Category: Sunday magazine

  • Obafemi Otudeko  toeing his father’s path

    Obafemi Otudeko toeing his father’s path

    EASY-GOING and charming Obafemi Otudeko is the son of popular businessman, Oba Otudeko. Like his father who has his hands in many pies, the younger Otudeko has been understudying his father. A graduate of Accountancy Studies from the University of Huddersfield, England, the younger Otudeko, though hard working, still creates time to play polo.

    He is a non-executive director at FirstBank Plc and also the Group Executive Director of the Honeywell Group, one of Nigeria’s leading conglomerates. Otudeko began his professional training at PricewaterhouseCoopers (PWC), where he gained significant experience leading and managing assignments to provide assurance, internal audit & risk management, and business advisory services across different industry segments (Oil & Gas, Consumer, Industrial & Financial Products & Services), finally specialising in the financial services industry practice of the firm.

    The younger Otudeko also sits on the board of directors of Airtel Networks Limited, Honeywell Flour Mills Plc, and Anchorage Leisures Limited developers of the 5-star Radisson Blu Hotel, Victoria Island.

  • Why Abe  Ibrahim is  absent at socials

    Why Abe Ibrahim is absent at socials

    POLO-LOVING Abe Ibrahim is in high heavens. Abe who is one of the aides of General Ibrahim Babangida, and boss of Soveran Oil, sources said, has struck a business deal abroad, one of the reasons he is absent on the social arena.

    Abe Ibrahim, a one-time captain of Lagos Polo Club, we gathered, now shuttles between Nigeria and America, where his new business concern is located.

  • On the night  Madiba died– 	a tribute to Nelson Rolihlahia Mandela

    On the night Madiba died– a tribute to Nelson Rolihlahia Mandela

    THE announcement came just before midnight. You were sitting alone upstairs in your living room, watching the news, in that post-prandial haze that says the night is here and it will soon be another day.

    ‘Breaking News’ flashed across the screen.

    Vaguely your mind leafed through the various possibilities. Another car bomb outsidea Shiite mosque in Baghdad. A drone attack has taken out twoAl Qaeda militants in Yemen, along with ten bystanders. Just cause, to some. Collateral damage.

    On the screen was the face of Jacob Zuma, President of the Republic of South Africa, reading somberly from a prepared text.

    It came to you in a rush. Madiba was dead.

    It was always going to happen. You had sought to brace yourself for it. The South African people, you feared, whenever you thought about it, just might have a collective nervous breakdown. Hopefully it would be a transient one, and they would move on, eventually.

    As soon as Zuma was done, the presenters went to town, talking about the life and times of Nelson Mandela. They showed the scenes from outside his house. They spoke of his long travail in prison. They began to rifle through the landmarks of his life.

    All the complex emotions associated in your mind with the man began to play out.

    He liked to box, and as a young man he spent many hours boxing, and watching others box. In truth, all of his life was a boxing match, and he the quintessential master of the trade, lost many rounds, gave away a few, and ended up being carried shoulder-high by the very enemy he had just defeated.

    He liked to dance. The dance was de rigeur, at some point as he worked the crowd. His steps, to your trained eye, were slow and out step, at least in the latter years. You never, you remembered, knew him in his younger years, except as an abstract, unattainable concept. The Rivonia speech.The clenched fist.Free Nelson Mandela!

    The image many people would remember was the dancing. The sheer joie de vivre of the man.

     

    Where did one approach this one from, you thought, as you watched the cable channels one and all abandon their scheduled programs and begin to talk Mandela.

    Incongruously, you suddenly remembered standing on the Matopos hills, at the spot named ‘View Of The World’, in the heartland of Matabeleland. Africa rolled out before your unaccustomed eye, in swathes of undulating vegetation and an endless interplay of rock and brown earth. Cecil John Rhodes had stood on this spot, and pointed northwards to his fellows, all of them white colonialists.

    ‘Your hinterland is there’

    He was rallying his race to go up into all of Africa, having ‘secured’ the Southern tip South Africa and Rhodesia, and to take over by force, if necessary, all of the land, since it was the ‘natural’ entitlement, and even the duty of their race, to take possession, in the process executing their ‘civilising’ mission. The white man’s burden.

    It was an eerie feeling being on the Matopos, all by yourself, in an age before the security situation in the new nation of Zimbabwe deteriorated to a point where it was no longer safe to wander so far afield, because the denizens of ‘Father Zimbabwe’, Joshua Nkomo, were battling the North Korean trained Fifth Brigade which the ‘liberator’ Robert Mugabe, was using against his ‘internal’ enemies. The revolution, already, was consuming its own.

    You had felt the tears sting your eye as the full intellectual and philosophical underpinning of Racism hit you in the face for the first time in your life.

    You looked down at Cecil Rhodes, where he lay buried in the rock, which he had loved, and where he had liked in his life to come and spend time.

    ‘Your hinterland is there under the ground, rotten and mouldy, you s—t!’ you said to him.

    The anger was still in your heart, and in your eye, several hours later as you made your way back to Bulawayo.

    At that point in time, Zimbabwe had just secured a freedom of sorts. A grim-faced man who favoured red ties was in the saddle. It was said he seldom smiled. It was said the heirs ofCecil Rhodes had subjected him to torture in the years when he was in their grip, before he became their overlord. The rumour mill even had something about jailors rough-handling his most tender, most private portions. Whether it was truth or myth, he would never forget.

    But that was another story. Or maybe it was not another story but really the same story. Maybe it was part of the story of The Boxer, in a manner of speaking, since they were contemporaries, and ZANU the party of Mugabe, provided refuge and assistance to the African National Congress in its moments of greatest danger.

    On a sunny day several months after the face-off with Cecil Rhodes on the Matopos, you found yourself sitting on the floor on a dusty stretch of earth in Warren Hills, on the outskirts of Harare. This was Heroes’ Acre, the place where, according to the government, all the leaders of the Chimurenga- the struggle for liberation of Zimbabwe, would be buried. You were all here this day to honour Herbert Wiltshire TapfumaneyiChitepo, a leader of ZANU, and one of the fathers of the nation. Sitting on the podium were men and women who had suffered horrendously at the hands of the Ian Smith regime – who had been tortured, banished, bombed, imprisoned. Chitepo himself had been assassinated on 18th March, 1975 in Zambia by a suspected former member of the British SAS, presumably acting on behalf of the Rhodesian government. It was impossible to forget. Heroes Acre would ensure that the people of Zimbabwe always remembered. Robert Mugabe himself would be buried there, assuredly, in the fullness of time.

    Just as the proceedings were about to commence, a Mercedes Benz sedan rolled up. All in the crowd craned their necks the better to see the new arrival. It was Oliver Tambo, the leader in exile of the African National Congress, the diplomatic face of the struggle for freedom in South Africa. Nelson Mandela his more ‘radical’ companion, according to the prevailing perception, co-founder of Umkonto we Sizwe the Spear of the Nation the army that would so they said – battle the Boers to the death, was in prison serving a life sentence on Robben Island. A deep-throated cheer went up among the crowd. It was like the roar of some primordial beast. You joined in the roar, waving your fist aloft with the rest. Up on the podium, Oliver Tambo responded to the crowd, waving his fist. He was embraced by Mugabe.

     

    Bottom line

    The bottom line, said the strategists and pundits in those days, was that the story of African liberation was no tale of gentlemen with queasy stomachs telling tender tales to wimpy school children. This was about grit, and life and death. The black tide was rolling from North to South, rolling over Rhodesia, and rolling relentlessly down South to The Final Battle. And what a final battle that would be!

    This was the mood, that afternoon, at Heroes’ Acre, when they re-buried Herbert Chitepo. Oliver Tambo was there, but theemblem of The Final Battle everyone wanted to think or talk about was Mandela, out there behind the bars on Robben Island.

    Not the Press, nor the pundits, not even the greatest writers of Literature on that day, or several years after it, could have foreseen that Mandela, or Tambo, or any black man, would become President of a South Africa where the monuments and princely structures had not been reduced to rubble in a bitter, scorched earth war in which no prisoners would be taken, and the white tide – of English or Dutch antecedents – would have been rolled back into the Atlantic Ocean, no matter how horrendous the cost.

    Nadine Godimer, Nobel Laureate, wrote, in July’s People about such a South Africa, where white ‘civilisation’ had been reduced to rubble, and people were fleeing to the countryside.

     

    Years of bitter sentiment

    Those years! They were years of bitter sentiment and high fervour. Men, and women behaved in ways they would like to forget now. Henry Kissinger wrote officially to the President of the United States that the ‘rabble Armies’ of the ‘so-called’ Liberation Struggle including the ANC, were no match for the disciplined armies of the America’s allies that were their foes, especially the South Africans, no matter how objectionable some people might consider Apartheid to be.RealPolitik dictated that America should continue to support the ‘white’ government, so that the Communists would not take over.

    Newsweek, the respected news magazine, in writing the story of school children in Soweto who protested and were shot dead by policemen, quoted a subservient black policeman to illustrate its understanding of the issues. ‘Those people (meaning the blacks) have lost their head’. The implication was that it was pointless to struggle. The enemy was too powerful, and too entrenched.

    They were heady days to be aPan-Africanist. The issues were clear, and the answers were simple. When your friend Reuven, who had served in the Israeli Defence Force, expostulated ‘If I have to choose between the survival of Israel and the rest of the world, I will tell the rest of the world to go to hell’ you had responded to him, without a second’s contrary thought

    ‘If the destruction of Apartheid and the liberation of Africa puts the rest of the world in jeopardy, for me the world can go to hell’

    He had looked at you askance, swallowed and held his peace. It was his first education to the reality that everybody had a bottom line.

    And then the world had begun to change. Everybody was looking their nightmare in the eye, and recoiling from it.

    Bob Marley came to Harare and sang the classic ‘Africans Are Libe-rate Zimbabwe ‘

    Mugabe the staging post for the final push, was himself now the problem. His greatest revolutionary strength his unflinching conviction and his unshakable determination, was also his greatest flaw he just could not see why anyone should disagree with him. Zimbabwe became not the epitome of the promise at the end of the struggle, but the prototypical ogre of what not to become, at any cost.

    Twenty three years ago, The Boxer left Robben Island. He had become in the last 10years of his incarceration, the most powerful rallying force for moral good in a world that was being stripped of its old assumptions, but was yet to create a new set of working assumptions. His every word became a tome to be carried and shared with reverence.

    He understood his foe, knew where he was coming from, and worked from a certainty that he could prevail against him by giving him space to breathe. It ran against everything the natural human instinct dictated. It ran against the expectation of the masses, who were braying for blood. Even his wife Winnie opposed his readiness to dialogue and find accommodation, and opposed his sharing of theNobel Peace Prize with his erstwhile adversary.

    The Boxer has proved a consummate psychologist, working in the mental space of his people, who are not just his Themba race but all the people of South Africa. He – the master of the little gesture. Wearing the captain’s jersey of the rugby team and willing them to victory in the World Cup. In so doing permanently winning the hearts of his audience, and all the millions they represented.

     

    Leadership style

    Leadership came easy to him. Leadership that could not be canned into theory, and taught in Business School. He was confident, so he did not need to take credit. Rather he gave credit lavishly to other people, and would even put himself down. He wanted nothing from the argument. Nothing except to prevail in the end.

    Was the wound of the murder of loved ones cauterized by facing the killer on the platform of Truth and Reconciliation? Or must it be, as tradition demands, an eye for an eye, even if everyone ended up purblind?

    And there was the most recent of innovations – a new type of war, driven by a poisonousvictimology, where a young man could crudely slaughter an unarmed man in uniform in broad daylight on a street in London and be perfectly at ease in his warped soul, because the government had a foreign policy that he believed was hostile to people of his religion.

    As the midnight hour passed, the presence of The Boxer seemed to fill the room, deepening the eery feeling. You were tracking the bits and pieces of his story in your mind, stringing the patchwork together.

    There was the enigma of Winnie. She was, while he was on Robben Island, the beautiful temperamental Amazon of the struggle the managers of Apartheid were not quite certain how to handle. She was the editor’s dream photogenic, flawed, with a ready sound byte. Nadine Godimer had written, as gently as it was possible to write about such delicatematters, how she was not physically faithful to a husband who was away from her bed for three decades plus something. You had once written a piece in your column on her titled ‘Winnie And The Ghost Of Stompie’. Stompie was a young man who was alleged to have been killed, and he was not the only one, and hidden away on the orders of Winnie.

    It was always going to end badly between them and it did.

    Looking back, it seemed just appropriate that the only person you ever heard speak ill of Mandela was a former Information Minister of Nigeria, amoustachioed buffoon of a man, generally accepted as a jolly good fellow who did not know anything about anything. When General Abacha put Ken SaroWiwa to death, Mandela, as President of South Africa, and moral conscience of the world, spoke against the act and called for the isolation of the Nigerian leadership. The jolly man with the moustache, who was not even in government at the time, perhaps impelled by patriotic fervour, or perhaps to impress the dictator, unleashed a torrent of abuse against the South African.

     

    Other issues

    Other bits and pieces flitted across your eye.

    The visit to Harlem.

    Coming out with the information about his son’s death from HIV, and so bringing the disease out of the closet and enabling his country to face it down.

    Becoming a universal role model and a force for good in a world where all the lines of distinction were blurred.

    Reserving the right to be friends with people who were held to be pariahs by the people who controlled the world press and purported to define what was received wisdom.

    Reserving the right to criticise even his best friends, when their nations fell short.

    The past one year of illness had been a long goodbye.

    As he grew silent, the things he stood for became even louder and more emphatic all around the world.

    Everybody would want to come to say goodbye, you concluded. Obama. Bush. Blair. Even Jonathan.

    Everybody who was anybody, and a great many who were nobody – till he gave them hope.

    And you – what did he mean to you?

    You hated to ask direct questions of yourself. That was a pain you reserved the right to inflict on others.

    This man showed that the African could lead. That was one thing. In the end, that was everything.

    Everybody, coming out of this, perhaps would feel that they could reach for the Mandela in them, and nurture and cultivate it.

    It was an option.

    There were other options.

    They could give in to anger, or despair.

    Righteous anger could lead them to a Mugabe-esque passion to right old wrongs, in the process drawing everybody back.

    Or they could embrace the symbolic futility of the angry young man in the new type of war, slaughtering an unarmed soldier on the street in Woolwich.

    The picture on the television screen was fading.

    It was not the picture it was your eyes, which were filled and brimming over.

    Perfectly ridiculous, you thought, severely the spectacle of a grown man sitting alone in his living room, two hours past midnight, feeling the tears dripping down onto his night shirt.

    What irked you was that you were not certain whether the tears were for The Boxer, or for your troubled people.

    Dr. Olugbile, a renowned writer is the Permanent Secretary of the Lagos State Ministry of Health

  • Night of  glitz and  glamour

    Night of glitz and glamour

    AN evening of glitz and glamour it was at the Bespoke Centre, Lekki – Lagos. It was the venue of the rock-and-rave fashion show where designers, models and stakeholders took turns to showcase their collections. There was something for everyone.

    The president of the Fashion Designers Association, FDA, Funmi Ajila Ladipo, talked about the challenges as well as the fact that the sector was a potential goldmine, if properly. The highpoint of the evening was the unique designs from the House of Maufechi. The designs which came in colourful tones included bright orange, red, purple and pink. The ankara details in these colours were done creatively and they were projected marvellously by the models.

    Clara Chinwe Okoro, the brain behind the Rock and Rave Fashion franchise, is organising Fashion TV. “The designs that we have presented here are colourful, done creatively and the finishing is great. A lot of our designers are doing marvellous things but they are not projected properly. This is what we are going to be doing and this would create a better platform for our designers.”

    She added that “The concept for us was to start an African Fashion TV, where the business of fashion in Africa would be covered on Cable TV.”

  • Mandela in the eyes of writers

    Mandela in the eyes of writers

    Nelson Mandela was a phenomenon, he created a rich legacy of written words and also inspired other artistes across the globe to compose songs, make films and staged concerts in his name. Edozie Udeze takes a look at Madiba’s influence on the written words

    APART from his natural love for the art and the humanities, Nelson Mandela is known to have attracted and inspired myriad of concerts, songs, poems, stage dramas, fictional stories, movies, folklores and public readings.

    But more than that, when the story of apartheid was first made public in 1946, by Peter Abrahams in his epic novel entitled Mine Boy the world was shocked to know that heinous colour and racial issues were taking place in South Africa. It was partly the sentiments expressed in that book and the uproar it generated in global political arena that inspired The African National Congress (ANC) to go global with some of its political antics and tactics.

    Mandela knew the intrinsic power of literature and how it can be used for propaganda and political maneuvering. By the time The Path of Thunder by the same Peter Abrahams was published in 1948, Mandela and most top shots of the ANC had seen in some of the literary materials protest weapons for the liberation of the Black peoples of South Africa. Even before then, Mandela was known to have fallen in love with tribal and heroic stories of his people.

    The story of Mfecane, Shaka the Zulu, the folkloric escapades of his tribal leaders, all excited him beyond comparison. Thereafter, he immediately took to heart some of the remarkable protests led by his warrior native leaders. The words of Peter Abrahams in Mime Boy which says ‘But there is neither East nor West, border nor breed nor birth. When two strong men stand face to face/though they come from the ends of the earth”, predicted the era of political struggle which was to give impetus to the likes of Mandela.

    During his trial in Pretoria in 1962, Mandela found a great ally in Nadine Gordimer, the South African writer who later became a Nobel Laureate whom he made to edit all his speeches. Gordimer, a white South African, abhorred by members of the all-white ruling National Party found peace and solace in being close to Mandela. Mandela loved her style of writing, her sentiment about the perilous moments then. In an interview, she affirmed also that the life of Mandela helped to influence her writings, her tenacity of purpose.

    After the 1964 trial upon which Mandela was given a life sentence, Gordimer made friends with Mandela’s attorney. In the end, she wrote a book based on that episode. The book, Burger’s Daughter, a copy of which was smuggled to him in his prison, touched Mandela so profoundly that he forever found a formidable confidant in Gordimer. In later years, Gordimer, looked back and reflected thus: “He (Mandela) the most exigent reader I could have hoped for, wrote me a letter of deep understanding and acceptance about the book.”

    This was why also another book centering on the black leadership of the country entitled The Late Bourgeois by Gordimer was banned by the apartheid regime in 1976. They saw in her works powerful tools to aid ANC and the struggle.

     

    Breaking the prison walls

    All along, Mandela ensured that he kept a diary. Part of the texts he smuggled out to the world helped to fight his cause. He believed so much in the powers of literature, in the moving words of great writers. After reading a copy of Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe, Mandela exclaimed: “This is one author under whose hands the prison walls fell.” This was an instructive statement that made him a literary giant himself; someone who never allowed any important moment in his life to pass him by.

    In Long Walk to Freedom, an autobiography, he recounts the details of his life as a child in Cape Province. He also talks about his university education and rise to presidential leadership through his fight against apartheid. He also gives minute-by-minute account of his years in different prisons in the country. As you read through the book, you could feel the moving prose style of someone who is in love with literature, with his environment and people.

    A voracious and conscientious reader, he was noted for his penchant for great authors. This was what he brought to bear on his second book The Struggle is my Life. It is a collection that chronicles his speeches and writings from 1944 to 1990. In it, the Madiba recalls, with nostalgia the great statement he made in 1964 that the “struggle is my life and it is a struggle for which I am prepared to fight and die for the sake of the freedom of my people.” His prose nuances and style of muse show a man who mastered the art of story-telling using political imageries. There are usually deep folkloric undertones in his words.

    In His Own Words, a collection published in 2004, in which both Bill Clinton and Kofi Annan wrote the Foreword, the world was able to have a glimpse of his thoughts. The most striking ones were the ones he made when he received his Nobel Peace and while in office as first Black South African president. He used his writings and powerful speeches to reach the hearts of his people, arousing in them the strength and zeal to continue to stand for what is right and just.

    Again in 1987, Gordimer wrote a very powerful prophetic novel appropriately titled A Sport of Nature. There she predicted the end of apartheid and included a liberation leader based on Mandela. That book was not given much attention because the apartheid regime thought her prediction silly.

    At that time too when all hope was almost lost, a South African poet called John Matshikiza wrote: ‘And I watch it in Mandela’, saying that this man would end up a national hero. Also a Nigerian poet, Jekwu Ikeme whose poem ‘When Mandela goes’, published in 2004, dwelt on the state of South Africa when the great man bowed to mortality. Then, would South Africa be hollow, deprived and forlorn without the Madiba? Part of what Ikeme wrote goes thus: ‘when you go Madiba, your nobility shall be our lasting inheritance/this land you so loved shall continue to love/we shall trail long and majestic walk/your gallant work shall be our cross and shepherd.’

    The list of writers who were inspired by Mandela and the barbarity of apartheid are legion. Among these are eminent ones such as Wole Soyinka and JP Clark-Bekederemo who both published collection of poems dedicated to him. Soyinka titled his collection Mandela and other Earths while Clark-Bekederemo csimply titled his own Madela. Toni Morrison, also a Nobel laureate once said of Mandela, “He is for me, the single statesman in the world. In that literal sense, someone who is not solving all his problems with guns. He’s truly believable.”

    There are also many South African writers whose works touched on apartheid and Mandela even if indirectly. These include Athol Fugard, J.M. Coetzee, Alan Paton, Andre Blink, Alex La Guma, Lewis Nkosi and a host of others.

    Mandela may be gone in body but his spirit lives in the corpus of literature that he has inspired.

  • Madiba: A journalist  remembers

    Madiba: A journalist remembers

    A young journalist who met the late Nelson Mandela goes down memory lane on how he influenced her life

    GROWING up in Soweto, all I can remember is that children across the country had to leave school early on the day when Madiba was released from prison to celebrate our freedom fighter’s emancipation and that of the African people.

    Dressed in a black and white school uniform, I vividly recall that I was among thousands of school children who marched to Orlando Stadium in Soweto on February 12, 1990, to celebrate Madiba’s return. Our teachers had wanted all of us to be part of this journey so that we could understand what he had fought for. But what happened on that day is a story for another day.

    At that time, thoughts of becoming a journalist had not crossed my mind. But I had already begun to express my thoughts through pen and paper. Even though I did not know that God was slowly training me as a writer, the love for writing was already embedded in my spirit.

    All I knew was that I was good at expressing myself through writing. Instead of studying towards being a geologist or a biologist as I had wanted to when I completed my studies at high school, I found myself sitting with a bunch of aspiring journalists who were studying towards journalism, a profession that made me to interact and conduct interviews with the who’s who of this world, including our late President Nelson Mandela.

     

    Face to face with Madiba

    I met this political stalwart for the first time during the opening of Qunu Clinic in his hometown, Qunu in the Eastern Cape in 2001. This is the same place where on December 15, 2013 multitudes will gather to lay this great legend to rest.

    When I first met Tata, as he is fondly known to millions of South Africans, I had been working as an intern at one of the major newspapers in the country, The Sowetan. I was among the youngest journalists in the newsroom at the time. However, a fellow senior colleague and the newsdesk believed I was capable of covering the opening of the clinic by the former President.

    It was my first experience in a flight, attending a press conference, especially meeting a man who had fought for the liberation of this country.

    On arrival at the press conference, multitudes of veteran journalists gathered outside the clinic, waiting to be addressed by Madiba. Everyone had taken their position and I decided to stand behind all the journalists because I did not know how to maneuver during press conferences.

    I was nervous because almost all the journalists who were there were veterans, which made me an amateur. As I stood there not knowing what to do, I heard a strong voice asking,”Who is that little girl behind there?” Immediately, all the journalists and photographers turned around and the spotlight was on me. Those who met me in the flight responded to Madiba, “It is Vicky”. Then Madiba said “Come here.” When he said that, the journalists paved the way for me as I shyly moved towards him.

    As I stood there, he smiled, pointed at me and said, “You are not supposed to be here, you are supposed to be in school.” When he said that, the “Madiba Magic” suddenly took over my whole body, I began to shake, sweat, lost my voice and forgot all the questions that I had drafted before I left the newsroom. My assignment editor had assisted me and wanted me to pose my rehearsed questions to Madiba. However, Tata beat me in my own game by taking over my role as a journalist when he “interviewed” me.

    After he had intimidated me with the “Madiba Magic” voice, he then, focused his attention on the subject for the day. But then, I could not hear a word he said, because I was overwhelmed by the ambushed “interview” he had with me. How I managed to pen my story, I still don’t know. I remember that when we left Qunu, the organisers of the event jokingly said, Madiba has an eye for beautiful women and we laughed about it.

    When I arrived in the newsroom, the South African poet who worked for Sowetan at the time, Dr. Don Mattera and others were not pleased that I did not tell Madiba I was still a student. They felt I missed a great opportunity. Knowing his genorosity and compassion, they believed Madiba would have offerred to pay for my tution fees.

    I was encouraged to inform Madiba that I was still a student next time he asked me such a question. Subsequent to the tongue-lashing, I vowed to myself that next time I meet Madiba I will tell him that I am still a student. I even rehearsed my lines. l believe I rehearsed them so well that when we meet again, I would be able to address him eloquently without fear. He had intimidated me the first time, therefore, that was not going to be the case the second time when we meet, as I was ready for him, but with less than ten words “Yes Tata, I am still a student.”

     

    Meeting Madiba again

    However, my second encounter with him was still the same. I froze again when he told me that “You are not supposed to be here, you are supposed to be at school”. Madiba seemed to have had so much power over me that every time he addressed me, I lost focus.

    It doesn’t matter how many times I met Madiba, but everytime I saw him it felt like it was still the first time. But on the day when I believed I had gathered more courage, his former private secretary, Zelda La Grange, took over the job of a bouncer and could not allow me near him. I must say, I was not happy. I thought to myself, ‘how dare she does that to me, doesn’t she know that I’m highly favoured by the President, that every time he sees me he wants to talk to me’. That’s what went through my mind at that moment.

    The only time, I would say I was able to conduct a proper interview with Madiba was during a telephone interview with him. He was unable to make it to the opening of the school in Qunu due to bad weather. When I informed him that he missed out because the mood was very vibrant, he said had he been there he would have added the Madiba Jive while everybody danced along to the sounds of African music during the opening of the school.

    As a journalist, Madiba always made me feel shy during press conferences. He believed that I needed to be at school. In his eyes, I remained a little girl who never grew older, a little girl who deserved a better education, I guess. The last time I saw Madiba I believe it was in 2006 or 2007 at Houghton while he was hosting an international dignitary. This time he did not tell me that I’m supposed to be at school, instead he asked, “Are you not supposed to be at school?” My response to him was that, “Tata, I’m now old” and everybody laughed. Little did I know that before the end of the day, both of us would make media headlines. I remember that the South African Press Association and another media house wrote a story about my conversation with Madiba.

    Sadly, the man who could spot me even when no one could have is no more. How I learned about his departure? On December 5, I woke up at around 11pm just before my midnight prayers and I realised that I had received a watsaap (text) message from a Madiba family member at 10:21PM. It read, “He is gone”.

    Based on my conversation with my friend on Tuesday at 9:36am, the day when I was informed that Madiba was once again in a critical condition, when I received a message that said”He is gone”, I immediately understood that the son of the soil has joined his friends and comrades, Oliver Tambo, Walter Sisulu, Govan Mbeki, Robert Sobukwe etc.

    I must confess that it took me almost an hour to respond to the message because I was numb and I did not have the strength to comfort someone who had just lost a loved one. But after asking Pastor Lindi Mtimkulu from my home church what to say, with her help and guidance, I was able to send my friend the following message “May you and your family find strength, peace and comfort from God Almighty.”

    The passing of Madiba changed my personal midnight prayer to an intercessory prayer for the people of our country on December 5. My focus was no longer on me and my family, but on the nation as I knew how his death was going to affect South Africans. My prayer was on harmony in our country. I never wept for him on that day. Days passedby, still I did not weep. It was only on Sunday during a church service when it actually sunk in when we sang Johnny Glegg’s song “Asimbonanga uMandela.” That is when tears welled in my eyes and my heart bled. Probably because I knew that I will no longer hear his voice, and that he will no longer tell me that I need to be at school. Earnestly, I miss his voice!

    Although, Madiba did not sponsor my education, God made it possible that his family member takes over that responsibility. Not knowing that Madiba wanted me to go to school, the family member encouraged me to further my studies. Through the sponsorship of a Mandela family member, I studied towards my mid-career honours for journalists at Wits University. As we celebrate the life, lived by Madiba and the freedom that he and his other comrades fought for, I can proudly say that I’m one of those South Africans who have benefited from this freedom that we speak so proudly of today.

    Truly, I have benefitted from the Madiba legacy. I have eaten the fruits of his labour, freedom and proper education for all! Madiba, you portrayed a character of a true shepherd.

    Long live son of the soil, long live! Long live son of Africa, long live! The heavens are rich because of you! We sing new songs and these are songs of freedom and forgiveness because of your ethos. Let your spirit continue to live among us as Africans! Let it continue to rain in South Africa as it was when the multitudes gathered at the FNB Stadium during your memorial service.

    Robala ka kgotso MoAfrica (Rest in Peace)! I lift up my fist for you as you did when you came out of prison. Amandla!

  • Yeye Bola  Dare in double  celebration

    Yeye Bola Dare in double celebration

    YEYE Bola Dare is a lady that wields a lot of power in Abuja and close to the First Lady, Dame Patience Jonathan. So powerful is the former media practitioner that she could be referred to as Madam Fix it in the capital city of Abuja.

    Not only is she Madam Fix it, the vivacious woman has been dubbed Mother Theresa, no thanks to the orphanage she runs in Gwarimpa, Abuja. Between December 13 and 15, the Federal Capital Territory will play host to socialites, fun lovers and government functionaries as Yeye rolls out the drums to celebrate the 6th anniversary of Mother Theresa children’s home as well as birthday thanksgiving /party of 46 children. There will be thanksgiving service at Our Lady of Assumption Catholic Church, Asokoro, while reception will follow at the home in Gwarimpa. The colour of the day is white and black with a touch of red. By 8pm, the stylish and glamorous lady will be entertaining the crème de la creme to her 46th birthday bash.

    Yeye Bola Dare takes delight in giving life and hope to the less-privileged children whom she named after world presidents and past Nigerian leaders. Her involvement in philanthropy is not unconnected with her calling to be the mother of many children.

  • Mudi opens new outlet

    Mudi opens new outlet

    CLEMENT Mudiaga Enajemo, the brain behind Mudi Clothings, after 15 years of successful operation, has expanded to Mudi Africa Limited with headquarters in Lagos, Nigeria. Recently he opened a new outlet in Abuja to add to his feather. The name has become a household name in Africa, with outlets in Ghana, Senegal, Kenya and Johannesburg. Mudi, as he is fondly called, attributes his success to good focus and determination

  • Rio:  Brazil’s  wonderful  city

    Rio: Brazil’s wonderful city

    OLAYINKA OYEGBILE, who recently travelled to Brazil writes on his impression of Rio de Janeiro

    I ALWAYS love to arrive any country I am travelling to by air at night. This is because I believe that is the best time to judge how welcoming a country is. I love to sit by the window of the aircraft, pull down the shutters and look down from the sky as the pilot announces the descent and directs all to have their seats and prepare for landing.

    My ears are always ready to hear the pilot saying, “Fasten your seat belts, lights are on. All passengers are advised to return to their seats and fasten their seat belts. Cabin crew should prepare for landing,” or something close to those words.

    On hearing these words, I always move closer to the window, if by chance I am not the one with the window seat. But thank God I have the window seat on this day. I remember I once had an argument with another passenger who sat by the window and insisted she loves to pull down the shutters whenever she flies and the aircraft wants to land. According to her, she was always in apprehension on seeing the aircraft descending. I protested and told her to let us change seats or in the alternative she should pull the shutter up and close her eyes or pretend to be sleeping.

    Luckily on this flight into Rio de Janeiro, on this day, I have the window seat, so I do not have to argue with anyone. But this flight was a morning one, not my favourite night landing. Landing in the night always have for me an extra fun, especially when arriving in a city with beautiful lightings. The flush of lights in different blend of colours always serves as therapy from the long flight. It always assures me that I am landing in a city or a country that is a far cry from my homeland, where approaching the airport or landing at night is filled with mixed feelings; looking down from the aircraft only to see pitch darkness with only a handful of lights due to the lack of electricity!

    Arriving at Rio de Janeiro on this morning denied me of that fun. However, it was not devoid of its own excitement which I would perhaps have missed if we had landed at night! I looked out of the window and what I saw amazed me. We were flying first over an amazing stretch of jungles which that the country is famous for. A few minutes later, the aircraft began to hover over a long stretch of water and my heart began to skip. I began to wonder why he is flying and hovering above such a long stretch of water when he had already announced that we should prepare for landing. Is he going to land on water? Or has he lost his way? Is he trying to look for a ‘soft landing’? I looked around me and no one looks disturbed. Why should I? Then the descent began. I was still in awe but determined to see how it would end, and a short while later we landed successfully, not on the full stretch of water!

    I later learnt that the airport is located at the edge of Galeao Beach on Governador Island, which in 1923 was founded as a School of Naval Aviation. It later became an Air Force base before its current status as an international airport. It had also served other purposes such as serving as an aerodrome used by the Allied Forces for military operations in 1942 and during World War II.

    THE disembarkation processes, clearing customs and immigration were quick and without hassles as all the officials with their smattering English and their faces full of smiles welcomed us. There were no unnecessary questions. As you proceed to the exit wondering whether there was any of the organisers of the conference you have come to attend around to welcome you, you cast a look around and cannot see anyone bearing any placard with either your name, conference or hotel, waiting. Realising you have to find your way to your hotel on your own, you heaved a sigh and remember that the orgainisers have warned you not to patronise any public transport! So, what do you do? Before you could make up your mind, a coterie of men swamp around you, shouting “Taxi, taxi, taxi.” It reminds you of Lagos airport cab drivers, although they are not as desperate.

    Now you are wondering what to make of the warning that you should steer clear of public transport. A few seconds after, you thank your stars that you arrived in the morning. And as a street-wise Lagosian and a Nigerian to boot, you shake your head and say no one can “dull a Lagos boy.” You then approach one of the numerous counters advertising taxi services. At least you can be sure that registered taxi companies in the airport should be relatively safe. You approach the counter and mutter greetings in English. The lady behind the counter looks at you, apparently not understanding you. She does not speak English and you don’t speak either Portuguese or any of the Brazilian languages. At last she asks you a question which you don’t understand, but since you heard the word “taxi” you know she’s asking if you are in need of one.

    “Yes,” I replied and showed her the name of the hotel. She writes a receipt and hands it to you and an assistant materialises from nowhere to help with your only bag to the section for ground transportation.

    The assistant tries to engage you in a conversation and you both draw a blank due to a lack of understanding of each other’s language. He, however, struggles to ask “You, from w…here…?” Somehow you understand that he is asking where you came from.

    “Nigeria,” I replied.

    Instantly, his face brightens up and he looks at you as if you are a long lost uncle and quips: “Ni-ge-ria..? Ha…Oko….cha, Ka….nu…” and he begins to reel out names of Nigerian football stars, some of whom you do not know. Then he says “Oh, Ni-ge-ria…come Brazil World Cup…good…good,” he continues to wax lyrical as he guides you towards the taxi terminal. All this while, you follow him and look around bearing in mind the warnings of the organisers. Soon, it is your turn and a fairly elderly man is assigned to drive you to your hotel. At this point I told myself that the organisers’ warning was no longer necessary: it is daytime and an elderly man is to chauffeur me, I felt how such a man will outwit me. I settle down to enjoy the drive.

    There is no way we can communicate because as hard as I try to engage him in conversation I discover that it is a brick wall because both of us have language barrier. I decided to just enjoy the cool breeze of the air conditioner, the scenic beauty of Rio and the smooth ride. Some forty or so minutes after, we arrive in my hotel. A beautiful hotel with the beach overlooking it.

     

    A city to behold

    Rio de Janeiro is a city with many sides to it. The first thing most people would perhaps remember about the city is the world popular Rio Carnival. In the 70s and 80s, Mr Muyiwa Adetiba of The Punch and later Vanguard used to attend the event and do beautiful reports about it. The thrill and glamour of this festival is still there and present on the streets. Moving round the streets and most especially the beaches one sees that most of the women are in the state of “undress” (apologies to the masked one Lagbaja). The manner of their dressing would tempt the holiest of men. To think that the country has one of the largest Catholic population in the world!

    It is also perhaps one of the most religiously tolerant nations in the world with all sorts of religious persuasions. It has on its list the hosting of the LGBT events. In fact, on the Saturday I was there, “a world event of Gays and Lesbians meeting” was held at the long stretch of the beach not far from my hotel. It was a big event that caused a huge traffic snarl in the Copacabana area of the city. According to Rio Guide, a publication of the Tourism Ministry, the gay movement has reached its peak in Rio. “Since 1995, Copacabana beach is annually visited by thousands of members and supporters to celebrate the gay cause. The theme for the 18th edition of LGBT Parade in Rio de Janeiro is “Justice is blind, we are all equal before the law believe it and demand it.” This is a serious, yet colourful and fun event, which takes over Rio’s water front demanding equal rights and more tolerance. The publication adds, “Rio has been recognised as the best gay destination in the world, beating other cities to the podium.”

    However, Rio is not only about its sybaritic lifestyle of sex, food, drinks and fun. It is a city full of history and mementoes that could keep one engaged for months. No wonder the government has made a huge capital out of it to develop its roads and infrastructure to entice tourists and fun lovers to bring their money and have the fun of their lives. Its “parks and forest are the city’s hidden treasures. Wherever you go in Rio, jungle clad mountains are the backdrops. They’re mould into which the city is sprinkled,” it proclaims.

    Some of the high-rise buildings are built directly into the mountains, making one wonder whether they are not afraid of landslide, volcanic eruption or any natural land disaster linked to rocks. Some citizens say the rocks and mountains have become part of their lives and see no reason to fear them! Hence they build into them.

    Perhaps the most talked-about and world famous tourist attractions in the city is the duo of Pao de Acurar, otherwise known as Sugar Loaf Mountain and Corcovado or statue of Christ the Redeemer. Getting to the Sugar Loaf Mountain is by cable car which travels some 575 metres from Praia Vermelha through a height of 220 metres above sea level. It is a heart-thumping experience that anyone without a strong heart should never attempt to undertake unless with all eyes closed. The cable car makes its slow ascension up the hill with a deliberate slow speed to allow tourist savour the beauty of the scenery; it is heavenly and at the same time frightening. The trip is in two legs as the cable car covers 750 metres on its second leg to the top of the Sugar loaf Mountain with the height of 396 metres.

    Tourists who are afraid of travelling in the cable car have the alternative of flying by helicopter but this is expensive. The helicopter lands on a helipad on the mountain.

    The second is the Corcovado which houses the statue of Christ the Redeemer. According to the Rio Guide, “The statue, the most famous Art Déco sculpture in the world, began to be planned in 1921 and was developed by engineer Heitor da Silva Costa. The drawings were taken to France by Polish sculptor Paul Landowski. It is located at the Tijuca National 710 metres high and giving a sweeping panorama of sea and mountain, a world famous vista. The mountain is crowned by the statue of Christ the Redeemer, 30 metres high with an eight metre pedestal with a chapel to honour our Lady of Aparecida, patron Saint of Brazil.”

    This is perhaps the most visited site in Brazil because of its religious significance and the height of the statue. On top of the two mountains, tourists can have a kaleidoscopic view of the city of Brazil with skyscrapers stretching along its coasts and gleaming in the afternoon sun.

    There are so many places to visit in Rio de Janeiro that a tourist with a month-long vacation to while away would not have a dull moment. I could not venture into the traditional city to see the old Brazilian architecture such as we have on Lagos Island. However, one could see the link.

     

    Lessons from Rio

    Brazil has ably demonstrated that a country can make a lot out of its rich fauna and natural resources. Its beach lines are so neat and well developed that small industries and shops line its beaches, making good and quick fortunes from the strings of tourists who flock there on a daily basis. Nigeria can learn a lot from this by developing its beaches and making sure roads, security and infrastructure are put in place to make the country attractive not only to investors but to tourists.

    Finally, as the Rio Guide says, “Rio belongs to its monkeys and toucans, its parrots and sloths, its orchid and alligators, just as much as it does to its human population.” Rio is worth several visits if only for the neatness and creativity that have been brought to its beaches. No wonder, it is officially called the country’s Wonderful City. It is no doubt a city of many wonders.

  • Gbenga Ashiru’s  passion

    Gbenga Ashiru’s passion

    IF there is one thing that Ambassador Gbenga Ashiru and former Minister of External Affairs is passionate about, it is church activities. Though a very busy man, sources close to him said he never jokes with church activities and he also dedicates his resources towards it. Ashiru, we gathered, spearheaded the raising of funds for the church he attends, All Souls’ Anglican Church, Lekki Peninsula. Ashiru is not alone in this; in his team, we learnt, are Folorunsho Alakija, Ndi Okereke-Onyuike, John Abebe, and others who have raised over millions to ensure the project meets the completion deadline.