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  • Solomon Buchi quizzes essence of dating multiple women

    Solomon Buchi quizzes essence of dating multiple women

    Relationship therapist, Solomon Buchi, has spoken on people who date multiple partners simultaneously. 

    He questioned how people can comfortably be in a romantic relationship with different people.

    Buchi shared his dedication to providing undivided attention, commitment, and communication to one partner at a time.

    This approach, he feels, leaves no space for another, prompting him to question how others manage multiple relationships.

    Read Also: God will judge you for how you treat your partner – Solomon Buchi

    “I wonder how people date multiple partners, because I give all my attention to one person. I fully commit to one person. I communicate with one person. I open up to one person. I can only speak for hours to one person. After doing all these, there’s nothing left for a second option,” he said.

  • God will judge you for how you treat your partner – Solomon Buchi

    God will judge you for how you treat your partner – Solomon Buchi

    Relationship therapist, Solomon Buchi, has provided guidance to couples, emphasizing the importance of respecting each other’s rights to avoid God’s judgment.

    He revealed his strong conviction that people will eventually be judged by God according to how they treat their partners in a post that was shared on Twitter.

    Buchi discussed the idea that before assuming duties as husband or wife in relationships, people should first acknowledge themselves as God’s children.

    He adopted the idea that a person should treat their partner with great care and respect, stressing that they should be cherished as valuable people rather than as possessions.

    He went on to say that people ought to treat their partners in relationships as though they were tending to them on behalf of God, reflecting the compassion and love they would expect to receive from a divine presence.

    Read Also: I used to be a feminist, says Solomon Buchi

    Solomon Buchi wrote: “God will judge you for how you treat your partner. They are first God’s children before they are your husband/wife. You don’t own them, you’re taking care of them for God. Do it well. Do it like God will like it done.

    “Before marriage, people make babies by going close to the opposite sex Imao, but in marriage, you’ll plan, you’ll eat healthily, reduce this and that, exercise, and it dawns on you that making babies in marriage can become a chore.

    “If I never had to work again in life. I’ll love a big family! Probably 6 kids. But there’s work that takes time, so we’d do half of that. Lol.”

  • I used to be a feminist, says Solomon Buchi

    I used to be a feminist, says Solomon Buchi

    Solomon Buchi, a social media relationship adviser, delves into the concept of feminism and its impact on contemporary relationships and the perception of Christian marriage.

    The life coach reflects on his past affiliation with feminism, which he eventually abandoned due to its perceived divergence from its original objectives, resulting in misguidance.

    With his wife by his side, Solomon Buchi disclosed in an interview that contemporary feminism is nothing more than a methodical assault on men.

    He continued by saying that when he saw how feminists’ goals ran counter to what Christianity stands for in marriage, the Lord told him to give up on feminism.

    He stated: “I used to be a feminist. I was clueless then. Modern-day feminism is absolutely insane. In my background, there was a lot of women marginalisation and oppression and I believe in gender equality but after some time, I noticed the whole movement was running mad. It was no longer about women, it became the demonization of men and the destruction of family values.

    Read Also: Indecent dressing: Solomon Buchi defends Maraji against internet trolls

    “If you look at a lot of women out there, many are scarred and need therapy. You don’t want to build a family with them; they are not even ready to build a family. They are so combative and women like that don’t believe in submission to a man and that brings chaos in a family.

     “I’m saying, marry a woman who has family values, homely and is submissive. As Christians, we are all equal even in marriage but the man is the head.

    Agreeing with his point, his wife, added, “As Christians, we take the bible as the final authority over all other subject matter and as he said, the man is the head.”

  • Indecent dressing: Solomon Buchi defends Maraji against internet trolls

    Indecent dressing: Solomon Buchi defends Maraji against internet trolls

    Media personality Solomon Buchi has recently supported Comedian Maraji on X following her criticism of women who dress indecently.

    Maraji had previously expressed her views on indecent dressing, claiming that modest dressing commands more respect and politeness from others.

    Solomon Buchi provided his viewpoint despite the criticism she received from certain ladies who called her a “pick-me” and that she didn’t encourage other women.

    He made the case that some outfit does not exalt God and stressed the significance of modesty in the Christian faith.

    He voiced concern over the misconception of decency held by certain Christian ladies.

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    Buchi also pointed out that people’s fashion choices might be influenced by celebrities who advocate for less modest attire.

    He concluded by underlining the difficulty of teaching modesty and decency to modern women and asserting that maintaining one’s body is a crucial component of faith.

    In his words: “Maraji has been called unprintable names by her fellow women because she frowned upon indecent dressing. I’ve seen posts of women calling her a hater, a pick-me, etc.

    “Fight it, but dressing will never be relative.

    “There’s a way typical prostitutes dress. Women call certain outfits “Ashawo dress” because it gives slutty vibes. Even the Bible validates that harlots look a certain way: “And there a woman met him, with the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart.” Proverbs 7:10 NKJV.

    “What scares me is that some Christian women think they can wear whatever they wish to. If decency is just a social construct to control women, why not walk around stark naked, as clothes are even tools of oppression too?

    “Many of you follow celebrities who wear rubbish, and you let them influence you, a child of God, who should be regenerated.”

  • Why “it can never be me” is often not the reality – Solomon Buchi

    Why “it can never be me” is often not the reality – Solomon Buchi

    Relationship expert and controversial writer, Solomon Buchi, shared insights on social media about how individuals who adamantly claim, “It can never be me,” often find themselves facing the very situations they once vowed to avoid.

    The Twitter famous life coach highlights the common tendency of people to declare: “I can never take this in life” or “I’ll never take this in marriage”, only to eventually find themselves in precisely the situations they once vehemently rejected.

    He suggests that life has a way of leading us down paths we never intended to tread and throws us into circumstances we never anticipated.

    As people grow older, Buchi argues, they tend to gain a deeper understanding of this truth.

    Read Also: Men submit to God, women submit to your husbands – Solomon Buchi

    The unexpected challenges of life can become clearer with age, leading to a more understanding perspective on one’s own life and the lives of others.

    She said: “I’ll tell you this: anyone who’s always saying “I’ll never take this in life.” “I’ll never take this in marriage”, “it can’t be me.” People like this, in most cases, end up in such situations. My dear, you’ll take it, and it will be you. Life will squeeze out humility from you. I’m not asking anyone to wish themselves evil. However, when you see evil happen, humbly understand that it could be you, but it wasn’t you. Humbly pray that you don’t find yourself in such a mess. Humbly understand that you’re not better than who it happened to.

    “When the rigid man eventually falls into their unimaginable realities, they break. It breaks them, because it’s more than them, it’s their ego. “How could it be me?” “But I’m better than that person it happened to?” This is ego, and though difficult to tame, it’s profitable to.”

  • Marriage is not a favour to women, Solomon Buchi tells men

    Marriage is not a favour to women, Solomon Buchi tells men

    Popular relationship therapist, Solomon Buchi, has spoken to men who misunderstand and have epileptic idea of getting married to a woman.

    Solomon, known for his controversial takes on relationship, hit men with an understanding of what having a woman to call their own is.

    He argued when a man proposes to a woman, he isn’t helping her, streasing it’s important to abandon the idea that women need marriage to fix their lives.

    The subject of Buchi’s message is a common fallacy; the idea that a woman’s life can only be whole or fulfilled through marriage.

    Read Also: S3x before marriage sinful, says Solomon Buchi

    He advised that Nigerian men should cease watching too much nollywood where those kind of ideas originate from.

    “Dear men,

    “When you’re asking a woman to marry you, you’re not saving her.

    “You’re not taking away her shame; there’s no shame there.

    “You’re not doing her a favour.

    “Stop sounding like she needs to marry you to get life fixed, and if she rejects you, she won’t suffer, neither would she regret it.

    “You’re not the only great guy as you’ve made yourself believe.

    “Reduce watching Nollywood too,” he said.

  • S3x before marriage sinful, says Solomon Buchi

    S3x before marriage sinful, says Solomon Buchi

    Relationship expert Solomon Buchi has argued that s3x before marriage is sinful.

    According to him: “Having sex with the opposite sex before marriage is called FORNICATION, not dating. And it’s a sin.”

    In the past, he has spoken out on various subjects, including relationships, smoking and red flags within couples.

    In August, Solomon Buchi also shared some golden nuggets to couples-to-be, highlighting the sacrifices and considerations necessary for a successful marital journey.

    Read Also: Tonto Dikeh, Angela Okorie fight over Naira Marley’s phone number

    His advice included a suggestion that women are “never wrong” in marriage, emphasizing the importance of receptivity to partners’ perspectives.

    In his latest message, Buchi’s focus shifted to the importance of recognising certain behaviors as genuine red flags within relationships, rather than falling to emotional manipulation.

    He specifically addressed the subject of smoking and its implications for compatibility in a relationship.

  • Most popular Nigerian musicians are cultists, Solomon Buchi alleges       

    Most popular Nigerian musicians are cultists, Solomon Buchi alleges       

    Famous Nigerian writer and activist, Solomon Buchi, has joined the trending discussion as regards the alleged Nigerian Music Industry cruelty.

    The controversy surrounding Mohbad’s death began when a video surfaced showing the late singer being harassed by Naira Marley’s aide, Sam Larry.

    The video caused astonishment among many and triggered a surge of disapproval and criticism directed at Naira Marley, a significant figure in the Nigerian music industry.

    Reacting to the video and all the recent happening, Solomon Buchi:

    “I’ve been under the pages of books researching about Mohbad, his music boss, Naira Marley, and other parties that were involved in his life until his unfortunate demise. This has reinforced my belief that the Nigerian music industry is a cesspool of cultism, gangsterism, diabolical politics, and abysmal moral volume.

    Read Also: Women are never wrong in marriage, says Solomon Buchi

    “I listened to very few of his songs and noticed the pain in his voice, the sonorous and sober tone, and his poignant lyrics that often expressed the difficulty of life. His music mirrored his deepest struggles, and hope to overcome. It got me thinking about his story…”

    “It got me thinking about the rot, evil and darkness that exists in the realms of entertainment, and how we should be careful who we listen to. Naira Marley, Mohbad’s boss, was highly celebrated by young Nigerians. He was rewarded with clout – a young man with little morals.”

    “Almost nothing to be exemplary of, Naira Marley rose to fame by subliminally endorsing fraud and other negative vices.

    “Marley has been arrested over 124 times in England and was once declared wanted. This is the man many of you, even Christians, revered as your president. You danced to his songs and labelled yourselves Marians: a terrible and lousy group of youngsters I assumed were stark irresponsible. The older generation warned us, sharply criticized Marley’s stardom and his possible influence on youngsters, but our generation is always right.”

    “Now, he’s roped in this situation, with strong and believable allegations of Mohbad’s death on him. Just yesterday, I decided to peep his Instagram page, and was appalled – it was filled with random videos of women’s bum, degeneracy, and everything unworthy of emulation.”

    “And most of our youngsters listened and praised him until just before Mohbad’s death.

    “Marley is only the popular example here, but generally, the Nigerian music industry is a game of dirty power, gang rivalry, and shady deals.”

    “Most popular Nigerian musicians are cultists.

    “Through their music videos, dressing, lingo, and fraternal phrases, they are easy to identify. And what do they do? Of course, they don’t kill mosquitoes or keep peace-it’s a cycle of chaos.”

    “It seems that some of you love the feel of thuggery in their music, when the reality of it, is dangerous. I will not be caught donating my time, social media-like buttons, and money to an enterprise that is built on the tentacles of thuggery, immorality, and evil. RIP Mohbad.”