Hey, what’s up? Hope the week has been fruitful? As usual, there’s still a lot of issues to discuss but I decided to dedicate this week’s edition to publish more of your mails.
In fact, you guys have over motivated me with your text messages and emails, just keep sending them in.
I want to use this medium to apologize to my gay readers. I do not believe in gay relationship, so I refuse to encourage it on this page. My critics, keep playing the check and balance role but don’t overdo it. You overdo it when you personalize your criticisms. To my sugar sons, none of you even bothered to apply to me. I wonder why? Don’t you think I am qualified to be one? Na wa for una sef.
To those in search of serious relationships I wish you the best of luck.
Well, till we meet next week, God willing, cheers and stay blessed.
Re: Office of the First Gentleman: Why not?
Dear Vera,
That’s very relaxing. We can even try calling the guy “First Dude” to make it look hip! But, let’s be serious, that’s not going to happen. The African man is a born chauvinist and nothing can change that. And, in any case, how many women will vote for a female candidate in Nigeria? You know the answer. Don’t you? Have u great weekend.
Olu.
Re: What edge does a sugar daddy have over a single men?
Dear Vera,
The above article was educative , informative and entertaining. It was food for thought. I’m a married man of over twenty years. What do you do when a young lady approaches a playboy or cassanova to be his area father or uncle? Is that not the start of sugar daddy affair? Keep it up. God bless you.
Cyril.
Re: Can you live in your wife’s apartment?
Dear Vera,
The above was a very interesting piece. For me, I will never advise any man to live in a woman’s apartment for any reason. I had a very nasty experience. I dated my wife for ten years before getting married for another ten years. I am a business person, but she works with one of the oil companies. She became very wealthy and bought a house and that was how we separated till today. I have been sending a series of messages to her to divorce me, but she refused to respond. Now, I’m stuck at fifty four years of age.
Michael (Not real name, please).
Hello Vera,
How are you doing? I am a Benue boy, Podolsky. I love you.
Hello, Benue boy,
Lol. I love you too.
Dear Vera,
I really gained something special from the article, ‘Can you live in your wife’s apartment?’ Keep it up.
Fred.
Dear Vera,
How are you? Send me your WhatsApp number so I can chat you up, babe. I like your article, especially the one on ‘Romance without finance’. Actually, you aired your views to a great extent. Great days ahead my princess.
Thanks, waiting.
Dear Waiting,
I will send you my WhatsApp number as soon as I know the meaning of WhatsApp
Dear Vera,
Benue people are in love with you.
Dear Benue people,
Awwwww…I love all so much more.
Re: Does a woman really mean yes when she says no?
Dear Vera,
First, for a young man to be wooing a woman instead of a young woman or a lady is a mismatch. Then you wrote ,”Allow him to call you five times before you return one call. Make him swear a bit” No wonder the churches are weekly crowded with several matured spinsters who must have pompously missed their would-be life partners. The Bible says,” the race is not for the swift, but time and chance happens to them all” Eccl 9vs 11. Please, advise our ladies to wisely make haste when the sun shines.
Elder Ladipo O. David, Efon Alaaye, Ekiti State.
Dear Vera,
Good morning, my name is Chiamaka. I am 21 years, 300 level at …I once wrote this a guy in his final year, studying Mechanical Engineering, always calling me pet names and also texting with, My dear, My love . Mid last year, he suddenly opened up to me claiming he’s in love with me. Since I accept his overtures, I have been the one calling and texting. I am totally confused because I truly love this guy. He possesses the qualities I require in a man. He is humble. Please tell me what to do.
Chiamaka.
Dear Confused,
If he doesn’t want to follow up on his overtures, please let him.go. At 21, you have your whole life ahead of you. I assure you there will be many other better guys that will come your way. Commit to your studies, look good and delete his number.
Good luck.
Vera.
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