Pastor Chris Oyakhilome has advised men to view their wives as their first daughters rather than just their mates.
According to him, when a man sees his wife as his mate, he tends to have high expectations, which can lead to frustration and disappointment when those expectations aren’t met.
On the other hand, if a man views his wife as his daughter, he’s more likely to be gracious, understanding, and forgiving.
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Preaching to his congregation, he said this perspective encourages men to approach their relationships with empathy and patience.
He said by seeing their wives as daughters, men can cultivate a more nurturing and supportive attitude, rather than simply expecting their partners to meet certain standards.
He said in part: “Take your wife as your first daughter, more than as your mate. If you take her as your mate you will be offended at the things she does because you expect more from her. If you take her as your daughter, you will be gracious and you will overlook all the nonsense.”