissioner to London. Again, when the cloud surrounding that administration settled, Gowon then took the next most senior military officer, Admiral Akinwale Wei. So, there was respect for hierarchy. When the late Gen. Murtala Muhammed took over as head of state, he took the most senior military officer as his deputy, that was Gen. Olusegun Obasanjo. When Murtala was assassinated and Obasanjo took over, the next most senior was not Shehu Musa Yar’Adua. It was Theophilus Danjuma. But Theophilus said since Murtala was assassinated, it would be better to give the position of number two to someone from the region where Murtala came from to assure them that the administration meant no harm. That was why I said that Abacha and Ukiwe’s situation was peculiar. Ukiwe is alive, so he can speak for himself. The highest sense of discipline was observed throughout the military administration and especially under IBB. If there was none, there would have been no way that IBB would have dismissed a colonel for refusing to account for N300,000 travelling allowance that he collected.

    The North appears to be opposed to the inclusion of the six geo-political zonal structure in the constitution. Is there anything the region is afraid of?

    Unfortunately for the North, the six geo-political zonal structure is in the military decree. It will be interesting to know the particular individuals that are sharing these extremist views. You can’t say that all the 19 Northern governors will be speaking with one voice. It is not true. Plateau State may not share in that. If the Delta region fought for self-governance to the extent that they carried arms in 1964 and today they have three states, Delta, Bayelsa and Rivers, why should someone wake up and say that they must go back to former Eastern Nigeria? Is it possible? If the Middle Belt, the United Middle Belt Front and the Borno Youth Movement which did not also want to believe that they belonged to the Hausa/Fulani groups, because the Borno Empire believes that they are more Muslims to the core than the Hausa/Fulani who were conquered by Usman Dan Fodio. That problem still exists; hence the Shehu of Borno would not accept 100 per cent the authority of the Sultan over him. Is the person advocating for a return to the old regional structure speaking the minds of everyone? These are conflicting issues. That is why we have to understand the standpoint of whoever is commenting on an issue.

    As former ECOWAS Commander, you put your life on the line to bring about peace in the West Africa sub-region- Liberia, Sierra Leone, Ivory Coast and other troubled spots in Africa. How does it make you feel to be described as a commander who ensured peace for others but has no peace in his own homestead?

    Well, I have always admitted before the media that I share in the shame of Plateau for three reasons: having served my country and other parts of Africa all my live, ensuring that there was peace in Liberia, Rwanda, Angola, there is no peace in my own home, which is Plateau State. It is quite a shame. The second reason is that the man who administers the state today, Governor Jonah Jang is a retired colleague of mine in the armed forces where you would think the highest discipline and respect for human lives should be sacred and therefore would have been called to order by his GOC or the president, were he still in the armed forces, yet he appears clueless and helpless and cannot be called to order. It is a thing of shame.

    The third reason is, as a Christian who is God-fearing and who believes in the faith I uphold, that human live is sacred, and yet I see lives and property being destroyed and I cannot do anything about it, all in the name of democracy. So I also share in the shame.

  • How can I continue my relationship with these three guys without having sex with any of them?

    My dearest and sweetest Mummy Adeola, it’s your daughter Ndifreke (I’ll never forget). I’m 19 years and I’m about starting university. I have three close friends, they’re all graduates, so intelligent, courageous and altruistic, also they’re my mentors and I learn a lot of things from them being intelligent and I wouldn’t like losing them as well. So please mummy, how can I continue my relationship with them without one disclosing I have an affair with the other and also without having sex with any of them, mum please help me, I love you so much.

    Dear daughter, I’m sure I didn’t quite get your message about one not disclosing to the others that he’s having an affair with you. Are you having an affair with one of them? If you are, then, it may be a good idea to let the others know. This will forestall the incidence of any of the other guys coming to ask you out. Below are tips on maintaining a platonic relationship with your male friends:

    “Do not give your friendship any sexual meaning. If you want to be only friends, keep it that way. Do not touch or talk to the guys inappropriately. Do not use words with sexual connotations if you do not want the friendship to delve into another territory.

    “Keep your feelings in check when people constantly try to imply that the platonic friendship is more that what it seems. Do not let others ruin the relationship that you have with their awkward questions and hidden expectations. Instead, define your own world with your platonic friends.

    “Avoid discussing feminine related matters with your male platonic friends. Do not treat them as your other girlfriends and reserve your judgment until asked. Spend time with them whetgher together or apart from each other but do not take them to for a little shopping spree. Keep that reserved for your girlfriends.

    “Maintain a high opinion of your platonic friends. Do not undermine their intelligence and let them participate in general conversational topics. Do not mock other men in front of them.

    “Be respectful of each other. Avoid being in a situation or a position which can compromise your friendship later on. Do not use unorthodox methods to test your friendship. Appreciate what you have as any such false move can push the limits and destroy the beautiful bond.

  • Sustainable tourism key to the future of Africa’s Parks

    Tourism is one of the most effective ways to preserve Africa’s national parks and protected areas, while creating jobs and income for local communities. This was one of the main conclusions of the First Pan-African Conference on Sustainable Tourism in African National Parks, organized by UNWTO and the Government of Tanzania (recently.

    “Nature is one of Africa’s greatest assets,” Opening the conference, UNWTO Secretary-General, Taleb Rifai, said: “Many of the 50 million international tourists visiting Africa each year are driven by the continent’s unparalleled wildlife and natural scenery. These tourists spend in the local economy, sustain jobs and provide an incentive for conservation, making tourism a powerful engine for sustainable development.”

    The importance of sustainable tourism development for national parks and the people living in and around them was echoed in the Arusha Declaration, adopted by attending tourism ministers, tourism private sector representatives and conservation officials.

    Signatories to the Declaration underlined the importance of good governance in managing park tourism, calling for collaborative action among the relevant stakeholders, particularly between public authorities and the private sector. The Declaration further stressed “the need to directly involve local communities in the management of parks and protected areas to ensure they gain concrete benefits in terms of employment and income generation”.

    Knowledge exchange between African countries should be prioritized, agreed signatories, given the potential for countries with more limited experience in park tourism to benefit from best practices elsewhere in Africa.