Tag: agony

  • Admissions agony

    •University places must be increased without sacrificing standards

    The  revelation by Professor Ishaq Oloyede, Registrar of the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB), that only about 30 per cent of the total number of candidates seeking admission to Nigeria’s 153 universities are qualified to do so puts the vexed university admissions crisis in a new light.

    For too long, the focus has been almost completely on the inability of universities to cope with ever-increasing candidate numbers. While this is a significant problem, Oloyede’s argument opens up new perspectives that may offer new ways of considerably reducing the problem.

    Speaking at a one-day public hearing on the regulatory conflict between JAMB and universities in offering admission in Nigeria, Oloyede claimed that the common perception that all candidates seeking admission were qualified was false.

    A sizeable portion of them, he explained, were actually awaiting their West African Senior School Certificate Examination (WASSCE) results, and many would ultimately end up not having the five credits, including English Language and Mathematics, that are the minimum entry qualification for university admission.

    With characteristic bluntness, the JAMB head declared, “If you score 400 over 400, if you do not have the five ‘O’ Levels, you cannot come into the university. The basic qualification is the five ‘O’ Levels.”

    There is little doubt that the nation’s universities cannot accommodate all the candidates who apply for admission. Of the 1,736,537 candidates who sat for the Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination (UTME) in 2017, less than one in every three of them will be admitted into Nigeria’s 153 federal, state and private universities. In 2016, the total number of candidates was 1,589,175. In 2015, it was 1,475,477.

    Although the number of universities in the country has risen to meet increasing demand, they simply cannot cope with the near-exponential rise in UTME candidates. Licensing more universities to operate comes with its own problems: declining quality, increasing malpractice, and the reduction in standards are some of the more obvious consequences.

    It can thus be seen that the problem has assumed complex dimensions: huge and growing numbers of candidates on the one hand, and insufficient facilities on the other. Tackling it effectively requires a correspondingly multi-dimensional approach, including preparing candidates properly for public examinations like WASSCE and UTME, expanding the admitting capabilities of universities, and ensuring that standards are maintained.

    It is counter-productive for hundreds of thousands of candidates to seek admission to university when it is almost certain that a majority of them will not have the minimum WASSCE qualification. In the 2017 WASSCE, only 59.22 per cent of the 1,559,162 candidates had the requisite credits in five subjects including English Language and Mathematics. Any one of the remaining 635,676 candidates who sat for the UTME this year would have been wasting time and money.

    Adjusting timetables to ensure that WASSCE results are released in time to enable prospective candidates know whether they should take the UTME or not would help to reduce the number of candidates and eliminate the cost and the stress involved in UTME preparation. JAMB might also do well to consider demanding that all candidates have confirmed WASSCE results before they register for the UTME.

    As for the expansion of universities’ capacity to admit more students, it is time to seriously consider the development of the multi-campus system as a viable approach. If the relatively wealthy University of California system can have nine campuses across California, there is no reason why Nigeria must continue to have stand-alone universities, each being compelled to replicate facilities and compete for limited numbers of staff.

    Multiple campuses will inhibit falling standards, curb unethical practices, and ensure that broadly similar levels of performance are maintained. Academic and non-academic staff can be deployed across campuses, as opposed to the current practice whereby experienced staff moonlight across several universities.

  • Ending 12 years’ agony

    No worker likes to be owed even a month’s pay. The pain becomes unimaginable when the arrears run into months or years.

    It gets worse still when such workers are no longer in service and do not have any other means of livelihood.

    While waiting and praying for God to intervene so the arrears can be cleared, many of the workers have died – no thanks  to the challenges they faced and  the worsening economic realities.

    Some of these Nigerian workers who have experienced this ugly scenario over the years are the ex-workers of the defunct national carrier, the Nigeria Airways.

    The national carrier was liquidated by the former President Olusegun Obasanjo administration in 2005.

    The ex-workers’ outstanding entitlements, which was estimated at N78 billions, have remained in arrears for over 12 years as previous governments had kept closed eyes and ears toA the ex-workers’ demands.

    The ex-workers mid-last month staged a peaceful protest at the Murtala Muhammed International Airport in Lagos over the delayed payment of their entitlements.

    Speaking on behalf of the group, Sam Nzene, the Chairman of the Nigeria Airways Chapter of Nigeria Union of Pensioners, said: “We understand the funds are ready because bond was floated and the bond has since matured in June, but up till now, what we are saying is that nobody has called us for negotiations on the next line of action.

    “By now, we should be working with the unit that has been mandated to pay us, but up till now they are doing the payment in secret.

    “They do not want us to know. Even the aviation ministry is not so much in the know of what they are doing, so we want the President to please call those concerned to order.

    “We are not quarreling that we have not been paid, but that the union should be aware of what they are doing, so that we can equally tell our members to remain calm that we will get our money.

    “Since the approval came, nobody has told us what has been approved, but as long as we are concerned, our money is N78 billion; 5,909 workers and pensioners are to benefit,” he said

    Showing that he cares for Nigerians, both in service and out of service, President Muhammadu Buhari, a fortnight ago, changed their story.

    The Minister of State for Aviation, Hadi Sirika disclosed to State House correspondents that the President has approved N45 billion to settle the outstanding payments owed the workers of the defunct Nigeria Airways.

    Sirika said, “Governments, in the past, decided just to liquidate Nigerian airways without tending to the issue of the entitlements of the workers and they have been struggling to get that paid and we came in government and we took it very seriously.

    “I’m happy to announce that Mr President has approved N45 billion which has been confirmed to be the entitlements of these workers and Ministry of Finance has been instructed to pay and the ministry has written to me last week, to say that they have received the instruction to pay these workers, and therefore, they are setting up the modalities to pay.

    “You should know it won’t pay through my Ministry before somebody will say I take some of it. It will be paid by Finance Ministry of through a process, and that process will commence very soon,’’ he said.

    While many Nigerians have been commending the administration for the move, its important for the gesture to be extended beyond the aviation sector by clearing similar backlogs in other sectors of the economy.

    Doing this will go a long way to ensure peace and harmony needed for development and growth of the nation.

    (2) Lawal and the SGF role

    With the suspension of the Secretary to the Government of the Federation (SGF), Babachir David Lawal, Dr. Habiba Lawal has been holding sway as acting SGF for some months.

    Lawal, who shares the same surname with Babachir, has been effectively performing the functions and roles of the SGF in the office.

    But the acting SGF appeared to have remained in the background for several weeks as far as the roles Babachir used to play before the commencement of every Federal Executive Council (FEC) meeting was concerned.

    Babachir then always played the role of a class captain just like in a classroom setting.

    He always ensured orderliness and decorum in the Council chamber before the arrival of the President.

    Ministers and other cabinet members usually gather in groups exchanging plesantaries and discussing latest happenings in the polity before commencement of FEC.

    Babachir’s voice was always heard on the sound system, few minutes to the meeting, urging the Ministers to take their seats in preparation for the arrival of the President and commencement of the meeting.

    Sometimes, Babachir will not hesitate to call the names of the ministers who failed to heed his earlier advice and again urge the cabinet member to settle down.

    But all those appeared to be relaxed when the Acting SGF stepped into Babachir’s shoes.

    The Ministers and cabinet members were allowed to do their things unhindered until a presidential aide announces the President’s arrival.

    For several weeks, the Acting SGF also avoided the SGF seat in the Council chamber as she always sat at the back row prior to the commencement of FEC.

    All these have, however, changed in the past two weeks.

    The Acting SGF has now been maintaining orderliness in the Council chamber before commencement of FEC.

    Her voice is now always heard urging the ministers to settle down few minutes to the beginning of the meeting.

    She has also moved to the SGF seat in the front row in the chamber, few seats away from the President.

  • Agony as  structures on pipelines’ right-of-way  in Arepo are demolished

    It was a tale of woe, agony and pain for some residents of Arepo in Obafemi Owode Local Government Area of Ogun State yesterday when bulldozers, hired by the a team of Army Engineering Corps. and Nigeria National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC), demolished structures on pipelines’ right-of-way.

    The demolition was a fallout of an eviction notice served last week on some residents, whose houses, shops, and other unauthorised structures were erected within the radius of the setback for the critical infrastructure.

    A  few hours after the bulldozers moved escorted by armed personnel many houses, church buildings, mosques had been pulled down stretching over a kilometre.

    In its wake came lamentations, tears, and agony as distraught residents battled to savage their belongings.

    Besides, mechanic workshops and market were not spared in the exercise expected to bring sanity to the community.

    It was learnt authorities alerted residents of the dangers of erecting structures on pipelines’ right-of-way.

    When The Nation visited  the community on Tuesday, scores of affected residents counted their losses, lamenting that they were not giving time to evacuate.

    Some of them said the demolition set them many years back in terms of financial loss and the emotional trauma of being homeless.

    The affected residents were reluctant to narrate their ordeal.

    Others in areas marked out for demolition are living in anxiety, unsure when bulldozers will get to their houses.

    A source close to officials of the Army, NNPC and Ogun State Ministry of Physical Planning said no effort will be spared to remove illegal structures constituting any obstacle on the right-of-way to the pipelines.

    The source said such buildings or structures will be brought down, as the NNPC is set to replace ruptured pipelines criss-crossing Arepo community into creeks leading to Isawo area of Ikorodu.

    Some residents gathered their scattered belongings in the streets, waiting looking for vehicles to ferry them to safe-keeping.

    Investigations showed that scores of scavengers were scampering for destroyed roofing aluminium sheets, iron rods and other scraps.

    Speaking in an interview, a resident, Mrs Caro Modo , said she lost over a million naira

    “I am a victim of this demolition in many ways. I have about three years rent paid to landlords of two buildings that have been demolished. How am I going to recover from this?

    “Some of us did not know the buildings were built on the right-of-way of NNPC pipelines. Now, our money is gone, goods in the shop destroyed and our means of livelihood threatened. This is too much to bear . “

    Besides Mrs Modo, an expectant father and technician said the demolition of his shop had dealt a blow to his means of sustenance.

    Morufu Olalekan said: “ How am I going to cope with this dislocation .”

    Permanent Secretary, Ministry of Physical Development and Urban Planning, Mrs. Yetunde Dina, countered claims by affected residents that they were not given adequate notice.

    “They were given notice of the demolition over a year ago; they still got a reminder notice a week before the demolition. The truth is that the exercise is for their safety because if there is an explosion, we all know the calamity that will follow,” she said.

    According to Dina, the demolished buildings do not have building approval. She was emphatic that since her ministry has the details of  lands in the state, it is impossible for anyone to be granted approval to build on a land that is questionable.

    “We are aware that some parts of Arepo and Akute are pipeline areas, meaning that NNPC have right-of-way on such lands. So how could we have given people approval to build on such?” she asked rhetorically.

    Meanwhile, compensation for affected owners from the state appears very slim. “Since they don’t have approval, then they are not likely to be compensated; but anyone that thinks he has building approval from us can show up with their documents,” Dina said.

     

     

     

  • Agony of an eroded community

    Agony of an eroded community

    In the vicinity of the university town Nsukka lies Onuiyi, a community where an unchecked gully torments helpless residents. JAMES OJO reports.

    ‘I think Governor Ugwuanyi will do the job because since he assumed office, I have seen some white men coming around to survey the area…He went around surveying the current state of the gully. So we are hoping that he would do something during his own time as the governor’

    Whenever there is a heavy downpour residents like Ejiofor Omeke fear the worst and hope for the best. On November 29, 2016, Omeke set up his welding shop in Onuiyi in Nsukka Local Government Area of Enugu State. A few months later he started regretting his decision. Why? Onuiyi lies lower than its popular neighbour which hosts University of Nigeria. When it rains, the water washes down from Nsukka to Onuiyi, sometimes flooding homes.

    “Many people have been telling me that when rain starts, the gully beside my shop is often flooded,” he said, his voice quivering. “I am sacred. I have fears because I keep my working equipment here (inside the shop). I don’t know how the rain would flow. I am afraid I would come here one day and see everything has been washed away.”

    Like Ejiofor, many residents of Onuiyi are also living in fear. A gully left unchecked has become a very deep ravine conveying a huge amount of rainwater that swamps everyone.

    How it began

    Mr. Louis Ogbonna, a landlord in the area, narrated how the menace started. “In the 1980s,” he said, “some people started building on the waterways, thereby blocking the flow of water through its normal route, and diverted the flow of all the water from Nsukka town to this side. From there, this gully started getting deeper and deeper. Before, the gutter was not up to six feet, but now, the gully can swallow a tall palm tree and it’s still getting deeper and deeper.”

    A community leader, Elder Frank Ogbonna said, “All the gutters in Nsukka are directed here and as soon as they reach here, many houses would be flooded. All of the water flowing from Nsukka town through the University of Nigeria, Nsukka (UNN) flows through here, thereby constituting flood disaster.”  

    At death’s mercy

    It was gathered that some people who were not aware of the depth of the gully when it rained have drowned in it. Describing the ordeals residents go through during raining seasons, Mr. Ogbonna said, “It is always dreadful during rainy seasons, especially when there is a heavy downpour. I think three persons have drowned in the flood recently. “Sometimes, the people living along the gully sides do not sleep at night, especially during the rainy season because of the fear of water seeping into their homes.”

    On his part, Elder Ogbonna noted that “At times, water would sack all the occupants of this compound but I am always lucky that it doesn’t enter my room. The whole compound would be flooded.”

    While also narrating his experience, a resident of the community, who identified himself as Charles Emengini, said: “I have stayed here up to five years. When I packed in here, the gully was small but it has now got to this extent. This shows that the thing is deteriorating every year. During rainy seasons, the kind of flood that passes through here is unbearable. It enters people’s rooms.

    “Normally, when the gully gets filled up, it will divert and start entering our compound. If you are not careful, it will enter all the rooms. I think this is a serious issue that government has to do something. It is a threat to humanity.

    Also speaking, another resident of the community, Mrs Patience Ibe, said: “The gully is encroaching into the houses. It is very risky. Before, this road was passable, but now it is not. Some people who think the gully is not deep have drowned during the rainy season.”

    When our correspondent visited the gully, heaps of refuse were seen inside, thereby blocking the passage of water. The dump, when burnt, often oozes out a putrid smell posing health hazard to residents.

    Effect on the local economy

    Apart from being a source of threat to the people of Onuiyi and neighbouring communities, the flood often cripples economic activities in the area during rainy seasons. A resident of the community, who simply identified himself as Sando, explained that many have vacated the area as a result of the ravaging effects of the flood on their business during rainy season.

    “The flood has affected the community economically. This place (referring to a segment of the community) was formerly a business hub but because of the flood, many have deserted the place.”

    Sando explained further that the flood has affected the major road linking the community with other places. He continued: “As you know that road is one of the greatest assets in doing business. When road network is cut out, business activities will definitely collapse. So the flood here is not only a threat to their businesses but also a threat to their lives. It has affected the people economically. The nature of the gully now is very devastating. So many people are worried. It is not only a distraction to their business activities but a threat to their livelihood. The state of the gully needs urgent attention. I learnt that why it has not been attended to is because of the so-called “federal-projects”. Some people see it as solely a federal government affair and I don’t think the federal government is aware it. I don’t think it directly affects the federal government.”

    Unfulfilled government’s

    promises

    Elder Ogbonna said they have sent countless SOS messages to several governments in the past but nothing concrete ever happened.

    He said: “I wrote a lot of petitions and they were answered. It was gazetted by the government and it was named “Onuiyi Water Disaster”. But since then we have been doing everything possible to stop the flood, but it hasn’t stopped. I wrote to the past state governments on the state of the gully to the government and the government actually took action to help us but all the efforts were just a waste.

    Another resident blamed past governments for the deepening gully, pointing out that had it been given the needed attention, the situation would not have worsened.

    He said, “Around 1997, the then Nsukka local government chairman came here and saw everything himself. By that time, it was not as deep like that and we were hoping that he would do something but he did nothing and the gutter kept deepening more and more, till it got to this state.

    “Our community elder, Frank Ogbonna has been writing to the local and state governments about the state of the gully. I don’t really know if he has written to the federal government about the issue.

    “So we have been writing since then, but nothing has been done. Past governors have come and gone without doing anything. Like I said, we have been writing and writing. It’s not that there is no ample information or awareness created about the situation. Now, I don’t even know if the community or Local Government can do anything because the state of the gully has worsened. I think only the federal or state government can do something there now, because it is worsening more and more.”

    It was gathered that many government agencies have visited the community to inspect the gully but nothing has been heard after. Speaking on this, Emengini noted: “A lot of government parastatals have been coming but nothing has been done.”

    Great expectations

    Residents of the community expressed optimism that with the chain of infrastructural projects, especially roads, which the state governor Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi is executing, perhaps there is hope for Onuiyi. Ugwuanyi is said to have visited the area.

    “I think Governor Ugwuanyi would do the job, because since he assumed office, I have seen some white men coming around to survey the area.”

    Similarly, Mr. Ognonna said: “Well, we heard that the present governor has visited the site once since he assumed office. He went around surveying the current state of the gully. So we are hoping that he would do something during his own time as the governor.”

    Ejiofor said: “We are expecting the current governor to come to our aid. When he (Governor Ugwuanyi) came around at a certain time, he asked me how many people have been coming here and I told him that most times, I tried to drive people away with stone, because I have been seeing many people coming here measuring, videoing, yet nothing is being done. As one person is leaving, another is coming without anything to show for it.”

  • Agony from lack of electricity

    Under normal circumstances we do not always have electricity in my area of Ibadan.  Whenever we have it, the current is usually so low that it does not always carry our air conditioners. Even at that I sometimes hear people in my house asking for how long we are going to have power; the question always suggests that power will go off in a rather negative expectation of inefficiency and inadequacy.

    In a situation like this, my generator, like those of many Nigerians,  is the regular power supply while the public power supply is the stand by. This is however not sustainable. The cost of diesel is now so high that very few people can afford to run their generators for more than a few hours in the night.

    People in my area reached a gentleman’s agreement that all generators must be switched off by ten at night .The people in my area are much civilised. They don’t want to keep those who do not have generators awake at night by the noise coming out of their generators. The other more compelling reason is that thieves and robbers usually target houses which have generators. I used to think light keeps away intruders. Apparently this is not the case in Nigeria!

    Recently my generator broke down irretrievably and it was hell for me. It has been unusually hot in Ibadan in recent times. I also have writing and reading schedules to meet which cannot be done in the dark. In my desperation I got in touch with friends about how they were coping.

    Somebody told me what another friend, a widow, did when she could not cope. She called her children to file immigrant status for her in the U.S. Luckily this was before Trump took over the White House by storm. She sold all her stuff including the house she and her husband laboured to build and to which she was sentimentally attached. This must have been traumatic. The lady however said she has had it with constant struggle just to live. She wanted to spend what was left of her life in some comfort and certainty of services needed to keep her sanity.

    When I was told about this solution, I said I won’t go that route.  Unlike when I was young, I can no longer bear the cold of the winter weather. I was given another option of installing solar panels on my roof. The cost which I was told was the cheapest I can get was one million six hundred thousand Naira. I asked what I would get for investing this huge amount. I was told I will connect my fridge to this solar power and will have lights in my bed room and the sitting room while alternately switching lights on and off as I move around the house. I was also told that I would have to switch off the fridge at bed time to preserve the power stored during the sunny day.  Air conditioning, even in my bed room, would be out of it.

    I discussed my predicament with friends who advised me against the solar power option because I was told it will all end in frustration after committing so much funds to the solar project. Now what should I do? Whenever there is no light I dress at home like Fela Anikulapo Kuti, meaning going around in my birthday suit. Luckily, I do not get too many visitors coming to my house unannounced. . Luckily, I have a  jalabiat which I can quickly throw on my naked body if someone was visiting without long notice..

    This is the plight which the sale of NEPA to friends of the previous regime has inflicted on me and on many Nigerians. So what do I do? I suppose I can continue to pray. But I have an advice for those who should generate, transmit and distribute power.

    Before the centralisation of power generation and distribution in Nigeria there were independent power generating power plants in each city. Certainly, there was an independent power station in Jos that originally serviced the tin and columbite mines on the plateau as well as supplying power to Jos and neighbouring villages.  I saw this with my own eyes in the 1960s. If I am correct, cities like Kaduna, Lagos, Port Harcourt, Kano Enugu and Ibadan had independent power stations.

    I do not remember Ibadan being in this kind of darkness in my youth. Of course, we did not have air conditioning then and the numbers of homes with power were not as many as they are today. But this is not an argument against decentralisation. This is what is done in more advanced countries where when there is a breakdown of power supply in one area, power can be sourced and transferred to areas that temporarily lacked power. What I am suggesting is building of more generating power stations independent of one another and directly supplying their consumers in areas in their immediate neighbourhoods.

    I will suggest a visit by those in charge of electricity supply in Nigeria to the RCCG city near Lagos that has its own turbine fired by compressed natural gas and supplies power 24/7 to people living in the city. I am sure there are some other private settlements like this in Nigeria. Imagine if every major city in Nigeria did this instead of the pollution-causing individual diesel generators bringing not only pollution but respiratory diseases to adults and children alike. We have tried every measure to solve this power problem without success. Shouldn’t we try something different to show we are not collectively suffering from insanity? Because when one does the same thing and gets the same results without changing, it is a sign of lunacy.

    This is what has been happening in all areas of Nigeria’s life since the intervention of the military in Nigeria’s politics in 1966 when they brought their commandist structure and world view into our national life. This has destroyed the basis of our competitive and cooperative federalism. We can see the dead weight of this tendency on our education, sports, and infrastructure and, particularly, finance where so much money goes to the center where it is routinely stolen.

    While on the issue of electricity we must as a matter of urgency have a mix of fuel and sources of power including hydro power, coal, gas, and possibly nuclear. The latter may sound a bit academic because of our unseriousness as a people. The fact is that our children in diaspora including mine have the experience and competence to do this if attracted back home.

    People like me have been complaining about our electricity inadequacy; our children inherited our grumbling.  I pray we hand this country to our grandchildren better than the way we found it.

  • Sambo Dasuki’s agony

    Sambo Dasuki’s agony

    A few years ago, it would be difficult for former National Security Adviser, Col. Sambo Dasuki (rtd), to contemplate the condition in which he is at the moment. He was at the top of his career, and wining and dining in the Aso Rock Presidential Villa as one of the most powerful men in the country. But fortune has since made a mockery of his once high status. Today, he is a broken man stripped of power and influence.

    As if to compound his woes, he lost his father early in the week. The 18th Sultan of Sokoto, Alhaji Ibrahim Dasuki, passed away at a private medical facility in Abuja on Monday night. It was gathered that the late Sultan, who was deposed by the Sani Abacha junta in 1996, died of natural causes. He was 93.

    He has since been buried according to Islamic rites at the Hubbaren Shehu Usman Dan Fodio Site in Sokoto State.

    No doubt, the demise of the former Sultan is an additional source of sorrow for Sambo Dasuki who has been in custody since December last year for allegedly masterminding the diversion of more than $2 million meant for acquisition of arms in the fight against the deadly Boko Haram sect.

  • Agony,  frustration trail  soaring tomato  prices, scarcity

    Agony, frustration trail soaring tomato prices, scarcity

    Tomato has suddenly disappeared from the market. No thanks to the seasonal scarcity and a sudden outbreak of Tuta absoluta, a pest that has devastated in major producing states in the north devastated. Consumers are agonising that prices have gone up by about 200 per cent. DANIEL ESSIET reports that stakeholders are working round the clock to address the crisis.

    The Managing Director, Yomart World of Event, an outdoor catering/events management outfit, Mr. Martins Oriyomi, is faced with a tough choice. The price of fresh tomatoes, which he prefers for preparing dishes for his clients, has, in recent times, gone up.

    The development has left him with two options – to hike prices of his dishes and risk losing customers or switch to other substitutes such as canned tomato paste and dry pepper and lose the exquisite taste that has been his selling point.

    Oriyomi has been in this dilemma since February when tomato, a vegetable crop became scarce, forcing about 200 per cent increase in the price of the popular edible.

    The supply shortfall has been blamed on a number of factors including prolonged warm weather in major tomato-producing areas in the North; insecurity triggered by Boko Haram insurgency and pest attacks.

    For instance, a season of poor rainfall in 2015 and 2016 has not been good for tomato farmers. It has forced farmers to reduce their farmlands. The farmers, who used to grow the vegetable in about five acres, have been using about an acre to water shortage.

    Perhaps, worsening matters, most of the farmlands in Kano, Jigawa, Plateau, Katsina and Kaduna state are said to have been wiped out by a virulent pest, known as ‘Tuta Absoluta,’ which killed all the tomato species there.

    Tomato farms at the Kadawa Irrigation Valley, the major producing area and demonstration farms designed to feed the Dangote’s Dansa Tomato Company in Kano State, has been destroyed by the virus.

    Apart from the fact that the unrest in the tomato-growing states in the Northeast has adversely affected farmers’ ability to plant and harvest, the fuel price hike also contributed to the scarcity. And the result is soaring price of tomato with four pieces going for as high as N200.

    Consequently, Oriyomi has since ordered his chefs to use dry tomatoes and other substitutes since the outfit cannot risk the introduction of an increase in the prices of its menu.

    For now, he relies on his culinary experience to mix dry tomato with other condiments to give his dishes a flavor appealing to patrons.

    Oriyomi is not alone in his agony, over the sudden scarcity of tomato and the subsequent increase in prices. The situation has also left sour taste in the mouth of Mr. Abia Onyekaozuru, a food stuff seller.

    Frustrated by the development, Onyekaozuru switched to other substitutes such as tomato paste, canned and sachet of tomato, which now enjoy increased patronage than fresh tomato. But, it has also been a tough choice.

    He told The Nation, that the increased patronage of such substitutes has affected their prices, pointing out that the e price of a sachet of tomato paste has risen from N50 to N80.

    Also lamenting, a tomato dealer in Daleko Market, Lagos, told The Nation that from the usual price of between N5, 000 and N6, 000, a basket of tomatoes has gone up between N25, 000 and N30, 000.

    The dealer, who pleaded for anonymity, said the increase in prices has taken a huge toll on many businesses in the food industry. Not a few tomato sellers have diversified temporarily because the end-users of their wares have found alternatives.

    Housewives and restaurateurs are no less hit by the sudden scarcity and price increase. The unique taste of fresh tomatoes that has been a regular condiment on most tables has since disappeared as most families can hardly afford the high cost of the juicy and red edible.

    “The price of tomatoes is very high. This is despite the fact that tomato is grown in Nigeria. This is unfortunate and regrettable,” Mrs. Blessing Adokwu, a housewife, lamented.

    Mrs. Adokwu added that as a result, prices of other items like beans, carrots, cucumber and other greens have risen marginally.

    She urged the government to wade into the situation and ensure that tomato vendors do not cash in on the situation to exploit and extort consumers.

    The vendor said the government’s intervention has become necessary because there appears to be no respite in sight in a short while.

    Her fears have been fuelled by speculations in some quarters that the sudden scarcity of tomatoes was caused by the establishment of a tomato processing plants

    For instance, citing supply shortage as a reason for the rising cost, Mrs. Grace Umoh, a businesswoman, said: “Due to the establishment of a processing factory in Kano, we are told there has been less output and that has resulted in the steep rise in cost of the product.”

    There is the fear that promoters of tomato processing plants may have mopped up available stock in the farms to feed their factory and encourage the patronage of processed tomato puree.

    Mrs. Umoh, who appears to harbour such fear, insists that the situation will not ameliorate until the regularisation of the distortion in supply.

    She said although farmers in the Southwest are making efforts to grow tomatoes with the advent of rains, tomatoes from the region do not enjoy acceptability. They are believed to be watery and go sour quickly than those grown in the North.

    Enter ‘Tomato Ebola’

    To the Minister of Agriculture & Rural Development, Chief Audu Ogbeh, the tomato scarcity and the attendant price hike arose from attacks from a pest (tuta absoluta). He said the pest, which was discovered in South America in 1912, where it ravaged many farms before it spread to Europe and then to Asia, has now entered East and West

    Africa.

    According to him, the pest found its way into Nigeria from Niger Republic, manifesting a powerful infestation that could make it impossible for local cultivation, if not dealt with.

    Already, the pest, which was responsible for the massive destruction of tomato in farmlands, has invaded six tomato-producing states.

    The states confirmed by the Federal Government confirmed to have been hit by Tuta absoluta, commonly referred to as ‘Tomato Ebola’ are: Jigawa, Kano, Katsina, Kaduna, Plateau and Lagos.

    The fact that tomatoes are the most used vegetable in the country makes the rampaging pest a disturbing development.

    Chief Ogbeh, who spoke at a press briefing in Abuja, however, described as erroneous claims that the processing plants have mopped-up tomatoes in country.

    He said the highly reproductive nature of the pest and lack of management skills for its containment resulted to its spread.

    Ogbeh, however, said the Federal Government had started consulting with the affected states and experts to seek measures to tackle the pest.

    He said: “The pest can also attack even pepper and Irish potato. So, we are confronting something quite serious. But the good thing is that we are tackling it right now as experts will commence work immediately.

    “We are bringing the commissioners and state governors to jointly attack this pest, which if not dealt with, will create serious problems for food security in our country.”

    The minister added that Nigeria spends N80 billion ($400 million) annually on the importation of tomato paste, most of which are highly substandard. He said experts had already offered other varieties of tomato that grow well in the western part of the country as alternatives to the existing genre.

    Ogbeh said: “We have called in experts and we have studied the profile of what we have to do with the pest. Unfortunately, ordinary pesticides cannot deal with this ‘tuta absoluta’ because it has a way of multiplying so fast. It produces almost 250 offspring per cycle.

    “We are in contact with a group which had dealt with this in other countries and they are offering us solutions. In the next few days we shall get to work on this and begin treatment. It is going to be quite expensive as it will cost about five naira per tomato plant.”

    Prices soar, consumers’ groan

    The disease is digging a hole in the pockets of consumers. Ogbeh admitted this much when he said the price of tomatoes had gone so high that a basket now sold for between N35, 000 and N42, 000 in Lagos.

    Experts have called for more synergy among stakeholders in the tomato value chain. These include government agencies, research institutes and universities; entrepreneurs, Small and Medium Enterprises (SMEs) and farmers.

    Such calls may have been fuelled by fears that the rising prices may linger throughout the year if there are no initiatives in the areas of production, monitoring and implementation of workable policies, with the involvement of corporate farmers in cultivation and processing.

    Tomato processing firms also hit

    The Nation learnt that tomato farms at the Kadawa

    Irrigation Valley, which is the major producing area and demonstration farms designed to feed the Dangote’s Dansa Tomato Company in Kano State, has been ravaged by the pest.

    Consequently, the processing factory has suspended production, attributing it to disease attack on their major raw material.

    Its Managing Director, Alhaji Abdulkadir Kaita, said the company, which began production in February, suspended production for dearth of raw materials.

    Most of the plants in Kano, Jigawa, Plateau, Katsina and Kaduna state where the company hopes to source its raw materials have been affected by the pest. This made the price of the perishable commodity to go up.

    Alhaji Kaita, however, said production would commence during the next irrigation season, emphasising that the company has capacity to process 120 tonnes of fresh tomatoes daily.

    Insurgents not helping matter

    With the attention focused on the government and experts to halt the rampaging virus, activities of the dreaded Boko Haram sect, according to the Minister ofInformation & Culture, Lai Mohammed, are also aiding scarcity.

    Last week, the minister put the blame on the doorstep of the insurgents, who he said, forced farmers to quit the Northeast due to the level of insecurity in the region.

    His word: “People talk about the price of tomato, but they forget one thing; they forget that the price of tomato today is a direct result of the fact that we have lost two years harvest to Boko Haram insurgency.

    “Most of the people you see riding Okada (motorcycles) in Lagos are people who would have been in the farm to produce consumable items. Do you farm where there is war?”

    Besides losing two harvest seasons in the Northeast, the nation had very poor rainfall last year and early this year. “Go and ask economists and agriculturists, they will tell you,” he said.

    Kaduna State Governor Mallam Nasir El-Rufai, said 80 per cent of the tomato produced in his state had been ravaged by pests and diseases. He has declared a state of emergency in tomato production in the state, saying that all hands must be on deck to combat the various pests and diseases ravaging tomato.

    According to El-Rufai, tomato has been destroyed in three local government areas of the state, resulting to monthly revenue loss of about N1b and affecting more than 200 farmers.

    “In the past one month, 12 tomato-producing local government areas have lost 80 per cent of their harvest. In three council, about 200 farmers have lost N1 billion worth of tomato. This is as a result of the invasion of Tuta Absoluta. So, you can imagine the magnitude of the loss,” the governor said.

    El-Rufai, who spoke through his Commissioner for Agriculture, Dr. Manzo Maigari, however said some officials of the state ministry of agriculture had been sent to Kenya to learn how to combat the menace.

    He added that the problem was so severe that even Dangote Group, which has established a tomato processing plant in Kano, had to shut down production.

    The governor said: “The problem with the disease, which is caused by a moth, is that no amount of spraying will kill its larva. You spray it, after about three hours, it comes back to life. So, we have sent some of our officials to travel to Kenya and meet our partners. Kenya has a good advantage over us on this issue.

    “We understand that they use a plant extract to take care of this problem. But we do not have that knowledge yet. We expect them to return very soon with short and medium-term solutions.”

    What experts say

    Experts in the agricultural sector say that there are diverse causes for the current tomato scarcity. A crop protection specialist, Prof. Daniel Gwary, identified inclement weather as one of the factors. He said tomato farmers need the rains, which has been everything but sufficient.

    The President, Tomato Processors Association of Nigeria, Prince Samuel Joseph Samuel, explained that there are one or more diseases associated with any crop, with the disease occurring every year.

    According to him, the management of the disease or pest is what matters, adding that the tragedy is that they (the pest or disease) strike when they are least expected to do so.

    Samuel said: “Basically, what we have had over the years has revealed the need for industry collaboration; stakeholders need to come together and work together so that we can pull resources to fight these diseases.

    “Some of these diseases require prompt action. If we don’t have local capacities for vaccines and chemicals to tackle these diseases instantly, we are going to be facing the challenge every time.”

    Samuel, who is also Chairman and Chief Executive, Vegefresh Group, told The Nation that Tuta Absoluta is not a disease that is common only to tomatoes.

    He said: “It is also not the first time we are having it in Nigeria. What we need to understand differently is that tomato is a seasonal produce and rain fed tomato is 70 to 80 per cent grown in the Northern part of Nigeria.

    “We are not saying that other parts of the country such as Ogun State cannot grow tomatoes. Currently, where we grow tomato heavily are those areas that are well developed to support massive cultivation. They have been growing tomatoes over the years,” he explained.

    Stating that tomato scarcity has become an every year affair, the expert added that apart from the ravaging disease, the inflation across the value chain has also affected supply.

    He said: “You have the fuel pump price increase; the devaluation of the naira that has increased the cost of transportation and other services that are rendered. Now, we will naturally have apart from the disease inflationary challenges.

    “All these factors put together is affecting the current price of tomatoes. But if I rate it, I think inflation has more impact on the price of tomatoes than other factors.”

     

  • Agony of Rivers students forced to return home

    Agony of Rivers students forced to return home

    Citing paucity of funds, the Rivers State Government has stopped the foreign scholarship initiative of the immediate past Rotimi Amaechi administration, making uncertain the future of 350 students.  PRECIOUS DIKEWOHA reports on the plight of the students and their parents as well as the government’s efforts to manage the situation.  

    THe 350 Rivers State students withdrawn from universities abroad are not happy with the government.

    They have described their transfer from well-equipped universities in the United Kingdom, Canada, among other countries to higher institutions at home as unfortunate and painful. Some of them are stranded because Nigerian universities do not offer their courses.

    They wondered why it was in their time that the government discontinued foreign scholarship.

    The scholarship was initiated by former Governor Rotimi Amaechi.

    Some beneficiaries have completed their degrees, and even done their masters or Ph.D, or started working abroad.

    But, those who got their scholarship a year or two before the expiration of Amaechi’s tenure were not so lucky.  Governor Ezenwo Nyesom Wike, who succeeded Amaechi, discontinued the scholarship, citing economic challenges for his action.

    He directed that the students return home to continue their studies. His administration, he said, would not abandon the students but would offer them opportunity to study in any university of their choice.

    The governor said his administration, had settled the school fees of students in their final year.

     

    The students’ pains

    Some of the students told The Nation that they would have stayed back but their host countries insisted that their visas would not be renewed if their school fees were not paid.

    The students are bitter that since their returning in February, some of them are yet to be absorbed into any university.

    One of them Anokuru Fortune, who was studying Computer Systems Engineering at the Nottingham Trent University, said he was sad because he was preparing for his second year when he had to return home.

    “It is getting to three months since I returned from the United Kingdom.  We are still confidently waiting to be absorbed into any Nigerian university. The only thing is that the joy of schooling outside the country has been jeopardised,” he said.

    Clinton Amadi, also from the Nottingharm Trent University, is worried that no university in Nigeria offers his course, Computer Software Engineering.

    “I am still searching for a university in Nigeria that offers my course; it is not all about coming back but to get a university that is offering the course we are doing over there. The truth is that not all the courses offered abroad is being studied in Nigerian universities,” he said.

    Amadi debunked claims that the government had paid for final year students.

    “I was surprised to hear that the government has paid the fees of final year students; but over there they said no money was paid into their accounts.”

    Charity Chukwu, a second year student at the Bedfordshire University, United Kingdom (UK) has not given up completing her Electrical Engineering programme over there.  She spoke of plans by her family to raise funds for her return to the UK.

    Condemning the decision to stop the scholarship, Charity said: “It is like showing a strong Christian heaven and telling him or her to turn back.  The truth is that not everybody will return to Nigeria; it is an opportunity offered to youths to become something and be like others. It is very painful to see yourself at the airport getting ticket to return home like a slave.

    “As for me I am going back to UK to continue with my studies, I have already made my arrangement.”

    Anokuru said the uncertainty of continuing at home made some students not to return.  He said they took low-paying jobs to eke out a living.

    “Many students are suffering over there; some of them don’t want to come back to continue their studies here because they are not sure if the promise of securing admission in Nigeria would be kept.

    “Their only option was to work in supermarkets, restaurants and others where a good number of them is presently working. Maybe with their income and the assistance of their relatives back home they could renew their visas, but they will still find it difficult to pay school fees.”

    With limited opportunities to survive without funding, Charity said some students may turn to crime.

     

    Parents’ lament

    The joy of having children on scholarship abroad has turned to sorrow for many parents.

    Association of Students on Scholarship  Abroad president Mr. Gift Amadi, said beyond being forced to come back when they would have preferred to complete their education abroad, some students are stranded, without food or accommodation, and cannot come home because the government is owing their schools.

    Amadi said: “Some of the students expected to come back home cannot come because their various universities have seized their transcripts due to the refusal of the Rivers State government to pay their bills. The students are suffering over there. The students cannot come back to Nigeria without their transcripts which will help them to secure admission here.

    “The major problem they have now is the issue of accommodation. Most of them are now hanging out with their foreign friends even as they struggle to feed.  Don’t forget the final year students have been stopped from participating in the revision over there.”

    Confirming Amadi’s claim, one of the stranded students, Paul Adim, told The Nation on phone that they cannot attend classes.

    “There has not been any good communication between the school and the students abroad. As I am talking to you now they have stopped us from participating in the revision class.  We are no longer talking about continuing our education; all we are talking about now is how to feed and to see where to put our heads when night comes. Things are very difficult for us here. Only God can save us from our present frustration.  My regret is that some of us may end up in prison abroad before help may finally come.”

    Mr. Edmond Amakiri, a parent, said his son was living in precarious conditions.

    He said: “Today, my son is living in a house where there is no water heater.  He said somebody was hospitalised before now because there was no heater.

    “All we are saying is that they went there alive and we will not accept them back dead. The government should assist the students to complete their studies and come back to boost the manpower resources that are needed.”

    Another parent, Mrs. Johnson Ohiahuru, appealed to the government to enter into agreements with the foreign universities to amicably solve the problems.

    “My own is a passionate plea for our beloved governor to consider the plight of these children. As far as I am concerned, the governor is the father of the state; we don’t want our children to turn to something else and we will not accept that,” she said.

     

    RSSDA’s response

    Mr. Larry Pepple, Executive Director/Chief Executive Officer, Rivers State Sustainable Development Agency (RSSDA), the organ that runs the scholarship, said it was not the government’s intention to make the students suffer.

    Pepple said the prevailing economic realities make it difficult to continue with the scholarship.  He said many states were owing salaries, adding that even the RSSDA workers have not been paid.

    He said: “Whenever I speak about this scholarship, I speak with a heavy heart because I am a father. Rivers State government used to receive a statutory allocation of between N11 and N15 billion, with Internally Generated Revenue (IGR) of about N15 billion; but last month the allocation was N3.5 billion or less. The wage bill of the government is over N9 billion.

    “Rivers State government is affected, so government met and decided that it will no longer carry the burden of sponsoring foreign scholarship but can afford to sponsor them locally in Nigerian universities; and that only final year students can stay behind.

    “The rest of them, which are over 188, will have to return to Nigeria but not to return to their homes but to return to new schools within Nigeria offering their courses.  But that is the challenge we are facing.”

    The RSSDA boss said he had met with the affected students’ parents more than twice, and written to the students to explain the situation.  He said some have refused to accept reality.

    “We have met three times with the parents; we have also written to all the individual students. A child that has being exposed to good environment, a place where electricity does not go off, a place where internet access is so easy, and you are asking him or her to return they will feel bad.

    “Some parents would rather the government continues to fund the education of their children abroad than have them return to Nigeria; but this is the stage we are now. When we met the parents they made us to enter into serious prayer sessions to see if the government could change its mind, but the governor is also trying.”

    To address the problem, Pepple said the students have been categorized into three according to their parents’ ability to fund their education on their own.

    He said: “We have identified three categories of students – one – those whose parent are financially buoyant; they can pay out rightly and about two parents have agreed to continue with their children’s sponsorship.

    “Second category is people who will struggle to provide.  Technically we can assist them to negotiate on how to get access to dollar and other processes. We would also make the foreign universities to know that sponsorship has changed hand from government to individuals so they can make things easy for them. At least, if they cannot pay at the beginning of the year, they can stagger to pay in stages.

    “And the third category is those whose parents cannot pay.  We have gone ahead to enter into agreement with University of Port Harcourt (UNIPORT), Rivers State University of Science and Technology (RSUST), School of Nursing and other universities in Nigeria. RSUST and UNIPORT have already given us provisional admission pending when the students will return with their transcripts.

    “The last results the foreign universities sent us, we have used to start negotiating with the universities here while we are waiting to clear their backlog of bills. We want the parents and the students to not only calm down but to adjust with the present reality.”

  • Agony of a mother

    Agony of a mother

    •I dreamt he rolled over a mountain when he was five
    •I never knew my best friend was going to leave so soon

    The mother of the late Jamiu Jamiu, who was hit last Thursday by a truck driver on Lekki-Ajah Expressway, in Lagos is still in agony over the death of her son.

    Alhaja Idiat Jamiu said she saw her son two weeks ago when he visited her at her Alagbado residence.

    The late Jamiu, popularly called JJ, was the Chief Executive Officer of H2 Chicken, a frozen food company.

    The Nation learnt that the deceased’s power bike somersaulted on impact and he was removed from under the truck.

    The distraught mother said: “I was very lucky to see him two weeks ago because I complained he didn’t check on me after I returned from hajj and he was the one who picked me from the airport.”

    She described him as her confidant, saying she never envisaged his death.

    “I won’t say I saw it coming but I remember when he was a five-year-old, I dreamt he rolled over a mountain and when I called him, he didn’t answer me. Since then, that dream has been on my mind. He taught me so many things about Islam. He increased my faith. It was until this incident I realised Allah had always told me something. Allah gave me signs. But, as a Muslim what can I do?”

    •Mrs Jamiu with one of her children... on Monday
    •Mrs Jamiu with one of her children… on Monday

    Narrating how she got the news, the mother of four said: “I was in my first daughter’s school when Jamiu’s wife called me that she had been trying my daughter’s mobile line. As I handed my phone to her, she began to panic; then I became curious. She later disclosed to me that her brother had an accident and was rushed to an hospital. On getting to Oshodi, my elder sister, a retired matron, said we shouldn’t bother to come to the hospital but I became worried. I almost ran mad. I returned home believing that my son was still alive. I performed ablution and prayed God kept him for me but later that day; my husband told me Jamiu was dead.

    “He was the third child and second son. Even before he won the Zakat and Sadaqat Foundation (ZSF) Business Plan Competition in August, he had been an entrepreneur. There was nothing he couldn’t do while growing up. He hawked so many goods for me. He was my confidant. At sad moments, he consoled me. Till the last time we spoke, he assured me Allah is always there for me. He was the first to work among his siblings. Even when he told me about his chicken business, I was against it but he said he didn’t need much gain from the business but all he wanted to do was Jihad.

    “When he used bicycle for delivery, he told me Allah will protect him. When he bought a power bike, he urged me not to panic that Allah is still the protector of all. He told me about his plans. Aside the fact that he was married, he requested I prayed for him. I have accepted my fate but I pray Allah accepts my son. Because of his demise, members of my family I haven’t seen for almost 12 years are here again. He was a family man. He brought families together. I will deeply miss my baby.”

    Jamiu’s widow, Sherifah, said she was at a conference when she received a phone call from a stranger that said her husband was involved in a fatal accident.

    The 31-year-old mother of two said that her husband visited her at the conference that morning before he left.

    She said: “I left home for the conference on October 25 but that morning before he died, he came to visit me at the conference and he joked with me. He told me he wanted to pay for a shop he planned to rent close to our residence and said goodbye. It was 10 minutes after he left I received a call about the accident. I was told he needed a pint of blood but before a family member brought it, he died. I looked at my lifeless husband on the bed and asked him ‘Is that the end?’.

    “He was a caring husband and an adorable father. His children and his siblings were his priorities. He aspired to be a big entrepreneur. We got married five years ago and I never knew my best friend was going to leave so soon.”

    •Hajia Shuaib... on Monday
    •Hajia Shuaib… on Monday

    The late Jamiu’s sister, Hajia Olajumoke Shuaib described her brother’s death as unfortunate.

    She said she was told around 11.33am.

    “When my aunt told my mum and I to return home, I became worried. My mum was destabilised. She kept asking people how it was possible to return home when her son was in pain. I miss my brother. He was close to everyone.

    He did everything for me. He was my younger brother but I confided in him. As the day passes, I miss him more. My brother was small but mighty,” she said.

    A resident, who gave his name as Johnson, said he knew the deceased very well.

    “Whenever I resumed school, I made sure I ate chicken before I went broke. I just heard the news today (yesterday). Ahh! It is very painful,” he said.

    The late Jamiu’s friend, Abdul Qudus Otunba, said it was still unbelievable his friend of 10 years was no more.

    •Jafar
    •Jafar

    He said: “I can’t pin point what I miss about him. That very day the incident happened, I dialled his mobile line to seek an advice but I didn’t know he was in pain. I miss him so much. May God grant him Al-Jannah firdaus and console his wife and family.”

    The late Jamiu is survived by two children – Jafar (4) and Jumaima (15 months old), parents and three siblings.

     

  • The agony of an abusive husband

    I am married for 14 years, my wife is a huge torn on my flesh, and she nags, troublesome. She is not in good terms with almost everybody around us. To the children she is always beating, treating them as slaves; I cannot talk to her because she does not respect me, always ready to fight with me at every slightest issue. I must confess I am really scared for my life.  Is divorce the remedy bearing in mind that we have four children. Please what is your opinion?

     

    JPk.  Port Harcourt.

    We must commend you for sharing your situation with us. Abuse is a control issue- abusers believe they have the right to manipulate, control and humiliate another person, and this attitude is not only by men but also by some women.  Many at times what people hear or read about are women who in abusive relationships. When a man is a victim of his wife’s physical abuse, often times he is both ashamed by the assaults of his wife and regarded as a man that cannot control his wife.  Men going through abuse hardly speak out freely like you did for fear of been seen as weaklings. Only a few summon the courage to speak out and seek counseling, a lot of them going through abuse are taking it like a man so they are not complaining or showing any sign of been vulnerable, or in pain.  Many of the effects of domestic violence for male victims are the same as women, for example feeling of fear, guilt, shame, isolated, confused, loss of self worth, low self esteem and so on.  They are dying in silence. Abusers come from all walks of life it could be male or female.   Domestic violence can be trace in some other ways apart from been physical. There are emotional abuse, verbal abuse and sexual abuse. In your situation first is to actually look deep into the problem by asking yourself sincere questions, when did she start showing up these behaviour (nagging, troublesome attitude, hitting and maltreating her own children) where there traces of these character when you guys were dating and you didn’t take it serious, or was it that you felt she will stop once you marry her? What’s her up bringing like? When exactly did you notice her bad behaviour? Mothers are known for protecting and caring for their children not maltreating them as you mentioned, base on this action a few questions comes mind: is she all right? Or are there issues bordering her? What does she nag about? What is her trigger that gets her angry and she start to exhibit all these characters. Getting physical is an important aspect that must not be taken for granted because today in our society quite a number of people have lost their loves ones to domestic violence? In the middle of all these happening have you confronted the issue with her in a calm atmosphere, telling her how these actions is affecting your marriage and your home. Have you by any means involve her relatives to see if they can help put an end to her actions. Are there other steps taken?  It would have been good to also hear from your wife because offering remedy become easilier when one can actually dictate the real cause of her actions. It is certain that there is a problem somewhere that need to be address, maybe she need help. No form of violence is ever justified. Domestic violence indicates the absences of a true marriage relationship. Come to think of it no one may truly live or expected home where he or she is a victim of abuse. Therefore the following steps may be of help; the first step is to report the situation to family members immediately for their consideration and action. Taking the matter out of the home situation automatically exposes the problem and paves way for an eventual solution. Document everything, go to your doctor if possible narrate everything to him, take pictures of injuries if any, report to the police, keep a copy of the report as well. Work with an advocate for domestic violence get a restraining order if possible, not only will this help protect you from your abusive spouse but it will also allow you to ask for temporary custody of your children in order to protect them from the domestic violence.  Next is to seek professional aid- get counseling so you can start healing also legal advice should be included.  If the violence continues after help has been sought and there is grave danger of soul or body to others, to the children, making life unduly difficult couples might have to give each other a break by separating not divorce, why? It may be possible to settle the matter later on and to resume marital life but only if the danger ceases for good. Divorce is mainly seen as the last step that is after observing all the options to put an end to the abuse.  Great care must be taken to avoid making a false peace, which is helpful to no one. Just because you are a man does not mean you are impervious to pain! So you don’t have to suffer in silence. Finally, hope you find the above information useful. As a counselor I am to advice you but the decision is yours to make, you know exactly what you want that will be suitable for your family. Whatever you decide think it through properly and be sure that it is what you are happy with bearing the children in mind. Don’t forget to seek God’s assistance because there is no situation too difficult for him to solve. Take care of yourself and each other.

     

    • Harriet is a counsellor and a motivational speaker. Send your questions and suggestions to her on bineharriet@gmail.com or txt message only on 08023058805.