Category: Bridals

  • Creative hair outlook

    Creative hair outlook

    It can be exciting to enhance your hair with beautiful extensions for versatility and glamour. Adetorera Idowu explores options for brides to be.

    Her nicely toned body, bridal gown, shoes and accessories turned heads as she walked down the aisle. For the bride who smiled all the way, the effect made the day one of the most memorable in her life. Onlookers were equally impressed by her creatively designed hairdo which made her look so grand.

    There are a number of styles to choose from and it is important to go for styles that would look really good on you. For instance, the vintage braid done into fishtail can be divided into two sections where a bun is created at the top and pinned into place for effect.

    The hair can then be twisted into a second bun at the bottom and secured with pins. This kind of braid can be worn loose or tied into a low bun. The most important thing is to be creative with your choice of hairdo. You can also try the funky flick. Here the extensions would be texturised to create a shaggy layered look. The hair can also be blow-dried straight at the back. In addition, the front can be flipped to create an exciting retro look.

    However, if what you desire is a wavy outlook, then you can get the right extension for this and add to your natural hair. The middle of the hair can be exciting when pinned to the back and the sides scrunched and back combed to create volume.

    Alternatively, you can go for a splash of colours. Here you make use of colour extension which would be attached and the hair cut to create a straight fringe to bring out your fine features. The ends would then be tapered into feathery finish and blow-dried straight with silicone added for shine.

  • Can a lady  pay for her own engagement ring if…?

    Can a lady pay for her own engagement ring if…?

    On an online forum, a lady posted a comment, seeking advice on whether or not she should give in to her boyfriend’s demand to borrow money from her for her engagement ring. Adetorera Idowu speaks with some people on their reactions to this question

    Titilayo Osifeso – Consultant

    No way!!! Why should she pay for it? The man should buy it when he is ready. If he can’t afford it, he should buy what he can afford at that moment. I think this is an act of desperation. It makes me question whether the girl really wants the guy or wants to show off and if you build your marriage in that foundation, it’s sure going to crumble.

     

    Isi Edowaye – Banker

    Well, it is not out of place. It’s just a matter of understanding between both parties. If his not having a ring for me is as a result of finance, I understand. Although if he can’t give me a ring because he cannot afford it, it speaks volumes, I mean… it’s marriage. From my stance, buying myself a ring is awkward and I’ll rather take his words (I want to marry you) as the bond. I don’t have to wear an engagement ring.

     

    Amfani Musa – Swimming Coach

    What satanic arrangement is that? That guy must be MAD. I don’t mean to be insulting but it’s the truth. It’s absurd, inappropriate, unacceptable, out of place… in fact it’s PURE MADNESS. Ok let’s not be emotional about this. Even the bible says he that finds a wife finds a good thing, not he that the wife finds. In the garden, God gave the responsibility of work to the man and it is not the woman’s responsibility.

     

    James Alabi (Abinibi) – Creative Entrepreneur

    Sure! There is nothing wrong with it as long as both of them have an understanding and the guy keeps his promise. Borrowing money from her to buy the ring might be a decision to make official the relationship till they are ready for the actual wedding.

  • Ogbonna’s grand wedding

    WHEN former Miss Chinasa Viola Ogbonna accepted Mr. Chris Ogbonna Emmanuel Egburonu’s hand in marriage on Saturday, 10th May, 2014 at Mater Dei Cathedral, Azikiwe Road, Umuahia, Abia State, guests described the ceremony as ‘an event that would not be forgotten in a hurry in Umuahia.’

    In attendance at the grand reception held in Villa Roy Hotels and Suits, No. 19 Mission Hill, also in Umuahia, the Abia State capital, were the crème de la crème of both Abia and Imo states, including large delegates from the Ogbonna family in Mbaise, Imo State, Egburonu family and their well wishers from Apuanu Item in Abia State, the Ogbulafor kindred from Olokoro Umuahia and Viola/Ogbonna’s friends and colleagues from Lagos, Port-Harcourt, Aba, Calabar and surrounding cities in the eastern part of Nigeria.

  • Judith Amaechi, Bishop Idahosa and others win Wise Women Awards

    THE brightly decorated hall acted as a lovely back drop to the Wise Women Awards (WWA) held at the banquet hall of the Sheraton Hotel and Towers, Ikeja last weekend. The Awards, a forum that aims to honour and recognise ordinary Christian women who are impacting the church and wider community, is organised by Wisdom for Women International (UK).

    Founder of WWI, co-Pastor of Triumphant Church International, Pastor Marjorie Esomowei, in her remarks noted that the awards honour women who love and serve Jesus Christ and is a way of recognising their efforts.

    Various women from different backgrounds and professions received awards for their endeavours in their chosen fields. Among them was the First Lady of Rivers State, Dame Judith Amaechi. Dame Judith, who was represented at the event by Hon. Maureen Tamuno, noted that the awards which began in 2005 have made great impact in its nearly ten years of existence. She commended the organisers for creating a platform for recognising the impact of women in the church and the wider community.

    Other winners included Bishop Margaret Idahosa and Bishop Peace Okonkwo (Mother of the Faith award), Mrs Oredola Sonubi (Mission award), Prof. Olufunmilayo Oloruntimehin (Naomi Award), Sola Allyson Obaniyi (the music award category whose music impacts both the church and unchurched), Mary Ikoku, President, Working Mums Africa (Woman in media), and Tara Fela Durotoye (Make-up artist for Exceptional Young Woman category).

    Others were Mojisola Abdul (Professional Christian Woman category), Pastor Nkoyo Rapu, (Christian Woman in Ministry category) and Fola Soyebo (Woman in the Community category).

  • Leftover lingerie causing ripples

    Leftover lingerie causing ripples

    I travelled out of town for about six months but I have been communicating regularly with my fiancee. On a daily basis, he kept on telling me how he missed me so much, could not do much in my absence and the fact that he had never seen any girl while I was away.

    His remarks and the way he welcomed me back made me very proud of him. I came to his apartment immediately I came back to tidy up the place and keep his company. While I was cleaning up the bedroom I ran into some lingerie in the wardrobe that were not mine. When I asked him about the lingerie he was really upset and refused to give me an answer. Ada

     

    Response

    That discovery gives you the true picture of the heart that you are dealing with. It is pure deception and nothing else. Agreed, a lot of men are unfaithful, but again, he should be man enough to own up when it becomes so obvious. He was busy painting the town red while he was pretending to love you blindly. You really need to get to the root of the lingerie matter because it would determine whether to give him a second chance or not.

     

    Arrested for raping someone

    I just discovered that my boyfriend was arrested for raping another lady in our neighbourhood. His brother bailed him but no one in the family has said a word about his disgusting action to me. I got the details from friends and my relatives. I don’t know how to confront him with the fact that I have about this “dirty secret”. Oluwakemi

     

    Response

    It is so sad, indeed. It can be really embarrassing to hear that your man has descended this low. Apart from the emotional damage that has been done to you psychologically, he is also exposing you to sexually transmitted diseases and much more.

     

    I need something concrete

    I have been separated from my wife in the past four years and I am in dire need of a replacement. I met a young widow at a party a few months ago and we have been chatting online. From the details that we have exchanged, she looks like what I have been looking for and I want a steady relationship with her. However, each time I try to talk to her about my plans, she becomes evasive saying that no man can replace her late husband in her heart. How can I win this heart? Musa

     

    Response

    She has not really got over the demise of her husband and so it would be difficult for you to convince her to settle down with you now. However, if you really think she is what you want, then you must be ready to give her more time to think about it, watch you show her you truly love her and gradually worm your way into her heart.

     

    He turns me off

    For about eight months, I have been dating a guy that I love and admire very much. I actually like everything about his career, lifestyle and personality. The only snag in the relationship is his attitude to his personal hygiene. He sweats a lot and does not like taking his bath as often as I love to do. Whenever he comes back home late from work, he finds it difficult to have a shower and goes straight to bed. At such moments, when he makes sexual advances to me I am turned off by the smell oozing out of his body. I have tried to let him know how I feel about this but he just won’t change or listen. Chinyere

     

    Response

    It is obvious that you are a very clean lady and this gentleman is not. You must help him to change this habit in a loving way. Once you can reach out to him nicely, then you are sure to have him adopt your ways.

  • Struggle with belly fat

    Struggle with belly fat

    Most women always wish to have or maintain what is popularly known as a “Coke bottle shape” or what is actually called the ‘Figure 8’, but there is always one constant enemy opposing this target and that is belly fat. Dorcas Omunagbe looks at the challenge for women and how to reduce abdominal obesity.

    BELLY fat has become a constant struggle for most women and some have even given up the fight. Belly fat or abdominal obesity, or as clinically called, central obesity, is excessive fat around the stomach and abdomen. Everyone has some belly fat, even people that have flat abs, it is only normal. Deji Oluwagbemi says that “Excess fat gets stored mostly in the belly and results to what people refer to as pot belly and it is a major cause of obesity.”  He adds that belly fat could be a result of eating junks as well as eating uncontrollably. “The stomach is elastic by nature and would expand continuously if food goes in non-stop, therefore creating more space to accommodate the excess fat from consumed meals, which is what actually leads to abdominal obesity.”

    The fact that belly fat does not make one look good or feel good about one self and not leaving aside the fact that such individual will not fit into some clothes has made it a serious issue. The fact that it takes a step in affecting one’s confidence and esteem shows that it goes beyond just not being able to zip up your jean. Abiola Mary opines, “Belly fat makes people big and unattractive. It spoils the body figure or shape as it were and that is why ladies, especially, work out more on their bellies so as to reduce fat level.”

    It also bears some relationships that might affect one’s health negatively. Amongst some of the health issues associated with belly fat is diabetes. Central obesity predisposes individuals for insulin resistance. Belly fat secretes some hormones that possibly impair glucose tolerance. In addition, belly fat also has a relationship with asthma. As a result of breathing at low lung volume, the muscles are tighter and the airway is narrower. It is commonly seen that people who are obese breathe quickly and often while inhaling small volumes of air. Abdominal obesity also affects pulmonary function. This means that there is a relationship between belly fat and the functions of the lungs. Most times, people who suffer abdominal obesity breathe heavily than those that don’t.

    Abdominal obesity is increasing in the western population as it is now also common place in Nigeria. This is possibly due to a combination of low physical activity and high-calorie diet. Some people are also not very health conscious and just eat whatever seems eatable at whatever time, which also contributes to this. There are various things that might cause belly fat depending on the affected individual. A study has also shown that alcohol consumption is directly associated with waist circumference and with a higher risk of abdominal obesity in men, but not in women, in the present population. Some other people also opine that it could be caused by over eating and eating food not suitable for late hours of the day.

    Evans Aje declares: “It is caused by over eating or by drinking a lot of alcohol. I feel it can be prevented by constant exercise and dieting.”  With this ongoing struggle, there is a need to recommend prevention and cure, but, of course, prevention is better than cure. There are various health tips for preventing belly fat but here are just a few to look out for.

    This includes sleeping often and well, as well as having short bursts of exercises. You also need to avoid sugar because it is the greatest enemy of your body shape. Next, you need to take enough of Vitamin C through fruits and other foods that contain it. Interestingly, you also need to eat fat. It takes fat to burn fat because eating fat does not make you fat, but eating sugar makes you fat. When they say eat fat, it means eat healthy fats.  You must make conscious efforts to slow down your breath once you notice you are getting tense and uptight. Take a breath pause and take a deep breath.  Sonya Collins adds that proper stress management can also help reduce fat. These are simple but surprisingly effective tips.

    Miss Oluwatobi also recommends proper exercise and the right diet. Deji Oluwagbemi adds to this by recommending a vegetable diet. Love Anjorin says, “To prevent belly fat, one should eat early, take lots of water and do not lie down immediately after eating.”

  • Owolabi hooks Bolatito

    Owolabi hooks Bolatito

    LOOKMAN Owolabi Apatira and Bolatito Maryam Fashina recently tied the knot at a colourful Nikkah and engagement ceremony which took place at Nikkoms Event Centre, Yaba, Lagos.

    Dignitaries from all walks of life, the couple’s parents, friends and family turned up at the event in frunchia pink and aquamarine attires to complement the colour scheme.Owolabi hooks Bolatito

  • Much ado about aso ebi

    Much ado about aso ebi

    ASO ebi, a cultural trend started by the Yoruba, has steadily gained popularity and has spread across all cultures. These days, we cannot deny the aesthetic value aso ebi gives every ‘owambe’ – no party is ever complete without them.  Nigerian parties are a symphony created by the colours and fabric picked out for the occasion and there is always the case of guests trying to outdo each other with different styles that dare to upstage that of the bride and groom. As far as aso ebi is concerned, more is more. All rules of not outshining the bride are downed with the free liquor served.

    The aso ebi craze is so palpable that not buying it can determine your entrance into the venue, your inclusion in group photos, whether you’ll eat or starve at the event and, of course, whether the juicy souvenirs will come your way.

    As if the organisers make it on guests, the price of a lace fabric that costs 20,000 naira in Balogun Market is sold it to their guests for 50,000 naira.  You wonder how people can afford to buy as many as they do with the current economic crisis.  It almost seems as if buying aso ebi has become an unwritten statement issued by the organiser to mean, “Contribute towards my wedding or risk being treated like an outcast.” Could this be a reason for the reduction in the number of gifts presented to the bride and groom at ceremonies because the guests feel that after all their contribution towards the success of the wedding has been counted by purchasing the much-coveted aso-ebi?

    However, we are forced to admit that this pocket-draining culture adds colour and life to many occasions, especially weddings, and has come to be known as one of the beauties of the African culture.

    Organising an event soon and looking for aso ebi combinations? Here are a few ideas to look at.

  • Trendy  shoes for the  trendy bride

    Trendy shoes for the trendy bride

    THERE is more to looking great on your wedding day than your dress; the right shoes are an essential part of starting your wedding day fashion off on the right foot. Step out in great style with your wedding and bridal party shoes that fit great. Plus, match your bridesmaids’ shoes and dresses perfectly. There are a few things to put in mind in finding the perfect shoe for your dress and your train.

    •Step one: Research Properly

    You really have to know about picking the right shoes so a proper research is necessary. You could surf the internet for the latest trends, get a stack of magazines, bookmark wedding blogs and also talk to your friends who have probably walk down the aisle also or who you know have a great taste for fashion. This fun research will help you get an idea of what’s out there.

    •Step two:  Shop for your shoes while you shop for your dress

    This will help you pick a pair of shoe that will coordinate well with your dress. You might just consider shopping at bridal shops that offer sales of both gowns and shoes. If it is impossible to find your shoe where you found your dress, you can take a photo of your dress and take it along with you while shopping for your shoe.

    •Step three: Consider your style option

    You really need to wear something you are comfortable with and so you have to take note of your style option. If you have been fond of flats, then you should go for flats but if you prefer heels you can stick with it. If a certain style of shoe appeals to you, look for a wedding shoe in that style. Maybe wedges, peep toes, platforms, etc. Just go for comfort.

    •Step four: Picking the right color

    The traditional color of wedding shoes is white or ivory but you can choose to go outside tradition. You can opt for a brighter color. Try to find a color that matches with the overall color scheme of your overall wedding to keep things coordinated.

    •Step five: Break them in before the wedding

    Once you have decided on your shoe and have bought the shoe, you can just try them on before then. Don’t wait until your wedding day to slip on your bridal shoes for the first time. Wear them around the house several times before your wedding day so they are stretched out and have adjusted to your feet. Then you will be ready for your wedding without a blister or ache.

  • Day Bridget and Ilesanmi became one

    Day Bridget and Ilesanmi became one

    DR Bolu Ogundowole (former Rector of Rufus Giwa Polytechnic, Owo, Ondo State) gave his daughter, Bridget, out to Ilesanmi. After the traditional wedding at the Owo GRA bride’s family house, the two families , friends and well wishers went to finalise the wedding  at St John Anglican Cathedral Church, Iyere-Owo. Reception followed at Aruwajoye Events Centre.

    Among the dignitaries who attended the ceremony were His Royal Majesty, the Olowo of Owo, Oba David Victor Folagbade Olateru-Olagbegi ( CFR); the Oliyere of Iyereland, Oba Alaba Ebiyanmi Adako; HRH Oludotun of Otun Land; Senator Lawrence Ayo; Olori Bola Sijuwade; Dr (Mrs.)T.E 0jo-Registrar, Achievers Varsity, Owo; Engr. Wale Onabajo; Engr. John Adesina.

    Officiating ministers included Rev Canons 0.0. Abiodun & S.B. 0ladimeji and Ven. 0.A Komolafe. Chief Gbenga Ale was the chairman of the day.