Category: Saturday Magazine

  • Best earrings for every hairstyle

    Best earrings for every hairstyle

    Do you know the best earrings to wear with your hairstyle? Being another form of accessory, earrings radiate elegance and add attraction to any look. So, it’s important to pick the right pair of earrings that will flatter your hairstyle, makeup and dress. Here are a few tips which will help you pick the right earrings for your hairstyle.

    Medium to long length hair-Choose hoop-style earrings with caution. Hoop-style earrings add weight and curves to your face, making your face look round. You should pick earrings of oval shape than going for circles. Choosing rectangular or square styled hoops is another way of adding dimension to your round face paired with long hair. Other styles, which will work best with long hair, are elongated and oblong shaped earrings. You can also choose to experiment with long danglers and chandelier style of earrings.

    Up-do style-Pick dimensional earrings, such as squares, diamond, or gold drops. With an up-do, you can emphasize your neck area, and for that, long beaded earrings or chandelier earrings can be your pick. Teardrop earrings would also be a good option for an up-do hairstyle.

    Short hair- Short hairs are just perfect for showing off your earrings. You don’t have to worry about your earrings being hidden by your hair. With short hairs, you can pick anything from plain button earrings to stylish hoop or dangle. However, before making choices, keep in mind the overall look. If you have super short hair, then big hoops or dangle might look overwhelming. So, it’s important to choose the earrings which complement your hair cut.

    Pony tailed hair-Choose drop earrings in bright colours. You can also look for earrings in earthly materials like bamboo, wood and cork. These great choices will grab the attention of all and you will surely steal the scene.

  • Hotel Geneza to boost tourism in Ebonyi

    EBONYI State tourism received a boost with the opening of Geneza Hotels recently. To consolated gains made be the state in hospitality busines, the owner of Geneza Hotel has tasked the state government to capitalize on the investments in hotels by private individuals to develop the vast array of potential tourist sites dotting the entire landscape of the state waiting to be exploited.

    Mr Maduka who made the call in Abakaliki, the state capital during the official commissioning of the hotel located at No 19 Onwe Road Abakaliki listed some of such tourism sites to include the Oferekpe beach, the Afikpo beach and the water walks plateau.

    “The water walks plateau is a potential tourist site waiting to be exploited. We, therefore, request the state government to invest in the plateau by building cable car that would cris-cros the hill and terminating at the foot where a museum will be built to showcase the cultural heritage of Ebonyi people” he said.

    The about 30 room hotel among other packages has 24hr power supply and security with CCTV, high speed Internet access in all the rooms, electronic room safe, car hire services, electronic key door, business centre with high speed Internet access and a well trained staff.

    Commissioning the Hotel, the State Governor, Martin Elechi noted that tourism is one of the chief drivers of economies of many nations hence an investment in the sector is an investment with astronomical prospects of success.

    Elechi represented by his Commissioner for Culture and Tourism, Hycinth Ikpo commended the owners of the Hotel for such massive edifice which he said signifies yet another victorious milestone for tourism and infrastructural development in the state.

    “For every developing state, there must be corresponding expansions to engender a congenial atmosphere for socio-economic activities to thrive. Therefore the building of Hotel Geneza is most timely”, Elechi added.

  • I know something is wrong between me and my girlfriend

    I am 20 years old. There is this girl named Ayo. I really love her but she lives in Lagos and I stay in Osogbo. She came to school in Osogbo and that was how I met her. I made her realize that I love her and we promised each other that we would get married when the time comes, but suddenly I noticed she stopped picking my calls when she travelled. I know something is wrong but I can’t afford to lose her. Aunty what should I do? I really love her.

    As hard as it is, sometimes we just need to accept that a relationship is over and move on. When in love, we are looking through rose-colored glasses and we’re so blinded by them that we ignore those very clear signs that a relationship is caput. We do our best to overlook the obvious in place of the positives–that are slowly fading into negatives. You continue to invest your time and emotions into what has become a one-sided relationship, because she hasn’t said those two words we dread hearing: “It’s over!” but she’s doing things to drive you away without actually saying you’re done! So, what are the signs you should NOT overlook? Here you go: she’s not calling id number one and number two is she’s not answering your calls. That means she’s no longer what she was when you met. It’s most likely an indication that it’s over. So move on.

  • Uju Ifejika for honours in US

    Uju Ifejika for honours in US

    Catherine Uju Ifejika, the CEO of Brittania-U Nigeria Limited, an affiliate of Brittania-U Group, runs one of the most successful indigenous integrated oil and gas companies. She ranks high among the continent’s wealthy and respected investors as her firm maintains its position among the front runners in the petroleum industry. Brittania-U’s operations cover the entire spectrum of the oil industry from exploration to production, refining, trading, supply and distribution.

    On her part, Nigerian-born businesswoman and philanthropist, Noni Nwasike, is the founder of Black Pumps, a non-profit women organisation with its head office in Los Angeles, California. The organisation is focused on advancing African women in their career, business and wellness. In a few days time, Nwasike and her team will bestow on the Brittania-U boss the 2013 African Businesswoman Award during the inaugural edition of its Women of Courage and Strength Awards.

    Ifejika will be joined by other awardees such as the Minister of Women Affairs and Social Development, Hajiya Zainab Maina. The event is scheduled for the Ritz Carlton Hotel, Los Angeles in the US.

  • ‘Unique things which drew me to my husband’

    ‘Unique things which drew me to my husband’

    Early last year, Isang Awah had her debut in Nollywood, with a well acclaimed movie titled Bent Arrows. The star studded movie which paraded the likes of Stella Damasus, Omoni Oboli, Desmond Elliot, Olu Jacobs, Joke Silva, Ngozi Ezeonu and late Enebeli Enebuwa was premiered at Silverbird Cinema in Lagos and also at a similar venue in Abuja. For Isang, that was a major accomplishment, as her movie received great reviews. But Isang Awah is more popular as a writer than any other thing. Harvard-trained Isang said she has been writing since her early years, and today remains a trail blazer in the area of publishing customised books for children in Nigeria. Isang sees writing as her lifestyle. It dominates all that she is presently doing and dictated to her the strategic location of her office in high brow ‘urban shelter estate’ in Katampe, Abuja, few minutes’ walk from her home. So involved is she with children that her four children too play significant roles in her writing and publishing world. She spoke to PAUL UKPABIO, who was in Abuja recently.

    AS a child, did you have a dream that you would one day be fulfilled earning a living as an accomplished writer?

    To tell you the honest truth, yes, I did at some point. I have always had this vivid memory of when I was about seven years old playing in a garden, reading a book about a little girl who grew up to become a writer. And in that moment, something connected in my spirit and I wanted to grow up to be a writer. But somehow as I grew up, I developed other interests because when I was in secondary school, I was good in both arts and science subjects. Everybody encouraged me to go into the study of the sciences.

    Way back then too, writing wasn’t really seen as a profession. So it wasn’t there as an option like something you had to go to school and do. That sort of left out for me the dream of becoming a writer. I therefore pursued other interests until a few years ago when I re-considered and decided to go back to school and do a Masters in Literature and Creative Writing. But the truth is even though I went on to pursue other things like going into the university for a degree in Bio-Chemistry, I was always writing through the years. I have always been into writing of poems, songs, stories and scripts. Writing never left me. I have always been writing one thing or another.

    Tell us, what kind of childhood did you have?

    I had a regular childhood; I grew up in a normal home with father, mother and siblings. I am a middle child. We had a lot of fun; we lived in different places, Calabar and Cameroun before returning to Nigeria. My father had a job that took him to Cameroun. I will say I was more attached to my mother. She was a teacher, which gave her more time to be with us at home. She was also a maternal person in nature. She spent time with us. She was very creative; during holidays, we had drama plays at home and we did all kinds of fun things. She was a creative person, baked, cooked and organised all sorts of fun activities for us.

    Naturally, I was more drawn to her. I remember that she taught me how to be myself and why I ought to love the things that I love doing. From both my parents, I learnt that hard work is very important, also discipline, focusing to do what you choose and desire to do and honesty. These were values that they passed unto us.

    I would say that my parents gave me the most wonderful gift any child could have. They made me have and believe that I should be confident. They made me to see that I could achieve anything that I set my eyes to do. I grew up believing that there is nothing that I cannot do. Knowing that gave me the confidence to pursue the dreams that I have been having through the years.

    When you look back, what memories of childhood come readily to your mind?

    We used to do lot of drama sketches from popular books then, most especially when we children were on school holidays, it was fun. Incidentally, none of us was interested in taking up career acting in front of the camera. On my part, I developed the creative aspect of me and love creativity. But at the same time, I love to be behind the scene. Even when I was actively involved in film production, I wanted to be behind the camera and not in front of the camera. You have to believe me, I am a very shy person though people don’t believe me when I say so.

    How about your educational background?

    I have a first degree in Bio-Chemistry and a Master Degree in Literature/Creative Writing. The two are far apart. I got a degree in science because I was good in the sciences; I worked in a savings and loan bank for a while before moving to a community bank in Akwa Ibom State. But when I got married, I decided along with my husband, that I should be a stay-at-home mom to personally raise the children. Through those years, I kept on writing because I cannot think of anytime in my life that I was not writing.

    Much later, I found out that it was not just enough to have a talent. So it dawned on me that I ought to also get training in it. Though I did attend one or two courses along the line on writing, but it got to a point where I decided that I should have a professional training. Initially, I was in a dilemma about which school to go to. There was the option of a film school. But then again, I thought that would limit me to writing scripts. I consider myself to be a broad-based writer; I wanted to be able to write different kinds of thing. I had always had that freedom to write anything, so I finally settled for Literature and Creative Writing. I got accepted at Harvard University to study Literature and Creative Arts. The beautiful thing about that was that I was able to take courses in advanced writing, advanced script writing, shorts stories and writing novels. That met with my needs because I didn’t just want to know how to write scripts alone, I wanted to get training in doing every part of writing. So that was what Harvard did for me.

    Tell us about your stay at Harvard.

    First of all, it is a great, fantastic place to study; a place where you get not just the ideal facilities but also a fantastic place in terms of gathering so many fantastic people to be your professors that is lecturers, the best of them teaches you there. I remember my first semester, I did a course in advanced fiction and I was taught by a man who few months after we finished that course won the Pulitzer Prize. So that is what Harvard is about, the people that teach you are the people winning awards in one field or the other. So it is a great place to be. I didn’t see myself there particularly as just an African, though for most of the courses that I took there, I was the only black, the only African. But then, I didn’t think much of it like that because I was there just like any other person. The truth is I felt privileged to attend those classes because I did learn so much there.

    What did you take out of Harvard?

    I don’t know if this was limited to my field or not, but what I loved about Harvard was, we were taught how to write, for instance, scripts by developing them yourself. The same thing went for novels. At the novel class, I had to work on my own novel. The same thing went for short stories. It wasn’t a theoretical thing; it was very much a practical one, after which we critiqued each other’s works. For me, my first degree was far apart from what I went to Harvard to do, so I didn’t have that background in Nigeria and I wouldn’t know because I didn’t study that here. As a person, I think it is a fantastic way to teach people through practical, instead of just reading and reading. So it was a great experience for me being there, I think going to a place like that to study broadened my view and taught me how to dream big and know that there is nothing you cannot do once you set your mind on it.

    You are married, how did you meet your spouse?

    (Laughs) The first time we met was at a fellowship but I didn’t think much about it. I don’t think we talked at our first meeting. It was much later that he came to my office. I was working at the bank then; he asked to take me out for lunch. We ended up postponing the lunch till a much later time. I later got to visit him in his office, though I was initially reluctant about doing that. Incidentally, where he was working was not far from my home. When I got to visit him, I found out that he is a very interesting person to be with. We ended up talking about a lot of things. We spent about two, three hours just gisting. And that was different for me because I had stereotyped Christian guys as being boring people.

    I used to think one could not have a regular conversation with them except to talk about religious things. Though I am a Christian too, but I had always been a fun person who likes to be myself. Since I met him at a fellowship, I had boxed him into that kind of person. Surprisingly, what I saw when I met him was different. I was surprised because we didn’t talk about church or any of such things. We talked about other things and it was even difficult to remember what we were talking about! I enjoyed talking to him. The friendship developed from there.

    There were many things that influenced my choice of a marriage partner: he is a very fantastic person, wonderful, I honestly do not know anybody like him. He is a great person to be with. He wants the best about me, sweet and loving. Of course, he is very good looking too: Though the most important part was that I prayed about it before I got married to him. I was convinced that this is the person that God wanted me to be with. We enjoy a good friendship. We gisted a lot and I’m shy about the telephone bill that I must have been piling for my father way back then because I was still at home. We gisted into the nights, went out on date and amazingly, it is still that way now, though we have now been married for over 18 years. We still enjoy talking to each other; we enjoy each other’s company tremendously.

    How about your family life?

    We are blessed with four fabulous, wonderful children. They are fun kids, two boys and two girls. They take part in what I am doing, I believe so much in team work. The books that I am writing now for My Rainbow Books are all about children. So when I get a story idea, I know that my first audience is the children. So I tell the story to my children first. I then watch to see their reactions. Not just what they say, but also their facial reactions too. That way I get their feedback. When I do not get the right feedback from them, I drop such story idea. That is because as children, they know what appeals to them. They are in position to know what works for them.

    Not just the story alone, even with the illustrations, I call them together to ask what they think of it. For instance, when I was doing ‘the super hero story,’ I called my son and asked him for his idea and illustration of a super hero. From there, I made adjustments. They are greatly involved in my work. And they love what I am doing.

    What is My Rainbow Books about?

    It is an educational publications company that is committed to endearing a reading culture in Nigeria through the publication of well written and properly illustrated story books. We are not a regular publishing house. For instance, you cannot find our books at bookshops because we make customised books. It has to be ordered for weddings, graduation parties, birthday and other celebrations. We do not make books and keep for people to order. Instead, we make books that you order and use immediately. From your order, which comes with details about the child, his or her friends and the pictures, we make personalised books. The book stands out the child as the main character, a hero or heroine as the case may be, while the child’s friends are support characters. The books are also to instill the right values in children. It is also a way of making children to read more and be interested inside of them. It also builds the self-esteem of the child as a hero or heroine. All stories teach values such as team work, honesty, courage and so on. Princess Me, for instance, teaches girls what makes a princess; that being a princess is not just about looking good like the fairy tale princess, but that you have to be kind and have a good heart. Another book The Race is a motivational story and so on.

    Let’s talk about your work environment

    Oh that (laughs cheerfully)? When we were setting up the office at first, we got the regular furniture and furnishing, but I remembered that I am working for children, so it need not be just an office. I wanted it to also be a place that children could come in to read. I therefore had to give out some of the furniture that we had already ordered and got these colourful chairs and table and decided to fix shelves where we could keep different kinds of book for children and where children could walk in and read too.

    At some point, we were running a weekend literary club for children here. But we had to suspend that few months ago because we were so overwhelmed with work. Then we also had the summer camp on our hands. We started a summer camp in 2012 and had another this year. It is not camp for study; it is basically a fun camp for children. We do all kinds of creative activities, the children are taught and given opportunity to make puppets and other creative things like colorful visors, it is a fun camp for art and craft and lasts five weeks. The children always have amazing periods here.

    Obviously, you now have a handful load of things to do with children. What about film production that you have started doing?

    Definitely, I will go back on set sometime in the future. What I am doing right now is very demanding, and I am the type of person that likes giving my best concentration to whatever project that I am handling. I knew that to be able to berth this vision properly, I needed to put a pause on films and other things. But it’s a pause, so sooner or later; I’ll un-pause that button and get back to making films. But this is a very intense project. I do not just write the stories, I also run the company. You know the process of getting a book ready is quite tedious and demanding. When I am through with the story, I have to send to the editor in New York and when that is through, I get in touch with the illustrators and that takes a lot of time. We go back and forth with adjustments until we get it all right. It takes time administering the staff too. So there is no way I could be doing this and making films at the same time. I have to grow this business, have enough hands to run it before I can afford to step back and return to films. I really do love film making though.

    A career as a writer, is it working out for you?

    I will say so far so good, yes it is working out.

    Do you have any memorable holiday?

    I have many memorable holidays. I think my most memorable I can readily think of right now should be the 2008 vacation in the USA. What made it memorable is that we went on a cruise to the Bahamas, and then when we got there, we took another cruise back to the US. It was interesting because that was the first time I was on a cruise and I was there with my husband and children.

    Every vacation has been memorable but I really remember that one. I also remember it because while on the return journey, my second son turned nine and we had a surprise birthday party for him on the cruise. He was very happy, amazed because he didn’t know anything about it. We were all on the dinner table when the cake was brought to him and then everyone was singing happy birthday to him. He was shocked; he didn’t know what to say.

    Your fashion sense…?

    Oh, I’m pretty laid back. I do not think I have much of fashion sense; I am always in jeans. For me, my number one fashion thing is comfort but that doesn’t mean that I do not wear some other things. I love things that fit me and once in a while, I have my real moments when I really dress up for an evening party! My fashion actually depends on my mood. Perhaps I wear more of jeans because I work more with children these days. So I do not feel I have to be in heels or in stilettos and skirt suits. Ha that! I really can’t remember when last I was in something like that.

    Again, right now, my husband and I are involved in a youth church; that encourages much of casual dressing. So I do not feel that I have to be decked up like that.

    Just like my fashion sense, my colour depends on my mood. I love olive green; I think it is a lovely colour. It is everywhere here. For leisure, we go out a lot, sometimes with our children. It depends on what activity we have. I am involved in other things apart from my regular work. For instance, my husband pastors a youth church. Right now, we have a programme called ‘from my closet to your closet.’ Basically it is about people bringing out things that they do not need or have grown out of to give to others. We dry-clean these things and make them available to other people in real need of them.

    I love to spend time with my family, with my husband; we create a lot of fun moment when we are together and we crack jokes and the like. I have a niece staying with us presently, she is a fabulous person. We are all friends, we laugh and clown, and we tease each other a lot. You just have to have a good sense of humour with us. We watch home movies a lot too. We go to the cinema, hang out and do different kinds of stuff. And because the church is a youth church, we are always having all kinds of programme that bring about fun. Sometimes it’s a football match and at other times, we show Christian films. Sometimes too, it’s a dinner.

    What inspires you? Where do you get your motivation from?

    Absolutely, it comes from God. When I get an inspiration, I know it’s Him directing me and showing me what to do. For instance, I had this desire to use writing to influence lives, a desire to get trained on how to write, and at the end of the programme, I had this idea about personalised books. So it’s God that did all that. Interestingly, I used to tell my children bed time stories when they were very young. So it has always been there, but the time was not just right then to birth the dream. God speaks to us in different ways; even when you think that you can’t, God makes a way where there is no way. Once you hold on to God, He gives you a dream.

    I recently had a dream of having a creative competition for children that will lead them to getting published. For a period, I didn’t know how to go about it, but now, I have such tremendous support concerning it. The competition is annually organised by My Rainbow Books Limited to help develop children’s creative thinking and writing skills. It is opened to children aged five to 16 years. Individuals could make an entry or a school could send a group entry. It runs between October and December 31. We would be putting together a compilation of the best entries and publish them. I know it’s God’s favour. I will like to urge everyone to live their lives to the fullest. Everyone is created for a high calling and for a purpose. There’s something you were created to do, when you discover it, it will give meaning to your life. And once you begin to live your life according to the purpose, then you will find fulfillment. To discover purpose, one has to be in line with God.

    Abuja as a place, how does it work for you?

    Though I know I have a bigger market for me in Lagos, which I intend to explore, but what is fantastic about Abuja is that it is central; we can reach to people in the North and other parts of the country easily.

  • Glamour of green world carnival unveiled

    It was a night of glitz and stars. It was also a night of songs and dances. Members of the carnival bands of the Rivers State came in their full costumes. People became excited as some of Nigeria’s finest home video icons sauntered into the banquet hall of Hotel Presidential, Port Harcourt. There was Monalisa Chinda, Ini Edo, Mike Ezuruonye, Norbert Young and many others.

    But it was not all about the screen; it was also a display of all that was good in the culture of the riverine people. There were the voluptuous and beautiful adorned maidens in their traditional regalia. They were bedecked in huge beads, some as huge as the arm of a child and other colourful attire.

    It is a night like this that one truly appreciates the richness of Nigeria’s diverse culture.

    The night was for tourism and all had gathered to unveil a tourism product that is geared towards wooing local and inbound tourists, and in the process to celebrate all that is good in our culture and environment.

    It was for the unveiling of the theme and logo for this year’s edition that the Rivers State Tourism Development Agency (RSTDA) decided to explore seriousness, even in the revelry of a boisterous street party. The theme for this year is the Green World Edition. The thought process that led to this, according to Dr. Sam Dede, is the efforts of the tourism board to engage in sustainable tourism. According to him, over the years, the environment has been degraded by the activities of man, hence the need to engage in conscious efforts to make a change. What better opportunity than to pass across this message through the boisterous revelry of the CARNIRIV, a fiesta that has the whole state and beyond glued to it.

    The Rivers State Commissioner for Culture and Tourism, Dr. Nabbs Imegwu, talked about the what the night was all about: “As Africans and especially as Rivers people powering the cultural base and resource of Nigeria, we do have a lot of activities relating to our culture. When we say culture, it is not about masquerades. Ordinarily, we relate with culture as masquerades, but it goes far beyond that.

    “We have a lot about our culture which basically and fundamentally refers to our customs and values within families, within communities and within societies. A lot of activities that hallmark the very essence of us as a people tend to be concentrated in the last quarter of the year. On behalf of the governor of this state and the deputy governor, I fully express their apologies for their inability to be here tonight.

    “This is a state that has over time , especially in recent times, attached importance to the development of our rich economic potential and improved economy. It is not just the black gold, but for the fact that there are diverse rich elements within us, one of which is the rich cultural heritage that should and ought to be harnessed as a product of attractive tourism.

    “This administration is aware of the fact that tourism perhaps ranks second to some other economic sector. We are, therefore, working towards that. We will do the best we can to headline the tourism products we have identified to assist in driving and expanding the economic space in Rivers State.

    “The local government chairmen are very important in what we are doing; there cannot be CANIRIV without the local government chairmen. I say so because often times the chairmen have stood out as the anchor point for the first lap of out street parties. The street party is what carnival is about and it is two-pronged – we have the heritage float and the sea side floats. Majority of us are aware, but we have to say this for the benefit of all and for the benefit of the press and publicity.

    “Our heritage street party is anchored on the very core value of our existence as a people. We use as a rallying point the local government unit which is the last unit of governance. And over the years in our experience to rejuvenate what we initiated in Nigeria, the first ever carnival in the country was initiated in this state. Now in our attempt to rejuvenate that, we have used the local government chairmen as the rallying point being the last point of formal government, formal administration to mobilize our people and till date, they have done resourcefully well.

    “Many people see Nollywood as a local phenomenon, but except you travel wide, you would not appreciate how Nollywood has impacted globally, how much Nollywood has sold this country in the aspect of diplomacy and economy”.

    Dr. Sam Dede, the Director–General, Rivers State Tourism Development Agency (RSTA), is used to glitz of the nights like this. But his was a sombre capture of what the essence of what the tourism board was trying to rekindle.

    He said: “This is the second in the series of our strategic development of CARNIRIV Global branch. We have a five-year development plan, so we have one year down, and in the next four years, we are thinking that if you tell anybody in Australia about CARNIRIV, they will say yes I know about that carnival. It took place in the city of Port Harcourt. Last year, we had our centenary celebrations and we titled that carnival ‘Port Harcourt 100 Edition’.

    “ So, we thought that we could use carnival to mobilize our people to realize the extent of damage that we have done to our environment and we begin to make amends towards righting the wrong. So the theme we chose for this year carnival is ‘Our Environment Bedrock For Sustainable Development’, for short ( Our Environment, Our Sustainance). We call it the ‘Green World Edition’, and we are hoping that at the end of the carnival season, even in our merriment and joyous dancing and singing, we will remember to do good for our environment before it gets worst than this. Incidentally, the world tourism day has the theme: Tourism and Water. And we are water people. We have conterminated our water and this is the time to get it right again .

    “Ok, we want you to leave this place with this statement in your mind that our land is green, and we must celebrate this. We need to celebrate the greenness of our land with potential investment opportunities, lingering on the horizon and with the rest of the world, singing the now familiar tune of environmental sustainability.

    “The time to join in order to utilise attendant opportunities is now. So even the papers that you use help in a way to deplict the environment, so we need to begin to get conscious and get involved. I will like to leave you with a statement by the president of the United State of America during his last visit to Africa. He said that we must teach our children to treasure what the earth gives us and nurture it for the next generation.

    “I think the greatest gift that the people of this generation can give to the next generation is the extent of green green we can leave behind. It is so simple, it is no money, it is not gold, it is not silver, it is not diamond, but just leave some kind of green green for the future generation to inherit.

    “So,during the carnival season, we are going to plant together. All the bands, RSTDA, all the ten bands in the free style parade from the 23 council areas are jointly going to plant one thousand trees to commemorate this edition of CANIRIV.

    “Let’s look at the brands for CANIRIV this season. Last year, we introduced the Egelede, and it became an instant success at the carnival village, but this time around we are going to get a celebrity wrestler to be a guest at Egelede. Those of you who are diehard fans of wrestling like me, you are likely going to see one of those major wrestlers as a guest at our own traditional wrestling. If you love John Cena, if you love Undertaker, if you love Hoc Organ. Just pray for us, we will do it for you.

    “CANIRIV Praise Jamz is also one other event to look out for. It is the carnival that opens the entire carnival season. We give all the praise to God. For those of us who go to church, those of you who believe in God, we will give you that. And for those of us who believe in the ancestors, we will also give the praise.

    “The International Heritage Parade is one other event you should not miss. It is what we call the boat regatta. We have the Garden City Free Style Parade, and you can see all the beautiful colours here representing the ten bands of the CANIRIV brand. The entire carnival season will close with the World Peace Concert. Last year, we had an incredible sixty thousand viewership at Port Harcourt Liberation Stadium, and before we knew it, the police asked us to stop the show because the stadium was bursting. We had to stop it. So this time, we are making the preparation to accommodate more of the crowd. We will put huge mega screens outside so you would not need to come into the stadium.”

    Gradually, the festival is becoming noticed and drawing support from ouside.

    Former CEO, Notting Hill Carnival,London, Mr. Shabaka Thompson, said: “One thing we have achieved in CARNIRIV in London is that the project has become a forerunner at the front of cultural tourism in the United Kingdom, and we should take pride that Rivers State is leading that good example of how we can sell cultural tourism to the upside of this country and CANIRIV is a very good example of that for the efforts of RSTDA.

    “ It was the first time in the 25-year existence or maybe they have won before,but they came first in their catergory and second overall in the carnival, and it boils down to the presence of that wonderful creative float and the masquerade that followed.

    “What we have learnt as well is that in including the float and the music to Notting Hill, we are generating a particular interest for the whole of Nigeria, the whole of Africa. Afrobeat music was popular on the parade route because the parade route was used to the Caribbean calypso-sucar music. The introduction of the Afrobeat muscic has attracted a large flock of well-behaved Nigerians who are only too eager to jump behind the Afrobeat music. We intend to build that, we hope that will continue, that RSTDA and the government of Rivers State will see it neccssary to continue building this relationship with NottingHill.

    “We at NottingHill welcome it. It has injected a new dimension into the carnival, and we want to make sure you continue to be leaders in this cultural, tourism development”.

    It was not just all about the future, the past was celebrated as the last year’s event winners were given prizes and monetary rewards.

     

  • I masturbate because I’m afraid of contracting HIV/AIDS, how can I stop?

    Please Madam, I have a terrible habit, and I want it stopped- masturbation. I wanna know if it has any effect on me, a young man of 28 years old. The reason why I kept doing it though is because I am afraid of catching HIV/AIDS.

    Many people masturbate for different reasons. For you, it is because of your fear of contracting HIV/AIDs. The world is full of hypocrites, so I won’t join those who come out to condemn masturbation when I know these same people go behind closed doors to ‘self-help’. Before you stop, are you sure you’re going to be so disciplined that you won’t look for a human substitute? Anyway, since you want to stop, here are some tips to help you:

    If you think it’s a problem then it must be, so make conscious efforts to remove that problem.

    Eat chocolate, it releases endorphins which make you feel happy and mild thereby canceling out the urges.

    Stay away from porn (or obvious reasons).

    Distract yourself with something fun if you have an urge (video games, clean music, a hobby, etc.)

    Make a gradual plan, for example try going for 3 days, stay there for a week or two, then go to four days and keep gradually increasing the time between occurrences.

    Most importantly, do not hate yourself If You Fail, take it moderately, failing is a bad thing but it’s not the end of the world, by constantly hating on yourself for messing up you will cause the worst of the symptoms and ruin your social life because of shame.

  • ‘My attackers asked my wife  to show them my “sacred room” …They almost raped her’

    ‘My attackers asked my wife to show them my “sacred room” …They almost raped her’

    Like the day he was installed as the traditional ruler of his ancient community three years ago, April 14, 2013 will remain an unforgettable day in the life of the Olofin Adimula of Ado-Odo, Ogun State, Oba Lateef Adeniran Akanni. It was the day the first class monarch was ambushed and beaten into a coma by some hoodlums in his community while he was on his way to a crucial meeting of monarchs in Ilaro, in Ogun State.

    Breaking his silence penultimate Friday at a secret location in Abeokuta where he has since relocated after the incident, Oba Akanni said he was yet to come to terms with the reality of his humiliation by some of his disgruntled subjects.

    He said: “Everything about the incident is still shocking to me. I had left my palace at about 7.07 am to attend a meeting of Yewa traditional rulers scheduled for Ilaro, not knowing that an ambush had been laid for me at Idi Onipoorogun, a few metres away from the palace.

    “One Jaiye on a motorcycle had flagged down my driver. My driver, who did not know his mission, asked him to leave the road, but he refused. He insisted that I should come out of the vehicle.

    “I waved my traditional horsetail, the insignia of my office, through the windscreen to show him that I was inside the car. Before I knew it, he had dragged me out of the vehicle with my agbada (flowing gown) at gun point. He landed some slaps on my face, while the other members of his gang numbering over more than 100 joined him in humiliating me.

    “Some bystanders who tried to intervene were beaten and chased away by the hoodlums who also wielded guns, charms and other dangerous weapons. I was slapped, stripped to my underwear and beaten even with charms until I fell into a coma and my body was covered with blood. They freely beat me with charms and thought that I would die immediately.”

    Speaking further on how he was humiliated before he was eventually rescued by a minion of law, Oba Akanni said: “It was a well orchestrated attack, because while I was being kicked and battered with sticks, my attackers used their phones to record the inhuman treatment they meted out to me and posted it on the internet.

    “They continued to batter my body even when I had become unconscious. It was a policeman who summoned the courage to wade through the vicious crowd and rescued me into a patrol van. I was taken to a private hospital in Owode, a neighbouring community. From there, I was transferred to the Federal Medical Centre, Abeokuta, following the intervention of Olu Of Ilaro, Oba Kehinde Olugbenle. My driver, Olufunmi Olajide, was also beaten and injured by the errant youths.”

    Next, he said, was his palace, which was allegedly looted and vandalised. He said all the vehicles that were parked in the expansive compound were also set ablaze by the youths who also beat one of the Oba’s children to stupor and attempted to rape his eldest wife, Olori Adebisi Akanni, after inflicting wounds on her body.

    He added: “Not satisfied with the humiliation they had meted out to me, the hoodlums moved to my palace and vandalised my property before setting all the cars that were parked there ablaze. The N1.5 million I kept in my room at the time of the incident was also stolen.

    “They demanded from my wife the charms I purportedly used to turn into a python, but they could only find copies of the Quran and the Bible in my room, because I have an abiding faith in God as my ultimate protector.

    “They kept asking her to take them to the sacred room where the concoctions I purportedly used to change into a snake were kept, but she told them that there was no sacred room in the palace. When they could not get a satisfactory answer from her, they beat and inflicted machete wounds on her body and attempted to rape her. She was lucky to have been rescued by a detachment of soldiers, but not without a fractured arm.”

    Olori Adebisi also relived her experience during the attack. She said: “I was caught unawares. Apart from vandalising our property and setting our vehicles ablaze, the hoodlums inflicted machete cuts on my head and arm. They also used sticks to beat me up.

    “At a point, they stripped me half-naked and attempted to rape me. They contemplated throwing me into one of the burning vehicles and I was only lucky to have escaped from the scene.

    “As I speak, I am still nursing the injury (she unveils to the wound on her left arm). I have just returned from the hospital where I have been receiving treatment.”

    An aide of the traditional ruler named Taiye, who was said to have been thrown down from the upper floor of the storey building during the attack, said: “But for providence, I would have died. I did not know how I survived the attack because the heartless men wanted to kill everyone around when they stormed the palace.

    “They kicked and dragged me on the floor before throwing me down from the balcony of the one storey palace.”

    The embattled traditional ruler said he did not know that he was being trailed by the hoodlums until he was attacked. “It was after the incident that I knew that my attackers had been on my trail for some time,” he said. “Although it is unconfirmed, I gathered that my former driver, who had disappeared from work for about two months before the attack, must have done so out of fear that he could be a victim of the attack.

    “I learnt that my attackers had failed several times to carry out their dastardly mission and erroneously thought that I had laced my white sports utility vehicle with protective charms. They were said to have thought that it would be difficult to get me any time I went out in the car. It was when they got wind that I was going out in a different car that they launched the evil attack on me.”

    Reacting to the rumours in some quarters that he had become paralysed, he said: “I am hale and hearty. And as you can see for yourself, all is well with my household. The same people who are behind my travails in the hands of the misguided hoodlums are the ones peddling the rumour of my ill-health.”

    The monarch was full of praises for his family, friends, fellow traditional rulers and the Ogun State government for setting up a commission of enquiry to look into the protracted crisis with a view to finding a lasting solution to it.

    “My sincere appreciation goes to all my family members, friends, Ogun State traditional rulers, particularly the Awujale of Ijeuland, Oba Sikiru Adetona; the Alake of Egbaland, Oba Aremu Gbadebo; the Olu of Ilaro, Oba Kehinde Olugbenle and the Olu of Ishaga, among others.

    “I also want to thank the Ogun State government, Chief Buhari Oloto, Princess Oluwunmi (nee Akapo) and Chief Taofeek Jimoh for their love and support,” he said.

    Oba Akanni was installed on May 2, 2009 after two decades of legal battle. The former occupier of the throne, Muniru Odejide, was removed following an order by the Supreme Court in Abuja, which voided his purported selection as traditional ruler. The installation of Oba Adeniran has witnessed a series of violence perpetrated by a section of the community who are believed to have sympathy for the former occupant of the stool.

    A similar incident rocked the Ogun community a few years ago when unknown gunmen opened fire on Oba Akanni’s palace, while some members of an Islamic organisation perceived to have displayed sympathy for him were killed during a meeting inside their mosque. Houses and vehicles were also burnt. The incident led to the imposition of a curfew on the town for several months by the Ogun State Government.

    Following the protracted crisis in the community, Ogun State Governor Ibikunle Amosun, inaugurated a five-man commission of enquiry, led by Hon. Justice Oluwatosin Osinuga, with a view to finding a lasting solution to the crisis. The panel has since finished sitting while its report is being awaited.

  • Baby doll dress in town

    Baby doll dress in town

    BABY DOLL dresses were the rave of the 50s, 60s and early 70s. This well-tailored ball dress is now back. It is characterized by knee-length and above-the-knee-length gowns with mostly small sleeves and at times, big spaghetti straps.

    What make the dress more appealing are the wedge shoes, peep toe or heelly sandals that are used to complement it. Despite its not too tight nature, baby doll dress still emphasizes feminine curves. Since indigenous fabrics, especially ankara, are the in-thing now, baby doll dresses are mostly sown with these fabrics.

    One good thing the baby doll dress has, going for it, is that it does not require a scarf or head-tie, and remember, the best foot accessories for it are the peep toe, stiletto or wedge shoes.

  • Row over death of man pushed off moving bus…Family demands body for burial

    Row over death of man pushed off moving bus…Family demands body for burial

    THE only thing that would stop the tears of Tawakalitu, whose husband, Saheed Alabi, allegedly lost his life in an encounter with an official of the Lagos State Traffic Management Authority’s (LASTMA) on February 2, 2012, is the release of her husband’s body.

    The 30-year-old bus conductor met his untimely death after his bus was flagged down by some LASTMA officials at Toll Gate area of Ketu. The errant officials were said to have dragged him down from the moving vehicle, leading to his death.

    His body was taken to Ikorodu General Hospital and has not been released for burial in spite of protests by his lawyer and family members.

    Recalling the incident, Tawakalitu said: “I was at home the day the incident occurred. My husband’s elder brother, Fatai, called me on the phone and said that my husband had died while he was being trying to stop his vehicle.

    “He was said to have been dragged down while the vehicle was in motion and he fell on the pavement and died. We reported the incident at the Ketu Police Station but we have not got any response.

    “I was carrying a three-month pregnancy when he died. I have since been delivered of a baby boy named Waris on August 8, 2012. We have appealed to the authorities of the hospital to release his body to us but our appeal has been turned down.

    “I feel it is high time we called on the relevant authorities to release the body to us so that we can point to his tomb when the four children I had for him grow up.”

    Tawakalit said that life had become a nightmare since the tragic death of her husband and she now lives on charity.

    She said: “I don’t have enough money to feed my children or take care of their education. I need help to provide for their needs, especially my baby. Although the erring LASTMA official offered me N50, 000, I rejected it on the basis of advice from my lawyer.

    “Shortly after the incident, some members of a Lagos-based charity organisation visited me and paid my children’s school fees. They even brought some rice and beans for me during the Ramadan period.”

    Several petitions forwarded to the police and LASTMA authorities over the matter are yet to yield results as Alabi’s body remains in the mortuary.

    A letter written to LASTMA by the counsel to the family, Mr. Omobolaji Adejumo, reads in part: “We hold brief for Mrs. Taswakalitu Rashidi Alabi and Rukayat Alabi, the wives of Rashidi Alabi, the bus conductor dragged down from a moving bus by LASTMA officials, resulting in his untimely death.

    “Our brief further revealed that it was on February 5, 2012 that Alabi was killed when he was going about his lawful duty at the Toll Gate end of the Lagos-Ibadan Expressway at Ketu.

    “The most painful aspect of this scenario is refusing the family the right to bury their dead, which has compounded their sorrow ”

    The refusal by authorities of Ikorodu General Hospital to release Alabi’s body to his family and the the notice that abandoned bodies in the hospital prompted the Nigerian Bar Association, Ikeja Branch, to step into the matter last year.

    In a letter written by the NBA to the Chief Medical Director of the hospital, dated August 24, 2012, it said: “The attention of the Nigerian Bar Association, Ikeja Branch (Human Rights Committee), has been drawn to a newspaper advertisement of August 19, 2012 by the Ikorodu General Hospital mortuary to the effect that it would give mass burial to bodies in its morgue unclaimed within seven days of the publication.

    “We respectfully bring to your notice that the body of one Rashidi Alabi, an alleged victim of a fatal attack by a LASTMA official earlier in the year, precisely sometime in February, lies in the morgue of the Ikorodu General Hospital.

    “Please, be further informed that there is an ongoing police investigation into the cause of death of the said Rashidi Alabi, with a view to prosecuting those found culpable of causing his unlawful death.

    “Of course, the Coroners Laws of Lagos State prescribe a mandatory coroner’s inquiry into the death of any citizen of Lagos State whose death occurred in questionable circumstances.

    “In the light of the above, we hereby humbly request the exception of the body of the said Rashidi Alabi from the intended mass burial.”

    Speaking on the matter, Adejumo said: “We think that it is an injustice to a family whose breadwinner was killed in controversial circumstances by law enforcement agents to pay a public hospital for taking custody of his body. Let them release his corpse for us to bury.

    “Bear in mind that our clients are Muslims and in Islamic tradition, the dead are buried within 48 hours and the wife stays indoors for 40 days after burial.”

    In a telephone conversation with our correspondent, Police spokeperson, Ms. Ngosi Braide, said she had no details of the incident. She said: “I don’t have the details now, but I’ll communicate with you as soon as I get the details.”

    Attempt by our correspondent to get the response of spokesperson of LASTMA, Mrs. Bola Ajao, was not successful. She did not acknowledge the first text message sent to her phone by our correspondent asking him to resend it. She also failed to answer her calls when our correspondent again called to know if she got the second text message.