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  • Do women lose their womanliness in the political space?

    Do women lose their womanliness in the political space?

    By Nnedinso Ogaziechi

    The world, including Nigerians have been praising the election of Vice-President-elect of America, Kamala Harris as a great milestone for women in politics. Significant as that is, Africa and other countries have produced female Presidents, Prime Ministers and other types of heads of governments before the United States and the United Kingdom. So, economic and technological powers of the world are trailing in terms of women in politics and that is not even going back to the African Amazons era and the Queens that colonial masters met and discouraged their acceptance and powerful positions for their own politico-economic expediences.

    Burundi blazed the trail with the first woman Prime Minister, Sylvie Kiningi. Liberia followed with President Ellen Sirleaf Johnson. Joyce Banda from Malawi became the President of Malawi from 2012-2014. The first female Prime Minister in the World was Sirimavo Bandaranaike of Sri Lanka in 1960. She was democratically elected before the famed British Female Prime Minister, Margaret Thatcher.

    Whether the narrative is skewed in a certain form or the other, women around the world have held and are still holding different but equally  significant political positions. Angela Merkel is holding forte in one of the strongest European economies. Women are leaders in New Zealand, Finland, Iceland , South Korea etc.

    While the debate about gender parity in Nigerian politics rages, the RoundTable Conversation had a chat with Wilson Ideva, a Chartered accountant and Managing Director of First Guarantee Pension Ltd. He describes himself as a non-partisan Nigerian but very interested in good governance seeing the value of that to the growth of global economies. To him, Nigerians must think seriously about good and functional  leaderships from the ward to the highest  levels.

    He believes that women are more dedicated when it comes to leadership and personal leadership skills should be paramount. Gender to him does not imbue anyone with skills. He believes that strong and ambitious women do not want to fail in any assignment as they go all out to prove their worth and capacity. Leadership is not just occupying a space, it is very demanding and it demands the very best of skills and willingness to serve the people who are the reason for governments.

    Decision making is about polished skills and competence and has nothing to do with gender. A Biden has nominated a lot of women to key cabinet positions because they are in a system that recognizes competence as key. As usual, the nominated people, varied as they would all be thoroughly screened by the Senate of the United States. Here then is the difference between Nigerian politics and the rest of the world. The screening processes are normally very thorough as experts in various fields would ask all the necessary questions to make sure the nominees have earned their positions.

    On the contrary Wilson says, successive Nigerian Presidents usually just send the nominees to the Senate without portfolio and the Senate perfunctorily just asks some questions seemingly to fulfill all righteousness. In some bizarre cases, no questions are even asked as some nominees often tagged ‘friends of the house’ because they held certain political offices in the past are told to ‘bow-and-go’. This has had very devastating effect on the economy as it seems that competence is not often a priority to the Senators whose core   legislative duty is maintaining checks and balances on the executive.

    He believes that gender questions should not even be an issue in leadership, the right human must get the job. Margaret Thatcher was a very popular British Prime Minister and the former Chief Executive Officer of Pepsico, one of the world’s best brands, Indra Nooyi achieved tremendous success for the company. Position has nothing to do with gender. At the level of leadership, personal issues and interests must not come in. Women have led many corporations and often show more honesty than men. This is not saying women are saints but experiences have shown that women are more transparent in leadership due to their nurture and nature.

    There must be equity and the leadership emergence processes are faulty currently even when processes ought to lead to get the best. The idea of percentages for women in leadership like the Beijing 35% to him   is flawed. Let there be fairness and equity so that the best individuals can emerge. Wilson believes that an inclusive leadership process is always better than one that excludes and he believes that the Nigerian political space can be sanitized if everyone of the elite gets back to their roots to re-orientate the people who have been deceived for long by some selfish politicians who use exclusion to their advantage.

    When a country is serious about leadership, gender should not be the issue because education in this century has enabled more women to be more educated and as such their leadership capacity cannot be questioned based on their  gender alone. Nigeria will certainly be in a better position with more inclusiveness based on capacity and readiness to serve.

    Lade Bunuola, a veteran journalist and former Managing Director of The Guardian believes on the other hand that the problem of the world today is the fact that women have left their traditional roles to seek leadership. Women are not supposed to be in public office. They lose their womanliness when they leave their roles as advisers and nurturers to men. Women originally were made to guide the men from afar  to be better leaders and not to exhaust themselves leading.

    He quotes the famous statement by the wife of one of France’s most successful leaders, Charles de Gaulle  that she rules the home while he leads the country. The humans are no longer living the ways they are supposed to live. I know it sounds strange but we have to go back to the basics. Women are supposed to receive guidance and pass on to men. Men are supposed to take decisions and then carry out duties of governance. When women get involved in public service, they lose those abilities to be advisors to men and that is why the wold is upside down. Biden by the appointment of those women he has nominated is making very grave mistake.

    The women do damage to their nature when they get involved in politics. Women must rule over men who rule over the world. When women realize that capacity of leading men from the home, the sky will be their limit. Men are strong but women are powerful and power is greater than strength.

    Women are already powerful home leaders and should not get involved in public affairs. However, it is not for lack of capacity but it is about their role in life. Looked at dispassionately, women have the power, while men have the strength in ways that women can influence men to be better leaders rather than seeking to usurp the roles of men.

    He believes that throughout history, women have been known to have power over men in ways that the men do not fail to obey. Men listen to the women in their lives, either as mothers, wives, daughters, sisters or girlfriends and often get them to act in ways that they might not ordinarily. Men often do not say no to women and it is not a weakness but just the way they were created ab initio.

    Once women get their own leadership roles over men right, men will no longer fumble. Let’s even take a simple example, the women are the ones corporate organizations send out for marketing because they have the power of persuasion and that is not in a negative sense. It is usually difficult for a man to say know in instances where a woman is trying to tell them about a good produce or service. This is because nature has made it that women are more intuitively honest and the men trust them a lot.

    The mere presence of a woman makes a lot of difference. Imagine how intuitive mothers are at home. Sometimes they can sense when a child in another country is ill even when the man is with the child physically. It is because the woman has been imbued by nature to be that leader in ways a man cannot access. He believes that women are better off without venturing into politics.

    The RoundTable conversation found these two men almost on a parallel line in their convictions about women’s role in politics and leadership in public service. However, the global existential realities can be weighed on both sides of the coin. What is important to note is that every man or woman, child or adult depend on the overall contributions of everyone at home and in the public service to live and flourish fully as a complete human being.

    The home is as important as the public. In essence, we have to work out the best ways to maximize the human capacity. It does not matter the tags and positions that are tagged. The capacity of the human spirit to regenerate ideas that propel growth and optimal functionality must be what drives the human interactions. An exclusion of either gender at both ends can only spell chaos.

    What Nigeria needs is a profound acknowledgment of the problems at hand, despair and nonchalance cannot be a productive option. The leadership emotion process in the country must be built in ways that engenders development in those countries that we see as models even if imperfect in their systemic organizations. No system is perfect including the hitherto beacon of democracy, the US as recent events have shown but the human capacity to grow and re-adapt is endless. We must make conscious efforts to rejig our electoral processes.

    • The dialogue continues…
  • Requiem for a precious daughter

    Requiem for a precious daughter

    Book Review

    Title: Beyond Loss and Grief: The Passage of Kikaose Ebiye-Onyibe

    Editor: Magnus Onyibe

    Publisher: Narrative Landscape Press

    Pages:       161

    Three years after losing his precious daughter, Kikaose Ebiye-Onyibe, former Delta State Commissioner for Information, Magnus Onyibe has released a book that dwells on dealing with grief arising from the loss of a child.

    In the poignant, heart-breaking, yet hopeful and life-affirming memoir titled: Beyond Loss and Grief: The Passage of Kikaose Ebiye-Onyibe, A Survivor’s Guide to Handling the Loss of a Child, Onyibe seeks to leverage his family’s journey through grief, pain, acceptance, and the eventual celebration of a life to offer valuable counsel to families that have lost a child or those that will go through the experience in the future on how to deal with such a heart-rending loss.

    The book opens with Onyibe introducing the reader to a trip he, his wife and their youngest child made to the University of Birmingham in the United Kingdom, where Kikaose was a second year law student, to retrieve her belonging after she passed away in a hospital in Ikoyi, Lagos.

    Chapter 2 titled: Eclipse takes the reader to the circumstances that led up to Kikaose’s death. Reading through this chapter, one is tempted to scream ‘how could all these have been allowed to happen?’ as Onyibe recounts the litany of professional misconduct and negligence that ultimately led to the demise of his daughter at the age of 18 years.

    While the book dwells mostly on his daughter and the life she lived, Onyibe seeks to honour the lives of 20 other young people including children of public office holders, businessmen, celebrities and other citizens who were taken from their families in the prime of their youth.

    According to Onyibe, the pains from the untimely death of a child do not go away. Parents live with it until they depart this world for the great beyond. However, he believes that  parents owe it to themselves and their departed child to grieve graciously.

    He explains that ‘there is good grief and bad grief. Good grief entails accepting our loss and the emptiness we feel as a consequence but looking to go beyond that point to a place of healing and growth.’

    ‘’Grief, if well-handled can lead to healthy growth after a loss.We can achieve this by contextualising our loss using the optics of the possibility that the tragedy could have been worse. If we lost a child, it could have been two. If we lost two children, it could have been three or four. No one prays for such a grievious tragedy as the loss of a child but when it happens, we must find a way to deal with it and continue to live and be productive.

    ‘’But grief can be bad as well. This happens when we allow grief to fester by harbouring negative thoughts such as: ”the world hates me” or ”my enemies are trying to get me”. Like a bad sore, when grief festers, it could lead to complications that might compromise our health.’’

    Onyibe also suggested that besides contextualising the loss, families could grieve graciously and heal faster using the apparatus of family bonding. ”Family bonding after the loss of a loved one can be therapeutic. It is critical because it allows grieving family members to reconnect emotionally with one another and serve as one another’s support to better cope with the loss. Ideally, this should take place in a location outside the usual home setting’’

    In the later part of the book, Onyibe points out some common mistakes that parents sending their children abroad – particularly to the UK – should avoid. The content of this section of the book are intended to serve as an advocacy for the protection of the precious lives of our young people who leave Nigeria to study in foreign lands, away from the watchful eyes of their parents. It is aimed at enlightening both the young people concerned and their parents on how to avoid suffering the type of tragedy which Onyibe and his family have been coping with over the last three years.

  • Relief, fear, anger, as repentant Boko Haram members embrace peace

    Relief, fear, anger, as repentant Boko Haram members embrace peace

    For the 601 deradicalised insurgents recently graduated from the Deradicalisation Rehabilitation and Reintegration, DRR camp in Gombe and reintegrated into society, it’s another chance to live and perhaps atone for their misdeeds. However, it’s not yet Uhuru, as a good number of them expressed fear of rejection. SHOLA SHITTU reports.

    It was on a Friday when Madagali, a community in Adamawa Local Government Area of Adamawa State was attacked by the dreaded Islamist group, Boko Haram. Armed with Ak47 riffles, the men on motorcycle and pick up vans, swooped on Madagali residents and took them captives – men, women and children.

    There was no age boundary; even nursing mothers and a 73 year-old man were not spared. They were all taken into Sambisa forest, where they were kept for days without food and water. They would later tell stories of how they survived, feeding on leaves and drinking their urine as water.

    Among them was 22-year-old Mohammed Mallah, a father of four with three wives. He was captured together with 21 members of his family; his parents, grandfather and grandmother. It was while they were in search of food in the forest that they found a road to town and followed it through to where they surrendered to the Nigerian Army at Bama. Mallah later went back to bring out his wives, children, siblings and aged parents.

    “On discovering the route, we planned and escaped in the night. It was only in the night that we could move without fear. I came back later to take my wives to a village called Mahinti before my father and mother later joined us. I later paid a man N5000 for transportation to Bama but one of my brothers was left in the bush because he was afraid of being kill. He said the soldiers might mistake them for Boko Haram insurgents and killed them. I however told him we were protected by the soldiers who give us better food and clothes and even provide accommodation for us at the Deradicalisation Rehabilitation and Reintegration, DRR camp in Gombe.

    “The soldiers later led me back to the bush to take my brother. We are here together with our father now and our relations have come to visit us too.” Mallah said.

    Boko Haram repentance members

    The story is however different with 46-year-old Babagana Meranbi. Meranbi, a father of seventeen children born by three wives was a staff of Bama Local Government Education Authority in Borno State before he was captured by the insurgents in 2014 when they launched attacks on the local government headquarters. Meranbi was, however, lucky, as he was dropped by the Boko Haram troops on age reason near a bush leading to Sambisa forest.

    “For me, it was an unfortunate experience and I regret it because they wasted a lot of my time and years. I was in my office at the local government headquarters when they attacked us and captured everyone.

    They took us to a village near Sambisa forest but I was not recruited as combatant because of my age. I later escaped when I had the opportunity and reported myself to the Nigerian Army. I really thank God for the grace to live again.”

    In the case of Saleh Hassan, a farmer, he was recruited with a threat to kill his parents if he refused to follow them. Saleh, who ended up a member of Boko Haram, said he had no choice but to follow the invading Boko Haram soldiers. “I was a farmer and I was recruited into Boko Haram Islamist group by force.

    When they came that day, they entered our house and ordered me to follow them in the presence of my father and mother. I first refused, but they said they would kill my father and mother and the little children in the house if I didn’t follow them. That was how I went with them for three years before I had the chance to run away and submit myself to the Nigerian Army.”

    In those three years, he said, “I cannot remember the number of people I killed but I am not happy with the experience.”

    Different strokes

    For these 601 deradicalised members of Boko Haram and ISWAP group on parade at the Deradicalisation Rehabilitation and Reintegration (DRR) Camp of Operation Safe Corridor, OPSC, it was different strokes and different stories. They were variously involved as Boko Haram combatants, informants, suppliers, captives or in any other forms. On this day, these men were not in the jungle of Sambisa forest carrying AK47 or seeking means of survival but are all dressed in white brocade caftan, a symbol of peace with green white green, Nigeria’s national colour cap to match.

    They have been in the Mallam Sidi Camp of the DRR for 24 weeks, receiving various trainings, teachings and instructions deliberately targeted at deradicalising their mindset and rehabilitating them for onward reintegration into the society. This was their graduation day. As soon as the programme commenced, all of them in their white caftan and green white green cap rose to sing the second stanza of the national anthem as the opening prayer.

    Their number cuts across ages from 73 year old man to a teenager of 14 years. In this camp, they are called clients not ex-combatants. The Chief of Defence Staff, General Abayomi Olonisakin is the chairman of Operation Safe Corridor and he was perhaps the happiest man for graduating the largest repentant Boko Haram members. The training in the camp involved not only the Nigerian Armed forces but also paramilitary agencies like the NDLEA, NCSDC among others and 12 other federal government ministries, department and agencies. A number of international and local non-governmental organisations such as International Organisation for Migration (IOM) and Centre for Democracy and Development are also collaborating with OPSC to achieve its objectives.

    Since inception, OPSC has admitted 893 clients comprising 287 in the first 3 batches and 606 in batch 4 for the DRR programme. Out of the 287 clients in batch 1-3, 280 including 2 Chadians were successfully integrated while seven were deceased. Batch 4 clients arrived in two chalks on 27 November and 14 December 2019. This number comprises 592 Nigerians from 10 states and 14 foreign nationals from Cameroon, Chad and Niger.

    “Out of this number, three unfortunately died of health complications while one was referred for further medical treatment at the Neuropsychiatric Hospital in Maiduguri, and another one withdrawn on disciplinary ground and transferred for re-categorisation and prosecution,” said the CDS.

    According to the CDS, the 601 graduating clients have been completely deradicalised; their extremist ideologies have been relinquished and they now conform to acceptable norms and the teachings of the Islamic religion.

    He added that all the therapies which they underwent have certified them fit for graduation and ready for integration into their respective society.

    “A special counter-narrative package by renowned clerics was also organised for the clients to correct or inculcate the right tenets of Islam and Christianity in them. As part of the DRR programme, visit from family members and prominent citizens were conducted while regular telephone conversations with relations to bridge gap and promote reconciliation were also allowed.

    “During the programme, the clients appeared before the quasi-judicial panel headed by a judge of Federal High Court to confess their past deeds, denounce membership of the insurgent/terrorist groups and swore oath of allegiance to the Federal Government of Nigeria,” Olonisakin said.

    The 601 repentant terrorists who are being reintegrated into their communities were given N20, 000 stipends and basic starter-packs to practise their respective vocations.

    Borno State governor, Professor Babagana Zulum, who was the special guest of honour at the occasion, donated N5 million to the graduates.

    Zulum, who was represented by the state Attorney General and Commissioner for Justice, Babakura Jatau, denied reports that the state government gave the ex-combatants N100,000. 00 each.

    The commissioner said only 10 percent of the 601 repentant terrorists are actually Boko Haram members while the rest are those who were abducted and became accomplices.

    “What the government will do is that they will be brought to Borno State from Gombe and they will be housed in two orientation camps where there are facilities for training and for them to practise whatever they were taught in Gombe.”

    Responding to a question on alleged rejection of the ex-terrorists by the communities in Borno, Jatau said he was not aware of that. He, however, quickly added that rejection by the community cannot be ruled out because of the trauma and what they have passed through in the hands of terrorists over the years.

    “But with enough advocacy, sensitisation and the reports we are presenting to the government for implementation, I am sure they are going to be welcomed back into the society. When we had the screening in the last three days, 80 percent of these people are innocent. We are the victims from 2009 to 2020. It’s almost eleven years, we have not run away, we are in Maiduguri, all the bombings, the sporadic shootings and attacks; we witness them. So we are the victims. We are pretty sure that once we present the report to the government, it is going to be considered and with enough sensitisation, the community will welcome them back,” he said.

    Jatau sent a warning to the terrorists who are still in the bush to come out and lay down their arms and embrace the option of peace, adding that the federal and Borno State governments are willing to accept, rehabilitate and allow them live peacefully.

    “If they however refuse, I can assure you their days are numbered. Sooner or later, the Nigerian armed forces will bring them on their knees,” he said.

    The coordinator of Operation Safe Corridor, OPSC, Major General Bamidele Shafa said the 601 number of the graduating repentant ex-combatants is the standard United Nations battalion. “In any war where you have 600 surrendered willingly to embrace the federal government programme, I think it is a sign for peace ahead of us.”

  • Pedro’s formula for wealth

    Pedro’s formula for wealth

    Title: The formula for Wealth
    Author: Otunba Femi Pedro
    Year of publication: 2020
    Reviewer: Edozie Udeze

    This is a carefully thought out book on how to create business ideas and then make them work to produce wealth. Otunba Femi Pedro, a former deputy governor of Lagos State and someone who rose from the ranks in the business and corporate world before venturing into politics at the instance of Asiwaju Ahmed

    Bola Tinubu, is well grounded to tell this story better.

    His deep knowledge about wealth and, business and enterpreneurship come handy here. Coupled with his profound political leadership skills, this becomes a must read for those who intend to dare. Over the years the author had traversed the world of business to be able to smell materials for wealth generation miles away.

    All these he brought to bear in this rich and well researched book, drawing the attention of the youths to be able to be more focused. The youths do not need to wait for government employment or seek for political appointments if only they can look closely around them. Once they do that, they can easily identify what ventures to go in to become millionaires in no time.

    The book states inter alia that it takes patience, intelligence, and accurate desire and drive to see these potential

    The author is quite explicit in using relevant examples and notes to point these areas out.

    Femi Pedro

    On his own Pedro rose from the corporate boardroom to the political arena within a space of time that still baffles many..

    Therefore he sees wealth creation as one of the most essential elements in life. This is a truism. Indeed, one of the key fundamentals of any successful business is that the owners, leaders as it were, have genuinely manifested the rules of wealth as they are now propounded in this book..In other words, this has created the process to kickstart one.

    Likewise, as the chairman of Small and Medium Enterprise Development Agency of Nigeria at the moment, Otunba Pedro is well positioned to tutor those aspiring to be enterpreneurs. He is also chairman of the Lagos State Sports Trust Fund.

    He began his meritorious career with the Central Bank of Nigeria and so this book opens peoples eyes to the real fundamentals

    of business, private or corporate.

    Like the author enthused it is just to encourage the young ones to go into private businesses, thereby creating their own wealth.

    It is also to help them shun politics and government jobs that may not come.”

    Business abound in the cottage industry, in the farms, poultry and more. All you need is a little capital and push to make the desired headway.

    The book, according to the author will be presented to the public via the Zoom on Friday June 5th in Lagos. Moreover, the joy in the well researched book is in picking and reading for the ingredients to start off an enterprise. The moment is now.

    In a way of summary, the book will help a lot of people to look inwards when they want to start their own business. This way both the youths, the society and the Nigerian nation will gain from those who have chosen to help build the economy and prosper the business world.

  • How to survive abusive relationships

    How to survive abusive relationships

    By Ozolua Uhakheme

    • Title:  I am better than this: What life taught me in marriage
    • Author: Funmi Adewunmi
    • Reviewer: Raymond Mordi
    • Date of publication: 2019
    • Number of pages:  201

    The book, I Am Better Than This is an autobiography of Funmi Adewunmi, with particular reference to her experiences from her two failed marriages. Reading it is an opportunity of getting to know her. In the book, she poured out her heart without reservations, to ensure that others going through similar experiences she went through learn one lesson or the other on how to overcome them.

    As the title suggests, it is a motivational book; one which is capable of changing one’s mindset and teaching one an important lesson on how to overcome self-pity and face the challenges of an abusive relationship. Obviously, what Adewunmi set out to do is to provide help for people, particularly women going the kind of psychological trauma that she went through, by sharing the lessons she learnt in the course of her marital life.

    I Am Better Than This is an easy book to read. The writer adopted a conversational tone, which makes it easier for the reader to keep turning the pages. It is a book of 16 chapters. Each chapter starts with a quote relevant to the subject matter discussed there. A bouquet of flowers and two rings are also used as illustrations at the beginning of each chapter.

    Interestingly, the author confessed that when she first got married she did not do so because she and her boyfriend felt it was the right time to consummate their relationship: the idea of getting married was someone else’s decision; the boy’s mother.

    In this regard, the writer states on page 8: “I could almost say that being seated here clad in these beautiful attires ready to exchange marital vows today was more or less the handiwork of my boyfriend’s mother. She was the grand architect of this early marriage. I recall her visits to London while I was schooling and how she would beg and cajole me to get married to his (sic) son without delay… I want to carry my grandchild. Please, do this for me.”

    Nevertheless, the challenges she encountered in her first marriage is nothing, compared to what she experienced later in her second one. It was in the middle of her first marriage when her marital crisis started however that she converted to Christianity from Islam and became “born again”.

    The core of I Am Better Than This deals with how the writer dealt with what she describes as a narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), a mental condition where someone possesses an inflated idea of his importance and is prepared to inflict psychological torture on his close associates to satisfy his ego. Her relationship with her second husband became so bad that she became an emotional wreck and even contemplated suicide.

    It was her quest for answers to the dilemma she found herself that she became transformed into some sort of expert in psychotherapy. During the transformation process, she discovered that with the right frame of mind she could think clearly and dissect the problem.

    The change of focus made her rise above self-pity and confront her fears. It also made her to stop thinking only about herself and to think of others in a similar situation and how to help them.

    Thus, the writer did not only talk about the problems she encountered but also gives the solution that she eventually found to tackle them. This can easily be replicated by anyone in a similar dilemma. The author suggests how this can be accomplished in the concluding chapters.

    For instance, she states in Chapter Eleven, page 133: “Deep introspection is the pathway to collapsing limiting walls and questions are its tools. For the very first time in my evolution, I began to ask myself real and deep questions and also demanded genuine answers.”

    It is also necessary to emphasise the role of prayers in the author’s quest for freedom and inner peace. The author says she employed spiritual, emotional and psychological tools in her transformational process. For instance, she states on page 138: “I took charge of my situation, changed the focus of my prayers, and took care of myself by eating well and acquiring more knowledge.

    “I made friends with inspiring and informative programs on radio and plunged myself into music that uplifts the soul and challenges me to do more. I became busy and hardly had time for things that are not edifying. It was easy to forget about friends that were not benefitting me or adding value. So I became a master player in the game my husband authored. I wasn’t bothered anymore.”

    One of the subtle messages contained in between the lines of this book is that harmony within the home requires understanding and cooperation between a man and his wife, and that the man particularly is expected to play a leadership role to provide security and stability for the entire family. “A lot of men do not realise that the women in their lives are not looking up to them just for provision, but rather leadership; a leadership that gives direction and character to the home” (page 17).

    One could also glean, from the account of the writer’s upbringing, the impact of the training and discipline she received at home in her formative years in her life as an adult. “Little did I know that all that I experienced in my home were building blocks for a formidable personality with a feeling, emphatic heart and effortlessly enterprising hands… Thinking back now, I’m grateful for the kind of training and discipline my mum instilled in me. The wisdom of age and the appreciation of life’s demands have dissipated the resentments I had towards her” (page 33).

    The theme that pervades the entire book is that marriage is a vital aspect of earth life that must be approached with seriousness and sincerity. She admitted her mistakes in this regard. For instance, even though she had misgivings before her first marriage, she went ahead with it to satisfy her boyfriend’s mother. Against her better judgment, she also allowed emotions to dominate her prior to her second marriage. The writer acknowledges this on page 177: “Even when I saw the tell-tale signs I ignored them… For instance, I could have retraced my steps when he raised his voice at me when I dropped by at my friend’s place to see about preparations for her daughter’s wedding.”

    The author also seeks for a better attitude towards divorcees in society. This is against the prevalent stereotype view in African societies that a woman is to blame when a marriage hits the rock. “Society has not been kind in her treatment of a woman that sheds the name of her husband for whatever reason. I have been there and I would not judge any woman who had to take a decision she felt would be to the furtherance of her life and emotional health” (page 171).

    The main theme of I Am Better Than This is the need for women in abusive marriages to shun self-pity, by being self-motivated and seeing a larger picture of the situation. In this regard, the writer states on page 182: “No matter what you go through as a woman, you must never let your true self be decimated because your power lies in the authenticity that you won. Anything that would serve to reduce, demean, distort or discount your uniqueness, you must deal with…

    “You cannot afford to be with anyone that does not value your intelligence and creativity; you’re truly better than that.”

    The efforts Adewunmi put into making the book readable shows the depth of her knowledge of the language and her love for the written word. This is perhaps one of the benefits of being educated in the United Kingdom (UK) and associating with native speakers of English. The chapters are short: the writer goes directly to the point without the monotony of including unnecessary details that might not interest the reader.

    Nevertheless, the book is not without errors. There are a number of typographical errors discovered in it. The writer also uses some acronyms without writing their meaning in full in the first instance. For instance, the writer could not make up her mind to stick to the British spelling of “programme” or the American version, “program”. She used both versions interchangeably in at least page 155, last paragraph and page 156, first paragraph. Besides, on page 168, the first paragraph, the word “week” was used in place of “weak”. The acronyms she used include OCD, in the second paragraph, page 154, and PTSD, page 163.

    The above flaws, however, do not diminish the value of this book, particularly in this part of the world where people who go through such experiences usually do not speak out as Adewunmi has done. Indeed, it is a rare and truly wonderful book for women in abusive marriages. It is recommended for any woman in a verbally abusive marriage, particularly those who think they are doing everything right but, yet, everything feels wrong and they are to blame for it. The author wants such women to know that they are not alone and that help is within reach.

  • Affordable Art auction holds March 7

    Affordable Art auction holds March 7

    By Ozolua Uhakheme

    Arthouse Contemporary will hold its fifth annual Affordable Art auction on March 7, by 6pm at the Kia Showroom, 308 Adeola Odeku Street, Victoria Island, Lagos.

    The auction preview will take place on March 5, between 6 and 9 pm. The auction aims to engage new collectors with all works of art estimated below one million naira. As the sister edition to the May and November auctions, the Affordable Art auction features artworks that are scaled to an accessible price point.

    This edition of the Affordable Art auction features 101 lots by leading modern and contemporary artists. This auction will feature small-scale works and prints by modern masters including Jacob Afolabi, David Dale, Matt Ehizele, Sam Ovraiti,

    Jimoh Buraimoh and Muraina Oyelami among others. This auction will also feature a print of Ben Enwonwu’s iconic painting Tutu.

    Leading contemporary artists include Rom Isichei, Alimi Adewale, Ben Osaghae, Kainebi Osahenye, Tolu Aliki, Duke Asidere, Uchay Joel Chima, Alex Nwokolo, Kehinde Oso, Tola Wewe and Charles Okereke, among others.

    The Affordable Art Auction also features many rising artists, including Dare Adenuga, Muyiwa Akinwolere, Edozie Anedu, Deborah Segun, Johnson Uwadinma, Agemo Francis, Timi Kakandar, John Madu, Femi Morakinyo, Qozeem Abdullahman, Onyinye Afam and Michael Eneijson, among others, many of whom are participating for the first time at auction.

    The auction will also feature charity lots to support the Arthouse Foundation, a nonprofit artist residency programme in Lagos, with artworks by Oladele Awosoga, Nkechi Nwso-Igbo, A. Akande and Enem Inwang. The proceeds from these charity lots will go directly to supporting the programmes of the Arthouse Foundation, including its residencies, workshops, talks and exhibitions.

  • Interviewer as historian: A review of Eric Osagie’s The Big Interviews

    By Sam Omatseye

     

    Text of The Nation Editorial Board Chairman Sam Omatseye’s review of a book —The Big Interview by The Sun former Managing Director, Eric Osagie

     

    Journalism can be a tedium. Especially for the practitioner. As a reporter, you are told facts are the altars where we worship. Its like the fellow in Charles Dickens’ novel Hard Times, when he warns, “I want facts.” If you alter a fact, you have committed a sacrilege, even if you have 100 percent accuracy in every other part of the work. You can offend a reader, inspire a lawsuit, cost a man a foot, deplete a bank account or or even engender a revolution. The Spanish-American war came from misplaced words. The Yoruba Wars of the 19th century began, according to historians, because of quarrel over pepper. But where is a quarrel without words?

    So, as a reporter, you are afraid to err. In journalism to err is not human; it can be a tragedy. In a whiff of sarcasm, the journalist Gene Fowler said, “Writing is easy: all you do is sit staring at a blank sheet of paper until drops of blood form on your forehead.” To put it more tersely, let us go to the words of the supreme satirist, novelist and journalist, Mark Twain, who noted that “Writing is easy. All you have to do is cross out the wrong words.” But you have to write the right words first.

    That explains why Eric Osagie kicks off his book of interviews with pages about what journalism is all about. It is the word not written but the word spoken that is his forte in this work titled, “The Big Interviews: How to get the news subjects and angles that make the headlines.”

    But the spoken word has to humble itself into the pie of a written form to be read unless it is broadcast on radio or television. Yet, as Osagie also reminds us, whether it comes on television or in a newspaper, the editor has to come with his or her eyes or with his or her scalpel or with his butcher.

    What comes out to the consumer tends to be like a product like a loaf of bread or candy. To borrow the words of some diplomats, making a work of journalism is like making sausages. You don’t want to see it in the kitchen, but you love the taste when it is done.

    But for interviews, you love it for its formal properties when it is well done. But its effect may vary from one person to another. That is why interviews are like life. They tell the story of you and me, the fears, the triumphs, the struggles, the contradictions, the prejudices. It is the story of those who make war and wage peace, who transform and ruin lives, who turn a society into a marvel or make us marvel why societies run against the rock. Hence Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote that “There is properly no history, but the biographies of great men.”

    So, through this book we see some of these men and women of history. Is it the austere, headstrong, ramrod tall, laconic Buhari, or the crafty, gap-toothed, manipulating Maradona we call IBB, or his presidential meekness but often underestimated Alhaji Shehu Shagari, or the warlord Odumegwu Ojukwu, his fiery eyes sparking through his mass of Abrahamic beard? Or the Jagaban, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, the modern maestro of Nigerian politics, or TY Danjuma, the general and billionaire with roaring tongue thundering over the Mambila Plateau. David Mark is trying to get out of the shadow of an IBB boy, or is it the scratchy bass of Nyesom Wike’s voice in the turmoil of Rivers state politics, or Nasir El Rufai whose presence undermines the height that God gave him, or Masari in his acquisition of titles, of the self-glorifying Godswill Akpabio, whose exploits in the small state in the riverine region makes him a whale in shallow waters. Patricia Etteh, a first for women, also a first in a catastrophic fall. Or Jeremaiah Useni, the half-sober, half-prurient former general trying hard not to be misunderstood. Or Victioria Malu, who is bitter but also reminds us he is a gentle man with regards to his boss OBJ. Or Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala who brings her lofty training to a failing state. Or the warrior of the people, Adams Oshiomhole, who must divide himself between war and peace in the fight for the worker’s nirvana. The fire-eating moral exemplar Nuhu Ribadu who must tear himself from the society around which he is tragically wrapped, even amidst threats to his life. Finally, the Sharia matador, Ahmed Sani Yariman, who must run away from alcohol and the flesh of women so he can cut off the arms and legs of thieves and Allah’s enemies.

    In all these, we have the fury in the fight between IBB and Buhari flaming through the pages. We see Ojukwu the vain, the romantic, the philosophical and warrior. We see Shagari a reconciler but more subtle than many know. Tinubu is familiar but we see his childhood, the birthplace of his mastery of political intrigues, fights and triumphs. Danjuma the soldier cannot be submerged by the civilian.

    We start off with the duel between IBB and Buhari, and how both men did not forgive each other. Buhari is not talking much, but he is angry a lot. The reader has to fill in the gap of rage. IBB is angry, and each accuses the other of lying about what happened in the turbulent years of the 1980’s when one overthrew the other. It seems a battle to the death, but it’s two soldiers who can no longer bear arms but duel through the agency of newspaper men like Osagie. They telegraph their bullets to each other through words. No one has fallen yet.

    IBB’s interview also captivates with his definition of the word “sorry.” He sees his attitude to June 12 as taking responsibility. He does not seem to define taking responsibility as apology, but sometimes in the interview he wants us to see it as both apology and not apology. Talk about Maradona. It is a thing historians will duel over. We know he will not say “I am sorry,” whereas he wants people to believe he has made a sort of mea culpa.

    The Ojuwku interview  moves with pathos. Listen to the following dialogue:

    Question: “Beyond the civil war and all that, in this country you are also regarded as one man who married, perhaps, one of the most beautiful women in Nigeria. Is that part of the Ojukwu mystique?

    Answer: I will get very angry if you say ‘perhaps one of the most beautiful women. Without a doubt, I have married the most beautiful woman on the continent Africa. Up till now, I still marvel at my own ability to pull it through.

    Question: How did you do it?

    Answer: (laughs) There must be something good in me that you don’t see.

    Question: How did you pull that coup? Certainly that was one coup you plotted.

    Answer: Oh my God, I plotted it. Yes!

    Yet Ojukwu who led secession through the army poses an existential point. He says soldiers should not plot coups. He also spars with Soyinka by saying his generation was not a wasted one, but a pregnant one. I wonder if many would not believe that the pregnancy led to a fatal ectopic disaster. One of the telling quotes is what Ojukwu says of his citizenship: “I have been denied the privilege of ever being  a Nigerian.”

    Tinubu’s interview, undoubtedly the longest, is a foray into his childhood and the turbulence and manoeuvres of Nigerian politics. Listen to how he grew up in a compound of cousins and brothers, of aunties and uncles, and how they had to fight for meals, and play afterwards. He fought on his way to school and from school, his uniform dirty and earning beatings for that. He was also a lover of music and followed bands about town. He becomes a political scientist in the interview, speaking about political recruitment, sustainability of democracy. He is historian, auto-biographer, philosopher, psychologist, warrior, all in one in the interview.

    David Mark tries to humanise not only his past doing, but the man who made him: IBB. He justifies his reign but he fails to rescue him from some of the dark chapters of Nigerian history. He also does same for Murtala Mohammed, who was assassinated.  A signal point of the Mark story is his role in the abandoned property saga where Igbos had to negotiate their own property in Rivers State after the war. He justifies it in spite of its lethal injustice.

    This also contrasts Jeremiah Useni who also tries to humanise Sani Abacha. His great quote is “I don’t know about apples and Indian girls.” He shows us Abacha loved to be entertained not with Indian films but spy and action thrillers.

    He says he is not disappointed he did not succeed Abacha, since his peers chose another fellow over him. But Useni’s interview is the funniest marked by visceral confession. He at once confesses to a life of riotous revelry yet he says, “I didn’t drink alcohol. Even up till now, I just take some light wine… No stout, no Gulder, no Star, nothing. I don’t smoke.” He also forswears any inordinate craving for women, deriding those who rumoured that he had acquired AIDS and was dying.

    Wike’s interview also jumps out. Part of it reminds one of Donald trump in his onslaught on the media. Always unsparing, Wike says the crisis in Rivers was manufactured by the media, and he goes into detail showing that he is the man of the people. He goes into the intrigues as a colleague under former Governor Rotimi Amaechi, and showing how he was not a friend, but a case in which Amaechi needed him more. He problematizes the concept of ambition saying he did not want to be governor, but Rotimi created the vacuum by defecting to the APC. Full of fierce language and defiance, Wike offers the book an acerbic breath of fresh air. I hope the author will give Amaechi an opportunity in part two of “The Big Interviews.” The interview signposts the two men as the great foes of this generation.

    If Useni’s interview is funny, Ahmed Sani’s is troubling. One may sniff a Freudian origin to what some have seen as his sectarian fanaticism. He says his mother was brutal to him, always beating him up. Is that the origin of his love of extreme faith? Akpabio speaks with gusto, with verve, and apart from his extraordinary work in turning a state into infrastructural marvel, Akpabio’s great achievement must be what he did in the field of education, in which he deprived Nigerians of the Akpana and Ekaettes as house helps. We also gain insights into his politics, which he sugar-coats a little, but his fight with Attah, his predecessor bristles in the interview.

    WE cannot forget that only two woman are in the book. We could do with more, and the geographic spread shows more northern players. The southwest gets two, Tinubu and Etteh,  two big ones. The east gets one, the Ikemba, also a big one. Soldiers and ex-soldiers play a big role, reflecting the shadow the military era still casts over the country. I believe, though, we could do with more “pure” civilians.

    One notable flaw in the book is that the interviews are not dated for most part, and the reader has to guess the time by the topics.

    Mike Awoyinfa, in his blurb, says this book will help younger journalists. He is right. But, as they say, it is also a first draft of history. Many can peer into the souls of those who made Nigeria the enigma it is today of a country that was full of potential five decades ago, and today it is still full of potential. I agree with Tam David West of blessed memory that his Osagie is “one of the most engaging interviewers and best journalists,” in Nigeria today. He reflects the variegated character of an interview. Sometimes he applies the Socratic method, sometimes he shows empathy, sometimes humour, sometimes boyish curiosity, sometimes subtle jab, sometimes a combatant, but always seeking after the truth.

    I therefore recommend this book as it adds to the dialogue of what we know as Nigeria today.

  • VIPs who passed on in 2019

    By Kehinde Oluleye

    The outgoing year is remarkable for the high profile deaths that occurred from January to December. All sectors from politics to academics, showbiz and sports recorded deaths of famous people. Below are some of the eminent personalities that bade the world goodbye in 2019.

     

    Tam David-West

    Ex-minister and professor of Virology, Tamunoemi Sokari David-West, popularly known as Prof. Tam David-West, was a Nigerian academic, social critic and minister who died on Monday, Nov 11 after spending 11 days at the private suite of the University College Hospital (UCH), Ibadan. He was aged 83.

    David-West served in Rivers State as commissioner for education and member of the Executive Council of Rivers State between 1975 and 1979. He was a member of the fifty-person Constitution Drafting Committee for the Federal Military Government of General Murtala Muhammed (1979) and federal minister of petroleum and energy under the General Muhammadu Buhari regime between 1984 and 1985. He was also at a point the minister of Mines, Power and Steel under Gen. Ibrahim Babangida’s regime (1986).

    The former professor of virologist at the University of Ibadan will be widely remembered for the controversial way he was removed as Minister of Petroleum by the Babangida regime, accused of accepeting an offer of wristwatch and tea.

     

    Chief Alex Akinyele

    Ondo born former PR expert and former Information Minister, Alexander Opeyemi Akinyele, popularly known as Sir Alex Akinyele, died on November 14. He was aged 81.

    Sir Akinyele served as a Minister of Information under the Babangida military regime between 1985 and 1993.

    Akinyele later became the Chairman of the Nigerian Sports Commissions (NSC)

    His death was announced by one of his sons, Constantine Kayode Akinfolarin Akinyele. According to him, his father died after a brief illness. In the post on his Facebook wall, however, Constantine did not state where his father died.

    Akinyele was a public relations expert and a pioneer spokesperson of the Nigerian Customs Service. He was also the Secretary-General and later President of the Nigeria Institute of Public Relations.

    He was born in Ondo State on April 24, 1938 and attended primary and secondary schools in Ondo.

     

     Ben Uwajumogu

    Senator Ben Uwajumogu, representing Imo North Senatorial District in the National Assembly, died in the early hours of Wednesday, December 18.

    He was aged 51.

    Until his death, he was the Chairman of the Senate Committee on Labour and Employment. Senator Uwajumogu was first elected into the senate in 2017 and was reelected in 2019.

    He was the speaker of the Imo State House of Assembly between 2011 and 2015.

    He was initially treated in the United Arab Emirates for his protracted illness but recently returned to Abuja after showing signs of recovery, according to a source familiar with his situation.

    He was one of the few APC senators from the South-East geopolitical zone.

    Uwajumogu was born in Okigwe, Imo State.

     

    Yemi Fawaz

    Yemi Fawaz was the first professional and international super model to come out of the country. Her modeling career spanned the late 70’s up till the late 90’s, during which she established a modelling school in Lagos.

    She made tremendous strides in Nigeria’s fashion and beauty industry before she relocated to the USA in 1997 and did not return until 2016. Her modelling career suffered a bit when she became born again in 1991.

    In 2016, the mother of one, who is now a deaconess, came back to Nigeria to initiate Banner of Love, a non-governmental organisation set to provide medicare and eradicate poverty among the underprivileged.

    She died of colon cancer on February 20, 2019 at New York’s Lenox Hill Hospital. She was 64 years old.

    Fawaz was born in Nigeria to a Lebanese father and a Nigerian mother. For over 30 years, she had a successful career as a fashion and photographic model, beauty promoter/consultant, fashion designer, trade show organiser, chef and a restaurateur.

    She opened the first modelling school and professional modelling agency in Nigeria and in West Africa.

    She’s survived by her 33-year-old daughter, Magadelene Oluwatosin

     

    Read Also: Encounters with Alex Akinyele and Tam David-West

     

    Titi Ajanaku

    Chief (Mrs) Titi Ajanaku was one of the first set of women to excel in politics. She was a foundation member of the People’s Democratic Party (PDP) and former President Olusegun Obasanjo’s Special Adviser on Women Affairs.

    She died in the early hours of Thursday, December 5, 2019 after a long battle with a terminal illness. She was 73 years old.

    She was the chairman of old Abeokuta Local Government in Ogun State, and the first woman to be elected as a local government chairperson in Nigeria. Until her death, the late Ajanaku was the Otun Iyalode of Egbaland.

    A trained nurse, administrator and women leader, Ajanaku was born on January 25, 1946 at Ago-Odo Quarters in Abeokuta, Ogun State.

    She came into prominence when she became the first woman to be elected as the chairman of old Abeokuta Local Government and the first woman to be a local government chairperson in Nigeria under the zero-party arrangement.

    She trounced about 10 men who contested the position with her.

     

    Jafaru Iliyasu Auna

    Hon. Jafaru Iliyasu Auna, who represented Rijau/Magama Federal Constituency of Niger State in the 9th National Assembly, died on Monday, December 2, 2019 at Maitama General Hospital in Abuja after a brief illness.

    Confirming the death of the lawmaker, another lawmaker from Niger State, Sa’idu Musa Abdullahi, said that” the deceased came back from a trip to Lagos on Sunday night and died early morning today.”

     

    Salome Abuh

    The late Women Leader of Wada/Aro Campaign Council, Ochadamu Ward, Kogi State, Mrs. Salome Abuh, was burnt alive in her home by suspected thugs during the just concluded Kogi State governorship election, shortly after the announcement of the results of the governorship election held in the state on November 16.

    Six suspects were arrested in connection with the incident.

    Her husband, Elder Simeon Abuh, in a tribute described her late wife as a “Martyr, whose political sagacity will remain fresh in the mind of her associates. She paid the price for the unity of Igalaland.”

     

    Paul Emema

    Foremost screenwriter, movie producer and director, Paul Okeoghene Emema, popularly known as Paul Emema, is credited with producing the hit soap operas Behind the Clouds and Supples Blues on the Nigerian Television Authority (NTA). She died at the age of 52 on Tuesday, March 12, 2019, after a brief illness.

    Emema became a point of reference in filmmaking he produced Behind the Clouds for the NTA.

    He also produced Supple Blues, another soap opera that was well received by the television audience.

    His biggest movie production was the documentary on Reverend Father Tansi.

     

    Eddie Ugbomah

    Veteran Nigerian filmmaker, Chief Eddie Ugbomah, passed away on Saturday, May 11, 2019, at a private hospital in Lagos days away from undergoing a major surgery.

    Eddie was a Nigerian film director and producer. He directed and produced films like The Rise and Fall of Oyenusi in 1979, based on the antics of a notorious robber, Ishola Oyenusi; The Boy is Good and Apalara, a film about the life and murder of Alfa Apalara in Oko Awo, to mention a few. He was 78 years old.

    Ugbomah was a native of Aboh in East Ndokwa, Delta State, but he grew up in the Obalende and Lafiaji areas of Lagos. He was educated at St Matthias, Lafiaji, Lagos and City College school. He traveled to London for his college education and attended various colleges studying journalism, drama and later film.

    After studies, he worked with BBC and also played minor roles in Dr.No, Guns at Batasi and Sharpeville Massacre. He was a member of an Afro-Caribbean drama group and directed some of the group’s plays such as This is Our Chance; a play staged at the Stoke Newington Theatre Hall.

    He returned to Nigeria in 1975 and was involved in concert promotion before starting Edifosa, a film production company.

    In 1988, Ugbomah was appointed chairman of the Nigerian Film Corporation.

     

    Samuel Alabi Akinpelu a.k.a. Alabi Yellow

    Veteran actor and author, Samuel Akinpelu, popularly known as Alabi Yellow, died in the early hours of Sunday, December 22, 2019 in his home in Ikorodu, Lagos State. He was 62.

    Alabi Yellow was hit by a stroke in March shortly after the death of his wife.

    In April, the actor got a lifeline of N10 million from a popular philanthropist, Rev. Esther Ajayi, popularly known as Iya Adura.

    The donation came two weeks after the news of his ill health gained public attention through a video that was made by the Chief Executive Officer of Best of Nollywood, Seun Oloketuyi, which went viral.

    Alabi Yellow was reported to have been moved to a hospital to continue his treatment ater the donation. He appeared in several Yoruba movies and also wrote a book titled ‘A ba Oko Ku’.

    The news of the actor’s ill health came as a surprise because shortly before then, he featured in Kunle Afolayan’s latest movie, ‘Mokalik’, where he played the role of a mechanic and did not show any sign of illness. The film was released in May 2019.

    He was one of the most recognizable faces in the Yoruba movie industry.

     

    Gbolahan Adio

    Popular Yoruba Nollywood actor, Gbolahan Adio Majester, passed on after a long battle with diabetes. The actor died on May 7, 2019.

    The once chubby and energetic Majester became the shadow of himself before his death. He was reported to have been on intensive treatment for years.

     

    Dammy Eke

    Nigerian actor Prince Eke was allegedly sharing drinks with friends at a bar in Port Harcourt when he reportedly slumped and was rushed to the hospital where he died.

    He will be remembered for playing prominent roles in movies that promote cultural values from the eastern part of the country.

    The cause of his death had yet to be confirmed.

     

    Alfred Rotimi Popoola

    Veteran Yoruba actor, Hon. Alfred Rotimi Popoola, also known as Ilu Venture, reportedly died on the night of Wednesday, February 27.

    Popoola, who resided in Abeokuta, Ogun State died after a brief illness. He was a member of TAMPAN, Abeokuta chapter.

     

    Benson Akindeju

    Veteran Nollywood producer and CEO of AK  Media Concepts, producers of award winning programmes like Face2Face, Family Ties, Nowhere to be Found and Oyin Momo died of cancer related ailment on Monday, March 4, 2019 at a London Hospital. He was 58.

    He was born at Igbotako in Okitipupa Local Government Area, Ondo State.

    He was a graduate of Marketing with over 30 years experience in media marketing, and an alumnus of the University of Manchester Business School, UK.

     

    Funmilayo Ogunsola

    Veteran Nigerian actress Funmilayo Ogunsola a.k.a. Ijewuru, one of the wives of the late Ishola Ogunsola, died of heart attack on Monday, February 4 at her residence in Ibadan.

    Her death came 27 years after the death of her husband and colleague, Ishola Ogunsola a.k.a. I Show Pepper.

    The deceased was the fourth wife of the late Yoruba actor and a founding member of the Association of National Theatre Arts Practitioners.

     

    Gbenga Akintunde

    Nollywood actor, Gbenga Akintunde, popularly known as Burger, died after a brief illness. He was 47 years old.

    According to Kunle Afod, an actor and producer who announced his death via Instagram, Akintunde died on Thursday, January 3, 2019 after visiting the hospital to complain of malaria.

    Afod wrote: “You called yesterday to confirm if I would still be holding my new year party today, and I was called this afternoon that you are no more …BURGER…Heard u went to the hospital to complain about malaria this afternoon and in few hours u are in the mortuary… this is so sad ……Planning to celebrate you in few days time …imagine the shock and tears. O ye Olorun (God knows best).”

     

    Phillp Osondu

    Former Golden Eaglets star, Philip Osondu, who also played in Belgium for teams including RSC Anderlecht and RWDM, died in Belgium after a brief illness on December 13. He was 46 years old.

    Philip Osondu played regularly for the youth teams of Nigeria, but he never played for the senior team.

    In 1987, he participated in the World U-16 tournament in Canada. Nigeria reached the final of the tournament but lost on penalties to the Soviet Union.

    Osondu got the Golden Ball as best player of the tournament.

     

    Isaac Promise

    Former Nigeria international and Genclerbirligi and Trabzonspor striker, Isaac Promise, passed on at the age of 31 on October 2, 2019, in Austin, Texas, United States. Isaac was the captain of the football team representing Nigeria which won the silver medal at the 2008 Summer Olympics in Beijing.

    He captained Nigeria to the 2003 FIFA U17 World Cup held in Finland, as well as the 2005 FIFA U20 World Cup in the Netherlands where the Flying Eagles were runners-up to Argentina.

    At the 2008 Olympics, he played a key role in Nigeria’s silver medal finish in Beijing, scoring in the 2-1 triumph over the United States in the group stage.

    Promise made his senior national team debut in 2009.

    Before his demise, he had several stints in Turkey, Saudi Arabia and the United States.

     

    Ifeanyichukwu Stephanie Chiejine

    Former Super Falcons captain Ifeanyichukwu Stephanie Chiejine, passed on after a brief illness on Wednesday, August 21, 2019. Ifeanyi captained the first set of the U19 National Women’s team to the first U19 (Now U20) FIFAWomen World Cup in 2002.

    She had been a senior international, taking part in the 1999, 2003 and 2007 World Cups and the 2000 and 2008 Summer Olympics. As of 2007 she had scored 15 goals in 61 games for Nigeria

    She was 36 years old.

     

    Tony Anyasodor

    Nollywood actor, Tony Uzordinma Anyasodor, died at the Federal Medical Centre Owerri in the early hours of Thursday, March 7, 2019, following a battle with diabetes.

    Anyasodor’s death came two months and four days after the death of his colleague, Gbenga Akintunde aka Burger, who died at the age of 47 on January 4, 2019.

    The late Anyasodor was popular for his roles in several Nollywood movies, including ‘Heavy Storm 1 & 2,’ ‘Beyond the Verdict 1 & 2,’ ‘Fire Dancer 1 & 2’, among others.

  • Newsmakers in showbiz

    In about three days from now, the year 2019 will wind down. But the year has not been without remarkable incidents ranging from the good and glitzy to the ugly, dirty and downright crazy. Below are showbiz personalities, events and happenstances that made the year tick, as compiled by OLAITAN GANIU, AKPAN SUNDAY, CHINENYE EZEKWE, DOLAPO AJIBOYE, CAROLINE OCHEKWU AND PRECIOUS ONUIGBO.

     

    Tonto Dikeh spats with nearly everyone

    IT would seem that throughout the outgoing year, actress Tonto Dikeh is could not get over her divorce from husband, Olakunle Churchill. In April, she granted an interview where she once again dished her estranged spouse.

    Some of her colleagues, including comedian Funnybone, who sought to offer her advise also got a taste of her venom.

    Tonto Dikeh was quoted as saying: “Ehm Funnybone, where was your mouth and stupid advice when this useless imbecile I married together with his fool azuka kept granting interviews every four days up until 6days ago? Or is he living in a different world that this isn’t two years after? Or your mouth was too heavy you to drop advice then?”

    She, however, enjoyed the year with her friends like the cross-dresser and lightening cream entrepreneur, Bob Risky.

     

    Burna Boy inches closer to a Grammy

    FROM selling out huge concerts to winning global awards, 2019 has no doubt been Burna Boy’s year.  Burna, whose real name is Damini Ebunoluwa Ogulu, was nominated for the 2020 Grammy Awards for best world music album with ‘African Giant’ in November.

    Burna Boy joins other Nigerian acts like Seun Kuti, Femi Kuti and King Sunny Ade who were previously nominated in the same category.

    Of 2019’s Top 10 streamed songs on Apple Music in sub-Saharan Africa, Burna Boy had five songs on the list. His official music video with Zlatan, Killin Dem, was the most trending music video in Nigeria on YouTube for 2019. And he was No. 1 on the 2019 CNN list of Top 10 African artistes.

    At the last All Africa Music Awards (AFRIMA), Burnaboy won the Artiste of the Year and Best Male Artist in West Africa for his song, Ye. Earlier in the year, he won Best International Act at the 2019 BET Awards as well as AFRIMMA Artiste, Song of the Year. He also won the MTV EMA, VGMA and the Futures Award this year.

    Through this year, Burna Boy has also shut down venues including the Wembley Arena in London.

     

    T-Boss’s baby papa still a mystery

    FOLLOWING reports alleging that former Big Brother Naija housemate, Tokunbo Idowu a.k.a. T-Boss was pregnant and was delivered of a baby, the reality TV star debunked the report in July.

    This was after some reports had pointed out Ubi Franklin as the child’s father.

    While it is not contestable that she got pregnant and was delivered of a baby, the mystery that could not be unraveled is who the father of the baby is.

     

    2BABA HITS TWO DECADES ON STAGE

    FOR Innocent Idibia, 2019 will remain indelible. The year marks his 20th anniversary as an artiste.

    In a year-long celebration, 2Baba, as the singer is referred to, marked the year with a hashtag, #20 Years A King. The celebration will be wrapped with a concert equally tagged ’20years A King’, on December 28, 2019, at the Eko Convention Centre, Victoria Island, Lagos.

    When he celebrated his 44th birthday in September, 2Baba called for peace in Nigeria.

    “Different forms of violence including electoral, banditry, herders and farmers conflicts, kidnapping and terrorism have and continue to snatch the lives of Nigeria’s citizens,” he had said.

    “Let’s be clear, this is not a salvo to attack the government. I am not a politician but an artist and social rights crusader. I am calling on government (i.e our political leadership, security services etc.) and all citizens (i.e artists, entrepreneurs, media, okada riders, etc) to do everything we can and must to promote and guarantee peace.”

     

    Davido rocks 2019 with charity, marriage and new baby

    EVEN superstar Davido could not resist the teenage comic mimics, Ikorodu Bois. And in appreciation of the efforts of the teens at mimicking former Senator Dino Melaye’s arrest and hospitalisation, in January, Davido gifted them the sum of N1 million.

    Many fans thanked Davido for not only recognising the boys’ talents but also giving them money.

    In July, Davido, who also goes by the alias ‘Omo Baba Olowo’ emerged as the richest Nigerian on Instagram. With a single post valued at N26 million, Hopper HQ ranked him at no. 38 as the second richest in Africa and the richest in Nigeria. Other Nigerian entertainers on the list are Funke Akindele Bello, Wizkid and Tiwa Savage.

    Days before his birth on October 19, David Adedeji Ifeanyi Adeleke Jr, the unborn son of superstar Davido and Chioma bagged an endorsement deal with a Nigerian diaper company.

    Chioma uploaded pictures of Davido at the event on Instagram and captioned it thus: “My Prince is Super Rich from My Tummy, Congrats on Your New Deal With @marioandjulietbaby The Best Baby Diaper N Wipes. Boy We Just Got Started. More Greatness to Come. Thank you so much.”

    Davido proposed to Chioma with a diamond-encrusted engagement ring on September 12, but not much was known about the customised ring. It was later revealed that the ring was purchased in a jewellery store, Diamonds by Dorgu, in Hatton Garden, London.

     

    ‘Soapy’ keeps Naira Marley on top

    IN June, hip hop star Naira Marley was arraigned by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) over an allegation of internet fraud and was sent to Ikoyi Prison. Before he was remanded, he had released a song titled ‘Am I a Yahoo Boy?’

    Upon coming out, he seemed to gain more popularity as he released a song ‘Soapy’, which was also embraced by his fans who are known as Marlians. His popularity is on the increase as he seems to be getting more shows.

     

    Mercy Eke makes history as first female BBNaija winner

    AFTER 99 days of being confined to the house, Mercy Eke emerged as the winner of the 2019 edition of the Big Brother Naija reality TV show on October 6. She won N30m cash and a N25m Innoson SUV as well as other prizes.

    She got over 41.77 per cent of a total of 250 million votes cast by viewers to beat fellow housemate, Mike Edwards, who got about 19.94 per cent of the votes.

     

     

    ‘Mokalik’ ranks number one at cinemas

    ARELY a week after its release in June, Mokalik, a movie authored by Nollywood actor and producer, Kunle Afolayan, rose to the number one spot of Nollywood films at the box office.

    “Mokalik has been ranked number 4 at the box office and number 1 Nollywood film in box office,” an excited Afolayan said.

    “Also, it holds the record of 2019 highest selling Nollywood film in opening week,” he added.

    Afolayan, who has also produced movies like October 1, Irapada and CEO, thanked his fans for making the feat possible.

    However, one of the veteran actors who featured on the movie, Samuel Akinpelu aka Alabi Yellow, on December 22, passed away.

    The actor, 62, died in his home at Ikorodu, Lagos.

     

    ‘Village Headmaster’ celebrates 50 years

    AFTER several years of being off air, popular sitcom ‘Village Headmaster’  is set to return to the television screen .

    The programme celebrated its 50th anniversary in October with a play titled ‘O Vacuum’, which was staged at Terrakulture, Victoria Island, Lagos.

    The play saw some surviving cast of the old ‘Village Headmaster’ take to the stage with the new crop of actors of the sitcom.

    It was emotional as actors of yesteryear alongside a new crop of actors re-enacted the drama of ‘Oja Town’.

     

    Toyin Abraham delivered of baby boy

    ON August 15, Nollywood actress and proucer Toyin Abraham welcomed a baby boy with actor hubby, Kolawole Ajeyemi.

    The news attracted congratulatory messages from different quarters, including her ex-husband, Niyi Johnson.

    “Congrats on the arrival of your baby, Mr &Mrs Ajeyemi,” Johnson wrote. “He shall be a source of joy to you. God bless the baby, the mother and the dad.”

    Toyin Abraham also got a cheque of one million naira from her fans.

     

    Celebs condemn Senator Elisha Abbo’s attack on women

    IN June, Nollywood celebrities spoke against the action of Senator Elisha Abbo who assaulted a female attendant in a sex-toy shop in Abuja.

    One of them, Uche Ogbodo, even set up a post with #ArrestSenatorElishaAbbo.

    “Abeg ooooo, what manner of indiscipline is this? This is what we see in this country that has Failed women generally; a country that places women far below animals; a country that cannot protect their multiplication machine! Yes, that is what we are; your multiplication machine!

    “Since you treat us like animals, beat us, rape us, assault us and nothing will happen. Without us, this country will be dead and gone! Without us, the women, there will be no Nigeria.”

     

    Genevieve Nnaji’s ‘Lionheart’ flies, crashes

    IN January, Nollywood actress and producer celebrated her 20 years in the acting world, having begun acting in 1998 when she was barely 19, with the movie titled ‘Most Wanted’. She also won several awards and capped it with her blockbuster movie, LionHeart.

    On the cusp of the year, Genevieve took to the Instagram to express her gratitude and optimism for 2019.

    “As 2018 comes to an end, I mark 20 years in the art of film making,” she wrote. “I’m grateful for my life, journey, and growth thus far. I’m happy I could celebrate with you through a product that embodied all of me, mentally and spiritually; for all of your pleasure. May 2019 be our best year yet.”

    Her directorial debut, LionHeart, premiered at the 2018 Toronto International Film Festival (TIFF) and was acquired on September 7, 2018 as first Netflix original film produced in Nigeria.

    LionHeart was nominated for the 2020 Oscars under the International Feature Film category. The nomination was, however, cancelled in November based on the fact that the local language content of the film was not adequate.

     

    Regina Daniels defies public outrage, marries billionaire Ned Nwoko

    THE internet was on fire during the year immediately the story broke that 18-year-old actress Regina Daniels was about to be married to billionaire politician and businessman, Ned Nwoko.

    Nearly every Nigerian had an opinion, ranging from “she is too young for him” to “she is free to do what she wants” and everything in between.

    Her father did not hide his disagreement with the relationship, but with the support of her mother Rita, Regina married Nwoko on Sunday, May 26, in the traditional way in Aniocha, Delta State.

    Regina who has remained flamboyant on the social media is out to prove that she is a woman of her own.

     

    SIMI, ADEKUNLE GOLD WED QUIETLY

    AFTER a secret romance, singers Adekunle Gold and Simi got married in January. The traditional and white wedding ceremonies held in Lagos with the white wedding taking place at Ilashe Beach.

    The duo, who had several times been linked romantically, only publicly declared their love not up to a month before they married. In fact, ‘Orente’, Adekunle Gold’s chart-busting song, was inspired by Simi.

     

    Authorities catch up with Bob Risky, stops his party

    IDRIS Okuneye, popularly known as Bobrisky, is an internet personality and cross-dresser. Recently identifying as a transgender, Bob Risky has come under criticism because of his lifestyle.

    The Director-General of the National Council for Arts and Culture, Olusegun Runsewe, during the year swore to ‘deal’ with Bob Risky and his likes, saying they are a disgrace to the nation.

    In Augusts, about 50 policemen reportedly stormed the Lekki, Lagos venue of his 27th birthday party and stopped it. They chased guests away and arrested five persons while Bob Risky fled the party, which reportedly cost him N10 million to arrange.

    A commissioner in Lagos State, Bala Elkana, said that his actions and lifestyle could corrupt young people and national culture.

     

    D’banj announces arrival of baby boy soon

    AFTER losing his first son who drowned in a swimming pool in June 2018, Kokomaster, D Banj, in September, announced that he and his wife, Lineo Didi Kilgrow, were expecting a baby boy soon.

    However, he did not announce the actual delivery date.

    About two months after his son drowned, D’Banj released a new song which he dedicated to his wife.

    The entertainer recently shut down 02 academy Brixton during the 10th edition of the Koko concert in the United Kingdom.

     

    Wizkid floods stars for Starboy Fest

    ASIDE making the news for public display of affection with fellow star, Tiwa Savage, Wizkid also commanded many stars to his concert, StarboyFest, which held on October 21 in London.

    Making history by shutting down the O2 arena for a second time, the assemblage of stars included heavy hitters like Burna Boy, Afro B, Skepta, Tiwa Savage, Runtown, Naira Marley, Olamide, Fireboy DML, Maleek Berry, Terri, Reekado Banks, Oxlade and others.

     

    Rema shines in Texas

    IN August, Mavin star, Divine Ikubor, popularly known as Rema, won three awards at the 2019 African Muzik Magazine Awards (AFRIMMA).

    The ‘Dumebi’ crooner was nominated in the ‘Song of The Year’, ‘AFRIMMA Video of The Year’ and ‘Best Newcomer’ categories of the award ceremony set to take place in Dallas, Texas.

    Rema, who has clocked over 50 million streams with his ‘Rema’ and ‘Freestyle EP’, continues to wow the music industry with his art and craft on the stage.

     

    DJ Xgee commits suicide

    JUST two days into 2019, Lagos-based DJ Xgee committed suicide. The news left the entertainment circle in shock.

    Apparently suffering a case of depression, DJ Xgee, whose real name is Seun Omogaji, reportedly committed suicide by drinking ‘Sniper’ because his wife left him.

    Dropping a post on Instagram, he dropped what appeared like a suicide note in which he implored his loved ones to mourn him wearing white.

     

    Funke Akindele makes directorial debut with ‘Your Excellency’

    FROM blazing success with her comedy series, Jenifa, actress and producer, Funke Akindele, made her directorial debut with the movie, Your Excellency.

    The movie, a Mo Abudu production, was recently premiered in Lagos.

     

     

     

    Teddy A and BamBam’s marriage

    IN September, Tope Adeniyan a.k.a. Teddy A and Bamike Olawunmi, better known as Bambam, who had met on the 2018 edition of Big Brother Naija had their traditional marriage in Ibeshe, Ilaro, Ogun State in September.

    Some of their fellow housemates who attended the wedding include CeeC, Nina and Khloe.

    In November, the couple did a white wedding in Dubai during the One Music Festival.

     

    Don Jazzy, Foluke Daramola others take up Faceapp challenge

    SOME Nigerian celebrities joined the social media craze of FaceApp.

    Launched back in 2017, the app went viral because of an Age Challenge which the app used to distort a person’s face to make it younger or older. However, it was the transformation to an older version that made wave.

    Hence, Instagram got a buzz when some of Nigeria’s top entertainers like Don Jazzy, AY, Ramsey Nouah, Falz and Toyin Abraham joined international celebrities like Drake, Piers Morgan and Miley Cyrus to age digitally.

     

    Mad Melon of ‘Danfo Driver’ dies

    THE reggae music duo, Danfo Drivers, lost Mad Melon, one of its members, in September.

    Mad Melon, whose real name is Omefa Oghene, and Mountain Black became popular in the early 2000s for their unique music style. They had tracks like Iya Mi, Danfo Driver and Sensimilla.

     

     

    G-Worldwide sues Kizz Daniel, demands N500m as damages

    POPULAR record label, G-Worldwide recently sued its former artiste, Kiss Daniel, demanding for N500m as damages.

    A public notice served by Olisa Agbakoba’s legal firm, the legal adviser of the entertainment outfit, stated that the Kiss Daniel stage name of its former signee, Oluwatobiloba Daniel Anidugbe, now pronounced as Kizz Daniel, is exclusively that of G-Worldwide.

    The record label even threatened to stop Kizz Daniel’s Boxing Day show tagged Kizz Daniel Live In Concert.

     

    Biglo goes down with kidney failure

    IN July, rapper Lotanna Udezue, known more as Biglo, cried out for financial assistance. He was diagnosed with kidney failure in July 2018.

    To ameliorate his condition, a Gofundme website was opened by Adedotun Akinrinade and Obiora Ezefili to raise $50,000 for a kidney transplant operation booked for August 31, 2019.

    Known for bringing his energy into his raps in the early 2000s, Biglo worked with 2Shotz and the then famous StylPlus.

     

    ‘Living in Bondage’ back to life

    THE sequel to the popular movie ‘Living In Bondage’ premiered on November 8. This time, it was directed by Ramsey Nouah and other star actors like Kenneth Okonkwo (Andy Okeke), Kanayo O. Kanayo and others.

    With rave reviews, the movie has become a delight for cinema goers. The first series of ‘Living in Bondage’ was produced in 1992.

  • Celebs who made bold fashion statements in 2019

    Kehinde OLULEYE Reports

     

    If you are at an event and want a good view of your favourite celebs, the place to stake out is the red carpet. From plunge-shoulder bearing pieces to mesh smash statements jumpsuits and queenly ruffles, the red carpet plays host to a glittering array of fashion and fads every week.

    On the red carpet, celebs strut, fawn and try to put up a good pose for the paparazzi.  At most celeb-studded events, the red carpet is the place where the action starts.

    Every celeb worth his or her name knows that you cannot afford to put a foot wrong on the red carpet, especially if you plan to share your photos with your fans and the quick-to-lash audience that fill up every space on social media.

    Below are some of the stylish and famous celebrities, who made bold fashion statements and influence fashion trends in 2019.

     

    Richard Mofe-Damijo (RMD)

    Nigerian actor and former Commissioner for Culture and Tourism in Delta, Richard Mofe- Damijo’s fashion statement definitely is not about wearing the coolest trends or something that everyone likes. Mofe-Damijo is simply in a class of his own. He doesn’t really follow the trends; he is a trend maker. He is never afraid to step out of the box and try new things.  Richard is a risk taker in the fashion sense. Therefore, he is without a doubt one of the most fashionable male celebrities  in the outgoing year.

     

    Betty Irabor

    She is the forever young publisher and founder of Genevieve magazine. That this author is beautiful is not in doubt. She is a fashion expert and icon. And the fact that she knows what counts in current fashion despite being above 60 is not contestable. For as long as anyone can remember, Betty has been a trend setter in style. Age has also not taken a toll on her beauty!

     

    Rita Dominic

    It’s hard to list the stylish and fabulous ones in Nigeria without mentioning her name and you can’t help but take a bow for her. Popular Nollywood thespian, Rita Dominic, has remained a constant feature on the style and social scene. A sucker for classy costume, she is a force to be reckoned with when it comes to fashion and style.

     

    Mai Atafo

    Mai Atafo, as he is well known, is one of Nigeria’s foremost modern fashion designers. Artistic Mai woke us from our slumber a few years ago to the world of classic and vintage-inspired outfits. His outfits are distinguished by their diverse fusion of glitz and class.

    Ebuka Obi-Uchendu

    Lawyer and media personality, Ebuka Obi- Uchendu, is one of the most successful showbiz personalities of his generation. Suave and debonair, Ebuka often appears on the list of the country’s best-dressed men.

     

    Mimi Onalaja

    This TV presenter, fashion and travel blogger, Mimi Onalaja, mixes streetwear and designer with ease!

     

    Toke Makinwa

    Whether it is jumpsuits or maxi dress, the Nigerian radio personality, television host, vlogger, lifestyle entrepreneur, author and creative genius, Toke Makinwa,  knows how to dress.

     

    Nancy Isime

    There is no denying the fact that Nancy Isime is one of the industry’s most stylish and hottest actresses and OAPs. She churns out amazing styles all year round. She is known for her unique styles  and creating fashion statements of timeless style attitude.

     

    Mercy Aigbe

    Beautiful and bold, Nollywood star, Mercy Aigbe, is unique for two reasons. She has a commanding presence and an exquisite taste in fashion. She has kept on confounding people by upping the ante with her unique styles.

     

    Bamike Olawunmi (aka BamBam)

    The Nollywood actress and former BB Naija Double Wahala housemate, always hits the nail on the head.

     

    Jennifer Osei(aka theladyvodka)

    Jennifer Oseh, popularly known as theladyvodka, is effortlessly elegant.From flirty dresses to pant suits, Oseh can wear it all, flawlessly.

     

    Uti Nwachukwu

    Uti Nwachukwu , popularly known as Sir Uti, always looks nice. His relaxed, vintage style never fails to impress and one person we always look forward to seeing.

     

    Genevieve Nnaji

    Genny’s red carpet style has won the Nollywood thespian a place on the list. She’s a fashion ‘chameleon’, who is able to switch from stylish casual garbs to Nollywood glamour with ease.

     

    Iyabo Ojo

    These days, self-style actress, director, producer and mother-of-two, Iyabo Ojo,  delivers the wow factor every time.

     

    Chika Ike

    Whilst we wouldn’t adjudge actress, television personality, producer, business woman, philanthropist and former model as the best, she’s one of the most red carpets worthy ambassadors.

     

    Ini Dima Okojie

    Nollywood actress, Ini Domain Okojie, avoids being boring with daring and ever-changing cuts and make-up looks.

     

    Denola Grey

    Freelance fashion consultant and writer and an on-air multimedia personality, Denola Adepetun, popularly known as Denola Grey’s relaxed and vintage style never fails to impress.

     

    Osas Ighodaro

    Since Nigerian American actress, presenter, humanitarian, ex- beauty queen (Miss Black USA Pageant, 2010) and The Joyful Joy Foundation founder Osas Ighodaro, emerged on the scene, she has continued to surprise with daring and colourful red-carpet looks.

     

    Ik Ogbonna

    Ik is many things; an actor, director, model, TV personality and a damn good dresser. The Nollywood star not only knows how to rock a suit, he’s also good with traditional apparels.

    Noble Igwe: Nigerian blogger and the founder and Chief Executive Officer of 360 Group, can rock a great suit, but he’s also proved he can make comfortable, casual clothes look fit for a red carpet.

     

    Toyin Lawani

    Like it or not,Toyin is one of the masters of the red carpet having carved out a niche for herself with her unique designs. She struts the red carpet with high quality and exquisite fabrics, showcasing the beauty of chord, chiffon, satin, etc.