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Men’s nightmare:’We can no long sleep comfortably with our wives’

Many men can no longer sleep comfortably with their wives at home, especially in the night because the women are also involved in the painful search for water at the rivers in the wee hours.

Some okada operators who live in this community no longer convey passengers to Ilaro, instead they are paid by those who cannot drink dirty water from the river to buy water for them in kegs. Sadly, majority of our people are poor and cannot afford the price of buying clean water from Ilaro, leaving them with no option but to drink from the river.

Awawu Aderonmu’s voice wafted with folk songs as she poured water from the river into a big plastic basin with infectious enthusiasm. Barely clad with an ankara wrapper that left her chest open, she carried on with the chore like a female servant running errand for her master. She flashed a winsome smile in a manner that suggested all was well with her. Not at all. Her smile bellies her pain, though she furthered the task as if she was happy.

She hardly sleeps for four hours in the night. Like other villagers in Ibeshe, a rustic town in Yewa North Local Government Area of Ogun State, keeping vigil for water at the rivers has become a routine. Penultimate Wednesday was another day of sorrowful search for the natural liquid. The night before, she forgot to visit the shallow rivers for water and she paid dearly for it. By the time she got to the slippery bank of Oshun, one of the two rivers in the community at about 7a.m, there was no space for her to scoop water as other residents had taken over the available space inside the river. So she had to wait till about 11 a.m when other villagers had left the river.

“I regretted not coming early as usual to fetch water here. I usually come to the river around 3a.m to keep vigil to scoop this filthy water. If you don’t come to the river in the wee hours, you will miss a chance to collect water because other residents will storm the rivers as early as 5.30 a.m and you’ll not be able to find a space inside the river to scoop water. As you can see, the water is very dirty and unfit for human consumption but that is what we drink in this community because there is no borehole or potable water here.

“What we do after scooping out the dirty water from the rivers is to pour the water into plastic containers and allow the sediments to settle down, following which we would pour it into another plastic container and add alum (a compound chemical substance) to the water to purify it before drinking from it or using it to bathe, wash or cook,” 65-year-old Aderonmu, said pouring the water into a black plastic container at the riverside.

Like Aderonmu, Josiah Emmanuel also dissipated his energy at the Lele River, the second river in Ibeshe. He too did not get to the river on time. By the time he arrived, other villagers that came there had ‘colonised’ every available space, so he had to wait. It took several hours of excavating the river with his hoe before he could scoop out brownish water from the riverbed.

“This is what all of us in this community go through to have water in our homes for domestic use. I missed the chance of getting water early enough because I did not leave home in the wee hours. I had over-worked myself yesterday and I slept off until my wife woke me at about 8 a.m. When I got here, I met a lot of people and I had to wait for about three hours to have my turn at fetching water.”

Flight of clean water

Ibeshe, a community rich in limestone deposit, is anything but a developed town. Although it hosts one of the largest cement factories in the country-Dangote Cement Plc, but it bleeds from infrastructure decay. Majority of the houses were built with red mud. Others who built their houses with cement could not afford to sink borehole or well. A water plant built in the town by the Chief Obafemi Awolowo- led government in the defunct Western Region has ceased to function. The water plant and its office block is overgrown with weeds along the road that leads to Oshun River.

As a result, throughout the year, people of the agrarian community dig riverbeds to collect dirty water for their domestic use. The dry season comes with nightmares as residents’ pain are further accentuated by the effect of working hard on the farm, returning home to carry out household chores till late in the night and going to the river at 3 a.m in order to fetch unclean water.

Engineer Olushola Fakeye, an indigene, lamented the situation in the community recalling its glorious days. “Things were not like this in this town. We used to visit the river to fetch its ‘clean’ water and had fun by bathing in it, whenever we went there to wash our clothes. But the two rivers shrank and became polluted due to excavation of limestone in our community. Now, it dries up during the dry season and we have to dig the riverbed with hoe to collect water.”

The condition of the rivers accentuated what Aderonmu and other villagers go through in order to have the precious liquid in their homes with no end in sight to their agony.

”The reason why I missed coming early to the river today was because I overworked myself on the farm yesterday. When I got home, I had to carry out household chores till I retired to bed by midnight. I slept off and woke late in the morning.

“If there is a public or private water facility in our town, we would be saved this unnecessary stress and untold hardship over water. I am an old woman and my children live outside of this community, hence, I have to struggle to get water because there is no one to help me out.”

Effect on education/health

A public elementary school in the community, UAMC, Eleja Primary School cries for urgent intervention. Chief among this is the lack of water for the pupils and teaching staff. The lack of water has thrown up a lot of challenges in the school. Distraught pupils visit their home when pressed or to answer the call of nature. Aside from uncompleted buildings in the school built in 1956, the roof of a particular block of classrooms at the rear end of its expansive compound had been ruptured and abandoned.

Fakeye, a former student of the school, is worried about the diminishing fortune of facilities in his alma mata. Fakeye noted that the school at inception enjoyed basic facilities until it suffered infrastructure decay a few decades.

”I finished from the school and I knew what we enjoyed as pupils. The school was not lacking in basic facilities. We had neater classrooms, buildings and basic amenities. The Action Group, which was the ruling party in the now defunct Western Nigeria, provided a water treatment plant which served the entire community; it broke down and was not repaired to date.

”When pupils cannot have access to good water to drink or clean themselves up when they go to the toilet, then they are at the risk of cholera and diarrhoea caused by poor sanitary condition. It is for this reason that something urgent has to be done to save the situation.”

Just adjacent the school, there is a primary health center, whose facilities had seen better days. The poor sanitary condition of the center is compounded by lack of good water and drugs to treat patients, among others.

In contrast, Ibeshe’s next door neighbour, Ilaro, the administrative headquarters of Yewa area of Ogun State, bubbles with life like morning petals. The ancient town boasts of good roads, a federal polytechnic, standard stadium, a few new and old generation banks, modern buildings and private water providers.

Ilaro is about five kilometres from Ibeshe and the only means of transportation to the town is by commercial motorcycle which costs about N250 to go to the town and the same amount to return to Ibeshe. A 25-litre of water in Ilaro, according to findings, is N60; this means the value of getting good water in a 25-liter keg from Ilaro, in all, will cost about N560, a sum too high for peasant residents of Ibeshe to afford.

”Some okada operators who live in this community no longer convey passengers to Ilaro, instead they are paid by those who cannot drink dirty water from the river to buy water for them in kegs. Sadly, majority of our people are poor and cannot afford the price of buying clean water from Ilaro, leaving them with no option but to drink from the river,” a community leader, Alfa Nasiru Oniyide said.

Animals share water with residents

A snaky path runs through to the Lele River with a cluster of buildings on both sides of the way. On the same path, goats and sheep race to and fro the river to lap water.

“It is the same river that our sheep and goats drink from that we also drink from. Even though it is not hygienic but we have no choice because there is no drinkable or clean water either by government or private individuals in our community.

“We and our children have been drinking the water and falling sick. A number of children have died from diarrhoea and other related diseases as a result of drinking the dirty water from our rivers, yet the community health centre here cannot provide us with adequate treatment. The nearest place we can get adequate healthcare in public hospital is Ilaro, but it is several kilometres from Ibeshe and about 40 minutes’ drive away from here,” said Ebenezer Awoyemi, a resident.

“We are begging the state government to provide clean and drinkable water for us in this community. The two rivers are closing up because of limestone exploration and this has affected the quality of the water we get from the rivers. Water is life and our people are dying because of lack of it,” he added.

Damning statistics

Last week, the statistics released by an international water and sanitary development organisation, WaterAid, indicate that 695 million people out of the 1.2 billion total population of Africa are surviving without basic sanitation and 395 million people are without clean water.

“With Africa’s population projected to be 2.2 billion by 2030, only 32% of Sub-Saharan Africans will have access to sanitation by 2030. ”57 million people in Nigeria don’t have access to safe water, over 130 million people don’t have access to adequate sanitation which is two third of the population and around 45,000 children under five years old die every year from diarrhoea caused by unsafe water and poor sanitation.”

According to a community leader, Alfa Nasiru Oniyide, “The two rivers, Oshun and Lele, for decades had been flowing with clean water and served as the main source of water for Ibeshe people until commercial exploration of cement started about ten years ago here. In effect, the rivers have been polluted by limestone or cement dust making the water unsafe for human consumption, yet, that is what we drink here at the expense of our health.

“Our people are dying and there is no hope in sight even as the company exploiting our limestone for commercial production of cement are also indifferent to our plight. Many men can no longer sleep comfortably with their wives at home, especially in the night because the women are also involved in the painful search for water at the rivers in the wee hours.”

Another resident, Idris Adelani, urged the state government and Dangote Cement Plc to come to the aid of the community by providing safe or clean water for distraught residents.

April 29, 2017
These men died

Three deaths happened in the past week. Two of them were personal, and the third was deeply professional. The first and personal one is that of Pa Jacob Mosanya, a labour activist and perennial fan of In Touch and The Nation. He struck a friendship with me about five years ago, and was like a father figure. He visited my office a number of times and showed his great love of poetry, history and politics that engaged our conversations. He wrote a book a few years ago on Awoism and the Western Region. He worked for many years with the Railways and was a committed Nigerian. I will miss his intellectual brio, his mental dynamism and paternal advice. He died two days after his 88th birthday. He had wished to outlive his father, who also died at 88.

The other death was a little personal. The poet Derek Walcott died at 87. He visited Nigeria a few years ago, and I met with him for a long interview about his works. He told me my interview with him was different because I was familiar with his works. Many interviewers around the world were not. I interrogated him. His great work, Omeros, was a modern epic that domesticated Homer’s Odyssey in the Caribbean. He won the Nobel Prize principally on its strength. My favourite line from his work has haunted me: “You will love again the stranger that is yourself.” Another line? “I met history but it didn’t recognise me”

The more distant death was of Jimmy Breslin, 88, the cigar-chomping journalist, who dared establishment, baited scoundrels and supported the common man. He wrote in a sunny, acerbic style, and maintained a column for over 40 years. He was a major icon of pen, and won the Pulitzer prize. He has been imitated in vain by many columnists and served as example in journalism classes. I never forget his view of column writing, maybe because I share it: “Rage is the only quality which has kept me, or anybody I have ever studied, writing columns for newspapers.”

March 20, 2017
Kwara: Two men, shared destiny
Last week, a long-time friend with whom I operated closely as chairman, Nigeria Union of Journalists, Lagos State Council, visited me in Ilorin. It was a great reunion which afforded us an opportunity to catch up on the past given the fact that this golden comrade has been out of Nigeria for a long time. Thus, we reviewed politics, policies, elections and sports. Almost everything that caught our fancy, but more importantly those things we consider dear to our commitments.

Expectedly, one of the topics that featured prominently in the just two days my London-based friend spent with me was the Saraki factor in Nigeria and Kwara politics. “The man is seen as an oppressor. People say he’s arrogant, too rigid, never smiling, never mixing with the people he calls his followers”, my friend cried out as if that was his mission for the visit. He concluded with the big question “why?”

But I was not surprised with this kind of jaundiced and skewed perception about the Senate President. I have had to contend with such insinuations, even as the chairman of the Nigeria Union of Journalists, Lagos State Council. They are contemptuous biases against perceived northern hegemony by elements outside the zone. Way back in 1992, a friend in Lagos had once queried why the late Dr Abubakar Olusola Saraki was still in politics. “The same reasons why Chief Obafemi Awolowo died in politics,” I answered him simplicita. They both had the mission to work for a better country.

So, today, I’m not rattled that similar questions are being asked about his son. “That’s the impression some people want others to have about Saraki. If you accuse him of being an oppressor, the question is, in what ways? Is it by assisting and supporting people who ordinarily would never have thought of being where today are because of their background of being children of the less privileged?

In the political system of South-west today, is it possible to remove the Awolowo factor? How was Awo able to dominate the politics of the region despite the various opposition antics? Was it not because he met the needs of the people through policies and programmes? The opposition saw his hold on the region as oppressive too, but his people knew he was a God-sent.”

“Look, take it or leave,” I continued, “Asiwaju Tinubu remains a credible rallying point for the South-west progressive political elites. He represents the voice of major of the voiceless. His generosity and care for the downtrodden endear him to the majority of the people. His knowledge of humanity which made him identify the enormous potentials in an Osinbajo, a Fashola, an Ambode, a Lai Muhammed and a host of other gifted politicians, is awesome. Those who distanced themselves from him may continue to vilify him, but those who have shared strategic sessions with him know his love for his people.

“The same with Saraki and Kwara. His opponents would continue to cry and give him all sorts of names, but the people on ground, who daily, in one way or the other, are exposed to his impacts will continue to queue behind him, come rain, come sun. That’s the truth.” I said. A number of professionals, technocrats, academia, artisans, including the men on the street have found their ways to the heights of their competences through his benevolence.

I asked my friend to let’s visit some communities in Kwara Central senatorial district where Saraki’s constituency projects are ongoing. How many of his ilk are doing that? What of his current empowerment programme? How many of those who accuse him of oppression are doing one tenth of that? It is easier to tag someone like Saraki as an oppressor because that simply gives his opposition something to latch on.

At the accusation that he frowns all the time, I smiled and asked him if a man should laugh just for him to be seen as so doing. Again, come to think of it – those who make such pedestrian allegation, how many times have they had personal contacts with him? And let’s even assume this to be true without conceding, is it by smiling that you help your people? Those who claim to have the capacity to laugh and hug the masses, how many have they lifted up in life? Why is it that the masses keep flocking to the house of a man “without a smile”? Why do they snide at the men with smiles plastered on their faces and inviting them to come? Could it be that these poor masses can detect the difference between a genuine smile and a cosmetic one? Why do these so called “smilers” run away with their smiles at the end of every election in the state, because I am sure that allegation is coming from their quarter?

I told my friend to discard that allegation.

And then he landed on my boss, Governor Abdulfatah Ahmed. Why is he not in charge of Kwara State, he asked.

“Who told you the governor is not in charge here?” I asked. “Of course, to the opposition, he’s not in charge because he pledges allegiance to his political leader. He’s not in control because they expected him to steer political crises in the state; of course, that’s where political jobbers eke out their living. Governor Ahmed is not in charge because he’s desirous of leaving a positive footstep in the political and economic history of the state. He’s well focused on what he needs to do within the privileged time he has to be at the helms of affairs in the state,” I told Idrees, my friend.

“The truth is,” I continued, “only a God-fearing mam, conscious of posterity, will behave the way of Governor Ahmed. There are very few of such men around. Most are pretentious and deceitful. They dress in borrowed ropes to get want they wanted and become their true self, traitors. Go and inquire from his cabinet members and aides and get to know the truth instead of accepting mere speculations. Governor Ahmed is fully in charge of the administration of the state,” I emphasised.

The truth many are not willing to accept in our evolving democracy is that leadership would keep emerging and allegiance would keep evolving. It is all part of politics. We should not see loyalty as a negative quality but rather as a virtue. Personally, for instance, I’m not very comfortable with what some APC leaders in the South-west are doing in this regard. No matter the offence or misunderstanding, virtue does not teach us to throw mud at our destiny helpers. Saraki is a destiny helper for Ahmed and none of the Holy Books teaches us to treat such men with disdain just because we are in a position of honour today. Dr Ahmed is a study in humility, resourcefulness and loyalty. Dr Ahmed initiates and implements policies and programmes of his administration and fully takes responsibility for the results.

In any case, the truth that I know is that Saraki is too busy in Abuja than dictate to Ilorin. Governor Ahmed is too loyal to his conscience than block lines of communication between him and Saraki or deny his leadership. The earlier some people realise and accept this, the better.

As both celebrate their birthdays this month, please, accept my warmest regards and that of my family.
- Oba is Chief Pres Secretary to Governor Ahmed.
December 23, 2016
Undergraduate disguises as woman to dupe 33 men on instagram

A 22-year-old man, Oluwole Israel Falope, has been arrested by Rapid Response Squad (RRS), operatives for allegedly duping over 33 men while pretending to be a woman on Instagram.

Falope was arrested when a RRS decoy team that had been monitoring him, trailed him to a popular club in Ikeja last Thursday.

The officers were reported to have monitored him and those he was interacting with at the club before arresting him and a colleague.

It was gathered that the suspect celebrated his birthday at Hard & Rock in Lekki, Lagos, a week before his arrest. He was said to have lavished over half a million naira on foods and drinks.

The suspect, a 100 level part-time student of the Nigerian Institute of Journalism, (NIJ) Ogba, Lagos, was said to have told interrogators that he has been in the business for more than two years.

The police said Falope’s activities on instagram were placed under probe when they received a complaint about an Instagram handle @blackberbiedoll allegedly used for criminal activities, which was traced to him.

Apart from @blackberbiedoll, which he allegedly used for fraudulent activities, he also reportedly maintained @froshwhite007 and @froshwhite for the same purpose.

The complainant told RRS that he got a friend request from @blackberbiedoll.

He said: “Apparently, the picture on the account was that of a lady. The lady in question messaged me on BBM. Honestly, I thought I was chatting with a woman who claimed to be in Nigeria at the time.

“She lied to me that her father was a Nigerian and her mum, a Kenyan, and so we got talking. At a point, she lied that she was building a beauty outfit in Ikota Shopping Mall and Victoria Garden City (VGC) and that she was in need of some money to complete the mall.

“I had to transfer N1 million to her. Weeks later, I grew suspicious of the account name Olawole Israel Oluwaseun Falope. I ran a search on Google, and then discovered it was all scam. Immediately, I reported the incident to Instagram and that account was blocked and later suspended to prevent others from falling victim.”

Another victim, who did not want his identity revealed, said he paid N100, 000 into Falope’s account to support his “bogus fashion outfit.”

The suspect said since he started the fraudulent act about two years ago, he had duped no fewer than 33 men, adding that the least amount he received was N80,000.

RRS quoted him as saying: “When I started, much as I pretended to be a lady on phone, some men on the other side didn’t believe me. I then downloaded an app on Google which transformed my voice into that of a lady whenever I am having conversation.

“I got several pictures of Shayla, a pretty United States based lady on my profile. Since then, men have been disturbing me and calling to request for a date.

“What I do is that I assess people based on their appearance on Instagram, add them and thereafter open up conversations with them before I start bringing up all manners of stories in order to dupe them.

“At a point, I lied to most of them that I had an accident and I lost my Automated Teller Machine (ATM). I told them that I need some money. Some of them were generous enough to drop money into my account.

“I also lied to them that I was putting up a boutique and salon at Ikota, VGC and Lekki, and that I need money to finish setting up.

“I know I made a mistake downloading Shayla’s pictures and using them for fraudulent purposes. I am telling you the truth, those that I have collected money from can’t be more than 33.”

The Nation learnt that the owner of the profile pictures the suspect used, @Shayla had complained to Instagram that some Nigerians were using her profile pictures to dope people.

It was also gathered that the suspect claimed to be a friend of some celebrities.

“I know all of them. I attend a lot of shows, I meet them, take photographs with them, even exchange numbers,” he said.

The RRS confirmed that he was following many celebrities on instagram but it could not confirm if any of them fell prey to him, as many of his instagram chats with them got no response.

RRS noted that Falope’s claim of being a half-caste, fashion designer, stylist, cosmetologist and model were all part his fraud to make people fall for him. He was never a trainee or a specialist in any of this, it said.

“He didn’t deny this claim. He admitted bleaching his skin to escape the taunting of girls that he was a very ugly guy,” RRS said.

Items recovered from the suspect included, an iphone 6, 1 Samsung Galaxy A5, an Apple tablet, hand and neck chains, some new notes and a handbag.

Police spokesperson Dolapo Badmos, a Superintendent (SP), advised Nigerians to be careful on the internet because scammers are on the prowl worldwide.

The suspect, she said, has been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department (SCID) at Panti, Yaba, Lagos Mainland for further investigations.

December 19, 2016
Advice For Men Who Are Struggling With Premature Ejaculation And Weak Erection
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November 25, 2016
For Men Over 40 Years “I Almost Died Of Prostate Cancer And Painful Ejaculation”

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October 29, 2016
I DISLIKE MEN WITH TOO MUCH DRAMA – DJ TOXIQ

Rising musician, Oribhabor Ann Amen, known as DJ Toxiq, says that she is set to carve a space for herself in the entertainment industry. The talented musician who is also a Disc Jockey and a music producer speaks to THE NATION on her life as a DJ and privacy, among other things.

AS a musician, what is that factor that makes you different from others?

Well, I work hard to be unique and God has been kind enough to make the difference.

What were your dreams as a child?

Apart from going to space (laughs) I wanted to be a medical doctor, but that has changed now.

What was growing up in the South-South region like?

It was amazing and adventurous… I always tell people that I can’t give you a tale of my childhood without you holding your rib cage for the laughter you will experience. But as at when it was happening, it wasn’t funny. I feel blessed to experience my childhood in the South; Warri to be precise. From the cuisine, to the people, the slangs. In fact, I won’t want it any other way

What prompted you to go into music?

There was a particular evening I made up my mind to quit football due to disapproval from my parents. I heard about an audition in Warri looking for dancers and artistes, so I applied and emerged second position, although they are yet to pay me. That was how the journey began.

How did you then get to add being a Disc Jockey to the mix?

A friend of mine showed me a few tricks on my laptop, so I used it to entertain my guests and play in small gigs. From there, I landed my first major gig in a reputable lounge in Port Harcourt as the first female DJ in Port Harcourt. While in my university days, I picked up on disc jockeying abilities and worked as a Studio Engineer and during this time, I played at school parties and regular gigs.

What kind of man pisses you off?

Those are the drama kings; with too much talk.

So what kind of man catches your attention?

That will be a confident and well-dressed man.

Who is your Nigerian Celebrity Crush?

Mikel Obi of course… (giggles)

What is your opinion on nudity in the Nigerian entertainment industry?

For me, I think it’s art and I respect their confidence.

What projects have you been up to lately?

I just formed a partnership with Afriktainment Media and I am working on video. So far, I have dropped three tracks which features Magic City Gang Elites, Monster Ft Maxino, Doe Black Ft Frankie Free and the one receiving great reviews at the moment, Friends which was produced and performed by me.

Where do you see yourself in the next five years?

I see myself heading one of the biggest labels in Africa promoting African street music worldwide with my toxiqtonic sound. Also, I aim to produce great artistes from the streets through magic city gang.

Would you describe yourself as a fashionable person?

Not really. I love easy and casual wears more and I have a good body and height to rock anything because I always get good comments and it just happens..

What fashion item would you never be caught wearing?

I can wear anything and I love to explore.

What’s your most priced asset?

That would be my old laptop. It has made more hits the world is ready to listen.

October 29, 2016
Why Many Nigerian Men Can’t Go More Than One Round During Sex – Expert Reveals
There is a BIG problem that is facing many Nigerian men who are in a serious or committed relationship today.

And that problem is their inability to go more than one round of sex in bed with their partner or spouse.

To give you an idea of what I mean, I want you to read this comment left by a man on a Nigerian men’s blog recently:

You can tell from this comment above that this man is unable to satisfy his wife because he cannot go more than one round of love making.

Unfortunately, research suggest that 6 out of 10 Nigerian men are suffering from this same sexual problem.

And this problem is affecting so many relationships and so many marriages as we speak.

There are many reasons why a lot of men are unable to go more than one round in bed, but the No.1 undeniable reason why a lot of men are unable to go more than one round is because of…

A Loss Of Natural Male Sexual Energy!

This loss of male sexual energy is also one of the reasons why a lot of men have the following issues:
1. Weak Erection
That is when your penis gets very soft during penetration and you are unable to achieve rock hard erection during love making
1. Premature Ejaculation
That is when you are unable to handle the pleasure that you experience during sex and you are unable to last more than 1 – 2 minutes and you ejaculate too quickly.
1. Low Libido
That is when your sex drive is VERY low and your urge to have sex with your woman is ZERO despite how attractive she is.
1. Lack of Sexual Knowledge
That is when you don’t know exactly what to do to turn your woman on, so that she will become responsive to your needs to make you turned on and gain erection to satisfy her.

These 4 reasons is why a lot of men get the type of unhappy wife reaction in the picture below in bed during love making with their woman:

If you are a man who cannot go more than one round and you are suffering from any of the above conditions, there are three things you must know to get rid of this problem:

Number One

It takes Men 2-5 Minutes To Orgasm.
It Takes Women 5 Times Longer (20 – 30 minutes) to explode into a wave of pleasure

According to a European study of 9,500 married women, 85 percent of women say that they NEVER achieve an orgasm during sex.

That means, if you are unable to give your woman a deep satisfying round of sex, she will be left unsatisfied.

To give you an insight into how important this is for women, I want to see the comment screenshot below from a real woman online on Stella Dimokokorkus’s blog:

Unfortunately, a lot of men are like this. Once they ejaculate, they lose interest in the sex and sleep off, leaving their woman to starve sexually.

Number TWO:

If You Do Not Perform Your Bedroom Duties And Satisfy Your Wife, Someone Else Will Do It For You.

The woman is like you. She is human and have feelings. If she is not satisfied, she will be sexually starved and sexual starvation leads to cheating.

You may not notice, but a prevalent situation in marriages today is infidelity among couples.

For most women, the MAJOR reason why they cheat is because of Sexual frustration.

I want you to carefully read this shocking confession from a married Nigerian woman in the comment screenshot below:

This woman is cheating on her husband because he is not performing his bedroom duties.

Number THREE:

If She Is Not Enjoying It, She Probably
Won’t Really Tell YOU

She won’t tell you because she doesn’t want to hurt your ego.

The society we live in has placed a taboo on the “S” subject, especially for married women.

Many of them now result to suffering in silence.

The bold ones on the other hand are secretly talking about these issues behind their husbands in the comment sections of gossip blogs likeLinda Ikeji Blog, Bella Naija and Stella DimokoKorkus Blog.

Let me prove this by showing you a comments dropped on these blogs below:

My point is this…

Your woman may be secretly talking about your poor performance in bed without you knowing it.

If you are a one minute man and you cant seem to “wake it up” again irrespective of what your woman does to your manhood in bed, today is the day you must do something about it.

I use to have this problem myself, but I was able to banish my weak erection and low sexual energy by using a food supplement that boosted my male energy. Click here to get it: https://goo.gl/wZCewM

Now, let me ask you this important question…

Do You FEEL Bad About Your Sexual Performance
And Want To Do Something About It?

For you to be able to go from being a 1-minute man to lasting longer and going for more than one round of sex, here’s what you need to do:

Number 1: You must Overcome PREMATURE EJACULATION

You need to know how to stay longer inside her when you are making love. If you do not do this, you will leave her very unsatisfied.

Luckily, I found a safe, natural supplement solution to this and I use this personally myself and it has helped me go from being a 1-minute man to lasting 40 minutes and having multiple rounds of sex with my madam.

If you want this natural supplement for yourself to cure premature ejaculation, tell me where to send you the details by clicking here

Number 2: You Need to Increase Your Energy And Stamina

Most men undergo a lot of stress as a result of their jobs, family issues and life generally.

There are exercises and specific foods you need to eat that will increase your energy and boost your stamina. Click here to get these foods ==> https://goo.gl/wZCewM

Number 3: You need To Boost Your Manhood

You need to know exactly what to do to boost the fullness of your manhood inside her and make her feel you deep inside.

And you can boost your manhood by getting this natural food supplements here ==> https://goo.gl/wZCewM

Number 4: You Need To Know Her Pleasure Zones

A woman has about 20 of these pleasure zones on her body and you need to know where they are and exactly how to touch and STIMULATE it to take her to pleasure heaven.

Click here to sign up and I’ll send you a list of those 20 pleasure zones => https://goo.gl/wZCewM

If you are a man, and you struggle from premature ejaculation, weak erection, poor sex life and you get a bad response from your spouse during love making…

And you want to do something about it today…

Click here to sign up right away to get a proven solution to last longer, and get stronger erection that will help you go more than one round.

Not only that, this solution will also help you give your woman a deeply satisfying sex that will make her love and respect you.

Click this link and sign up for it => https://goo.gl/wZCewM

I hope you enjoyed today’s article.

Thanks for reading.
October 17, 2016
Why Many Nigerian Men Can’t Go More Than One Round During Sex – Expert Reveals
There is a BIG problem that is facing many Nigerian men who are in a serious or committed relationship today.

And that problem is their inability to go more than one round of sex in bed with their partner or spouse.

To give you an idea of what I mean, I want you to read this comment left by a man on a Nigerian men’s blog recently:

You can tell from this comment above that this man is unable to satisfy his wife because he cannot go more than one round of love making.

Unfortunately, research suggest that 6 out of 10 Nigerian men are suffering from this same sexual problem.

And this problem is affecting so many relationships and so many marriages as we speak.

There are many reasons why a lot of men are unable to go more than one round in bed, but the No.1 undeniable reason why a lot of men are unable to go more than one round is because of…

A Loss Of Natural Male Sexual Energy!

This loss of male sexual energy is also one of the reasons why a lot of men have the following issues:
1. Weak Erection
That is when your penis gets very soft during penetration and you are unable to achieve rock hard erection during love making
1. Premature Ejaculation
That is when you are unable to handle the pleasure that you experience during sex and you are unable to last more than 1 – 2 minutes and you ejaculate too quickly.
1. Low Libido
That is when your sex drive is VERY low and your urge to have sex with your woman is ZERO despite how attractive she is.
1. Lack of Sexual Knowledge
That is when you don’t know exactly what to do to turn your woman on, so that she will become responsive to your needs to make you turned on and gain erection to satisfy her.

These 4 reasons is why a lot of men get the type of unhappy wife reaction in the picture below in bed during love making with their woman:

If you are a man who cannot go more than one round and you are suffering from any of the above conditions, there are three things you must know to get rid of this problem:

Number One

It takes Men 2-5 Minutes To Orgasm.
It Takes Women 5 Times Longer (20 – 30 minutes) to explode into a wave of pleasure

According to a European study of 9,500 married women, 85 percent of women say that they NEVER achieve an orgasm during sex.

That means, if you are unable to give your woman a deep satisfying round of sex, she will be left unsatisfied.

To give you an insight into how important this is for women, I want to see the comment screenshot below from a real woman online on Stella Dimokokorkus’s blog:

Unfortunately, a lot of men are like this. Once they ejaculate, they lose interest in the sex and sleep off, leaving their woman to starve sexually.

Number TWO:

If You Do Not Perform Your Bedroom Duties And Satisfy Your Wife, Someone Else Will Do It For You.

The woman is like you. She is human and have feelings. If she is not satisfied, she will be sexually starved and sexual starvation leads to cheating.

You may not notice, but a prevalent situation in marriages today is infidelity among couples.

For most women, the MAJOR reason why they cheat is because of Sexual frustration.

I want you to carefully read this shocking confession from a married Nigerian woman in the comment screenshot below:

This woman is cheating on her husband because he is not performing his bedroom duties.

Number THREE:

If She Is Not Enjoying It, She Probably
Won’t Really Tell YOU

She won’t tell you because she doesn’t want to hurt your ego.

The society we live in has placed a taboo on the “S” subject, especially for married women.

Many of them now result to suffering in silence.

The bold ones on the other hand are secretly talking about these issues behind their husbands in the comment sections of gossip blogs likeLinda Ikeji Blog, Bella Naija and Stella DimokoKorkus Blog.

Let me prove this by showing you a comments dropped on these blogs below:

My point is this…

Your woman may be secretly talking about your poor performance in bed without you knowing it.

If you are a one minute man and you cant seem to “wake it up” again irrespective of what your woman does to your manhood in bed, today is the day you must do something about it.

I use to have this problem myself, but I was able to banish my weak erection and low sexual energy by using a food supplement that boosted my male energy. Click here to get it: https://goo.gl/wZCewM

Now, let me ask you this important question…

Do You FEEL Bad About Your Sexual Performance
And Want To Do Something About It?

For you to be able to go from being a 1-minute man to lasting longer and going for more than one round of sex, here’s what you need to do:

Number 1: You must Overcome PREMATURE EJACULATION

You need to know how to stay longer inside her when you are making love. If you do not do this, you will leave her very unsatisfied.

Luckily, I found a safe, natural supplement solution to this and I use this personally myself and it has helped me go from being a 1-minute man to lasting 40 minutes and having multiple rounds of sex with my madam.

If you want this natural supplement for yourself to cure premature ejaculation, tell me where to send you the details by clicking here

Number 2: You Need to Increase Your Energy And Stamina

Most men undergo a lot of stress as a result of their jobs, family issues and life generally.

There are exercises and specific foods you need to eat that will increase your energy and boost your stamina. Click here to get these foods ==> https://goo.gl/wZCewM

Number 3: You need To Boost Your Manhood

You need to know exactly what to do to boost the fullness of your manhood inside her and make her feel you deep inside.

And you can boost your manhood by getting this natural food supplements here ==> https://goo.gl/wZCewM

Number 4: You Need To Know Her Pleasure Zones

A woman has about 20 of these pleasure zones on her body and you need to know where they are and exactly how to touch and STIMULATE it to take her to pleasure heaven.

Click here to sign up and I’ll send you a list of those 20 pleasure zones => https://goo.gl/wZCewM

If you are a man, and you struggle from premature ejaculation, weak erection, poor sex life and you get a bad response from your spouse during love making…

And you want to do something about it today…

Click here to sign up right away to get a proven solution to last longer, and get stronger erection that will help you go more than one round.

Not only that, this solution will also help you give your woman a deeply satisfying sex that will make her love and respect you.

Click this link and sign up for it => https://goo.gl/wZCewM

I hope you enjoyed today’s article.

Thanks for reading.
October 10, 2016
Men in white

WHITE is a classic colour that suits any situation and occasion. It is an attractive colour which gives a very powerful impression. White can be an awkward colour to style but it is quite easy and versatile, sophisticated if properly styled. It reflects light so you don’t have to feel too hot no matter the weather.

White on white can be overpowering, it is better to spice it up with colourful accessories like belt, handkerchief, sunglass, hat and watch. Colours such as black, blue and brown will break up your white outfit beautifully without creating an overwhelming image. Avoid contrasting or odd colours with your outfit. Keep it cool and neutral.

October 1, 2016