Overcoming boredom can be difficult but there are ways you can make a dull moment entertaining. You can channel your creativity by being productive and learning new skills.
Here are few things to do to overcome boredom:
· Make TikTok videos
Making TikTok videos are so interesting because you’re either learning the dances or the voice recordings and you can make relatable videos and maybe your video can go viral.
· Tie and dye
Tie and dye may not relate to everyone but can be so fun and creative, You can also make it a tie dye date if you are not alone, it helps create so many fantastic pieces together.
· Stretch or workout
Workout can be a lot of work but fun, It makes you busy and fit at the same time. Exercise like stretching increases blood flow to your muscles, flexibility and improves your posture.
· At home spa night
You can treat yourself with a bubble bath, sip champagne with low music in the background with your facial mask on, it gives you an awesome alone relax time.
· Home photo shoot
Being at home can inspire your inner Rihanna to have a fashion photo shoot, you can also share pictures of your homemade designs, who knows it just might go viral.
Education qualifications are absolute requirements to occupy any political post in Nigeria.
Politicians not only acquire the qualification for their aspiring posts but also add higher qualification to their education portfolio.
The following current Governors are Ph.D holders:
1. Samuel Ortom (Benue State)
Samuel Ortom (Benue State)
Ortom was born 23 April 1961 in Guma Local Government Area of Benue State, Nigeria.
Ortom attended St. John’s Primary School, Gboko but later moved to St. Catherine’s Primary School, Makurdi. He attended Idah Secondary Commercial College, Idah in Kogi State in 1976 but couldn’t finish due to financial reasons.
He later obtained Diploma Certificates from Ahmadu Belllo University, Zaria and Benue State University.
He earned his Doctor of Philosophy, Ph.D from the Commonwealth University, Belize through distance learning in 2014.
2. Abdullahi Ganduje(Kano State)
Abdullahi Umar Ganduje
Ganduje attended Ahmadu Bello University Zaria, Kaduna State where he obtained a Bachelor in Science Education in 1975. He proceeded to Bayero University Kano where he earned a Master’s degree in Applied Educational Psychology.
He returned to Ahmadu Bello University to receive a Master of Public Administration degree before his doctorate in Public Administration from University of Ibadan in 1993.
Ganduje was born on December 25, in 1949 in Ganduje village of Dawakin Tofa Local Government Area of Kano State.
3. Benedict Ayade (Cross River State)
Benedict Ayade (Cross River State)
Believed as the most educated sitting Governor in Nigeria, Ben Ayade was born on March 2nd 1968. He is a native of Obudu local government area.
He earned his first B.Sc. (Honours) from University of Ibadan in 1988. He proceeded to obtain his M.Sc in Microbiology in 1980 and his Ph.D in Environmental Microbiology from the same University in 1994.
He also holds a Master of Business Administration certificate from Ambrose Alli University, Ekpoma, Edo State and LLB Law Degree from Delta State University.
Ayade also worked as a lecturer at Delta State University, Abraka, where he was subsequently appointed professor.
4. Okezie Ikpeazu (Abia State)
Okezie Ikpeazu (Abia State)
Okezie Victor Ikpeazu was born on October 18, 1964 in Obingwa Local Government of Abia State.
He earned his first B.Sc. (Hons.) degree from University of Maiduguri where he studied Clinical Biochemistry. He returned to the University for his M.Sc Degree in Biochemical Toxicology after his National Youth Service and graduated in 1990.
He obtained a Doctorate Degree, Ph.D in Biochemical Pharmacology from the University of Calabar at 30 in 1994.
5. Kayode Fayemi (Ekiti State)
Kayode Fayemi (Ekiti State)
Fayemi earned his degrees in History, Politics and International Relations from the University of Lagos and University of Ife.
He is Chairman of the Governor’s Forum.
He obtained his Doctorate program in War studies from King’s College London, specializing in civil-military relations.
6. Babagana Zulum (Borno State)
Babagana Zulum (Borno State)
Babagana was born on August 25, 1969 in Mafa Local Government Area of Borno State.
Zulum completed his primary and secondary school in 1985 and proceeded to study at the University Of Maiduguri, where he obtained a degree in Agriculture Engineering.
He obtained his Master’s degree in the same course in 1998 from the University of Ibadan and completed a PhD in soil and Water Engineering in 2009 from the University of Maiduguri.
He became a professor in University of Maiduguri in 2010 where he had started as an assistant lecturer since 2000. He is a certified COREN Engineer.
Who in the world has not heard about the ongoing friction and tension in Afghanistan? On Sunday 5th of August 2021, what seemed to have been a long fight between the Afghanistan nation and the Taliban came into fruition, seeing the Taliban take over.
Here are five cultural facts you need to know about the Afghanistan nation now called Islamic Emirates of Afghanistan:
1. Afghanistan, in the Dari language, simply means land or place of Afghans. A lot of scholars over the years have tried to give an etymology to the word “afghan” and there have been speculations’ ranging from “white”, to “high-landers” to “original” yet a proper translation has not been given.
2. Afghanistan is a multilingual nation having two major languages, the Dari and the Pashto but Dari is the preferred language for communications between government officials. They employ the Persian alphabet as their writing system.
3. As a result of the incessant frictions happening in the country, the National anthem has been changed several times over the course of the years as at now, the Afghans currently have no national anthem presently as a result of the fall of the Kabul to Taliban forces, the last time this happened, music was banned and the nation anthem was banned as well
4. Apart from being an Islamic-dominated nation, Afghans are also very rich in culture, ranging from hospitality to feeding to music and dances. One of the most prominent hospitality practices would be the serving of tea to guests with each family having their peculiar recipe. They’re also known for
5. The official currency of Afghanistan is the Afghani measuring Af 1/$0.013. It is printed in two separate locations with varying exchange rate
The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission (NERC) has suggested ways to save electricity consumption among Nigerians.
This is in light of the recent increase in electricity billing.
Here are Nine ways you can save electricity consumption in your residence or place of business.
· Turn off lights and electrical appliances when not in use: Don’t leave your electronics or light bulbs on all day long.
· Switch to energy-efficient light bulbs: Traditional light bulbs waste 95% of the energy they use giving off heat with only 5% going toward the light. Switch them out or use them sparingly.
Leaving them on for long periods is highly wasteful. Halogen incandescent bulbs, compact fluorescent lights (CFLs), and light-emitting diode bulbs (LEDs) use anywhere from 25-80 per cent less electricity and last 3 to 25 times longer than traditional bulbs.
· Reduce use of water heaters: Water heating is a major contributor to your total energy consumption. Other than purchasing an energy-efficient water heater, there are two methods of reducing your water heating expenses. You can simply use less hot water or turn down the thermostat on your water heater.
· Purchase energy-efficient appliances: Appliances account for a large amount of enemy consumed in households, offices, and industries. With this in mind, it is important to be intentional about purchases made to ensure that energy-efficient appliances are installed.
· Set refrigerator temperature to the manufacturer recommendation: This is important to avoid excessive cooling and wasting energy.
· Unplug battery chargers when not in use: Many devices, including battery chargers draw power continuously even when not in use.
·Plug home electronics into power strips: Use power strips such as adaptors and extension boards to reduce energy consumption. Turn the power strips off when equipment is not in use. You’ll stop these devices from using energy when idle with one convenient switch.
· Bring in sunlight: During daylight hours, switch off artificial lights and use windows and skylights to brighten your home.
· Service your air conditioner: Easy maintenance, such as routinely replacing or cleaning air filters can lower your cooling systems energy consumption.
According to the World Health Organisation (WHO) more than 100,000 lives are cut short annually by a dreadful disease known as “CANCER”.
Here are some of those who died in 2021 from cancer:
Capt. Hosa Okunbo (pancreatic cancer)
The Edo-born businessman magnate Capt. Idahosa Okunbo died in London after battling with pancreatic cancer.
Sound Sultan (Throat cancer)
Multi-talented Singer, Lanre Fasasi, aka Sound Sultan passed away at 44 following a hard battle with “Angioimmunoblastic T-cell Lymphoma” according to a statement released by his family via social media
Nollywood actress Doris Chima died on Monday August 16, 2021.
The Nation learnt Chima, who was a foundation member of Actors Guild of Nigeria (AGN) and former vice-chairperson of Lagos AGN, died after a long-fought battle with cancer.
Chima, The Nation gathered, had breast cancer with the affected breast cut off in 2020 after she was diagnosed to prevent further damage.
Sadiq Daba (leukemia and prostate cancer)
Veteran actor Sadiq Daba battled leukemia and prostate cancer.
Daba was a native of Kano, born in Kumasi, Ghana and raised in Freetown, Sierra-Leone.
Irrfan Khan (Neuroendocrine tumor cancer)
Irrfan Khan was an Indian actor who brought a modern sensibility to recent hit films and hard roles in Hollywood movies such as “Life of Pi” and “The Namesake”.
He was among the first Indian actors to make a consistent mark in Western cinema.
Almost half of identified human trafficking cases began with a family member’s or loved one’s involvement, says the International Organization for Migration (IOM) – a United Nations migration agency. Nigerian investigative journalist TOBORE OVUORIE, motivated by years of research into irregular migration such as trafficking of women, children and youths in her country as well as the initial loss of a friend and subsequently many others, decides to dig deeper in the multi-billion-dollar criminal enterprise often involving family members or close associates of affected persons. Travelling around Nigeria, in this three-part series, she documents rape experiences, beatings, bruises, abductions, embassy officials, police and other security agencies’ aiding and abetting the criminal enterprise, murder and deaths.
Here are her findings.
THE GENESIS
2015
The youngsters – over 25 of them – had left Agadez chatty after spending four days there and were so happy that the journey to seeking greener pastures had begun. They were super excited that the first check point was around the corner; an indication of completely leaving their frustrations behind in Nigeria and getting closer to making big bucks in Europe.
Boom!
Then, they heard a very loud noise. Their hearts started pumping so fast. Loudly too and not in unison. Their eyes popped out of the sockets housing them; hunting for the source of the noise.
It was a corpse. Few minutes old. A young man.
Few minutes before the sad occurrence, he was like them. Hanging onto a stick at the back of a Hilux truck on his way to Libya but to make a stopover at Qatroun too. He fell from the truck and died immediately. The driver of the Hilux from which he fell, continued as if legions of demons were in hot pursuit of the truck. Stopping, even in such situation, is against the unwritten rules on that route.
The youngsters arrived at the first checkpoint all baptized with fear and sorrow. They didn’t believe what they had witnessed and the callousness of the driver from which the young man’s life was cut short. They were never told people fall off trucks on the journey and did not expect to see corpses. All efforts to cheer themselves failed woefully.
All very young Nigerians, crammed into the truck like sardines in a can, the driver made the ladies to sit beside him, while males sat at the back – an open space – but held onto sticks to support themselves.
A salad of fear, anxiety, panic, sorrow and ‘what-next?’ overshadowed them. There was deafening silence, too. They all became moodier for every fresh corpse, skeleton and dried bone they saw. These were countless.
When almost at Qatroun, heavily armed rebels launched attacks on them. The driver moved the truck as if he was in sport car on a racing track. He then hid the youngsters.
Though drenched in fear, not a single person changed his or her mind about continuing with the trip. They kept going and spent four days in the desert amidst vast land filled with sand.
HOPE YAKUB: OF GREENER PASTURES AND RISKY JOURNEYS
My eyes locked with Hopes’ and sitting opposite her in the dead of the night, sometimes in the third week of March 2020, I painted images in my mind of the horrors she was narrating to me.
Hope was one of the over 25 young Nigerians sitting in the truck on the trip to Qatroun but Libya was her final destination. She was not lucky to get a seat beside the driver so had to sit at the back of the truck and joined the males in holding onto a stick to support herself from falling off the truck.
She never bargained for the horrors she witnessed alongside the youngsters, although she knew before departing Nigeria that Libya was the destination and it was by road too.
Her reason for travelling by road to Libya? “Every youth wants to seek greener pasture; so, that is what prompted me to go to Libya to help myself and my family,” she told me, believing she was not trafficked.
It was 2015. Her desire for greener pasture overseas was an open secret. Ozzy, a friend, came to the rescue by introducing Hope to her sister who lived in Libya. The lines seemed to be falling in pleasant places for Hope. Ozzy’s sister offered an all-expense paid trip to Libya!
She left Nigeria almost immediately.
She spent four days in Agadez and from there the Hilux truck came to convey her and the other young Nigerians to Qatroun, in Libya.
Ms. Hope Yakub, Survivor who was trafficked to Libya in 2015 and returned to Nigeria December 2017.
I was almost asking her ‘what yeye greener pasture were you looking for by taking part in this kain horror film?’ The journalistic part of me successfully took control.
Minutes birthed hours, then days with Hope and the other youngsters waking and sleeping on the deserted dusty road from Qatroun to Sabha. New friends were made. New alliances formed. Many of them were heading to Italy to become nurses. They had been told by their sponsors that nursing jobs awaited them already because Italy was in dire need of nurses. Some of the youngsters, like Hope, would end their trip at Libya. They had been told by their sponsors that life is easier in Libya than in Nigeria and with numerous money-spinning jobs.
But at Sabha, Hope and the other youngsters were told for the first time ever that the jobs awaiting them were prostitution or domestic servitude. Hope was certain of not becoming a sex slave. She trusted Ozzy’s sister.
Vehicles and movements in that axis are highly regimented unlike what obtains in regular journeys in which passengers go to parks to board vehicles. So, like other travellers on that route, Hope and the youngsters spent three days idling in Sabha. Then, when drivers who are experienced with the road and desert announced that the cost was clear, the journey to Tripoli continued.
At Tripoli, after meeting Ozzy’s sister, Hope phoned her parents and told her mother for the first time ever that the trip was by road.
Same day Hope arrived, Ozzy’s sister told her she would start work the next day. Hope was already battling with ulcer pains due to starving for 17 days on the trip so she pleaded to be allowed to heal. She vehemently refused, insisting Hope must start paying her 4,002 Libyan dinars (N500, 000). She decided to collect the ‘paltry’ sum because she considers Hope a younger sister.
Hope started work exactly the following day as a servant to a Libyan family and had to learn Arabic within a month to communicate easily. After two months, she stopped working for that family due to the stress of working from 7am to 12 midnight without being allowed to rest. She moved on to work for a friendlier family with a smaller apartment. She stayed with them until she completed paying the madam who brought her to Libya.
OSITA OSEMENE: HOPELESSNESS AND LEAVING NIGERIA AT ALL COST
Once upon a time, after several years of joblessness, notwithstanding graduating from the prestigious University of Benin (UNIBEN) with a very good first degree, Osita Osemene became frustrated. This was sometime in 2003/2004. He lost hope and decided to leave Nigeria by all means for the United Kingdom.
A very close friend volunteered to help by assisting with an informal travel agent. Then, Osita paid for a UK visa and international passport. He was very excited. At last, a better life was smiling at him. And, it came so cheap, too.
Not long after, his helper brought him a travel package – international passport with a visa and flight tickets – he was more excited when given his travel documents. His transformation began even while still in Lagos. His accent changed – faking how Britons speak, though had never boarded an aircraft all his life at that time.
The D-day arrived for his departure. But at the Murtala Muhammed International Airport, Osita was instructed to step aside and wait for the British High Commissioner
“I don’t have anything with the British High Commissioner,” the then young Osita had retorted.
Very big trouble was around the corner. An airport official hinted him he was about to be arrested. His visa and passport were fake. He fled the airport leaving behind his friends who had accompanied him to say their goodbyes.
Fake travel documents are a disturbing racket in Nigeria, with even immigrations and airport officials’ involvement.
Osita couldn’t show his face on the streets or his regular hangouts because he had told everyone that cared to listen that he was going to the UK and wasn’t returning to Nigeria until he made it big.
“How could I ever face them? Everyone thought I was already in the UK. I hated Nigeria even more,” Osita sat opposite me in a room at the Ikeja Airport Hotel, one of the elitists’ parts of Lagos state, recounting how his migration dreams headed south.
It was difficult for him to smile. He had to force himself to get out of bed and even eat. He kept telling himself he needed to forge ahead but he had lost his drive, spirit and zest for life. His world was crashing.
His bedroom became a prison for him. The only time he stepped out was when everyone else had left the house and he would scout through the kitchen and eat anything he could find and return to the solitude of the room before anyone arrived.
In his bedroom, all Osita did was stare at the white ceiling boards above him. Lying on a lump of skinny mattresses, he tried to do everything he could to prevent lapsing into a state of uncontrollable grief. His eyes always moved around in slow circles, trailing the lazy rotation of the rusted ceiling fan blades above him. He never held back any tear that threatened to fall. They rolled down his cheeks freely as if being flushed out by angry sweepers.
Notwithstanding the narrow escape at the airport, Osita’s thirst to leave Nigeria by all means increased.
“Due to the desperation and I had made up my mind that I was going to leave this country, I was still not comfortable where I was. I had complained to my relatives, my sisters and friends, so, they were consoling me not to worry, I can still make it (to migrate at all cost).”
CHASING THE MIRAGE
For the second time in less than a month, Osita told his parents goodbye. This time, he was heading to Spain hoping to make it big within a month of his arrival, then get into the UK. His friend who introduced him to the fraudulent travel agent, again, connected him with Dada, a young undergraduate. Osita was shocked Dada was trading his degree for his trip to Spain.
Dada believed that having a secondary school certificate in Europe is better than having a PhD in Nigeria. Dumping four years of university education in Nigeria for an opportunity to be in Spain was heavenly for him.
Ever smiling Dada with a smooth tongue convinced Osita N250,000 was the needed sum for a tourist journey which would get them into Spain. After knocking on several doors for financial assistance and his mother scouting around, the amount was complete and two weeks later, Osita was ready to leave Nigeria again.
They were many leaving the country for Spain through Dada. And were told they would board an aircraft at some point during the trip to Spain. No one bothered to ask any question. Their major goal was to leave Nigeria. Simple.
Mr. Osita Osemene, Survivor who was deceived that he was going to Spain via an exciting tourist trip.
Before departing Asaba, Delta State, Dada had assured his clients, including Osita, they would indeed be boarding a plane to Spain but needed to get to Kano first. Osita was told that in five days’ time they would be in Spain because it would be a tourist journey with stopovers; lodging in beautiful hotels and beholding lovely sceneries. On arriving the ancient Northern city, Dada changed the whole boarding itinerary to Morocco.
At some point, Osita suspected something was wrong because Dada and some other persons were trying to unite the travellers before leaving. They were given water to drink that they must not betray each other.
“I was wondering what kind of journey will require not betraying ourselves? But what I found out is that, once you are desperate, you are vulnerable; you will fall into a lot of traps. They can sell anything to you and you will buy. So, I found myself in that place because they had already seen that this guy is no more here, he wants to leave at all cost. And, I went. That is how I found myself in the land of no return, which is Sahara Desert, on my way to Europe,” he recounted.
REALITY UNLEASHED!
At the park, all passengers were told to buy garri, spaghetti, and biscuits. Osita was amazed when he saw Dada buying garri, milk, sugar, spaghetti and geisha. He had a terrible feeling again. Then, he started asking questions that they were supposed to be in luxury buses with their meals paid for by the organisation ferrying them to Spain. He was prevailed upon to be patient.
In Kano, the eager Nigerians were told to be cooperative that someone else was going to get them to Europe soonest. The journey from Kano to Zinder took almost a whole day because they travelled in a truck that was almost falling apart. Then, they were received by an Alhaji when they arrived at their destination. He took them to a connection house where they would spend the next five days.
The connection houses looked like pens for goats. They are old mud buildings in which several persons are allocated little corners in the large open space to put their blankets or wrappers or mats on the floor to sleep until the day they are called to embark on their journey.
A major feature in the connection house is the communal feeding schedule; the owner of the connection house cooks once or twice daily for the occupants of the house who are entitled to eat because they already paid for the service. Also, the owner of the connection house provides protection for persons who are being trafficked or smuggled because police look out for the latter. The owners of the connection houses give part of the money paid to them (by traffickers, smugglers, persons being trafficked and smuggled) to the police as bribes, hence, the latter look the other way while human traffickers and smugglers’ businesses and activities thrive.
What was supposed to be a joyride became tense and overtaken by torrents of quarrels and fights between Osita and Dada, as the former later discovered he had been handed a pack of lies like a bowl of his favourite Nsala soup. He had gullibly swallowed everything only to learn from a fellow passenger there was no airplane anywhere but trips through dangerous deserts.
Hell was let loose when Osita again discovered Dada cheated him. The trip was originally N100, 000 but Dada inflated the price to make up for his own travel expenses.
Investigations so far indicated these connection houses are unsafe. Records abound of Moroccan burgers – persons who traffick people through Morocco – coming to some of those houses very late in the midnight with guns to rob every occupant.
OF STRANDED NIGERIANS, ABANDONMENT AND MENTAL IMSTABILITY
All 72 trafficked persons I interviewed and surveyed while working on this story described their stay at Dirkou military camp – after Agadez – as hellish. Osita said so as well.
Many Nigerians become stranded in Dirkou because they are abandoned by their burgers. Several of them have been on the road for no fewer than 12 months due to lack of funds to continue their journey. Many Nigerian girls and ladies are raped by rebels, soldiers and Chaldeans in the camp. Consequently, many of these young Nigerians become mentally unstable in the process.
Medical experts, such as Dr. Babatunde Fadipe, a psychiatrist at the Lagos University Teaching Hospital, (LUTH) said people who have been victims of human trafficking can experience a wide range of mental problems or psychological problems. These could include Post Traumatic Stress Disorders (PTSD). This is commonly seen in persons who have experienced life-threatening events that may have threatened their existence or witnessed other people being victims of such.
“For someone who cannot control his or her emotions, a lot of things will go wrong, especially as their families would have had high hopes in them believing they are already in Europe,” Dr. Fadipe explained.
Further investigations indicated common symptoms of persons who have been trafficked include fear – the most common, anger, anxiety, depression and some forms of disorders.
Mr. Osita Osemene, Survivor who was deceived that he was going to Spain via an exciting tourist trip.
Young Nigerians who have become mentally unstable in the Sahara Desert have the meltdown because their expectations were cut short; it is not what they were told that they experienced on the road.
For instance, Osita was told that he was going to be in Spain within the next five days, only to end up in the Sahara Desert and spent 40 days to arrive Libya. He never knew he was actually going to travel by road, how much more, through the desert.
Ms. Ikana Apata, a life coach/mental health expert recommends counselling as a way of assisting survivors of trafficking, although at times, they would need to be placed on prescribed medications.
During initial diagnosis and counselling, other various mental health challenges are discovered.
MARY JOSEPH: RELIGION, TRAFFICKING AND SURPRISES
Sometime in 2010, August to be precise, 16-year-old Mary Joseph who was about to write her final senior secondary school examination decided to look for her mother during the long vacation because they were separated since she was a toddler due to uncontrollable circumstances. She eventually located her mom but met her in a bad state: abandoned with a set of twins by her husband. He was nowhere to be found.
As the first child, Mary wanted to join her mom wherever she was working so she could earn some more money for her to care for herself and the kids. The mom refused because she had no specific work at the time. But she discussed it with her pastor who was surprised that she had a grown daughter. Impressed by Mary’s zeal to assist, the pastor said there was vacancy at a supermarket somewhere in Lagos. But two days later, she phoned Mary’s mom the place was no more available. However, there was vacancy elsewhere in Kano state. Mary was very excited about working in Kano. It would be her first-time leaving Lagos state, so, considered it an excursion.
Dr. Babatunde Fadipe Psychiatrist, Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), Idi-Araba.
Two days later, Mary embarked on the journey to Kano after her mom’s pastor introduced her to a certain Alhaja Hassan, who then handed her over to a man who was to take her from Lagos to Kano state. On their way, at Ibadan, during the night journey, the man picked three ladies. They arrived Kano at about 6pm but it turned out the journey was not yet over as the man made some phone calls, and a golf car turned up to pick them to the next destination. Mary thought it was the last taxi to be boarded. The man also confirmed Mary’s thought that it was the last taxi before the final destination.
When it was almost seven, Mary brought out her mobile phone to call her mother only for her to notice the texts on her phone had changed from “MTN to L’orange.” She started asking questions while the driver turned on the car’s radio for Mary to hear French over the airwaves. Her questions about their whereabouts increased. In a speed of light, the men in the car seized her phone and locked the car doors. She was the only one talking and feared that she was being abducted.
PHENOMENOLOGY OF HUMAN TRAFFICKING
Researches indicate 10 years ago, there were two categories of traffickers: family members – aunties, friends of families and some husbands who felt that they have had the number of children they wanted to have, and because they were very poor, there was no reason their wives could not go abroad to make some money and make their lot better.
But today, investigations from November 2019 when this project commenced reveal that trafficking syndicates have become so sophisticated. In addition to having family members and their friends, individuals are now traffickers on their own.
These trafficking syndicates often consist of madams who could be on their own and businessmen whose products being sold are human beings.
From in-depth researches, it is never easy to recognise them because they are well dressed, have so much influence and affluence, and are seen as responsible and kind-hearted people in the society.
Like business men, they seek products – human beings – to be bought and clients to purchase them. They recruit sales persons and agents in overlooked places such as universities, and secondary schools. Other places also include cyber cafes, bars and clubs while the agents are very young unassuming students.
That is not all. They first become friends with the people they meet at these places, and after winning their trust, tell them there is so much money to be made if they join their businesses as agents. These young secondary school and university students lure their friends and other youths into trafficking rings. They sell human beings as a side business, in addition to their studying for degrees in various schools all over Nigeria.
Investigations further reveal that, as agents, students sell their friends for N100, 000 per person and are immediately paid cash on delivery. They often deceive their friends that they are going abroad for further studies or to become hairdressers and cosmetologists. Their latest deceit is telling their friends who can tie headgear popularly known as gele in Nigeria, that they are taking them to Europe to destinations where there are large populations of Nigerians. They claim there is plenty of money in gele tying because Nigerians overseas organise lavish parties and services of professionals who tie gele are in high demand.
Migration expert, Dr. Franca Attoh, an associate professor at the Sociology department, University of Lagos, said a person being trafficked can start the journey with a group in Nigeria but by the time the person arrives the final destination, he or she would have been trafficked by four different groups.
Dr. Franca Attoh, Associate Professor, Sociology Department, University of Lagos.
HELPLESSNESS AND IRREPARABLE DAMAGES
Mary quietly watched as she was transferred from one vehicle to another until they arrived a military checkpoint where the car was flagged by army officers. She tried to cry out for help but before she could complete the sentence, she was hit so hard – a thunderous slap – and she fainted.
When she regained consciousness, she found herself in a very big building with several girls. Again, she started asking questions, wanting to know what they were doing there. No one answered her. All the girls looked scared and worried.
Two days later, she was moved to Zinder where she later met Alhaja Hassan’s daughter for the second time. When Mary tried to exchange pleasantries with her, she acted like she had never met Mary before. And, the young man taking her on the journey warned her to mind her business. Later on, some 18-seater buses arrived to convey Mary and the other girls to the next destination.
They were attacked by rebels wielding sophisticated guns. It was Mary’s first time seeing a gun and shot sporadically like she had seen in movies.
Mary and the other girls finally discovered they were being trafficked when they arrived at Agadez. They were on their way to Libya to become sex slaves.
But Mary was a virgin.
The man, who took her from Nigeria, was shocked to discover. Feeling some form of remorse because of her sexual purity, he disclosed he could not tell Mary’s mother what the pastor had planned while they were in Nigeria lest his life would have been at stake. And his wife’s too.
More revelations from investigations indicate that traffickers and smugglers often run out of cash on such journeys. When this happens, the girls and ladies being trafficked and smuggled are pimped to make money. Same fate befell the other girls Mary travelled with during their two-week stay at Agadez. Mary was shielded by the man.
When sufficient money had been made from pimping the girls, they were loaded like cows into massive vehicles with open tops and no seats; for the journey. The driver drove like he was high on illicit drugs. Persons who fell out of the vehicle due to poor stamina were abandoned in the desert.
At every point on the journey to Libya, anyone who runs out of cash is abandoned while others continued. This is one of the unwritten but active and sacred rules.
By the time Osita arrived Dirkou, in the desert, many of the persons he started the journey with from Kano had been abandoned. Investigations revealed that having money alone is not sufficient.
At a point, Osita and others got stuck on the desert when their truck broke down. This is quite common on the trip in that axis. And, people often die from thirst and heat wave.
They were super excited when someone announced seeing a well not too far away from where they were. All the travellers were thirsty. But their joy was cut short by the driver of their truck who told them many Nigerians who missed their way in the desert were buried in and around the well. Indeed, many skeletons were around and inside that well. Passports around that vicinity reveal they are mostly Nigerians and other West Africa nationals.
The same fate almost befell Osita. He had no water when they had to continue their journey on foot for over 10 hours in the desert, through borders of various communities until they arrived at the first state in Libya- Qatroun. He was left behind when he became too weak to continue with the journey but for a kind-hearted fellow traveller who returned with some drinking water so that he could continue.
Osita and Dada had a major disagreement which almost resorted in physical exchanges between them. Osita was very angry at the great deceit and lies they were told. He was further angered that all these were perpetrated by a young man like him. The relationship broke down irretrievably. They had to go their separate ways.
At some point during his 40- day journey on the road travelling through deserts, Osita had to give a rebel-soldier the designer trouser he was wearing, his bag, neck and hand chains and a pair of sancho shoes in exchange for protection, after he saw how his fellow Nigerians: some who had become his very close friends, were raped, tortured, sold into prostitution, robbed and murdered by rebels, soldiers and Chaldeans.
The rebel soldier took him as a friend and ensured he was never beaten or messed up like others trafficked or smuggled on the trip. Many Nigerian ladies were raped in his presence while others who didn’t have money to give to the rebels and thieves were shot in their legs.
The deaths hit him closest as he helplessly watched Dada die in the desert. He had defended and taken bullets for Osita when attacked by desert armed bandits. A part of him went numb when Temi- a seven-year-old boy, who had become his friend, was killed by hunger, thirst and severe heat in the desert. Images of the little boy’s father crying and staying back in the desert with his dead child haunt Osita till date.
LIFE OF INDISCRIMINATE ARRESTS, UNCERTAINTY
Thirty-fivepersons trafficked to Libya I interviewed story confirmed they lived a life of uncertainty and indiscriminate arrests from 2015 to 2017. They all claimed Nigerians are hated and targeted by Libyans, the Libyan Police and kidnappers.
According to these trafficking survivors, when Libyans chase black, including Ghanaians, Nigerians, Senegalese and Congolese, they leave others and grab the Nigerians. When Nigerians are abducted, the Libyans break their legs.
Hope Yakub had similar experiences, too.
One day, while at work, she received a call from an unknown person. Her friends had been arrested. She couldn’t go to the Police station to bail them. She would be arrested too. The husband of the Libyan woman she was serving accompanied her to the Police station for the bail which cost 2000 Libyan dinars (N250, 000). Hope had to work extra months for the family as payment for the bail fee. She then stopped being a live-in servant due to sexual harassment and other ill-treatments and moved in with her boyfriend.
Findings so far revealed unmarried ladies who live alone in Libya are constantly harassed by Libyan Police officers. They break into their homes to humiliate, arrest and imprison them.
Not long after she started to live with her boyfriend, Hope became pregnant. The boyfriend wanted her to stop work but she refused. Hope wanted money of her own and was planning to return to Nigeria.
Towards the end of February, Hope’s friends went to the market in the morning to buy food items for their forthcoming birthday party while Hope who was past the first trimester of pregnancy stayed back to cook for them. She prepared beans, ate, watched some movies and slept. When she woke up around 5pm and couldn’t find the girls anywhere around, she knew something was wrong. She raised alarm calling everyone she knew in Libya that something had happened to the two ladies as their phones kept ringing but not being answered.
At about 8pm, a man answered the call that her friends had been abducted by his group. The ransom fee was 1000 Libyan dinars (N125, 000). Every Nigerian associated with the abducted girls refused being the one to deliver the ransom. Hope then decided she would.
The next day, Hope’s taxi driver came for her in possession of a gun and cutlass because she had explained she perceived from the phone call that the abductors were blacks, not Arabs. So, they felt it was something they could handle on their own.
They wasted so much time at the agreed drop-off location for the ransom fee because the abductors kept changing the pick-up time. Then, the taxi driver suspected the abductors were up to no good. Immediately he started the car and wanted to move, they were ambushed. The duo was surrounded by young men pointing sophisticated guns at them.
Hope was dragged out of the car while the driver was thoroughly beaten and his car’s wield screen broken. Passers-by simply looked on. No one uttered a word. Hope was forced into a tinted vehicle by three men wearing Police uniforms and taken to Serir in Tajura. There were many sex workers and Arabs going about their various activities at the place Hope was taken to. She was speechless and overwhelmed by shock at the reality of her being abducted while trying to rescue her friends. She was stripped off her phone and money. A sex worker, a lady from Benin city, Edo state, told Hope her friends had been sold the previous day by her abductors who are Nigerians and Nigeriens.
Hope was beaten with electric cables when she refused to eat and call her family to pay a ransom fee of N500, 000. The gang’s leader later told his members Hope’s buyer had been contacted. She was moved to another place with six guns-wielding Arabs to watch over her. Hope couldn’t escape because she noticed there were CCTVs all over the place.
LIFE OF ASSAULT
At about 12am, two female sex workers from a connection house loudly chewing gums came into the room Hope was in. She explained her predicament to them if they could help her. She was ignored, then told to relax and accept whatever will happen to her. Two mattresses were laid beside Hope while the men had sex with the two ladies at the same time. Hope couldn’t cry. She was too shocked. Then a man, Abdallah, came in, raped Hope while beating her at the same time. Two of his friends also joined him in taking turns to rape her. The three men took turns on her all through the night. In the morning, she swore (to herself) she would rather die than allow them touch her again. But there was no escape route because where they were was like a forest.
Hope was later moved back to Serir where she met a sex worker and pleaded with her to assist her escape because if she was sold, her pregnancy would be forcefully aborted and she could lose her life. The sex worker; a Nigerian, advised her to simply accept her fate.
At night, about 20 Nigerian and Nigeriene men arrived in the room where Hope was kept. While eating, they talked about the person who was to buy Hope because he was delaying in coming with the money. Then, she was moved to another room where she started praying to God for an escape route.
It started raining.
And, the 20 men were so excited at the sight of the rain and rushed outside because it hardly rains in Libya. While outside, they continuously fired gunshots into the air and danced with reckless abandon, forgetting Hope was alone in the room. Towards 9.30pm, it stopped raining. Hope resumed prayers telling God she considers the rain a sign for her to escape. So, if this was really Him and she wouldn’t be harmed while escaping, the rain should resume falling.
A very heavy downpour started immediately.
The abductors started shooting. Everywhere was noisy because people were very happy over the heavy downpour. Hope picked one of the phones being charged nearby, opened the window and jumped. She removed her shoes and started running until she got to a very high fence. She jumped over the fence. She still doesn’t know how she did it.
She kept running in the heavy downpour while following a light ahead of her until she got to the road at about past 10om. There were no cars on the road anymore. So, she kept running because she knew they would come after her immediately her absence was discovered. She waved at an oncoming vehicle but it didn’t stop. All cars she waved down did not stop. Then, one of the vehicles that had passed her, returned while the occupants asked if all was well with her. She explained that she was kidnapped that they should please assist her. The door was open for her to enter the car. They were also kidnappers.
Hope was driven to a nearby Police station for identification by the officers – if she escaped from them – they said no. The Police officers requested she be left with them for further investigations but Hope refused that the Police will sell her. The men then told the Police officers that they will carry out their investigations. Immediately they stepped out of the Police station, the phone Hope stole started ringing. The men collected the phone and answered the call.
The other kidnappers told them to return Hope because she is one of their wives who stole money from them and ran away. Immediately the call ended, Hope stripped herself naked in front of them saying she should be searched. They did but found no money on her except some pain relievers. She was miraculously released and even given some money to find her way home.
One of the men trailed her to where she was to initially sleep that night – an open space. He forced her to have oral sex with him. When he left, she moved elsewhere out of fear that he would return. She slept in the cold that night and found her way home at dawn the next day. Her friends were very excited on seeing her because no one escapes from kidnappers’ den in Libya.
THE NIGERIAN TREND
National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons (NAPTIP), the two most reported human trafficking cases are foreign travels which promote prostitution and employment of children as domestic workers while inflicting grievous harm.
Most of these victims are women but children and men these days, now consist larger shares than they did 10 years ago. The anti-trafficking agency’s 2017 report states 0.1 percent of trafficked victims are men while 25 percent are females. Globally, 51percent of trafficked persons are females and 21 percent are males. The report indicates traffickers are often males but women comprise a large number of convicted offenders.
Majority of Nigerian migrants undertake the risky journey in search of jobs in North Africa and Europe. IOM’s Missing Migrants Project states 2,834 migrants died at sea on the route between Libya and Italy in 2017. The Central Mediterranean Sea is one of the deadliest migration routes in the world. Travellers are sexually abused, robbed and abducted on the Niger’s desert to Libya route and while crossing the sea to Italy.
Notwithstanding these hazards, European statistics indicate at least one person dies for every 35 persons arriving Europe. It states the number of illegal migrants from West Africa to Europe is still rising.
EXPENSIVE TICKETS TO CHEAP DEATHS!
Osita had survived thus far: every danger, deportation raids and made it to Tripoli. There was only a push between him and Europe: one ship ride. Standing at the port looking at the large ships, he had wondered which of them he would be traveling in.
There were many people waiting there at the port with Osita and moving in the shadow of the night. Their guide, an average sized Libyan with a limp, had instructed they waited for the lampa-lampa. The crowd awaited the boat.
Investigations reveal that the boats used in crossing the Mediterranean Sea from Libya into Italy come in various sizes and makes but all of them are rickety. They are either made of wood but with Yamaha engines attached to them, or balloons and are popularly known as lampa-lampa. Trafficked and smuggled persons and other illegal migrants pay almost fair fortunes before being allowed to board these boats but with unexpressed guaranty that they will arrive their destinations safely and alive.
Osita was expecting a large ship but was shocked to see a dingy boat coming up shore. It could take about 20 passengers but there were 150 people scheduled to board the boat.
As the boat stopped, people scrambled to get on it, and he watched the lampa-lampa dance upon the waters unsteadily. About 100 had scrambled in while 50 of them were yet to get in. He watched a young Nigerian in the lampa-lampa, holding unto a pole, swaying with the boat.
Investigations reveal that the boat owners, traffickers and smugglers never get on the boat. Rather, they tell the persons in the boat to simply get it to move on a straight path and help themselves through the water. A passenger who thinks he can operate the boat’s engine volunteers to move it while others suggest the direction they think the boat should go. The smugglers and traffickers give the passengers a mobile communication device, that if they run into danger, they should call a certain phone number and rescuers will turn up. They do this because they are fully aware the passengers will definitely run into danger.
In-depth researches reveal that travellers who get into these boats often do not make it to their final destination because the boats capsize or are turned back with the occupants half alive. Many boats get missing on the high sea and are never found.
A loud horn distracted Osita and he turned. A ship was coming in and some Red Cross officials were busy offloading bodies of people who had drowned while trying to cross the sea. They had also been travelling in a lampa-lampa and it capsized, drowning everyone.
Osita stood at the port for a long time, his resolve growing; this was the midpoint, the final step between him and Spain. Then, he remembered Temi, Dada and other friends he had lost on the journey. He recalled leaving Nigeria well-dressed but at the time he was at the departure point – the Mediterranean Sea – he was only wearing a boxer- undergarment and a singlet.
He was not going to risk bobbing about in a little boat and getting lost in the middle of the sea.
“Having known where I was coming from, I couldn’t stand it anymore. There was no point going to commit suicide when I was already free, because getting to Libya was like freedom for me.
“Somehow, within me, I knew I had to go back. I knew I had to tell people about the unforeseen dangers, the unimaginable hours and the web of deceit that they had been lurched into. Someone needs to tell their stories.”
Osita shook his head. There was no way he was getting on that boat. He stared at the lampa-lampa and wilfully, deliberately turned his back on his ticket to Europe and headed in the opposite direction. Home. Back to Nigeria.
MURDER, MURDER, EVERYWHERE. DEAFENING SILENCE.
Dirkou is a desert and ghetto with different kinds of persons, especially shady characters. The first day Mary arrived there, a soldier stabbed a lady to death in her presence because she demanded for the money he had agreed to pay after rendering sexual services to him. Everyone watched the murder as if in a movie theatre, without uttering a word. Mary spent two weeks in Dirkou watching people being hacked to death and taking advantage of.
Again, they were packed like chickens in a vehicle travelling through the Sahara Desert to Qatroun. Then, their water got finished. The driver had to mix water and petrol in a keg for everyone to sip little drops so it could go around the crowd in the vehicle.
Then, a ghastly accident happened. Mary almost died in the process. Four persons later died due to dehydration, heat wave and exhaustion. She arrived Qatroun but with severe pains due to injuries sustained as a result of the accident.
Mary woke up one night in Qatroun, to a hefty man on top of her. He beat her mercilessly when she struggled to push him away. He gagged her mouth. No one came to rescue her. She was raped.
After some days, Mary was moved to Tripoli, then to Zuwara, where she was handed over to Gani- a fellow Nigerian, who had bought her. He wanted her to immediately resume as a sex worker though she had pleaded that she was in pains and had uncontrolled blood gushing from her vagina due to the rape.
He told her it was none of his business that she had to pay him $3,000.
Mary’s pubic and armpit hair, as well as nails, were cut and collected. Then, she was threatened with voodoo that she will die except she does their biddings. One night, she was assigned to a Sudanese but when he touched her body, it was so hot. She noticed the man was concerned, so, she pleaded he allowed her to use his phone to call her mom. He initially refused because the ‘connection girls’ (sex workers) are not allowed to phone anyone. After much pleading and promises to keep the phone-call a secret, he allowed her call home to inform her mother about the pastor’s evil deeds and what had befallen her in Libya.
Some members of the Oduduwa society – a Yoruba, Nigerian group – had noticed Mary and were on her trail while Gani handed her to another Nigerian to prevent the former from reaching her.
Mary was later moved to Misrata but was taken to the man’s home immediately they arrived at their destination. She met the man’s wife and son – both Nigerians, and pleaded if she could live with them for a few days so she could recover fully but the woman refused that she is to resume immediately as a sex worker at their connection house. Mary took ill and almost died. When Gani was contacted over Mary’s predicament, he simply asked for the amount she had made so far. When told nothing, he ordered she should be left alone to die.
Two weeks later, Gani came down to Misrata when members of the Oduduwa society were pressurising him over the whereabouts of Mary. He then phoned the pastor who sold Mary to him to inform her that Mary had not made a dime since, so, the pastor must pay him. Attempts to have the pastor pay him N500, 000 within three days failed, so he settled for N80, 000.
On the third day, Gani got the N80, 000 he requested from the pastor, and then handed Mary to members of the Oduduwa people who had been searching for her after they heard her rape story amongst members of the Nigerian community in Libya. The Oduduwa group after listening to Mary disclosed that the same pastor had trafficked no fewer than 72 Nigerian girls, including her cousin. The group made Mary to promise she will stop at nothing until the pastor was sent to jail.
HAPPY ENDINGS?
Mary’s mother got in touch with NAPTIP while the organisation arrested the pastor and Alhaja Hassan. November 5th that year, Mary returned to Nigeria through the assistance of the Oduduwa group. The group had never rendered such to anyone before.
Several weeks after Hope escaped from the kidnappers’ den, the whereabouts of her abducted friends was uncovered. They were sold to a lady from Benin city, Edo state who trades in human beings in Libya. After much pleading by Hope and her friends, the woman who had requested for N1 million before she would release the ladies, finally accepted N800, 000. The ladies spent a month and 14 days working as sex slaves for their fellow Nigerian woman.
Hope almost lost her life in the civil unrest around her house in Bazar Benghazi while she was seven- month pregnant. Then, she started planning her return to Nigeria. Six months later, after her son was four- month old, she finally returned to Nigeria on December 2017 after 30 months in Libya.
Osita’s return to Nigeria through the Sahara Desert was not tedious like his departure. The rebels were very happy he was going back to his country, particularly as the decision was his. They even waved ‘goodbye’ at him.
At a point while returning, Osita saw over 25 trucks loaded with Nigerian men and ladies from Edo and Delta States respectively very anxious to get on the Mediterranean Sea through Libya.
“They were running as if Italy was going to run; they were showing me time that they needed to enter (Libya) that they gave them time that the boat would soon leave,” he recalled.
They never believed Osita that nothing awesome was happening in Libya, that it was all deception.
The pastor and Alhaja who sold Mary were sentenced to 21 years in prison respectively, after she testified against them in court. The pastor died immediately she was released from prison after serving her term in jail. Alhaja’s whereabouts at the time of this publication remains unknown.
Notwithstanding forgiveness being one of the strongest messages in Christianity, clerics say such should not be extended to traffickers. One of them, Reverend Father Benson Irabor, Resident Priest, St. Dominics Catholic Church Yaba, Lagos, said traffickers must be jailed notwithstanding forgiveness in Christianity because there is a penalty for every crime that is committed.
“There is a punishment that is attached to every crime; every sin that we commit,” he says.
TRAFFICKING SURVIVORS COME BACK WITH PLENTY OF MONEY OR ELSE…!
Fifty six of the 72 trafficking survivors I interviewed in Nigeria between January 2020 and July 2021 said they are discriminated against and stigmatised by the society, including their friends and families. 48 of these affected persons are young ladies, while eight of them are men.
Further findings reveal survivors are discriminated against if they return to the country with no money. They are not being discriminated against because they were trafficked but because they came back with nothing. Their parents and families see them as failures and verbally, mentally and emotionally abuse them. They even stop feeding them.
But, when survivors return to Nigeria and build hotels and houses and establish businesses in choice parts of towns and cities, they are accorded so much respect.
Corroborating these findings, Dr. Attoh shares a personal experience of a lady who was trafficked for sex slavery, paid her bondage fee and worked as a sex worker on her own thereafter, before returning to Nigeria with so much money to invest. Young men who are fully aware of her history are begging her to marry them while she is giving them the cold shoulder.
“It is because the person has money!
“So, two things: if you want to be trafficked, please, come back with plenty of money. Don’t be poor because poverty is a curse. But, if you come back with no money, then it means whatever you see, you get,” Dr. Attoh warns.
The associate professor says if they succeed, even as thieves, their families will rebrand them. She says she knows five ladies who were trafficked for sex slavery, successfully paid their bondage fee, worked as sex workers on their own and are now back to Nigeria. They own lucrative transportation lines in the country and call the shots in Nigeria’s transportation industry.
She notes that if a girl who is trafficked returns wearing only the clothes NAPTIP gave her, no family member will want to have anything to do with her.
However, in an online survey via WhatsApp with respondents living in Abuja, Lagos, Ogun, Oyo, Rivers states respectively and Cotonou in the Republic of Benin, it turns out that the society is still divided over accepting human trafficking survivors and Libya returnees.
Eleven of the 22 survey participants live in Lagos, six in Abuja, two in Ogun state and one each in Oyo, Rivers and the Republic of Benin respectively. While 14 males and eight females who consist: civil servant, book publisher, journalists, politician, life/relationship coach, IT/Brand consultants, trader, artisan, rights activists, teacher, caterer, realtor, lawyers, fashion designer and medical doctors participated in the survey.
Titled: ‘Societal Acceptance Of Libya Returnees/Human Trafficking Survivors,’ I asked all respondents: “Would you (allow your child) marry a Libya/human trafficking survivor?” Ten of the 22 participants said they can marry the trafficked survivors and will allow their children do same. Nine on the other hand vehemently refused, three were uncertain if they can or will allow their kids embark on such path.
Dr. Anthony Okeregbe, Senior Lecturer, Philosophy department, University of Lagos says the Nigerian government needs to do better in curbing human trafficking in the country and this could be done through diligent prosecution of those who have been culprits of human trafficking.
Dr. Anthony Okeregbe, Senior Lecturer, Philosophy Department, University of Lagos.
Migration experts say the Nigerian government can end illegal migration by fixing the economy, not by organising fanciful events that are not beneficial to the vulnerable who are prone to being trafficked.
Dr. Attoh suggests the government should strengthen NAPTIP – the organization that the Nigerian law has set up to help those who are survivors.
Findings reveal that NAPTIP has shelters but lack sufficient professionals, such as psychologists and social workers, needed for the rehabilitation of trafficked girls and women. Medical experts say trafficking survivors need to undergo therapy, and it is never a one-off happenstance.
Investigations reveal many trafficking survivors struggle with various forms of traumas and mental health challenges even years after their return to Nigeria. Their emotional and mental challenges go undetected because they do not undergo therapy, and have no access to psychologists or psychiatrists due to ignorance, lack of funds and insufficient psychologists and psychiatrist in Nigeria. All the 72 trafficking survivors I interviewed while working on this story say they have never spoken with a psychologist or psychiatrist, how much more undergo therapy. Since their return to the country about three years ago, they have been trying out various ways to survive Nigeria’s harsh economic reality.
Further findings, even amongst the 72 survivors I interacted with, reveal that when the emotional or mental challenges of trafficking survivors are obvious without diagnosis, their friends, families and the society mock them and tag them with nasty and inhuman names. Their families with time start avoiding them, deny them in public and do everything possible to prevent such survivors from interacting with their close associates. There is still so much shame attached to mental health challenges in Nigeria, even that which is caused by traumatic trafficking experiences.
Women and girl-child education should be made a priority. This is according to Rev. Fr. Irabor. He says poor education of women is responsible for why they are easily trafficked.
Reverend Father Bensor Irabor, Resident Priest, St. Dominic Catholic Church, Yaba, Lagos
Dr. Attoh says living overseas is no easy task because it makes Nigerians prone to racism and discrimination. The wide gap when foreign currencies are changed to naira is responsible for the numerous risky journeys Nigerians are embarking on, as well as living overseas.
Immediately the economy is fixed, a number of things will take their normal shape overnight. There would be no need for road shows, enlightenment campaigns, advocacy programmes, or traditional rulers making anti-trafficking pronouncements.
Dr. Fadipe says there is hope for survivors of human trafficking and irregular migration but all hands need to be on deck to do this. There is the need to educate the community and support the survivors.
Dr. Attoh also says there is hope for trafficking survivors because no situation is hopeless. Once there is life, there is hope. She however warns that: “our destiny is in our hands. The gods can only help us when we decide to help ourselves. Anyone who is a survivor; having survived, you have returned to source, it is now up to you to key into rehabilitation to see how you can rebuild yourself.”
Rev. Fr. Irabor says one of the ways trafficking survivors can rebuild themselves is by making lemonades with the lemons life hauled at them.
“There are people who after being trafficked, they come out of it and you see them promoting something that is worthwhile. There is hope for them. Everybody has hope and that is what we preach; that is the gospel of Christ -preach hope to the people – instead of them to feel dejected or feel rejected because of something has happened to them.”
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This report was supported by the Italian Ministry of Foreign Affairs and International Cooperation (DFAIT) through the Italian Agency for Development Cooperation (AICS) and United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization (UNESCO) under the empowering young people in Africa through media and communication project.
Instagram is one of the most popular social platforms. Aside from just sharing photos and pictures, it is also a means by which brands and potential business partners contact celebrities and influencers to strike deals with them.
Fans also get to keep track of the activities of their favourite celebrities and influencers on the platform.
The list of the top 10 Instagram earners in Nigeria is derived by analysing publicly available data.
According to official HopperHQ Instagram Richlist 2021, this is the list of the top 10 Instagram earners in Nigeria:
· Davido
Davido Adeleke
Multiple award-winning singer, Davido, with close to 21 million followers is the highest-paid Instagram celebrity from Nigeria and second highest in Africa after Mohammed Salah. He ranked 53 globally.
According to the Hopper HQ rich list, Davido earns $128,300 (N64,150,000) per sponsored Instagram post.
· Yemi Alade
Yemi Alade
Singer, Yemi Alade, with 14,461,667 million followers is ranked 67 globally, third in Africa and second in Nigeria.
The self-acclaimed Mama Africa makes an estimated $88,100 as an Instagram celebrity per sponsored post.
· Funke Akindele-Bello
Funke Akindele-Bello
Following almost immediately is actress Funke Akindele-Bello with 13,735,803 million followers. She is ranked 70 globally, fourth in Africa and third in Nigeria.
The creator of Jenifa’s Diary makes an estimated $83,600 as Instagram celebrity per sponsored post according to the Hopper HQ rich list.
· Tiwa Savage
Tiwa Savage
Coming next is singer Tiwa Savage who has been dubbed ‘Queen of Afrobeats’ with 12,717,301 milllion followers is ranked 74 globally, fifth in Africa and fourth in Nigeria.
The Number 1 African Bad Gyal makes an estimated $78,600 as Instagram celebrity per sponsored post.
· Wizkid
Wizkid
Grammy award-winning singer, Wizkidayo with 12,599,343 million followers, is ranked 79 globally, seventh in Africa and fifth in Nigeria.
Big Wiz is also noted to make as estimated $77,000 as an Instagram celebrity per sponsored post.
· Mercy Johnson- Okojie
Mercy Johnson-Okojie
Following Wizzy from way behind is the super talented actress, Mercy Johnson Okojie with 10,780,122 million followers has been ranked 90 globally, eighth in Africa and sixth in Nigeria.
The versatile movie star has been said to make an estimated $65,300 per sponsored post as an Instagram celebrity according to the Hopper HQ rich list.
· Mercy Aigbe
Mercy Aigbe
Following almost immediately is another top Nollywood actress Mercy Aigbe with 9,797,427 million followers. She is ranked 92 globally, ninth in Africa and seventh in Nigeria.
The movie star who oozes the ‘rich aunty’ vibes is noted to make an estimated $61,500 per sponsored post as an Instagram celebrity.
· Adesua Etomi
Adesua Etomi
Nollywood actress, Adesua Etomi Wellington with 4,321,400 million followers has been ranked 136 globally, fourteenth in Africa and eighth in Nigeria.
The sultry movie star is estimated to make estimated $26,700 per sponsored post as an Instagram celebrity.
· Bisola Aiyeola
Bisola Aiyeola
Reality TV star, Bisola Aiyeola with 3,063,281 million followers is ranked 160 globally, seventeenth in Africa and ninth in Nigeria.
The media personality has been estimated to make the sum of $19,200 per sponsored post as an Instagram celebrity according to the Hopper HQ rich list.
· Toke Makinwa
Toke Makinwa
OAP and media personality, Toke Makinwa with 4,591,535 million followers is ranked 165 globally, nineteenth in Africa and tenth in Nigeria.
The media girl, who also doubles as a movie star among other things, makes an estimated sum of $18,300 per sponsored post as an Instagram influencer according to the Hopper HQ rich list.
Ramon Olorunwa Abbas aka Hushpuppi is an Instagram celebrity facing criminal charges in the United States for alleged conspiracy to launder money obtained from business email compromise frauds and other scams, including schemes that defrauded a U.S. law firm of about $40m illegally transferred $14.7m from a foreign financial institution and targeted to steal $124M from an English football club until his arrest by the Dubai Police in June 2020 and extradition to the United States.
Before his arrest, Abbas had a global following of over 2.5 million followers on Instagram where he flaunted pictures and videos of his extravagant spending on exotic cars, watches, designer clothes, bags from luxury brands like Gucci, Fendi, and Louis Vuitton and of himself boarding helicopters, with celebrities, footballers and politicians or while on charter jets.
Below is a list of 11 popular Nigerian personalities Hushpuppi was seen with at different times before his arrest:
· Dino Melaye
Dino and Hushpuppi
Hushpuppi attended a birthday party in 2019 for Senator Dino Melaye, who represented Kogi West at the Eighth National Assembly.
The former senator recently said there was never a time he told anyone not to post the photographs he took with Hushpuppi.
· Mompha
Mompha and Hushpuppi
Popular social media celebrity, Ismail Mustapha aka Mompha was a former bestie of Hushpuppi with the two seen at different times spending money and living lavishly.
The two partied together overtime before they eventually had a fallout. After Huspuppi’s arrest, Mompha explained how the stubbornness of his embattled friend got him into trouble.
· Atiku Abubakar
Atiku and Hushpuppi
Hushpuppi was once pictured with former Vice President Atiku Abubakar.
The alleged fraudster had registered his support for Atiku during the presidential election.
In the Instagram post, Hushpuppi wrote: “If I have to pick among the two old people who are our prime options (Buhari and Atiku) please pick ATIKU, don’t say he chops our money before at least we or our parents didn’t commit suicide or turn internet beggars, we didn’t have to steal pants and
endanger the lives of our women to survive, our economy was not in a standstill, our graduates didn’t have to go and explain what 5k can do in their life under giveaway posts on the internet. Please do what is right young and old people out there. Nigeria doesn’t need prayer, it needs right decisions.”
· Davido
David and Hushpuppi
Hushpuppi was present at the Dubai wedding of Davido’s brother, Adewale Adeleke aka chairman HKN.
The two became friends after Hushpuppi reportedly trolled the singer in 2017 upon getting wind the latter was at Quilox on March 10, 2017.
Hushpuppi was said to have got wind of this and went to Quilox on Saturday night to show Davido who is boss. He spent N11m in the club to prove to the DMW boss that he was a self-made man and was not living off his father’s wealth.
Meanwhile, the “Fem” crooner didn’t let it slide as he made sure to blast Hushpuppi as he referred to him as “cry cry baby.”
· Wizkid
Wizkid and Hushpuppi
Grammy award-winning singer, Wizkidayo has also partied with Hushpuppi in the past.
The duo was once spotted partying and having a good time on a boat road in Dubai.
· DJ Cuppy
DJ Cuppy an Hushpuppi
Billionaire heiress and singer, DJ Cuppy captured her meeting with Huspuppi in Dubai and appeared super elated to have met the multi-millionaire big boy at a party.
They exchanged hugs and pleasantries as captured in the photos which she captioned: “Met @Hushpuppi for the first time. E PAIN DEM #hushcuppi.”
· Peter Okoye
Peter Okoye and Hushpuppi
In 2018, Peter Okoye, aka Mr. P was spotted wining and dining with Hushpuppi.
In videos shared via his Instagram page, Hushpuppi was seen boasting about his wealth and how much he was spending.
The Instagram celebrity even went as far as washing his feet with Champagne.
· Daddy Freeze
Daddy Freeze, Friends and Hushpuppi
Controversial OAP, Ifedayo Olarinde aka Daddy Freeze, in a recent video, was seen with his then fiancé, being given a tour of Hushpuppi’s Dubai home.
In a recent video by Daddy Freeze, he explained how alleged wickedness of the church drove him into hobnobbing with Hushpuppi.
According to the on-air personality, the church of Christ did not stand by him in his trying times. Hence, he answered Hushpuppi’s call.
· Iyanya
Iyanya and Hushpuppi
Singer Iyanya who became popular after he won the first edition of the MTN Project Fame West Africa was once spotted having dinner with Huspuppi.
· Lasisi Elenu
Lasisi and Hushpuppi
Social media comedian and skit maker, Nosa Afolabi aka Lasisi Elenu had one positive thing or two to say about the latter’s personality.
· Abba Kyari
Abba Kyari and Hushpuppi
The ‘super cop’, Abba Kyari who is now being investigated for his alleged involvement with Hushpuppi travelled to Dubai in 2019.
Between then and 2020, Abba Kayri shared personal pictures and professional attainments with Hushpuppi, with the latter thanking God for bringing Kyari his way.
Dele and Shayo (not real names) have been married for a few years. Shayo is a housewife, taking care of the kids, while Dele goes to work every day. Dele came back from work one fine evening, expecting to get “something light” from his wife after dinner, only for her to say “Dele I have already masturbated a few hours ago, so I am not really in the mood right now”.
This was the fifth time Shayo was telling him this in three weeks, so obviously, she had replaced “Dele” with her “fingers,” using her newly purchased vibrator hidden away somewhere in the house. Dele was so angry at being deprived of his right. Being a Christian, he didn’t believe in cheating on his wife, and he didn’t want to be put in that situation so he wanted her to stop using that “evil” vibrator right away. Out of fear, she threw it away, but couldn’t overcome the urge soon and started using her fingers to please herself, Dele couldn’t take it anymore when he discovered and that was the beginning to the end.
This story is the same or slightly different with many other experiences of couples in various homes. Some partners accept it because they feel it’s much better than “adultery”, while some see it as a slap on the face. The interesting part is men rarely talk about it amongst themselves. Women are more open in discussing it with each other, while couples don’t even want to mention it at all. Really interesting, isn’t it?
Couples should be open about their sexual wants and desires, as well as their dislikes. 85 % of men and 45 % of women who live with their spouses are said to have masturbated. Vibrators, sex machines, sex toys and even sex dolls are steadily replacing human contact and encouraging masturbation addiction. Many people would argue that this is more common with men, than women, well that is not our debate for today, but on how it affects both genders and its aftermath in a relationship. Masturbation is derived from the Latin word “manstuprare,” meaning “to defile one’s self by hand”.
Many couples I have counselled or spoken to say that masturbation is a very uncomfortable topic to broach. Imagine walking in on your partner masturbating? So many questions will be running through your head at once. Apart from immediately casting and binding the devil, there are several thoughts that rush through your mind, number one being who or what is my partner thinking about while at it? Some couples may wonder if masturbation can ruin their relationship. Other couples don’t even want to discuss it.
Masturbation often carries a stigma. Some religious, cultural and spiritual traditions associate masturbation with immorality or sin.
But the truth is masturbation can become an addiction which can cause harm to your relationship with several signals stated below.
When you get to a point where you inflict self-injury on yourself due to this habit, it can lead to other challenges in your relationship.
If your spouse uses masturbation to cope when they are under stress, especially when work pressure increases and next step is to quickly get a private place to “handle” themselves, then this is a big issue because apart from leading your partner to other stress management behaviour it can quickly escalate into a big problem, imagine having to get to the toilet anytime you are under duress.
This can create a feeling of rejection if one’s partner finds solace in masturbating rather than sexually connecting with their partner. If your partner finds it very easy to replace physical contact with you, even when you are available.
We operate in a religious environment. The weight of guilt that presents itself with this act, especially in connection to our religious and spiritual beliefs (if you have any) will lead to secrecy or in some cases creating and maintaining a double life around your sexual lifestyle.
One of the criteria for addictive behaviour is the frequency of the act, sometimes partners who want to stop and are unable to do so, sometimes unconsciously increase after trying to make effort to stop due to the helpless feeling it gives.
Putting religion or cultural beliefs aside, it is an unhealthy habit with emphasis on the word habit, not only as an individual but for couples. Masturbation is very common among adults, yet it remains a challenging and uncomfortable topic
It causes a feeling of inadequacy, especially when the partner discovers about it, they tend to blame themselves, assuming that their spouse or partner is bored or unhappy with them. Masturbation is a problem that interferes with day-to-day life, especially when it is used to substitute real intimacy with another person.
Your partner may feel that his or her partner has been keeping secrets. What couples should understand is that couples have different viewpoints. People who masturbate may do so in different amounts. There is nothing like an acceptable number or not an acceptable number. where we can establish you have a problem with masturbation is when you can’t achieve orgasm with your partner through intercourse, the best is to seek help from a therapist. They can work with you and your partner to iron out major concerns affecting your relationship, or smaller issues you are struggling with.
So many couples if they can be a sincere struggle with masturbation. It all depends on if you feel you should tell your spouse that you masturbate. But you shouldn’t allow the feeling of inadequacy overtake you if you discover your partner masturbates, as long as you can maintain a healthy relationship where both individuals communicate effectively to understand each other and know exactly when to come in. Adult individuals are entitled to their own thoughts, even what our society might deem repugnant. Basically what should be your priority which is my major rule for relationships is that all your sex, including fantasies, should be with each other.
Is it possible to stop masturbation, especially when it is affecting your relationship? I would say yes! Definitely, you can stop it.
Instead of trying to restrict your partner’s behaviour for instance because restriction with words like “you must stop this habit at once’ will only aggravate issues. It is a matter of discipline and acceptance to try and stop, once there is a will there is away. If you desire to help your partner to stop, then the best method is to
Talk to them about the habit.
Find out what triggers it (for instance work pressure).
Ask them how you can help them stop it.
Give mental and moral support; don’t make them feel ashamed.
Try to turn their attention to something else, so that they get to use their time constructively.
Do it slowly, change cannot happen overnight.
Know when to seek professional help.
Learning to stop masturbating is a process and this process takes time. To overcome this behaviour you’ve practised for months and sometimes even years, you personally need several coping strategies in order to save your relationship and cause less damage to show them you really want to stop.
Keeping a full schedule will cut down on the opportunities you have for masturbation. Find activities that are self-soothing, engaging, or exciting. I personally recommend joining a gym, start running or jogging, exert yourself physically.
You will also need a healthy diet for your body, caring for yourself may reduce urges or provide motivation to resist. It can also provide a new focus for your energy and efforts. You also need to be accountable to someone you trust, if you can find a support group. That would be excellent and the right path to recovery. It can also help you develop new behaviour. You need to limit your lone time, wear extra clothes at night to cover everywhere as much as possible, make it difficult for the temptation to be successful. Stop everything that triggers the urge, like porn, sex magazines and so on, and most of all, be patient with yourself while healing yourself. Good luck!
Ever wondered about the existence of places and the possibility of the sun not setting in them?
Well, you are not alone on that as most persons would never have imagined the existence of such place even though they really do exist.
This goes to prove even more that the world is filled with amazing and fascinating destinations you might just want to visit in other to experience the goodness that abounds in them.
Let’s share eleven places where the sun actually does not set:
· Alaska
Alaska is the northernmost and the coldest state in the US, and it is another country, where the sun stays on the horizon continuously for a long time. From early May to the end of July the sun is out all the time, whereas in the winter, the sun doesn’t come up as well.
This island was once part of Russia, but the United States bought it from Russia and has been part of America ever since.
It is also called the state of the beautiful glaciers, in many places the sun does not set here between May and July, that is, there is no night here for a while. Here the sun sets around 12:30 p.m. At night and sunrise also occurs after 51 minutes.
Alaska has a lot of amazing destinations that are unaffected and preserved.
· Finland
Decorated with thousands of lakes and islands, Finland is quite a beautiful and attractive country.
In the summer season, the sun continues to spread its light here for about 73 days. People here sleep less in summer and more in winter. Finland is famous for its fantastic skiing destinations, and you can also see the northern lights.
· Hammerfest -Norway
Hammerfest is one of the northernmost cities in the world, and one of the oldest in Northern Norway with a population of around 8,000 people. It has been declared a World Heritage Site by UNESCO, for being part of the Struve Geodetic Arc.
The sunsets in this city at 12:43 am and rises again at an interval of just 40 minutes.
Norway is world-famous for its beauty. It is one of the richest countries in the world. Not only this but the people here are also very conscious about health. But the biggest feature of Norway among these features is its natural beauty.
This country comes within the Arctic Circle. The sun does not set here for about 76 days between May and July.
· Iceland
It is the largest island in Europe after Great Britain and one of the least populated countries with no mosquitoes.
In Iceland during the summer, the nights are clear and white. In the month of June, the sun never quite sets. Grimsey Island, in the Arctic Circle, and the city of Akureyri are some of the ideal places to gaze at the Midnight Sun.
Iceland is a truly fascinating country, which seems as if it’s out of this world. There are several unique and breathtaking things to see in Iceland, from the unique combination of volcanoes and glaciers to the northern lights.
There are also some regions in Iceland, where the sun stays up from early May to late July.
· Nunavut, Canada
Located two degrees above the Arctic Circle, Nunavut is a city of just over 3,000 people in the Northwest Territories of Canada.
During the winter you experience about 30 consecutive days of total darkness, but the good thing is that you have two months of 24/7 sunlight in summer.
· Qaanaaq, Greenland
The city is located in the extreme north of Greenland with less than 650 inhabitants. The period of the midnight sun lasts two and a half months, during which time people must sleep with black curtains, in order to fall asleep. Its winters are long and cold and its nights are so beautiful that there are no human words to describe them.
· Saint Petersburg, Russia
With a population of more than 1 million people, Saint Petersburg is the northernmost city in the world. It is at such a high latitude that for a month and a half, the sun does not pass below the horizon enough for the sky to darken.
· Svalbard, Norway
It is the land of polar bears which is located on a latitude of between 74° to 82° north, but not only that, the sun doesn’t set for four months between mid-April and mid-July.
Here you can see the northern lights when visiting there.
· Sweden
Sweden is a great country to visit if you want to experience the never-setting sun.
Due to the different geographical location of this country, day and night are different here. In many places in Sweden, the sun doesn’t set from May to August. There is no night here for about 100 days.
Though the sun doesn’t stay up for the complete 24 hours, as it does in Norway, you can expect 20 hours long days. From May to August, the sun sets at midnight during the summer months, and it is back up at 4:30 am.
· The Bahamas
The Bahamas is located nowhere near the poles of the earth; in fact, it is very close to the equator, so what is it doing on its list? Well, we don’t have to be that strict with the rules, do we? Though the sun does set every day in the Bahamas, and the days are exceptionally long, either the sun is so pleasant in this region of the world, that it is worth traveling.
The turquoise waters and the long white sand beaches invite thousands of tourists every year.
The Bahamas is known to have some of the most amazing beaches and resorts in the world.
· Yukon, Canada
The city in the second-largest country in the world which is covered with snow for a long time in a year.
However, the sun shines continuously for 50 days during the summer days in the north-western part of here.
Yukon is known as the land of the midnight sun, with a glorious sky and infinite summer light. All this allows a virgin nature, with wildflowers and a multitude of varieties of migratory birds.