PENULTIMATE week’s article, Six Reasons You Should Say No, turned up quite a number of responses, and some of them were very, very interesting. Enjoy them.
Good morning . . . you wrote today: “Ladies, when next a man you are not married to asks to sleep with you, politely decline”. . . Dear, the ship don sail teytey, teytey!! … The world has evolved seamlessly, & irredeemably unto mutual lusts for your ‘advice’ (it aint one!) to cut the ice … & that line of yours is pegged on totally false premises: that men are solely the ones demanding sex! … Jeez! Dear, you paint girls as passive, like victims! UNTRUE! Their craving for sex outside wedlock is far more maniacal; … single guys aint the ones pestering with sundry alarm alerts like, “dear, I’m so horny, where are you?”
Olawale Babawale 08035238685
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It is so sad, but true sir. However, if a few can be saved, all efforts expended would be worth it. But we must have hope. Thanks.
In this new world of online sex: badoo (girls exposing their privates for call credit!) face book, and sundry dating sites, of strip clubs, of drugs, it is all forlorn. We should not flog a dead horse, please … The girls you are concerned about don’t even read at all!… Early marriage is a great solution.
Olawale Babawale. 080352386858
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Sad, but true.
Please I need a lady that will make me happy. 08107997761
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I am so sorry I can’t do anything about that sir, take care.
Dear Jane. Based on your 04/07/15 write-up in Saturday Nation, does it mean that deflowered girls can’t make good wives? Kingsley 08060505350
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I am not saying that. Only that sex blinds your eyes to the truth of a lady’s character, and makes it easy to manipulate you.
Okay, honestly I would like to marry a virgin. I will feel cheated if I marry a deflowered girl. How will the man that deflowered her match/rate her present husband? That I’m marrying a second-hand girl, or what? I’m tired of girls. Many of them are not worthy of a man paying their bride price. Its high time men stopped paying bride price on deflowered ladies. Once you are deflowered, the lady should be offered free to a willing husband to manage/marry.
Kingsley 08060505350
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Virginity is a good thing. But all women started as virgins before life happened to them. My submission is you being like the person you want to marry because we attract people like ourselves. Thanks.
Okay, but virgins are very rare now. If you don’t make love to a lady you are dating, she takes for granted. Ans she might go out to have it with another man. Thanks. Kingsley 08060505350
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May I ask if you are a virgin? What happens to all the other women? Someone deflowered them. Think about it.
By the grace of God I am. Kingsley
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Congratulations.
I suggest that you write on morality/the essence of virginity among females. Once they control themselves, males will be forced to remain so; they will respect them and marry them quickly. Read Exodus 22:16-17, Matthew 5:31-33 and 1 Corinthians 6; 15-20.
Kingsley 08060505350
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Thanks, noted.
Don’t you think the 6 reasons girls should say no you wrote about yesterday should also apply to men. Or have you not seen men who women beguile into thinking that since they are hard to get, then they will make good wives, only to regret and die early? 08063812854
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I agree with you, but you see in choosing a spouse, you need wisdom and discernment, in addition to staying off sex, watch, research the character, and if I may say so, pray.
Good evening Jane, how are you today? Thanks for your highly inspirational article- 6 Reasons to say no. Please can you forward it to my email?
Samuel Ezema. 08035024172.
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Hello Samuel. Thanks for your response. Please find attached.
God bless you. I am highly elated. Please keep sending me your sweet articles.
Samuel Ezema. 08035024172
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God bless you
Just read your article in The Nation newspaper, God bless you.
Alero Juliet Frank, Bayelsa. 07088762878
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Thanks and God bless.
Thanks for your healthy approach to Ladies matters. I pray that God will touch our girls to understand that their virginity is their ultimate dignity. It is angelic and highly beneficial to remain a virgin until marriage.
George Nwovu, Ebonyi. 09094741137.
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I totally agree with you sir, thanks.