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  • Mogaji Arisekola shuts down Lagos for daughter’s wedding

    Mogaji Arisekola shuts down Lagos for daughter’s wedding

    The wedding of Segilola Olasubulumi and Samuel Osereme Aisabokhae unfolded as a magnificent celebration, leaving an indelible impression on all who attended. This event, hosted by Mogaji Wole Arisekola—renowned for his extensive philanthropy and influential connections—took place on December 19, at the Grand Ball Room of the Oriental Hotel, Victoria Island, Lagos.

    Upon arrival, guests were enveloped in an atmosphere of elegance, setting the stage for a truly extraordinary experience. The Grand Ball Room was transformed into a breathtaking paradise, adorned with intricate floral arrangements that burst with vibrant colours, twinkling lights that danced across the ceiling, and exquisite table settings showcasing elegant linens and fine china. Every detail of the occasion was meticulously planned and executed, and it radiated beauty and sophistication at every turn.

    The traditional wedding, followed by a lavish reception, attracted a global audience, with over 100 guests travelling from a multitude of locations, including Dublin, the United States, and London. The event flourished with a rich tapestry of cultures as friends and family mingled harmoniously, celebrating the unification of two families and the fusion of diverse traditions.

    As the evening progressed, it became clear that the gathering was no ordinary affair; the guest list was a notable line-up of high-profile dignitaries and influential figures from a variety of sectors, including business, media, politics, and entertainment.

    The presence of luminaries, such as former Ondo State Governor Dr. Olusegun Mimiko and his wife Kemi, alongside Senators Olubiyi Fadeyi and Gbenga Obadara, transformed the event into a veritable showcase of Nigerian society’s elite.

    Adding to the event’s nobility was the attendance of the Onitire of Ikate, Oba Lateef Adams, accompanied by his graceful wife, Olori Sekinat Elegushi, further highlighting the royal essence of the celebration.

    Diplomatic representatives graced the occasion, including Ambassador Victor Adekunle Adeleke, the Oyo-born State Chief of Protocol to President Bola Tinubu, reminding guests of the event’s high profile and international significance.

    As guests networked and exchanged pleasantries, the room buzzed with the sounds of laughter and camaraderie, encapsulating the joy of union and celebration.

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    Throughout the evening, an impressive array of culinary delights was served, featuring a rich diversity of sumptuous dishes that showcased the exquisite flavors of Nigerian cuisine. From spiced jollof rice to expertly prepared suya, the gastronomic experience was elevated by the introduction of premium beverages, ensuring that guests savored every moment. Over 50 media personnel, representing both traditional and digital platforms, documented the festivities, capturing the smiles and laughter that illuminated the evening, ensuring this day would be etched in memory.

    Entertainment played a pivotal role in enriching the celebratory atmosphere, featuring performances steeped in cultural significance. The renowned Yoruba chanter Sulaiman Ayilara Aremu, better known as Ajobiewe, captivated guests with his evocative lyrical tribute to the couple. The vibrant Ayanyemi traditional drummers group from Ibadan electrified the atmosphere, their rhythmic beats urging guests to dance and revel in the joyous union.

    The much-anticipated moment of Segilola and Samuel’s grand entrance arrived, a breathtaking spectacle that momentarily silenced the audience in awe. Emerging from a luxury Rolls-Royce, the couple glided onto the stage like characters from a fairy tale, a picturesque image set against a backdrop of muted whispers and gasps of delight. As the crowd erupted in applause, the palpable excitement transformed the venue into a roaring chorus of celebration.

    Event planner Funke Buknor of Zapphaire Events orchestrated the entire affair with unparalleled finesse, ensuring that each moment resonated with joy and significance. Enhancing the festivities, the charismatic King of Laffta Mata, Gbenga Adeyinka the First, took on the role of master of ceremonies. His signature humor and lively anecdotes entertained guests and infused the evening with a warm, engaging energy that perfectly complemented the celebration.

    As the night continued, a lineup of acclaimed musical artists took the stage, further elevating the vibrant atmosphere. Performers included the riveting Laolu Gbenjo, fuji virtuoso Saheed Osupa, the dynamic Beejay Sax, and DJ Kulet, all of whom enthralled the audience and urged them to dance with abandon, fostering an environment brimming with laughter and joy.

    The illustrious guest list was not limited to dignitaries. Various successful entrepreneurs and industry leaders, including Dr. Bisi Olatilo, the former Managing Director of NNPC Shipping, and prominent socialites such as Yomi Allen Odutola, made their mark on the celebration, enriching the event with their presence and connections.

    In summary, the wedding of Segilola Olasubulumi and Samuel Osereme Aisabokhae was far more than a mere event; it was an unforgettable celebration of love, unity, and cultural richness that will remain etched in the memories of all who attended. From grand entrances to heartwarming interactions, the evening constituted a truly remarkable occasion in the annals of Lagos social history, embodying the vibrant spirit and traditions of Nigeria.

  • Planning a wedding, check out these four tips

    Planning a wedding, check out these four tips

    In marriage, there I need for a deliberate and genuine show of affection and care. Love extends to every aspect of a relationship, including spiritual, physical, and emotional needs. This genuine affection and empathy are what make marriages strong and enduring. God intentionally designed marriage for enjoyment, not endurance, and following But before you take the journey into a blissful home, here are four tips to draw from the wedding at Canaan.

    •Careful Guest List: Just as couples carefully plan their weddings, they should be equally cautious about who they invite into their marriage. Inviting Jesus Christ into their lives ensures His presence to guide and protect their union.

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    •Trustworthy Mentors: Having trusted mentors and family advisors is crucial. They provide spiritual guidance and counsel, helping couples navigate the challenges of married life.

    •Trust in Jesus: Trusting Jesus in all situations is essential for a successful marriage. His guidance and grace can turn any marital challenge into an opportunity for growth and strengthening.

    • Preserve Love: The minister urged couples never to let the “wine of love” run out in their marriage. Love should remain at the forefront of their relationship, ensuring a bond that endures all trials.

  • Rio Ferdinand and partner Kate set for eye popping wedding

     

    Former Manchester United centre back and England international Rio Ferdinand and partner Kate Wright are in for Mother of all weddings on Saturday in Turkey.

    Preparations are underway for the couple are underway at the lavish D Maris Bay hotel in Turkey.

    Ferdinand 40, and former TOWIE star, 27, are thought to be exchanging their vows at the luxurious resort – which has rooms ranging from £370 to £5,322 – in a ceremony on Saturday 28th September.

    Kate and Rio announced their engagement in November after he proposed to her on a family trip to Abu Dhabi with his three children Lorenz, 13, Tate, 11, and Tia, eight. The former England star first started dating Kate in late 2016, following the death of his wife Rebecca who is the mother of his three children in 2015.

    Rio and Kate stepping out in style

    The hotel which is thought to be the couple’s venue boasts jaw-dropping views in the stunning Turkish sunshine, and according to the official website, offers wedding packages that include tailor-made menus and a specially-made wedding cake.

    It also states: ‘The secluded enclave has a wealth of photogenic spots to serve as the special setting to exchange vows with your partner or observe that all-important anniversary.

    ‘A sunset wedding on Green Hill or beach-side ceremony makes for an unforgettable memory. Follow it up with a one-of-a-kind reception with catering drawn from our collection of five renowned restaurants specialising in a range of international cuisines.’

    So far little has been revealed about which stars will jet to Turkey for the big day, although a source told MailOnline that Lydia Bright is the only former TOWIE co-star of Kate’s to be invited.

     

     

     

     

     

  • Six ways to honour your mother on your wedding day

    Six ways to honour your mother on your wedding day

    The Wedding day is, undeniably, a big day for most people. Thus, whatever you do and how you go about it, stays with you for a long time. For some people, it is until death or as long as the marriage lasts. And for women, when she gets engaged, it’s usually her mother who gets to hear about it first.

    The fact that women choose to call their mothers first each time anything important happens in their lives, says a lot about the relationship they share with them. Many women love the idea that they could announce to the world how grateful they are for all that their mothers have done for them.

    According to AmerikankiWedding, the day they get married often presents itself as an excellent opportunity. If you would like to make a touching statement on your wedding day about the relationship that you have with your mother, here are ideas on how to do it.

    1. Wear your mother’s wedding dress

    It can be a beautiful gesture to ask your mother for her wedding dress to wear on your wedding day, instead of picking up a new one. Many brides who try this idea get an expert tailor to have a few updates. Most probably your parents got married in 1980s, which means the style of your mom’s wedding dress differs a lot from what we see nowadays. In this case, you may use your mom’s jewellery and accessories.

    You can also adorn the stem of the bouquet with her scarf or the fabric from her gown or use some items that are dear to her, for example, your family heirloom. If your mother’s D-Day dress isn’t right for you at all, you may still consider wearing her veil. By incorporating an article of her clothing into your outfit, you will gain a special bond between you and your mom.

    2. Choose your mother’s outfit yourself

    Usually, once the bride chooses her wedding dress, she shows it to her mother. The mother, then, goes on to buy an outfit of her own to complement the wedding dress. Then, the groom’s mother buys an outfit to go with all the others. It could be a sweet gesture, though, for you to buy dresses both for your mother and your future mother-in-law, yourself.

    3. Your mother could give you away, too

    In the Jewish tradition, both the mother and the father walk the bride down the aisle. In the Christian tradition, though, it’s only the father. Admittedly, walking down the aisle with your father, brother, grandfather or other male relative had been a strong tradition for a long time. There’s no need to follow tradition to a tee. The convention could be bent a bit, though, if it would help honour your mother. You could ask your mother to join you and your father as you walk down the aisle. After all, both of your parents have to say goodbye to their little girl. However, it would be reasonable to know if your dad is ok with that. Sharing this special moment will be a great way to honour your mother at your wedding.

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    4. The mother-daughter dance

    While it’s common for the bride to dance with her father at her wedding, a mother-daughter dance isn’t nearly as usual a sight. This could be a great place to change tradition. Mothers deserve dances, too. The choice of the song is one of the most important aspects of the dance since the song should be meaningful to both of you and it should be entertaining for your guests. Play her favourite song during the ceremony or opt for the composition that accompanied your parents’ wedding ceremony.

    If you choose the song, consider Mama’s Song by Carrie Underwood and I’m Every Woman by Whitney Huston. These are eternal compositions. Ask the officiator to announce the song and say a few words before you start dancing. Suggest that your spouse dance with both your mom and his mom too.

    5. Make a change to the traditional bouquet toss

    This is another great alternative to a traditional bouquet toss. Nowadays, in some weddings, brides choose to replace the traditional wedding bouquet toss with a bouquet dedication. She gives a little speech about her mother and dedicates the bouquet to her. If your mother doesn’t know about your plans, this is going to be a great surprise for her!

    You can say how important this person is for you without mentioning her name and at the end come up to your mom, hug her and give her your wedding bouquet. This gesture will show her (and everybody there) how important her support was over the years. Be sure, tears are guaranteed. You can also duplicate the wedding bouquet for your mom. Look through her wedding photos and give the picture to your florist.

    6. Re-create your parents’ wedding cake

    It can be a beautiful gesture to design your own wedding cake after the one that you see in your parents’ wedding photos. Try to reduplicate every prominent feature and detail of their wedding cake like colours and small decoration flowers. My mom would be just shocked to see the exact copy of her cake on my wedding table!

    You can also incorporate her favourite sweets into your desserts such as chocolate cookies. Be sure, your mom will eagerly share her top secret recipes with you! You can think up a wedding menu after the one that your parents had. It’s not necessarily to pattern everything, but a few dishes taken from your parents’ wedding menu will definitely honour your mom and dad!

  • Royalty meets clergy at wedding

    It was a marriage of royalty and clergy when Oluwole Sosanya and Ifedapo Akanbi-Oluwa tied the nuptial knot amid pomp and ceremony in Lagos. In this report, EVELYN OSAGIE captures the sights and sounds of the event.

    As the saying goes, sometimes you fall in love with the most unexpected person at the most unexpected time. This certainly holds true for Oluwole Sosanya and his beau, Ifedapo Akanbi-Oluwa, who both signed the dotted lines at a high-profile wedding in Lagos.

    Oluwole, suave and gentlemanly, is a scion of Omooba Olumuyiwa Abayomi Sosanya of the Isara Remo ruling house in Ogun State. Ifedapo, on the other hand, is a stunning beauty from Iseyin town of Oyo State, whose parents have a long history of service in the Lord’s vineyard as clerics of faith-based institutions: she is the daughter of Rev. Paul Abiodun and Mrs. Elizabeth Akanbi-Oluwa of New Covenant Church, Ebute-Metta branch, Lagos.

    But providence brought the lovebirds together.

     

    The meeting

     

    When Oluwole first met Ifedapo at a social gathering organised by one of his friends three years ago, the last thing on his mind was marriage.

    As a royal blood, the tradition was that if he needed a life partner, he would choose from his kind. But Oluwole did not subcribe to this culture.

    “I wasn’t really keen on marrying from the royal family as such. All I wanted was a wife  from anywhere, regardless of her social status and, luckily, for me, Ifedapo turned out to be a perfect fit for me,” the International Business Economics graduate of the University of Westhampton England, said.

     

    The solemnisation

     

    The three-part ceremony, which held at the  highbrow Yard 158 Garden, Lagos, was heralded by a traditional wedding with families and friends in attendance. Then, followed the church wedding where the couple and their bridal train led by the best man, Power Hart, and maid of honour, Abiola Akeredolu, were welcomed to the venue in a blaze of glory as confetti lined their paths. Also on the train were the ring bearer, Olakabi Delano; Ladun Baderinwa; Olusayo Adeleke; Phidelia Imiegha; Emem Williams; Oladele Oladunjoye; Kolawole Alakija; Muiz Ogbara; Ronald Ajiboye; and little bride, Abifoluwa Oloruntoye.

    The solemnisation began with officiating clerics of the New Covenant Church. They were Rev Nicholas Omisade, Rev Oluwole Olaleye, Rev  Gboyaga Adejobi, Rev David Abraham, Rev Abba Peter, Rev Akin Ayoola, Pastor Phil Osanakpo, Pastor David Oluwadairo and Pastor David Aderinola Oloruntoye.

     

    The vows

     

    The couple were wedded by Rev. Omisade.

    Subsequently, Rev Wole Owolabi, the Provost of New Covenant Church Bible College, who delivered the homily, encapsulated his advice in a five-letter word, ALIVE, urging the groom: “Love for a woman is not just what you say, but what you do. Love her in language, love her in looks. Love to a woman translates to kindness. Be kind to her. Locate her passion and be part of it. A woman moves by intuition, but a man moves by calculation. But wise men are learning that intuitions most times are more accurate than calculation.

    “Let her know she is a part of your life and not an appendage. Say to her, ‘I’m going to smoothen you with love’. If you do all these to your woman, she would come alive. I perceive that I’m looking at a family that would be a role model to their generations.”

    The couple were ushered into the reception auditorium with fireworks and pyrotechnics, which lit up the atmosphere in a kaleidoscope. The event  was chaired by a lawyer, Aderemi Oguntoye, who represented Nigeria’s former High Commissioner to the United Kingdom, Dr. Christopher Kolade, .

    The best part is always the emotional part and that was when Ifedapo and her dad had their last dance.

    As the famous Nel Oliver’s famous lyrics, Mon enfant, ma baby girl, began playing and the bride and dad got to the dancefloor, the rendition evoked mixed emotions.

    The couple and parents also had their day on the floor with guests serenading them with applauses.

     

    The marital advices

     

    Oguntoye decried the increasing number of broken marriages and asked couples to work towards building a happy home. According to the chairman, if the efforts and resources expended on wedding ceremonies were worth it, many marriages would have been saved.

    He said: “We live in a social media generation where people spend most time on wedding ceremonies, but they spend less energy on marriage itself. Marriage is about love and work. People must be ready to sacrifice and make it work. Ifedapo and Oluwole after today’s ceremony, I want you to take a look at yourself and say, ‘I will spend time to reflect on my marriage’ I pray that the Lord will give the couple the grace to make their marriage work; and that God in His infinite mercies would bless those of us witnessing this.”

    He recounted that: “As a legal practitioner and I have been privileged to witness orchestrated number of divorce cases. I have been counsel to nothing less than 17 divorce matters and I’m talking about situations of marriages that are between one year and 15 years. The only one I had to turn down was a petition by a man who wanted me to dissolve his 37-year- old marriage.

    “I turned it down and I said to the man, why would you want to throw away a relationship that has existed for 37 years? And the man said, Aburo (young man) I need to live my life. It’s not worth it anymore. That is where I want to take my advice from. Ifedapo and Oluwole, the Lord will help you. Just make sure you work it out. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed, but you must make it work. In all my experience, one of the key denominators the man always complains about is, ‘I have lost her respect’. A man does not demand love, men demand respect.”

    In his message to the newlywed,  obstetrician and gynecologist and member of the Lagos Governor Advisory Council (GAC), Dr Oluyomi Abayomi Finnih, said: “They should show love to each other. The wife should respect the man and the husband should do the same too. And they shouldn’t allow third parties into their affairs. And I wish them God’s blessings.”

    The groom’s father, Omooba Sosanya, also  advised the couple, reinforcing what the cleric said. “My advice to my son and daughter is that they should live together as friends.

    They should show love and understanding to each other. Although they come from two different families, they can live together as one happy family, if the love is there,” he admonished.

    Echoing similar sentiments, the bride’s parents also gave their last words. “Our advice to them is to love God and each other and work their marriage out. And they should know that understanding is shown from above with the help of God. We are releasing them as a solution to Nigeria to affect their generation positively and to change this nation for good.”

    Senator Gbenga Ashafa also advised the couple. “As I always tell young couple that are getting married, I use one word – that is love.

    They must endeavour to love each other and then have the fear of God. Once they imbibe these principles, it will be easy for them to tolerate each other because they are coming from different backgrounds. My prayer for the newly wedded couple is that they will find everything to make their marriage succeed in all ramifications. I’m talking about enduring peace, money and of course, long life and abundant prosperity.”

    The ceremony was high-octane judging by the calibre of guests who attended. Among the guests were wife of Senator Ashafa, Sade; Chief Whip Lagos State House of Assembly, Hon. Rotimi Abiru; Lagos APC deputy governorship candidate, Hon. Obafemi Hamzat; members of the Lagos State Governor’s Advisory Council (GAC), including former Deputy Governor of Lagos State, Prince Abiodun Ogunleye, Prince Tajudeen Olusi; Prince Rafiu Oluwa; Otunba Bashura Alebiosu; High Chief M. O. Taiwo, Asiwaju Reuben Bashorun and Prof Babatunde Samuel and Chief Lanre Rasak, popularly known as KLM.

    Others were a lawyer and the state Legal Adviser of the Lagos APC,  Ademola Sadiq; Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LASUTH) Director of Accounts, Mrs Adenike Ganiat Akanbi; Rear Admiral Toye Sode (rtd); CSS Bookshop Limited Managing Director, Dare Oluwatuyi, and the Deputy Managing Director, Mr Adesina Adegbola.

     

  • Husband ‘beats’ expectant wife to death four months after wedding

    •Assailant dumps body in parents house

    Barely four months after marriage, a husband, Samuel Mgbeodinma, has allegedly beaten his wife, Gloria, to death in Lagos.

    The incident occurred at Ikotun in Alimosho Local Government Area of the state on Saturday night shortly after the Nigeria-Croatia World Cup match.

    The woman was said to have hit her head on the floor after being pushed by her husband.

    Mgbeodinma allegedly bundled her remains into his car, drove to his parents residence at Egbeda, parked and left without saying anything.

    His inlaws were said to have come for their daughter’s body at noon on Sunday.

    The cause of the couple’s scuffle could not be ascertained at press time last night.

    But, according to a Facebook user, Meg Barn, Mgbeodinma did not tell his parents about the incident until about 9am on Sunday.

    Our correspondent learnt that the late Gloria was six weeks pregnant. She graduated last year from the Department of Science and Laboratory Technology of the Federal Polytechnic in Bida, Niger State, and was the Financial Secretary for the Faculty of Social Sciences.

    A relative of the late alleged that Mgbeodinma kept her from the rest of her family after their wedding.

    She said there were marks on the late Gloria’s face and body, indicating domestic violence.

    She said: “We are cousins. Her parents stay in Kwara State and that’s where she was based. She met him (Mgbeodinma) in Lagos when she came for her internship programme sometimes ago. Then, along the line, they lost touched and she searched for him through his surname on Facebook and found him.

    “That was how they reconnected. Our family did not know anything about him until December when she came with him during a family meeting and brought invitation card for their traditional marriage and white wedding.

    “I know that the elders asked then what he did for a living and he said he was a businessman. So, the wedding came and passed.

    “But we found it strange that she was not keeping in touch anymore. We never saw her again after that and each time any one of us called her, she’ll say ‘I will call you back’ but never did.

    “Seems her husband isolated her from the family because it was now that this happened that we started hearing so many things.

    “For instance, we just learnt that the husband lost his job before their wedding and that it was last month that he got another job. We also learnt that all the while, she has been living with him at his family house and that they just moved into their house at Ikotun last month too.

    “Also, my aunt said her dad called her last week that she complained she was sick and her husband did not want to take her to the hospital. So, her dad told my aunt, who’s a nurse, to look for her and take her to the hospital.

    “She said she called her to ask for her house address and my cousin sent her a message that she should not bother coming. That she was going to come to her. This was last week Wednesday and then on Saturday the incident happened.”

    The source said what happened remained a mystery. But the police, according to her, have said the violent marks on the late Gloria’s face and body showed that she was assaulted.

    The source said: “Her husband denied he did not beat her. He said after watching the Nigeria-Croatia match that Saturday, he came back and told her he wanted to go and have a haircut. He said by the time he got back, he saw her on the floor. That she might have fallen.

    “If that is true, why then did he, instead of taking her to the hospital, put her inside the car and took the car to his parent’s house at Egbeda?  He left her inside the car. She was in the car till about 12pm on Sunday, when our family members went there and took her to the mortuary.

    “Our people called the police and the police saw the marks on her body. For now, the man has not been arrested. Police have called for her father to come and make statement. He was supposed to come on Monday from Kwara but could not because his blood pressure had risen. So, they are expecting him to come and file official complaint before the man would be arrested. It is a sad thing. She did not deserve to die like that.”

    In her Facebook post, Barn wrote: “Gloria Onyedikachi Odinma (Nee Ngoforo) a beauty from Arondizuogu. How cruel can life be? Like every young beautiful girl dreams of walking down the aisle someday, yours came calling, on February 10. As you got married to your supposedly heartthrob Mgbeodinma Samuel from Awo-Idemili, little did you know that you will take a sudden bow from this space tragically via domestic violence.

    “Killed by your husband on Saturday, who after your demise, put your corpse in his car, drove to his parents house in Lagos, did not inform them till Sunday by 9am.

    “Must we hit ourselves to pass a message to our partner? Domestic violence is evil…quit now and seek help. Talk to someone. I did not want to post this after a friend sent it to me. I told him I won’t post but looking at your picture lying on the ground, I do not think I will ever forgive myself if I did not post.”

  • Photo: Buhari, governors at Osibajo’s daughter’s wedding reception

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    President Buhari attends Wedding Reception between Damilola Osinbajo Daughter of Vice President and Oluseun Bakare in Abuja on 17th Mar 2018
    President Buhari and his wife Aisha Buhari joined by Parents of the Groom Mr & Mrs Bakare and Vice President Yemi Osinbajo and his wife Mrs Dolapo Osinbajo join in a group photo with the newly wed couple Damilola and Oluseun Bakare during their wedding reception in Abuja on 17th Mar 2018

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  • Photo: Buhari attends Ajimobi’s son, Ganduje’s daughter’s wedding

    Photo: Buhari attends Ajimobi’s son, Ganduje’s daughter’s wedding

    President Buhari attends Wedding Fatiha between Son of Oyo State Governor, Idris Abiola Ajimobi and Daughter of Kano State Governor, Fatima Umar Ganduje in Kano State on 3rd Mar 2018

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    President Buhari with Father of the Groom Oyo State Governor Abiola Ajimobi, Father of the Bride and Kano State Governor Abdullahi Umar Ganduje, Senate President Bukola Saraki, APC Chieftain Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu and Zamfara State Governor Abubakar Yari as he attends Wedding Fatiha of Idris Abiola Ajimobi and Fatima Umar Ganduje at the Mallam Aminu International Airport Kano State on 3rd Mar 2018

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    Buhari at the wedding

  • Wedding: Women’s sponsorship a taboo

    Mixed reactions have continued to trail the submissions that ladies with larger purses than their would-be spouses can sponsor their weddings.

    Some Lagosians who spoke to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in separate interviews yesterday in Lagos supported women who wanted to sponsor such while others disagreed.

    A poultry farmer, Mr Olarotimi Azeez, told NAN that it was a taboo for a woman to sponsor her wedding.

    Azeez said no matter how bad the situation was, he would marry his wife with whatever he could afford except the lady was not interested in answering his name.

    “I am the man and l will marry my wife with whatever l have. If she is not pleased with the little l have, then she can call it quit. For a woman to sponsor my wedding will be a taboo; and let me tell you, my late mother will rise in her grave and beat the hell out me,” he said.

    A businesswoman, Mrs Ifeyinwa Ojiego, told NAN that before she would embark on such ventures, she must have observed that her man would appreciate the gesture.

    Mrs Ojiego said some men would do anything within their reach to nurture their relationship irrespective of their financial status before and after wedding.

    “If I ascertain that my fiancée is not promiscuous and that after all said and done, I will have a peaceful marriage, why not?

    “ I will gladly sponsor the wedding because it is for our mutual benefits,” she said.

    A corps member, Miss Stella Dipeolu, told NAN that she would love to sponsor her wedding in a situation where she was earning more than her man.

    She, however, said that the man might misinterpret her intentions if there were no understandings between them.

    “Men are egoistic in nature; nothing should be done to threaten his ego. So, I will prefer he sponsors the wedding. If he is really serious and truly loves me, I will be patient with him to work and save enough money to sponsor our wedding,” she said.

    A French instructor, Mrs Lydia Oko, told NAN that she could support her man from her means to ensure a successful traditional engagement.

    Oko said expenses on traditional marriage rites were usually very expensive in the South-East part of the country.

    “I am from the South-East part of the country where traditional marriage rite is a major event. The lists from the bride’s family given to the bridegroom’s family are usually long and if the husband- to-be is not financially buoyant, he may back out,’’ she said.

    Miss Sharon Kajola, a horticulturist at Apapa, told NAN that the success of a marriage would be determined by how united and cooperative the two partners were.

    Kajola said that some partners were getting it wrong from the planning stage.

    She said that misunderstanding might ensue from the point of planning between partners because of differences in individual choices.

    She said that in such a situation, if the lady decided to sponsor the wedding, it might not be appreciated.

    She said that it was the responsibility of both parties to sponsor their wedding but the man should play the major role.

    Malam Yunusa Mahmud, a Muslim cleric, told NAN that Islam does not permit a woman to sponsor her own wedding no matter how rich she might be.

    Mahmud said the man would rather be allowed to pay his wife’s dowry according to his financial capability.

    He said that if the man was extremely poor, the woman could ask him to recite a portion of the Quran for her as the dowry in the presence of her family.

    “It is not important to have an elaborate and extravagant event. It can be a parlour wedding because that is what the man can afford.

    “Islam permits couples not to task themselves beyond their limit. Let the woman know that what matters most is love and understanding,’’ he said.

    A clergy, Pastor Oladejo Olanrewaju, said Christians must learn to cut their coat according to their cloths when it comes to wedding.

    He said that no matter how rich a lady should be, she should allow her partner to pay his dues when it comes to fulfilling all the marriage rites.

    “The bible says that whoever finds a wife finds a good material and shall obtain favour from the Lord.

    “Let the woman support him to ensure that they both start on a solid foundation based on the teachings of Jesus Christ and not on how rich the woman is.

    “Be a virtuous woman, give your partner the respect he deserves, be satisfied with the little the man can afford, do not push him beyond his limit,” he said.

  • How Osinbajo’s daughter got hooked

    How Osinbajo’s daughter got hooked

    Mixed reactions have continued to trail revelations occurring just yesterday that the daughter of Vice President, Damilola Osinbajo will be getting married to Oluseun Bakare.
    According to an inside source who is close to Oluseun, He first set his eyes on Damilola Osinbajo during the monthly Divine Encounter programme in the Abuja stadium by the Redeemed Christian Church of God.
    From then on, he would regularly sight her at the ‘Divine Encounter’ program and at the monthly Holy Ghost service but never had the chance to have an up-close conversation with her.

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    But as fate would have it, he met her again at an event in Abuja , this time he did not let the opportunity pass him by. He walked up to her, and as they say the rest is history.
    Afterwards, they moved from being just friends, till  yesterday’s announcement by Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo on Twitter as the only a confirmation of that fact.
    “With joy and praise to the Lord, Dolly and I announce the betrothal of our daughter Oludamilola Osinbajo to Oluseun Bakare.” Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo confirmed the union via his Twitter account which was posted just seven hours ago.
    Our source also confirmed that Oluseun Bakare is a Christian and a worker in the Redeemed Christian Church of God.
    We can only wish them a fruitful and happy union.