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  • Raised glasses and Asun to the genius I call mother (2)

    Raised glasses and Asun to the genius I call mother (2)

    “We call her ‘Maami’. She was playful but resolute. We preferred her whip to her words. Her words bite deeper than the thrust of any knife. Even at 80, she was still strong and had the power of words. Looking back, I am grateful that she didn’t spare her tongue but gave it to us whenever we were wrong. Indeed, the role of mothers in the life of children cannot be overexpressed,” Salewa, a visiting friend of Tinu, voiced that evening.

    She joined us while our Mother’s Day revelry was winding down, but not before listening to Tamara, Christable and others’ tributes to their mothers. Fortunately, there were plenty of Asun and drinks to go round. And although it wasn’t planned, the gathering also attracted others from within and outside the estate like Salewa.  It was indeed fun bonding with the girls

    “I’m glad that I didn’t miss this opportunity to express my heartfelt thoughts on my mother. Thank you, ladies for this. In fact, to me, mothers are a microcosm of our society. The crucial role they play, the values they instill, and the environment they create all have a lasting impact on their children,” Selawa, a medical doctor who was travelling out of the country, stated.

    “Hmmm…see grammar. Na wa o, Evelyn see ya twin sister. Abeg I no know book o,” Sexy Jola whispered to her usual suspect, Tamara and I. We all laughed and I replied, “I no dey house o. Jola, leave me out of this one.” It was a good thing we were sitting out of earshot of Salewa and Tinu, her friend; else they probably would have misunderstood the joke.

    Seeing us laughing, Ada and Christabel, perhaps worried that we were leaving them out of our fun, asked what the joke was about. “Don’t mind Jola, jare, Salewa english want finish am,” Tamara joked and everyone laughed.

    “But seriously, Salewa, you made some salient points. Good to have you around. And I must commend your choice of words. You made me fall in love with your Maami. She must be a good writer. But may I ask what country you are travelling to; hope she won’t miss you too much o,” the journalist in me asked with a smile.  “J-o-u-r-n-a-l-i-s-t,” the Women’s Corner gang cried.

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    “Nice meeting you, Eve. I have heard so much about you from Tinu. No, my Maami would not miss me at all. That’s because she was late and she wasn’t a writer. In fact, she was not formally educated. I’m actually travelling to Namibia tomorrow. I wish I wasn’t leaving so soon, I would love to hang-out with you girls. But not to worry, I’ll host you once I return,” she replied and threw the house into a joyful moment.

    “Wow, thanks Salewa. We look forward to it and wish you a safe trip. Wait a minute, Namibia? Isn’t it where they just swore in a woman president and her vice who is also a woman?” I asked.

    “Yes, it is. I am so looking forward to my trip there. It is truly a win for women. And the fact that it happened in Africa means things are looking up,” Salewa replied.

    “Indeed, they are and it has been a long time coming. We can only hope that she will lead the country out of its current situation of unemployment, inequality and poverty,” I added.

    “Would we ever get there in this country? When would we have a woman president? I mean, we also have women of quality and integrity,” Lady P asked.

    “Soon. We just need to organise, divide and conquer,” Ada said.

    “How do you mean?” Mummy Tobi, who had been quiet since, asked.

    “I mean, women groups, women in leadership, or in government or strategic positions must have to regroup and have one voice and form a formidable front; then we can begin to lobby, if need be, and put resources together and then present a strong candidate or candidates as the case may be. Before you know it, Nigeria would have its first woman president too,” Ada opined. Her arguments caused an uproar that attracted other neighbours who joined in amid Asun and drinks.

  • How women can redefine progress against the odds

    How women can redefine progress against the odds

    Women across industries continue to break barriers, proving that gender inclusion and financial empowerment are not just ideals but essential drivers of societal progress. The call for gender parity and expanded opportunities for women to thrive has remained on the front burner of global discourse, PRECIOUS IGBONWELUNDU reports

    Lesson from the Beijing Women Conference

    Since the landmark Beijing Women Conference in 1995, which outlined 12 principles for the empowerment of women and girls, concerted efforts have been made to address gender-related challenges. Despite the visionary agenda agreed upon by representatives from 189 governments, committing to unprecedented initiatives for gender equality, many women and girls across the world still face significant challenges towards actualising their professional and business goals.

    It was against this backdrop that reputable organisations like the United Bank for Africa (UBA), Ikeja Electric (IKEDC), the Africana Women Working Group, Ruth Sisters Fellowship International, and the Centre for Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs) organised separate events in support of the clamour for gender equality, inclusion and women empowerment as catalyst for positive developments.

    Reinforcing its commitment to gender parity and empowerment, UBA hosted its 2025 Business Series entitled: “Against the Odds: The Impact of Women” at its Lagos headquarters. This hybrid event brought together trailblazing women from various sectors to share their personal journeys and inspire the next generation. The discussions emphasized the need for women to support one another, dismantle stereotypes, and seize opportunities.

    Accomplished female leaders highlighted the struggles women face in leadership, particularly the balancing act between career and family. Former Attorney General and Board Chairman of Africa Prudential Plc, Chief Eniola Fadayomi, noted the double standards career women face. “Assertiveness is seen as aggression, while collaboration is perceived as weakness. The key is to embrace our strengths and challenge stereotypes.”

    Managing Director of BOI Investment and Trust Company Limited, Mrs. Flora Fabyan, stressed the importance of strategic decision-making to maintain balance between professional and personal life. “Women naturally juggle multiple roles, and success lies in strategic decision-making. Ensuring alignment between professional and personal goals is crucial.”

    Financial autonomy was another key topic. Actress and producer Nancy Isime underscored the importance of financial independence, stating, “It’s not just about wealth but about the power to make choices. Women must cultivate habits of budgeting, investing wisely, and securing their financial future.”

    The discussion also tackled the controversial issue of whether women genuinely support each other in professional spaces. Angela Emuwa, Chairperson of PUNCH Nigeria Limited, challenged the notion that women in leadership exclude others. “There’s a belief that women push away the ladder after climbing, but it’s essential to keep it in place. We all know what women are capable of achieving.”

    Fabyan echoed this sentiment, urging women to engage in mentorship and sponsorship rather than unhealthy competition. However, Chief Fadayomi advised that support should not involve covering up lapses, as that would be detrimental to true mentorship.

    Founder and CEO of Shule Direct, Faraja Kotta Nyalandu, spoke on the transformative power of education. “The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world. Empowering women has a ripple effect on families, communities, and economies,” she said, calling for collective responsibility in ensuring that women and girls have access to education and professional opportunities.

    UBA’s Group Head of Marketing and Corporate Communications, Alero Ladipo, reiterated the bank’s dedication to gender inclusion. “When women succeed, businesses, communities, and economies prosper. Our commitment remains unwavering in creating pathways for women to lead and excel.”

    Adding its voice to the movement, IKEDC also hosted a hybrid event featuring notable speakers, including Ibukun Awosika, Betty Irabor, and Maye Ayida. CEO of IKEDC, Folake Soetan, encouraged women to own their spaces with confidence, stating, “Breaking systemic barriers and biases requires decisive efforts.”

    Awosika emphasized the importance of uplifting other women. “Never shut a door—determine which should remain open and which should close. Be consistent and treat people with respect,” she advised.

    Similarly, Lotus Financial Services CEO, Toyin Kekere Ekun, admonished women to allocate their earnings wisely, differentiating between needs and wants.

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    Olufunke Jones challenged women to be competent and credible team players, stating, “The demand for gender equality must meet ready and qualified women. Women must be courageous, competent, collaborative, consistent and competitive.”

    At the UN headquarters in New York, during the 69th Commission on the Status of Women (CSW69), Prof. Ada Menakaya, UN Global Coordinator for Gender Priority Strategy (GEPS), underscored gender equality as a moral imperative for sustainable development. “Despite progress, inequalities persist. The global community must move beyond rhetoric and implement action-oriented strategies.”

    The Gender Priority Strategy (GEPS), launched at CSW68 in 2024, was highlighted as a framework to drive policy, education, advocacy, and research on gender issues worldwide.

    Prof. Menakaya emphasized that gender-based discrimination must be tackled through systemic reforms that integrate gender concerns into development mechanisms.

    Moving Forward

    As conversations on gender equality continue, organisations and individuals must work collectively to remove barriers that hinder women’s progress. From corporate boardrooms to grassroots advocacy, the message is clear: empowering women is not just beneficial—it is imperative for societal advancement. The call to action is now, and it requires unwavering commitment to ensuring that women are given the opportunities they rightfully deserve. The event was held in commemoration of this year’s women’s day.

  • ‘The best man for the job is a woman’

    ‘The best man for the job is a woman’

    Architect Mobolaji Adeola Adeniyi, the president of Nigerian Institute of Architects (NIA), is an epitome of beauty and brains. For her, architecture is more than just a career. As a visionary leader, Adeniyi, who is the second woman president of NIA, is driven by a need to foster growth, equity and inclusion in the sector. As NIA clocked 65 yesterday, Adeniyi, in this chat with EVELYN OSAGIE, speaks on her passion for architecture, the institute, family and more

    Being a woman

    I feel deeply grateful and privileged to be born a woman, a gender divinely designed to bring forth life, nurture, and shape future generations. Women possess a unique capacity to excel in any field or endeavor, all while cultivating life, love, and beauty. Being a woman is a gift that allows me to illuminate every space I occupy with my inherent and physical beauty. I firmly believe that all women are beautiful, each radiating a distinct splendor that deserves celebration and recognition.

    Growing up

    Growing up in a loving family with well-educated parents, I was fortunate to have an environment that fostered equality and encouraged me to pursue my dreams without limitations. My parents believed in me and provided every opportunity for growth, never imposing gender biases that could hinder my progress. Competing with my brother, I developed a strong sense of determination, always striving to prove that I could achieve anything he could, and even more. This mindset fueled my passion for gender equality, and I proudly declared my stance with a sticker on my car: “The best man for the job is a woman.” As a young lady, I was resolute in my conviction that women possess equal intellectual capacity as men, and I remain fiercely dedicated to promoting this ideal.

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    My passion

    I am driven by a profound passion to leave a lasting legacy in multiple spheres of my life: as a devoted wife, nurturing mother, dedicated mentor, innovative architect, and visionary leader. Empowering young people is a cause close to my heart. I am committed to creating opportunities that foster their growth, development, and excellence. Equity and inclusion are fundamental principles that guide my actions.

    Inspiration behind my chosen path

    With over 43 years of practice and a Master’s degree in Architecture, I possess the expertise to plan and design buildings and neighborhoods. My firm has been instrumental in developing master plans and designs for various clients, including educational institutions, healthcare providers, government agencies, and private sector companies. From a young age, I possessed a vibrant imagination and creativity, which manifested through my artistic talents in drawing, painting, and writing. Interestingly, I also had a keen analytical and scientific mind, allowing me to excel in both art and science courses throughout high school. My unique blend of skills caught my father’s attention, who introduced me to his friend, a practicing architect. This encounter sparked a new passion within me, as I began to channel my artistic energies into designing buildings and landscapes. I became fascinated with the creative process of architecture, marveling at the imaginative minds behind iconic traditional structures and modern skyscrapers. The power of imagination to craft spaces that inspire and uplift humanity left an indelible mark on me. This epiphany ignited my passion for architecture, and I knew that I wanted to dedicate my life to harnessing the transformative power of design to create meaningful, functional, and beautiful spaces that elevate human experience.

    Underrepresentation of women in the sector

     Globally, the architecture profession has historically been male-dominated, with women significantly underrepresented. Statistics worldwide reveal a low percentage of women in the Architecture, Construction, and Engineering (ACE) industry. Despite these disparities, women are increasingly claiming their space in the industry. In Africa, women like  Arc Olubukunola Ejiwunmi the first female President of NIA and myself being the second Female President , Florence Kyole, the immediate past president of the Association of Architects in Kenya, Emma Miloyo, a Kenyan architect and businesswoman, and Victoria Heilman, a Tanzanian architect and educator, are paving the way for future generations . These women, along with many others, are challenging the status quo and demonstrating excellence and leadership in the field.

    The traditional notion that educating the girl child is not a priority has significantly impacted the emergence of women in architecture in Africa. However, this narrative is changing rapidly, and it’s heartening to see more women taking on leading roles in the profession.

    Advice that helped early in my career

    Throughout my career, I’ve been fortunate to receive guidance that has helped shape me into the leader I am today. The most impactful advice I’ve received includes: embracing the principles of hard work, discipline, integrity, diligence, and forthrightness. My strict Christian upbringing and educational background instilled these values in me; cultivating confidence and perseverance.

    My secret to success

    My ultimate secret to success lies in my faith – God in me, the glory and lifter of my head. I boldly declare that every accomplishment, past and future, is attributed to Him. My success mantra is rooted in the phrase, ‘Christ in me, the hope of glory.’ In addition to my faith, I am deeply grateful for the unwavering support of my loving family.

    My impact journey in NIA

    Established on April 1, 1960, the Nigerian Institute of Architects (NIA) has a rich history spanning over six decades. As the 30th President, fondly referred to as the ‘Pearl President,’ I am honored to be part of that history of is the umbrella body for all architects in Nigeria. My leadership journey within the NIA has been a testament to determination and perseverance. I began by breaking barriers as the first female Chapter Chair, paving the way for future generations of women in architecture. From there, I progressed to National Treasurer, demonstrating my ability to manage resources and drive growth.

    Undeterred by challenges, I contested and won the position of Vice President 3, further solidifying my commitment to the Institute’s mission. Ultimately, my dedication and passion led to my election as President, a historic milestone for women in architecture.

    Throughout my ascent, I have remained resolute in my determination to prove that women can be transformational leaders in the association. I am committed to bridging gaps, fostering unity, and driving progress within the NIA. One of my key achievements has been the successful implementation of my UNITE Agenda, which has been widely adopted by all Chapters and Committees within the NIA. The impact has been tangible, with visible results that demonstrate the effectiveness of our collective efforts.

    Being fashionable as an architect

    Contrary to popular opinion, female architects are not only passionate about designing structures, but also about fashion. Our profession, though male-dominated, has not stifled our sense of style. In fact, our creative training has honed our appreciation for aesthetics, colors, and design, which we effortlessly translate into our fashion sense. I can confidently attest that female architects possess a keen eye for fashion, often rivaling their male counterparts. Speaking of which in my younger days, I recall admiring the impeccable style of seasoned male architects who would elegantly stride across construction sites, their distinctive attire setting them apart. I have always loved dressing elegantly and I made a conscious decision to express my personality through fashion, ensuring that my style is unmistakable, whether on or off site. My love for fashion has only grown stronger, and I take pride in showcasing my unique sense of style, debunking the myth that female architects are indifferent to fashion.

    My fashion style

    My fashion style is a harmonious blend of contemporary and traditional elements. In the corporate world, I effortlessly merge Afrocentric flair with professional attire, often incorporating vibrant earth tones that reflect my cultural heritage. Accessories play a significant role in my overall aesthetic. I cherish my glasses, which have become an integral part of my personal style.

    Juggling personal/family life with career

    By the grace of God, I’ve successfully navigated the delicate balance between my career and personal life. Through careful planning and prioritisation, I’ve ensured that every aspect of my life receives the necessary attention and time. In my early years, I made my family my top priority. I resigned from my job as a practicing architect and took on a lecturing role with more flexible hours, allowing me to establish a strong foundation at home, nurture my relationship with my husband, and raise my children. As my family’s needs evolved, I transitioned back to my career as a practicing architect, first through a partnership and later by establishing my own practice. This phase of my life enabled me to maintain availability for my family while managing my schedules. As my children grew older and required less of my attention, I assumed leadership roles in my church and career, including NIA.

    My role models

    Professionally, I have been influenced by pioneers like the first Female President of the NIA, and Arc Femi Majekodunmi, an internationally acclaimed Nigerian Architect who was Past President NIA and international Union of Architects and other leadership roles. Internationally, Zaha Hadid’s groundbreaking designs and achievements as a female architect have also inspired me.  On a personal level, my family members, such as my late father Chief Kolawole Olafimihan, his sister Chief Adeola Adesiyun, and my mother Chief Violet Olafimihan, have taught me valuable lessons about hard work, entrepreneurship, and leadership.  Lastly, my spiritual growth has been nurtured by my pastors, including Pastor and Mrs Olubi Johnson, Revd S. M. Leigh, and Evangelist Toun Soetan, among others. These individuals have collectively contributed to shaping my values, career, and personal life.

    Relaxation

     I unwind and recharge through a variety of activities that bring me joy. An avid sports enthusiast, I find solace in playing table tennis, which provides a perfect blend of physical exercise and mental focus. Music and dance are also passions of mine.

    What next for you

    The question of what’s next for me is indeed a profound one. As a person of faith, I firmly believe that my life is in God’s hands, and my future will unfold according to His divine plan. Through my leadership, I aim to create a lasting legacy that will be felt for generations to come.

  • Raised glasses and asun to the genius I call my mother

    Raised glasses and asun to the genius I call my mother

    “Happy Mother’s Day beloved Sisters,” Tamara said last Sunday as the women gathered at the usual spot under the ebelebo tree. It was another Mother’s Day celebration and the girls were hosting a small Mothering Sunday luncheon in honour of mothers.

    An interesting part of the luncheon was the recollection of the mother we knew – our younger days with our mothers – tagged: The Genius I call my Mother. It was heartwarming the way they all  spoke about the uniqueness of motherhood. They all spoke alike.

    “I raise my glass to all mothers. Mothers are the best thing that happened to humanity, if you ask me. You would never understand the rare qualities of your mother until you become one. I can’t see myself waking up at 2am to prepare for the family. Even waking up by 4/5 is killing but my mother wakes up as early as 2 am daily to prepare for the day. Looking at my two children, I’m wondering how she was able to understand and attend to the needs of her 10 children. Abeg, Mama na Mama,” Tamara stated.

    “Mama na Mama jare my sister. Our mothers or should I say my mother is a genius. How were they able to have a rich knowledge of home remedies that served as first aids to various illnesses? Those home remedies are now what have made many people social media influencers today.  If our mothers were born in our days, they would dwarf all those influencers on TikTok and YouTube,” Mummy Fawaz observed just as Tinu signaled me and Sexy Jola to join her in bringing the Asun, which was courtesy our estate’s exco. But I didn’t like the fact that Tinu had to drag me out from the exciting gist.

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    By the time we returned, it was Aisha who had the floor. “Our mothers are unsung heroes that our world has been blessed with but taken for granted,” she was saying as we brought in the snack. “For instance, my mother had a thermometer and stethoscope in her head that allowed her to know when a child was sick and what kind of home remedy to give us before rushing us to the hospital. And in most cases, what the doctor would diagnose would be almost similar to hers.”

    “Mine was the same as yours. In fact, we used to say that if she was a doctor she would be very exceptional’ because she was good with herbs. She had a portfolio in that regard. She often frowned at how our medical scientists have failed to research and preserve some of those herbal knowledge, saying one day, once the oyibos (foreigners) see the potential of our herbal knowledge, they will grab it with their two hands. Is it not what is happening today? Now, everywhere you go, it’s all about organic, herbal remedies. What is different from our herbs and what Longrich or Forever Living products are doing? The difference is their medical experts and scientists did not downplay their herbal traditional remedies; but researched it to the point of where we can now take them as modern drugs,” Nurse Cordelia asserted. Her statement threw the house into an argument that was pacified with the sharing of wine and glasses.

    “Ladies…on this note, let us raise our glasses to the genius we call mother. And to those of us mothers who have borrowed from that rich tradition of women nurturing and protecting and preserving generations,” Christabel toasted.

    And we all said “Cheers to all mothers”.

  • ‘Every woman must learn self-defence’

    ‘Every woman must learn self-defence’

    Woman and culture advocate, Olori Hilda Oduwole Busari, Yeye Asa Obatala Agbaye, is a royalty with a heart for women and culture. No matter what cap she is wearing either as a businesswoman, artist, journalist or a documentary film producer, she is driven by her passions. As the world marks Women Month this March, Olori Busari is changing the negative notion about culture and traditional practices through her Orisa technology project. In this interview with EVELYN OSAGIE, she shares her thoughts on women empowerment, culture, polygamy and more.

    As an artist

    I’m a painter. I do soil painting.  As a visual artist, I express myself through painting with soil: nature is my inspiration.

    Voyage into journalism

    l got into journalism (broadcasting) in 1999. But my journey into the world of the media began at Oko Poly as they called it in 1995. I went to the Federal Polytechnic, Oko in Anambra State, where I studied Mass Communication from 1995 to 1999. And then I joined the Federal Radio Corporation, Gwagwalada, Abuja, briefly in 1999. From there, I got a job with Metro TV, Labone in Accra, Ghana as production assistant from the beginning of 2000 to 2002. From production assistant, I became a studio director/ librarian and assistant head of programme. When I left Metro TV in 2002, I came back to Nigeria and joined Galaxy TV as a producer/presenter from 2002 to 2004. I was the producer/presenter of “Family Mirror”, “Children Variety Show”, and “Hands of Mercy” and “Adolescence to Adulthood”.

    Being a woman

    To be a woman is first to be selfless, humble, to be virtuous, tolerant and to have a thick skin (shock absorber).

    Growing up for you

    Growing up was a very emotional one because my father died when I was about three years. Although my mum was carrying the pregnancy of who would have become my immediate junior sister, she died before my one year birthday. So, I became an only child. Being a young person, my mother had to remarry. She married Pa. A.A Odutayo, a very good man who became my father who trained me. Every Saturday and Sunday, he would buy newspapers, like Daily Times, Punch, and Sketch etc. And he’ll make me read to him, not knowing that I will eventually become a journalist/broadcaster because he was the one that insisted I go to the Federal School of Catering.

     My background that impacted the woman I became

    I am a happy person. I hate to be sad; so, I make the best of every situation. And I got it from my parents, Christiana Aina and Pa. Odutayo. Their training made me who I am today. This is because they sent me to schools where I have to use my hands to be creative. And I always read newspapers to them every weekend; this actually prepared me for the future and impacted the woman I became.

    A woman’s greatest challenge

    A woman’s greatest challenge at this time and age is finance and lack of empowerment. For me, my greatest challenge is funding. Our women need to be empowered through training and funding. Train a woman and you’ve trained a nation. To ensure we create a better society where women can thrive, all hands must be on deck. But it is not in the hands of the government alone, our philanthropists and well-meaning Nigerians should empower women in all areas. Every woman, including the Girl-Child, must be computer literate, must know how to swim, and must learn self-defence. And in fact, she must know how to use weapons for self-defence. And this is informed by the realities of the day.

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    My life’s ideology to learn from

    Women should be down to earth; know how to use their hands to create and be very tolerant. As Olori, one should be an epitome of good character: a good example for women to learn from. A typical Olori sees to the welfare of her home, people, women and children

    Navigating from one career to the other

    My career is my life. It’s easy because I have a studio where I record, paint and do my batik/Adire. Remember I mentioned I went to the Federal School of Catering where I also studied dressmaking and textile technology. I was first a baker and fashion designer. But when I became a broadcaster, I had to face broadcasting only. It helped me a lot as a broadcaster because I used the medium to train children on the “Children Variety Show” programme, home economics segment. Although I’m not currently with any TV/radio station, I’m still working independently. And I’m now into filmmaking.

    My mentors

    My mentors are my mother, who taught me to be a virtuous woman; Chief Mrs. Cordelia Obeya, who taught me that you can work from home as a mother, and that your dining table can be your office.

    My world of royalty

    My world of royalty has not been bad; if I must state it, it’s been alright because it comes with its glitz and glamour. But it also comes with a lot of responsibilities. It’s not just about running a home but a palace with other Oloris (wives of the monarch), and events of my darling husband, His Imperial Majesty Oba Dr. Aderemi Oyebamiji Gbadegeshin Adedokun Busari, Alase Oosa Agbaye.

    Marrying into royalty

    Many have the notion that marrying into royalty has a lot of hindrances in one’s life, but my experience speaks against such a notion.  In my experience, marrying into royalty has not hindered my life or career. It has never held me back because we were already married before my husband became Oba Alase Oosa Agbaye. I’m a traditionalist and so, I’m used to following the tenets of my belief which promotes love, understanding and good family values.

    I know that not many women can stand their husbands marrying other wives but they forget that men are polygamous in nature. My advice for women who find themselves in such a situation is to be tolerant and see the other woman as a sister (partner). Well, it was not easy initially, but as soon as I started seeing the other women as my sisters and partners, it became easy for us all.

    My passion

    My passion is to impact knowledge into women and youths. I am the founder of Culture and Tourism World Enlightenment Foundation (CULTOUWEF). The foundation has an online TV channel, and we have trained lots of women and youth in heritage management, textile technology, painting, beadmaking, basket making, cinematography; radio and television Production, etc.

    On culture being fetish

    Our indigenous culture and religion is not fetish. For instance, Ifa is the word of God Eledumare.; and all the Orisas are the medium in which we pray to God Eledumare.

    On my Orisa Technology project

    Orisa Technology involves harnessing the technological assets in Orisa, a term for the deities in the Yoruba religion. I‘m working to bring the technology of all Orisas to light for the benefit of all through skill acquisition. For instance, Orisa Obatala is into creativity; Orisa Ogun is into blacksmith that is turning iron into bolt and nuts etc, Orisa Osun is into textile technology; Orisa Osanyin is into herbal remedy; Orisa Oko is into agriculture; Orisa Aje has to do with commerce etc.; I believe that if we now start  talking about industries, if we start this in a small scale it will grow into something big that will help in giving our youths a different and positive orientation. This is for the Orisa community. Come April, we will be holding a conference in April tagged: Agboye Esi/Isese and Asa where we would be launching the Orisa Technology project. It is designed to foster unity and preserve the cultural heritage of Badagry and its people.

    My feminism

    Yes. I see myself as a feminist because I always fight for gender equality.

    My fashion style

    I’m comfortable wearing an Adire and white long gown and the usual Iro and Buba.

    Beauty to me

    Beauty comes from within, not skin deep, just be happy to smile and make other people smile.

    Relaxation

    I listen to music: I love jazz and reggae.

    Fashion item I can’t do without

    I can’t do without my coral beads and sesefun (white beads)

  • For Segun, a toast to undying pathfinder

    For Segun, a toast to undying pathfinder

    “Let’s have a minute’s silence for the late Mama Mabel Segun, who passed away on Thursday here,” urged our own sportswoman extraordinaire, Tinu, who was hosting us at her Saturday workout.

    After the therapeutic workshop penultimate week by Coach Doren on bedroom matters put together by Christabel and the Women’s Corner for ladies in our estate, the girls were all advised on the importance of exercise for them to stay on top of their game. It was then decided that we must all go back to Tinu and her backbreaking routines.

    I literally dragged myself to the spot where they had already gathered that morning, praying that the day would not end with us jogging beyond our estate.

    “If I know her well…hmmm…If I know Tinu who I know well, today na die! Tinu go punish us for deserting her weekly routines all these while o,” Sexy Jola whispered as we made to join the others. But for Jolaolu coming to get me, I would have overslept. I got home late the previous night and was too tired to remember the girls were meeting that morning. And trust my buddy for life, she and Christabel came for me – a gesture I did not find funny at the time. 

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    We got there to find that the workout had been on for about 20 minutes and they were on a short break. “Mama Segun was a pathfinder worthy of note. How many of you have read or have come across the novel, My Father’s Daughter,” Tinu asked after her call for a minute’s silence in honour of Mabel Segun, who passed on in March 6. The subject matter, Mabel Segun (NNOM), caught my attention, being a woman who I’ve held in high esteem while alive for being an inspiration to the modern woman. Segun was a brilliant woman who rose above the odds of her time to become a pioneer as Nigerian poet, playwright and writer of short stories and children’s books, a teacher, broadcaster, and a sportswoman.

    “Many know her as an award-winning writer of children books, but she was also an exceptional sportswoman,” Tinu continued, “You should ask me how I know? Many of you may not know that beyond aerobics, I play Ping-Pong and tennis. I first knew about her during my training at National Stadium, Iganmu, when our coach, Aremu, would always praise her. I was forced to visit the national library at Yaba to read about her. I was impressed with what I found on her; and I have since become one of her fans. So don’t be surprised that I asked that we have a minute of silence in her honour. She is indeed an inspiration to the women.” 

    Moved by Tinu’s statements, Lady Peace, a women’s rights advocate who recently moved into our estate, added: “She was ahead of her time. I see her as a true representation of the modern woman. She is a feminist who broke the stereotypes associated with what it means to be a woman.” Tinu’s discourse of Segun seemed to have shifted our attention from the workout, and I and Jola were happy to oblige. “Tinu, I too have read that book along with two others, and I find her works interesting,” Jola noted.

     “We can go on and on listing her good qualities, and we would spend the whole day here. As a journalist and writer, I am happy to be one of those who had the privilege of meeting her several times one on one and writing about her several times too. I am so happy that a few weeks before her death, I joined many to mark her 95th birthday and wrote extensively about her. Feel free to check out my articles on her in The Nation newspaper, https://thenationonlineng.net/author/evelyn-osagie/” I added my voice to the dialogue.

    “Before we return to our workout,” Tinu interjected, “Please grab yourselves the bottle of juice we shared earlier. Evelyn…Jola and all who just joined us, grab yourselves a bottle and let us toast to Mama Mabel Segun, the pathfinder whose impact lives on!”

    And we all said: “Cheers!!!”, “To Mabel!!!”

  • How U.S. based Nigerian nurse is changing lives through food pantry

    How U.S. based Nigerian nurse is changing lives through food pantry

    United States-based Nigerian Public Health Specialist/Coordinator of the food pantry at Maryland Food Bank RCCG Mercy Court, Bukola Daramola, is changing lives in the US, one at a time. In this Black History Month, Daramola is commended for not only bringing relief and dignity to neighbors, but for helping to create a more equitable food system statewide through her work with culturally inclusive crops. In this chat, she speaks on her work and early experience at home in Nigeria, which set her up to impact her neighbours positively;  EVELYN OSAGIE writes

    Being a woman

    As a Nigerian woman, I learnt and grew up to be resilient, to fight for what you believe and passionate about, never to dwell on the past, but keep moving. Living in the United States is another edition of my story, but I will summarise it by saying, location does not determine your outcome, but your dream and passion does. I came to the USA to start life all over again, studying, writing professional exams, applying for permanent legal stay and jobs. Did I achieve these, yes. That is why I always write” Mercy Found me and Grace brought me this far”.

    Growing up that impacted the woman I am

    In my home country of Nigeria, I experienced compassion everywhere. People shared food, resources, whatever other people needed—if you had it, you gave it—that’s the environment I grew up in. and that is inspired by my upbringing back home in Nigeria. Growing up, my home life was pretty normal, and my parents were comfortable enough that they could provide for others if need be.

     My passions

    I am passionate about God; my slogan is “Product of Mercy and Grace”. I cannot express my passion outside Jesus, walking with Him has exposed my life to the public. I am also passionate about doing anything that will end pain and stop suffering, I hate poverty, hunger and oppression. I love to study and expand my knowledge, “A mind that knows, is a mind that’s free” that is a part of my Alma matter (University of Ibadan) anthem that has stocked with me. Above being passionate about knowledge, I am ardent about what I do with my knowledge. One of my unpublished quotes states that “Education is not the major determinant of your success, what you do with it matter most” Which you can agree with me (smiles).

    Inspiration behind my working at food pantry

    Why do I work at the food pantry at Mercy Court? It’s something I love to do. Anything that can relieve pain and make people happy, I don’t need motivation to do it, I passionately do it. Sure, there are some challenges, but I know the benefits outweigh the challenges, so I do it, and I do it, and I do it. The smile that lights up someone’s face when they get fresh vegetables shows me they’re happy and that makes me smile.

    Talking about the RCCG Mercy Court, North Baltimore, food pantry, it started as a leadership role, been selected as the HOD community outreach, which I do with all sense of dedication to God and to my community. I saw a need for expansion and meeting the need of the community on weekly bases that birth the pantry that is seeing the GOVANS community in Baltimore and ending hunger. Every day, I think of how to put a smile on someone’s face, impact lives, and reduce suffering. Partnering with Maryland Food Bank is an impetus that makes me appreciate every little thing I do at Mercy Court. I look forward to do more.

    My journey at the pantry

    When I started at the pantry, I did a lot of community outreach. I wanted to know what  people were getting, what were their opinions about the food, what was their level of satisfaction with what they’re getting at the pantry, and what they might want to get more of.

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    From an early age, I saw the power in helping others. And it wasn’t long before my “superpower” was recognised by my teachers. While attending boarding school as a teenager, she was given a post of Food Prefect, which at first confused me. I remember thinking, ‘Food Prefect, what does that even mean?’ and then quickly finding out that it meant that I, a 17 year old, was suddenly in charge of making sure the food served to 1,000 girls in the dining hall was up to the school’s standard!

    At the time, I was responsible for overseeing everything from planning, tasting, and presenting food to her classmates three times a day to coordinating each meal within a 30 to 45 minute window, learning lessons and building the resiliency that would foreshadow my work at Mercy Court. But the whole experience then taught me how to build resilience.

    My voyage at building resiliency

    I remember having to turn my back one day, because some negative feedback from my classmates made me cry. They said to me ‘how could you have passed this food? This food doesn’t taste right, and it’s not what we wanted! But I knew that people were counting on me—the teachers who gave me the role, and the classmates I was trying to serve. In my mind, I was like ‘you have the same classwork and assignments that I do, and I’m coming to the dining hall early to try and help, why would you say those things?

    I knew I had to do the job the next day, and the day after that, so I made a decision. Since I’m still coming back here tomorrow, and people may say things, but I am not going to cry, I am going to do what’s right. I’m still in touch with some of my high school teachers. They saw something in me, and knew I could do it. They were right, and I think this is part of what gave me the confidence to go into the nursing profession.

    Being a nurse in the US

    It is fascinating and challenging. Being able to practice nursing outside the country I trained from is hard work, I am grateful for the thorough teaching and experience of practicing nursing more than a decade from Nigeria. The foundation makes it easier Do I enjoy working as an RN in the USA, I will say yes, because it pays my bills. Could I have done anything else, I will also say yes because the live of a nurse anywhere in the world is a sacrificial one, Nurses can never be paid for their worth, we are always doing more to save lives and relieve pain.

     My though on Beauty

    Beauty, they say is in the eye of beholder, for me it is beyond. It is my carriage, character and charisma. The way I carries myself physically, including my posture, movement, and overall presence. My moral and ethical qualities: I deal with people with integrity, honesty, and principles. Beyond these, beauty is my ability to reflect love, which is my charisma, the ability to attract or influence others positively.

    My fashion style

    I am classic, minimalist and edgy. My appearance determines the way I will be addressed, so I appear to fit the occasion. I have never disappointed my audience with my fashion style. Even in uniforms and scrubs, I maintain the same fashion style.

    Weathering through challenges, fostering fairness

    My pantry at the RCCG Mercy, serves a considerably large immigrant population. In their magnanimity, Maryland food bank, supplies foods for distribution to the people generally in the state including my location. Unfortunately, most foods supplied were traditional American foods, mostly canned which the immigrant community I serve, predominantly African population does not have preference for. Upon interaction with my community, I discovered that the huge amount invested into serving them is not actually meeting the peoples need. I organised focus group discussion with stakeholders in the community and the Maryland Food Bank directors, I took up the advocacy, establishing the fact that the nutritional needs of the people are not being met, and that the cultural sensitivity needs to be considered in making provision for the populate. I scheduled various meetings with the Maryland food bank authority and tabled the request of African, Spanish, and Asian culturally sensitive food in the food bank program.

    In their magnanimity, the authority aptly took up the challenge; they got contractors that can supply what our community needs. As a result of this, Cultural Inclusive Crops was introduced; we now have regular supply of African, Spanish and Asian foods. Fresh, organic foods directly from farms are now regularly available to community to pick up at Mercy Court during the summer period. Crops like jute leave (Ewedu), Callaloo (Efo), Okra (Ila), Pepper (Ata rodo), Water leave (Gure), Garden eggs (ikan), scent leave.

    To my surprise, many cultures troops out regularly to be served the African foods to their satisfaction. The aptly named Mercy Court has the ability to engage in even deeper relationships, connecting them with the resources that can help eliminate hunger’s root causes. Once we’ve been able to give a person food, and they feel safe, then we can ask the questions that help us understand what they really need help with—mental health issues, childcare, or even showing them that the Maryland Food Bank has job resources that can change things.

    Balancing family and work

    This is the peak of it; honestly, I am also asking the same question (laughs). I just take one step at a time, meeting deadlines and setting priories. Creating time for my family is my priority. Any request I want to say yes to, I will filter how my family will cope with it. This includes if I want to apply for a job. Also, I give my work the best I can. As a student, I realised how challenging it can be to hustle through everything, but I tell you. I make sure to create time for all aspect of my live that no one can do for me, and for the one that others can help, I delegate responsibilities and seek for help.

  • Ukodo: The companion of rainy season

    Ukodo: The companion of rainy season

    “So rain is back! Hmmm…Thank God for the rain,” I muttered to myself as I stared out of my window that Friday afternoon. I was lucky to have returned home early from an assignment and was happy to enjoy the smell of the cool breeze and the drama outside from downstairs.

    If you were in my room, you would have heard the mixed feeling in my voice as I watched the showers from a vantage position behind my blinds. The women scampered here and there, trying to remove their washed clothes from the lines. I laughed at the way Jolaolu, Mummy Nkechi and other women plus their wards, with basins full of washed clothes in hands, were dashing to and fro ever so desperately.

    I noticed that while the mothers each had a look of frustration on their faces (after all no woman would want to repeat a task like washing over again), for their children, running helter-skelter seemed like fun. I dragged my eyes from the women and children, to another part of the estate and my eyes caught Lady P (as I choose to call her in this piece), Ada and Christabel, exchanging warm pleasantries. After what happened last week, I can only imagine what they were saying. And as I strain my eyes to read their lips as an investigative reporter that I am (laughs), my mind drifted to last Saturday.

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    So, remember I mentioned that in the spirit of Valentine, we, the Women’s Corner crew, held court at our usual spot to bond and share love tales. What I didn’t tell you was that that event boomeranged into something we didn’t see coming. As the ladies took turns to share how their Valentine’s Day experience with their men went, a question from a new entrant, broke the silence on the travails of women who had undergone circumcision.

    It was Lady P that asked, “What can a woman who had been circumcised do to enjoy sex,” and for 10 minutes no one spoke. And when the answer came, it came from Christabel, our able estate’s vice chairperson. “What you need my Sister is a sex therapist, what they call a sexologist,” she said, and offered to bring one. “I have been getting a lot of complaints from our women lately about their dwindling or dead sex life. Many would rather lie about their own than to speak out about it. The risk is, our men may go out and end up in the hands of those wicked girls that would finish their head and pocket, and destroy our home. We will not allow them”.

    “Yes o,” we all cried.

    “If they go bum shorts, we will wear the one that is more than bum shorts for our men,” Christabel continued, “If they are gyming, we will go to the gym too. If they go on to Temu to get their lingeries, we will go to Jumia and Konga, where we will get speedy delivery, to outsmart them. The long and short of it all is we no go gree (laughs). So, I commend you, Lady P for wanting to know. I will bring my friend Coach Doren to the rescue.”

    “Speak on”, “You are carried”, “Nothing do you”, cried the girls.

    “I donate my place,” Sexy Jola proposed.

    “I will bring Ukodo, a yam and pepper soup delicacy of we, the South-south people. It’s literally our companion during the rainy season,” Nurse Cordelia seconded.

    “We might need to spread the word around to other women in the estate because if you ask me, people need am o. Divorce rates no be here. The courts are packed full with divorce cases,” Barrister Ada stated.

    And so the stage was set for what would be an eye-opening experience. See you next week.

    •This edition continues next week. For comments and contributions write to to evelyn.osagie01@gmail.com

  • Trump’s rule no be moin-moin (1)

    Trump’s rule no be moin-moin (1)

    “Remind me to tell you about the connection between cupcakes, Zee World and the Women’s Corner, later. For now, abeg let us concentrate and watch President Trump’s inauguration,” Sexy Jola told Sharon as she got up from where she was sitting beside Tinu to join her on the sofa by the balcony at Ada’s apartment on Monday evening.

    Ada had invited us to her place to watch the United States President Trump’s inauguration together and that she’ll be treating us to her tasty baked beans (moin-moin) delicacy. On hearing that, those of us who were not working from home made sure we got back early from work to join the revelry. 

    “But come to think of it, Trump’s rule no go be moin-moin,” Tinu said as the inauguration began on TV. Beyond the fact that Ada was a graceful host, we all looked forward to being part of the history-making event, even though we’ll be watching from Ada’s living room; we each didn’t want to miss sharing the moment with the girls. And this time, we had some friends from the estate, like Sharon, joining us for the first time. Mummy Pamilerin was also in the building. We had a full house, so much so that Christabel had to get up for Nurse Cordeliq to sit when she arrived. I too had to join Christabel, Ada and Mummy Fawaz in the kitchen to make space for another lady.

    “I don’t want to’believe Ada’s moin-moin is what has attracted this number of ladies. I also do not believe that America’s presidential inauguration is that important to this women to draw this number. Because I don’t understand,” lamented Christabel.

    “Why are you worrying your fine head so much over it, Chriistal. It should tell you how far the ‘Japa’ syndrome has eaten deep into our fabric as a people. Even those who have never left the country are now very much abreast with global goings-on and other foreign policies as it affects immigrants.,” I interjected.

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    “And who says it’s not my world-famous moi-moi that has attracted them. Lucky, I made enough extras else you girls would have been forced to give up your wraps for our visitors o,” Ada stated. I heaved a sigh of relief, and whispered, “Thank God!” I wasn’t sure I would be generous enough to donate my wrap, I mean Ada delicious moi-moi for the Ada’s “good cause” .

    “What are you ladies chatting about? Is the moin-moin not tasty yet? You girls are missing out on some serious discussions happening out there,” hollered Jola as she peeped through the curtain. “As expected, they must argue over Trump presidency and what it holds for Africa, Nigeria and Nigerians in the diaspora particularly. Let them. We too have had our share,” Ada said, while reminding us of how we followed the US election closely last year. I remember there were different factions in the Women’s Corner. Some were for Democrats, others were diehard Republicans supporters. While those who were bystanders were forced to take a stand. It was as if we were in America. It was the same with our men. “I am looking forward to another evening of rich feast of words,” I said to as former President Clinton and his lovely wife, Hilary, walked in at the inauguration. I was glad there was a TV set in the kitchen else we would have been missing out on the historical event.

  • Woman artist: Look beyond biases, stay true to your vision

    Woman artist: Look beyond biases, stay true to your vision

    Multidisciplinary artist, Mrs. Chidera Confidence Uzoma, known popularly as Dera Soars, is an advocate of the therapeutic prospects of art for women and children through her. Through her De Art and Craft Therapy Initiative and her fusion of Cubism and African motifs that explore life, culture and womanhood, this young artist encourages women to break stereotypes in their profession. In this interview with EVELYN OSAGIE, she shares her journey and more.

    Being a woman

    Being a woman means embracing strength, resilience, vulnerability, and beauty. It means being brave, creative, and determined, while loving and accepting ourselves, flaws and all. It means being unapologetically you, authentic, individual, and human.

    My background impacted the woman I became

    Growing up for me was challenging, as a first daughter in a family of four children, everyone is looking up to you to see what you’ll become. Societal pressures, religious expectations, academic expectations were like juice extractors that eventually brought out the best in me. I was the first person from my father’s family to enter the university. I had a wonderful family who loved me and had my back in my darkest times. Today, I’ve become a woman of purpose striving for a cause which is to renew, restore and revive talents and gifts, especially in the art sector through my initiative and gallery.

    I also owe it all to my strong religious background. At the age of 12, I began a new life in Christ. Christ gave me a sense of purpose, focus and direction. It never promised a perfect bliss but a reassuring hope of eternity. I made a decision to protect my innocence till marriage and I did. I had just a friend in my secondary school days; and was also a Scripture Union (SU) president for five years. In the university, I joined Choir and served as a music director in the Deeper Life campus fellowship. My life became a triangular kind of life: from home to church to school to church/home – but in a good way. This helped me stay focused and productive. By my NYSC days, I had begun making folk-style jewelry as a business, promoting our African beads. I also tutored children and my fellow corp members on art and craft. I later attended leadership training programmes and voluntary activities and the rest is history.

    Encouraging more women to embrace art

    There are so many ways to encourage more women to embrace art. Providing art education and training opportunities, creating a supportive community for women artists, promoting women artists and their works, making art more accessible and inclusive and challenging stereotypes and biases in the art world, is sure to help more women embrace art as a career and as enthusiasts. This is where De Art and Craft Therapy Initiative comes in. We organise art workshops, training for people who are interested in honing their skills and Dera Soars Art Gallery provides a virtual experience of showcasing your works globally and ensuring unlimited possibilities. By taking these steps, we can create a more inclusive and supportive environment for women.

    My art

    As an artist, I love painting, drawing and graphic designs. My diverse artistic portfolio spans from life sketch, abstract paintings, graphic design, illustrations, and coaching. I draw my inspirations from everyday life experiences and I try to create a body of work that inspires people from these experiences. My recent body of work is a composition of 15 portrait drawings on the theme: “Expression”, which illustrates my experience in Adamawa State, Yola, exploring a medium of charcoal, prints and coloured papers. It was so much fun capturing those African beautiful facial gestures that speak of hope, resilience, blushing beauty, joy, caution, unexpected and so on.

    My journey as an artistic brand

    DERA SOARS was a divine name given to me by revelation in 2015 when I decided to study art after trying O’ level exams for seven times in five years. It became a brand name in 2021 when the vision became clear and was registered as a virtual art gallery with Corporate Affairs Commission. It gave birth to an initiative called De Art and Craft Therapy Initiative that same year, which was registered. While Chidera Confidence Uzoma still remains my name, Dera Soars, my brand identity.

    My secret as an artist

    My secret as an artist is consistency. The talent and the wisdom belong to God Almighty. When I decided to switch from science to art, I promised myself that I was going to be the best in what I do. I tried every medium I came across; I had mentors from Awka, Lagos and Abuja. Learning art was what took me to Lagos and Abuja for the first time. In Lagos I spent three months at universal studios, finishing almost 200 sketch papers in practice. At Abuja, I focused on painting under the tutelage of Mr Mark and Mr Eruada introduced to me by a celebrated woman artist and mentor, Dr. Ngozi Akande.

    Art as lucrative venture

    Art can indeed be lucrative. It can be bequeathed as an asset: used for estate planning purposes; included in a will or trust, i.e. it can be passed down through generations as a form of inheritance. And they can be used to pay estate taxes or to benefit charitable organsations. However, it’s worth noting that art is a unique asset class that requires special consideration.

    My passion for children

    My passion for children cannot be overemphasised. It’s my longing and desire to start with the children. Every child, as I always say “is creative, you just need to tap the wine and watch it flow”. I have worked with children for the past four years. I started at American University of Nigeria (AUN) Early Learning Centre and Rehoboth School Summer camp where I taught the kids paper craft, mosaic art and collage 2021. Since 2022 till date my team and I have partnered with splendid events to organise face painting and art workshops for kids every Children’s Day. As an organisation, we have our Art and Craft Coaches in several schools in Imo State. The journey so far has been an interesting one as we meet different children with different abilities and by God’s grace we have been able to groom over 100 kids.

    Why art for children

    Art has numerous educational benefits for children. Engaging in art activities helps children develop their observation and analytical skills. Also, engaging in art activities like drawing, painting, and sculpting, helps children develop their fine motor skills and hand-eye coordination. Parents and educators can embrace these benefits by providing opportunities for art; collaborate with other artists and educators to provide children with a diverse range of art experiences. Integrating art into other subjects would help children develop a deeper understanding of those subjects.

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    Things aspiring women artist must know

    Before embarking on their art journey, aspiring women artists need to develop a strong online presence by having a professional website and social media profiles is crucial for showcasing your work, connecting with potential buyers, and staying visible in the art world. They would need to surround themselves with fellow artists, mentors, and peers who can offer encouragement, feedback, and guidance. They can join associations like SNA or FEAAN and join our network volunteering team Dera Soars. As a woman artist, you may face unique challenges and biases. It’s essential to stay focused on your artistic vision and values, and not compromise your integrity for the sake of commercial success or external validation.

    Being fashion conscious as an artist

    On the notion of artists being fashion conscious, they are fashionable in their own way. To an artist, fashion is that uncommon attire with a touch of artefact or culture or history that defines them.

    Beauty to me

    Beauty is not just about physical appearance, but also about the qualities that make something or someone special and meaningful. To me, beauty can be found in the creativity and originality of a work of art, the kindness and compassion of a person, or the simplicity and elegance of a design. It’s about finding joy and appreciation in the little things that make life worth living. I love uniqueness and simplicity and that alone is beauty.

    My fashion style

    My fashion style is usually inspirational. It depends on the role I am playing at a given time, or what event or place. I love African fabrics, I love African jewelries, I produce and sell my necklaces which are cultural and skin-friendly. I also resell unique jewelry pieces. As a lady, I discovered that putting on your body matching dresses and not exposing your nakedness makes you look adorable, honourable and gracious. I’m a huge advocate of modest dressing and simplicity.

    Juggling family life with my careers

    Being an artist and a wife, I must say it’s not easy at all, especially if you are passionate about your art and the business side of it. Your husband and your art would be seeking attention, let alone when you have children and most times your husband or your children wins, especially if you married a man that loves you so much, reciprocating is the same as sacrifice. So, sometimes, you would have to go the extra mile to keep your vision on track and so at this point building a team is very essential. I have a team of 20 persons who play vital roles in my organisations. It makes work easier and helps me create time for my research work as well. My husband loves my passion and so he encourages me wholeheartedly and unconditionally. It’s also an advantage for me because his assistant I must say has helped in several ways, especially in the last solo exhibition where I showcased 15 artworks. It wasn’t easy; but I’m grateful to God for the kind of man I married.

    My relaxation

    Relaxing to me is an adventure. My husband is a very adventurous person and so we visit places. But we are yet to explore so many other interesting places.

    My next project

    I will be exhibiting my works at Nike Art Gallery Abuja on March 7, 2025. My next project plan for the year is to create more visibility, engage in community projects and apply for international opportunities.