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  • Kano protest: AGF intervenes, takes over case file from police

    Kano protest: AGF intervenes, takes over case file from police

    • Four teens collapse at arraignment over alleged treason
    • 118 defendants granted N10m bail with two sureties

    Attorney General of the Federation and Justice Minister Lateef Fagbemi (SAN) announced last night that he had asked  from the police the case file of the #EndBadGovernance protesters who were arraigned earlier in the day.

    Four teenagers among the 118 people  arraigned  before a Federal High Court in Abuja in connection with the protest collapsed a few minutes after the commencement of proceedings.

    They were accused of treason following their  arrest during the August 1 to August 10 #EndBadGovernance protests.

    The arraignment of the teenagers in particular drew wide criticism from many quarters yesterday.

    Reacting to the criticism Fagbemi said in a statement that  he had directed that the case file be transferred to his office by the police.

    He said:“It has just come to my notice that the police have arraigned those arrested in connection with the end bad governance violent protest in court for various offences including treason. There are some issues my office will need to look into regarding the matter to enable me take an informed decision.

    “I am aware that the court has remanded the defendants in detention centres and adjourned the case to January. It is not within my power to vary the order of the court remanding the defendants in detention centres and adjourning the case to January.

    “I have, however, directed the Nigeria Police to transfer the case file to my office and hand over same to the Director of Public Prosecution of the Federation (DPPF) tomorrow, Saturday 2nd November, 2024.

    “I have further directed the DPPF to immediately put machinery in motion for consideration of the court to bring the adjournment date forward (an earlier date).”

    Four teens collapse in court

    All the 118 accused persons  appeared before Justice  Obiora Egwuatu.

    They were alleged to have participated in the last #EndBadGovernance protest in Kano State, chanting  anti-government slogans, calling  for unlawful change of government through military intervention and carrying foreign flags.

    According to one of the defence lawyers, Marshall Abubakar, the accused persons  were charged in two batches of 76 and 43.

    Shortly after the first batch were called, the defendants started mounting the dock. Suddenly,  some  of them fell down, causing confusion in the court.  The development prompted the judge to suspend proceedings.

    Health officials from the court’s clinic were immediately invited to attend to those who collapsed.

    Abubakar blamed the development on hunger and ill-health on the part of the defendants.

    He said: “All these young children are sick and hungry. They have been kept in police custody for weeks without food and proper medical care. They are sick and need proper attention. That is the cause of these unfortunate developments.”

     After the defendants were attended to and they regained strength, proceedings resumed, following which the prosecuting lawyer, Audi Garba applied that the names of the four that suffered ill-health, should be excluded from the charge.

    Defence lawyers, including Abubakar, did not object, following which Justice Egwuatu struck out their names from the first charge marked: FHC/ABJ/CR/503/2024, containing names of 76 defendants.

    The remaining 72 defendants pleaded not guilty when the 10 counts in the charge were read to them.

    Abubakar moved the defendants’ bail application, against which the prosecution did not file a counter affidavit.

    Ruling, Justice Egwuatu noted that the prosecution did not counter the defendants’ assurances that they would be available for trial and would not tamper with witnesses nor jump bail if granted.

    The judge also noted that some of the defendants were young children below the age of 18 years.

    He then granted bail to each of the defendants at N10million with two sureties, one of which must be a federal civil servant from level 15, while the second should be either of each defendants’ parents or a sibling.

    He adjourned till January 24, 2025 for the commencement of trial.

    On the second charge, marked: FHC/ABJ/CR/527/2024, 42 defendants, out of the 43 listed on the charge, were eventually arraigned yesterday.

    They were accused of committing similar offences in Kaduna during the protest.

    Before their arraignment, the prosecuting lawyer applied that one of the 43 defendants suffered ill-health and should be excluded from the proceedings, following which the judge struck out the name from the charge.

    The remaining 42 pleaded not guilty to the charge and were also granted bail on similar conditions as the earlier ones.

    In some of the counts in the charge: they defendants were alleged to have, “while acting in concert with drew Martin Wynne (aka Andrew Povich) a British Citizen, with intent to destabilise Nigeria, levied war against the state in order to intimidate or overawe the President by attacking and injuring police officers and burning police stations, High Court complex, NCC Complex, Kano Printing Press, Government House Kano, Kaduna Investment and Promotions Agency office, NURTW office and several other buildings thereby committed an offence contrary to Section 410 of the Penal Code (Northern States)  Federal Provisions Act CAP P3 LFN 2004

    *While acting in cert with Andrew Martin Wynne (aka Andrew Povich) a British citizen with intent destabilize Nigeria, incited to mutiny by calling on the military to take over government  from President Bola Ahmed Tinubu by chanting ‘Tinubu most go’ ‘soja muskeso’ (meaning Tinubu must go), ‘it is military we want’, while rioting and disturbing public  peace and thereby committed an offence contrary to section 413 of the Penal Code (Northern States) Federal Provisions Act CAP P3 LFN 2004.

    *Between 1st August, 2024 to 10th August 2024 in FCT, Jos, Kano, Kaduna, Gombe, Katsina and many other states, while acting in concert with Andrew Martin Wynne (aka Andrew Povich) a British citizen, with intent to destabilize Nigeria, incited disaffection to the government by inciting public disturbance while carrying placards the inscription ‘end bad government’ and several other inscriptions to incite disaffection to the government and thereby committed an offence contrary to ion 416 of the Penal Code (Northern States) Federal Provisions Act CAP P3 LFN

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    *With intent to break down law and order in the above states, inciting the Nigeria Military, the Russian government, and other western countries to topple the democratically elected President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, His Excellency President Bola. Ahmad Tinubu government and other state governors using Russian flags and other flags of other countries in violent protest against law and order, that Nigeria is not safe, and calling for the suspension of democracy in the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

    Senator  demands  probe of  underaged  protesters’ detention, prosecution

    The Chairman, Senate Committee on Finance, Senator Sani Musa, asked  Police Inspector General Kayode Egbetokun, to investigate what he called  inhuman detention and prosecution of some minors who were alleged to have participated in the #EndBadGovernance protests.

    Sani Musa, who represents Niger East Senatorial District, strongly condemned the detention of the minors and urged the NJC to probe the decision of the Judge who presided over their case.

    “It is deeply troubling that, despite the hardships and challenges these young children have endured, there is a push to have them imprisoned rather than afforded compassion and understanding. Such actions are not only inhumane but also unjust,” he said.

    He also  condemned the judicial stance advocating the continued detention of the minors, which is entirely unacceptable and contrary to the principles of justice and fairness.

  • National housing fund’s N21traccessible, says FHA Mortgage Bank

    National housing fund’s N21traccessible, says FHA Mortgage Bank

    The Head of Enterprise Risk Management and Product Development at the Federal Housing Authority (FHA) Mortgage Bank Limited, Stanley Oparaocha, has advised Nigerians to key into the National Housing Fund (NHF) to become home owners.

    He said Nigerians can access the fund which has hit N21 trillion.

    The mortgage banker noted that keying into the housing scheme would to reduce the country’s housing deficit, which he said was around 28 million.

    Oparaocha spoke at a seminar, tagged: Acquiring Your Home Through the National Housing Fund (NHF) and Through A Well-Structured Payment, organised by Ensica Real Homes at the weekend in Abuja.

    The Business Development Manager at FHA Mortgage Bank, Geoffrey Obi, said Nigerians from 18 years and above could access the fund.

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    According to him, civil servants can get a loan up to N50 million spread over a repayment period of 30 years with a six per cent interest rate.

    Obi said: “Once you start contributing to the National Housing Fund, you can access the fund. Nigerians who are 18 years and above can access up to N50 million from the fund. They are expected to remit 2.5 per cent of their income to the NHF.

    “The fund is available to people who have contributed to the NHF for a minimum of six months upward. The fund is attractive to younger people. It is meant to put a roof over your head while you are still young and working.”

    The Managing Director and Chief Executive officer of Ensica Real Homes, Ethel Idahosa, explained that the company builds affordable homes for Nigerians according to their affordability.

    She said the company was building over 700 homes for civil servants in the Federal Capital Territory (FCT).

    “We ensure our clients purchase our homes with ease by working them through all available channels through the mortgage banks and a well-structured, flexible payment plan to ensure they get settled in their dream homes within the shortest time.

    “We have considerable experience in undertaking real estate developments across Nigeria. We have strategic alliances with key industry leaders, like the Federal Mortgage Bank of Nigeria, FHA Mortgage Bank, and commercial banks in Nigeria. We have demonstrated capacity and consistency over the years in delivering on our customers’ expectations.

    “Ensica Real Homes has been operating for over 14 years. We started our operations in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, building homes for Nigerians and providing infrastructure for government and non-governmental institutions.

  • Shettima to represent Tinubu at CHOGM 2024 in Samoa

    Shettima to represent Tinubu at CHOGM 2024 in Samoa

    Vice President Kashim Shettima will represent President Bola Ahmed Tinubu at this year’s Commonwealth Heads of Government Meeting (CHOGM) in Apia, Samoa, from October 21 to 26.

    It is the first time CHOGM will be held in the Pacific island nation.

    The Vice President will join King Charles of England and other world leaders from 56 member-countries in the Commonwealth to deliberate on the theme: One Resilient Common Future: Transforming our Common Wealth.

    This year’s meeting will focus on how member-countries could harness their strengths through resilience, unlocking potential, leveraging the ‘Commonwealth Advantage’, and fostering a connected, digital Commonwealth.

    A statement yesterday in Abuja by the Senior Special Assistant to the President on Media and Communications in the Office of the Vice President, Stanley Nkwocha, said Nigeria and other member-countries would also elect and appoint the next Commonwealth Secretary-General.

    In line with the Agreed Memorandum on the Establishment and Functions of the Commonwealth Secretariat (Revised 2022) and the principle of regional rotation, the next Commonwealth Secretary-General will come from Africa.

    The candidates for the role are from Lesotho, Ghana, and The Gambia, while Nigeria will have a major role to play as the largest African member in this regard.

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    Consolidating the progress made at CHOGM 2022, Shettima and other world leaders will deliberate on the global economy, environmental and security challenges, discussing how Commonwealth countries can work together to build resilience, boost trade, innovation, growth, and empower the Commonwealth’s 1.5 billion young people for a more peaceful and sustainable future.

    The Vice President is expected to use the Commonwealth Business Forum to further attract investors to Nigeria, as global experts from businesses and the private sector convene to recommend and champion solutions to global challenges.

    Shettima is also expected to participate in the People’s Forum, the single largest opportunity organised by the Commonwealth Foundation for people to engage with leaders on global development issues.

    He will also engage in bilateral meetings and other executive sessions.

  • Changing sickle cell narrative in Nigeria  

    Changing sickle cell narrative in Nigeria  

    She is the Sickle Cell Foundation boss with a passion for changing the narrative of sickle cell and people living with the condition. Meet Dr. Annette Akinsete, the National Director of Sickle Cell Foundation, Nigeria. Since 1994  she has risen gallantly to the burden of the sickle cell disorder in Nigeria, one estimated to be the largest in the world. In this chat, Akinsete speaks on her work, childhood, style and more, EVELYN OSAGIE writes

    My childhood ambition

    My ambition as a child was always to look after people. I could have been a teacher. I went to a Catholic Secondary School, so, at a point, I toyed with the idea of being a Reverend Sister. I could however tell there was that burning desire to look after people. My parents, however, encouraged me to study medicine.

     Growing up

    I did not grow up in one particular city. I was born in Ibadan. My dad was in the civil service in the old Western Region and we were later posted to Benin. After the war broke, we moved to our hometown in Asaba. It was horrific but I am thankful that my father, mother and all eight siblings survived the war and returned to Benin where we continued life. So, I attended Saint Maria Goretti Girls Grammar School in Benin City where I made a lot of good friends and was raised by very strict Reverend Sisters; in fact, I owe to those times a lot of the things I do today.

    I was daddy’s baby among all eight children. I could do no wrong. In fact, my dad he influenced me quite a lot. I made in life. He called me “Queen of Tonga”. My dad was an excellent, tall, fair and handsome gentleman. He passed away two decades ago; I wish he lived longer. I miss him.

     Myths and truths surrounding sickle cell

    Some people would say that the ailment is a spiritual problem or foisted on their child by negative forces. This is a myth and one of the myths that Sickle Cell Foundation (SCFN) sets out to dispel at every opportunity. It is a hereditary disorder. It is a genetic disorder. It is not caused by witchcraft and is neither Ogbanje nor Abiku.

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    So, studies have shown that the estimated under-5 mortality from sickle cell disorder in Nigeria is about 500 per 1000 live births. This is 4 times higher than children without sickle cell. That is why it is important for intending couples to ensure they pay special care to know about their blood group and genotypes. This is because sickle cell disorder is a hereditary condition and one must be aware and knowledgeable about the possibility of transmitting the genes to one’s offspring” A couple who are both carriers of the sickle gene (designated AS) have a 1 out of 4 chance – in every pregnancy – of having a child with sickle cell disorder (designated SS). So, the couple needs to be properly counseled about the risks involved in having children together and then they can make an informed decision themselves.

     My passion for sickle cell awareness

    Sickle cell is crying for help and support. At the Federal Ministry of Health, I was Director for HIV/AIDS for a number of years and I know that HIV/AIDS was very well resourced in terms of funding and human resources. I couldn’t say the same for non-communicable diseases; I was also Director for non-communicable diseases which encompassed hypertension, diabetes and sickle cell. So, when I retired, I knew I had to pitch my tent where I was needed more. And as I said, sickle cell was crying for help.

     Fighting sickle cell in Nigeria

    It is fulfilling to be able to make a difference. A gap was evident and that was why the SCFN was established in the first place. I think we are doing a great job in terms of awareness. Things have really improved compared to the time when people hid their children or considered them witches. More sickle cell patients are living till old age; in fact, we had a woman who died recently at 94.

     Breakthroughs in health sector and SCFN efforts on the ailment

    I often say that the future is bright for the sickle cell community.  A lot of work and research are going on in the sickle cell space so that we now have newer and more effective treatments including use of the drug Hydroxyurea which helps to reduce the severity and frequency of crises L-Glutamine and a number of others which all help to modify the disease.

    SCFN has established a Stem Cell Transplantation Centre in Lagos in partnership with Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH) and the Vanderbilt University Medical Centre, Nashville, TN, USA. Stem Cell Transplantation is the internationally-approved cure for sickle cell disorder. There are other advancements that are in experimental stages including gene therapy/gene editing, for which (unlike the Stem Cell Transplantation), a stem cell donor is not required. Among other things, SCFN trains doctors and nurses and other health workers in the proper management of SCD, etc. The cure for sickle cell in form of bone marrow (Stem Cell) Transplantation (BMT): BMT is the cure for SCD and at the moment can only be accessed abroad. SCFN has set up a BMT Centre and so that Nigerians can access this cure for SCD locally.

     The SCFN, through its services, has done and continues to do a lot to improve the quality of life and reduce mortality of children living with sickle cell.  Research is big part of what the foundation does; we have a Research Desk Officer who coordinates our research activities – most of which are conducted in collaboration with partners – hematologists, sociologists and other specialists.

    In the area of diagnosis, there are also major advancements in terms of the technology being deployed to diagnose haemoglobinopathies in general – including sickle cell disorder. We now have a number of point-of-care testing kits out there which have improved the ease and speed of screening (including newborn screening) and diagnosis. Of course, we cannot forget the HPLC machine – which is the gold standard in the diagnosis of sickle cell and other haemoglobinopathies and which also quantifies how much of each genotype a subject has.

     My fashion style

    Classy and simple. I do not follow fashion trends; I am big on simplicity and class. I love timeless pieces. You will not catch me wearing a mini dress or dresses with plunged necklines. For me, that is not classy. So, as you can imagine for a girl who went to school with Reverend Sisters, to a large extent, I wear dresses that are decent. I also like toned down colours. My style is above all appropriate at all times.

     My escape

    Reading. Then I take walks because exercising is very important. I watch movies as well. Reading however remains my favourite pastime.

    My beauty routine

    Drinking of plenty water because beauty is from within.

     Project I’m working on

    The big project before us at this time is our stem cell transplantation programme. Right now, I have sent a number of nurses for training abroad and as soon as they return, we will dive straight into transplantation for the first couple of patients.

  • Black soup and Edo election

    Black soup and Edo election

    “So, Edo election is done and dusted,” I said to Barrister Ada as we walked into Christabel’s apartment where we were meeting to collate donations of school’s bags, stationeries and other items for two dedicated schools in a slum in Lagos where she grew up.

    “Yes o…Edo! Hmm, Edo was hot! Indeed..,” Ada said and we hailed our friends. But for Tamara, the usual suspects were already there.

    “What were you girls saying about the Edo election,” Christabel asked with a smile and a curious look on her face as she placed a big jar of fruit juice on the table where some glasses had been laid.  

    “I was saying the Edo election has ended…at long last… but not without leaving behind smokes and fires of victory shouts, not forgetting the noise of appeals,” I reiterated.

    “Yes o,” echoed the ladies. “The past months leading to it had been something else… There was so much tension in the air. My husband said you could literally cut through the tension when he visited Benin last month,” Sexy Jola said, as she grabbed a glass and poured herself a drink. I reached for a glass, too, and poured myself a drink before sitting next to Tinu who appeared to be listening with rapt attention. On seeing the serious look she wore, I was almost forced to ask why so much seriousness but Ada’s analysis brought my attention back to the matter at hand as Christabel brought out the sack containing the school bags and dropped it on the balcony.

    “…There were different analyses and counter analyses of who is the best candidate. I followed them all; as well as the abuse and counter abuse …the direct and indirect insults by notable figures was totally uncalled for if you ask me.”

    “Mm-hmm, in my view, the whole thing reminds me of black soup… Edo black soup that is,” I concurred.

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    “I get your analogy Evelyn D’Poet. Black soup is usually very bitter, and the messy look is intimidating too. But unlike the Edo ‘bitter’ saga, the soup is rich in antioxidant and pack full of healthy goodness.  It’s not healthy at all to see public figures attacking themselves with very sensitive issues of family life. Wetin come concern abero and overload, I asked,” Tinu said as we joined Christabel to arrange and take stock of what was donated.

    “Speaking of black soup… where is Tamara and her black soup? It better be good o,” Jola warned, as she dropped the small box of stationery she was carrying with the other items, and said, “Sorry Christabel, this is all I and Bayo could come up with. School has resumed with so many expenses.”

    “Jola, darling, you are highly appreciated. I am shocked at the show of love from you all. Thank you, girls, for the support. I am also looking forward to Tamara’s black soup. E done tey wey black soup dey hungry me, but I don’t know how to cook it. YouTube and Pinterest have not been of any help. No matter how I tried, I am not able to get the taste like the one I ate in your cousin’s house, Evelyn,”

    “Yes, that one was something else,” Ada agreed.

    “Leave my cousin black soup alone and let’s concentrate on Tamara’s and Edo election,” I chuckled as Tamara walked in with the delicacy accompanied by Nurse Cordelia that was carrying with her the swallow (pounded yam). 

    “When did you find time to do all these,” I asked as I took a bite of the delicious meal.

    “I had help. Thanks to Nurse Cordelia. I hope I passed,” she asked; “Mmm”, we retorted.

  • Prioritise intimacy, rekindle marital bliss

    Prioritise intimacy, rekindle marital bliss

    Sexuality coach and marriage counselor Jessica Sampson is demystifying sex.

    Driven by a vision to help nurture peoples’ intimate desires to fruition and helping couples enjoy blissful marriages, she established The Intimacy Masters and The Sex Conference. In this interview, she speaks on her commitment to changing the narrative of intimacy and pleasure. EVELYN OSAGIE writes

    Significance of intimacy discourse in the face of global meltdown

    Intimacy is crucial because it impacts directly and indirectly on our overall wellbeing and the society at large. Intimacy is linked to a person’s quality of life, and by extension the society; from values to health, boundaries, longevity, and all.

    Sex and sexuality are integral parts of human life, and understanding this can help in approaching the topics with a positive mindset. The timing, the people involved, the choices you make, and the consequences you make are key elements. Embrace the idea and grow in knowledge by educating yourself. Set healthy boundaries, seek support, and remember that you are responsible for your choices. Young people who are properly educated about sexuality make better decisions and avoid STIs, while those who are kept in the dark tend to make more mistakes

    Common misconceptions surrounding intimacy and pleasure

    One major misconception, especially among religious people, is that intimate matters are inherently unhealthy. For instance, God promotes sex within the right context, but what you do with your sexuality and your beliefs about it are what truly matter. Many people engage in sex to the detriment of themselves and others; while others use it to enhance their marriage and intimacy.

    Research shows that children exposed to sexual knowledge make better choices, while those who are not exposed often struggle when they do encounter sexual situations. The key to overcoming misconceptions is to give lessons about sexuality in a way that emphasises choices and consequences. It’s not about promoting unhealthy behaviors, but about fostering sexual health, positive sexual behavior, reproduction, and more.

     My journey into this hush field

    As a licensed clinical sexologist and marriage counselor, I didn’t start out in this field, but discussing relationships and sexuality has always been a natural affinity for me. Even in secondary school, I was the go-to person for advice on crushes and relationships. People found it easy to talk to me, and I naturally became the mediator in relationships. This early experience fueled my passion for my work, leading me to pursue certifications in various fields related to human relationships.

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    I had started unofficially after I finished from the university in 2011. I continued on different aspects of sexual education but in 2015, it dawned on me to create a safe space for sex talk in marriage as I had focused on children mostly and now. Hence, Intimacy Masters was established as an umbrella body to cater to all of these concerns.

     My motivation

    My drive comes from a deep-seated desire to help others navigate the complexities of intimacy and connection. Driven by a vision to help nurture peoples’ intimate desires to fruition and helping couples enjoy blissful marriages, I  founded The Intimacy Masters, a family-oriented organisation with a vision to help nurture peoples’ intimate desires to fruition, and uphold family values as well as the rights of children. And in July this year, we held The Sex Conference with the theme, “Embracing Sexual Knowledge with Wellness and Empowerment”. The whole idea is to bring awareness to people on conversations like this. A lot of times, you’ll go for conferences on health, finance, well-being, and the rest of it, mental health. But you hardly find conversations as direct as sex.

    Post or no post: impact of couples living lives on social media as against utmost privacy

    Truth is, social media has become an integral part of modern society, influencing various aspects of people’s lives, including relationships.    There’s a theory that couples who constantly post about each other on social media are actually covering up underlying issues that they don’t want the public to know about or; some say it’s harmful to couples. But that isn’t entirely true. There are blissful marriages that exist on social media in spite of the popular statement “don’t believe everything you see on social media”.

    Sometimes, it is preference. A couple might post a lot but are not in a happy place. But I personally think moderation is key factor because the pressure is real on social media and at this point, it is paramount to filter what is being consumed. And I’d like to say, “Do a social media detox from time to time” because it is therapeutic.

    When you try to live out your life on social media without moderation, it puts you constantly under pressure to present a perfect image, rids you of privacy as what was once considered personal and private moments between partners are now exposed to a wide audience, and makes you vulnerable to comparing your own relationship to that of others also portrayed online. You suddenly begin to rely on external validation from social media followers and this can be detrimental to a relationship’s health. Seeking approval and validation through likes, comments, or shares can actually shift the focus away from genuine connection between partners towards maintaining a certain image online. This external influence can in the long run distort priorities and values within the relationship.

    Hacks for rekindling intimacy in marriage

    Start dating in marriage again with lots of kisses and foreplay. Embrace the concept of slow sex. These will help build attraction, attachment and acceptance for a “friend zone” marriage to return to life. You should also embrace open communication by talking to your partner about how you are feeling. Also, you should prioritise intimacy by setting time for each other, planning date nights, or engaging in activities that promote closeness and connection. Physical touch, such as cuddling or holding hands, can also help rekindle the intimacy between partners.

    My advice to couples seeking a blissful marriage

    My advice to couples seeking a more fulfilling marriage is to first become willing partners. Being teachable allows you to grasp all the blessings that come with relationships and marriages. Humans are not created to live in loneliness; relationships are a core part of our existence. We thrive, live, and grow in relationships. If you are willing and ready to grow and learn about marriage and relationships, it will positively impact your life, your spouse, and society at large.

    My self-care practices

    To be honest, when we have a goal or mission in life, it helps manage your expectations and sets you up for greatness. Sometimes, you feel overwhelmed, but you take it one day at a time. I love my job, I love my family, and I love myself, but life still happens, and you have to find a way to balance it all.

    I put myself in therapy because even therapists need therapy, and even coaches need coaches. I did a session called “Get Your Power Back” because being a mom of four girls and a boss can be overwhelming. It’s a lot to handle, but I make time for my well-being to check in with myself. I know when to take a break and move on.

    Our work is quite sensitive, and if you’re not careful or well-protected, you can end up with too much to handle. There are times I say no to clients if I’m not stable. Being a relationship coach and sexpert doesn’t mean I don’t have my own relationship issues. There are days when I have to tell myself I can’t take any more clients. On those days, I might not show up, but when I do, I show up fully.

    My role model

    (Smiles) My role model is biological father because I have seen him as a model love, integrity and grit my entire life.

    My personal style

    I love a casual smart look but lately, my preference has been that of a much more feminine and elegant styling without revealing too much.

    My style icon

    Shaffy Bello.

  • Don’t belittle the wisdom of the market place

    Don’t belittle the wisdom of the market place

    “I   like to sit with businesswomen. And I’m not just talking about business executives or captains of industry. But petty traders…the ones we call market women,” began Barrister Ada.

    It was a beautiful but ‘fuel scarcity’ Sunday. The estate was unusually empty and silent. We had been experiencing a power outage but the one we’ve been faced with was due to the estate’s transformer being bad. Christabel and her CDA team had done a lot to get it fixed or get us another one, all to no avail. And the weather was getting hotter and fuel had become costlier and scarcer.   But the girls were not going to allow anything to weigh down on their mental health. While the men left to find fuel, we were relaxing under the Ebelebo tree courtesy Tinu, waiting for Mummy Yinusa. Tinu was supplying snacks and smoothies; whereas Mummy Yinusa was bringing us foodstuff and a surprise.

    Tinu promised us her continental snack specials; but we warned that she sticks to making familiar snacks, like samosa and spring rolls.

    “As I’m saying, I like to sit with market women to gain wisdom. I have come to realise that one should never belittle the wisdom of the market place. Take Mummy Yinusa and Yeye Ajoke for example,” our Barrister continued as Tinu and Tamara walked in with the snacks.

    “I totally agree with you, Ada…my mother is one of them. I watched her and other market women build a primary school that was the only public primary school in our community; and paid the teachers for years before the government stepped in; and built two more schools,” Christabel concurred.

    “Can you imagine that? And I’m sure we all have one or two stories of market women and their heroism….,” voiced Ada.

    “Where is all this talk leading to, sef…,” Sexy Jola asked me in a whisper. I gave her a warning look, and replied in a softer tone, “Jola! Don’t start! Let’s enjoy the snacks and conversation, jare. Leave story.”

    “…What if we had belittled Mummy Yinusa? We would not have had purview into the group food buying that she and other market women have been involved in. But we have Christabel to thank for this connection,” Ada was saying as Tamara brought in the tray filled with cups of smoothie, and said, “indeed, we all thank Christabel…. If you weren’t humble enough to mend fences with her, we would not be here, today. And see where her idea of bulk buying has brought us,” and passed the drinks around.

    Just then, Mummy Yinusa arrived with the truck containing foodstuff. The pulling of resources together to buy foodstuff in bulk at her behest has lessened the burden brought about by the rise in prices.

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    “Good afternoon, my Madammes,” greeted Mummy Yinusa.  “Good afternoon o…” “…welcome o…” came the greeting from the house as we made to meet her by the truck. “See how them dey look us – una neighbours,” whispered Tamara, and we all laughed.

    “I just saw Mummy Temmy and friend peeping out of her window…Pepper them things,” Jola teased.

    “And for those envying us right now, someone should tell them, ‘nothing good comes easy’.  They don’t know the sacrifice and work we’ve put in; and how we went about saving up for these,” Ada stated; and pointed at the kids, and our men who had also just arrived without any fuel.   “Abi o,” Christabel said and turned to Mummy Yinusa, “You said you have a surprise for us…what is it?”

  • Girl dies in Anambra crash

    Girl dies in Anambra crash

     A lone accident at Oye-Agu Market, Abagana in Njikoka Local Government Area of Anambra, has claimed the life of a girl-child

    The Sector Commander of the Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC) in Anambra, Mrs Joyce Alexander, who confirmed the accident to newsmen in Awka, said the accident occurred on Wednesday.

    Alexander said that the probable cause of the accident was brake failure and loss of control.

    She said that the crash involved an identified driver, Eze Uchechukwu with a commercial Toyota Sienna with registration number NEN588YX, belonging to Transport Company of Anambra State (TRACAS).

    “According to eyewitnesses, the driver of the Toyota Sienna failed brake, rammed into Oye-agu market and crashed into traders.

    “A total of seven people comprising a male adult, three female adults, and three female children were involved in the crash.

    “One female child was killed.One male adult, three female adults and 2 female children sustained some degree of injuries.

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    “Before the arrival of FRSC personnel, the injured victims had been taken to Urban Hospital and Maternity for medical attention, while the dead victim was deposited at the morgue.

    “The FRSC team visited the hospital where the victims were taken to for medical attention to ascertain the condition of the injured victims,” she said.

    While condoling the families of the dead, the Sector Commander urged motorists to always service their vehicles regularly and comply with minimum safety standards before using the road.

    She also warned market women to stop displaying their wares or selling by the road sides.

    “Drive to save your life and the lives of others on the road,” she said.

    (NAN)

  • UN seeks media gender champions

    UN seeks media gender champions

    The United Nations (UN) has raised concerns on the plights of women and girls. In pursuit of practical steps towards better implementation of policies to balance gender roles at all levels of society, particularly leadership, UN Women held a Roundtable for Media Executives from the southern part of Nigeria in Lagos. EVELYN OSAGIE writes.

    Nigerian women are topping the charts in science, business, entertainment as well as beauty and lifestyles, but the percentage of those doing so is quite low and nothing to be desired.

    The UN Women Country Representative to Nigeria and ECOWAS, Ms. Beatrice Eyong, expressed concerns last Friday in Lagos over the fact that the gender gap especially in power and leadership positions still remains entrenched.

    She said that representation of women in Nigeria’s particularly in parliament, where critical policies and laws are made “is just about four per cent and at the executive, women make only 17 per cent of the ministers serving in the Federal Cabinet”.

    Beyond politics, citing global data, she stated that globally one in every 10 women lives in extreme poverty, and projections indicate that 342.4 million women and girls will not have moved out of extreme poverty by 2030 unless we shift the current trends. The percentages, she went to say, could be higher for countries like Nigeria where the gap between the few rich and a majority poor continues to widen.

    Media team with UN Women

    Resolute on changing the narrative through media partnership, UN Women took a strategic step towards escalating media actions to promote Gender Equity and Women Empowerment at a roundtable of media executives from the southern part of Nigeria, representatives of media umbrella bodies and media regulatory institutions endorsed a memorandum of understanding with UN Women.

    This strategic partnership, according to Eyong, aimed to bolster media interventions and provide a robust platform for advancing women’s leadership; saying it is in alignment with SDG Goal 5, Target 5.5, which seeks to ensure women’s full and effective participation and equal opportunities for leadership at all levels of decision-making. She applauded the media for prioritising women’s advancement in their editorial policies and programming.

    Eyong said: “UN Women believes that investing in women is investing in the very fabric of society. No nation can truly thrive if women are left behind. Our support is grounded in shared values, mutual respect, and a common vision with the Government and people of Nigeria.”

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    The signing of the MOU, tagged ‘Compact of Commitment,’ was the key highlight of the roundtable. The signatories include the Nigerian Guild of Editors, the Guild of Corporate Online Publishers, the National Broadcasting Commission, the Broadcasting Organisations of Nigeria, the Nigeria Television Authority, The Punch Newspapers, The Guardian newspapers, the Nigerian Democratic Report, Raypower FM, Blueprint Newspaper, amongst others.

    Panelists speak for women sake

    The event also featured solidarity statements, a welcome address, and an engaging panel discussion. The panel discussion was titled: The Role of Digital and Mass Media in Promoting Women’s Political Inclusion and Representation in Nigeria. Moderated by Mrs. Motunrayo Alaka, Executive Director of Wole Soyinka Centre for Investigative Journalism (WSCIJ), it featured insights from Mr. Dr. Lateef Odegbenle; Mrs. Yewande Iwuoha, General Manager of Raypower; Mrs. Laide Abbas, Assistant Director of News at NTA; and Bukunmi Adeaga, Content Creator and Influencer, CEO of Kiekie TV and social media platforms.

    The plenary session also provided a platform for media executives to offer their perspectives and interventions. They highlighted key challenges impeding women’s representation in political and economic spheres and explored how media executives and their organisations can address them through targeted media interventions.

    This collaborative effort between the UN Women and the media executives marks a pivotal moment in advancing women’s leadership and media representation in Nigeria, reinforcing the critical role of media in shaping an equitable and inclusive future.

    The solidarity statements of support for the initiative came from Ms. Amina Oyagbola of Women In Successful Careers (WISCAR); Dr. Yemisi Bamgbose, Executive Secretary of Broadcasting Organisations of Nigeria (BON); Maureen Chigbo, president of the Guild of Corporate Online Publishers, represented by Mrs. Yemisi Izuora; Mr. Charles Ebuebu, Director-General of National Broadcasting Commission (NBC), represented by Mr. Raphael Akpan, zonal director; Dr. Dili Ezugha, Executive Secretary of Nigeria Press Council, represented by Ms. Azuka Odidika and the President of the Nigerian

  • Ella Couture: Nigeria’s celebrity fashion brand sets trends

    Ella Couture: Nigeria’s celebrity fashion brand sets trends

    The Nigerian fashion scene is buzzing with excitement as we match into the ‘Mber’ months. One Nigeria’s celebrity fashion brand setting trends is Ella Couture.

    Under the leadership of CEO, Angela Raymond, the brand has risen to be one of the fashion outfits, taking centre stage as the country’s top fashion brand.

    With the unveiling of their latest trendy styles, Ella Couture has captured the hearts of Nigerian celebrities and ignited a new era in fashion.

    From an early age, Angela, who is also a Fashion Consultant, has had a knack for fashion. “I’ve always loved fashion and knew early on that my future was in this field. I enjoyed looking good and helping others do the same, receiving compliments about my style from friends who often asked me to style them,” she says.

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    She launched her brand, “Ella Couture,” which specialises in retail clothing, in 2020.  The brand has since come to be known for its impeccable craftsmanship, innovative designs, and attention to detail. The brand seamlessly blends traditional Nigerian aesthetics with modern trends, garnering widespread acclaim.

    On her biggest dream, she says “I envision Ella Couture expanding and exporting throughout Africa, Europe, and America, evolving into a globally recognised fashion brand that people love and trust”.

    From red carpet events to music videos, they don the brand’s exquisite creations, showcasing the richness of Nigerian fashion.  As Ella Couture emerges as Nigeria’s top brand, its impact on the fashion industry is far-reaching. The brand’s success fuels pride and optimism among local designers, inspiring creativity and pushing boundaries.

    But what is its secret for tirelessly positioning the brand as a symbol of Nigerian fashion excellence?  Angela, the visionary behind Ella Couture, says “Through meticulous attention to quality and innovative design concepts we’ve been able to catapult Ella Couture to the forefront of the industry. With a keen eye for emerging trends and an innate ability to anticipate consumer demands, we captured the essence of Nigerian fashion in chic designs. We are committed to showcasing Africa’s unique heritage that has brought global recognition and opened doors for local designers.”

    Ella Couture’s rise has created a domino effect, spurring competition and innovation. Other brands strive to match its quality and aesthetics, elevating Nigeria’s fashion landscape.