Tag: respect

  • I have great respect for journalism— Ajimobi

    I have great respect for journalism— Ajimobi

    Governor Abiola Ajimobi of Oyo State has said that he has great respect for the journalism profession, describing the practitioners as the conscience of the nation.

    The governor stated this on Thursday evening while hosting members of the state council of the Nigeria Union of Journalists (NUJ) and the National Association of Women Journalists (NAWOJ) who were at the Government House to break fast with him.

    “I want to use this occasion to say that I have great respect for the journalism profession. It is a noble profession. Besides, the constructive criticisms always being offered by journalists have helped tremendously in entrenching good governance and ensuring a better society,” he said.

    Governor Ajimobi particularly commended the media practitioners in the state for their cooperation and support for his administration, describing them as partners in progress.

    He said that the modest achievements so far recorded by his administration would not have been possible, if not for the focused government his administration runs and the friendly disposition of the journalists operating in the state without necessarily compromising the ethics of their profession.

    The governor said that his administration would continue to treat them with great respect, particularly for not allowing themselves to be unnecessarily influenced by the enemies of the society.

    He said that his administration decided to embark on urban renewal programme and environmental sanitation, having tackled the security problem which it inherited from the immediate past administration.

    Governor Ajimobi expressed satisfaction that the urban renewal and the environmental sanitation programme of his government had succeeded in changing the environmental landscape of the state and its hitherto typecast as one of the dirtiest states in the country.

    In their separate addresses, the state NUJ Chairman, Mr. Gbenga Opadotun, and NAWOJ Chairperson, Mrs. Adekiitan Adeagbo, commended Governor Ajimobi for the restoration of peace and security which had eluded the state prior to the emergence of his administration.

    They also expressed satisfaction with the performance of the governor so far, saying that he had not disappointed the people of the state.

  • National Conference: Respect for nationalities (large or small)

    There are some Nigerians who think that the way to build a “Nigerian nation” is to destroy our various distinct nationalities and their cultures. Since independence in 1960, this has been the dominant direction of the policies of those who control our federal government. They have engaged in all sorts of manipulations aimed at depressing and gradually eliminating our various nationalities.

    Their master strategy has been to build the federal government into the controller-in-chief of every minutest detail of public policy, resource control, and administration in our country. In that, they have succeeded considerably. And from that intoxicating mountain top, they have gradually eliminated the teaching of our indigenous languages, history and cultures from the curricula of our schools, subdued our state governments to implement the federal educational policies, and generally tried to raise a new generation of Nigerians with no roots in any of our indigenous nationalities or cultures – a new generation of culturally (and ethically) mangled, confused and opaque “Nigerians”.

    Those who have allowed themselves to fall into this kind of thinking about the future of our country need to look more carefully at what they are doing and promoting. Any kind of folly can be romanticized and made to look attractive, but, in the final analysis, folly is folly. This aggressive integrationist approach to the building of Nigeria (or of any country) is folly unlimited. It will not only fail to “unite Nigeria”. Some influential Yoruba, Hausa, Igbo, Kanuri, Ijaw, etc of today may, for various reasons of their own, accept and promote the federal integrationist agenda for their nationalities. But if they succeed, they cannot thereby create a united Nigeria; what they are very likely to create would be something like a repellently monstrous Nigerian society – a Nigerian society in which Nigeria’s currently evolving character of the amoral, the greedy, the corrupt, the comprehensively disloyal, etc, will be ruthlessly dominant. From the vortex of this kind of society, there will almost certainly emerge someday a new generation of Yoruba, Hausa, Igbo, Kanuri, Ijaw, etc, that will embark upon reviving and recreating their authentic indigenous cultures and nationalities.

    In short, the experience in our world is that indigenous nationalities and their cultures are near impossible to destroy. Men and women who find themselves in the position of leading and guiding a young country like Nigeria ought to look around them in the world – need to try and understand how certain things have evolved in older countries that are similar to our country. In the world, there are very many countries that are, like Nigeria, multi-ethnic – countries in which different nationalities live in their ancestral homelands. Many of these countries have existed for hundreds of years, and yet in none of them have the nationalities died out or fused into one integrated mixture. It doesn’t happen.

    Let’s take the example of Spain. Spain has existed since the mid-15th century (that is about 600 years) as a country consisting of Spaniards, Catalans and Basques. The Spaniards have been the overwhelming majority since the beginning, and that, coupled with general mixing of the various peoples over time, has helped Spanish culture, especially the Spanish language, to spread quite strongly among the smaller nationalities. In fact, Spain came under a dictatorial regime in the first half of the last century, and the regime tried ruthlessly to suppress the identities, especially the languages, of the small nationalities – and declared their languages illegal. It didn’t work. In recent decades, the Catalans and Basques have revived their cultures and their languages very successfully. Both now want separate countries of their own out of Spain.

    Britain (or the United Kingdom) has been a country consisting of the English, Scotts, Irish and Welsh for about 500 years. Because the English have been the largest nationality from the beginning, the English language has spread in the homelands of the other nationalities. Each of England, Scotland, Ireland and Wales has large numbers of citizens from other homelands. Even so, each homeland belongs to its nation. In fact, every one of the Scotts, Irish and Welsh have been strongly reviving their cultures in recent times. Most of Ireland broke away in 1921 and created a separate Republic of Ireland, and the Scotts are now about to do the same. The smallest nationality, the Welsh, are now doing everything to revive their language, in order to make it the language of their own separate country which they hope to have soon.

    Like Nigeria, India is a British-created, third-world, country, consisting of hundreds of nationalities. Fortunately for India, after the northern provinces broke away soon after independence, India’s political leaders agreed that the best policy was to respect each nationality and encourage each culture. It has worked wonderfully. An eminent Indian scholar and statesmen, S.D. Muni, sums up its effect as follows: “The elaborate structure of power devolution has combined with the linguistic basis of federal unity (the use of the linguistic nations as the basis for the states of the federation) to facilitate the management of cultural diversity in India and to help mitigate pulls towards separatism and disintegration”. Muni adds that both at the federal and state levels, Indians are dedicated to “a consciously followed approach to preserve and promote the cultural specificities of diverse groups” – that is, the federal government respects and encourages every culture, and each state that consists of two or more nationalities carefully respects and encourages the culture of each nationality. He concludes that these approaches have helped every nationality to identify happily with India.

    Unfortunately, to worsen the Nigerian situation, some people are said to intend to propose that the National Conference should include in the constitution a provision granting any Nigerian the rights of an indigene anywhere he chooses to go and live in Nigeria. In one of Shakespeare’s plays, two ministers of a king are worried about something that their king is proposing to do. One shakes his head sadly and says, “This will drink deep”; the other answers, “No, it will drink cup and all”. A provision like this in the Nigerian constitution can become a major wrecker. All over Nigeria, our nationalities are most likely to begin to protect their homelands from take-over by new artificial indigenes. Whoever imagines that any people will easily let themselves be robbed of the emotional and mystical ownership of their homeland is thinking dangerous thoughts.This law will result in greatly increased difficulties for those who already live outside their own ethnic homelands and those who intend to.

    Such a provision is unnecessary any way. Already, any Nigerian can go and live and do business anywhere in Nigeria. And the electoral laws include residency qualifications. We should just leave things at that, and let the passage of time do whatever with the rest. What Nigeria needs is manifest dedication to the protection of each nationality and its culture, and the promotion of a consciousness whereby those who go to live in other people’s land respect their host nation, and desist from misinterpreting their land ownership rights for ethnic territorial ownership rights. The homeland of each of our nationalities is theirs. Nothing can change that.

  • ‘Respect merit, integrity in SANs’ appointment’

    In all, while the Chief Justice of Nigeria (CJN) Hon. Justice Aloma Mariam Mukhtar has raised the bar of expectation from the bench, the litmus test will be the selection of candidates for the award of the rank of senior advocates of Nigera (SAN) this year, every thing should be done to ensure that this legacy of incorruptibility and intergrity in any thing the CJN is involved in endures even now the whole nation is watching how the 2013 edition will go.

     

    Conclusion:

    Investigations revealed that between 60 – 80 PER CENT of applicants for the rank of Senior Advocates of Nigeria (SAN) this year 2013 are qualified for first time. It will be manifestly unjust if they (the first time) applicants are considered for the award where there are applicants in the previous year 2012 with better cases and number of Cases who are left out having passed their office inspection and oral interviews, unless the first timer can show verifiable evidence of distinction and excellence far above the previous applicants objectively.

    Also the situation where an applicant has more Supreme Court cases than High Court or Court of Appeal should be thoroughly investigated by the legalpractitioners privileges committee (LLPC) : for example some applicants may have the following statistics of Cases:

    The above table prima facie suggests the applicants buying up supreme court cases; if not how do we believe such data.

    If the process of appointment to the rank of SAN is open and transparent, it can no doubt provide a quality and competent ready pool from which prospective members of the bench can be recruited from by the National Judical Council any time it wants to appoint people to the bench. Also, it will bring competent hands to the bench thereby Negating incompetence, nepotism and corruption at the bench.

    Right now, there is a consensus ad idem that the lady who is today the Chief Justice of Nigeria-Hon. Justice Aloma Mariam Mukhtar is not corrupt and every Lawyer agrees with this. That she is fighting a battle of her life and that she is a fit and proper person to fight that battle.

    However in this year’s edition of the conferment of the rank of Senior Advocates of Nigeria (SAN) on deserving candidates, my Lord the CJN should not disappoint us.

    Merit, Integrity and Competence

    These should be used to evaluate each candidates application without these, the noble intensions which the Hon. the CJN represents and seeks might as well be another mirage.

    •Concluded

    •Rev. Eghaghe is a lawyer based in Benin City, Edo State

     

  • Showing respect

    1. Behave like a gentleman. Kiss her at the door and hug if possible.

    Some of these behaviors might be labeled “old fashioned” or even be frowned on in the workplace, but if your woman feels comfortable with it, engage in some extra courtesies to make things a little easier and more comfortable for her.

    2. Be polite. Women like to hear “please” and “thank you.” Even if you’ve been dating a while or married a long time, don’t throw manners out the window. Show her the same thoughtfulness you’d show anyone else. Avoid using profanity. Never use profanity or offensive slang to refer to your woman, even if you’re just kidding. If you hold her in high regard, be sure your language reflects that.

    3. Don’t change or break plans. If it’s an emergency or the change is completely unavoidable, of course you can break a date, but be sure to give as much advance notice as possible and offer a very good explanation and an apology.

    4. Be on time. If you’re running late, call as soon as you can to let her know. Everyone’s time is valuable, and being somewhere when you say you will is just common courtesy. Resist the impulse to put off calling because you fear your woman will be angry. She might be, but chances are she’ll be even angrier if you’re not in touch.

    5. Treat her family well. Even if she says that she’s not close with her family, always be respectful toward them and avoid criticizing them. Family bonds can be strong, and parents and siblings can influence a woman’s decision to date or dump a guy.

    If a woman has children, be friendly toward them and do your best to get to know them. Women are quick to say good-bye to men who do not treat their children with kindness. Don’t ever overstep your bounds and try to parent or discipline her kids; leave that to the woman in your life.

    6. Avoid jealousy. Being jealous of male friends, co-workers and exes without good reason tells a woman that you consider her to be deceitful and of low moral character. Not a message you want to send to someone you care for.

    7. Help around the house. If you two live together, pitch in on chores. Both of you are responsible for the housework. Don’t expect her to constantly pick up after you. One of the surest ways to a woman’s heart is with a vacuum cleaner in one hand and a box of laundry detergent in the other.

  • Respect your elders, group tells Oyinlola

    The former National Secretary of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), Prince Olagunsoye Oyinlola, has been advised to “respect his elders”.

    A group, the Good Governance Front, gave the advice yesterday in a statement signed by its National Coordinator, Mr. Akintunde Ige.

    It said rather than help his benefactor, Oyinlola exposed him for who he truly is.

    The statement reads: “A few days ago, a former President said he believed a North Western Governor was a performer in whom he is well-pleased. To drive his point home, he said ‘you can find someone a job but you cannot do it for him’.

    “Despite Oyinlola’s denial, the fact that the former President made the remarks on a day President Goodluck Jonathan was marking the second anniversary of his administration and presenting the mid-term report of the Transformation Agenda of the PDP-led Federal Government showed clearly that it was a subtle reference to the Jonathan administration, which has come under his scathing criticisms in recent times.

    “This is even more so, knowing the predilection of the old fox for innuendos and insinuations. His further outburst that the current World Bank and International Monetary Fund (IMF) authenticated data showing steady improvement in Nigeria’s Gross Domestic Product (GDP) were not reflective of the people’s standard of living should be enough to expose the gambit behind the entire tirade.

    “The fact that such a statement could come from a former president, who relied on the same indices while in office, goes to show that it is all politics.

    “Perhaps, this was what his apologist, Oyinlola, meant when he said he took a member of the PDP’s Board of Trustees, Alhaji Shuaibu Oyedokun, who condemned the comments credited to the former ruler, to beg the latter before he was re-admitted into the party. In a nutshell, in those days, the man equalled the party and the party equalled the man!

    “The good news, however, is that this is now history, especially in Southwest PDP where his dictatorship has been terminated permanently. Even at the national level, where he loomed larger than life in the past, he has now been cut down to his actual size.

    “Nigerians deserve a focused leadership and all those who serve to distract the government from its primary duties to the people should be ignored. The age and time when some people carry on as if they are God is gone for good.

    “The Jonathan administration owes it a duty to the Nigerian people and generations unborn to make a clean break with the impunity of the past. It cannot afford the luxury of reversing the gains on the altar of political expediency or consideration.”

  • Carrick: We must respect Liverpool

    Michael Carrick spoke with maturity ahead of Manchester United’s clash with Liverpool at Anfield on Sunday, fresh off the back of a match-winning performance in the Champions League against Galatasaray.

    The 31-year-old midfielder grabbed the only goal in Wednesday night’s encounter at Old Trafford and though he was satisfied with the club’s start to their European campaign, Carrick chose to preview a “classic” Premier League match-up.

    Carrick told reporters: “Everyone’s got a huge responsibility to respect the situation. Hopefully the football will be celebrated as it’s one of the classic football games worldwide.

    “These games are a one-off, form goes out of the window, the atmosphere is that little bit more special. We’re expecting Liverpool to bring their best game and we’ll have to bring ours.

    “To play in a game like that, they’re the ones you remember. As a player you appreciate what it means to the fans.”