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  • Living with terrorism

    By all indications, Nigeria is now home to terrorism. Similarly, its dire manifestations: killings, destruction, shock and awe have come to stay with us. Even with international coalition to fish out and release the abducted Chibok school girls, the terrorists have in the last couple of days, shown beyond unmistakable terms that they will not let go. They appear determined to demonstrate their capacity to strike in any state of their choice especially in the northern part of the country.

    That ought to be the proper reading of the twin bombs that killed over 120 people in Jos, Plateau state with scores of others inflicted with varying degrees of injury. Before then, there was another successful bomb attack in Kano that wreaked unmitigated havoc in human lives and property.

    The message which the renewed bombing and killing of innocent citizens is meant to convey is the terrorists’ unlimited capacity to inflict pains on our people beyond Borno, Yobe and Adamawa states where local and international attention is currently focused. Therefore, the target of the terrorists and their sponsors is not just about the abduction that has been accomplished but how to enforce their devious and wired agenda on the rest of the country.

    Campaigns and demonstrations that seek to focus on the abducted girls may miss the point if a holistic perspective of the phenomenon is not undertaken now. It is even possible that having been put under pressure in the north-east axis, the terrorists will begin to focus on other areas of less attention. There is therefore the compelling imperative to evolve measures to prevent terrorism from spreading to other parts of the country. And because of the very unlikely prospect of the scourge fizzling out very soon, our citizens should brace up for a long drawn battle with terrorists. Matters are not remedied given that we are confronted with an asymmetrical warfare.

    For a country that is battling with high level poverty, ignorance and disease, the effects of the current war on high defense budgets will leave very little if anything for the pursuit of our development programme. We are thus left with a vicious cycle of poverty and underdevelopment. That is the sad fate those who promote this evil scourge have consigned this country to.

    Already we have been forced to allow foreign countries into our territory on account of this self-inflicted problem. As desirable as foreign intervention may be at this point in time, it comes with its own shortcomings. It has its repercussions for a sovereign nation irrespective of the fact that international cooperation has been a major feature of the fight against terrorism due to its peculiar nature. Those who are helping have come with their own terms. The days ahead will witness a massive deployment of resources to fight terrorism. It will involve the acquisition of sophisticated technology such that the foreign countries offer. It will entail a comprehensive security network through out the length and breadth of the country to reduce the relative ease with which terrorists penetrate vulnerable segments of our communities. All these will take a lot from the national purse. The defense industries of the advanced countries will have patronage.

    Yet, this is a problem this county could have avoided but for greed, self-serving and sectional promptings.

    And for a society that lacks the basic data on its citizens and foreigners as well, the situation can be that hopeless.  With the uncontrolled influx of neighboring African countries, the inability to differentiate some of them from Nigerians, it can only be imagined the difficulty to be encountered keeping a tab on movements and suspicious elements.

    Our society is at the moment very porous with security counting for little in the daily calculations of the ordinary people. It is therefore to be expected that such a society will harvest plentifully from the evil machinations of these purveyors of terror. The fact that even the most sophisticated and highly advanced countries have not been able to rid themselves of terrorism is a sufficient indication that we are in for hard times if those who sponsor Boko Haram do not have a change of heart.

    Since bad habits die hard, it is safer to assume that terrorism has come to stay with us. It will not quickly disappear in the same manner armed robbery, kidnapping and militancy have not.

    Apart from any comprehensive programme the government may put in place to detect and make terrorism a very risky endeavor, we must begin to prepare our citizens to brace up for the scourge. It is time to commence very aggressive and comprehensive sensitization programme to acquaint our people with the necessary precautions and safety valves against terrorism.

    The high casualty recorded in the Jos incident would have been avoided had the local population been properly schooled on the right responses when bombs are detonated. For now, such campaigns are not on and not many know what to do in such circumstances. Plateau State commissioner of police Chris Olakpe captured the above scenario very succinctly when he warned the public against rushing to bomb blasts scenes as the possibility of another primed to explode soon after was very high. As it turned out, it was a second explosion that wreaked much of the havoc in the Jos incident. He also gave another tip on what people should do immediately they hear a blast near them. He advised that when such blasts occur, people close by should lie down to avoid being hit by flying objects.

    Another security expert Dr. Ona Ekhomu has also come out with a piece of advice on how to detect the making of improvised bombs and the materials that go into them.  He said “accumulating gas cylinders or bags of fertilizer are terrorists’ attack pre-incident indicators which could signal the imminence of a bomb attack”. He also spoke on monitoring people who behave in very suspicious and secretive ways as it fits into the characterization of terror agents.

    These tips are very useful and needful given that terrorism is unlikely to disappear from our shores so soon. We must therefore brace up for the reality it has become, educate and sensitize our people on how to detect the making of bombs so as to aid in apprehending culprits. And since the possibility is there that some of the terrorists will still succeed in their devious endeavors, we must arm the people on the right responses whenever there is a bomb explosion.

    The Jos experience has shown clearly that the message of keeping off bomb blast scenes is yet to be internalized. It therefore calls for a more comprehensive sensitization approach, deploying modern means of mass communication including the traditional ones to drum these messages into the ears of the ordinary people.

    These are the measures that will add value to the current fight against terrorism and not endless street demonstrations. We must proceed beyond the current euphoria to institute and internalize measures not only to detect terrorists but reduce the pains associated with their activities due to ignorance on the part of the public.

  • Raising quails for a living

    Raising quails for a living

    HE started his business by accident. He was aboard a vessel when he had an accident which affected his hand, thereby truncating his career as a marine engineer in the 90s.

    Thereafter, Stephen Oladipupo started arable farming, an area he had a background in. He later branched into mini-livestock.

    He started with N4,000. But, today, his business Adeoyin Farm Nigeria Enterprise, Otta, Ogun State, has grown and he is in the forefront of promoting quail birds as an alternative.

    According to him, quail eggs are a remedy against digestive tract disorders, such as gastritis, stomach ulcer and duodenal ulcer.

    He said the eggs can help cure anaemia, increase hemoglobin level and remove toxins and heavy metals from the blood.

    It also helps in the treatment of tuberculosis, bronchial asthma, diabetes and vegetative-vascular dystonia.

    Besides, it promotes good memory, enhances brain activity and regulates the nervous system.

    Quail farming is a new venture for poultry farmers. Nigerians are becoming more aware of the benefits of healthy eating and have started looking for healthy supplements. This, he said, is responsible for the demand for quail eggs.

    Currently, there is a large and rapidly expanding market but supply is low. This, in his view, is the greatest advantage that those already in quail farming are enjoying.

    Through hard work and perseverance, Oladipupo wants to run a successful quail farming enterprise, supplying quails and pickled quail eggs to a niche market.

    Quail eggs take about 16 days to hatch and the birds are adults at six weeks. At six to eight weeks, under artificial lighting, they lay an egg a day. He learnt the hard way – through trial and error. He threw away a lot of eggs, because they would rot after two weeks.

    He set very high standards for himself.

    He said young graduates can go into raising goats, rabbits, poultry, quail, guinea fowl and snail farming.

    For him, networking and staying up to date with the latest trends is key to entrepreneurial success. According to him, persistence, hard work and having an idea that doesn’t “suck” are keys to small business success.

    He said entrepreneurs have to adapt to changing conditions, learn from failures and success. He wants to make a difference by informing, encouraging, and inspiring others.

    According to him, entrepreneurship is the vogue now, especially with the economy. The unemployment rate is very high.

    As university graduates can’t depend on finding a job right out of school, he said. New entrants have to be able to create opportunities where there are none.

    Across the country, there is a resurgence of domestic animals in backyards. He said the industry needed people with entrepreneurial drive, plus strong sales, marketing and operational skills. According to him, farmers are and can be great entrepreneurs.

    He noted that there is a need for people to shift from simply being food consumers to food producers. The opportunities for raising micro-livestock, he maintained, are many and there is a number of resources that provide the necessary tools and resources to raise the animals intelligently.

  • Living in a fool’s paradise

    IT was Bimpe’s birthday, and Wale decided to give her a wonderful treat. He bought all her outfits, accessories and took care of all the other details. Friends were invited to this memorable event and he thought it was a great way to convince the babe that he really loved her.

    Unfortunately, things did not just work out as planned: the birthday gal and some of her friends who were the typical,’ bad gals’ changed the agenda. Some of her other friends were brought into the arrangement a few days to the D-day and they hijacked the ceremony.

    At this point, our dear friend realised that he was not as important as he thought he was on her emotional scale of preference. Oh dear! Why didn’t anyone warn him about all this? How come he never knew that his ‘baby’ was cheating on him?

    Frustrated, he left the party midway because every moment spent made him realise that he had been a fool all this while. His heart was very heavy indeed, and in his belly you could feel the emotional animosity that he was carrying in pains.

    No need to cry sweetheart: It is only an eye opener and it would make you wake up and plan for something better. Most times, a lot of guys and babes get carried away with the emotional gesticulations and display. You need to look beyond the physical and do some assessment of your worth from time to time.

    You also need to understand what goes through a person’s mind when they are feeling attraction for you. What really are the criteria for selecting you and not another? Is it because you have a good job, work very hard, are pretty cute or a really kind and easy going person.

    Time definitely will certainly tell…But before you allow the odds to catch up with you, you may need to do a quick survey. A sincere partner naturally should smile to the emotional bank after working so hard to make a relationship work. Yes, sometimes this is the result of dedication, hard work and perseverance. But there are times when you put in so much and you get so little in return.

    It happens especially when the person that you put all your hopes and dreams upon is insincere. From the outset, he or she has it all worked out, and foolishly you tagged along until the emotional carpet is pulled off your feet in a very rude way.

    Just last week, yours truly ran into a story that brings tears to the eyes on the Internet. It’s actually about a young man dubbed the “Internet Casanova” for breaking hearts online. He ran out of luck and his bag of emotional tricks was turned upside down. Now, the handsome Casanova is facing charges for not just stealing women’s hearts but also their money.

    The 29-year-old man scammed and robbed 38 women in at least seven states while giving different identities as Ray Holycross, Ray Cross and Ray Tompson.

    He was arraigned last Saturday in an Indiana courtroom on one-count charge of theft, accused of stealing the camera of Theresa Bridegroom, a woman from Mishawaka, Indiana.

    So how did he do this, you wonder? Police informed that Holycross spent years logging onto dating websites to meet women before moving in with them and then stealing from them.

    Bridegroom, 35, began dating Holycross in last September. Police arrested him at the apartment they shared after Bridegroom discovered he pawned her camera and turned him in.”That’s when I found out all the information about all of the websites and dating sites,” she said.

    Holycross is also wanted in Oregon on two counts stemming from an identity theft charge.”I think he relies on girls that he meets on the Internet to provide him with what he needs to get through life,” Lt. Michael Budreau of the Medford Police Department in Oregon told ” Good Morning America” in August when the first report of his alleged fraud emerged.

    The next victim was Jennifer Clark. This unfortunate ‘mugun’ met Holycross on the online dating site PlentyofFish.com. She was smitten and the two lovebirds quickly moved in together.”We lived together in my house and I decided I wanted to help him. Once he captured her heart, the next thing was to convince her to sell her home and her car. Love struck lady agreed to do the wish of this prince charming and he also promised to take her to Chicago.

    The emotional coast was very clear and he took her laptop and iPhone, withdrew nearly $1,000 from her bank account, and then vanished. Just like that! “He made me feel like he was going to take care of me and, instead, I was left with absolutely nothing,” Clark recalls sadly.

    Was she really stupid or could it be love? “He was extremely charming and convincing and, looking back at myself, I feel foolish.”Many of the women who met Holycross online told a similar story. They said he was an online charmer who took off with their cash once they let him into their lives and homes.

  • ‘It was fun living with Tai Solarin’

    ‘It was fun living with Tai Solarin’

    On love

    It is very right and I guess it is proper. A woman is supposed to love everything about her husband. Love is not supposed to have any barrier.

    Tai was one man I cherished; we were not just a couple but good companions. We shared a lot and so, it was very easy for us to live together. He was a Nigerian and a proud one.

    When we met in England, he never gave the impression that he was not in love with his country.

    He was passionate about Nigeria and humanity generally; it is therefore difficult to dissociate him from this lovable country.

    I love everything about him and so, coming and living in Nigeria with him was to me no big deal but part of the deal. He loved my country and people too, so, no party is cheated.

    How she met her late husband

    We met at the University of Manchester; we were both students and colour or no colour, I was attracted to him for his hard work, simplicity and straightforwardness.

    He was down-to-earth, not a deceiver, good tempered, very honest and a good listener. Above all, he was fun to be with; he had this sense of humour that got you glued to him all the time.

    At the initial stage, my mother was reserved but when she met him, she liked him. We kept a family that was not bias about anyone whatever your skin colour or wherever you come from; it was easy for them to accept him. His own family accepted me and they were good to me.

    Life without Tai has been full of vacuum that nobody can fill. I miss him so much and all of the time but as we all know, even twins that are born the same day won’t die the same day, let alone people who were born on different days and at different times. He has been gone for 18 years now and here I am still breathing and alive.

    Attitude to religion and death

    Both of us are realists. We do things because we believe they are just right, not because people say so. We are both humanists and not church goers.

    I see no need to; likewise him. Many in one religion or the other do so because they are afraid of death.

    They are afraid of getting killed by people and some forces whereas death is an inevitable thing, it will come when it will. We will all die one day whether we run to church, mosque or any other place.

    Tai did not attach anything to death or the general belief of ceremonies after death, which is why he instructed before his death that he should be buried in his newly ploughed farm so that his body would be useful to the speedy growth of the plant, the vegetables. Many people were shocked and I did not know why. Human beings are to live to benefit others which is what the country is suffering from.

    Old age

    It’s fun and wonderful. I did not know I would live this long; I have lived a very busy and active life. Here I am, still living.