Category: Weekend Treat

  • Dimeji Bankole back on social radar

    Dimeji Bankole back on social radar

    Former Speaker of the House of Representatives, Hon. Dimeji Bankole, has finally shed the toga of elusiveness to put on the garb of visibility. His social life had suffered a lull since he was dealt a deadly political blow in 2011 when his bid to return to the National Assembly was truncated by the success of the candidate of the Action Congress of Nigeria.

    The former number four man showed up at the installation of Hon. Dayo Bush Alebiosu as the Otunba Fuwagbuyi of Ijebuland by the Awujale, Oba Sikiru Adetona (CFR).

    Bankole’s defeat at the poll had been compounded as the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) came knocking on his door to provide answers to allegations of fraud levelled against him as the Speaker of the House of Representatives. Since then, he had ceased to make public appearances except on the days he needed to appear in court.

    Looking good as usual, Dimeji displayed his trademark gap-tooth smiles while his stay at the ceremony lasted.

  • Sekinat Anifowose set to wed

    Sekinat Anifowose set to wed

    King Wasiu Ayinde Marshal a.k.a. K1 the Ultimate, is one musician who has travelled far and wide to entertain guests with melodious fuji tunes at ceremonies. But on March 9, 2014, it will be his turn to host other musicians and guests at his Ojusagbola Villa in Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State. That is the day he will give out the hand of one of his daughters, Sekinat Olatanwa, in marriage.

    It will be recalled that K1 hosted the family of Fuad, the groom-to-be, at his mansion in Ijebu-Ode late last year when they came to introduce themselves to the Fuji Music icon. The introduction ceremony gave a glimpse of what the high society would witness on wedding day. The wedding party, according to inside sources, is going to be big on account of the status of the bride’s father as well as that of the groom who is said to be a textile merchant and an indigene of Isale Eko. The groom is said to be the elder brother of society lady, Doyin Ojora, who works with the Apapa Local Government.

  • About MKO Abiola’s wife’s tall ambition

    The society is divided into two camps of those who call it inordinate ambition and others who see it as a legitimate aspiration. But whichever it is, the declaration of Modupe Onitiri-Abiola, one of the widows of the late politician and business mogul, Chief MKO Abiola, has not gone unnoticed.

    A couple of days after one of Africa’s richest women, Folorunsho Alakija, disowned posters announcing her governorship ambition in Lagos State, Mrs. Onitiri-Abiola announced to the world her intention to succeed Governor Babatunde Fashola as the governor of Lagos State in 2015.

    She did not only tell select journalists about her governorship ambition, she also announced the Accord Party as the political party on whose platform she intends to actualise her dream. But not a few have queried the pedigree of Accord Party in a state where the All Progressives Congress (APC) is a movement.

  • Controversy trails  Omorede Osifo’s  political future

    Controversy trails Omorede Osifo’s political future

    At a time when a large number of people are trooping into the political turf in the bid to wrestle power from the present crop of people at the helms, others who have enjoyed the privilege of occupying political offices are quitting the stage even when they still have years of political relevance and goodwill ahead of them?

    One of them is Lady Omorede Osifo, the Edo State Commissioner for Youths, Sports and Social Mobilisation, who was relieved of her job by Governor Adams Oshiomhole recently. She has reportedly joined the rank of politicians who have decided to throw in the towel.

    The fashionable woman, reputed as highly influential while his political romance with former President of the Nigeria Labour Congress lasted, allegedly decided to quit politics following her ouster.

    Weeks after her removal from office, she was reported to have confided in a friend that it would be too much of a burden to remain in politics with so many hangers-on and dependants without holding an office.

    Yet some political observers in the state told Celeb Watch that Osifo might have only left office to strategise for his ambition to become the representative of Oredo Federal Constituency in the National Assembly come 2015.

  • ‘I’m not a fan of make-up’

    ‘I’m not a fan of make-up’

    Nikky Odu-Khiran is a fashion designer of purpose and she doesn’t pretend about it. She is upscale and artistically inclined and doesn’t pretend about it. Over a decade she has continuously summed up her environment and recreated it in sumptuous fashion styles that relish the eyes in a very unpretentious manner. It is not surprising, therefore, that in the fashion design scene, the strong-willed designer remains all set apart, in a class of her own.

    Even the casual observer of fashion and style immediately acknowledges the bountiful endowment of her piece of work. Perhaps because it is ethnic; perhaps because it combines prints delicately splashed on silk fabrics and others that flatter the eyes.

    However, Nikky Khiran, as she is popularly known, agrees that her lifestyle just like her work is not hundred percent African. But though she agrees that the inner vision of her work springs from roots in her African background, the designer readily tells you that she’s uniquely different.

    “My style is bohemian chic. I’m a modern day gypsy. I love ethereal clothing, layering, fluidity, asymmetrical cuts and bold prints. I like to do ‘sexy’ in an understated ladylike way without showing too much skin. It’s a turn-off when I see women showing lumps and bumps all in the name of fashion. I believe strongly that fashion should always accentuate our best assets and downplay the worst!”

    In the realm of fashion and style, Nikky Khiran has a loud voice. And when she added ‘Grey Velvet,’ a fashion store to her success story, the circle of top fashion people and the upper class that graced the event, confirmed her pride of place in the fashion world.

    The following year, Nikky Khiran moved up. She added yet another fashion store that parades not just her work, but the works of other famed international fashion designers last year. Exclusive African designer packages, right in high brow Lekki made further accessible to those who understand the taste and attraction of couture and fashion accessories.

    The designer’s present outlook, she admits, goes deep into her early background. It also went a long way to influence the choice of her toeing the path of fashion designing.

    “I grew up in three different continents around the world. My parents were both educationists. My life has been a melting pot of different cultures, strong values, and a strong belief in God. I’m a graduate of the London College of Fashion, where I majored in Fashion Design Technology.

    My mother has always been my biggest inspiration. With a first degree in Fashion Design/Home Economics and a PhD in Education, she was extremely fashionable, a consummate homemaker and an all round entrepreneur.”

    Having acquired the know how in a terrain that came natural to her, Nikky Khiran returned to Nigeria, and it was surprising that her studio made impressions quite early among fashion conscious elites. Her journey to being a top fashion designer came even much earlier than when she returned Nigeria.

    Stylishly seated at her created angle at her Ikoyi office, Nikky Khiran shared more with us. According to her, “I started my line of clothing over 20 years ago in England. I started out with couture, one of my early pieces before moving to Nigeria 12 years ago. On return, I established myself. Though, I was still doing individual couture pieces. I, however, later started a ready-to-wear line with a range of dresses, skirts, kaftans and resort wear, which took off fabulously”.

    Along the line, Nikky Khirran added “a range of ethnic handbags and accessories as well as a NK home accessories range with lamps, candle stands, duvet covers and beanbags”.

    To one who breathes fashion and whose daily life is woven around the fashion industry, what does she think fashion is? “Fashion to me remains a relevant matter to today’s woman. Fashion is an expression of self and our moods. My thinking has always been that since we all have to dress up, we might as well have fun doing it. That remains an essence that features in my pieces.”

    Ask the designer how she would love to describe herself, a flash of mood crosses her beautiful face. But amused she comes all out bluntly and tells you in a no hold barred manner: “I’m simple and complex at the same time. I’m outspoken, disciplined, hardworking, God-fearing and driven by passion. But I also know how to unwind and have fun. I hate pretence.”

    And that is because Nikky Khiran is down to earth. As a successful lady, she still laughs freely and cheerfully. She takes time out to laugh at jokes and readily offers you a joke when in the mood. Notwithstanding, the designer has a serious outlook and downright business-like any time of the day. Success has not taken her away from herself. She may be a creative entrepreneur and a top fashion designer, but she is not all about fabrics, clothing and colours. Nikky Khiran still finds time to attend to lady’s things like going into the kitchen to cook.

    “I love cooking because I’m someone who likes food and is fussy about it.” The designer has created for herself a lifestyle that complements her kind of work, gives her an opportunity of relaxation and keeping stress at bay.

    “I love great music and I love to dance.” She admits with genuine excitement of one who values the beauty of life. “I travel a lot too, I eat out and hang out with great companies, and of course, I love shopping. My shopping takes me to Dubai because it’s a melting pot of different cultures. So I love shopping there. I also found out that I can find everything there. I love to shop in the USA for great casual wear and beddings. I go shopping in India for saris and exotic jewellery. I also shop in Italy, Paris and Spain for ‘unusual finds’ and a dose of culture and great food.”

    Shopping is every designer’s work and pastime. Nikky Khiran loves it and she possesses women items, collections that certainly would make many a lady green with envy. Apart from shopping for her work, her numerous travels bring her in contact with rare items.

    “Like I said, my style is bohemian chic. I’m a modern day gypsy.” With her, being stylish has no apology. And she expresses it in her peculiar words when she said: “Style is knowing what to wear, how to wear it and when to wear it. It’s being confident enough to try different looks, individuality, grace and elegance. Style is having that little extra something, without trying to be hard.”

    With a well endowed natural beauty, looks which she are regularly complemented, the designer confesses that she is not a great fan of make-up. “What make-up means to me? I am not a great fan of much make-up. I favour a more natural look. And my dressing depends on my mood, which of course, depends on where I am going to, at any particular time.”

    Nikky Khiran’s work and brand are somewhat intertwined. She is a lover and fan of her own brand. She wears and models her clothes and many say it fits her ‘like a glove,’ just as it fits her clients too. For her business acumen and ability to turn her passion to a success, the designer offered a few tips on what success means to her.

    “I believe that success is a state of the mind. It’s being the best you can be at whatever it is you are doing.” In the pursuit of success however, the designer insists that she values her peace of mind. “Yes, I value my peace of mind. I value real friendship and I try to be content at all times.”

    Marriage may not have come yet, but it is never ruled out because the designer commends it. She, however, knows that it is not easy as said. “My view on relationships and marriage is, I think one of the greatest achievements is to find that person that understands you and can complete you; that is, your better half, which is easier said than done.”

    She believes in the ability of women to excel in life and combine a career with family life successfully. “Women are built by God to be multi-faceted. We have the ability to combine so many things and do them well. We see so many examples of successful married women and single mothers all around us.”

    Seeing her so endeared to her work in a conducive, posh atmosphere she has so created, one is led by curiosity to ask her: ‘If you were not what you are today, what else would you have loved to be?” Nikky Khiran had a ready answer: “Since my orientation has always been geared towards the arts, I would have been a textile designer, architect, jeweller, interior decorator, which I do dabble into from time to time, or a lingerie manufacturer.”

    She doesn’t miss what she is not, what with so many shows that she has featured in at home and abroad. With it all, is she fulfilled? She responded: “I’m a highly motivated person who strives at constant self-improvement, so there is always room to be better.”As she recalls, her childhood mirrors her perception about that.

    “My parents were highly disciplined people, with respect for others. They had a high level of integrity. They were extremely intellectual with an unusual devotion to God. They instituted a strong moral and value system in us and taught us the importance of personal sacrifice, integrity and contentment in all things. Their life lessons to us were worth much more than money and they loved each other to bits.”

    How about designers? What is her perception or view about designs in Africa and designs abroad? “African designers are just coming up with infrastructural challenges, especially in Nigeria and not much access to good quality materials and trimmings as well as poorly skilled labour. It becomes double hard to produce. It’s very hard for us to compete on an international level.”

    One wonders where such fabulous designer her sources of inspiration come from. “I’m inspired by many things such as sight, sound, exotic places, art, music, fabric, the middle east, Asia, my moods, life! And of course my greatest inspiration is God,” she replied.

  • Heavy traffic as Siju Iluyomade celebrates  golden age

    Heavy traffic as Siju Iluyomade celebrates golden age

    The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), City of David Parish on Victoria Island, Lagos, is one church that puts graphic definition to class in its activities. Even its membership, which parades the high and mighty in Nigeria’s socio-economic sphere, speaks volume about its grand style.

    For the church led by Pastor Idowu Iluyomade, penultimate Sunday, was one like no other. The church, reputed as one of the richest RCCG parishes in Nigeria, took praise worship to another level when the stylish wife of Pastor Iluyomade clocked 50th.

    On hand to render soul-arresting worship songs was an international worship leader, Don Moen. The church’s auditorium was filled to capacity and the traffic management unit of the church had a hell of time controlling the high traffic of well-wishers, friends and family members who trooped to the church in choice cars to celebrate with the pastor’s wife.9

  • Deadly Mistake (2)

    Donald thought he could accomplish everything as he had planned but the unexpected happened which caught him unawares. His friend Paul could not stand what Donald was doing to Amanda.

    “This is wickedness. What if Amanda was my sister or somebody I know, would I fold my arms and watch someone destroy her life this way?” he asked himself.

    “I have to look for a way to tell Amanda before it’s too late for her. She has not done anything wrong to deserve this treatment from Donald,” he said. He was forced by guilt to reveal the whole truth to Amanda; this he did through another person who directed Amanda to the house where Donald kept his other wife and children.

    As Amanda sat in her rented car with the man who was able to convince her to come with him to the place where Donald was keeping his wife, she was very certain that it wasn’t her own husband the man was referring to. She trusted Donald so much, seeing him as a saint. However, she followed the man because he asked her to pay him after service, after he had completed his mission.

    “Look, Mister, we have spent almost the whole day here and the man you claimed to be my husband is yet to surface. Are you sure you are not mistaking him for another person?” Amanda asked the man.

    “Madam, don’t worry, he will surely come out. I have been coming here for the past five days…” Before the man could finish speaking, Amanda was shocked by the picture before her. Her Donald, the love of her life, the man that gave her his last name, her world was with another woman and children. The shock and fear made her pass out.

    She was admitted at the hospital for days before she was discharged. On getting home from the hospital, Donald was still not back from the other woman’s house. However, he came back two days later and Amanda welcomed him but he noticed that her behavior towards him had changed.

    “Women with their monthly stress, she will get over it,” he told himself.

    “How was your trip?” she queried. “I really missed you,” she lied.

    “Me too. I was dying to be with you and my days and nights at the village were so lonely,” he lied too. “What are we having for dinner? I’m hungry and can’t wait to eat your food and have you all through the night,” he stated.

    “Oh! My Donald is hungry! “Well, I have rice for you. What do you want to eat first, me or the food? she asked.

    “Of course I want you first, I have been longing to be with you but I have to eat because once I start I won’t want to stop,” he stated.

    That night and other days that followed, Amanda tried to be as calm as possible. She tried to play along with Donald in order to investigate the situation properly before acting. After one month, Amanda discovered that her husband was not only married to the woman she saw the other time with three children but was building a house somewhere.

    “I have been a fool all these years by thinking that someone like Donald could get married to someone like me without having other plans in mind. I can’t let him take away everything I have worked for,” she swore to herself. Amanda succeeded in getting the documents of the house which Donald was building without him knowing about it and changed the owner’s name to hers. She also discovered that Donald had five million naira in his bank account.

    “I will get everything that belongs to me back. Where did he get all this money from if not from me because Donald has never lifted a finger since I got married to him,” she noted.

    Amanda revealed herself to the other woman and showed her the photographs of her traditional marriage with Donald because the woman didn’t believe her when she told her what Donald had been up to.

    The confrontation

    When she got home that evening from the visit to the other woman, Donald was at home waiting for her. As he was about to hug her and kiss her as he usually did, he didn’t see it coming when Amanda slapped him so hard that he almost fell down. Placing his hand where the slap landed, Donald asked her what the problem was.

    “Ingrate!” she shouted, “That is what you are! I thought you were a human being, but I have come to realize that I fell in love with a monster.”

    “Amanda darling, what is it, why are acting this way? Why are you calling me that? What is the problem?” he asked, not knowing that the bubble had bust.

    “Ingrate that is what you are! You thought I would never find out? So, you were using my money, my hard earned money to build a house for those wretched children of yours and that nonentity you call a wife!”

    As Amanda spoke, Donald wished he was dreaming: “I will repent from my wicked ways if l ever wake up from this nightmare,” he thought, ‘How did she find out and who told her?’

    Donald tried to calm her down as he always did but Amanda was so vexed and she paid no attention to him.

    “Please Amanda, it is the handiwork of the devil,” he pleaded.

    “You think you can eat my money and get away with it just by pleading? Idiot!” she yelled. “Amanda, please, I can correct my mistakes. I accept I was wrong for deceiving you…” he stated.

    “So you knew you were deceiving me…how come you could get the other woman pregnant and couldn’t get me pregnant for eight years of our marriage? Three children with her and I didn’t get pregnant for once!” she raved.

    Donald continued to plead, crying like a child while Amanda kept shouting at him. After a while, she broke down in tears and cried along with her errant husband. Later, they made up and he made love to her.

    “How could you do this to me?” she asked him sometime later that night. “You have never loved me but kept on lying to me. I gave you everything and you took my love for granted. What will people say when they find out? What will my parents say because they warned me not to marry you; they told me that you were too young and a good-for-nothing who wants my money but I did not listen to them because I was desperate to get married and now look at my life!”

    They continued living together as before as if nothing had happened. That was until one day some weeks later when Amanda confided in Eve, a friend of hers from her secondary school days who came to pay her a visit at her office.

    “Eve, I am doomed! Donald has ruined my life!” she lamented. She narrated to her friend what Donald had done. “Donald has another wife with three boys and they are staying in Warri. “My God! Are you serious,” Eve shouted adding: “Who told you and how did you get to know about it?”

    “My sister, this is what I’m going through now and I don’t know what to do about the whole situation,” she confessed.

    “Where is he now?” Eve asked.

    “Still living in my house,” she said.

    “You mean you allow him stay in your house after what he has done to you?” she asked in shock.

    “What will I do; I still love him and if I send him away which man will want a divorcee in his life?” Amanda said wearily.

    “You’re mad,” she shouted at her, annoyed, “Are you sure he has not cast a spell on you and you are there saying you still love him? Wait until he sends you to your early grave before you take action, nonsense,” she said, hissing.

    “What can I do? I don’t know what to do, please advice,” she begged, and her friend said: “Okay, I will get back to you with my plans so that the gold-digger will learn the lesson of his life,” she stated.

    Donald, who loved clubbing was at a niteclub one night when Amanda and Eve carried out their plan. The place was raided by some policemen who were employed by both ladies to blackmail Donald and lock him up in prison. The officers, richly settled with about eight hundred thousand naira carried out their operation diligently and Donald was arrested with some people. While these were later released, Donald was not. He was accused of selling hard drugs in the club and was sentenced to twenty years in prison without going to the court nor the privilege of having any contact with his family members or a lawyer.

    Amanda never went there to visit throughout his prison term. She forged his signature and emptied his bank account. His other wife got married to another man when she didn’t hear from him for two years. He became a born again Christian in prison and started life afresh when he came out of prison at the age of forty eight some years back.

    •Concluded

    •Was Amanda’s revenge on Donald too harsh or did he deserve it? Readers’ feedback welcome!

    •Names have been changed to protect the identity of the narrator and other individuals in the story.

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  • Quiet 50th birthday for Taiwo Lakanu’s wife

    Quiet 50th birthday for Taiwo Lakanu’s wife

    But for the untimely death of Kehinde Lakanu, twin brother of Taiwo Lakanu, an Assistant Commissioner of Police in Delta State, the Lagos home of the latter would have been agog with celebration on Monday when his wife, Omowunmi, hit the golden age.

    Omowunmi is one sociable woman whose friendship cuts across borders. Even the younger generation of women love to be around her because of her amiable nature. Many of them consider her as a friend, benefactor, confidant and mentor.

    Besides, she is a woman of impeccable taste and style. Unlike many of her peers, she understands the intricacies of high society fashion. Thus she excellently combines priceless jewels with glamorous couture to produce a scintillating look at every point in time.

    Blessed with two lovely kids, she holds the fort as the Managing Director of Lake Andrews Holdings, which has business interests in oil and gas as well as advertising. She is also a director at CMB Building and Investment Company Limited.

    Unfortunately, Taiwo could not organise a high-octane party in honour of Omowunmi because of the death of his twin brother last year.

  • Uju Murphy:  Single but not  searching

    Uju Murphy: Single but not searching

    It is said that there is no excellent beauty without some strangeness to it. That assertion would seem to have profited from the decision of leggy beauty and top socialite, Uju Murphy, to remain single in spite of the scores of eligible men that swarm around her.

    The mother of two was once married, but on account of her unsavoury experience in wedlock, she never misses an opportunity to tell whoever cares to listen that marriage is not anywhere near on her list of priorities.

    She is being rumoured at the moment to be having a relationship with a popular top banker.

  • The others side  of Halle Berry, Denzel  Washington, Spike  Lee, Wesley Snipes

    The others side of Halle Berry, Denzel Washington, Spike Lee, Wesley Snipes

    Halle Berry, Denzel Washington, Spike Lee, Wesley Snipes have one thing in common, they are all damn good actors. Unfortunately, many do not know that most of these good artistes are also good singers. Cynda Williams who has worked with these artistes say they are also good at singing. In 1990, Spike Lee directed a hit movie called “Mo’ Better Blues” that starred Denzel Washington and Wesley Snipes in the leads. In an amazing screen debut, a beautiful and talented actress named “Cynda Williams,” appeared in the role of Clarke Bentancourt. She chewed up the scenery and, at the end of the movie, she sang an amazing track called “Harlem Blues” which hit number 9 on the R & B Charts. Her vocal, 23 plus years, stands the test of time.