Category: Sunday magazine

  • For those  trendy  nights

    For those trendy nights

    MOST weekends are reserved for parties, family outings, get together with friends and associates, dates, clubbing, cocktails, birthday and so on.

    The right evening dress can make any night out feel exhilarating and can make it feel as though all eyes are gravitating towards you in admiration.. A woman needs an evening dress for all occasions that allows her to be comfortable and Goddess-like. The dress says everything. Wearing the right outfit for a date or an evening party will make you to be noticed right away without even trying. A stunning dress can do the world of good for a woman’s confidence, which is why it is essential to get the right evening dress that enables you to tackle a night out with grace and elegance. Make a statement by choosing an evening dress that is unique and incredibly dazzling to show the world that you are a strong and beautiful woman. Evening dresses come is a wide variety of styles and hues. It also comes in various cuts from the sexier to the more conservative kind to show off your lovely personality in an endearing way.

    Remember, right combination with accessories, shoes, belts, bags, and so on goes a long way in complimenting your outfit.

  • Iyabo’s top 10

    Iyabo’s top 10

    Iyabo Lawani, TV host of Maggi Good Food Moments, tells Adetutu Audu her favourite things.

    Favourite shoes designer

    Chanel

     

    Favourite Fashion designer

    Chanel

     

    Favourite perfume

    Estée Lauder intuition

     

    Favourite wrist Watch designer

    Ebel

     

     

    Favourite jewelry

    Gold

     

    Favourite

    makeup kit

    Estée Lauder

     

    Favourite Holiday spot

    Usele hahaha

     

    Favourite car

    Murano

     

    Favourite designer bag

    Prada

     

    Favourite book

    Inspirational books

    and the bible

  • ‘There’re limits  in marriage’

    ‘There’re limits in marriage’

    Standing at 5ft 11, Chika Ike, a graduate of Human Kinetics and Health Education from the University of Lagos, Akoka, Nigeria, started acting in 2004 and has won several awards. The United Nations Ambassador of Peace who also doubles as a refugee ambassador runs an accessories shop, Fancy Nancy, in Abuja. Despite her soaring profile, Chika Ike has had her own share of challenges in life, especially in the area of her crashed marriage she tells ADETUTU AUDU, there are limits in marriages.

    WHAT inspired your philanthropic activities, especially your foundation?

    If you are talking about the UN Peace Ambassador, it is actually a merit. It is not what you asked for. It is bestowed on you because of your work and the impact you have made in the society. That I gave out clutches to the orthopedic section of the Igbogbi hospital has to do with a promise I made when I had an accident some years ago on set. I have not really told anyone about this before. It was my last scene in the movie we were shooting, I fell and broke my leg and four of my toes were also affected. I actually went to Igbogbi for treatment. Initially, out of ignorance, I thought it was not a big deal. When I got to Igbogbi, I was told I had four fractures and I was told I would not be able to walk for two years, and I would be on bed.

    Honestly, I don’t know what happened, I stayed only one month and I was back on my feet. During the period, I spoke with one of the doctors that if I am healed I would surely give back to the hospital.

    Also, I saw the deplorable condition of some patients and the hospital, and that was why I chose Igbobi to donate clutches and wheelchairs. Second, was the accident that happened to me recently. I can’t explain how I escaped unhurt because everybody that came to the accident scene could not believe the occupants of the vehicle survived. I just thank God for the grace. Thirdly, some people are on their beds and would give anything to walk. And on getting there, I got wind of information that some patients could not pay their hospital bills which I also cleared.

    Was it the second accident that made you remember your promise to the hospital?

    I didn’t forget the promise, actually. It was just that I was busy. I have realised so many things in life. For instance, when you complain too much, there are some people out there who will give anything to be in your situation. So, at any given situation in life, we should learn to be thankful. Going to Igbogbi with all I saw, I have realised that I need to thank God.

    How do you juggle between your business and acting?

    It is really crazy. Today I am in Abuja, tomorrow I am in Lagos. Being an entrepreneur is what I love so much. I am happy my granny gave me Fancy Nancy while I was growing up and also happy that the name stuck to the extent of establishing a business with it. Fancy Nancy has made me to be more prudent and understand that in life you have to make crucial decisions. I now understand what bigger companies are going through.

    I have to talk to my manufacturers in China. I love to design because I am the creative director. The thing is that I maybe going through this stress today, but tomorrow when I am enjoying, people would not realise that a lot of hard work has gone into it. I am also planning to produce my own movie. A lot of my colleagues have encouraged me to do it.

    How has Chika Ike as a brand affected your business?

    To be honest with you, Chika Ike as a brand has affected the business positively. It has made my colleagues to love my brand and support me. It has opened a lot of doors for me. I am now more fashion conscious.

    What is the secret of your success in recent times when most other actresses are complaining of non-availability of jobs?

    As I always say, I give all the glory to God; it is not by my power. It is the grace of God in my life and my movies. My hard work has paid off at the end of the day. People see the movies that I have done. Of course if you are not good, nobody will call you for jobs. It is the combination of hard work and the grace of God in my life. I don’t attach too much to material things.

    Has acting been worth your while?

    Yes, it has and I have no regrets whatsoever acting.

    But has it not robbed you of some certain things?

    Yes, if you are an actress or wanting to become an actress and getting attention all the time, you should know that people are going to be peeping into your private business. Everybody seems to know where you go. Sometimes it could be good, sometimes it could be bad. You have to learn to endure it and live with it.

    So, how good can it be?

    For me, the most important thing as an actress is that my movies are able to touch lives. If I am able to do a movie and it touches people’s lives and someone comes to say that your movie changed my life, that is the best reward I can ever get as an actress. Obviously, people do things for you; they open doors for you here and there but the most important thing is that your movie touches someone and someone can learn from what you have done.

    So, how challenging can it be?

    Well, you cannot do things you used to do. You cannot be somewhere trying to just be alone without someone recognising you. Sometimes you just need your privacy; sometimes you can’t just go to where you want to go to. You have to be very careful of where you hang out. You have to be very careful of what you do because people expect so much from you and you have to be cautious. You are a role model to the youths and you can’t afford to disappoint them.

    You seem to play the good girl more in the industry. How come we don’t get to see you play the bad girl?

    I have tried to re-invent myself. I have played different roles. I want my fans to see me in a different light and see that I can also do some other roles apart from the good-girl role. So, from all the other movies that are coming out I want them to see the other side of Chika.

    Of late, people say your taste seems to be high, especially your recent trip to Abu Dhabi. What is your view?

    Usually, every year, I take a vacation. I work so hard all through, I deserve a break. I just had to take time out and whenever I do, I make sure I rest very well. I don’t know why it has been all over the whole nation, but I had fun.

    What lessons has life has taught you?

    Life has taught me one thing, to be focused amidst all issues. I have learnt to keep moving and get myself above situations.

    Whether you like or not, there must be haters. Everybody can’t like you. If you are loved by all, then you should be very careful and start asking yourself if you are doing the right thing.

    It’s normal. It has taught me that life is full of ups and downs. It has also taught me to be patient.

    Do you think getting married at a young age was a disadvantage or had anything to do with the way it ended?

    I think it has to do with so many reasons; one of them might be being young. Some people get married that young and have been able to make their marriages work. But if you’re young, you’re young.

    There are some things you’ve not experienced. You might not be able to stay calm when you’re supposed to stay calm, understand when you’re supposed to understand or leave what you’re supposed to leave.

    I think it has to do with age and so many other things like compatibility and not being true to yourself in the marriage. Everybody has a limit. There are some things in marriage that you might not be able to stand. Some people’s limit might not be my limit; my limit might be somebody’s starting point.

  • Between  Tokunbo  Modupe  and  Mimiko

    Between Tokunbo Modupe and Mimiko

    THE head honcho of public relations outfit, TPT International and 001 Events companies, Tokunbo Modupe, who literarily moved to Ondo State following his association with the state governor, is back at his table in his Magodo office. According to a close source, things may have gone awry between the PR guru and the state helmsman as he is trying to corner new accounts for his PR company which he left for the juicy government job.

    Modupe, until now, is a major player in the politics of his state, Ondo. Those in the know disclosed that he hobnobbed with the state helmsman and also handled some projects in the state, although an unreliable source squealed that the association transcends beyond handling capital projects in the state.

  • Isabel Aghahowa  hugs stardom

    Isabel Aghahowa hugs stardom

    ISABEL, the beautiful daughter of the former Super Eagles player, Julius Aghahowa, is on a path to stardom. The young girl has joined Nollywood.

    Her first appearance is in Uche Jombo’s movie. Eleven-year-old Isabel stars alongside other famous faces in Nollywood.

    Julius Aghahowa’s name might have faded off the lips of Nigerians but his daughter is set to lift the name high.

  • From Ndidi  Anyaehie to  Tania Omotayo

    From Ndidi Anyaehie to Tania Omotayo

    SOCIETY lady and business woman, Ndidi Anyaehie, is the popular lady behind Designer’s Club. But the news making the round is that Ndidi in her 40s has sold the clothing and accessories store to Tania Omotayo, a mulatto beauty and lover of music sensation, Wizkid. Other sources, however, say that Ndidi only leased out the place for Tania to run for a period of time since the young lady has signified her interest in turning the place around, while Ndidi moved on to other business interests.

    She recently delved into real estate and opened a world-class spa in Lagos.

  • Bisola Tokan  prepares for  another baby

    Bisola Tokan prepares for another baby

    BISOLA Tokan, the CEO of Bakery House, is preparing for her second baby. The unassuming eldest daughter of Wosilat Okoya, the sister of billionaire businessman, Chief Rasak Okoya, has been absent from her business concern. Inside sources revealed that she is in her third trimester.

    Delectable Bisola ceased to be a high flyer at socials after she got married and had her first child. Jide Tokan is reserved and into building and construction and does not like the noise around his spouse.

  • Ooni gives  out daughter  in marriage

    Ooni gives out daughter in marriage

    His Royal Majesty, the Ooni of Ife, Oba Okunade Sijuade, gave out his daughter, Oluwaseyi, in marriage to Olanrewaju Odeyemi. The royal wedding was held at St Paul’s Anglican Church, Ayegbaju, Ile-Ife, Osun State on Saturday 8th February, 2014. The wedding witnessed attendance by the who-is-who in Nigeria.

  • Stand Up Nigeria was a  diversion –Bunmi Davies

    Stand Up Nigeria was a diversion –Bunmi Davies

    Despite a soaring followership and popularity, producer of comedy show, Stand-up Nigeria, Bunmi Davies, says the show has actually been diversionary, having taken him away from his initial plans for theatre. He spoke to Gboyega Alaka on his plans to take it to greater heights, even as his organisation, Afrotainment Productions, is bringing theatre back to its proper place in its radar.

    NOT many remember that Bunmi Davies, the ever young gentleman behind popular live comedy show, Stand Up Nigeria, actually started his foray into the entertainment business with drama presentations; perhaps not many are aware too that his company, Afrotainment, has been around for upward of 14 years, steadily contributing its quota to Nigeria’s ever-growing entertainment business and, in the process, reawakening the theatre and outdoor audience entertainment culture. But these and a few other revelations are some of the things Davies unfolded in this chance encounter. He also disclosed that the early days were indeed the days of sowing, as it took a lot of hardwork and dedication to actually get Nigerians to begin to come out again for theatre entertainment, whether in the form of drama or comedy.

    Bunmi Davies revealed that venturing into comedy was actually diversionary, as the initial idea was more about the theatre and drama presentations. Back in school at the University of Lagos, he had done a lot of freelance work with some of the big shots who were always coming to the campus to put up shows and that sort of opened a vista of career opportunities to him. Looking back, he says what he and some of his colleagues got for doing ground works for these big shots might have been meagre, but as a student, it was enough to open their eyes and inspire him (especially) to shift interest from finance (his course of study) to entertainment.

    He, however, said transmuting to comedy in itself wasn’t a deliberate action, explaining that he simply spotted a gap in the course of delivering theatre productions. “All our works always had elements of comedy; and that naturally attracted comedians into our fold. Along the line, we found ourselves doing more works with comedians, and found in the process that there was a gap in the market for 100percent comedy show. And we gladly filled it.”

    On whether he imagined it was going to get this big, Davies said that would amount to admitting indirectly that the show is big enough already. “We’re not even where we want to be yet,” he declared.

    He admitted that he never really set specified targets or boundary, except that “we just want to keep moving forward and going very far and as fast as is humanly possible and permitted by God.” He opined that anyone who was at the last Stand up Nigeria comedy show would admit that it was a unique package, adding that the entire look and feel was entirely different from anything ever seen anywhere in the country before. His reason? “We don’t want to be followers, we want to lead and keep evolving, so that we don’t end up as dinosaurs.”

    Talking about the challenges he’s faced up to this point, Davies said it’s been the same usual challenges of infrastructure, electricity and poor road network; like every other Nigerian doing business is facing. Therefore, he believes no-one has a valid reason for failure, if he could weather these storms. Narrowing it down to entertainment, however, he said the biggest challenge for Afrotainment Productions or anyone in his kind of business is of venues. “We don’t have enough venues to do entertainment on the scale we really want to do it. For instance, we need a venue that can more or less give us the space to rehearse and get our productions properly done. But with what we have in Nigeria, you have to pay the full value, or at least put forward 50percent. By the time you add that to your budget, you’d realise that you simply can’t pass it to your audience. Even when you have the budget to execute on that scale, how many halls do we have across the country to do a national tour? How many venues are theatre venues proper? What we have are party venues.”

    Somehow comforting, however, is the fact that Afrotainment Productions also provides content for some of the television stations, by way of packaging some of the comedy shows for TV. This, aside from generating income, also gives it leverage, as even states where the show has yet to show had the opportunity to stage live experience via their TV sets and also increase the artistes’ popularity across the nation.

    On how he was able to revive the theatre culture amongst Nigerians, Davies said the greatest advantage he and most of the guys with him on the project had at that initial stage was not having “major responsibilities.” By that, he meant that they didn’t have any family to take care of, plus the fact that they were mostly doing it for fun and their love for it. Whether they made money was therefore secondary to their passion, which always was to put up a good show and improve with every edition. Today, he said the Nigerian audience has again woken up to the theatre culture, coming out in droves every time there is a show, and exhibiting great enlightenment. Like most audience all over the world, they “of course always want more value for their money, but by and large, they are now very well-informed and really fantastic. Otherwise, how do you explain people paying N1million, N500,000 for a table at a performance?” he queried.

    Working with a bunch of ‘weird’ people who are seemingly wired to poke fun and make a joke out of virtually every situation, we figured, could also be very challenging; so how is he able to cope without losing focus? But Davies simply said, “We’ve built a fantastic relationship with all the guys”, which, by every measure of it, was an understatement. He agreed that indeed most of the guys are weird and crazy, adding that what the audience see on stage or TV is an extension of what they do off stage. Most importantly, he said “you cannot give what you don’t have. So if our job is about giving fun, then you should expect us (himself inclusive) to have it in abundance.” Besides, he said it can be very interesting when you don’t see your work as work, but as fun.

    Bunmi Davies has also built the Stand Up Nigeria comedy show to a level where most of the comedians see him more or less like a godfather. The consensus amongst them is that he is a gentleman who has unwittingly provided them with a platform to showcase their talent and hit the roof. His laissez-faire approach ensures that artistes, irrespective of their background or connections, get to mount the stage, once they’ve been certified to be up to standard. This, of course, they say isn’t the case with other comedy shows.

    But even as Davies will not agree to the ‘godfather’ tag, he nevertheless said that what his organisation set out to do was to be a bridge with which the artistes can move from point A to point B. The philosophy has therefore been: ‘Is he good? If he’s good, put him on the platform.’ Afrotainment Productions has a content manager, who appraises and okays the artistes for the stage. Names may be a bonus, but the show is not really about big names. At the initial stage, it was a bit of a problem as the audience asked questions like, ‘who and who is performing?’ before buying tickets.’ But that’s in the past now, he explained with a visible confidence. “As a matter of fact, anytime we hear that kind of question now, we know that the person is new to our show and we usually say to them, ‘Welcome to Stand Up Nigeria.’

    The same quality and standard is applying to the drama versions of their productions, Davies said. Already, Plays by Bunmi Davies, which is a brand launched in December 2013 to kind of retrace his steps back to the theatre aspect, will stage its second edition come Easter Monday. The play for this edition is titled, ‘Once Upon a Mad Man’, and it will be featuring artistes like Sege Adeniji, Ogbolo the comedian, amongst others. The amazing thing about the Plays by Bunmi Davies will also be the surprise package; and Davies said the audience should just brace themselves for anything.

    “We try not to narrow ourselves. We might decide to feature just a play, it can be series of plays; it can be three plays in one. But at the end of the day, it is a play and the audience would have had a nice time. Essentially, what we have packaged is not just targeted at theatre lovers; rather, it is a package for those who want to relax. And it’s a full event from when you get to the venue, the ambience, the way people welcome you, what you see before the play, the freebies you get…. It’s a total entertainment package even as it is theatre.”

    Riding on the huge success of a brand like Stand Up Nigeria, we also figured that he would have made a lot of money. To this he simply replied that the show has been “profitable enough to have kept us in business for over 14 years; and by the grace of God, profitable enough to keep the business going even long after I’m gone.”

    His most emotional moments, however, would be those occasions, when a hitherto unknown comedian whom his platform has availed the opportunity to a breakthrough, comes visiting to the office and after a moment, pulls him out to show him the lovely car he’d just bought. Usually, this is after they would have taken care of several other family matters, including sending money home to their parents. And Davies said: “On such occasions, they barely know what they are doing to me, but in actual fact, they’re touching me right inside my soul. Usually, I just stand still, amazed, because the truth is, how much could I have been able to reward them with in terms of direct cash?”

  • Agony of a family

    Agony of a family

    Four years ago, the family of Mr. and Mrs. Fayenuwo was involved in an auto crash. The growth of their three months old son has since been stunted. They spoke with Taiwo Abiodun in Akure.

    ENIOLA Fayenuwo is four years old. Fine and fair in complexion, plump with a round face, he is by all definition a fine little boy. However, despite his ages he cannot stand or walk by himself. His eyes are widely opened while all shouts and screaming and the honking of car horns around him did not even affect him; he can neither hear nor see hear. He remained motionless.

    His parents’ Mr. and Mrs. Yemi and Folashade Fayenuwo live at No 3, Ire Akari Estate, Akure, Ondo State. According to them, he was not born like that. They had been going in and out of hospitals in the last four years in search of cure for their baby Eniola. This has gulped a lot of the family’s resources.

    In tears, Folashade narrated how it happened four years ago. The family had left Warri, Delta State where they were living for Akure, Ondo State with their new born baby. “If I had known I wouldn’t have embarked on that journey that day. This is what is taking toll on us now. Each time I flashed back to what happened to us, I would shed tears and curse the day I decided to travel.”

    She continued her story, “When I gave birth to my baby four years ago, we were then living in Warri. My mother-in-law came to assist me to look after the baby since that was my first baby and I had no experience in child caring. We decided to move to Akure to settle down because we believe life is less expensive in Akure. On our way, around Benin a trailer on high speed driven by a careless driver while trying to avoid a big pothole hit our vehicle from behind and we somersaulted several times. Some Good Samaritans came and rescued us. In the vehicle, my brother in-law died instantly while my mother in-law and I sustained internal injuries. We were later operated upon. I also suffered pelvic fracture. I was firstly put in Intensive Care for eight days. Then while being hospitalised at the University of Benin Teaching Hospital I asked after my baby but I was told he was in ICU and was being given oxygen; he was only three months old.”

    Drenched in tears, she continued, “When we were eventually discharged from the hospital, we went home happy, not knowing we still had a long way to go. We rejoiced and called friends to celebrate with us and we started living our normal lives. But we later discovered that Eniola was growing abnormally and could not talk, hear, wink, walk, or stand on his own. He is like vegetable-all he does is to look. He could not wink not to talk of smiling! That was from where we started over again.”

    On the efforts they have made so far, the heart-broken Folashade said, “We took him to several hospitals in Akure and back to the University of Benin Teaching Hospital and other private hospitals until we were informed that the accident had affected a part of his brain. When we heard this sad news, we were devastated.”

    The father said they had visited churches and spiritualists. According to him “We also took him to several Praying Mountains for vigil and prayers. We took him to many hospitals where many tests were carried out on him but here we are. Recently, we were told to take him to India so that he could be taken care of there, but we have exhausted our savings.”

    Eniola looks well-fed with robust cheeks lying in the back of the car while the parents carry him about. He cannot move his legs, limbs or any part of his body. He is being fed and uses baby pampers.

    Yemi, the father said he had lost count of how much the family had spent on Eniola. “I have sold my car to settle medical bills, I have sold virtually all what I have in the world. I am a driver while my wife is a petty trader who sells sweet, chewing gum and pure water. We were advised to go to some herbalists but I insisted that they would add to our problem.”

    Mrs. Fayenuwo said they have received many pieces of advices from people on what to do. She is, however, determined, “We don’t pray for him to die. I cannot kill him, I know it is a burden but God will intervene,” she prayed.