Tag: ‘Covenant

  • I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at any young woman–Redeemer’s varsity ex-VC Adeyewa

    The immediate past Vice Chancellor of the Redeemer University (RUN), Prof. Zachariah Debo Adeyewa, shares his memories of his job at the university with PAUL UKPABIO and ABIODUN ADEYEWA. He also speaks about his family life and fashion sense, among other issues.

     

    What are your observations about the set of students who have just graduated from RUN?

    he new set is meant to explode. They are not meant to explode like Boko Haram but in a way that people will see them and say, ‘Can something this good come out of Nigeria?’ Wherever they go, they are supposed to make waves, finding solutions to our myriad of problems.

    Where do you see this university in the next 10 years?

    Despite the fact that I am leaving, we have worked to the extent that we now have the confidence that this university is going to tower above its contemporaries. So in the next 10 years, I see a university that everyone would want to attend for their first, second or third degrees. I see a university where people would want to work. I see a university where the town will respect the gowth. I see a university that will surmount so many challenges that are environmental in nature. Already, that is taking place.

    I see a university where we will not just be able to pay our staff in naira but also in foreign currencies, because we will be getting a lot of money from abroad. I see a university where by prophecy, there will be no fees charged, but before you can come, it will be a struggle. So the university will not be expensive in terms of fees but expensive in terms of the struggle you do before you can get in, because there will be a lot of competition to get in. So I see a university that is setting standards.

    Can you recall your experiences when the university was relocated here?

    When we came here in 2011, it was a jungle. Many did not believe that anything this good could happen here. When we were also coming here, some of our colleagues were quite discouraged. They asked ‘why?’ But you know someone did say, “I don’t like to go where others go, not the bandwagon, but I like to go somewhere I can set standards and blaze the trail. I like to be the track that others will follow.’

    I am happy because before, this place was a forest, a jungle. People were afraid to come here. We came here by faith; the audacity of His grace. And here we are now. I feel more comfortable here than when we were at the Redeemed Camp by the expressway in Mowe, Ogun State. We have opportunity to shop at Oshogbo. Things are cheaper here. The students and the staff have found it easier to live here.

    Most big universities in the world are not in the cities like Havard and even Oxford. It was great courage to start small. I’m just coming from a construction site, and when it is ready, it will be the joy of everyone here and also the joy of the traditional ruler of this place and the entire people in his domain. That is the joy of being a pioneer.

    What were the initial reactions when you decided to relocate your main campus from Mowe to Ede, Osun State?

    When we came here, things were depressing. I recall the last staff meeting we had at the Redeemed Camp at Mowe where the staff was duly informed of the movement to Osun State. Some of them had been here and seen how it was before that our last meeting, so they were scared. But the decision to move to Ede in Osun State was final. I thank God that I am an African because what happens in Africa is that you encourage your colleagues through dancing, music and through rejoicing. So, we composed music and we danced to it. I read the scriptures to them, encouraged them in songs that we are number one.

    For instance, before the university won the national quality award late last year, we had been encouraging ourselves that we could do it. At the end of the day, we won, and today, we are number one. So you have to encourage yourselves. For instance, I tell the students you are not sleeping three or four in a room, you have a fantastic library, world class facilities, what else? I encourage the students with music, songs and dance. As Africans, we work hard in academics and then cheer ourselves up with music and dance.

    How much support does the university get from the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church?

    I remember that in 1973, Pastor Enoch Adejare Adeboye went to America and visited Oral Robert University. He was alarmed at what he saw there—a small campus doing great things. On coming back home, he said we could do the same here. That was why when he came here in 1982 and he was offered land, he said it was for the university. So you can see a great visionary, and we have caught that vision, that nothing is impossible. If tomorrow Pastor Enoch Adejare Adeboye says we will have a great building on that empty space, nothing can make us doubt, because he is a man who does not believe in impossibility. So I can tell you that we are not only going to be running, we are flying as well.

    What has been your motivating spirit?

    It is not easy to tell someone that is blind to look and see! But, you see, things can be accomplished. My story is that of somebody who was told that it is impossible, but I started knowing and telling people that with God, all things are possible. But you have to also know that you cannot do it all with your own strength; you have to believe in God. It is God in you that will make things possible.

    How have you managed to handle attraction from the opposite sex and survive so long in marriage despite working on campus?

    I love my God and I love my wife. My personal principle even as a young man was and till now is: I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman (Job. 31:1). Also, the closeness to my wife is a shield for me.

    How about your family?

    I have three lovely children. We are all closely knitted.

    How did you meet your wife?

    We met on Campus in 1984 (some 34 years ago). We later became engaged and got married in 1991.

    From your experience, what do you consider the ingredients that make a marriage last?

    I believe its love, truthfulness, trust, unconditional love and devotion to one another.

    At 61, would you say you are fulfilled?

    I would say I am fulfilled. But I am only 61 and my aspirations are still many. I guess I would feel more fulfilled in the next few years as I achieve more in terms of the life goals that I have set for myself.

    Any regrets?

    No, none.

    What kinds of clothe do you like wearing?

    Interestingly, my wife is everything to me when it comes to my wardrobe. She chooses my style. So my children joke about mum being everything to daddy. That is why she is such an integral part of me.  When people say they like my dress sense or make complimentary remarks, I simply say give that to my wife.

    What do you value the most?

    I value integrity. I have a lot of respect for those who are not cajoled or forced to be accountable or to do the right thing. I love innocence in the real sense of it.

    Your son said that he grew up knowing his daddy always travelling. That means even as a young man, you must have been very restless…

    Well, I was involved with research activities that took me to the Far East, Far West (USA) and Europe. Such trips could last between three months and one year.

    How do you spend your holidays? Do you have memories of a particular holiday you really enjoyed?

    I must confess that I have not been having holidays. On one occasion, I managed to have a family holiday by driving to different parts of the country with my family. That holiday has remained such a cherished period in my family. But I must say that I have enjoyed wonderful memories of trips with my wife while travelling to some unique places abroad.

    What inspires you?

    I would say books and exemplary lives. In particular, I am inspired by reading the scriptures. I love the verse that says “To the law and to the testimony: if they speak not according to this word, it is because there is no light in them (Isa. 8:20).” I also love the inspiration that good books bring and exemplary lives through biographies.

     

  • Covenant gateways to financial dominion!

    Welcome to the concluding part of this teaching! I hope you were blessed by the teaching for last week. Today, we shall focus on Covenant Gateways to Financial Dominion!

    From scriptures, we understand that financial dominion in the Kingdom anchors on the covenant of “sowing” and “reaping”; that is, giving and receiving (Genesis 8:22; 2 Corinthians 9:6-8; Luke 6:38). This connotes that giving is “sowing” and receiving is “reaping”. Therefore, the covenant of giving and receiving is God’s anchor for His financial fortune plan for the saints. In other words, we are empowered for wealth based on God’s covenant of financial fortune. A covenant, in this context, is a deal enacted by God based on well-defined terms and sealed with an oath, committing God’s integrity to make good His promise (Deuteronomy 8:18; Jeremiah 33:20-26; Malachi 3:6-11; Genesis 14:19-21).

    Furthermore, it is important to understand that God’s financial plan is ONLY accessible to those who are interested in the terms of the covenant.

    But, what are the Gateways to This Covenant?

    • We Must Commit to Kingdom Promotion Opportunities with Delight as they Arise From Time to Time: The Bible says that when we take pleasure in the things of the Kingdom, the heaven over us will not be shut from dew, the earth will never cease to yield her fruits to us and things will answer in our lives in the positive. We must also remember that God will not ask us to bring an ‘Isaac’, if He has not given us one. This is because God only demands what He has given to us (Psalm 102:12-14; Haggai 1:2-14).
    • Giving to the Poor as “engraced” by God: The Bible says: He that hath pity upon the poor lendeth unto the Lord; and that which he hath given will he pay him again (Proverbs 19:17). This was the secret that Job traded and God blessed him till he became the richest man in his days. We must break the donation mentality in our giving life; even when giving to the poor. This is because if we don’t give to them, someone else will. Therefore, let’s give to the needy with a heavenly transaction mentality that delivers undeniable returns to us (Job 29:12-13; Psalm 41:1-3; Proverbs 28:27; 2 Corinthians 8:1-7).

    How Does God bless us in Return for our Giving?

    • Through the Rain of Divine Ideas: Every empire on earth is built on ideas. For instance, Abraham’s empire extended from one generation to another because he received divine insight from God to build the first cattle ranch. Furthermore, he dug a well and founded the first borehole technology. Isaac also operated in divine idea when he designed the first irrigation farming system and became “the farmer” of his generation (Genesis 13:2, 24:34-35, 26:12-22).
    • Through the Works of our Hands: It is written: Then Satan answered the Lord, and said, Doth Job fear God for nought? Hast not thou made an hedge about him, and about his house, and about all that he hath on every side? thou hast blessed the work of his hands, and his substance is increased in the land (Job 1:9-10). That means Job became the greatest man in the East because God blessed the works of his hands.
    • Through Divine Favour: God’s favour is what makes high flyers in the Kingdom. Nobody fails with favour because it advances destinies supernaturally and always culminates in fortune. For instance, Joseph had God’s favour and became the heir apparent to Potiphar. That favour followed him to the prison where he became the head of the inmates and thereafter, a Prime Minister in the palace (Genesis 39:5, 21; Psalm 102:13-14, 45:12).
    • Through Priestly Blessings: Priestly blessings change people’s stories for good. This is because while God speaks to our lives, prophets speak to our moments. For instance, when Abraham gave his tithe, Melchizedek proclaimed a blessing upon him and God confirmed it. As a result, Abraham became a possessor of heaven and earth, and Christ died to connect us to that Abrahamic order of blessings (Genesis 14:19; Galatians 3:13-14). Therefore, we must embrace and appropriate priestly blessings to see them manifest in our lives and in many generations to come.

    In addition, we must understand that the covenant of financial abundance is not only for financial blessings but also for things that money cannot buy, and that includes longevity. For instance, all our covenant fathers enjoyed long life: Abraham lived to be 175 years old, Isaac departed at 180, Jacob died at 147 and Job lived for 140 years even after his ordeal. That means among the fringe benefits of the covenant of abundance, is longevity (Genesis 25:7-8, 35:28-29, 47:28; Job 42:10-17; Galatians 3:13-14, 4:28, Romans 2:28-29). This helps us to recognise that old age is good and that it is God’s perspective for all His children. However, we must understand that all our covenant fathers engaged the covenant of giving and receiving as a lifestyle and that engendered their longevity (Genesis 14:19-21; 28:22-28). That means when God’s blessing comes upon us, we become indestructible. Every effort to destroy Joseph failed because there was a blessing on him. This is because covenant blessings put us above circumstances that destroy others, including death.

    In conclusion, the covenant of giving and receiving is a mystery. That is why the devil wants to rob us of the blessings therein. We must understand that our giving capacity defines the limits of God’s blessings in our lives because we are blessed primarily to be a blessing. That is why we will not be blessed beyond our capacity to being a blessing. For easy access to covenant gateways to financial dominion, you must be born again. Are you born again? If you are not, this is an opportunity to do so. Simply say the following prayer: Lord Jesus, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me my sins. Cleanse me with Your precious Blood. Today, I accept You as my Lord and personal Saviour. Thank You Jesus for saving me! Now I know I am born again!” For further reading, please get my books: Understanding Financial Prosperity, Breaking Financial Hardship, Covenant Wealth and Hidden Covenants of Blessing. I invite you to come and fellowship with us at the Faith Tabernacle, Canaanland, Ota, the covenant home of Winners. We have five services on Sundays, holding at 6:00 a.m., 7:50 a.m., 9:40 a.m., 11:30 a.m. and 1:20 p.m. respectively. I know this teaching has blessed you. Write and share your testimony with me through: Faith Tabernacle, Canaanland, Ota, P.M.B. 21688, Ikeja, Lagos, Nigeria; or call 01-4548070, 01-4548280; or E-mail: feedback@lfcww.org; Face book: www.facebook.com/davidoyedepoministries/;  Twitter: @DavidOyedepoMin

  • Covenant varsity wins Tech Award

    Covenant University, Ota in Ogun State, has been declared winner of the Best Use of Technology Award among the private universities in Nigeria.

    The university received the award at the second Nigeria Technology Awards held recently in Lagos.

    Technology Avenue, a technology/multimedia firm noted that the award was to recognise technology entrepreneurs, innovators, academics, inventors and policy makers (government) in Nigeria.

    Covenant University won in the education category which included American University of Nigeria, Babcock University, Igbinedion University and the Pan-Atlantic University.

    Receiving the award the Vice-Chancellor, Prof A. Atayero, represented by Dr. David Omole, the Director, Vice-Chancellor’s office, informed the audience that the university was glad to be recognised for its commitment to revolutionise the education system in Africa.

    “We have been in this business for the past 14 years and we are still waxen strong,” he said.

    It would be recalled that the University among others was awarded the Centenary ICT Driven University of the Year in 2014, the Overall Best University in Nigeria and West Africa and 15th in Africa on the Webometric Ranking (February 2015) as well as African Private University of the Year (2015), by African Leadership Magazine Group in March this year.

  • Marriage: A lifetime covenant (3)

    Dear Reader,

    I count it a great privilege to share God’s Word with you through this medium. It is my prayer that as you apply the series of teachings that you have received this month, they shall bring a positive change in your life and marriage in Jesus’ name.

    I discussed the origin of marriage with you in my first lesson for this month. Three weeks ago, I taught you Marriage Covenant Responsibilities. In last week’s teaching, I told you that marriage is a miracle. Today, I want you to Make Right the Wrongs of Your Marriage Covenant.

    Some people get troubled when they read materials like this, probably because they have been living together with their partners without payment of dowry, or any formal engagement/ public Christian wedding. This is not a holy union. So many couples have been living together for years and have even had children without a proper marriage.

    Instead of feeling or living in condemnation, you need to make things right today. In case you are not legally married and you fall into this category, go right away and make things right by paying the dowry. Go and legalise your union. You can do this, simply, by going to the registry for a court wedding. Thereafter, look for a minister of the gospel to bless your union.

    Time never corrects an error! An error yesterday remains an error today, except it is corrected. You can make a wrong, right!  Many people pass through a lot of difficulties in their marriages today, because of the wrong foundation of their union. I have seen women being driven out of their homes at the death of their husbands, because their union was “illegal”. The woman has no voice, because she has no legal backing. Wisdom is profitable to direct (Ecclesiastics 10: 10).

    I remember a woman I counselled sometime ago. She had been going through a tough time in her home and was ready to call it quit. To top it up, she had no child. When I interviewed her closely, I discovered that there were a lot of loopholes in her marriage. Her dowry was not paid, and there was nothing legally binding her and the man together as husband and wife. No court wedding, no church wedding; both of them just started living together!

    I counselled her to ensure that the dowry was paid, legal papers signed in the court of law, and that their union be blessed by a minister of the gospel. The next time I saw her, she was over-joyous and full of testimonies. To the glory of God, today all is well with that marriage. To crown it all, she was also expecting a baby as at that time!

    A good example of a proper marriage is recorded in Genesis.  It clearly shows us how a formal wedding should be conducted.  Adam did not just rise up to find Eve wandering about in another part of the garden, and he decided to take her home and they just started living together as husband and wife. The Word of God says: And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man (Genesis 2:22). Take note of the word, ‘brought her unto the man’. God was the One, Who brought the woman to the man.

    Since marriage is the basis for a successful family, then, you must first be married before you can enjoy a successful family life. If the foundation of your marriage is not built on the instructions of the Word of God, there is no way you will have a fulfilled family life. It is important, therefore, that you go and pay the dowry, if it has not been paid. This is scriptural.

    There is another account in the Scriptures of how a typical wedding and all that is required should be done. The Word of God says: And they called Rebekah, and said unto her, Wilt thou go with this man? And she said, I will go. And they sent away Rebekah their sister, and her nurse, and Abraham’s servant, and his men. And they blessed Rebekah, and said unto her, Thou art our sister, be thou the mother of thousands of millions, and let thy seed possess the gate of those which hate them (Genesis 24:58-60).

    A parental blessing is very important in a marriage covenant. It is something you cannot rule out. There is something about the blessings your parents pronounce on you that makes it stick on you until all their good wishes are established in your life. From the above Scripture, Abraham’s servant did not just grab Rebekah and disappeared with her. Due procedures were properly followed and the blessings of her parent became a practical reality in her life.

    Some years ago, I shared this truth at one of our women conventions. Meanwhile, a couple had been living together for almost 10 years without being properly married, had three children but the lady’s parents refused to consent to their marriage. After the convention, they decided to make peace and do the right thing. They had been up and down financially over the years. They invested so much, but had very little in return. They were very zealous for the things of God, they are covenant practitioner; yet, there was nothing to show for it. They met the lady’s family, paid the dowry, went to church and had their union blessed by one of the pastors.

    Soon after, great business doors opened for them, their lives took a new turn and they began to enjoy all manner of favours. Thereafter, they built their own house and even bought a Mercedes Benz car, all through the simple act of making wrong, right in their union. Your own testimony will be the next!

    It is also very important in your marriage covenant to acknowledge the place of a holy Christian wedding. The Word of God says: And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man (Genesis 2:22). In this verse of Scripture, we see God’s practical involvement in the institution of marriage. He gave Eve out to Adam. It is, therefore, unsafe for you to go into marriage without God. This will definitely attract the attacks of the devil. You shall not be a victim in Jesus’ name!

    God is your Father, and only a bastard would desire to go outside his father’s house to get married. The presence of God makes all the difference in a man’s life. Therefore, don’t go about without carrying the presence of God; it is dangerous!

    You also need a proper legal documentation of your union.   This is a point of contact to remind God that you have fulfilled all righteousness concerning your marriage; as such, the enemy must not have access into your family.

    You need the grace of God to make the wrong, right in your marriage. That grace is available to every born again child of God. You can say this prayer and shall be born again: “Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. Deliver me from sin and satan to serve the living God. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”

    If you prayed this simple prayer, you are now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    Congratulations! You are now born again! All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name. Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org; OR 07026385437 and 08141320204.

     

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • Marriage: A lifetime covenant (3)

    Dear Reader,

    I discussed the origin of marriage with you in my first lesson. Last week, I looked at marriage covenant responsibilities. Let me also say today, that marriage is a miracle! It is important for you to know that nothing works on its own, just like no problem solves itself. Miracles answer to certain inputs from the benefactor. Your obedience to what is required of you is how you initiate it.

    Take the miracle of the turning of water into wine, for instance.  Mary told the men, “Whatever he tells you to do, do it” (John 2:5). The servants initiated their miracle by obeying Jesus’ instructions to fill the water pots with water. Nothing happens by chance in the Kingdom of God. There is always something you must do to get what you want. All you need to do is accept the required responsibility.

    Marriage is a miracle! Daily, we see men and women seeking after soothsayers and seers, to know whom to marry. Some highly placed and educated young men and ladies creep stealthily into the dingy abodes of herbalists, to know the cause of their marital delays.

    Also, it is a common thing to see couples running after palm readers, fortune-tellers and astrologers, just to find out what the future holds for their marriages, and how they can be guided into glorious homes. But, for us at the other side of Jordan, we have a reason to thank God. He doesn’t leave us to guess and grope through life. That is why He said: Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not (Jeremiah 33:3).

    It is the thoughts of man that makes a man. What you think of your marriage and family makes it what it is. You can’t think obstacles in your marriage and have miracles. You can’t think of marriage as a necessary evil, and experience a glorious marriage, because sweet marriages and homes are basically provoked by your thoughts.

    Glorious marriages don’t happen by chance; they are product of choices. You can choose what happens to your marriage and family by the way you think. You have the mind of Christ which is a miracle mind, and miracle minds don’t think obstacles in marriage or consider barriers in the home. So, do not carry obstacle thoughts when looking for a life partner. Do not think impossibilities when you are looking up to God for miracle babies. The two don’t go together.

    Do you know that most couples cannot build matrimonial homes because of obstacle thoughts? Many don’t even eat good food because they don’t know where tomorrow’s meal will come from. Some couples think of nothing good about their families; all they see are obstacles. As such, they wallow in abject failure and frustration, without knowing that a man’s thoughts today make him what he would be tomorrow.

    Nobody builds a tower without adequate preparation and a strong foundation. You must first desire a tower, before you can build one. Do not enter into a marriage covenant without an expectation. If you expect the best, it will be yours (Proverbs 23:18).

    Someone once came to me for counselling. She had been having a very tough time in marriage. As she spoke, I discovered that the root cause of her problems was her wrong perspective about marriage. She had expected grief and calamity, so when the storms rose against her marriage, she began to cry, saying, “They told me that it will be like this.” Below is a testimony that will further help your perspective in your marriage.

    “I used to worship in a place where the pastors believe that ‘misunderstanding brings about understanding.’ One day, the lady pastor asked me if I had ever had any serious quarrel with my wife (then my fiancée), and I said, ‘No’. She then said we had not started, and that until we had quarreled and fought, we would not know if we truly love each other.

    Thereafter, we started having problems in our home after our marriage.  But when I came here, I heard the Bishop say, ‘I have not had the first argument with my wife.’ I told my wife that if what the man of God said is the truth, then we’ve been in the wrong place, where we had been fed with the wrong spiritually food. So, we decided to start worshipping here.

    We told ourselves, ‘What this man of God has seen that is making his marriage sweet, we also must discover it.’ Then, I was in WOFBI Full-Time programme. After each lecture, I would go home and teach my wife the same thing. Today, to the glory of God, we don’t have misunderstandings any more!” Ibiang, A.I.

    God has promised to grant your expectations, whether good or bad. So, let your expectations be based on God’s Word, for it is higher than any evil experience or information about marriage you may have had or heard (Proverbs 10:24).

    If you are already married, there is still a chance to change all negative expectations. As a couple, discuss your positive expectations, and I guarantee that things will work out more smoothly in your home.

    Unmarried ladies and young men, what do you expect in marriage? Your expectations shall not be cut off (Proverb 23:18). Before we got married, my husband and I made discoveries from God’s Word that made us expect a hitch-free marriage. Our testimony today: those expectations have not been cut off.

    I believe you have been mightily blessed by this teaching. So, as I pray for your family, believe God for a unique touch in your home. You will have a testimony!

    In the Name of Jesus, I ask for the hand of God to rest heavily on your home. Because marriage is a miracle, I declare that from today, you begin to enjoy God’s goodness and honour in your marriage!

    To have a miracle marriage, you need to first of all receive the Miracle Worker into your life. His Name is Jesus and you can receive Him by confessing your sins and saying this prayer: “Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. Deliver me from sin and satan to serve the living God. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”

    If you prayed this simple prayer, you are now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    Congratulations! You are now born again! All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name. Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org; OR 07026385437 and 08141320204.

     

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • Marriage: A lifetime covenant (2)

    Dear Reader,

    Greetings in Jesus’ precious Name! Our God is forever faithful. Praise to our Omnipotent God, the Maker of all things. The Word of God encourages us to ‘pursue after knowledge and search wisdom out’. As you continue to read and apply yourself to the demands of the Word of God, every plan of the enemy to frustrate your family life shall be annulled in Jesus’ Mighty Name!

    I discussed the origin of marriage last week. Today, I will be looking at what I have titled: Marriage Covenant Responsibilities.

    The Word of God makes it clear that marriage is a covenant, and this is expounded in my book: Marriage Covenant. What is a Covenant? The dictionary defines it as ‘a binding agreement; or a contract’ usually between two people.

    The Word of God says: Marriage is Honourable … (Hebrews 13:4). It goes to say, therefore, that the agreement of marriage between two people is seen as a good thing in the sight of God, which eventually leads to honour and dignity for the parties involved. I want to let you know, therefore, that it is a good thing for you to desire marriage, if you are not yet married. For those already married, it is a good step you have taken in life. You shall have no cause to regret it.

    However, as good as marriage is, there are covenant responsibilities that must be operated in order for it to produce the desired good. The Word says: If ye be willing and obedient, ye shall eat the good of the land (Isaiah 1:19). There is good in marriage, but you must be willing and obedient to operate the covenant.

    My husband, Dr. David Oyedepo will always say, “A life without responsibilities is a liability”. Furthermore, a wise man once said: “Responsibility is the price for greatness”. Do you desire good in your marriage? Are you longing for peace, harmony and serenity in your marital life? Then apply yourself to the demands of a good home. If you are yet to enact the covenant of marriage, begin to ask for grace to comply with the demands. If it is in your heart to obey God, it shall be easy for you to do so.

    Greatness and fulfilment don’t come by magic; neither are they meant for a specific group of people, but for as many as would fear God and work righteousness. If people are having great testimonies concerning their family relationships, why not you? Greatness and fulfilment are meant for you, if you care to walk in the covenant.

    What are these Covenant Responsibilities?

    For the man:

    1. As a Husband
    2. He is the head of the woman, the leader and not a dictator. He must lead spiritually, because God will hold him accountable (Genesis 3:9).
    3. He must love his wife unconditionally as a brother, friend and as a lover, sexually (Ephesians 5:25-29).
    4. He must honour his wife and not treat her as a lesser being or a slave (1 Peter 3:7)
    5. He must dwell with her according to knowledge. He must know her likes and dislikes. She is an individual too, who has a mind of her own. Never compare her to your mother or anyone! It is foolishness to do so, says God (2 Corinthians 10:12). Women expect to be fulfilled in the following areas: companionship, compassion, romance and passion. Never treat her as an old cargo; instead, renew your love for her on daily basis.
    6. As a father

    The man has the responsibility of raising his children in the nature and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4; Deuteronomy 6:6-7), not by bullying and beating. Instead, apply the rod of the Word of God, and as you mould them in the fear of the Lord, you are raising godly children, who will in turn call you blessed.

    1. As a provider

    A French proverb says, “A father is a banker provided by nature”. You are responsible for the needs of your home. Meeting the needs of the home is the primary responsibility of the man. The woman is only your help meet. Never shift your responsibility to your wife; it is anti-covenant to do so. To shy away from this responsibility makes you worse than an infidel [an unbeliever] (1 Timothy 5:8). This shall not be your portion.

    For the woman:

    1. As a wife

    She has the power of influence, while her husband has the power of authority. She must be a positive influence. Her responsibility, however, as far as God is concerned is that of submission.

    1. She willingly allows herself to be ruled by her husband, obeying him in love (Ephesians 5:22-24).
    2. She must reverence him (Ephesians 5:33).
    3. She must cook to please him.
    4. She must dress to please him (1 Peter 3:2).
    5. She must love him (Titus 2:4; Proverbs 31:26).
    6. Sshe must learn to go to God in prayer, rather than arguing.
    7. As a mother

    She must train her children both spiritually and physically, bringing them up to become arrows in the hands of God. A mother’s role in the life of a child is a non-transferable responsibility. Mothers, don’t push your children to another person to train for you. Whatever “means” God gives you, use it to bring up your children. God will hold you accountable for failing in your role as a mother. Prepare your children for life ahead. It is your covenant responsibility.

    1. As a home maker

    Seeing to the general welfare of the home, planning and managing resources provided are your covenant responsibilities (Titus 2:5). You are the homemaker, not house-help. You are to see to the welfare of every member of your household. This is your primary assignment before your career or business.

    You need the grace of God to carry out your covenant responsibilities. But you need to surrender your life to Christ before that grace can be given to you.  You can say this prayer and receive that grace. “Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. Deliver me from sin and satan to serve the living God. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”

    If you prayed this simple prayer, you are now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    Congratulations! You are now born again! All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name. Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org; OR 07026385437 and 08141320204.

     

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • Marriage: A lifetime covenant

    Dear Reader,

    I welcome you to this month’s teaching. I want you to be rest assured that God is going to visit you this month. This month, I shall be discussing on Marriage: A Lifetime Covenant.

    Today, I want to start by looking at the origin of marriage. In Genesis 2:18-25, we see God initiating the idea of male and female relationship in which both will serve as succour to each other. God’s purpose for instituting marriage is to create a help that is suitable, adaptable and complementary, to establish unity and for procreation.

    What is Marriage?

    Marriage is a union between a man and a woman. It is the coming together of two people of opposite sex, with a view to building a God-centred home. Marriage is not the culture of any country of the world; rather, it is heaven’s culture. It is God’s idea, not man’s idea. The Word of God says: And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof. And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man (Genesis 2:21-22).

    God in His infinite wisdom knew that man would have certain needs and desires that cannot be satisfied by animals or other things He created. So, He initiated the idea of marriage, and formed a helpmeet for man.

    It is important for us to know that at the beginning of the institution called marriage, God introduced it as a union between a man and woman and not same sex. People of the world have perverted what God Himself formed for man and his wife to enjoy. In the beginning, it was not so. Homosexualism is really growing fast in various countries of the world today. God’s rule has been laid down concerning this abominable thing. The Word of God says: Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination (Leviticus 18:22).

    Scripturally, marriage is for a lifetime. It is, therefore, not to be entered into without knowing what you are getting into. It is very important for you to know what marriage is and is not, before you say, “I do” to anyone. Hear the testimony of this sister.

    “When I was ready for marriage, I noticed that some things were working against me. But I was not a serious Christian then. However, when I dedicated my life fully to Jesus Christ in 1992, it became obvious. Yet, I lacked wisdom and counsel, and I was emotionally immature.

    All the same, I got married, and the Lord has been merciful.  However, on joining this Church and listening to different ministrations, my life and marriage has acquired meaning, and direction. Now, my marriage is established and I am free from all manner of oppressions of the wicked.

    My family has increased remarkably and I now apply myself to the wisdom of God that He has imparted on me by reason of the teachings and ministrations I get here!”

    Opara, C. C. N.

    God ordained marriage for man and woman to give, and receive satisfaction, and to meet the needs, and desires of one another. This marriage relationship is very unique since it involves the spirit, soul and body of two individuals. As long as a couple is born again and their lives have been transformed, they have become new creatures and they belong to the same spiritual Kingdom.

    Our father, Abraham, knew the importance of this; that is why he told his servant to go to his (Abraham’s) people to get a wife for his son. The Word of God says: And Abraham said unto his eldest servant of his house, that ruled over all that he had, Put, I pray thee, thy hand under my thigh. And I will make thee swear by the Lord, the God of heaven, and the God of the earth, that thou shalt not take a wife unto my son of the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I dwell (Genesis 24:2-3).

    In the realm of the soul, both husband and wife should have the same mind concerning issues of life, especially when it comes to living one’s life according to the doctrines of the Holy Bible. There must be an agreement between the couple, before they can really walk in the principles of the Bible. The Bible advises: Can two walk together, except they be agreed? (Amos 3:3).

    It is important, therefore, for us to know that there is no agreement between light and darkness. So, as a believer in Christ that is regenerated, you are not permitted to even consider an unbeliever for marriage. The Word of God says: Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people (2 Corinthians 6:14-16).

    To have a good marriage and a successful family, you need to first have a good stand with God. To do so, you need to confess your sins and surrender your life to Him. Please say this prayer in faith, if you are ready for this: “Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. Deliver me from sin and satan to serve the living God. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”

    If you prayed this simple prayer, you are now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    Congratulations! You are now born again! All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name. Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org; OR 07026385437 and 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • Editor’s son emerges Covenant varsity’s best

    Editor’s son emerges Covenant varsity’s best

    The son of Mrs Bisi Deji-Folutile, the Editor of Saturday Punch, Winner Deji-Folutile, has emerged the overall best graduating student at the 11th edition of the Covenant University, Ota Ogun State. Winner’s Cumulative Grade Point Average was an outstanding 4.97

    Winner, 21, was the first student from the Department of Architecture to come out the overall best since the university opened its door in October 2002.

     Winner was the first student in the university history who was the chairman of the Student Council, the equivalent of Students’ Union.

     In a chat with reporters, Winners said what saw him through was simply the power of enthusiasm.

    He said: “Right from when I was in SS2, I’d already pictured it coming. Everyday, I was writing it somewhere in a book that I would be the best graduating student of the Covenant University because I knew I was going here.

    “I was also writing that I was going to be the best Council Chairman this university would  produce in its history.

    Winner’s mother corroborated her son’s enthusiastic spirit.

    She thanked her husband,  Joseph, a vet doctor, for helping the boy to achieve his aim.

    “As a journalist, I am very busy and this makes it difficult for me creating time for my children. It is my husband who does most of the work. But sometimes when I get home around 11pm, I ensure I talk to them till about 1am, telling them how to be the best in their careers and put God first in whatever they do,” she said.

  • Covenant partners Foundries Group

    Covenant partners Foundries Group

    Covenant University and Nigerian Foundries Group have signed a Memorandum of Understanding (MoU), as part of the university’s Industry Partnership collaboration.

    Under the agreement, both parties shall, among other things, cooperate on technology development.

    The parties will co-host conferences, seminars and workshops, sharing technical information and related data.

    Vice-Chancellor Prof. Charles Ayo said the university’s researchers and students should develop ideas translating to tangible products.

    “We can begin to think the unthinkable, noting that ‘’we have an organisation that can execute ideas. We are most delighted to sign this partnership and we are trusting God for the heights we will attain towards improving Nigerians economically,” he said.

    The Deputy Managing Director, Nigerian Foundries, Mr. Nicholas Barberopolos, hailed the brilliance of students of Mechanical Engineering during his interaction with them.

    “We are happy to be part of this collaboration,” he said.

    Also at the event were the Deputy Vice-Chancellor, Prof. Taiwo Abioye; Registrar, Pastor OlamideOlusegun; Director, Financial Services, Pastor Bayo Oladehinbo; Director, Industry Partnership Prof. Olawole Obembe; Director, Centre for Research, Innovation and Discovery Prof. Samuel Wara; Director, Vision 10:2022, Prof. Christian Bolu; Head of Department (HoD), Mechanical Engineering Dr. Oluseyi Ajayi; immediate past HoD, Mechanical Engineering,Prof. Festus Oyawale and Legal Officer, Ayodele Osayande.

  • GKS: Keeping God’s Covenant

    Nigerians, from around the world trooped into the God’s Kingdom Society (GKS), Salem City in Warri, Delta State to celebrate the annual Christian Feast of Tabernacle in remembrance of God’s covenant with the Israelites, Adeola Ogunlade reports

    FROM  Sunday, December 13 to Sunday, December 20, last year, Warri, the commercial nerve centre of Delta State, was bubbling with thanksgiving to God. The worshippers stormed major roads in Warri. Mobile police ensured safety.

    Cultural groups sang majestic songs . The God’s Kingdom Society (GKS)  made the people dance to songs in diverse dialects – Urhobo, Isoko, Agbor, Itsekiri, Ijaw, Edo, Efik, Hausa, Yoruba and Igbo.

    It was all in remembrance of God’s covenant with the Israelites.

    There were other activities to mark the event: children and women presentations and donation of food items (rice, tubers of yams and gallons of oil and more) to the needy.

    The Chairman, Executive Board, GKS, Brother Godwin Ifeacho, expressed gratitude to God.

    “Glory be to God, Jehovah, creator of the universe, who enabled us to converge to this Feast,” he said.

    Ifeacho, while addressing the congregation on ‘A Man’s Life Consist Not in the Abundance of the things he Possess’, cited Luke 12:15 to campaign again the love of material things.

    He preached on the folly of man and covetousness.

    He said: “Officials of financial institutions corner the deposits of their customers and use them for their personal interest. And when the banks fail, most of the people are left empty-handed.”

    Ifeacho added that some people have taken over other people’s lands, wives, children and houses.

    “While others have made themselves beneficiaries of the inheritance of others leaving the rightful owners with nothing, others use things that are not theirs.”

    Citing Psalm 10:3 and Proverbs 1:10 to 19, he said:  “Unfortunately, many Church leaders today cannot teach their adherents to live godly, be diligent and to patiently continue in well-doing. Instead, they make people believe that gain is godliness or is evidence of blessing from God.”

    However, he reminded participants that they ought to have put aside all their offences before coming for the programme. He wrapped up his gospel with reference to Ecclesiastes 5:11-16. He assured believers that in life, a man’s comfort, happiness or well-being does not depend on affluence.

    From his word: “Is it not true that in several societies people shower underserved honour on anyone who is rich even though they know him to be wicked?

    The Chairperson of the National Women Fellowship, Mrs. Helen Bazunu, said the Sisters’ Assembly day was to educate the women fold on their attitude as peculiar Christians.

    “It is to cater for our homes and our relationship with people outside.”

    She emphasised that they preached on love among themselves, too.

    “Today, being the spiritual aspect – one of the speakers talked on the significance of Ruth and Naomi while the other spoke on ‘Love not the world.”’

    Special Adviser to Governor Ifeanyi Okowa of Delta State on Rural Development and Peace Building and staunch member of GKS, Mr. Emmanuel Ogidi, urged Nigerians to brace up for hard times.

    “Nigerians should brace up for hard times, except the Federal Government removes subsidy and focuses on other sources of energy and the non-oil sector,” he said.

    Speaking further, the former Delta State PDP Chairman said that change had nothing to do with shouting slogans.

    “The real change is beginning in the state’s Peoples Democratic Party’s government as we are focused on making the state an investment destination,” Ogidi said.

    The former Commissioner for Higher Education, Delta State, Prof. Hope Eghagha, said the Federal Government must approach the problems of insurgency and political agitations with the knowledge that a federation was never imposed, but created by the willingness of participating regions, governments, persons, groups and races.

    “There are too many distractions in the polity. The Northeast is still boiling. The Southeast is threatening and there is also the Shiite threat.”