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  • Command arrests three with suspected human hearts

    Command arrests three with suspected human hearts

    Operatives of the Zone 2 Police Command, comprising Lagos and Ogun state, have arrested three men with two suspected human hearts.

    The Zonal Public Relations Officer, SP Tunni Ayuba, confirmed the arrest in a statement yesterday in Lagos.

    According to Ayuba, the suspects are men.

    Ayuba said the suspected human hearts were discovered in the house of one of the suspects at  Oke-Ola area of Ago-Iwoye, Ogun State during a search.

    The spokesperson said during interrogation, the suspect implicated a man, whom he claimed to have paid N50,000 to assist in obtaining two human hearts.

    Ayuba said the second suspect identified the third suspect as the source of the hearts.

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    She said investigation had begun into the case, adding that the two suspected human hearts had been sent to the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital for examination.

    According to Ayuba, AIG Ari Muhammed in charge of the zone, implored residents of the states to be vigilant and report suspicious activities to the nearest police formation.

    The image maker said Muhammed reiterated commitment to ensuring safety of lives and property in Lagos and Ogun states.

  • Grateful hearts

    Grateful hearts

    The Israelites’ syndrome — of fashionable jeremiad — is loosed upon the land. Perhaps that’s natural when things are tough?

    It’s double jeopardy, though: when chief among those that spew that distemper are those that ruined the land during their sweet and reckless power days.

    Former President Olusegun Obasanjo just whipped “Afro Democracy” — whatever that means — from his bag of subversive tricks, with trademark malice masking as reason.  

    His Vice-in-power, Atiku Abubakar, also just huffed after a single six-year rotative presidency (by the way, an Abacha-era ploy to cripple pro-June 12, 1993 democratic forces), after Atiku’s insensate fixation with power had blighted his latest run.

    Twin-prodigals that wrecked yesterday, posing as today’s — and future — messiahs? Toh!

    Still, instead of getting defensive, the Tinubu order should put things in right frames, and stop moaning over “serious liabilities from Buhari”, as Nuhu Ribadu, the National Security Adviser (NSA), just did — though he claimed he blamed no one but told the truth.

    At the Chief of Defence Intelligence Annual Conference, Ribadu said President Bola Tinubu inherited more or less a bankrupt country, referring to the Buhari-era loans. 

    To be sure, loans are always disconcerting.  But which serious capitalist economy demonizes loans — lazy ones that lack the creative oomph to thrive from loans?

    Later, at the 19th Annual Nigerian Editors Conference in Uyo, Akwa Ibom State, the NSA restricted his jeremiad to his core duty: security.  He listed Tinubu’s inherited challenges: Boko Haram (North East), Banditry (North West), massive oil theft (South-South) and security meltdown (South East).

    Good, the NSA addressed the flower of the media.  But had the media tracked the environment, as it should by its core duty, and always published reports which core data dutifully track progress and setbacks, Ribadu should have sounded hollow.

    Why? Of all four, only Banditry (North West) dawned during the Buhari era.  

    Even then, it was a spin-off from de-fanging Boko Haram: felons fleeing from a North East getting too hot; but plaguing, with their small arms, other parts of the country, as bandits (North West); and kidnappers-for-ransom (nation-wide, though with a vicious North West strain).

    The other two: massive oil theft and South East insecurity were self-inflicted. 

    All seem to have forgotten the Niger Delta New Avengers, once lionized by a section of the media back in 2015/2016, because President Goodluck Jonathan lost power; and some folks swore they’d make the country ungovernable.

    It’s fitting irony though that Government Ekpemupolo, aka Tompolo, linked with New Avengers back then, now does a yeoman’s job putting off the New Avengers’ blaze!

    The South East meltdown is too fresh to forget. The Igbo political elite, rogue or straight, cut that region’s nose to spite its face, on account of Nnamdi Kanu and his IPOB.  Beware of what you wish for!

    But back to assets and liabilities: pray in 2015, what assets did President Muhammadu Buhari inherit from President Goodluck Jonathan — the electoral fall guy for PDP’s 16 years of ruin, though ill-luck Jonathan bore his brunt with uncommon grace? 

    What assets, indeed — beyond PDP-era sleaze, which hit doomsday proportions under President Jonathan, and caused the party to kiss federal power goodbye?

    On the contrary, what assets did President Tinubu inherit from President Buhari?  

    In 2015, the 2nd Niger Bridge was not there.  Neither was the Lagos-Ibadan standard-gauge rail.  Or the 1835-metre Loko-Oweto bridges, that link the North to the South East and South-South, over the Benue River.  

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    The Lagos-Ibadan expressway, now fully reconstructed, was a virtual death trap.  From 2015 to 2023, Buhari’s Works Minister, Babatunde Fashola, drove work on the relay of roads and bridges to, first time ever, link Bonny Island, home of Nigeria’s Liquefied Natural Gas (NLNG), to the Rivers mainland; just as he did on the Apapa-Oshodi-Alapere carriage way in Lagos, now completed. 

    Besides, pre-2015, no one seriously pushed cultivating Nigerian rice — and other crops — until the eat-what-you-grow and grow-what-you-eat whoop of the Buhari era. 

    That agro-rebirth has divined admirable agro-processing zones that may yet hallmark the Tinubu era.  If well implemented, food security is well-neigh sure, via agro-allied re-industrialization, with jobs that come with it. 

    After, add Buhari-era investments in refineries, now rolling into the Tinubu era, and set to banish the import of refined petroleum by end of 2024 — all of that in eight years, rolling into nine.  Compare and contrast all of that to the 16 PDP years!

    Yes, the Buhari-era debts were the flip sides of these critical infrastructure.  But wouldn’t the assets, acquired by those debts, be pressed into service to better drive the economy, than defensively whine over the “serious liabilities” from Buhari?

    All too true: Buhari made his mistakes, not the least the catastrophic Naira redesign policy.  The Tinubu administration would make its too.  But the point is that serious attempts to right long-settled wrongs, started with Buhari in 2015, after the Obasanjo-led PDP had frittered near-all away, with a far richer till.

    Again, compare and contrast Buhari’s and Tinubu’s opening policies.  Buhari, though slow off the blocks, tried to rally local efforts, with support loans — grow-what-you-eat and eat-what-you-grow!  

    Tinubu, admirably bolting off the blocks, is pitching for global capital: venture capital from anywhere — even the Nigerian diaspora — to come set up shop in a huge, mutually beneficial market.  That’s the sum total of his explosive economic diplomacy.

    Different tactics and strategies.  But same urgent push to catch up with lost time.  

    That’s the thing though — with eternal droning and wailing, critical breakthroughs, even as clear as a sunny day, vanish with sweet doom and gloom.

    You see only the large swath of undone business.  But are blind, deaf and dumb to little problems solved, which could well be the pivot for scaling the so-called big ones.  Grateful hearts do the direct opposite.

    That the Jews spent 40 years, instead of 40 days, may well be scriptural history.  But it’s also piquant metaphor for a mind that sees nothing but gloom, even if the day dazzles with promise.  That’s the Israelites’ mindset.

    But hey, it’s politics! You can’t stop folks from always brooding and painting the worst-case scenarios, as Obasanjo, Atiku and allied opposition, will continue to do.

    But the Tinubu order should remind everyone of the ruins of PDP’s 16 years, than crumble under pressure, belittling the recalibration, from 2015, on which it must build, though tweaking policies, wherever necessary.  Any other way is shooting itself in the foot.

    In truth, Buhari handed Tinubu a better prospect than Jonathan handed Buhari in 2015.

  • Matters of the Hearts

    Space constraints in advertently affected the Ooni story in part 3 but here it is now along with a few others to conclude this series:

    The OONI OF IFE-Oba EnitanOgunwusi

    My brother Roy was at Ile-Ife along with his cousins to see the Ooni over some business prospects there.

    Oh, you met the Ooni of Ife, what’s he like, I asked my brother.

    He’s a very nice guy!

    Now my brother is a very nice guy himself, so I gave the Ooni a mental check mark.

    Begging the question – (so) what’s the problem on the home front?

    The Ooni got married as a single father but as soon as he was crowned, the end of that marriage was announced. He immediately married another, also a divorcee. Not one year later that too crashed in 2017; the wife relocating to America. Social media was awash with that story, all September.

    Well, one thing I have noticed is that oftentimes it is the nice, cool great guys who fall into the hands of awful women. The converse is also true, good women get hooked up with mean, vicious men. It is sad.

    Soul E & Queen Ure

    Soul E was arguably the most on-point singing sensation on the Island. His one hit, a self-titled debut stood him apart on the path to a great musical career.

    Then it happened-he got bitten by the love bug! Soul E (real name Emmanuel Okose), a pastor’s son had long told his father that by his own self-assessment, he would end up marrying an older woman.

    Then he fell for UreOkezie, 15years his senior. Their romance was hot, red hot and sizzling. They were the talk of the town couple.

    Soul E blamed the media squarely for his breakup with Ure. Everyone was horrified. 3years later he married another banker, Petula – he has vowed to keep the media out of his marriage this time. He is quite active on social media, commenting frequently on national issues. But I can’t help asking – how about the music?!

    Queen Ure –she left her job in the bank to follow her passion for music! Sadly, that bombed, but the business-savvy lady has a hair-making company.

    And then she ended the year 2017 with…a NEW HUSBAND, 8 years after Soul E!

    The media wrote that Urewed Pastor Silas Newman Briyork, in her second marriage. But I can tell you that’snot quite correct. This is her third just that the second only got up to the traditional marriage. I was physically present at Ure’s first marriage, in Chris Okotie’s church, to a good Christian friend of mine. Ure practically walked out on the marriage without even letting her husband know- he literally read of it in the tabloids. That marriage breakup was the first in his whole extended family. Devastated by it all, the brokenhearted guy relocated abroad and has remained there ever since.

    PSquare: Peter & Paul Okoye and Anita & Lola Omotayo. The news on Psquare is always about the split but here you will get to see the more positive side of the multiple award-winning duo. It’s all about their coupling.

    Twins Peter and Paul Okoye are model husbands and family men and in the music industry, superstar males devoted to family are rare. The Okoye twins truly stand out.

    I remember back then, every social outing I went to, I always saw Paul, Peter and… Lola Omotayo,everywhere together.

    Like Paul’s wife Anita says, they 2 started together when she was 18 and have been inseparable even after marriage and kids. I concur- based on the fact that I never saw Paul with ANYONE inLagos other than his brother and girlfriend; all throughAnita’s school days in Abuja.

    Paul has said that Anita is his first love. They dated for 11years before marrying in2014.

    About Peter, I share MunachiAbi’s annoyance over their romance rumor. Beauty queen, rapper and record label owner Muna was invited by Psquare to star in their Ifunanyavideo. The rumor mill caught fire about: Muna with Peter.

    Muna says she’s known Lola for years and knows how much Peter loves Lola; that she had nothing and would never do anything with Peter.Says Muna on the rumour: Its heartbreaking, very frustrating. I believe her.

    Peter and Lola’s love was strong all through their storms till they married. In the face of opposition, at 29 Peter got 35 year old Lola pregnant: they weathered the stiff opposition to their relationship till they finally got married in 2013.

    But while Anita says Paul’s humility was an attraction, I can tell you Peter, that I met is proud and arrogant. For now though, it is such a pity that the wives are being fingered in the breakup saga.

    Next week- the essential Princess Filesresumes, firing on all cylinders!

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  • Matters of the hearts (3)

    Deputy Governor Ekpenyong’s Daughter and the Oniru’s Son Engr. Chris Stephen Ekpenyong PhD, FNSE, CEO of Gestric Engineering Ikeja Lagos is an Engineer, businessman and Politician. He is said to have discovered the Ibom Deep Seaport. Popularly called Ukarakpa 1, Chris Ekpenyong was the first elected deputy Governor of Akwa Ibom State in this 4th republic. (‘99 – 2005). His wife, Dr. Grace is a visionary Entrepreneur whose products are of export standard. It is no wonder they were choosy about who they give their precious daughter’s hand to in marriage.

    The lucky young man was no less a gentleman than Yemi Oniru of the Oniru Royal Family of Lagos Island. Yemi, son of the Oniru of Iruland, HRM Oba Idowu Oniru was the perfect match for the precious daughter.

    Oba Oniru, also an Engineer is the father and architect of the modern Oniru estate. The Oniru family presides over Oniru Land which is a sprawling upmarket Island property.

    Engr. Ekpenyong sits over a business conglomerate spanning manufacturing, hospitality business, ICT and Engineering services. As a politician, many know him to be a former deputy Governor. But unknown to many, Ukarakpa’s legacy is in his grooming and raising of several neophytes in politics and governance, as potential office holders. This ever cheerful man is indeed a rare breed.

    As a governorship candidate in 2007, he was one strong contender who gave Chief Godswill Akpabio a tough chase. And so it was the wedding of the year when Dr Chris Ekpenyong’s only daughter got married to Yemi Oniru in Uyo; Gov. Akpabio was also in attendance. The families shifted Lagos society to Akwa Ibom on the day elegant Emem married young Yemi. Yemi’s mother, a former airline hostess was well supported by her friends who travelled to Akwa Ibom to witness the memorable cross-cultural nuptials.

    The OONI OF IFE-Oba Enitan Ogunwusi

    My brother Roy was at Ile-is also true, great women get hooked up with mean, vicious men. It is sad.

    REJOINDERS

    Darego and Ishaya, I wish them conjugal bliss; for the Imo Deputy Governor, I commend him for his courage to keep trying, if it’s not working in this third attempt, what stops him from moving to the next level?

    Busari Alade, Ilorin.

    The story on Bianca /Ikemba and on OUK made my Xmas truly entertaining. 080…409

    Stop Press 1: This matters of the heart series is truly prophetic!

    The very same day the second part went to press last week, Dr. Orji Kalu gave out his first daughter Neya, named in part 2, in marriage. The wedding of the year as dubbed saw Neya declare her love and be joined to her Buckingham University sweetheart, Lawrence Iyere, a businessman with interest in oil and gas. The wedding was attended by the who is who beginning with Nigeria’s Number 3 Citizen, Senator Bukola Saraki.

    Now OUK is one man the Americans would define as a hands-on father. When the Kalus lived in Ikoyi, OUK personally took his kids everywhere: school, shopping, birthday parties, weekend outing and everywhere kids like to go. When he became governor he used to travel from Abia to Lagos to the British International School Lekki for his children’s visiting days.

    Neya is one of those I call precious daughters (see the previous P.F: Big Man, carry a big padlock and lock up your precious daughters). OUK was both mother and father to his children and I trust that Mr. Iyere will take very good care of Neya just like her Daddy always did. And I’m wishing Neya and Lawrence happy married life!

    Stop Press 2: Its 3rd time lucky for GEORGE OPONG WEAH! Congratulations from me to the President of Liberia.

    SENATOR AND SENATOR MISSUS

    Yes, sure this refers to the Power Couple of Bola Ahmed Adekunle Tinubu and Oluremi Tinubu; I call them Asiwaju Jagaban and Madam New Era!

    Back in the day, Bola was a very promising suitor:- nice kind, worked in an oil company and was serious minded. Even that far back, he was interested in the welfare of others.

    Remi, fresh out of OAU, Ife once said that he was very serious about his job and was someone that was future-minded. She did not take too long to say I Do. And from a Mobil top shot, Senator Bola went on to become Lagos State Governor before his current party position. Senator Remi served as an exemplary First Lady before going to the Senate. Then this year on the 22nd of August it was a day of celebration as that couple marked 30 years in marriage! They gathered friends and family members to a quiet celebration in London, thanking God for the 30th happy years.

    Here’s Tinubu on his wife: she’s a good mother, loving wife and excellent listener. Here’s Oluremi on Tinubu: he is a lion in politics but a lamb in marriage!

    So on that note of Senatorial Style loving, I, Princess wish them more than 30 more happy years together; also I wish You dear reader a GREAT NEW YEAR’s DAY tomorrow, with all my Love!

     

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  • Faleti to forever remain in our hearts, says Ooni

    Faleti to forever remain in our hearts, says Ooni

    •Funeral rites begin Sept  5

    The Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi, Ojaja II, has said the late Yoruba poet and actor, Pa Adebayo Faleti, will forever remain in the hearts of the Yoruba race as a great ambassador of their culture and tradition.

    In a statement by his Director of Media and Public Affairs, Moses Olafare, the Ooni said the late multitalented communicator spent almost all his life serving the Yoruba race in various areas of cultural development.

    He said: “Chief Adebayo Faleti will certainly continue to live in the hearts of all the descendants of Oduduwa in appreciation of being a colossal blessing to our race as a great ambassador who gave all his God-given talents for the promotion and sustainability of Yoruba culture and traditions. He had been promoting the race right from the young age of 19 when he first established a Yoruba theatre group called ‘Oyo Operatic Society’.”

    Oba Ogunwusi admonished governments in Southwest to immortalise the late thespian with a befitting arts institutions to make him a reference point.

    The Ooni urged youths to always emulate the great playwright and famous actor in various areas of their careers, especially in the arts.

    He said: “You will find him relevant virtually in all segments of arts and culture. That is why the governments of the Southwest must immortalise him.

    “He was poet, he was a singer, he was a veteran actor, a writer, a broadcaster, a media manager, a teacher and rare promoter of Yoruba cultural values, which can be productively tapped by our youths, who must always find him worthy of emulation.”

    Also, the final burial arrangement for the popular Yoruba actor, author and broadcaster will begin on September 5.

    A statement by Ayoola Faleti, on behalf of the Faleti family said the funeral rites will begin on September 5 with a night of tributes and performances at International Conference Centre of the University of Ibadan (UI).

    The statement said the burial will hold on September 8 at Isokun Baptist Church in Oyo, followed by interment at Agboye Village in Oyo, via Ogbomoso.

    The statement reads: “…Tuesday, September 5: Night of Tribute and Performances at International Conference Centre, University of Ibadan, at 4 pm.

    “September 6: Commendation Service at Salem Baptist Church, Yemetu, Ibadan, at noon.

    “September 7: Lying-in-state at his home at Olororo, Ojoo, Ibadan, from 8 am to 9.30 am; Lying in State at BCOS- 10-11am,

    “Lying-in-state at the Nigerian Television Authority (NTA), Ibadan, at 11 a.m; at the House of Chiefs, at 11.30 a.m.

    “Body leaves for Oyo; Service-of-songs/Christian wake at First Baptist Church, Isokun, Oyo, at 4 p.m.

    “Artists’ Night: Plaza De Haruna Hotel, Oyo, at 8 p.m.

    “Sept 8: Final burial service at Isokun Baptist Church, Oyo; Interment follows at Agboye Village, Oyo via Ogbomoso.

    “Entertainment of guests at Labamba Hotel Hotel, Oyo.”

  • Ngozi: Living in many hearts

    Four years ago, I got a call from the Press Club, University of Lagos inviting me to be the special guest of honour at the inaugural Ngozi Agbo memorial lecture which they have instituted to keep the vision and ideals of the late Mrs. Ngozi Agbo who passed on five years ago – last Sunday – alive. Mr. Lekan Otufodunrin, the online editor of this newspaper was the chairman – he has remained a pillar ever since. I was really touched by the students’ gesture. The baton has been passed from one leadership to another – even to those who never met her in person, but cherish what she stood for.

    That gesture was like a prelude that Ngozi’s vision and dreams was far bigger than one had earlier thought. Like good ambassadors, the students’ that passed through her tutelage ensured others “know” her even though they never met her in the flesh. I met one of them – Abdulsalam Mahmud – during a trip to Abuja last week and the way he spoke about her moved me. Because he was young, I asked if he met her in person. He said no, but learnt about her through others.

    In a tribute on this page last year, one of her “children” Gilbert Alasa wrote this: “For the past four years, we have wailed and sobbed, kissing the back of trees. We have become philosophers, probing the very mystery of existence. We have questioned death and even wondered why it took Aunty so soon. We have sighed time and again and even tempted to question her Maker for taking her life while the weight of many Nigerian youths rested on her shoulders. We have looked to the sky for answers that never came. But all of these points to the words of George Elliot that: ‘our dead are never dead to us, until we have forgotten them.”

    This is a powerful tribute from a grateful “son.” A quote by John MacArthur that I love so much captures the essence of my writeup today: “To put it simply, leadership is influence. The ideal leader is someone whose life and character motivate people to follow. The kind of leadership derives its authority from the force of righteous example, and not merely the power of prestige, personality or position.”

    So, how influential was this lady in what she did for years? She was indeed influential as she succeeded in raising a generation of conscious youths who continue to excel in their chosen fields. I’d like to start with Wale Ajetunmobi. Wale holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Industrial Chemistry from University of Ilorin (UNILORIN). Ngozi groomed him right from his undergraduate days to be her assistant whenever he was on holidays. Wale – an industrial chemist turned award winning journalist – now plays the role of editor and beacon of light to other “campuslifers.” Last year, Wale was selected for the United States (U.S.) government’s International Visitors’ Leadership Program (IVLP) fellowship, which gave him the opportunity to cover the role of millennials in the last U.S. electioneering.

    In the same newspaper – The Nation – we have Hannah Ojo who is waxing stronger daily. Femi Asu, of the Punch won the 2015 CNN African Journalist of the year. Toluwanimi Eniola is also with the Punch, Jonah Ayodele Obajeun is with Procter & Gamble. Dayo Ibitoye leads the digital media team at Chevron’s PIND Foundation; Ngozi Emmanuel became the youngest female university lecturer in Nigeria, while Jumoke Awe is now an entrepreneur and equally champions the cause of the girl-child.

    Others championing the girl child cause are Comfort Onyanga Ogon (CLICE Foundation) and Jennifer Umeh (Hope for African Girls Initiative (HAGI), Jennifer is also the Editor in chief of “Who-is-Who” in Campuslife magazine.  Other campuslife products include Tosin Oluwalowo (Sunshine Herald), Abdulsalam Mahmud (Nigeria Now), Alasa Gilbert (Wakanow), Nurudeen Temilola Yusuf (who as Students’ Union president led the popular fee hike struggle in LASU), Wale Bakare, a Google Ambassador, Muhammed AbdulKareem Alabi (a lawyer and media/policy strategist), Gbenga Ojo (Publisher, Exceptional magazine); Habeeb Whyte ( lawyer and youth advocate), Chisom Ojukwu (PWC), Onyinye Nkwocha (Zenith Bank); Jeremiah Oke (Daily Trust), Akinola Debo, and others too numerous to mention.

    If anything, the late Ngozi successfully passed the baton to an emerging generation of leaders whose exploits would help redefine the future of this nation. Today, many of her “children,” are challenging status quo and rewriting history in various fields and endeavours not just in Nigeria, but the world at large.

    Her vision was anchored on building the total man and looking at the core values and attributes that defines him, attributes that always emphasises the highest level of moral and ethical regeneration and the molding of sound character which she instilled in her “children.” She never fails to remind them that they are always a shining light to their generation, and coming into contact with these students you will realise that the objective is already bearing fruit.

    Does that mean her preoccupation is only with undergraduates? Absolutely not, Ngozi was also a student of leadership. She often drive the point home to her undergraduates to steer clear of ethnic jingoists and divisive individuals who have the innate capacity of filling their minds with xenophobic ideologies that have the tendency of creating hatred, rancour and bitterness in the society.

    The now rested annual capacity building Workshops and Award ceremonies she undertakes every year with the support of Coca-Cola Nigeria and Nigerian Bottling Company was a pointer to the fact that apart from merely sending in articles for publication she ensures she had one-on-one contact with her undergraduates to be certain that the venture they are undertaking is far bigger than having their stories published in the newspapers.

    Another sterling quality of the vision is the molding of character. Ngozi was a disciplinarian; she didn’t mince words when it comes to discipline. Two instances will suffice here. Two weeks before her death she held her 9th Annual Campus Life workshop in Lagos where she invited more than 50 students from tertiary institutions across Nigeria. Some undergraduates who could not make it to the workshop called her and pleaded that she sends them their certificate of attendance.

    She took her time to patiently lecture them that it is morally wrong for her to send certificate to someone who did not attend the workshop; she equally told them that it will be against the tenet of what she teaches. Some later called back to apologise. What actually touched me was how she linked the whole incident to the vision of Campuslife. There are countless other encounters that I can’t mention for lack of space.

    So what are the lessons from her leadership? I will list five clear attributes that I identified. The first is deep insigt. Authentic leaders have insight which we sometimes refer to as vision, which usually has exclusive reference to the future. The Campuslife project clearly demonstrates that. While leaders must have vision, they need more, they need wisdom and discernment.

    Secondly, initiative plays a fundamental role. In this regard, authentic leaders go first. They don’t sit on the sidelines. They don’t ask others to do what they are unwilling to do themselves. Instead, they lead by example. Ngozi blazed the trail by introducing Campuslife which almost all the newspapers today have variants of.

    Thirdly, authentic leaders exert influence. Ngozi did. I found out that it is no coincidence that influence and influenza (the flu) come from the same root word. Real leaders are contagious. People “catch” what they have. People are drawn to their vision and their values. They are able to gather a following and move people to act. In essence, they create ripple effect wherever they go. Ngozi did.

    True leaders have impact and they make a difference. Ngozi impacted a generation of Nigerian students, she did not sit and bemoan “our falling standard of education,” she just did what she needed to do. The measure of leadership cannot be found in the leader; it is found in the impact the leader has on his or her followers.

    A true leader has integrity which in a sense is the foundation of authentic leadership. Those who knew her can attest to this sterling character in her. She abhors mediocrity and sloppiness, she dots her “i’s” and crosses her “t’s” always.

     

     

  • Hearts would continue to break

    What type of heart are you searching for ? A heart made of stone or a kind and loving heart? How do you discern the first from the latter? Interestingly, love looks like one of the cheapest commodities in town.  It comes in different garbs. No two experiences are ever the same. Like music, every heart swings to love and the most important thing is to be able to discern genuine love, when you see one.

    While some hearts travel from one village, city and continents to find true love, others simply find hearts that are magnetic and romantic in the neighbourhood.

    Are you still in doubt? Well, if you take a good look around, you are likely to find all kinds of heart telling their romantic stories via Love avenue. You can actually find love anywhere and everywhere. Interestingly, in places that you least expect to find one. The love race can be interesting, easy, exciting or tortuous.

    Does it have anything to do with those involved? Not really! Truth is that it makes our world go round and round. Feeling tipsy? Yes, that is what it does. When you get to these dizzying heights two things happen to you; the first is that your sweet heart, the one who has put you in this state comes to your rescue and you are taken to another realm in the love process. Conversely, when the heart you are getting tipsy for is a pretender to your emotional throne, then you have a grand slam, the type you see in wrestling. Knock out!

    A dear friend is in this state and she had a close shave recently. She almost lost her life but somehow the driver (heart) was able to manoeuvre the car. That saved her from having a broken arm, limbs and perhaps a battered face.

    Confused! So confused!  Over what? you wonder. A heart?  Is it really worth the stress? Yes, sometimes it is.  The crux of the matter sometimes is that this is part of the process. Hearts have been broken, hearts would continue to break and hearts would certainly be afraid of being broken from time to time.

    The best thing to do when you are stranded on the emotional tarmac is to take a break and wait for a better plane if you do not want to crash land.

    So how did our dear friend get to this state? you wonder. Her first emotional disaster was in the university; the Romeo that she banked her emotions on was only fooling around with her. By the time, she came to this realisation, things had fallen apart. The experience was not very good and she made up her mind to step aside from the emotional terrain for a while.

    It worked! The poor heart regained her emotional sanity and was able to offer emotional advise to friends who got bashed along the line. However, her friends and family would not allow her to be. They kept talking about her single state and it was at this point that Banji strolled into her life.

    To be or not to be? The temptation was just too much and before she knew it, she fell helplessly in love with another emotional criminal. Just when she thought she had found what she wanted, the table turned.

    “I kept on receiving all kinds of threats from other ladies warning me to leave their man alone. Somehow, he had captured my heart and I just didn’t want to let go. I trusted him so much in spite of all the negative information I was getting about him.”

    If she trusted him so much, he didn’t. “About two weeks ago, I fell ill and was hospitalised. As soon as I heard that I was going to be on admission, I sent him a message. Banji came five days after and when he came to see me, my neighbour, Patrick, also came visiting. As soon as he saw Patrick, he told me it was over. I tried to tell him that there was nothing between Patrick and I but he just walked out.”

    End of the road! The gambler had been looking for ways to end the relationship all this while but she refused to read in between the lines. What is the point hanging on to someone that does not trust you? What is the point hanging on to a heart that is preoccupied with emotional distractions? Truth is that you aren’t going to go far together and the more you try to make it work, the more pitfalls and disasters.

    Finding love again can be easy for some but not everybody gets it right. For the latter, love is fraught with pitfalls and mishaps.

    Luckily, it ended well because Patrick was genuinely in love with her. All the love that she was travelling many distance to find was in her neighbourhood. Now, she has to make up mind about the dude, the one who genuinely loves her. But somehow she is still wondering if she should give love a try again. Could this be the heart that she has been searching for all this while? Is this the heart that would bring back her emotional sanity?

  • Ekiti: Our hearts bleed, says E11

    A group of Ekiti Professionals on the platform of E-11 has described the political situation in Ekiti State as heart bleeding.

    In a statement at the weekend by its chairman Femi Ajiniran, the group said “though not    surprised about the recent happenings in Ekiti State, we are deeply concerned and worried about the future of the state, and the dire consequences upon the future generations.”

    It recalled that “the happenings and scenarios playing out in Ekiti were avoidable and could have been avoided, if our people had acted according to our warnings.

    “We warned seriously about the deceitful tendencies of Mr Fayose, and gave reasons why Ekiti people should not trust him with the sensitive position of a governor for the second time.

    “Less than two years into his tenure, our fears are now being confirmed, if not fully confirmed.  When e-11, came together as professionals from Ekiti in year 2003, our concerns and interest were mostly centred on the glory of Ekiti, and its people, their welfare, wellbeing, happiness and prosperity.

    “:Our desire then, was to see the advent of this glory, and become active participants in bringing it about and sustaining it. We were determined to bring our exceptionally gifted citizens on board, so that we can collectively liberate our people from shackles of oppression and poverty. It was the uncoordinated attitude of this same Governor Fayose during his first coming, as well as his reign of terror and lack of respect for elders and traditional authorities in Ekiti that prompted us to come together so that we could rescue Ekiti from his reign of terror and to make Ekiti a conducive place to work, to live and to invest.

    “We have had four executive governors elected into office since the advent of democratic rule in 1999; none has troubled the state and destroyed its honour, and the dignity of its people like the present governor. We cried out prior to the 2014 governorship election in the state, we wrote to PDP at both the national and state level, not to present a candidate that will reverse the progress and the gains we have made in the sixteen years of our democracy but for selfish reasons, the then ruling party at the national level imposed Mr Fayose on the State, and went ahead to rig the election in his favour.

    “We saw it coming, when a candidate in an election was promising the unemployed indigenes three square meals per day at the government house, if elected. Our people were deceived. There was no clear manifesto or road map of how to tackle the economic problems in the state. The antecedent of Mr. Fayose made him unfit for the office, his academic qualification has always been controversial and questionable. There was nothing about him that could justify his winning the election and occupying such an exalted office but for our weak democratic system as well as the federal power, money and the role of the Nigerian military that gave him victory.

    “Our attempts to use the Judiciary through an eligibility case we instituted against him was also frustrated. He sponsored several attacks on our members, our legal team and judges that handled the case inside the court room.

    “Since he assumed office, Mr Fayose has carried on with reckless abandon; he has done a lot of collateral damage to the image of our state and the dignity of our people. His conduct officially and unofficially has shown that he has neither capacity nor the wisdom to hold such an exalted office.

    “Mr Fayose has brought this exalted office down to his level, characterised by uncoordinated behaviour, shabby appearance and disgraceful public conducts. What is happening in Ekiti at the moment negate the dreams of our heroic progenitors, who saw early in life that education is the torch light through which we can trace the pathway to personal development and by extension community development, and therefore invested heavily in our education, so that we can develop ourselves and our communities. We are so sure that the spirit of our fathers cannot be happy seeing their dreams and the fame as well as the good image they bequeathed unto us being destroyed by an outcast, who has never been part of our good history.”

  • Forever in  their hearts

    Forever in their hearts

    The Princess Alexandra Auditorium of the University of Nigeria, Nsukka (UNN) in Enugu State was packed full when the Faculty of Arts held a memorial lecture for the literary icon, Prof Chinua Achebe. JAMES OJO (300-Level Mass Communication) and GIDEON ARINZE (200-Level Mass Communication) report.

    The gathering of eminent men was for the late Prof. Chinua Achebe, the literary icon whose works transcend the African milieu.

    It was Achebe’s memorial lecture tagged: In the service of the Arts: In the service of culture and nation, organised by the Faculty of Arts of the University of Nigeria, Nsukka (UNN).

    At the lecture were former Anambra State Governor Peter Obi, former  Supreme Court Justice C.M. Chukwuma-Eneh, Senator Chuka Utazi (Enugu North) and the Vice-Chancellor (VC), Prof Benjamin Ozumba, who led members of the staff and students to the occasion.

    In his keynote address, Obi eulogised the late literary giant, describing Achebe as one of the greatest Nigerians who ever lived. He observed that the nation did not have the habit of recognising people who make the country proud in their fields, arguing that the late Achebe was one of those who deserved national recognition.

    Obi said: “It is unfortunate that we live in a country where great men are not celebrated for their deeds. Instead, we celebrate mediocrity. Achebe lived a life worthy of emulating. He stood for justice, equity and epitomised the virtues of an elder statesman.”

    On challenges confronting the country, Obi said bad leadership remained the root cause of the problems Nigeria is facing.

    “Our country is where it is today because our successive leaders have failed to deliver on their mandate,” he said.

    He urged the Muhammadu Buhari-led Federal Government to address the fundamental issue slowing down the nation’s progress with utmost priority. Obi hailed the faculty for organising the memorial lecture, saying the event was an indication the Achebe did not die.

    Senator Utazi, who chaired the event, described Achebe as “a repository of knowledge”, “the titan of prose” and a “trajectory of Nigerian political history”. He said the yearly lecture would afford the young ones the platform to learn about the exploits of the late writer.

    The VC, represented by his deputy for Administration, Prof Charles Arinze, said the management had always supported the memorial lecture, thanking the faculty staff for keeping the event alive. He said the late Achebe was an “intellectually fulfilling hero.”

    Earlier, Dean, Faculty of Arts, Prof Pat Okpoko, said the event was historic given Achebe’s contributions to the growth of the faculty. He said the faculty would continue to commemorate the life and times of the late writer.

    He said: “The faculty has always been honouring the late Chinua Achebe for his giant strides and exemplary style of leadership. He deserved every honour attributed to him, because Achebe made great impact in the faculty.”

    Highlights of the event included the presentation of awards to guests. Chief Ugochukwu Orji received an Award of Excellence for entrepreneurship and building technology, while Dr Emmanuel Okonkwo received the award of excellence in corporate governance.

  • Ese, for whom our hearts bleed

    The Ese Oruru story, simple as it looks, is an intriguing piece told in dark episodic flashes. She was a 13-year-old living with her parents in a rustic community in Bayelsa State. Then she was abducted to Tofa, another rustic town in Kano, forcefullhy converted to Islam and ‘married’ by her abductor as a child bride. In a brazen move to legitimatise an illegality, her captors even sought the imprimatur of the Emir of Kano right in the presence of her mother who had come with a contingent of police to whisk the child back to Bayelsa with no success in spite of a belated Emir’s directive that she be returned. It’s the kind of tales you watch on Nollywood.

    In fact, Ese wouldn’t have burst into our consciousness if one of the nation’s leading newspapers, The PUNCH had not boldly taken up her case to confront an uncaring elitist society and a docile populace that sniggers at every heart-wrenching rendition as merely another sad dent in the Nigerian narrative. But for providence and the angst in the social media, Ese’s case could have vaporised into thin air like many other countless cases before hers. Why should the society care about the tale of a 13-year-old that was allegedly abducted from the innocence of her Bayelsa home by a supposed lover, to a culture and religion which pounced on her seeming precociousness to wrought an everlasting damage on this child’s psyche. Is it not the same society that lived in denial for months until the Chibok girls’ abduction saga became a faint appendix in our national discourse? We may shy away from it for now, but something tells me that the Ese that was returned to her parents last Wednesday was a different person. This prodigal that reluctantly came back to her doting parents is a rebel at heart– -a child suddenly thrown into complicated adult roles!

    Still, we need to ask the hard questions. This is not just about castigating a ‘wayward’ teenager for allegedly eloping with a much older lover through enticement, inducement or hypnotism. Unless we want to change the rules or succumb to primordial sentiments, the Ese Oruru story is a clear case of criminal breach of trust. As far as I know, a 13-year-old is not fully mature to take informed opinion on issues of religion, sex or even marriage. Therefore, when Inuwa Yunusa Dahiru, alias Yellow, relocated to Kano with the Oruru’s daughter without their consent, he has clearly crossed the bounds of decency. Without impugning whatever role Yunusa’s religious beliefs could have played in the whole saga, there is an urgent need to put an end to this crass madness in which certain persons criminally perpetuate evil and tarnish the beliefs of millions of others. Under our law, there could be no justification for the outright abuse of our collective humanity. Reading through Mrs. Oruru’s experience in the hands of her daughter’s abductors, it was clear that some powerful forces gleefully supported Yunusa’s criminal conduct. She could have been by a mob who gathered at the Emir’s palace, daring her determined resolve to free her daughter from Yunusa’s grip! Some men of the Kano Police Command also have questions to answer.

    What was stolen from Ese with that singular act is not only her innocence but also her humanity. She is a victim of a deadly abduction surreptitiously packaged as love. She is caught in the trap of decethe it set by Yunusa and his band of demented supporters who think that she was a willing ally in a fairy tale of elopement. They forget easily, as someone puts it, that Ese is just a “pliant and impressionable teen” hoodwinked by a fully-grown man who, in less than seven months, changed her faith and her name without the consent of her parents. Add that to the rumour that she was handed back to her parents as an expectant mother at 14 and you would grasp the extent of damage wrought on the Oruru clan. By the way, what part of our laws empowers a stranger to commit such atrocity and justify it with his religious beliefs? From the little she has said, we now know that Rita Ese Oruru did not know how she got to Kano. It was not surprising that a routine meal of bread and rice in those seven anguished months had transformed her into an old woman even at 14. She could remember that she drank mixtures occasionally but could not recollect for what purpose. She was just there, a baby who was a full time housewife in a strange land where her opinion never counted. That’s her sorry tale.

    When I say I weep for Ese, it is because I could imagine the trauma of a parent whose child has been callously deflowered, diminished and dehumanized. We all have children living under our roofs and we know the depth of the bond that pulls us together. We are a critical part of the whole, forever foraging for fate. Like all parents, Mr and Mrs Oruru had lofty dreams for the teenybopper growing under them. They may have been crammed up in that nondescript structure called home but they trudge on, clinging onto hope. That was why Ese and siblings were put in school. They know that, with education, their story would change. All it takes is perseverance and a commitment to the dream. In their wildest imagination, they would not have thought that 24-year-old Yunusa was waiting in the wings to change the trajectory of young Ese.

    When he spoke, Mr Charles Oruru sermonized about the Ese he knew. He waxed lyrical like many fathers would. Listen to him: “I don’t think a 13-year-old who is just in her early puberty stage will do something like that. A girl that does not know how to bathe well! I don’t believe she could be in love. I am very joyful that she has been released. I am waiting patiently to see her. I have missed her dancing. She is fond of dancing whenever she hears the sound of music”.

    You know what hurts? It’s not the noise in the marketplace where sentiments are being whipped up over religion, cultures and the despicable roles believed to have been played by some notable Nigerians in the prolonged, nay shameful saga. What riles one is the fact that we have become too placid as a people to understand the damage we violently inflict on the psyche of our youth, especially vulnerable children. We give impetus to paedophiles to go away with their despicable act by our inaction. Therefore, it was enough that Ese knew Yunusa and ‘voluntarily’ eloped with him to become a child bride in hijab? Where then is our sense of shame, angst and utter disgust? How many of us struggling to exculpate Yunusa would do same were our daughters to be the victims of the heinous crime? In fact, how many of us still maintain this conspiracy of silence even when we know one or two families in our areas who keep child brides as mementos of their carnal rascality?

    Mr. Oruru spoke about Ese’s love for music and her passion for dancing. That, to me, is a very moving testimonial. Unfortunately, he was merely reminiscing about a daughter he knew some seven months back, before her innocence was plucked before it could mature. From the little we have heard from Ese, that anticipated family bonding might not be a smooth ride. The transformation of the last seven months haunts her. This girl is now a woman with a different orientation, beliefs, religions and ideology. Ese may still dance to music. But would she dance to the sound of music she was used to, post-abduction? She might as well still be that girl learning how to bathe. However, is it not possible that she will inevitably be on the verge of learning how to bathe the baby in her womb? The girl is the mother of the child. She may even desire to continue her education. However, what kind of education would she crave for having gone through a life-changing experience of fate and faith? Ese may still understand the significance of family love and bond. But now that she has ‘tasted’ a different kind of bonding outside her comfort zone, which one would she cling to?

    Yes, Ese may be back to Bayelsa. But can we, in all honesty, say that her spirit is back to her roots? Where is justice for killers of dreams who walk off without punishment due to prisms that are, at best, laughable technicalities. Will Ese, who said Mathematics was her best subject in school before August 12 last year, ever grow out of the double personalities that now struggle for a space in her soul due to the callous act of a criminal underling? Only time will tell as we pray for the Orurus in this moment of joy mixed with heavy dose of sadness.