Category: Saturday Magazine

  • Still the gorgeous Deola Sagoe

    Still the gorgeous Deola Sagoe

    It is no longer a hot issue among society players that top designer, Deola Sagoe’s marriage with Kofi Sagoe has hit the rocks. Kofi has since moved on with his life as he remarried many months ago.

    Deola is also happy again. Not because a new man is in the picture, but because she featured in October First, a yet to be released movie of star actor, Kunle Afolayan. Celeb Watch gathered that despite being separated from the man that once meant the world to her, Deola is making the best of what life has thrown her way and none of the challenges has affected her glowing looks and career.

    At the moment, few people would talk about high fashion without mentioning Deola Sagoe. Adopting the trade name, O’dua Originals, Deola is one of the frontline Nigeria-based designers. She has been on the big stage since she took over her late mother’s business. From that very beginning, it was clear that she was headed for the sky as her pieces compare to what obtains on the high streets of world’s most developed cities.

    The beautiful daughter of Chief Ade Ojo, owner of Elizade Motors, did not cherish the uproar that followed her crashed marriage.

  • Gabriel Igbinedion marks 79

    Gabriel Igbinedion marks 79

    Society heavyweights and top politicians flocked to the home of the Esama of Benin, Chief Gabriel Osawaru Igbinedion, to celebrate with him on the occasion of his 79th birthday last Tuesday. It was an exclusive low-profile bash for the father of former Edo State Governor, Chief Lucky Igbinedion.

    The Esama of Benin is undoubtedly one of the wealthiest Nigerians, the status he has enjoyed for more than four decades with properties in Nigeria and abroad.

    Friends, family members and those he has assisted in one way or the other are already looking forward to his 80th birthday.

  • Why Success in the family

    Dear Reader,

    You are welcome to Family Forum, where the ingredients for a successful home are practically delivered into your hand. You shall not miss your own portion, in Jesus’ name!

    I want you to know that success in anything in life, and particularly in marriage, is not accidental. It is a product of proper alignment with the truth of God’s Word. No accident is ever said to be successful. No one succeeds by chance. A successful marriage does not just happen; it is made to happen.

    A wise man said, “Many people dream of success, but others wake up and work at it!” So, the responsibility for the success of your family rests absolutely on you. This week, I want to share with you from God’s Word, Why Success In The Family.

    God Is Interested In The Success Of Your Home: One of the reasons why your marriage must succeed is that God has interest in your home. God was practically involved in the first wedding ceremony between Adam and Eve. He designed the home to succeed. The Word of God says: And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man (Genesis 2:21-22). We can see in this scripture that God was fully involved in the first wedding. This is to say that, He designed marriage for success.

    God did not just speak marriage into existence like He did to the rest of creation, He made Adam. He caused him to sleep a deep sleep, and then took a rib from his side. Out of this rib, He formed the woman and brought her unto Adam. God Himself, therefore, was the Initiator. This means that marriage is rooted in divinity. Without any doubt, anything associated with God is meant to succeed. Marriage is associated with God, therefore, it is meant to be successful. Your marriage shall be successful, in Jesus’ name!

    God Designed Your Marriage For All-Round Fruitfulness: The Word of God says: So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth (Genesis 1:27-28).

    God began the human family by blessing, not cursing it. He said to Adam and Eve, “Be fruitful; multiply; replenish the earth; subdue it!” What wonderful words of blessing! It is interesting for you to know that fruitfulness goes beyond procreation; it includes success in all areas of life. It also means having many good results. The fact that God rained blessings on the first family is a clear indication that every family is meant to be successful. These blessings will answer for you, in Jesus’ name!

    God Established The Home For Dominion: Marriage was established to be in control of, and not under the control of circumstance and situations of life. This is a sign that it was established for success. The Word of God says: Have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth (Genesis 1:28). Dominion means to have control or exercise of control. The home, therefore, was designed to have dominion; that is, to have and exercise control. I want you to know that God has given you dominion to succeed in your marriage.

    God Designed Your Home To Be Like Eden: It is evident that God designed families for success, because of the place where God placed them. The Word of God says: And the Lord God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it (Genesis 2:15). If you have the description of Eden, you will appreciate the fact that Eden was no wilderness. In fact, it literally means delight, or great pleasure.

    God placed the first couple in a place of pleasure. His desire is that your family gives you pleasure. God designed the home for every member of the family to enjoy one another, experience fulfillment, laughter and excitement. He never intended the family to experience pressure, but pleasure. He designed the family to make life pleasurable. In case the situation in your home is far from being pleasant, as you read this article, believe God for a reversal, and it shall be so for you!

    Your Marriage Is Not Designed For Shame: One of many reasons God designed marriage is for success and to take shame away from man. You shall not see shame in your home anymore! This year has been declared as our year of Double Portion, Next Levels. I see you moving from one level of glory to another in your home, business, health and finances.

    God instituted marriage to ensure that man never experience shame. Marriage brought man into a state of better living, glory and beauty. There was no cause for fear or regret. Your will not regret your marriage!

    Marriage Is The Beginning Of Miracle: It is absolutely awesome to discover that the first miracle ever performed by Jesus, during His earthly ministry, was at a wedding ceremony. God is a God of priorities, who would always put first things first. By this miracle, He put a stamp of approval on the need for success in the home.

    At the first wedding ceremony, the wine had finished. The wine, here, represents joy. Jesus then stepped in, instructed them on what to do, they obeyed and thus had more wine than at the onset of the wedding. The home is ordained of God to be a miracle centre! Many have and are still enjoying miracles in their marriages and families; yours will be the next!

    Success in the home begins by knowing God, the Creator of the universe. If you are not born again, you need to surrender your life to Christ. Surrendering your life to Christ entails confessing your sins and accepting Him as your Lord and Saviour. If you want to do that right now, you can please say this prayer: Dear Lord Jesus, I come to You today as a sinner. Forgive me of mu sins. I believe You died and rose on the third day for my sins. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today.

     

    Congratulations, you are now born again! I believe that you will begin to experience the reality of the price that Jesus paid for your sins at Calvary. All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name!

    Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through:

    E-mail: faithdavid@yahoo.com Tel. No: 08141320204; 07026385437; 07094254102

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Single With A Difference, Building A Successful Family, and Success In Marriage (Co-Authored with Bishop David Oyedepo).

     

  • Governor Wada to resuscitate Confluence Beach Hotel

    The Kogi State Governor, Captain Imuwa Wada, has promised to revive the moribund Confluence Beach Hotel, Kogi.

    He made this promise during his speech at the opening ceremony of a workshop by the National Institute of Hospitality and Tourism (NIHOTOURS).

    Governor was responding to a plea by the Director-General of the institute  Dr. Munzali Dantata, during his opening speech at the workshop of the institute held in Lokoja.

    Dantata, while making his speech, called on the governor to resuscitate the hotel as the hotel had helped in the past to accommodate tourists on visit to the state.

    Governor Wada promised to resuscitate the hotel within a year and promised the NIHOTOURS boss that this would be done in the next one year.

    On the theme of the workshop which  was: “Nigeria at 100: Transforming the Tourism Industry for National Development”, Governor Wada said the celebration of the centenary by the nation should be exploited for economic benefit of the nation.

    His words: “It is my belief that in the  celebration of our existence as a nation, we should explore and exploit every opportunity to venture into activities that will enhance the economic development of the state.

    “The state committee on centenary celebration was, therefore, directed to organise such events and and activities that will expose the economic potential of our state and attract investment to Kogi.  We also invite or expect private sector partnership to promote friendly business environment”.

     

  • At  home amid the chaos

    At home amid the chaos

    LESS than a week after collecting my bags at the domestic terminal at Lagos Murtala Muhammed International Airport, I have come to fully accept that all the warnings and cautionary tales about this chaotic city were little more than old wives’ tales and urban legend.

    Yes, the traffic and roads are insane. The people are loud and aggressive. The nights can certainly get sketchy. And most importantly, it contains pockets of poverty that strain the mind’s ability to comprehend.

    Lagos faces a future fraught with numerous challenges, but any city has its woes, and at its heart, Lagos is like other metropolises in that it is a place where millions of hopeful people flock in order to pay huge amounts of money to live in small, often rundown homes in exchange for the sheer privilege of being there.

    Clearly there’s a reason why we urban-dwellers make that decision, despite all the difficulties and downsides of living in a densely-populated environment that thinks nothing of chewing up and spitting out a person who doesn’t have the talent, means and luck it takes to survive there.

    Some of these reasons are largely based on atmosphere and superficial concerns. Parisians love their city for its beauty, high art and refinement. In Tokyo it’s the brash futurism juxtaposed against the soothing peace of the Japanese approach to life. Romans’ strongest amour is reserved for their country’s spectacular food.

    As for Lagos, part of what draws thousands of new residents to the city every week is its dynamic culture, the spirit of its people and the excitement of its raucous atmosphere, parties and commerce.

    But in Lagos, as in every of the world’s other capital cities, the real draw is the sense that anything is possible — a strong, passionate hope and drive to succeed that persists even among many of its most downtrodden citizens.

     

    Big dreams

    While it is exceedingly difficult to come up from nothing in this teeming city on the Atlantic, every person who makes the decision to pack up their lives and start anew in Lagos must truly believe that they have the capacity to do just that. Given how intimidating this town can seem even to a short-term visitor with sufficient means, it must be terrifying to move here from a small rural village in Borno State or the Republic of Niger with little more than the clothes on your back.

    Yet new success stories are told every day, even as millions of people starve, flounder and struggle to feed their families. In every megalopolis around the globe, it’s that dream of reaching epic heights that drives people to fight through the soul-crushing lows.

    There’s a famous saying about my hometown of New York City that “if you can make it there, you can make it anywhere.” It’s an apt slogan for the Big Apple, the place where big dreamers go in America, but I believe that it should be passed on to Lagos.

    Lagosians, as I’ve been told countless times since I arrived here this past weekend, often drive upwards of three or four hours each way in exasperating go-slows just to get to and from work. And to top it off, they seem to work longer hours than the people of any other city I’ve visited. It’s why the clubs only really start hopping around 1 a.m. They do what New Yorkers do, only they’ve taken it a step further, and I like where they’ve landed.

    Lagos to me is a heaving, collective organ of striving and selling and enjoying and lamenting. At the same time, it’s an exciting place to visit and explore, and a gateway to the horrors of concentrated urbanity. It’s New York in Africa, and that’s a high compliment coming from a Manhattanite.

     

    The Lagosians

    The people of Lagos will be what I remember best upon my return to the U.S., I’m convinced of it. Dissertations have probably been written by previous Western visitors about how welcoming and personable and lovely people are across Nigeria. These are well-known facts among those who have been here.

    What impresses me most about Lagosians is how much I see myself reflected in them. New York has always seemed like the one place in the world where a fast-talking, loud, aggravating person like myself could fit into the social order, or lack thereof.

    But what blew me away in my interactions with Lagosians is that they are all those things, only magnified. Much as Lagos is bigger, dirtier and more hectic than New York, in my experience, the people of Lagos are often much more interesting, outspoken and more fun than my friends and I tend to be. You very nearly have to assault them if you want to pay the bill, no matter how many Gulders everyone has had, and their energy seemingly knows no limit.

    They read newspapers, listen to the radio and watch movies from Nigeria, America, England and beyond, absorbing a wider range of knowledge than many insular New Yorkers ever do.

    They dance better, they know how to show people a good time, and they want to be your friend the moment you get past their hardened shells, which can be thicker than those of most New Yorkers, but fall away much quicker. Lagosians laugh, scream and cry louder than we do, and they drive in a manner that would have our cabbies handing their taxi medallions in out of pure shame.

    At the same time, much like New Yorkers, they sometimes get a bad rap among their disapproving fellow countrymen for being rude, manic, overly obsessed with money and generally unpleasant. Those negative impressions should be struck from the record in regards to both cities, because though we learn to put up barriers to maintain our sanity in the face of so much humanity, both New Yorkers and Lagosians are just fronting, and that charade of toughness helps us retain our exuberant essence.

     

    The dilemma of progress

    Looking back on the defining moments of my time in Lagos as my journey here nears its unfortunate end, the first things that come to mind are fried croaker with jollof rice and plantains; dancing at Fela Kuti’s shrine and the endless hours spent laughing with new local friends as they manoeuvred their cars through the city’s congested streets.

    But the experiences of one eye-opening day persist in my memory as well, and they are not easily ignored considering how destructive the trend they represent is to the spirit of Lagos, and the ways they clearly illustrate the challenges that lie ahead for the city, its government and its residents.

    Thursday is the day that I began to see clearly why Lagos must change in order for it to respect its people, its heritage and its character.

    My photographer and friend Cameron Barnes and I started the day by visiting the Oto-Ilogbo Extension slum of mainland Lagos, where we found ourselves face-to-face with the reality of a situation that as Americans had always previously existed for us only as a concept and a smattering of pictures and news stories.

    We saw with our own eyes what the poorest Lagosians deal with on a day-to-day basis, walked the trash-strewn streets, spoke with folks who call it home, stood atop the mound where they relieve themselves in full view of their neighbours and friends. We were stunned, saddened and humbled to our cores, and neither of us will ever forget our walk through Oto-Ilogbo.

    But we had to continue to work, and from there, we trekked to Victoria Island for an interview with some of the city’s well-off professionals, young people who thought nothing of spending $25 on a bowl of pasta with pesto. It was a contrast so stark it has stuck with us to this moment, and it mirrors the troublesome wealth divide between much of Africa and the West.

    But this is a story about Lagos and Nigeria, not about international economic forces, which clearly have done next to nothing to help the situation. The wide dichotomy between these two extreme results of modern capitalism’s excesses recalled the myriad news reports I’ve read on corruption and the yawning income gap between the rich few and the impoverished many in Nigeria.

     

    Government’s role

    The need to find a workable situation to the global slum travesty will only grow in coming years, as the United Nations reported in 2003 that nearly a billion people already lived in slums worldwide, and that a third of the world’s population will reside in them by the mid-2030s.

    And yet it appears that Nigeria’s local governments have chosen a slash-burn-redevelop approach to their urban slums. As Barnes and I learned in both Oto-Ilogbo and Mpape, Abuja – which have been targeted for demolition, but have so far escaped that fate – and hundreds of thousands people from Lagos communities from Bar Beach to Badia East know all too well, local governors are more interested in tearing down slums, kicking out their residents and building shiny office buildings and hotels than working with slum-dwellers to find workable solutions.

    The blanket arguments against the slum-dwellers are many and varied: they’re squatters, they’re criminals, they don’t own their land, they shouldn’t be subjected to such horrendous living conditions.

    But in the end, even if many of them were able to be fit neatly into one derisive box or another, the denizens of these marginalised communities are still humans, and they deserve some form of dignity and compensation, if their lives are to be uprooted in the name of making millions for developers and appeasing the wealthy.

    It’s a problem that’s playing out around the world, but if Lagos is to become a world-class city, as its leaders have said they intend for it to be, it needs to find a way to deal with its ballooning slum problem over the coming years, or it will fall victim to its own excesses, as the people of Oto-Ilogbo did long ago.

    Just as Lagos is messy, multi-faceted and impossible to define, so too are my thoughts as I take stock of this mind- and world-expanding trip that I’ve been given the privilege to take part in by the International Center for Journalists, International Press Centre and U.S. State Department.

    There’s no one way to sum up my impressions of Lagos, just as there are so many different versions of the city within its expansive environs.

    Lagos is a place with wonderful qualities and with nearly intractable problems, but as can also sometimes be necessary in the course of human relationships, I have learned to love it in spite of itself.

  • Ibis Hotel berths in Lagos

    A few weeks ago, it was indeed a dream come true for Otunba Olufemi Okenla, a UK-based real estate lawyer.

    Precisely on August 23, Okenla hosted the cream of top government players and big palyers in the private sector to the formal inauguration of a 165-room Ibis Hotel located in the Ikeja area of Lagos.

    In an interview, Okenla said his initiative was borne out of the need to contribute his quota to the emerging mega city status of Lagos which, he noted, has witnessed massive infrastructural renewal under the Governor Babatunde Fashola-led administration.

    Dismissing fears that the hospitality outfit is entering an already saturated market, Okenla said, “I don’t believe the sector is over saturated. Ibis does not have any competition because it’s a brand on its own. This hotel is what is called the business economy hotel. I can say categorically that at the moment, there is no other business economy hotel in Nigeria, except Ibis.

    “The unique feature of a business economy hotel is that it does not have presidential suites or VIP suites. What you find is the same standard double room. We are simply catering mainly for businessmen who come to Lagos and want a nice and decent place to stay without missing anything available in any four-star hotel. This is our niche.”

    Giving an overview of the hospitality sector, particularly the hotel sub-sector in Lagos, Okenla said: “There are a lot of mushroom hotels around. These are hotels you cannot stay. Locals can accept it, but for international standards, they are not just up to par. So, the demand is there for international brands not 20 or 30-room hotels.”

    Okenla, who further disclosed that he was fascinated to enter into a frachise agreement with the Ibis Hotel brand after staying at the hotel in London during the 40th birthday party of his wife in 2006, added that his desire was reinforced after having a discussion with some friends which centred mainly on infrastructural deficit in Nigeria.

    Built in a record time of three years and four months, Okenla disclosed that some of the unique features of the hotel, which was declared open by the Deputy Governor of Lagos State, Mrs. Adejoke Orelope-Adefulire, includes boasting a facility where the heat generated by its air conditioning chiller system which produces the hot water needed by the hotel.

    Okenla said with this in place, “the hotel is conserving energy and reducing the effect on the ozone layer.” Another notable feature of the hotel is its underground car park thereby, reducing the menace of traffic congestion which parking on the road by its guests would have caused.”

    Speaking on the long term plans for the hotel, Okenla said: “Discussions are on and plans are underway to build nine more Ibis hotels in various already indentified locations in Nigeria within the next 15years.”

    Okenla urged the state government to develop a “Land Bank” policy through which willing and credible investors can easily access land for commercial projects.

  • Face of Native & Vogue Fashion Week 2013 unveiled

    TWO winners have emerged as the Face of Native & Vogue Fashion Week at an event recently held at the Southern Star Hotels on Thursday, August 29.

    The project was organised by Neo Mantra Ltd, Bunor Creazioni and Allure Magazine under the auspices of the Rivers State Government.

    Out of 10 contestants, two lucky winners emerged: Gedoni Emmanuel Ekpata, a 500-level student of Gas Engineering at the University of Port Harcourt and Adaugo Uche, a 400-level student of Anatomy at the University of Port Harcourt. Each will go away with N500,000, grace all the covers of Native & Vogue Communications materials and become youth ambassadors of Rivers State.

    Speaking at the event, the Rivers State Commissioner for Information and Communication, Mrs. Semenitari, stated the Native & Vogue Fashion Week is just one of the many events targeted at promoting the Rivers State brand and redefining Rivers State as a choice destination.

  • Say hello to Shorts

    Say hello to Shorts

    THE hot season may be winding down, but shorts would always remain one hottest clothing item. You can wear them most of the year and they come in various lengths and sizes. The fashion staple is very chic, comfortable and versatile. It really looks sweet and adorable when they are coupled up with appropriate accessories. The sexy bottom can be worn to the beach, picnic and night event, but they are not the right choice for the office. As simple as shorts might look, some people still make the cool piece look un-cool. Here is how to look good in shorts:

    Wear see through tops with shorts. It brings out the sexiness in you.

    Flowing blouse with tight shorts makes the outfit look balanced.

    A casual tank top and shorts with a belt will looks chic.

    Please, cover up the upper body when wearing shorts.

    Do not let the pockets of your shorts hang out.

    Don’t show the butt cheek. It’s not underwear.

    If you are a short person, wear some heels or wedge and you would look instantly tall.

    Grab a purse or oversized handbag.

    Put on a colourful watch. Sunglasses also look amazing.

    Wear shirts with shorts too. Plaid shirts look fabulous with it.

  • Celebrities flood Alex Okosi’s low-key party

    The catalogue of birthday shindigs so far held in honour of celebrities this year will not be complete without a mention of the one hosted by Ale Okosi, the Senior Vice President and Managing Director of MTV Network Africa, when he added another year. Although it was meant to be a low-key party, the presence of top celebrities revealed Okosi as a gold fish that has no hiding place.

    So, it was another moment of jollity and conviviality penultimate Friday at the Rhapsody Lounge, Victoria Island, Lagos. The occasion, which witnessed an influx of top celebrities, had both old and new friends of the brilliant young man. Top of the range drinks and assorted meals were served in their sumptuous best.

    Top entertainers like Banky W, Waje, Wizkid, Toke Makinwa, Maje Ayida, Tunde Demurin and others were in attendance.

  • Commendation for Natures Gentle Touch

    SINCE Natures Gentle Touch began the Root of the Matter initiative, hundreds of women have experienced a journey that is sure to set them on the path to having a naturally beautiful and healthy hair. They all have been full of appreciation for the rare opportunity afforded them to tackle the roots of their hair and scalp problems.

    Anchor salon for the Natures Gentle Touch Root of the Matter initiative, Make Me Beauty Place, has been a beehive of activities since the programme started. Various hair and scalp problems like dandruff, hair breakage, receding hairline, slow hair growth and alopecia have been diagnosed and treated.

    The Root of the Matter initiative is designed to help Nigerian women to understand and overcome the various hair and scalp challenges which often times discourage them from being proud of their natural hair.

    The initiative is in partnership with select salons in Nigeria where Natures Gentle Touch hair care experts will offer free hair consultations and free hair treatments. Brand manager for Natures Gentle Touch, Mr. Austen Umeani, said that the project is an affirmation of the brand’s promise to help African women to live and maintain a healthy natural hair in the country.

    Meanwhile, the Proprietor of Make Me Beauty Place, Surulere, Lagos lauded Natures Gentle Touch for coming up with this novel idea and said that every lady who has taken advantage of the initiative can never forget in a hurry the memorable time they had during the time.

    Natures Gentle Touch is a natural hair care brand that provides solutions to different hair and scalp problems such as hair breakage, dandruff, slow hair growth, weak and damaged hair. It is specially designed to suit the beauty needs of Africans living in Africa.