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  • Why I changed my views on marriage, by Uriel Oputa

    Why I changed my views on marriage, by Uriel Oputa

    Reality TV star Uriel Oputa has shared her changing view on marriage, saying that her recent experiences have made her more careful about settling down.

    In an Instagram post, Oputa said she would have readily agreed to marriage five years ago, but her encounters with men since then have shifted her outlook.

    She explained that several men she has encountered showed traits she described as “inconsistent, egotistical, narcissistic, and manipulative,” prompting her to rethink her stance on commitment.

    “If you had asked me 5 years ago, even 3 or 4 years ago, ‘Do you want to get married?’ I’d have said absolutely, 100% yes. Ask me now? I’d have to think twice,” she wrote.

    Oputa also humorously noted that she is wary of the potential stress marriage could bring, adding that she has no interest in spending her life on high blood pressure medication.

     “And honestly, I’m not sure I want to spend the rest of my life on high blood pressure medication”, she stated.

    However, Uriel said she remains hopeful, stating her faith in God that her marriage story will be different.

    “But hey, in God we trust. Mine will be different”, she added.

  • Uriel Oputa slams clout chasers for exploiting Phyna’s family tragedy

    Uriel Oputa slams clout chasers for exploiting Phyna’s family tragedy

    Reality TV star Uriel Oputa has expressed outrage over Nigerians exploiting the death of Ruth Otabor, sister of fellow BBNaija winner Phyna, for online content and clout.

    She condemned the trend on Instagram, attributing it to a lack of creativity among content creators who prioritise trending topics over originality.

    According to Uriel, many are willing to disrespect others’ privacy and exploit their pain for personal gains.

    She urged Nigerians to respect Phyna’s privacy during this difficult time and allow her to mourn her sister in peace.

    Uriel also vowed to publicly call out anyone exploiting Phyna’s situation for clout, stresing that Phyna has legal support and doesn’t need public interference.

    According to Uriel, this behavior is not only insensitive but also reflects a deeper issue within the Nigerian content creation space.

    She described the actions of these individuals as “disgraceful” and “absolute circus”.

    Read Also: Uriel Oputa laments neglect of late veteran actor Fabian Adibe

    She wrote: “Nigerians really don’t know when to stop. This is why I always say that most Nigerian content creators, or Nigerians in general, lack creativity. That’s why there are a billion people doing the same thing, creating the same type of content, because nobody wants to think differently or innovate. Small-mindedness is everywhere.

    “To make matters worse, some people use someone else’s pain as content. Let me be clear: if I see anyone using Phyna’s sister or Phyna’s name to chase clout or create content, I will call you out publicly without shame. I will post it, and I will stand by it.

    “Let her mourn her sister in peace. Let her handle whatever she needs to handle privately with her family and the company. Not everything is a joke until it happens to you.

    “This behaviour is disgraceful. Absolutely disgraceful. Leave her alone. She has lawyers. Somebody’s life is not Nollywood. You people deserve Nigeria. You deserve Nigeria so badly. Absolute circus. Clowns.

    “Stop Blaming People ….Leave her alone let her mourn in peace. She has lawyers. Somebody’s life is not NOLLYWOOD. I no call names oo if u take this as a direct hit then. Guilty as charged”.

  • Uriel Oputa laments neglect of late veteran actor Fabian Adibe

    Uriel Oputa laments neglect of late veteran actor Fabian Adibe

    Reality TV star Uriel Oputa has mourned her uncle, veteran actor Chief Fabian Adibe, sharing a heartfelt and emotional post following his passing.

    She hinted at feelings of neglect surrounding her uncle’s death, mentioning that nobody checked on him during his final days.

    Uriel expressed gratitude to those who showed kindness and support for what they did for her uncle.

    “I’m just waiting for the fake love to start. I can’t say much out of respect, but you see this one here. It’s very personal to me, and I will say this: Nobody checked on my uncle. To my bestie Chi and her sister NK, God bless you both for what you did for Popsi. Rest on, sir”, she wrote on Instagram story.

    The news of his demise was announced by celebrity journalist Seun Oloketuyi via his Instagram page.

    “’Things Fall Apart’ actor, Fabian Adebe, is dead. Died 2 am this morning. Details later”, he wrote.

    Adibe’s contribution to the Nigerian film industry cannot be overstated, as he played a pivotal role in shaping the early days of Nollywood.

    Adibe’s most notable role was in the film adaptation of Chinua Achebe’s classic novel “Things Fall Apart.”

    His portrayal of a character in this iconic story cemented his place in the annals of Nigerian cinema.

    Read Also: Why I’ll keep my relationship off social media – Uriel Oputa

    Beyond this role, Adibe was part of the esteemed Odunke Artists group, a collective of talented actors who helped lay the foundation for the Nigerian film industry in the 1970s.

    Throughout his career, Adibe worked alongside some of the biggest names in Nollywood, leaving an indelible mark on the industry.

    His legacy will undoubtedly continue to inspire future generations of actors and filmmakers.

    As news of his passing spreads, fans, colleagues, and well-wishers are mourning the loss of a true Nollywood legend.

  • Why I’ll keep my relationship off social media – Uriel Oputa

    Why I’ll keep my relationship off social media – Uriel Oputa

    Reality TV star Uriel Oputa has expressed her reluctance to post about her relationship on social media due to the potential drama that often ensues.

    She humorously joked that if she ever breaks this rule, she should be banned from eating eggs and have all her wigs taken away.

    Read Also: What makes me look younger, by Uriel Oputa

    Uriel explained that innocent moments, such as sharing a family photo, can quickly escalate into heated discussions and arguments, with people questioning a child’s resemblance to their father and even suggesting DNA tests.

    According to Uriel, she is “too emotional” for the drama that comes with publicly showcasing her relationship and longs for peace and tranquillity in her personal life.

    The fitness enthusiast said she desires to love without the chaos of social media scrutiny, emphasising her need for a private and stress-free relationship.

    She wrote, “If I ever post my man or relationship on this app, please ban me from eating eggs and collect all my wigs. Because from what I’ve seen, you people are not smiling. One small innocent family photo, next thing: ‘That last born no resemble her papa.’ Now it’s DNA test, family feud, and midnight arguments.

    “You people? Magical troublemakers. Me? Too emotional for this o. Let me love in peace before una give me BP.”

  • It’s hard to find a decent man in Nigeria – Uriel Oputa

    It’s hard to find a decent man in Nigeria – Uriel Oputa

    Fitness enthusiast and reality star Uriel Oputa has expressed frustration with dating Nigerian men. 

    Oputa referenced their complexity and the culture of always seeking something better.

    In an interview on ‘Outside The Box’ podcast, she shared her personal experience of desperation for marriage, which led her to encounter a problematic individual.

    Uriel also highlighted the issue of age shaming, where women in their 30s and 40s feel devalued and perceived as “expired milk.”

    She noted that many women in this age group remain single despite being attractive and capable. 

    READ ALSO: Yahaya Bello weds fourth wife in private ceremony

    She said: “Age shaming is such a real thing in Nigeria, and I have been so vocal about it. Because a lot of women in their 30s and their 40s feel like they’re expired milk.

    “It is hard to date a Nigerian man. I don’t understand why they’re so complicated.

    “Two years ago, I was desperate to get married, and then I met somebody, and that guy showed me pepper—crocodile pepper.

    “If you see a woman in Nigeria now, she will be 35. Some of them are even 40, 41, 42. They’re still single, fine girls. It’s hard to find a decent man in Nigeria, and it boils down to the fact that we have a culture of “there’s always something better. There’s nothing better.”

  • What makes me look younger, by Uriel Oputa

    What makes me look younger, by Uriel Oputa

    Reality star Uriel Oputa has attributed her youthful appearance to stress-free lifestyle and wellness routine.

    According to her, she prioritises peace and walks away from stressful situations, keeping her cortisol levels low.

    Uriel stated that she follows a simple and intentional skincare routine, using products like sunscreen, Vitamin C, and Shea Butter, which she considers essential for maintaining her skin’s health.

    In addition to her skincare regimen, Uriel said she focuses on healthy eating, consuming complex carbs, lean protein, and dark chocolate in moderation.

    Read Also: I was homeless in Lagos, paid N150,000 daily for shortlet – Uriel Oputa

    She wrote on Instagram: “When people say I look young for my age, I’m like, ‘DUH.’ Because I’m not doing half of what Nigeria is doing to itself. Let me break it down: Stress? If you’re going to stress me, I will walk. I don’t argue, I don’t beg — I walk. Cortisol levels: low. I don’t use random organic face mixtures that someone mixed with vibes and TikTok knowledge. I’m intentional with my skincare, less is more. I don’t wear makeup unless it’s lip gloss. My skin is not on punishment every weekend. Sunscreen, Vitamin C, and Shea Butter? I don’t joke with them. That’s my anti-aging holy trinity.

    “Ginger and turmeric shots every morning. Fight inflammation like a warrior. My meals are intentional. I focus on complex carbs, lean protein, and dark chocolate (because balance). I eat once or twice a day, and that’s it. (WATER!!!!) I don’t have too many friends, especially not female cliques. Drama ages you faster than smoking.

    “I check myself every 3–4 months. Full body check. Hormones. Blood work. Everything. I don’t wait until something is wrong. I protect my space and say NO without guilt. Not every invitation deserves a yes. I juice. Green detox, fat shredder, branded and homemade. My gut health is my business. I work out. Sweat is part of my skincare routine. I don’t live above my means. If I can’t afford it, it’s not for me. Peace is wealth.”

  • I was homeless in Lagos, paid N150,000 daily for shortlet – Uriel Oputa

    I was homeless in Lagos, paid N150,000 daily for shortlet – Uriel Oputa

    Former Big Brother Naija housemate Uriel Oputa has opened up on how she was homeless for six months in Lagos.

    In a post on her Instagram, Uriel said she had sold her car and given up her apartment in November to care for her mother in London, who had received a new medical diagnosis.

    However, her plans changed when her brother encouraged her to return to Lagos in December, leaving her confused, heartbroken, and without a place to stay.

    To cope with her situation, Uriel checked into a short-term rental apartment costing N150,000 per day.

    Despite the uncertainty, she managed to pay for the apartment for six months, even receiving a discount of N100,000 per day after the first two months.

    The shortlet owners also showed her kindness, giving her a full month free in May for being a long-stay guest.

    During her stay, Uriel’s juice and meal plan business unexpectedly picked up, allowing her to start paying weekly or every 10 days.

    She credited her success to prayer and the kindness of the shortlet owners, who gave her room to breathe and rebuild.

    After six months, Uriel stated that she was able to get her place again and expressed gratitude for the experience.

    She wrote: “In November, I sold my car. I had no plans of coming back to Nigeria. My mum had just been diagnosed with something new, and I was preparing to move to London for two years to take care of her. I gave up everything. My car. My apartment. My Lagos routine. I left it all behind. But by December, everything changed.

    “My brother told me to go back to Lagos. I was confused, heartbroken, and honestly had no direction. I had nowhere to stay and no plan. I ended up in a shortlet apartment paying ₦150,000 per day. I didn’t know how I was going to pay for it. But somehow, I did.

    Read Also: Uriel Oputa slams Speed Darlington for ‘joking’ about alleged rape of minor

    “For the first two months, I paid full price. Then they gave me a discount ₦100,000 per day. Eventually, they even gave me a full month free (May) for being a long-stay guest. Let me tell you something it was only God. Only Jesus.

    “In that space of not knowing what to do, I started praying. My juice and meal plan business suddenly picked up. People started placing orders. Money started coming in. I started paying weekly. Sometimes every 10 days.

    “The shortlet owners never stressed me. They gave me grace. That grace gave me room to breathe, to rebuild, and to bounce back. Six months later, I got my own place again. And I’m so grateful.

    “If you’re in a season where you’ve let everything go and don’t know how you’ll land, this is your reminder: God provides. Even when there’s no plan”, she wrote.

  • Stop ‘tapping’ into unknown blessings of others – Uriel Oputa

    Stop ‘tapping’ into unknown blessings of others – Uriel Oputa

    Former BBNaija housemate Uriel Oputa has urged netizens to respect others’ privacy and focus on their lives.

    In an Instagram post, Uriel emphasised that certain aspects of a person’s life are nobody’s business, cautioning against meddling in others’ affairs.

    She encouraged people to tap into their own blessings and work towards their goals rather than being invested in others’ journeys.

    Uriel listed examples of things that are not the public’s concern, including personal relationships, finances, and life choices.

    She wrote: “Ladīes and Gentlemen, let’s clarify something today,
    There are certain things that are nobody’s business – and I mean nobody. Let’s begin:

    “Let me tap into your blessing – Stop that. Don’t tap into what you don’t understand. You don’t know the sacrifice, the process, the pain and the journey.
    Tap into your own blessing, work your own lane, stay focused on your path.
    Simple!

    Read Also: Uriel Oputa slams Speed Darlington for ‘joking’ about alleged rape of minor

    “Now, let’s list the things that are absolutely nobody’s business: How you make your money – Not their business. When you’re giving birth – Not their business
    Who you give birth with – still not their business
    When you’re getting married? Not their business
    Who you’re dating – Not their business
    The age of your partner – Not their business
    Your divorce or why it happened – Again, not their business
    Because, guess what? It’s your life, journey, and story – and you owe no one an explanation”.

  • Uriel Oputa slams Speed Darlington for ‘joking’ about alleged rape of minor

    Uriel Oputa slams Speed Darlington for ‘joking’ about alleged rape of minor

    Reality TV star and chef Uriel Oputa has condemned controversial musician Speed Darlington for his viral Instagram live remarks about allegedly sleeping with a 15-year-old virgin.

    The comments, which Darlington later claimed were a publicity stunt to promote a new song, triggered widespread backlash.

    In an Instagram story posted on Wednesday, Uriel expressed her outrage, calling the trivialisation of such a serious issue “disgusting” and criticising Darlington for normalising harmful behaviour.

    According to her, as an aunt to young girls, Uriel recalled uncomfortable experiences from her teenage years when older men objectified her due to her early physical development.

    She labelled Darlington’s actions as a stain on his reputation, emphasising that the innocence of a minor is not “content” or a “joke.”

    She wrote, “If I ever set up my ring light to speak on Speed Darlington’s escapade, I’m telling you-you would take my phone away. You wouldn’t even recognise me. I haven’t been able to sleep properly. Because how is it that the alleged rape of a minor has become a joke? A trending topic? A clout-chasing opportunity?

    “It’s disgusting. I detest everything about that human being. And let me be clear: as an auntie to two young girls around that same age, and another who’s growing into it. I’m absolutely livid. I’m shaking with rage and heartbreak. Someone who has lived abroad, who should know better, yet this?

    Read Also: My mother’s illness taught me forgiveness – Uriel Oputa

    I won’t say anything else. I’m traumatised. And honestly, deeply disappointed.

    “When I was 14, I developed quickly, and I looked a lot older than my age. And even though nothing happened to me. I remember constantly feeling uncomfortable. Older men would try to chat me up, stare at me. Say things they had no business saying to a child. So when I saw what Speed allegedly did, it brought a wave of flashbacks. It hit home in a way I wasn’t prepared for.

    “I felt angry. I felt violated on behalf of that young girl, and I honestly had to hold myself back yesterday because I was in such a rage. Speed, you messed up. Badly. This person allegedly did something that should never be ignored or joked about. This will forever stain your name. The innocence of a girl child is not for entertainment. It’s not content. It’s not a joke.”

  • My mother’s illness taught me forgiveness – Uriel Oputa

    My mother’s illness taught me forgiveness – Uriel Oputa

    Reality TV star Uriel Oputa has revealed how caring for her mother, who suffers from vascular dementia, taught her the importance of forgiveness.

    Uriel said she has been shouldering the responsibility of caring for her mother, managing her daily needs, which has left her feeling unproductive.

    However, this experience, she said, led her to reflect on forgiveness.

    She said she forgave her mother for not managing her high blood pressure, which led to stroke and vascular dementia.

    She also forgave her for likely missing future milestones, such as Uriel’s children and not participating in traditional birth rites.

    Read Also: Heartbreaking, rewarding caring for my dementia mother – Uriel Oputa

    She wrote on Instagram: “These last few days have been incredibly hard. Yesterday, I fed my mother breakfast, lunch, and dinner, which meant I couldn’t get to anything else. It left me feeling unproductive, but it reminded me of one of the biggest things I’ve overcome: forgiveness.

    “I had to forgive my mother. I forgave her for not taking her high blood pressure medication on time. Something that might have prevented her stroke and eventually, her vascular dementia. I forgave her for likely not being here when I have children and for not being able to do our traditional rites when a woman gives birth. And I forgave myself for the way I’d acted at times, knowing she wouldn’t be there. Over the years, I realized I was carrying a lot of anger, and I finally let it go.

    “This experience is why I’m so passionate about speaking on health and prevention. I want to make sure others don’t go through what I’m going through now. Because it’s fucking hard. I just want the old times”.