After passing on at the age of 72, fans, family, colleagues and the entire Nigerian entertainment industry have continued to mourn the late singer and elegant stallion, Onyeka Onwenu.
Some of her colleagues from the music to film sector have taken turns to eulogise the late singer, actress, author, broadcaster and mother of two.
From Fidelis Duker to Charly Boy, Daddy Showket, Femi Kuti and Adewale Ayuba, the celebs have given their tributes about the singer by sharing how they met.
Onyeka exuded sense of dignity and poise – Fidelis Duker
Onyeka Onwenu, known as the Elegant Stallion, was a true icon in the Nigerian entertainment industry. I had the privilege of meeting her back in 1993 during my time as a floor manager for the NTA-produced show “WHO’S ON.” Onyeka’s presence exuded majesty and grace, leaving a lasting impression on all those around her.
I vividly remember the excitement that filled the studio whenever Onyeka arrived for the live show. As the host, she brought an unparalleled level of professionalism and attention to detail, setting high standards for the entire crew. Her dedication to her craft was evident in every aspect of the production, reflecting her background as a trained television producer and reporter.
During the show’s run, Onyeka’s influence extended beyond her on-screen presence. She fostered an atmosphere of discipline and sophistication, earning the respect of all those who worked with her. Despite her demanding nature, it was clear that Onyeka’s commitment to excellence stemmed from a deep respect for her craft and herself.
One particular memory that stands out is the meticulous care taken by the crew to ensure everything was in perfect order before Onyeka’s appearance. From the makeup to wardrobe, every detail was meticulously attended to, mirroring Onyeka’s own standards of perfection.
Beyond her professional abilities, Onyeka also carried herself with a sense of dignity and poise that left a lasting impression. Despite her fame and influence, she remained humble and approachable, earning the endearing nickname “Aunty Onyeka” from the crew.
I cherish the memories of the few encounters I had with Onyeka Onwenu on that set. I recall a particular evening when she shared wise words with me about the importance of focus in whatever endeavor one undertakes.
Our paths didn’t cross again until 2012, when we found ourselves serving on the same presidential committee for the creative industry established by President Goodluck Jonathan. I had the privilege of being part of the sub-committee that Onyeka chaired, giving me a unique opportunity to witness a different side of her. Her mature and administrative leadership style was truly remarkable, leaving a lasting impression on me.
After our committee work, our paths diverged once more until the release of her book, “My Father’s Daughter.” I made sure to get a copy and immerse myself in her remarkable story and wisdom.
Onyeka Onwenu’s excellence extended beyond her work on set and in committees. Her portrayal of various characters in movies showcased her as an epitome of glamour, grace, and beauty on screen. Her acting prowess was unparalleled, earning her numerous accolades, including the prestigious continental Best Actress award at the AMAA awards.
Onyeka’s impact on the entertainment industry went far beyond her role as a show host, . Her legacy as the Elegant Stallion continues to inspire generations of artists and professionals in Nigeria and beyond. It was an honor to witness her talent and presence firsthand, and her influence will forever be remembered in the hearts of those who had the privilege of working with her.
Waking up at 4 am today to the heartbreaking news of her passing after a performance at an event the night before shook me to the core. It was a shock to learn that the Elegant Stallion had taken her last bow, possibly doing what she loved most – singing and dancing. It seemed fitting that her final moments were filled with joy and passion, as evidenced by the videos of her energetic performance.
To her children, Tijanni and Abraham, I offer my deepest condolences. Your mother was a true legend who lived a life of purpose and impact. She came, she saw, and she conquered hearts with her talent and grace. May her soul rest in peace, and may her legacy continue to inspire generations to come. Amen.
She left the world in glory – Adewale Ayuba
In a recent interview, Fuji singer Adewale Ayuba said Onwenu’s immense contributions to the growth of the entertainment industry would always be revered.
“I celebrate the life of our beloved Onyeka Onwenu. Though she may have been taken from us too soon, her spirit, good works will forever live on in the memories we cherish and the love we shared.
“Many would have ample and lofty things to write about her efforts on Nigeria entertainment industry growth. Onyeka has left this world in glory. May her soul rest in peace,” he said.
Igbo Nation lost an iconic figure in Onyeka – Charly Boy
In his tribute to his friend of many years, Nigerian singer and activist, Charly Boy, said the iconic singer cum actress’ death is a great loss to the Igbo nation.
In his words: “The Igbo nation mourns the loss of this iconic figure, whose impact transcended the entertainment industry.
“Onwenu’s death follows the recent passing of Chief Emmanuel Iwuanyanwu and Senator Ifeanyi Ubah, marking a period of profound loss for the Southeast region of Nigeria.
“Onwenu’s legacy as a cherished talent and tireless advocate will continue to inspire future generations. Oh! My sister, Rest In Peace.”
Her beautiful voice will live forever – Femi Kuti
Afrobeat star Femi Kuti has expressed shock at the death of Onyeka Onwenu.
The 62-year-old ‘Sorry Sorry’ star said, “Shocked, waking up to very sad news of the passing of Mrs Onyeka Onwenu. Rest in peace Ma, your beautiful voice will live forever. Condolences to her family and loved ones.”
‘No lavish burial for me’
In 2021, Onyeka Onwenu revealed her wishes for how she would like to be remembered and buried.
The iconic artiste, known for her powerful voice and activism, said this in an opinion piece published on Premium Times.
She said, in clear terms, “Do it quickly, quietly and privately.”
She went further to urge her loved ones to mourn but not excessively nor waste funds on a superlative burial.
“Mourn, yes but not excessively. Celebrate me with prayers, lunch or dinner afterwards. Share some jokes about me and laugh. “Make merriment and then go about your business. If my friends want to celebrate me, they should do so while I am alive, so that I can enjoy it with them, not when I am gone and have no idea about this. That is me, Onyeka Onwenu,” she said.
Continuing, she said, “I am very uncomfortable with the lavish display of wealth on any occasion, especially in a time of hardship and lack for most others,” she remarked, calling for more modest and meaningful ways to honour the deceased.
Onyeka was brave, brilliant, beautiful – Azuka Jebose
It’s been three days since your last dance at sunset. I am trying not to be sad, but to understand that everybody has a day when the sun stays away.
I woke up to a brand new day, hoping that what we were told about your sudden death, the previous night, was just a journey on a wild side of today’s social media mundane imaginations. But truly, you are, eternally dancing in the sun(set) of your remarkable life.
I woke up at midnight and sleep refused my eyes. I stayed awake, remembering our so called “tumultuous relationships” throughout our careers in the 1980s. I was a young bohemian entertainment reporter with THE PUNCH. You were a charming songstress that blew our minds with your beauty, your rave and talents as an electrifying singer, an engaging story teller- broadcaster and a great actress.
Both of us were stubborn, single young career focused people. We came to impact our world. You wanted me to write what you liked about you. I wanted to be just as objective as journalism ethics dictated.
Between our stubbornness, we felt deep admiration and appreciation for our creative minds. Thence we fought at every opportunity our presence privileged us. I remember your vexed stirs at me. I also remember my goofs, silliness and young arrogance. Your anger, tickled me.
I was mischievous, unyielding, excited by the privilege to report, write and document the happenings in Nigeria’s complexed entertainment business. We engaged each other whenever our paths crossed: you were famous and legendary. We both happened to our generation, simultaneously.
Onyeka, you were a decade and plus three years older. We had similar disposition because we had pride from our foundations. We were brave, brilliant, beautiful and fearless.
Then came the years. As time began to tick fastest, we learned from each other that through those years, we truly adored each other’s creative brilliance and stubbornness. We felt at peace, as distanced friends, realizing that we were just responses to our moments in life.
Go well, my *elegant* *stallion* . We left our feet prints on the sands and soils of our time! Thank you for the privilege to brand you so!
