Tag: men

  • Sexually-pure boys, guys, men fare better in life!

    DEAR Temi, I loooooveeee you for doing the work the Lord has placed in your hands faithfully without any barrier. Saying it the way it is can be very liberating. Please don’t stop telling the youth to stay away from illegal sexual activities. It cut short one’s life and discolors destiny! May God continue to empower you.

    Ololade Ayanniyi

    Dear Ma,

    I can’t stop thanking you! You’ve been my strength in spite the temptations around me, I can still stand out pure. God bless you ma!

    Ruth Ene Ene

    Dear Ma,

    Is Secondary Virginity only endemic to females and what does a sexually-active man stand to gain by abstaining from sex?

    Anonymous

    Dear Anonymous,

    Secondary Virginity is certainly not for girls only but for both gender, unmarried and whatever age! I tell you a lot of men would have fared better in life if they guarded their loins jealously. A REAL MAN IS ONE WHO CANNOT BE CONTROLLED BY THAT WHICH HE SHOULD BE MASTER OVER! Most guys have gotten themselves embroiled in an emotional/spiritual quagmire which has hampered their development and growth at a time when they should be concentrating on their studies and laying a solid foundation for a successful life!

    A lot have had their VIRTUES and WHAT SHOULD MAKE THEM SHINE IN LIFE practically swallowed by demonic ladies. A lot are under curses from girls they raped, deceived, slept with and dumped! With God’s stamp on those curses! IF ONLY YOU KNEW WHAT COVENANT YOU WERE ENTERING INTO WHILE DEFLOWERING THAT GIRL, YOU WOULD NEVER HAVE GONE NEAR HER! DO YOU KNOW THE TYPE OF SPIRIT SHE CARRIES?

     

    Asides that, an average lady you sleep with would expect you take care of her material needs as well as her emotional needs. You begin to stress and drain yourself of what should give you the much-needed comfort to pursue your education/career. What if she gets pregnant? Are you ready to have a baby? Why go through the hassles of becoming a baby father or having blood in your hands as a result of terminating a pregnancy? You need to be wise my friend! Once you get into premarital sex, I’m afraid you become unstoppable and eventually give the devil too much access into your life!

     

    The whole world lies in great mystery and wickedness and the devil-our common enemy is raging so wildly and wishes to have a grip over as many destinies as possible and dispossess them of their natural entitlements. One of such ways as I emphasize here is ungodly sex. Why would you want to go against your source-God and live a life of struggle and hardship? The devil has turned too many girls and women to weapons of mass destruction because they refuse to have a deep relationship with God and have a grip over their souls. The devil cashes in on their superficiality and possesses them with all sorts of bad spirits that they might not even be aware of. And just one of these bad spirits which are virtue vamps, could divert the course of a man’s destiny. Now, can you imagine what happens to a man who would sleep with anything in skirt? He’s finished because he’s sleeping with multiple partners with probably a legion of demons. What a waste of life!  No matter how successful a man is, as long as he is still engaging in ungodly sex and fighting the source of his existence, he isn’t where he is destined to be yet! If he he’s diabolic and thinks he’s fortified enough to keep sleeping with various ladies to enjoy their virtues by having them transferred through sexual intercourse, one day…one day… one day…he would come in contact with a devil in an extraordinarily beautiful human skin who would topple his life over!

     

    Generations are in trouble today and till eternity, because one man could not bridle his loins! Fantastic stars have been shot down and rendered useless on earth because their father slept with and married a strange woman who wanted to reign supreme! There’s so much more gist on this coming your way! MAY THE POWER OF GOD OVERSHADOW THE LIFE OF EVERY MAN READING THIS IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME!

     

    • To be continued!

     

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  • Are there men left in the land?

    There is an old, ribald song about men doing the battle in gritty war-front and women telling the stories of war in the cool corners of the courtyard. Of course it is the way of the world. It is also the nature of man to stand up and do the needful in a trouble situation or case of serious breach of security.

    In a situation a man does not stand to assert his masculine prowess or hesitates in doing so; his manliness or even manhood is soon called to question. And if it gets to the point of the female folk throwing the gauntlet, then there is apprehension whether there are men left in the land.

    In the days of yore when communities were close-knit and a threat to one was a threat to all; when the menfolk seemed to dither, soon you would hear such mocking refrain as, “would you please give us knickers. Please send us if there are none with two nuts under their knickers. Please kit us in knickers and send us.”

    Could it be this kind of situation that confronts the nation today in which the wife of the president, the number one woman in the land, is throwing the gauntlet and calling out the men? Mrs. Aisha Buhari, wife of President Muhammadu Buhari has proven to be an irrepressible woman. She is not one of those women who is to be seen and not heard.

    In what is becoming her signature, so to speak, she threw another bombshell last week. At an official function, she had discarded a prepared speech and launched into what apparently pained and grieved her at the moment.

    She had had cause in the past to speak publicly about a cabal deeply entrenched in her husband’s government and how inimical they were to the government of the day delivering the good to the generality of the people.

    Last week however, she narrowed it down to just “two powerful personalities” who have become like unmovable leviathans, so to speak.

    More galling for her is that men who ought to fight these powerful men would rather sneak to them at night and beg for favours. And as in the days of old, she called out the women to step forward, don knickers and fight.

    By this last act, Aisha may have earned her place as an amazon. Knowing her husband’s shortcomings, those who are supposed to help him function properly seem to be taking advantage of the situation. She refuses to keep silent. She urges all men of honour around the president to speak up in order to dislodge this incubus.

     

  • Men, like blood clots

    Simple lusts become the Nigerian woe. Yet nobody speaks our gestured woes. Those congealed like blood clots; those heightened in transit, as we wander the corridors of our rusted ghetto-shacks. Apology to Brutus. But there is wildness yet undisclosed by his “unarticulated simple lust.”

    Were he Nigerian, he would know better. He would know for instance, why our lives eclipse like tadpoles buried in a mud pile by the uncompassionate ghetto child. He would understand why through hunger pangs, our glands water for carcasses we make to rot in our slug-fields.

    It is few months from 2019; and as the election year draws nearer, our hope burns like the proverbial wicker shorn of oil and the thread that lights.

    Of the prospective candidates, whose ventricles echo our heartbeats? Whose antecedents incites the passing tribute of a sigh?

    To what do they owe our reverence of them? By their citizenship, do they furnish pathways to empower disillusioned, jobless youths of Umukegwu, Akokwa, Urualla, Borno, Apongbon, Idumota, Agege, Agbor, Sango Ota, Sankwala, to mention a few?

    Do they teach the youth particularly, to evolve beyond the greed, selfishness and idiosyncrasies of their generation?

    Do they teach us to change realities we cannot accept, like our penchant to turn foster predatory politics?

    Do they teach us that at the end, we get to choose what to make of our lives and our world?

    The answer resonates in their utterances and deeds.

    Transcendent moments and heroism are deeds of an exalted intelligence. Do these candidates possess such lofty acumen?

    Despite our protests and dissatisfaction with the status quo, do the Nigerian citizenry project strength of character and intelligence – prime requirements in the constitution of a progressive race?

    Predictably, digital and traditional media are agog with bitter scuffles among supporters of the presidential candidates. The blind jostles with the blind to be led by the one-eyed. Quite sad.

    Our lives as electorate illustrates a fable. Our lust to be misled and dominated is not of latent strength but disintegration. It reveals the weakness and shallowness of the Nigerian electorate’s awfully preadolescent mind. Such mind is inherently incapable of identifying leaders worthy of being called gods of unconditional love and compassion. All we are capable of are gods of impoverishment and gods of war.

    Of the candidates, I see men enslaved to power and god complex. I see voyagers hampered by baggage from a present and past that would forever haunt them. Even the ‘new kid on the block’ comes forged in the shape of a minnow by sentimental ogres. How would he prove he’s a titan?

    While his handlers paint a ravishing portrait of him, critics dismiss him as yet another genome of leadership, dastardly and base like the Casanova lost in the folds of the bearded meat.

    At the moment, none of the candidates excite passion and hope, save dangerous fits characteristic of their pawns and puppets on the social media. At the moment, no candidate is worthy of our votes; will we eventually settle for a Hobson’s choice? As usual.

    It’s about time we identified the contender jostling to handle our heartfelt yearnings like a tuberous burden. The one who would cradle our dreams like eggs hatched by a tired fowl in the throes of twilight.

    The candidates say too little about the issues that embitter you and I. They are yet to tackle convincingly, fundamental issues they would eventually grapple as President.

    Irrational brick bats, unbelievable platitudes and senseless bloodshed have shaped our politics for too long. Many Nigerians are probably living through one of the worst decade of their lives. They read of bloody genocides at dawn, poverty and strife in the next city – many more live through such. And as usual, an economy patched with foreign loans, exaggerated growth and duplicity.

    It took a perfect gathering of bad leadership to get to this moment. It would take an imperfect cannonball of a man to brave through it and survive it. Sadly, none of the candidates are wrought of such fibre. None.

    What we should be interested in is a president-elect capable of fostering education that would provide the skilled force Nigeria needs to power her industry. We have no need of a big and egocentric President in hard times; what we need is a humble man of great depths.

    A President capable of knowing that he would forever be indebted to Nigeria, for the opportunity to serve Nigeria. We need one now that today is spitting out monsters and tomorrow portends the birth of a thousand trolls.

    We had believed too much in past Presidents of touted ‘meekness and honour,’ ‘Spartan discipline and incorruptibility’ but they mutated, like their predecessors, into egomaniacs enslaved to incoherent sinful lusts. Nepotism, incompetency, hubris and god complex has been the bane of our leadership for too long.

    We are done believing in the dignified duplicity of treacherous men. We need a President that would man up. One who wouldn’t keep blaming predecessors for his incompetence. We need a President who acknowledges that today, everything is broken – and that the very system that produced him needs to be fixed in a way that wouldn’t make deity of him and sacrificial lambs of the Nigerian people.

    We need a President capable of speaking gently and intelligently too. A President who listens. Nigeria deserves a man who internalises the grief of our people in order to end them.

    We may identify such a leader by his antecedents and present conduct. We could organise debates where no candidate has dibs on location, panel of moderators, questions and issue selection. We could blacklist the candidate who backs out.

    Let us seek the candidate who would become the blank screen, on which Nigerians of vastly different stripes may rally and project their idiosyncrasies and wants. And he wouldn’t lose his head. We have no need of disdainful, tactless men.

  • Market women,men get free HIV testing

    Thousands of market women and men have accessed free HIV testing in the ongoing HIV market intervention programme in Lagos State.

    The programme was  organised by the Lagos State AIDS Control Agency (LSACA).

    The market intervention, according to the CEO of LSACA, Dr. Oluseyi Temowo, was a follow-up on the activities to mark the year 2017 World AIDS Day event. Market women and men most times work from morning till night at the expense of their health, he said. The intervention, according to him, would afford them the opportunity to know their HIV status, document their knowledge, attitude and perception on HIV /AIDS, get counseled on risky behaviour that promotes HIV transmission and would help the agency to elicit comprehensive data for the Lagos State AIDS Control Agency in programming for HIV/AIDS among the group in the state.

    Dr. Temowo maintained that aligning with the global trend of ‘Getting to Zero in HIV intervention to eliminate New Infections, Discrimination and AIDS related deaths ‘ and the United Nations 90-90-90 initiative  which is aimed at eradicating the scourge by 2020 through scaling up implementation can go a long way in the achievement of the global initiative among the target group for Lagos State.

    This can be achieved  using the initiative of 90percent of the people living with HIV knowing  their status ,90 percent of the people who their status accessing Anti-retroviral treatment while 90 percent on Anti-retroviral treatment have suppressed viral loads and be able to eradicate the scourge by 2030 in Lagos State .

    In one of the intervention programmes at Mile 12 market,909  market women and men were counseled, tested and received results immediately. At Agbado-Oke -Odo market in Alimosho Local Government  Area, it was 421, Aiyetoro market, Epe- 540, Sabo market, Ikorodu—368 among others. Those found to be positive were referred appropriately, he stated.

    Dr. Temowo maintained that market women and men are very effective in information dissemination through interpersonal communication  and  to get them informed about HIV/AIDS will go a long way in reaching out to the grassroots for early detection and treatment.

    Meanwhile, LSACA has donated groceries to people living with HIV/AIDS, and promised them a good living.

    The event took place at the Nigeria Institute of Medical Research (NIMR), Yaba, Lagos monthly gathering in which all the coordinators of a support group of people leaving with HIV/AIDS, Lagos State come together to discuss on the challenges every member  is facing in  and how to resolve same.

    Pastor Peter Obialo, the acting coordinator for Network of People Leaving With HIV/AIDS (NECWAN said HIV patients are facing  a lot of challenges especially stigma and discrimination which cannot be written off. He lamented it is not the way it ought to be. He said people that tested positive are  finding difficult to disclose their status to their partners or family because of fear and the stigma that follows the revelation.They  should be counseled to face the reality of life,he advised.

    Pastor Obialo said ‘’that is why we are here to encourage people to come out to disclose their HIV status and they won’t be stigmatised, rejected or cast out.

    “Though there are little problem here and there especially in the area of finance, which has been their ultimate challenge, we will like to appreciate the Lagos State Government especially Governor Akinwunmi Ambode, and LSACA, which has been the only organisation that is helping us. They are the only one we ran to anytime we are facing challenges. We want to appeal to other institutions to come to our aid to empower us in areas of agriculture, poultry and provide a place for the group to start a business so that they too can help in some areas to support the nation. Being an HIV patient is not a death sentence,this  does not mean we can’t work or we are useless in the society. Empower and train us  or employ us so that we too can be useful in the society at large.”

    One of the coordinators Kadiri Oluseyi, said LSACA has  been a wonderful organisation that has been in partnership with NECWAN for some years back as it has strengthened a lot of people living with HIV/ADS by building their capacity giving  nutritional support and care.

    CEO LSCA,  Dr Oluseyi Temiwo who was represented by Mrs Adebambo Olusola, Assistant Chief Health Education Officer, said the mission of LSCA is to care and support people living with HIV.The   exercise is an “expression of our commitment to the uplifting  of the status of HIV people and that is why we haven’t relented in showing our love, care and support by donating to them. And as part of our plan, we want to  train and  empower them in any skill of their choice and assist them with capital to set up a business in any of the areas they have been trained for.”

  • Equal medals for women and men

    Equal medals for women and men

    For the first time ever, there will be an equal number of women’s and men’s medal events at a Commonwealth Games.

    As a core part of the CGF’s far-reaching gender equality strategy, the Federation approved seven additional women’s event categories to the Gold Coast 2018 sports programme to ensure that men and women compete for an equal number of medals (133 women’s events; 133 men’s events; 9 mixed/open events).

    The strategy, launched at the 2016 CGF General Assembly in Edmonton, Canada, strives to ensure that women and girls are equally represented, recognised and served across all areas of the Commonwealth Sports Movement. It also sets the benchmark for gender equality standards seen anywhere in international sport.

    Louise Martin, President of the CGF said: “International Women’s Day is the right time to reflect on how far we have come with gender equality and how far we still have to go to ensure real balance and fairness in both sport and society.

    “The Commonwealth Sports Movement is proud to be setting the pace for equal gender representation and opportunity in sport, by ensuring that an equal number of medals will be up for grabs at Gold Coast 2018 for women and med. With significant steps forward like this, we believe our unwavering commitment to gender equality is a core value that differentiates the Commonwealth Games from any other international sports movement. Indeed, it is our committed work in areas such as gender equality that make the Commonwealth and Commonwealth Sports Movement more relevant than ever before.”

    For the first time at a major international multi-sport event, the International Federations for Basketball, Hockey and Swimming have confirmed that at least 50 per cent of their technical officials presiding over the sporting action will be women.

    The announcement supports the collective mission of the Commonwealth Games Federation (CGF), the Gold Coast 2018 Organising Corporation (GOLDOC) and its international sporting stakeholders to ensure the that the Games set an international benchmark as the most gender-equal multi-sports event ever seen.

  • Angels Among Men  explores albinism

    Angels Among Men explores albinism

    Visual artiste and documentary photographer, Damilola Onafuwa, recently partnered with Onome Akinlolu Majaro (OAM) Foundation, for his first solo exhibition of the project, Angels Among Men.

    The exhibition which held at The WhiteSpace, Lagos, opened on Sunday, March 11 at 4pm and ran till Thursday 15th.

    Angels among Men, according to the artiste, is a project that explores the special character of the pale skinned, light haired, rose-coloured or blue eyes humans otherwise known as albinos.

    “It is a long-term photography project exploring the lives of People Living with Albinism in Nigeria and how they thrive in spite of the lack of melanin in their ‘African skin’ and the stereotypes associated with it in most parts of Africa. The prevalence rate of albinism is ranked among the highest in the world with an estimated figure of over two million living in the country,” he explained.

    To the artist, Albinism in Africa carries a negative connotation, and comes with discrimination, killings for rituals, rejection and abductions.

    “While we are not insensitive to these facts, that, in many parts of Africa, people living with albinism are oftentimes faced with these societal issues, this project seeks to digress from that topic, rather expose, educate and inspire truth of the condition, debunk myths as well as celebrate people living with albinism that have, in spite of the negativity associated with the colour of their skin, lived above it and made a life for themselves,” he said.

    He further explains that the title Angels Among Men does not intend to fetishise or refer to people living with albinism as literal angels or as superior, it rather refers to everyone who has chosen to rise and live above stereotypical judgments against people of a different race, colour or gender; people who choose not to be limited by short sighted and shallow standards of men, but treat all with a scale of equality.

  • I’ve slept with a lot  of men – Anto

    I’ve slept with a lot of men – Anto

    One week after the ongoing Big Brother Naija (BBN) reality show kicked off; animosity, tension of eviction and daring activities have begun among the 20 housemates.

    In one of the events leading to a reunion between Anto and Kbrule, Anto said frankly to Kbrule that kissing means nothing to her, as she had slept with a lot of men without attaching emotions to the act.

    “I’m a grown ass woman; I’ve f..ked a lot of niggas.

    “No one should take this personal, everybody is having good time, it’s all a game.

    “The same way I kissed him, I have kissed others,” she said.

    Recall that Kbrule injured himself after Anto shunned his romantic advances only to offer Lolu a passionate kiss during an ice cream challenge on Saturday.

    The fair-skinned male housemate, who sprained his ankle and wrist by jumping from the first floor, however escaped being ejected from the show after contravening Section 61, Sub-section 1 of the reality show’s rule.

    The rule forbids contestants from any kind of violence, including self-inflicted ones.

    Kbrule, according to Biggie, will be sacked from the show should a similar error be committed twice more. His pair in the game, Khloe, will share the same fate as the rule of the game applies.

    On Sunday night, the housemates showed how daring they could be, when they played the popular ‘Truth or Dare’ game.

    While Princess was the queen of the game, Alex, Miracle, and Ifu did not shy away from erotic challenges assigned to them, while Kbrule showed his grouse for Anto by choosing the punishment of eating red pepper instead of kissing her.

    As the tension of nomination for possible eviction also pervades the house, show host, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu revealed that the nominations among housemates will be fake, as they won’t require the usual voting by fans of the show.

  • Country of sadists and of sad men

    In almost all climes, the approach of festive seasons elicits excitement. We all look forward to Christmas, Eids, and other religious, cultural, or social festivals with joy. Parents plan towards them. Children are expectant. Souls are upbeat. The excitement is infectious.

    There was a time Nigerians were said to have been adjudged the happiest people in the world. If in ordinary and trying circumstances, we are adjudged the happiest, we can fathom what the situation would be with the approach of festivals. Nigerians would certainly be in a world of their own. In the last four days, however, happiness yielded ground to sadness, excitement to apathy, hope to hopelessness, euphoria to disillusionment.

    Christmas came and like the other festivities before it, it was heralded by unimaginable bone marrow pain – a pain that can only be inflicted by sadists. I cannot remember in recent times, or in the past five years, when every festival has not been heralded by fuel shortage.

    Few days to Christmas, what appeared to be an orchestrated fuel shortage occurred and the Federal Executive Council directed the NNPC – so we were told – to ensure, before the end of the week, the free flow of the essential commodity. It is either the federal government over-estimated its capacity to deal with the situation or was being insincere, knowing the trajectory of other simulated fuel shortages in the country in the past. The truth, as is now known, is that pain must be inflicted on Nigerians at every festive season and Christmas 2017 was not going to be different.

    It had always been known that fuel shortages are orchestrated for economic gains. The Department of Petroleum Resources acknowledged only few days ago that in Abuja alone over 129,000 litres of fuel had been diverted, a figure that may not even be representative of the day’s loss. Is it just being conceded that the problem of fuel mal-administration, year in year out, is a systemic one? It is convenient for the DPR to accuse the marketers now that the problem has come to a head, but is it not known that diversions of fuel had always been a major problem aside the operational shortages, a result of petroleum agencies’ lack of capacity, and syndicated fraud?

    In alluding to the whole chain of distribution as being culpable in inflicting this festive pain, I find difficulty even in excluding the harmless or is it deceivingly powerless fuel attendant from the chain of pain inflictors. They are all active participants, active inflictors of pain during this season. They are likely to be there to do so at the next festival.

    But let me leave fuel and its availability for the moment. After all, some are won’t to argue that fuel and its distribution should be subject of economic indices rather than social consideration. Fuel should be allowed, they contend, to find its market value if we really want to and this seasonal sadism.

    Have you travelled across cities in recent times to see how the approach of festivities draws policemen and other security agencies onto the roads like honey does to bees? The other day, I counted 15 security checkpoints between the Ijebu Itele Junction and the Ore intersection of the Ijebu-Ode Benin expressway. In all you are likely to be stopped at more than half of the checkpoints and for quite mundane reasons. If this is not punishment, I wonder what it is. Nigerians are used to such ordeals, such needless distractions and time wasting.

    The story changes dramatically once the sun sets, and as the Yoruba say okunkun o mo eni owo (the night knows not a respectable person). So, the sharper the pain infliction you expect to be put through. Of course the security checkpoints shrink in number, may be to three or maximum of four for the same distance, not because of civil delivery of their services but because the security themselves are possibly wary of the tough boys on the prowl. But the few security checkpoints are now of a different nature. The express way is reduced to a third of its motorable size at each checkpoint, with bonfire, thereby generating a long queue of harrowing traffic snarl as each vehicle waits to be ‘cleared’ by the officers.

    The rationale of course, is that it is for your protection and it is in your interest. But a victim would attest to its sadistic intents. First it provides an assured full revenue generation to those manning the checkpoints with the approach of the targeted commercial vehicles. The trailers and commercial buses behind blew their horns repeatedly but this sound fails to break the eeriness the victim is subjected to and dispel the fear that until the checkpoint appears in sight, you could still be attacked by a marauder appearing from and disappearing into the bush. And the traffic snarl can be long, running into kilometres.

    It may be necessary for Nigerians to start reflecting on the change in value that has now taken place in all spheres of life in our country. In all interactions now, be it on the road with one another, with policemen and women whether on the roads and or within their stations, in the hospitals with caregivers and attendants, in any endeavour really, sadism is really taking over. People are beginning to enjoy inflicting pains on others. The power to inflict is determined by your power to give or provide service. Sadistic Personality Disorder, SPD, which is described as an “obsolete term proposed for individuals who derive pleasure from the sufferings of others” is almost the vogue. Think of what the overarching response would be, if a survey is taken from everyone that takes a service from any of our institutions – whether public or private – to simply state whether they are happy with the service or not.  Even Nigerian agencies in other countries, particularly Nigerian embassies, are not exempted from this sadistic psychology of service.

    Can we begin to analyse the annual fuel shortages in celebration of Christmas, Easter, the two Eids and the PENGASSAN cult strikes as a celebration of sadism? If the argument is extended to other spheres of our life where we discern purposeful acts to inconvenient or make life painful to others, would we be right in contending that Nigeria is becoming an abode of sadists, and by extension of sad men and women?

    I have in the last few days watched the scramble at the fuel stations from a distance. I have also read about it in the print media and watched it on television. You almost go away with the impression that the people themselves enjoy the pain being inflicted on them. No doubt, they occasionally quarrel with one another or with the fuel attendants, but you still see them enjoying one another’s company, patronising the food hawkers who spring up around, and look as helpless as they could be. Would this be the attitude of someone in pain?

    Don’t they know the addresses of those they elected, their assemblymen, their honourable representatives, their senators, their governors and president who still go about in their convoys that consume the fuel that 10 ordinary citizens can use to run their cars? Instead of queuing up at the petrol stations, can’t they picket the homes of these big men who derive pleasure in inflicting pain on the populace?

    If we can conclude that those taking decisions at all levels of our public sphere enjoy inflicting pain on the public they ‘serve’, it must equally be that Nigerians also enjoy going through those pains if they cannot rise up against these men and public institutions funded with taxpayers’ money to provide services.

     

  • Three men charged with assault

    Three men, who allegedly injured Mr. Bamigbade Kamoru, by hitting him on the head with planks, have been arraigned at an Ikeja Magistrates’ Court, Lagos.

    The defendants, Nwazufu Francis, 25, Nwode Ogechi, 20 and Ndubueze Egbara, 27, of no fixed addresses, are facing a two-count charge of conspiracy and assault.

    The prosecutor, Eruada Victor, told the court that the defendants committed the offences on September 20 at Ajegunle Market, Alagbado, Lagos.

    He alleged that they conspired and assaulted the complainant by using planks to injure him on the head over an argument.

    “Kamoru has been receiving treatment in hospital,” Eruada said.

    The offences contravene sections 173 and 411 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2015 (revised).

    The defendants pleaded not guilty.

    The Magistrate, Mrs. G. O. Anifowoshe, granted the defendants bail at N50,000 with two sureties and adjourned the case till November 7 for mention.

     

  • Buhari and his men

    Nigerians, as Femi Adesina, the President’s Special Adviser on Media and Publicity rightly observed during a Channels Television programme Monday evening, ‘love and trust the President’. Although goodwill is considered a scarce commodity, there is no shortage of goodwill from Nigerians. This is without prejudice to the President’s limitations. Nigerians who are passionate about our country believe that the nation after 16 years of PDP’s mindless looting in place of governance, needed 73 years old Buhari, reputed for his zero-tolerance for corruption and they have not been disappointed.

    Who but Buhari  could have taken on our thieving Generals in the ‘Nigerian Army of anything is possible’ who diverted billions of funds meant for troops welfare and procurement of military hardware to buying properties for self and family members while Boko Haran overran military barracks and took control of over two third of Borno State; disgraced errant elders who confessed to receiving bribes from ex-President Jonathan’s NSA, challenged First Lady who attributed billions of naira  found in her account to gift from her husband’s well-wishers and inheritance from her petty-trader late mum and who but Buhari could have dared the Nigerian judiciary where not a few judges and senior members of the bar pursue not the end of justice but their private pockets?

    But unlike President Obasanjo who effortlessly makes friends among Nigerians and actors in the international community and regards himself as intellectual by not just surrounding himself with intellectuals but also by going to obtain a PhD in Theology from National Open University of Nigeria, President Buhari hardly moves out of his comfort zone and from the circle of close friends and relatives.  It is on account of this he has continued to be haunted by what some Nigerians, including Dr. Junaid, Mohammed, a radical Second Republic member of the Lower House, sees as ‘nepotism and cronyism’. It is this weakness that has been exploited by his trusted aides who after caging and shielding him from those who could look him on the face and ask questions embarked on a war of attrition to outwit each other. If we needed proof of betrayal by his warring aides, the  Babachir Lawal tragedy and the Abdulrasheed Maina’s disaster provided that.

    When the Senate Ad- hoc Committee report that recommended the sack and prosecution of Babachir Lawal first got to the president, he had no difficulty choosing between Lawal, who like Caesars wife, he had expected to be beyond reproach and the eighth Senate perceived by many as house of deals where senators pay themselves scandalously high salaries with over a dozen of their member facing EFCC corruption charges. Besides the president, most Nigerians saw the action of the Senate that was at dagger drawn with Lawal over constituency projects as corruption fighting back.

    But as Adesina has pointed out, the President ‘did not give Lawal a clean bill of health’ but sought the help of one of his two warring groups. The rival group to which Magu belongs which is better placed to give unbiased advice was shut out. This also played out in the case of Abdulrasheed Maina who was smuggled back to office with EFCC 14 charges of corruption still hanging on his neck.

    In his letter dated January 17 to Bukola Saraki, the Senate President, the president admitted his refusal to suspend Babachir Lawal was based on the recommendation of a review team he had set up. Obviously, on the strength of the team’s self-serving advise to save one of their members, the president  insisted ‘the Senate Ad hoc report was an interim report signed only by three of nine members and which ought to have been presented to the Senate at plenary for adoption’; and that the ‘Senate ad hoc report dated 16th December 2015 does not meet the principle of fair hearing and compliance with Senate rules for conduct of investigation in matters relating to abuse of office by public officers’. On both counts, it happened the president was misled. The report was signed by seven members and Babachir Lawal was in fact invited through a newspaper public notice advertisement.

    Babachir  Lawal who was accused by the Senate of misappropriation of funds and lack of transparency in the Presidential Initiative North East (PINE) was finally sacked on Monday. This was coming about five months after the submission of the Vice President Osinbajo’s committee report. The self-serving advice of the president’s trusted aides has opened him to attack from even his APC party members such as Shehu Sani, chairman of Senate Committee on the Mounting Humanitarian Crisis in the North-east who claims “when it comes to fighting corruption in the National Assembly and in the judiciary and in the larger Nigerian sectors, the president uses insecticide, but when it comes to fighting corruption in the presidency, they use deodorant”. Now even PDP men who in decent societies should be behind bars for their crime against our nation are trying to divert attention of Nigerians.

    If Pa Bisi Akande’s warning about the presence of some unpatriotic Nigerians determined to sabotage Buhari’s government even before it took off fell on deaf ears; if the president’s wife alarm that those who do not even understand the agenda of APC were out to sabotage her husband’s presidency was dismissed as antics of a housewife whose place belongs in the kitchen and the other room, it is hoped the unpatriotic role of the president’s kitchen cabinet members in the Lawal and Maina scandals will at least remind the president of Maitama Sule’s warning  that he stood the chance of becoming  the greatest Nigerian president if he embraced justice and fairness, virtues that have come under severe assault  by members of the president kitchen cabinet in the last two years.

    Adesina who attributed five months delay to the president’s ‘painstakingness and thoroughness’ is perhaps too young to know that we once had an organized society with Action Group, NPC and NCNC in a race to outperform each other in serving their various people. And as if celebrating his boss’ virtue, he says of the president, “Anybody that knows this president will know that he’s a man that takes his time but when he makes up his mind, he makes it up real good. Who can pressure the President?

    Again this is part of the president’s problem.  No one is telling the president that he is an elected servant of the people and must hold FEC meeting as scheduled or delegate without abdicating and that the president’s cabinet members who continue to genuflect instead of pointing out some of his inadequacies are not different from Obasanjo or Jonathan’s cabinet ministers that humoured both former presidents to disastrous end.

    President Buhari must be told the buck stops at his table. We did not elect his warring kitchen cabinet members. Neither did we elect his ministers some of whom even in an APC government of change, move around in convoys of many cars at taxpayers’ expense.