Tag: Valentine

  • Valentine with special kids

    Valentine with special kids

    When Valentine Day is discussed, the last set of people that come to mind are children with special needs. But on Tuesday, some children with special needs in Port Harcourt, the Rivers State capital were remembered by a member of the Rivers State House of Assembly representing Omuma State Constituency on Tuesday, Kelechi Nwogu.

    Nwogu  celebrated  his Valentine Day with these children  at “The Child” Special School  at the Corpus Christi Catholic Church in Port Harcourt.

    He wore a T-Shirt with the inscription “I’m not better, I’m only privileged “. Nwogu  urged privileged  Nigerians to always assist the less-privileged.

    He preached love for Nigerians living with disabilities, pointing out that  such show of love will assist them live productive lives.

    He said he would continue to extend his hand of love and friendship  to the persons living with disabilities  as that has become his way of life.

    “We are only privileged.  Therefore, we must use our privileged  positions to help those with  less opportunity.

    “That way, we will make them enjoy their lives and give them  the confidence  to face the challenges  thrown at them”

    The lawmaker  praised  the caregivers  and teachers  at the school  for their  selfless  service and sacrifice.

    He took gifts, foodstuff and  cash to the children at the school.

     

  • Rok Studios premieres ‘Single Ladies’ for Valentine

    Rok Studios premieres ‘Single Ladies’ for Valentine

    Ahead of this year’s St. Valentine’s Day, award-winning Nigerian film studio, Rok Studios premiered its explosive drama series, ‘Single Ladies’, starring Nollywood royalty including Annie Idibia, Mercy Aigbe-Gentry and Mary Njoku.
    Viewers got a first-peek at the drama on DStv last Sunday.
    It was the launch of Rok’s 13th TV series, which promoters say reinforces the production company’s offering to provide TV viewers with thousands of hours of Rok Studios-produced content.
    Directed by actor-turned-director Desmond Elliot, the all-star series follows the lives of five single young women, Mara (Mercy Aigbe-Gentry), Tochi (Mary Njoku), Bidemi (Grace Amah) and Maimuna (Padita Agu), as they navigate the scary, exciting world of dating in Nigeria to find ‘Mr. Right’. The search for such a man has so far been unsuccessful for these five young women from traditional Nigerian families. It is a race against time to snag one for keeps.
    Viewers follow their friendships; the men they meet, their relationships, their break-ups, their highs and lows; their successes and failures; their laughter and tears as they search for ‘The One’.
    Speaking on the launch, Rok CEO Mary Njoku says: “After a long wait, Single Ladies is finally coming to DStv, in time for Valentine’s Day. For me, Single Ladies is very relatable. Whether you are male or female; single, in a relationship or married; old or young; you will be able to connect with the characters of ‘Single Ladies’.
    She said the series explores the types of single women that exist in Nigeria; “we have the single lady that is searching for a rich Mr. Right, the side-chick, the lady that is waiting on God for her man and more. Whatever you do, don’t miss out on Single Ladies.”
    Since its launch in 2013, the channel has produced over 150 films and 13 original TV series, including blockbusters such as ‘Husbands of Lagos’, ‘Desperate Housegirls’, ‘Losing Control’ and ‘Cougars’.

  • True story behind Valentine

    True story behind Valentine

    Valentine is all about the exchange of gifts and romance, right? Well, it is not so.

    It all started with a kind-hearted, humble priest named Valentine. During his time, there was an emperor in Rome named Claudius who persecuted/tortured Christians. He made a law that prohibited marriages and engagements in Rome. This is because he had difficulty getting soldiers to join his military leagues. Claudius believed that Roman men were unwilling to join the army because of their strong attachment to their wives and families. He also reasoned that single men made better soldiers and fought better than those with wives, saying that if they are married, they would be afraid of what might happen to their wives and family if they died in battle. So, he banned marriage for young men.

    Valentine, realising the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. Valentine was eventually caught, imprisoned and tortured for performing marriage ceremonies against the command of Emperor Claudius and for protecting Christians.

    While in prison, Valentine met Asterius, who was to judge him in line with the Roman law at the time. Asterius had a daughter named Julia who was blind. Valentine prayed and healed the young girl. This had an astonishing effect on Asterius, who became a Christian as a result.

    In the year 269 AD, Valentine was sentenced to a three-part execution of a beating, stoning, and finally beheaded, all because of his stand for Christian marriage.

    Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote Julia a letter signed “From your Valentine,” this inspired today’s romantic expression- ‘your valentine’. It was said that the content of his letter was an advice to Julia that she should be very close to God.Valentine story

    Saint Valentine’s martyrdom (death) has not gone unnoticed by the general public; although many people celebrate valentine without any understanding of what it means and what it stands for. We find people, especially the young ones celebrating it the wrong way- they see it as a time to get a man/woman/boy/girl to celebrate with by doing all kinds of ungodly things- if Saint Valentine was alive, I believe he will not be happy, the way people have misunderstood his sacrifice for humanity to sustain reproduction through marriage.  Most people are not learning the lesson of self-sacrifice in fulfilment of one’s destiny which valentine stands for.

    The celebration of Saint Valentine did not have any romantic connotations until sometimes later in the 14th century, when people started to make it a romantic celebration. Earlier beliefs were focused on sacrifice rather than romantic love.

    Lessons:

    1. The idea of encouraging young lovers to marry within the Christian church was what Saint Valentine stood for, he didn’t encourage sexual immorality at all. Rather, his action was to discourage sex outside marriage and all kinds of immorality which botht married and single have now turned valentine to mean.
    2. He performed marriages for those ready for marriage, knowing that sex outside of marriage is a sin against one’s body and against God.
    3. Valentine was a saint and not a sinner- why then do people make him seem like an encourager of sin by celebrating him in sin.
    4. If you’re not married then desist from sex. If married, be faithful to your husband/wife. This is what Valentine stands for-
    5. Valentine is about doing God’s will. God Himself instituted marriage, not premarital sex and other sexual activities outside marriage. Valentine upholds God’s wish for people who are willing, to marry and have children.
    6. Saint Valentine healed Julia, the blind girl and her Father became a Christian- Why aren’t people believing God for such power to do good, and God being glorified through them, making many to come to believe in Jesus?
    7. Saint Valentine gave his life so that young couples could be bonded together in holy matrimony. They may have killed the man, but not his spirit. Valentine teaches sacrifice for the right thing, even unto death. Willing to do the right thing at all times. Why are we not learning this lesson?
    8. Centuries after his death, the story of Valentine’s self-sacrifice and commitment was legendary in Rome. You too should live a life committed to a good course and the world will remember you for good.
    9. Whenever valentine is celebrated, ask yourself- what good thing have I accomplished for my generation that I will be remembered for after my death? You are not too small to begin to do great exploits for God, exploits that will change your generation for good. Start from where you are, it may start little but it will grow with time. Peace!!!

    Eventually, he was granted sainthood and the Catholic Church decided to create a feast in his honour. They picked February 14 as the day of celebration.

    Think of fulfilling your God-given destiny on earth- that’s the message of Valentine.

    References: Wikipedia, CBN.com, HISTORY.com, Mark Merrill.                                                                         

    FROM:  Faith Nwachukwu

  • For the love of Him this valentine

    For the love of Him this valentine

    Valentine is around the corner, this year, why not skip the singlet and boxers and try something a little more fun and adventurous.  There are lots of budget friendly valentine gift ideas, you don’t have to worry about being broke afterwards.

    1. Personalized collars
    2. Scented candles
    3. Grooming kit/shaving kit/beard kit
    4. Mug with funny drawings or inscriptions
    5. Backpack for his short trips
    6. Take him out on a date
    7. Game console
    8. Stylish corporate tie
    9. Gift card
    10. Perfume, wristwatch or footwear
    11. Romantic getaway
  • ‘I stole my boss’ car to attend Valentine’s Day party’

    ‘I stole my boss’ car to attend Valentine’s Day party’

    Rapid Response Squad (RRS) operatives have arrested a driver, Emmanuel John, for allegedly duplicating his boss’ car key and attempting to abscond with it.

    John, 26, was arrested at Abraham Adesanya Estate in Lekki last Sunday night for alleged attempted theft of the Toyota Corolla car marked EPE 642 DX, which he planned to take to a Valentine’s Day party at Splash Hotel in Sangotedo, Ajah.

    John had a week before his plan, cut the Toyota Corolla key without the knowledge of his boss, Mrs Flora Ighalo.

    On Sunday afternoon when he was not supposed to be at work, he allegedly sneaked into the Abraham Adesanya Estate residence of his boss, and took away the car with the cut key.

    RRS quoted John as saying: “I and my friend, Oscar, want to carry the Toyota Corolla to Splash Hotel’s Valentine Show on Sunday night. I persuaded Madam to give me the go-ahead to cut a spare key but she declined. A week before February 14, I duplicated the key without her knowledge in Obalende.

    “Even though, she excuses me from work on Sundays, I sneaked into her residence and took away the car after church. I took the car to my residence in Ajuwe Area, Ajah, Lagos.

    “My plan was that, after the Valentine show, it’s going to be stressful for me to leave the show around 3am, go home and freshen up and set out for Abraham Adesanya Estate around 4am for the day’s work, but with the car, it’s going to be easy for me to make it to work.

    “After driving the car round Ajah, I was on my way home around 8pm when I saw Madam calling my set. She asked me where I was and I told her and she said I should come to her house that I was going to take her somewhere. I turned the car and I headed towards Abraham Adesanya Estate.

    “I was at Abraham Adesanya Estate Roundabout trying to enter the estate, when a man double crossed me and RRS officials arrested me. They asked me where I took the car to since morning and I explained everything to them.

    “Madam has been very nice to me. She pays me N35,000 monthly. I am almost like her family member. I am always at ease with her and her family

    Mrs Ighalo, a tax consultant, said: “At about 8:20pm, I was seeing off my in-law and to my surprise, I discovered that my car, Toyota saloon, EPE 642 DX, has been removed from the park.

    “I immediately called few friends and one of them, got in touch with the operatives of RRS but it never occurred to me that my driver could take a vehicle I just brought from the church, with its key in my hand without my notice. Besides, he was not supposed to come to work on Sunday.

    “Could he have come to my house without my consent and taken away my car? The car has only one key. Where could he have gotten another key?

    “I called him to ask him where he is and he told me that he was at home. I told him to come and pick me to somewhere, he said okay. He came and we saw the car with him.”

    Police spokesperson Dolapo Badmos, a Superintendent of Police (SP), said the suspect has been transferred to the Special Anti-Robbery Squad (SARS).

    “It is important to determine if the suspect acted alone or he has an accomplice”, she said.

  • Valentine’s tragedy: Lover boy kills girlfriend for shunning outing

    Valentine’s tragedy: Lover boy kills girlfriend for shunning outing

    A student of the University of Jos has been killed by a man described as her boyfriend for allegedly turning down his invitation for a date last Sunday- Valentine day.

    Miss Nanchin Zakariah of the  Psychology department of the university was allegedly strangled to death by Badung David Dele on Monday,the day after Valentine at her Angwa Rukuba apartment.

    A source close to them said they been in an intimate relationship for quite some time until a misunderstanding  set in shortly before the last Valentine day.

    Badung was said to have reached out  to Nanchin apparently to settle their differences and invited her out for Valentine.

    An unimpressed Nanchin reportedly smelled a cat and declined the invitation outright.

    She felt that there was no basis for any dating between them having parted for some time.

    The following morning,the suspect stormed Nanchin’s apartment  demanding an explanation why she failed to make the outing.

    He reportedly grabbed his victim by the neck and strangled her to death.

    After completing his evil act, the suspect left the apartment  and told a neighbour he met outside that he wanted to go and get some drug for his ‘ill’ friend.

    He gave his phone number to the  woman and asked her  to call him  in case of any emergency.

    The woman perceived danger immediately and  proceeded to Nanchin’s room only to find her lying down on her  bed unconsciously.

    “I called her name  but she did  not respond,” the woman called Mama Joy said.

    “I moved  closer and I discovered that she was  dead.

    “I ran out,  screaming  to alert the  people around. I was shocked that the boy managed to kill this girl without a gun .There was no blood on her body.”

    The Plateau State Police Command  confirmed the incident  and the arrest of the suspect.

    The Police Public Relations Officer DSP Abu Emmanuel said Badung was arrested on the same day  “ and after some interrogation, he confessed to have committed the crime.”

    The police,according to him, “are  making necessary arrangements to arraign him in court soon. The Police Commissioner is using this opportunity to caution ladies to be careful who they date.Some of these boys are criminals and you might ignorantly fall into their hands like this girl”

    The body  of the deceased has been transferred from Bingham University Teaching Hospital to the Jos University Teaching Hospital JUTH for autopsy.

  • Lovers celebrate Valentine at Badagry Beach

    •FCT residents storm fun spots

    The Suntan Beach in Badagry, Lagos recorded large turnout yesterday as lovers and fun seekers trooped out to celebrate the ‘Saint Valentine’s Day’.

    The beach, according to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) was filled with lovers and fun seekers from various parts of the country. Traders also made brisk business.

    A fun seeker, Mr Femi Olumiyide, who came with his girlfriend from Abeokuta, the Ogun State capital said he always looked forward to spending valentine with loved ones.

    “Valentine day is a day I always look forward to because, it is a day that reminds us that there is love in sharing.

    “I always ensure that I send gifts to members of my family and friends to remind them that they are always on my mind,’’ he said.

    A businessman, Mr Chukwuemeka Nzekwu, said that due to the nature of his work, he always takes advantage of the day to remember loved ones.

    “Due to the busy schedule of my work, I always use this day to relax with my friends and remind them that they are not forgotten,’’ he said.

    A seller of roasted meat (Suya), Malam Mohammed Nuru, said that he had made up to N9, 000 and still expecting to make more before the close of the day.

    “The last time I made this much money was on New Year day.

    “I have made N9, 000 now and I’m sure that I will still make more because the main event has not started.

    “The crowd is so much today and it is good business for me,’’ he said.

    Also yesterday, residents of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), trooped out to celebrate the valentine’s Day, causing human traffic and vehicular gridlock at parks and fun sports.

    Parks and fun spots within the metropolis , according to News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) were full to capacity.

    The roads leading to Millenium Park, Silverbird Galleria, Wonderland and the Jabi Lake Park were blocked by traffic.

    Some of the people who spoke to NAN were happy at the turnout, but expressed displeasure at the limited parking spaces available at the event centres.

    Miss Linda Nwachukwu, who expressed bitterness at how long it took to park her vehicle at the Silverbird Galleria, stressed that if she had known, she would not have come out.

    At the Jabi Lake, Mrs Emily Joseph, who came with her husband and her son said she was surprised at the turn out of fun seekers at the resort.

    At the millennium park, Mrs Gladys Umoren, who sells soft drinks said she made more sales more than ever.

    “Other years were not like this, I thank God,” she said.

    Wasiu Ogundimu, a taxi driver told NAN that since he started work at 12 p.m. he had been very busy conveying people to different fun spots.

    NAN reports that many of the fun seekers wore a touch of red, the colour associated with the celebration.

    Mrs Yemi Aliu who retails drinks at the beach said she recorded high patronage because the event.

    “How l wish everyday will be valentine. I have made so much and I’m still going to make more because I still expect people to patronise me,’’ she said.

  • ‘LOVE IS… THE MUSICAL 3’ SET MOOD FOR VALENTINE

    ‘LOVE IS… THE MUSICAL 3’ SET MOOD FOR VALENTINE

    FOR more than three hours, the audience was spellbound as they watched the story of three women in search of answers to what love really is.

    Through a highly comical, satiric and musical entertainment, “What is Love?” proffered phenomenal answers in colour, rhythm and emotional laden drama performed by notable poets; Poet Donna, Efe Paul and Yinka Davies, just as the crowd received special treats of cameos and performances by Gordons, Emma Oh Ma God, Igos, Sound Sultan and singer Timi Dakolo.

    Held at the Eko Hotel Convention Centre, Victoria Island, Lagos, penultimate Friday,  Love Is…The Musical 3 reached its climax with a stunning performance by Timi Dakolo, which showcased his full vocal range amidst a chorus of rhythmic lights, blazing colour and irresistible sound.

    Adding verve to the show was the atmosphere of colours, lights, music and dance, as produced by Limitless Minds Africa in partnership with Ixtreme Production.

    The 40-man cast and crew show was preceded by an intriguing art exhibition that featured a live painting by show director Ice Nweke. Immediately after the exhibition, the audience, which had in attendance, M.D Nigerian Breweries Nicholaas Vervelde, Darey Art Alade, Deola Art Alade, Linda Ejiofor, Denrele, Mo Cheddah and other notable personalities were warmed up by Tomi Odunsi and Isaac Gerald who took the stage in quick succession ahead of what would prove to be a night of fantastic entertainment.

    According to the show producer, Clementine Vervelde, “It is a thing of immense pride and joy to see this idea brought to life on the big stage and I am sure I speak on behalf of the entire cast and crew when I say that this is one of our proudest ever moments. I am particularly pleased that the audience had many people who were not used to this type of storytelling and they were carried along. It shows that that this type of stagecraft is taking off in Nigeria and I believe we have also impacted positively on people present in terms of their understanding of what love is.”

  • Valentine: Mixed reactions trail distribution of free condoms by NGOs

    Valentine: Mixed reactions trail distribution of free condoms by NGOs

    Residents of the FCT on Friday expressed divergent opinions on free distribution of condoms by civil society groups and health related NGOs as Valentine celebrations approached.

    The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that ahead of the February 14 valentine celebrations, condoms were being distributed in parks and event centres in the territory by the groups.

    A cross section of Abuja resident who spoke to NAN welcomed the gesture while others abhorred it.

    Mr. Tunde Olabode, a teacher, said valentine as a season of love, distributing condoms was not out of place and not something new.

    “The main purpose of this distribution is to discourage the spread of sexually transmitted diseases and various infections.

    “It can also help in the control of the rate of abortion among the youths,’’ he said
    Olabode, however said that “it can be negative when one look at it from the perspective of religion which forbids immorality’’.

    A civil servant, Mrs. Nkechi Amadi, who said she was given a roll of ten gold circle condoms, said there was nothing wrong with the development.

    Amadi said the NGOs were using the auspicious occasion of valentine to give sex education on the dangers involved in having unprotected sex.

    “As parents, we give sex education to our children at home, including the use of condoms; so I see nothing wrong in what the NGOs are doing.

    “It serves as a medium to tell the youths that they must not have unprotected sex to have good health.

    On the other hand, Miss Uche George, a civil servant said that “distributing condom openly is like encouraging immoralities and evil in the society’’

    She said the practice is “Western way of life, not known to Africa’’. She therefore advised that emphasis should be placed on teaching moral values.

    Mr Felix Ajide, a journalist and pastor said that the NGOs have a misconception of what valentine celebration was all about.

    He noted that, “distributing condoms openly is endorsing and encouraging fornication and adultery’’.

    Ajide explained “love and sex are two different terms; but this action makes people to believe that the terms mean the same thing’’

    “Valentine’s Day is a day originally celebrated to remember the love that God has for man and the love man is expected to have for his neighbour.

    “However, we are losing focus on the main point and now trying to focus on sex and lust’’.

    Ajide stressed that Valentine’s Day must not be used as an excuse for erotic love, but a day to celebrate the love and care received from our loved ones.

    “I urge these NGO’s to find measures that focus on love and not sex.

    “The sexual encounter between people that are not partners should be discouraged.

    “They are not helping the society. Instead, they should distribute materials that encourage genuine love amongst the public,” he added.

  • Valentine: Much ado about business of love

    Valentine: Much ado about business of love

    Despite the economic crunch, Nigerians, young and old, still find a way of exchanging gifts at Valentine. This act is seen as being in tandem with the spirit of Valentine, which is believed to be about sharing, even at difficult time, as being experienced by Nigerians. TONIA ’DIYAN reports that for some, this celebration, which has become more of business than  sharing, is being threatened by low sales.

    VL (10)Ayomide Alonge, a teenager, recently went into a relationship. He is excited as he prepares to celebrate Valentine for the first time. It was therefore, fun for him as he went on a shopping spree to get gifts that would give pleasant memories of the celebration. But Alonge knows nothing about the genesis of Valentine’s Day.

    Indeed, the celebration of love on February 14, otherwise known as Valentine’s Day, has become a permanent feature in the calendar of yearly celebrations; but perhaps not important enough to be declared as a public holiday. But for the majority of Nigerians, especially the youth, whether the day is declared a holiday or not, February 14 has come to stay, etched in their memory as a special day to celebrate love. It is a day to exchange gifts and reassure loved ones of the undying love that exists between two persons.

    Interestingly, like Alonge, the story of Valentine’s Day celebration remains largely unknown to the majority of the celebrants of this day. Checks online reveal that the story of Valentine’s Day began in the third century with an oppressive Roman emperor named Claudius II and a humble Christian Martyr named Valentinus.

    According to the account, Claudius had ordered all Romans to worship 12 gods, and had made it a crime punishable by death to associate with Christians.   But Valentinus was dedicated to the ideals of Christ; not even the threat of death could keep him from practising his beliefs.   He was arrested and imprisoned. During the last weeks of Valentinus’s life a remarkable thing happened. Seeing that he was a man of learning, the jailer asked whether his daughter, Julia, might be brought to Valentinus for lessons. She had been blind since birth.   Julia was a pretty young girl with a quick mind.   Valentinus read stories of Rome’s history to her.   He described the world of nature to her.   He taught her arithmetic and told her about God.  She saw the world through his eyes, trusted his wisdom and found comfort in his quiet strength. The following conversation was said to have taken place between the two:

    “Valentinus, does God really hear our prayers?” Julia asked one day.

    “Yes, my child, He hears each one.”

    “Do you know what I pray for every morning and every night?  I pray that I might see.   I want so much to see everything you’ve told me about!”

    “God does what is best for us if we will only believe in Him,” Valentinus said.

    “Oh, Valentinus, I do believe! I do!”  She knelt and grasped his hand.

    They sat quietly together, praying.   Suddenly there was a brilliant light in the prison cell.   Radiant, Julia screamed, “Valentinus, I can see!  I can see!”

    “Praise be to God!”  Valentinus exclaimed, and he knelt in prayer.

    On the eve of his death Valentinus wrote a last note to Julia, urging her to stay close to God.   He signed it, “From your Valentine.”  His sentence was carried out the next day, February 14, 270 A.D., near a gate that was later named Porta Valentini in his memory.   He was buried at what is now the Church of Praxedes in Rome. It is said that Julia planted a pink-blossomed almond tree near his grave.   Today, the almond tree remains a symbol of abiding love and friendship.

    The foregoing tells the origin of exchanging messages of affection, love and devotion on this day. And for Nigerians, this has now become an opportunity to make brisk money from the one-day celebration.

    Indeed, many shopping places have resolved to commercialise Valentine and make it big business like other celebrations. For instance, across the metropolis, open markets, shopping malls, stand-alone/high-street and online stores have been stocking variety of items for easy reach and affordability.

    Optimistic that businesses will reap the benefits of the giveaway retailers are offering. This is why Modupe Shopeju, Delightsome Gifts’ head, is of the view that for retailers, Valentine’s Day is less about love and more about the business of love. Shopeju explained that the celebration ranks highly among the top three holidays in terms of yearly sales, which is why retailers are putting in their best to make it worthwhile.

    Yet, for many, Valentine means different things. Celestine Nwanchukwu, a greeting card retailer on Broad Street, Lagos Island,  says Valentine’s Day means an opportunity to get busy and experience a boom in sales again, following the post-Christmas pause. According to him, at this period, he records good sales second only to what he sells at Christmas.

    At this period, retailers are eager to help shoppers find something special for their loved ones and they look forward to seeing people come out in the spirit of love. For them, each Valentine’s Day brings a little uptick in sales.

    But retail outlets in the country, particularly in Lagos, have succeeded in commercialising the love celebration and turning it into big business. Shortly after Christmas, stores begin to stock pile items for Valentine items early, as a strategy for making bountiful sales when opportunities like this arise, offering incentives, such as affordability advantage and convenience of shopping as baits.

    But to make more sales, especially with the hard times, retailers in the open market started stocking items earlier than the shopping malls and high street stores. This, they contend, is one of their strategies for making good sales this year. “We are only taking the bull by the horns, catching our competitors unaware. Ordinarily, no one would have thought we would stock Valentine items earlier than the stores and malls. They look down on us most of the time, but we are stepping up our game, re-enforcing and re- packaging. It is simply one of our strategies,” a Lagos trader told The Nation Shopping.

    But poor sales might affect the retail industry as it absorbs a hit by downturn. Like the economy itself, Valentine is feeling some heartache this year with just two days to the celebration. According to a recent survey, about 50 per cent of people plan to spend less on their valentine this year.

    Now, worried by low patronage gift shops across the Lagos metropolis expect higher sales of less-expensive items. Retailers say they will be realistic about Valentine’s Day this year as people are still very cautious with their spending will would opt for less-expensive gifts or spend dinner at home with their spouses to save some money. Therefore, items like earrings and cheap jewellery would suffice instead of diamonds; greeting cards instead of an expensive perfume. They claim they have grown more accustomed to smaller purchases because of the country’s present economy.

    A survey by The Nation Shopping shows that unlike in past years, many people are reluctant to spend extravagantly at this Valentine’s Day. This they blame on the poor state of the economy which has badly affected several businesses. For instance, the floral business has been so affected such that people no longer fancy giving flowers or roses to their loved ones at Valentine

    For some industries, it is good news in the circumstance. Checks reveal that love birds appear to be willing to indulge in sweets, cakes and confectionaries as it is relatively cheaper and because confectioneries don’t have to strain bank accounts. Founder of Cake ‘n’ Candy Confectionery, Caroline Applin, said her items can be purchased with a token, unlike visiting the restaurant where prices can be throat cutting. At Give ‘n’ Take Megastore on Victoria Island, lingerie and sex toys seem to be hot items this Valentine with people looking for ways to have fun and staying at home. Retailers of the items know they’re going to get a return on the investment.

    To cut their losses, retailers, particularly those who sell gifts items, have resolved to order 25 percent less stock for this year’s Valentine’s Day- a reflection of the country’s harsh economic situation. However, greeting cards retailers expect their product sales to increase this Valentine, as cash-strapped consumers forgo gifts or expensive items.

    But with Valentine celebration falling on a Sunday, people may be encouraged to eat out, a choice that will be good money for restaurants, whose doors may remain open to couples to spend the day far into the night, rather than buying gifts.

    But one thing is certain. No matter how bad the economy is, Valentine’s Day has a way of tugging at wallets as well as hearts. So, go out and enjoy your shopping for Valentine’s Day.