Tag: Jim Iyke

  • Jim Iyke cautions parents on erasing African values

    Jim Iyke cautions parents on erasing African values

    Nollywood actor Jim Iyke has expressed concern over the growing trend of parents neglecting to instill African cultural values in the upbringing of their children.

    Speaking recently, the actor described such omission as dangerous, warning that it often produces children who lack respect, boundaries, and balance in life.

    “I feel bad for people who have totally removed the African background from the upbringing of their children. It’s a dangerous thing to do without. They have no respect, they have no boundaries, they are extremely violent and excessively woke,” Iyke said.

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    The actor, known for his outspoken views, stressed that cultural grounding does not conflict with modern ideals. “You can stay woke without being disrespectful, you can stay woke and know who your elders are, you can stay woke and still understand your priorities in life,” he explained.

    Iyke further noted that well-raised children can be easily identified even in adulthood. “If you see parents that are getting it right you can know in their kids even when they are older. I know how to read the room when they step into one and respect everyone,” he added.

  • Single mothers can’t raise men properly – Jim Iyke

    Single mothers can’t raise men properly – Jim Iyke

    Actor Jim Iyke has claimed that a single mother is incapable of raising a boy into a “proper man.”

    Speaking in an interview on Okay 101.7 FM, Accra, Ghana, Iyke said a woman needs the assistance of a male figure to raise a man properly.

    He said women are naturally built to nurture and love, but may not provide the necessary discipline and guidance.

    He said, “A woman can’t raise a man. You can’t, you’re not built for it. A single mother cannot raise a man properly. You need a male influence – go get your brother that’s doing well or your father or even any man that you trust. There has to be a male presence in it [raising a boy child].

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    “Because women are naturally built to nurture, to love. And then what you’re going to raise is a very weak man? He is going to be everything like the men that left you. You need somebody that would discipline him, tell him ‘No’ as often times as possible, and put him in the grind,” he expressed.

    His claim has, however, raised dust, as some people argued that single mothers are perfectly capable of raising well-rounded, independent children.

    According to them, with the right support and parenting, single mothers can equip their sons with the skills and values needed to become confident, capable men. 

  • Feminism’s original purpose redirected – Jim Iyke

    Feminism’s original purpose redirected – Jim Iyke

    Actor Jim Iyke has described modern feminism as a movement that has deviated from its original purpose and now borders on being “a crime.”

    Iyke, in an interview on Echo room, said that early feminist movements were crucial in addressing issues like patriarchy and gender imbalance, but the current iteration has been distorted.

    According to Iyke, modern feminism was strategically marketed, potentially by a women’s magazine, as a way to sell ideas to women who felt marginalised.

    This campaign, he claims, has mutated into a mindset that encourages women to reject men and promotes unnecessary competition between the sexes.

    He said, “I call it a crime, an assault of sorts, the perpetrators of this… obviously, I would not name the magazine… came out with a brilliant campaign to push more papers. Who were their chief readers? Women. So they devised an ideology that allowed women to challenge the status quo and compete with men in the same space.”

    “This was a campaign that went overboard, and certain women bought into the ideology and made it their own.

    “They decided that this whole ideology of ‘we do not need a man, anything a man can do we can do better’… escalated, and blew it out of proportion. Now it has been adopted as a way of living, as a new cultural standard.”

    Iyke criticises the double standards within modern feminism, arguing that it promotes a flawed approach to gender dynamics.

    According to him, instead of striving for natural balance, the movement encourages women to compete with men, rather than working together in harmony.

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    Iyke added that people should embrace their natural, God-given roles, allowing for a more balanced and harmonious relationship between men and women.

    “The double standard of it all is what makes me question the ideology in the first place. Do you not understand the fallacy, the falsehood of it? The two-faced approach to it? You can only be in your natural God-given [role], and the men stay [in theirs], so that when you come together, it blends and becomes one. That is what they are yet to understand.”

  • Birthday message to Kate Henshaw, sincere, not flirtatious – Jim Iyke

    Birthday message to Kate Henshaw, sincere, not flirtatious – Jim Iyke

    Actor Jim Iyke has finally addressed the controversy surrounding his emotional birthday message to Kate Henshaw.

    In a recent interview, Jim Iyke clarified that the message was a genuine expression of their deep and longstanding friendship, which has spanned over two decades.

    He emphasised that the message wasn’t meant to be romantic or s3xual but a reflection of their bond.

    According to Jim Iyke, Kate Henshaw is one of the few people he can speak to without fear of judgment, describing her as someone he trusts completely and can be vulnerable with.

    He explained that their friendship is built on mutual trust and respect, stating Kate is someone he can speak his truth to and get honest advice from.

    Iyke said: “I meant everything I said in that post. I rarely say something I don’t mean. I don’t waste words. My words are my bound. I have known this person for over two decades of my life. We have grown as friends and as brother and sister.

    “What happened was a wordplay that was told in a space of a comfort zone that only two people or less can cohabit. Because these are words that either resonate clearly in your head and never find expression through your voice; you carry them forever and one day you said, ‘F**k it’, take a pen and let the word have a glimpse of how you feel about certain people.

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    “I know the feeling is mutual. There’s nothing absolutely s3xual about it [the birthday tribute]. It doesn’t even suggest someone I’m dating. This is someone I can speak my truth to and get honest advice from. It’s just a genuine friendship.”

    Jim Iyke also addressed the widespread reactions to his message, stating that many people misinterpreted it and projected their meanings into it.

    He noted that he doesn’t owe anyone an explanation and doesn’t live by public opinion, adding that he spoke as only he can speak. 

    “I spoke as only I can speak. However you interpret it, it’s entirely your business,” he added.

  • Jim Iyke sparks online buzz with birthday message to Kate Henshaw

    Jim Iyke sparks online buzz with birthday message to Kate Henshaw

    Actor Jim Iyke has sparked online controversy with his birthday tribute to fellow actress, Kate Henshaw.

    In an Instagram post, Iyke expressed deep admiration and past romantic feelings for Henshaw, reflecting on their early days together in Nollywood.

    “You knew all that time I wanted to hit that,” Jim Iyke wrote bluntly in the emotional post.

    He recalled how Henshaw supported him during his struggling days, giving him money for food and transport, and sharing audition tips.

    Iyke’s post was met with mixed reactions, with some praising his honesty and others finding it disrespectful.

    One user analysed the post from a literary perspective, highlighting the use of poetic devices.

    Awaekuriobi wrote, “Only literary students deeply rooted by their love for literature could vividly depict and bring out the subject matter, surface and deeper meaning of this song like poem. His attitude is that of admiration of the beautiful moments he shared with Kates. His tone is that of frustration for not getting the chance in his 20s to create beautiful memories because of his naivity and youthful exuberance ce but he is overall proud of what they had shared and the unique personality Kate has been able to secure for herself that’s worth emulating. His diction is simple for better understanding. His constant used of ” Fuck you” brings out the poetic device “Alliteration” This sound like répétition of the words fuck you shows their play like language in the days. The use of Pun, metaphor and the irregular rythme scheme shows he is and will forever be proud of Kate”.

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    Others joked about the beauty standards set by Henshaw, with one user commenting that young women now resort to extreme measures to try and replicate her looks.

    Nwokemaryclare: “They’ve had to Bbl it, snatch it, tuck it, tie it, girdle it, needle it, Botox it, pound it, laser it, sew it, bleach it EVEN voodoo that shii” but them no reachhhhhhh. Damnnnnn”

    Others found the post weird, saying with users like, Ptrmaureen saying: “As much as this letter look ok it’s also look weird to me” and Morrydudu, “Sounds disrespectful to me”

    Kate Henshaw, despite the controversy, responded warmly to Jim’s tribute, thanking him for toning down his “madness” for her and expressing her love for their decades-long friendship.

    “JIMBO, you already know, the journey to today, decades, we trekked, we hustled, we put in the work and STILL do.. I got you whether we see everyday or every decade, thank you for always toning down your “m@dness” for me( inside joke). I love you Jimbo”.

  • Jim Iyke reacts as YouTube removes movie “Light in the Dark”

    Jim Iyke reacts as YouTube removes movie “Light in the Dark”

    Actor Jim Iyke has announced his movie “Light in the Dark” was removed from YouTube due to a scene deemed inappropriate.

    Iyke said the movie had over 600,000 views in a few days but it was taken down.

    The screen god, on Instagram, expressed disappointment but remained optimistic, thanking his team for their hard work and dedication.

    He encouraged fans to support the revised version of the movie, now available on his channel. 

    Iyke emphasised the importance of his fans’ support, stating that every view, share, and comment makes a significant difference.

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    Captioning the video, he wrote: “Hey everyone, The original version of our movie ” LIGHT IN THE DARK” on JIMIYKE TV was taken down. They deemed one of the scenes inappropriate from feedback received. It has been challenging, to say the least. Over 600k views accumulated in a few days. The time, effort, and passion my team put into these projects is inestimable. But I’m not deterred. My energy has always stemmed from positivity and a winners mentality.

    “A new version is up now, and I need as many people as possible to watch, share, and spread the word. If you supported the first one, or if you missed it—this is your chance to help keep the project alive.

    “We’ve been down this road before. Your support and goodwill win the day eventually. I cannot thank you enough for everything. Every view, every share, and every comment makes a huge difference”.

  • I’ve become villain in other people’s story – Jim Iyke

    I’ve become villain in other people’s story – Jim Iyke

    Actor Jim Iyke has shared a thought-provoking insight into the perception of himself and others, accepting his role as the villain in certain narratives.

    In a reflective social media post, Iyke explored the complexity of morality, acknowledging the blurred lines between right and wrong.

    Iyke emphasised the importance of standing firm in his values while avoiding unnecessary conflicts with advice to also discern people’s true character

    “I’ve grown extremely comfortable being the villain in some people’s stories.
    Perhaps too comfortable, I’m afraid.
    Many times, the lines between wrong and right blur in these narratives.
    I’m happy as always to dispense with my side of it.
    “My recourse is to distance myself from the grandstanding and theatrics.

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    “Sometimes, I’m too quick to build a wall before I compromise my principles and ideologies. It is what forged who i am. It is what inspires what I am to become.
    One thing is certain: you must trust people to be who they are.

    “Only the unwise are taken by surprise when people are who they are.
    It is the only element in the human attribute I trust. Surprise is not my strong suit. I know who I am. The moon will turn red before I am who am not.

    “I am light to many. Others, I am what their insecurities amplify. I am hated for it.
    I am loved for it. In either instance, I am unapologetically comfortable.

    “It’s a consequence of what side of the fence you sit. There’s a BLACK in everyone of us. Choose your side wisely,” he said.

  • Only father wants to see his children succeed – Jim Iyke

    Only father wants to see his children succeed – Jim Iyke

    Actor Jim Iyke has sparked a debate with his statement on a podcast show, asserting that a father is the only man who genuinely wants his children to succeed more than he did.

    While some agreed with his perspective, others provided counterexamples of fathers who didn’t meet this standard.

    “The only man on earth that wants to see you succeed more than him in this life is not your best friend, brother, or relative; it is your father. The only man that is comfortable in this life, that prays it as a prayer is your father,” he stated.

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    Jim Iyke emphasized that a father’s prayers and desires for his children’s success surpass those of other male figures, including friends and relatives.

    However, some social media users shared contrasting experiences, highlighting instances where fathers didn’t support their children’s aspirations or even felt threatened by their success.

    Reactions ranged from agreement and appreciation for fathers who embody this selfless love to disagreement and the sharing of negative experiences.

    thefoodnetworknig2 said: “I have heard a father say he doesn’t want his children to be better than him in life and his friends agreed with him! Anyone can desire to see you succeed, no formula!”

    wendy_adammaaaaa noted: “Your parents are people who look at your success without envyyt$.”

    mrucee_official noted: “God bless all fathers, we will continue preaching until fathers get their flowers”.

    lazerclothings stated: “Speak for yourself, hearing things like this makes people more mean to each other, and makes them lose interest in rendering help..”

  • Why I can’t be friends with everybody, says Jim Iyke

    Why I can’t be friends with everybody, says Jim Iyke

    Actor Jim Iyke has shared his reasons for having fewer friends and the challenges of making new ones. 

    He revealed that he cannot be friends with people who hold grudges.

    Featuring on the ‘Deep Dive’ podcast hosted by media personality Teju Babyface, Iyke explained that his propensity for growth is at an alacrity that many can’t keep up with.

    He said: “We don’t hang around emotions. We don’t have time for it. That’s why I can’t be friends with everybody.

    “I need somebody that won’t be hung up on my last act. I’m too transitional for it. My propensity for growth is at an alacrity that you can’t keep up with.

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    “Who I was yesterday is different from who I am today. So it’s not everybody that can keep up with that. I need somebody that I won’t call for 10 weeks and he is not in his feelings.

    “There’s a time I didn’t call him for 4 months and he didn’t call me either. We don’t have to. But when we call, it’s value.

    “I don’t want a friend that I am in your life every day. It’s never going to work because I will never show up for your kid’s birthday.

    “You find me wanting at your anniversary. When you have certain issues I might not be the one to reach. But I tell you, when you call me and I sense that it’s not even a function of what you tell me, I sense that you need me, I’m going to move every mountain. So you decide the kind of friends you want.”

  • What I expect from a woman who sleeps over – Jim Iyke

    What I expect from a woman who sleeps over – Jim Iyke

    Actor Jim Iyke has argued any woman who stays with him to watch an overnight movie should be smart enough to know he can’t resist her s3xually.

    This revelation comes after he explained the meaning of the popular slang phrase “Netflix and Chill” to any lady who visits his home for a movie night.

    During their conversation, Jim mentioned that when a woman stays overnight at his residence, there are certain requirements that she must fulfill.

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    The actor boasted about his intelligence quotient (IQ), saying that a woman would have to be extremely intelligent for him to ignore sexual thoughts when she comes over to see a movie.

    Jim said: “You better be super smart for me not to think sexually when you spend the whole night watching movies with me.”

    According to the actor, the lady should have stayed at her place to watch a movie or go to the cinema instead of coming over to his residence.