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  • Home of child labourers

    Home of child labourers

    There is enough to engage your interest in the nation’s capital. You will find the rich and powerful but so will not miss the segment that is always threatened by prohibitive rent. Now, add to that the army of child labourers, especially those who, instead of being in school, hawk all manner of wares on the streets and highways of the glitzy capital city.

    While some children are seen going to school, reading hard and having lesson teachers come home to teach them after school hours or during holidays, others can’t wait to leave classes and go out to sell one or two things in order to sustain their families.

    With the influx of people into the capital city and the high standard of living experienced by residents, it is very common to see children as young as six or seven carrying wares on their heads and walking about trying to sell their products, in either traffic or street corners.

    Just like you will find in any Northern part of the country where young Hausa girls carry little wares like vegetables, pepper, tomatoes, okra, etc and selling on behalf of mothers who are not allowed outside the house, it is now slowly becoming a trend in satellite towns of Abuja like Kubwa, Zuba and Nyanya, among others.

    Unfortunately, most of these children barely go to school and begin their trade very early and can be seen sometimes dosing or lounging under trees when the sun becomes unbearable.

    Some banana sellers at the satellite towns do not come out to sell alone, you find most of them and all of their children especially at night selling banana and groundnut especially at the phase 3 traffic in Kubwa, even on school days, young children are seen in traffic as late as 10pm trying to sell their bananas to motorists and passerbys, these children that have so mastered the trade that they can be seen convincing people to buy even under the rain or when the weather is extremely cold.

    With the coming of groundnuts and fresh corn season, most of the peddlers of these food items are mostly children. Visit the Kubwa market and you will see a lot of children selling corn, groundnut, vegetable, yam, cooked cassava flour or fufu, among others, all trying hard to sell and supplement their family earnings.

    Another popular trend is common on Fridays before prayers Children lead disabled relatives to places close to popular mosques to beg for alms and sometimes even fight over people trying to give them money, even though it seems like the almajiris are not in Abuja, a visit to most of the satellite towns will prove to a visitor that they are gradually taking up a stand in these parts of the city. Here young children with their famous plastic bowls go about singing to residents for money. Some of them hang around parks and overhead bridges. The overhead bridge at the famous Second Gate in Kubwa is popular for accommodating these children; they lounge around the steps and yell greetings at passersby. Most times, when a passerby ignores and refuse to give them money after their rendition of praises, some of them will begin insulting the innocent person in Hausa.

    With the level of hardship on the increase and the almajiris making less and less money, some of these children have found alternatives to begging, some hand around the Kubwa market, following people around and asking to carry heavy loads, some that sit around the overhead bridge carry heavy loads across the bridge for stipends while of almajiris in town have now taken up another trade, they hang around traffic in town, they can even be seen at the Central Area, here they wait patiently for the light to turn red and as soon as it does, you will find little boys, some as young as six or seven struggling to wash the windscreen of cars with their readymade detergent water and stick. They do not bother to ask permission from motorists but simply dive

    on the windscreen and begin washing, most angry motorist drive them away while some allow them to finish and hand them stipends.

    Mr Benard, a taxi driver who takes Nicon junction to Secretariat route insisted that the children are a great nausea and need to be flushed out of the city centre. “ they are so annoying honestly, they won’t even take permission but use that their dirty water to stain the windscreen that you

    have already washed, i don’t give them anything oh, i just yell at them anytime they come close to my car. What they do is very dangerous and they could easily be hit by a car but they never listen and security operatives simply watch them without chasing them away.”

    A resident of Kubwa, Mercy Kalu called parents that allow their children sell things in the traffic late at night careless. Her words, “how much is it that the children are going to make for their families that they are being kept out late selling bananas that people don’t even want, some

    parents can be very careless and you see them crying when something happens to the children. These children rush through traffic most times not even checking properly to be sure that the road is clear. The government of the Federal Capital Territory needs to do something about taking these children off the streets because it is child abuse.”

     

  • GAZA CONFLICT: UEFA ban Ejide’s club from ‘home’ games

    GAZA CONFLICT: UEFA ban Ejide’s club from ‘home’ games

    Super Eagles goalkeeper Austin Ejide and his teammates at Hapoel Beer Sheva, have been asked to play their home games in the Champions League qualifiers outside Israel.

    UEFA have decided that no games in its competitions can be played in Israel due to the current security situation in the country.

    UEFA’s emergency committee met on Wednesday, and determined that fixtures cannot be played in Israel for the time being.

    Israeli clubs involved in forthcoming fixtures have been requested to propose alternative venues outside of Israel’s territory for their home legs in the Champions League and Europa League, UEFA said.

    It means Maccabi Tel-Aviv will have to play their forthcoming Champions League qualifier against FC Santa Coloma of Andorra outside of Israel.

    Hapoel Beer Sheva, Hapoel Kiryat Shmona and Hapoel Tel-Aviv are playing in the qualifying stages of the Europa League.

    The committee also decided that because of ongoing political turmoil, Russian and Ukrainian teams will be prevented from facing each other until further notice.

    The decision means FC Zenit and Dnipro cannot be drawn together when the UEFA Champions League third qualifying round draw is made today.

  • Managing your home (4)

    Managing your home (4)

    Dear Reader, so far, we have been looking at how to successfully manage your home.  We have seen from the previous teachings man’s placement in the home. From the scriptures, we have evidence of some individuals who succeeded in effective management of their homes. Also, last week, we saw how effective the tool of prayer is in home management.

    This week, we will be looking at Hospitality in the home. You must be sold out to hospitality; it’s the path to God’s presence and honour in your marriage and home. Hospitality is the friendly and generous reception and entertainment of guests or strangers, especially in one’s own home. Being friendly is very important in marriage. Before a true marriage occurs, there will be some sort of friendship going on between the two parties. A friendly and open home is commended by God and receives honour and promotion from both God and men.

    Genuine and sincere hospitality brings with it certain honours; though it may take a great deal of sacrifice, it has great rewards, also. Rebecca is an example of one whose hospitality led to marriage. When Abraham’s servant came to Mesopotamia to take a wife for Isaac, he stopped and looked up and said a prayer to God: …Let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, let down thy pitcher, I pray thee that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac… (Genesis 24:14).

    The servant, knowing the kind of family to which Isaac belonged (a family addicted to hospitality), prayed for a kind and hospitable wife for Isaac. He knew that any woman who would offer water to a stranger and his camels, could take special care of Isaac. The criteria were not possessions, height, beauty or education, just a warm, loving heart.

    It is a known fact that where the angels of God are found, signifies God’s presence. It is an honour to have angels as your guest, especially since we know that they never come and leave without a good report.  God’s Word says:  Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares (Hebrews 13:2.).

    Abraham is an example of someone who entertained angels. Together with his wife, they both made the visitors feel welcome, relaxed and refreshed. Abraham and Sarah, by their hospitality, received a definite time as to when their son would be born (Genesis 18:9-10). They were to enjoy the honour of parenting by that singular act of hospitality.

    Concerning this, the scripture says: Distributing to the necessity of saints: given to hospitality (Romans 12:13). When you are given to hospitality, you distribute to the necessity of the saints. As a distributor of blessings, you will never lack blessings in your life and home, too. At the same time, you never lose your reward!

    Some people are easily irritated. They are unapproachable and explode in anger, too easily. Have you ever noticed that such people are usually distanced from others, even in the midst of play groups? Rather than being one of such, be accommodative. Let your home be conducive for people to stay and get blessed. By so doing, Sarah and Abraham entertained angels unawares, and this set pace for their long-awaited miracle.

    Also, the Shunamite woman was referred to as “a great woman” (2 kings 4:8-10). What brought about that label? HOSPITALITY! Your greatness in life has to do with your level of hospitality. If you are not hospitable, your greatness may remain a dream that may never be realized.

    This woman always constrained Elisha, the man of God, to eat and tarry in her home. She made it a comfortable place for Elisha, the minister. No wonder, her prayer was heard and she bore a son after many years of barrenness, according to the word of the prophet (verses10 17). Not only that, her dead son was also raised back to life later on. Hospitality will make you more fruitful than you are right now. Don’t always eat all your food and drink all your water alone, sharing with nobody!  Try to be hospitable to others.

    You need the grace of God upon your life to be hospitable. This grace is the privilege of those born again. You become born again by confessing your sins and accepting Jesus as your Lord and Saviour.  If you are set for it, please say this prayer:  Dear Lord Jesus, I come to You today. I am a sinner. I believe You died and rose on the third day. Forgive me of my sins.  Cleanse me with Your Precious Blood. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour.  Now, I know I am a child of God.

    Congratulations! You are now born again! Till I come your way next time, please call or write, and share your testimonies with me through: Email: contact@faithoyedepo.org and Tel. No: 07026385437, 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all the Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building a Successful Family, The Effective Minister’s Wife, and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • Time for home truth

    Time for home truth

    Today’s column is informed by the startling result of the governorship election held last Saturday in Ekiti State. Many are still in shock that the All Progressives Congress (APC) candidate and current governor, Dr Kayode Fayemi lost woefully to Mr Ayodele Fayose of the People’s Democratic Party (PDP). A frank dissection of that defeat calls for some home truth. After all, it was Mahatma Gandhi that once said: “Truth never damages a cause that is just.” Permit me to add that it strengthens it.

    The cause of progressivism being pursued, especially in the Southwest by the APC, needs critical re-appraisal if the party plans to sustain its power-grip and continue to make meaningful impacts in the political firmament of this important region. The Ekiti electoral defeat portends perilous consequences for progressive politics.

    Voters in Ekiti, in that free and fair election, have demonstrated that indeed, sovereignty truly belongs to the people and that the people’s power held in trust by the elected officers of any polity can be withdrawn by them during periodic elections. Hitherto, the public had held tenaciously to the belief that the political party in power will always win any election because of what is commonly referred to in this part of the world as ‘incumbency factor.’ This power of incumbency is euphemism for executive tyranny in all parts of the country – without an exception. It is not only President Goodluck Jonathan that is ruling the country with fistic grip; other states’ governors have been ruling their jurisdictions as if such states were annexes of their private homes.

    This attitude is responsible for why most of the governors have refused to conduct local government elections despite the fact that the lowest rung of government must constitutionally be governed by democratically elected people. Even when such council elections were conducted by the State Independent Electoral Commission (SIEC), the party in power clears all the seats. The debacle: Most governors flagrantly disobey the constitution they swore to uphold, while in the other case, some governors and their parties organised elections that do not truly reflect the wishes of the people. This development has been the sad tale in both the PDP and APC-controlled states among others.

    Unknown to most of these governors, not conducting the constitutionally required local government election will actually deny them the opportunity of knowing the genuine feelings of the people for their government. After all, most governors usually surround themselves with bootlickers who may never be inclined to letting them know the truth until after their individual tenure. This confirms Oscar Wilde’s affirmation: “Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.” This, in the column’s view, was partly responsible for Governor Fayemi’s ouster from power through the ballot box last week. Most of our governors are so power-drunk that they are usually not ready to test their popularity through such elections. Yet, Socrates, the inimitable philosopher, once bemoaned that an ‘unexamined life is not worth living.’

    The consequence of executive aloofness from the genuine needs of the people was seen in the way Fayemi was massively voted out of power by the voters in that state. As a digression, permit me to say that after June 12, 1993 Presidential election, that Ekiti State election was another unique election that gave hope that the country can, if the right thing is done in the right direction, get it right electorally by the INEC. The election was free and fair – and even transparent. Fayemi merely did the honourable thing by congratulating Fayose, the winner of that election.

    Doing anything contrary under the circumstance would have cast him as an intolerant democrat. What could have further gone wrong in that state? Afterall, Fayemi has reportedly transformed the state to the admiration of all. He builds roads, drainage channels and is turning the state’s environment into admirable sight for all to see. Not much is known by this column about his onslaughts in the realm of agriculture, transportation, education and health to mention but few. But yours sincerely could glean that his relationship with party stalwarts and other important stakeholders is equally poor.

    However, because of the derelict state of roads in Nigeria generally, it is easier for any governor that embarks on road projects to be easily celebrated by the people. Under the current dispensation, the APC governors have smartly exploited this lacuna in road infrastructure to gain aplomb. But this is not enough developmental efforts in a country where there is huge graduate unemployment, widespread insecurity, insufficient food production capacity and poor transportation system in place. So, in the midst of these largely un-tackled challenges, it will be wrong for any governor or even president to think that tarring and expansion of roads alone will guarantee re-election. The people in power need to ask themselves how affordable the services being provided by their governments are to the people that in most cases are poverty-stricken and deprived. It is clear that university tuition is beyond the reach of poor children of struggling civil servants and largely peasants living in virtually all states.

    The peanuts called salaries and other allowances are mostly paid in arrears by most state governments while elected/appointed people in government live in opulence. How far has the huge construction going on in these states been of benefit to locals? Have such projects benefited members/foot soldiers of the party that worked tirelessly for the election of these governors? Are these governors implementing the manifesto of their party or just following whatever interest them as projects? Do these APC governors give majority of their party loyalists the desired sense of belonging?

    While this column agrees that these challenges contributed largely to why Fayemi lost in his re-election bid, it equally wants to state that the day he refused to give Fayose the then ACN party’s senatorial ticket was the day the foundation of his political loss was laid. Fayose is reportedly popular among the grassroots people, while Fayemi is an intellectual elite that is far alienated from his people and this further compounded by the fact that he is not schooled in political empiricism.

    Fayemi’s failure in this regard calls to question the supremacy of political party that was so ingrained in western region’s political culture since the days of late Papa Obafemi Awolowo. Does it mean the leadership of APC across Yoruba land cannot call him to order before things degenerated to what we witnessed last weekend? Now that the man has lost, the problem becomes not only his personal affairs but that of the entire party with the fate of diminishing progressive politics in the region hanging in the air.

    The election in Ekiti State has come and gone, but the nostalgic feelings of the thrills and trauma will for a long time remain worthy reference point. The APC leadership must come together to save the party from looming danger. Members of the leadership of the party, in most states, are enmeshed in crisis of ego with the governors. Something urgent must be done since an admission of this fact will save the national leadership from incurring in future the kind of electoral ridicule witnessed in Ekiti. This column believes that only deep-rooted honest introspection and an embrace of truth can rescue APC. The haughty disposition of governors can only last a short while. And the reason is simple: Historical antecedents have shown that such always fall in the end like a pack of cards. Simply put, the APC needs more of home truths to sustain power in states that it presently controls.

  • Abia in Diaspora urged to respond to challenges at home

    Abia in Diaspora urged to respond to challenges at home

    The Rector, Abia State Polytechnic, Aba, Sir Allwell Onukaogu has urged indigenous people of Abia State resident in the United States of America and other countries to join forces design a blueprint that will address what he called “the dangers at home”.
    Onukaogu delivered a lecture at the 2014 Biennial Convention of Ohuhu Progressive Union in Houston, United States of America, noting that youth restiveness, thuggish behaviour, armed robbery, religious extremism and other social vices prevalent among youths in the country could be drastically minimised only if indigenous Abia people and other Igbo citizens would come home and invest meaningfully.

    “You people should come home and invest to ensure the rapid transformation and development of your fatherland. Your investment at home could serve as a tool to take thousands of jobless youths off the streets, thereby helping in not only to solve some of the current security and social challenges facing the country, but also bringing to an end the exodus of our youths from Nigeria to other countries in the erroneous belief that they are seeking for greener pastures.”
    He said Abia is now a safe haven for business and other economic activities, adding, “I know Ohuhu people are great academicians and bureaucrats. Very few are gifted in business endeavors that can compare with what the people of Nnewi can do, but it is no excuse. We can attract genuine foreign investors into our land. You can join forces within yourselves and cooperate with others to attract industries to our land. Our home is peaceful; more peaceful and safer than Onitsha commercial areas where expatriates are being convinced to invest. You are more knowledgeable than those of us at home in international Politics and Economics. You must use these meetings of yours to fashion out economic plans and strategies to redress the dangers at home by establishing industries that will endure,” the guest speaker noted.

    Lamenting on the economic loss and the damage the ugly trend of “medical tourism” has done to Nigeria’s economy and health sector, Onukaogu in his paper called for the establishment of state the art hospitals across the country to carter for any medical case(s) that would warrant Nigerians seeking for medical assistance abroad as he noted that such medical cases and stress inherent with such medical trip can be reduced and treated in the country with less cost if facilities for treating such ailment could be accessed in Nigeria.
    “You can invest in hospitals like the Indians. Our people who travel to India stay in hotels, sometimes for over a month and pay bills to obtain quality health care. They can be willing to pay far less if such facilities are to be established at home. I know we have great medical doctors with the zeal to serve, but who are unduly manacled and encumbered by lack of state of the art facilities.
    “You don’t need to be a medical doctor before you can setup a good hospital. What you need is to mobilize funds, equip the hospital with state of the art facilities with well trained medical staff. “I believe that with time such hospital will grow not just like the famous Indian Hospital, but will go a long way to save Nigerians the billions of money they spend annually on visa and other expenses going abroad for medical treatment. I have continually read about, sometimes even a group of our Nigerian brothers and sisters from the Diaspora come home with a team of doctors to perform surgeries for our people. I have been in receipt of containers of books shipped from abroad by Nigerians, including you people as contribution towards the development of institutions. All of these are good; very good and must be commended, but you could do more,” Onukaogu stated
    Abia Poly rector who is also a Knight and lay President Methodist Church Nigeria, Umuahia East Diocese further called on Ndi-Igbo in Diaspora to imbibe the spirit of Jewish-Americans noted that such relationship with their host country and community could attract development in Igbo land and foster a strong tie between Nigeria and Americans as is the case between Israel and America today.

    In his remarks the President Ohuhu Development Union International, Mr. Ginikanwa Okedi thanked the Sir Onukaogu for honouring their invitation and for inspiring the audience with his lecture, assuring him that Ndi-Igbo and Ohuhu indigenes in Diaspora would work assiduously to improve and better the lots of their people at home.
    Okedi while assuring that they would work to create and maintain good relation with their host country, expressed their willingness to invest in their home state (Abia) and to key into the overall transformation agenda of the Abia State government led by Sir Theodore Ahamefule Orji.

  • Managing your home (2)

    Managing your home (2)

    Dear Reader,  last week, we learnt man’s placement in the home. God designed marriage and family life to be successful. Well, you may say that every family has its own problems, but that is not necessarily the truth. From searching the scriptures, I have evidence to back up my claims that it is quite possible to have a hitch-free family here on earth. It is possible!

    This week, we shall be looking at those scriptural evidences briefly.

    After the fall of man, NOAH’s family was the first to distinguish itself in an evil generation. He was such a successful married man that God singled him and all the members of his family out, in the midst of destruction. God’s Word says:  And the Lord said unto Noah, Come thou and all thy house into the ark; for thee have I seen righteous before me in this generation (Genesis 7:1).

    It is amazing that a man can succeed in family life, even before the dispensation of grace. That is to say that even before the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ and the era of grace, a man had won God’s favour by his commitment to his family. God’s Word says: But Noah found grace in the eyes of the Lord (Genesis 6:8).

    If Noah could make it, then you and I have no excuse to fail in our families. There is no reason for pressure, tension, or frustration because Jesus has already paid the price. He was our perfect substitute. He has been wounded, bruised, beaten, humiliated, spat on, etc, so that we may enjoy glory and honour in our homes. That is why no man has any excuse for beating his wife. None whatsoever! In as much as you cannot beat yourself for inefficiency in any circumstance.

    ABRAHAM, the father of Nations, was a very successful married man. In those days when the law had not been delivered, Abraham was still faithful to his barren wife. Even before he became the friend of God, he had a successful marriage. His contact with God did not reduce his commitment to his family, rather it enhanced it.

    He was a man God could count on to command his family to follow after Him.  God’s Words says: For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the Lord, to do justice and judgement; that the Lord may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him (Genesis 18:19).

    If truly we are children of Abraham, it should be for us ‘like father, like son’. That’s why Isaiah 51:2 says: Look unto Abraham your father, and unto Sarah that bare you: for I called him alone, and blessed him, and increased him.

    It is time to resemble our father, Abraham, not only in a life of faith but faithfulness to build our families following God’s blueprint. If Abraham did not have problems in his family, you should not import problems to your family. It is about time you walked in the footsteps of your father. If he made it, so will you!

    SIMON PETER, one of the foremost apostles and right-hand man to Jesus, during his earthly walk, was a successful married man.  God’s Word says: Have not power to lead about a sister, a wife, as well as other apostles, and as the brethren of the Lord, and Cephas? (1 Corinthians 9:5).

    It is possible to doubt whether Peter was married or not, because there is no record of a day his wife came to the crusade ground to challenge him for not fulfilling his marital obligations! I believe that one major reason he could fulfil his course with joy was because he had peace at home. His marriage was not an obstacle to his ministry or vice versa.

    If Peter could make it in spite of the tight schedule Jesus ran, we have no reason to fail. God’s Word says: And when Jesus was come into Peter’s house, he saw his wife’s mother laid, and sick of a fever. And he touched her hand, and the fever left her: and she arose, and ministered unto them (Matthew 8:14-15).

    These are proofs that success in family life is a reality, and only fools doubt proofs. So, we have a responsibility to apply ourselves to the principles of God’s Word, which form the blueprint for marital success. Marital success shall be your portion in Jesus’ name!

    If you are not born again, you cannot be entitled to the peaceful married life that God has reserved for His children. You become born again by confessing your sins and accepting Jesus as your Saviour and Lord. If you desire to be born again, say this simple prayer in faith: Dear Lord Jesus, I come to You today. I am a sinner. I believe You died and rose on the third day. Forgive me of my sins.  Cleanse me with Your Precious Blood. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour.  Now, I know I am a child of God.

     

    Congratulations! You are now born again! Till I come your way next time, please call or write, and share your testimonies with me through: Email: contact@faithoyedepo.org and Tel. No: 07026385437, 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all the Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building a Successful Family, The Effective Minister’s Wife, and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • Managing your home (1)

    Managing your home (1)

    Dear Reader, it is with great joy that I welcome you to this life-transforming and inspiring teaching via the Word of God.  It is my prayer that at the end of this teaching, your life and family shall be transformed to the glory of God in Jesus’ name! This month, I will be sharing with you on Managing Your Home.

    God made the human family an unbeatable team and established them as gods on the earth; but because Adam failed in family management, he lost control and was sent out of the Garden of Eden (Genesis 3:23). May you not be sent out of your place of destiny, in Jesus’ name. This is why this week, I will be sharing on Man’s Placement in the Home.

    Your placement in the kingdom of God, as a man, is determined by how well you rule your home.  If you cannot rule your house well, God will not allow you to rule His church, because He knows that you will not succeed at it. See what the Bible says about those to take up responsibilities in the Church. One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity; (for if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God? (I Timothy 3:4-5). Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well (I Timothy 3:12).

    If you can’t rule your house well, there is a limit to how far you can go in the things of God.  This same truth is repeated twice in the same chapter, showing its importance.  How well do you rule your home?

    To rule the home well, the man must be a loving leader, not a taskmaster.  Love is a necessary ingredient that a man must possess for effective leadership.  Christ rules the Church with the rod of love.  For the man to succeed, he must rule his home with the same rod. In fact, it is a scriptural commandment for the man to love his wife, as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25).

    Remember, Christ loves the Church and gave Himself for us, even while we were yet sinners.  Did I hear you say, “But I am not Jesus Christ?” God’s Word says: I tell you the truth, anyone who believes in me will do the same works I have done, and even greater works… (John 14:12, NLT). So, if you are a follower of Christ and believes in His ministry, then you must also love your wife sacrificially, unconditionally and limitlessly.

    Don’t forget, love is not love until it is expressed. Therefore, to sincerely show that you love your wife, express it to her in words and in deed. When you demonstrate your love to your wife, you will be able to govern your home with ease.

    Clearly, if you must not suffer the kind of dethronement Adam suffered, you must have your home directly under your control. If your family fails, it is your fault and you will be held responsible by God. Even though God knew that it was the devil that deceived Adam and Eve, and gave them the fruit, which Eve ate before Adam, yet it was Adam that God called upon (Genesis 3:9).  Why?  Because God had already committed the management of the home into his hand.  The management of your home shall not fail, in Jesus’ name!

    God’s Word says: For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning… (Romans 15:4).  That is, in order not to make the kind of mistake Adam made, so that you do not suffer what he suffered, ensure that there is no communication breakdown between you and every members of your family.

    However, it is not enough to rejoice at the great authority that God has vested in you, as the head of the home, but to live up to the responsibilities attached to it. This is because some men boast to be the head of the family, without being responsible for the success of anything in the home. Anything happening to the body is felt most by the head.

    Have you ever thought about this: you as a man occupy such a strategic position that can influence and determine what the lives of other family members will be like? Therefore, live up to expectation, so that Christ can be magnified, not only in your life, but in your home as well.  Don’t let God regret making you the head of the home!

    The grace of God is the utmost requirement to effectively manage your home. This grace is only available to you when you surrender your life to Christ. This is done by confessing your sins and accepting Jesus as your Saviour and Lord. If you are ready for this new birth experience, please say this prayer: Dear Lord Jesus, I come to You today. I am a sinner. I believe You died and rose on the third day. Forgive me of my sins.  Cleanse me with Your Precious Blood. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour.  Now, I know I am a child of God.

     

    Congratulations! You are now born again! Till I come your way next time, please call or write, and share your testimonies with me through: Email: contact@faithoyedepo.org and Tel. No: 07026385437, 08141320204.

     

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all the Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building a Successful Family, The Effective Minister’s Wife, and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • When a General returned home

    When a General returned home

    At home, honour came from the very top. As the immediate past Chief of Army Staff, Gen Azubike Onyeabor Ihejirika, was retired from service, the government of his home state, Abia, organised a befitting reception for their illustrious kinsman.

    It was on a Friday, a day many will not forget soon. The general served 39 years in the Nigerian Army.

    The people of Abia State rolled out the drums to celebrate the man they called the ”people’s general” for meritorious service to his fatherland and also for bringing honour to his home state.

    It was a day the retired army general saw his savoured the company of friends and people from his home town Isuikwuato who came out in their numbers to give him a resounding reception. He said that he never left them when the state was nearly overtaken by violent crimes and kidnapping.

    The people said that the army general never hesitated to obey the direct order from the presidency to send troops to the state when the state governor, Chief Theodore begged Mr President to come to the aid of the state in order to contain the violent crimes raging in the state. Suddenly, the long abandoned army barracks at Ohafia in Arochukwu Local Government Area of the state was reopened.

    The reception held for the retired general culminated in his being given a chieftaincy title of Dike Abia (the great warrior of Abia) by the council of traditional rulers led by its chairman, Eze Eberechi Dick.

    Most of the speakers who spoke at the ceremony extolled the former chief of army staff, describing him as a man of history, being the first man of Igbo extraction to head the Nigerian Army after the civil war and retired honourably after a meritorious service in addition to gathering several awards and honours while in service.

    Governor Orji said that Gen Ihejirika deserved to be honoured having proved himself as a patriotic Nigerian, “a man of integrity, a well disciplined soldier, change agent, a man who when he was in charge of the army never thought of overthrowing the government he was mandated to protect and served the nation with the highest commitment, honour and integrity”.

    Orji commended President Goodluck Jonathan for appointing Gen. Ihejirika as COAS saying that his appointment symbolised the end of marginalisation of Ndigbo since the end of the civil war. The governor added that while he was in office that he performed his duties creditably well to the envy and satisfaction of all.

    The governor said, “He has broken the jinx. I don’t know when next a COAS would emerge from Abia”. He noted with deep appreciation the contribution of the former COAS in restoring peace to Abia by deploying troops to chase out kidnappers and other criminal elements from the state, adding that he also did well in tackling security challenges in other parts of the country.

    Responding after receiving the chieftaincy title, Gen Ihejirika expressed surprise at the honour given to him, adding that by the gesture, Governor Orji has set an indelible example which other governors should emulate by honouring deserving people. He dedicated his chieftaincy title to his field commanders and soldiers who showed loyalty in the midst of daunting security challenges.

    The retired general acknowledged the role that the army played in restoring peace to Abia, describing it as one of his outstanding achievements.

    According to him, it was through the synergy between Abia state government and the army that security was restored to Abia, adding that governments at every level must always work with security agencies to maintain peace at all levels in any part of the country.

    Ihejirika’s successor, Lt. Gen Kenneth Tobiah Minimah, who was represented by the General Officer Commanding (GOC) 82 Division Enugu, Major General Shehu Yusuf, said that the army was proud of the former COAS for contributing to national security in many parts of the country.

  • ‘We should be in school, not home’

    ‘We should be in school, not home’

    Last Monday, students of the Federal Polytechnic in Offa (OFFA POLY), Kwara State disrupted traffic on the Offa-Erin Ile Expressway, protesting the continued closure of their institution because of the Academic Staff Union of Polytechnics (ASUP) strike. AFEEZ ADEYEMO and JENNIFER UMEH (ND II Mass Communication) report.

    •Students protest teachers’ strike

    When will polytechnics re-open? This was the question students of the Federal Polytechnic in Offa (Offa Poly), Kwara State have sought an answer to.

    Aggrieved by the school’s continued closure and disruption of their studies, the students thronged the campus last Monday to protest what they called “government insensitivity” their plight.

    They said suspension of their academic pursuit was making their life meaningless, threatening to disrupt activities in government offices and ministries if the Academic Staff Union of Polytechnics (ASUP) strike is not called off. They described ASUP members as “selfish unionists”.

    Travellers were stranded for hours, as the placards-carrying demonstrators disrupted traffic on the Offa-Erin Ile Expressway.

    Some of the inscriptions on their placards read: “Students are not smiling”, “Resumption is a must”, “We are forgetting what we are being taught” and “We want to be on campus, not home” among others.

    After a four-month strike, ASUP declared indefinite action last October, following the government’s alleged failure to implement the 2009 agreement signed by both parties. The polytechnic teachers are demanding adequate funding of technological education, improved infrastructure and equality of polytechnics’ Higher National Diploma and universities’ Bachelor’s degree, among others.

    The protesters, who converged on the institution’s main gate, told the management to opt out of the strike and re-open the campus. They said they could not afford to remain idle because of the consequence to their future.

    The presence of riot policemen and officers of the Nigerian Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC) did not stop the students from making their grievances known to passersby. They barricaded the school entrance, preventing workers from entering.

    Addressing the protesters, Festus Adedeji, president of the Students’ Union Government (SUG), said the striking lecturers and the government were using the strike to torture students physically and psychologically.

    He said all efforts by the National Association of Polytechnic Students (NAPS) to bring both sides to the negotiating table failed because none agreed to discuss until there is “a level of compromise”.

    Quoting the Supervising Minister of Education, Nyesom Wike, who said the government had met 80 per cent of the ASUP demands, Festus said the Prof Chibuzor Asomugha-led ASUP was inconsiderate by saying it would not return to work until the union’s demands were met.

    Festus said the students’ union had liaised with the management and the local chapter of ASUP to back out of the action in students’ interest, but the request was not granted.

     

    He said: “Several efforts have been made to make the school resume, but it appears our future is nothing to be compared with the personal interest of members of management and our lecturers. We have tried to cooperate with both local ASUP and management to find a way to adopt a system that would make students return to campus as was done at the Federal Polytechnic in Ilaro (ILARO POLY) and the Federal Polytechnic in Ado-Ekiti (ADO POLY), but all our pleas and ideas were turned down.

    “Our personality and rights have been totally infringed on. It appears polytechnics’ students are no more in existence. This is why we decided to gather today in order to let the world know the difficulties we have been encountering since ASUP declared strike. We can no longer tolerate closure of our school after a bloody communal crisis between Offa and Erin-Ile, which sent us on one month compulsory vacation, the ASUP is compounding our woes with its indefinite strike.”

    If the school is not re-opened immediately, the protesters said they would consider all means to make things unbearable for management and the government. Festus urged the students to be peaceful in their conduct, saying their agitation would be fruitful.

    As the demonstration was becoming intense, the Deputy Rector (Academics), Mr B.O. Saliu and Dean of Students’ Affairs (DSA) Mr Leonard Adeyemi moved to the scene to plead with the students, urging them to remain calm and pray for timely resolution of the disagreement.

    The duo assured the protesters that the national executive of the ASUP was working to end the strike.

    Some of the aggrieved students, who spoke with our correspondents, said they could no longer remain idle at home, describing the ASUP strike as “abnormal situation”, which must be tackled with “abnormal approach”.

    Olaitan Kasali, an ND 1 Science Laboratory Technology student, said students had been pushed to the wall, a situation that resulted to the demonstration. “We have been looking forward to this type of action since the commencement of strike. I am tired of being idle at home, while my peers in other schools are studying. Why should we be made to suffer for other people’s interest? There has to be an end to the strike now, or let my school back out of it.”

    Students are not happy with the prolonged strike, Hammed Adegbenle, an ND II Business Administration student said, adding that the obstruction of traffic was an indication that students were not happy with their lecturers’ action.

    Tolulope Ojo, an HND II Accountancy student, said landlords were exploiting the situation to extort money from students. He said: “My landlord has been disturbing him to pay the rent, but where will I get the money from? My parents have stopped giving me money because my mates are now serving. Where am I today?” he queried.

    Ahmed Olayinka, an ND II student of Electrical and Electronics Engineering, said the students’ union should dialogue with the management and local chapter of ASUP so as not to complicate matters. He said: “I am not totally in tune with the idea of protest because no war is won in the battle field. Dialogue has always been a powerful weapon. We have to know that education is in a critical state in Nigeria, but we should not compound the situation with baseless protest. We have to constructively engage the lecturers and the government to resolve the crisis.”

    At the time of this report, CAMPUSLIFE gathered that the local ASUP was meeting on whether to return to work or not. Our correspondents learnt that the lecturers’ union agreed to convene a congress, after which a resumption date may be announced.

     

     

  • Group donates to orphanage home

    As part of its corporate social responsibility, the Nigerian Aviation Handling Company (NAHCO) has donated some gift items to the inmates of Abuja Orphanage Home.

    The items, which were handed over to the management of the home by the Chairman, Board of Directors of NAHCO, Alhaji Suleiman Yahyah, were 20 bags of rice, 10 bags of sugar, five cartons of milk and several infants’ formula.

    Others were packs of diapers, rolls of children’s lotion, one live cow and N250, 000 cash.

    Presenting the items, Alhaji Yahyah, who said the company would find a way of going into a strategic partnership with the orphanage home with a view to ensuring continued support, revealed that the company decided to reach out to the inmates directly as against using intervention agencies as was the norm in the past.

    He praised the management and staff of the home for the good work they have been doing to make sure that the children are healthy.

    He said: “We are a socially responsible organisation. We have been making donations to this home and others in the past eight years. We have been donating indirectly, now we felt it is imperative to change our strategy by empowering those who are impacting directly on the welfare of the less-privileged in Nigeria.

    “That’s why we chose this occasion; the festive season, the Christmas season, season of merry-making, season of wishing everybody good tiding to share the joy of the season with the less-privileged.

    “We will work towards a strategic partnership with the management of the home. This indicates that we will be seen as their strategic supporter. We will look at their programmes for the year and see which of the programmes we can finance or support. We will also mobilise our people to spend with the home a day that is important to it.

    “We will look at their infrastructural requirements; some repainting needs to be done. We will look at all those things and prioritise them based on our budget and their expectations.”

    The items were received by Dr. Joe Jerry Umole, a member of the Board of Trustees of the home. On behalf of the home, he expressed his appreciation to the management of NAHCO.

    Dr. Umole, who disclosed that the home has 62 orphans who were abandoned by their parents, said it survives primarily on charity.

    He added that the 25-year-old orphanage has nurtured two of the babies to secondary school level, noting that they are already awaiting university admission.