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  • INI DIMA OKOJIE: I admire Beyonce’s drive

    INI DIMA OKOJIE: I admire Beyonce’s drive

    Ini Dima Okojie is an actress, fashion enthusiast and former investment banker. The energetic lady is motivated by everyday activities. In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, she takes you into her world, some challenges encountered and others. 

    WHAT inspired you to go into acting?

    I have always been intrigued by the art of acting; the fact that I get to assume a character totally different from who I am, which is quite interesting. I must say that acting affords me the opportunity to live someone else’s life and experience their reality for a brief period is quite a kick. Acting is such a thrilling experience I tell you.

    Let’s talk about your recent experience with The Royal Hibiscus Hotel

    It was a good experience; an awesome story well told and I got a chance to do what I love doing, alongside some of my colleagues and friends in the industry.

    What excites and motivates the things you do?

    On a personal level, I like to stretch myself. Whether it is learning a new skill, language, and acquiring knowledge, I am open to new experiences.

    Let’s talk about some memorable moments in your life and career

    A defining moment for me as a person was finding the courage to quit investing banking in 2013 and enrolling at New York Film Academy. That set the tone for my journey and everything that I am today.

    My defining moment as an actor was when I took on the role of Hadiza in ‘North East’. Taking on a northern character challenged me, it made me push myself, it allowed me find the balance of making bold choices but still with a subtle delivery. It also had with it lessons on culture, a different belief and a peek into the mind(s) of what happen s on the other side of the divide and how as different as we are, when we come together and blur the lines on the many things that ‘divide’ us, we create a beautiful symphony in unity.

    Playing Teniola Bhadmus on ‘Battle Ground’ is also a defining moment for me. The entire filming experience is different from anything I’ve ever done. Being on a daily show, you have to rely on your first instincts, everything moves very fast, it challenges me every day, and that’s the beauty of it.

    What are some of the challenges you’ve encountered?

    One of my biggest challenges was breaking into the industry. You hear a lot of Nos…I was eager to share what I had and put all of the knowledge I had acquired from film school into use. I was ready to work, and here I was faced with seemingly insurmountable obstacles, but that didn’t stop me.

    While I wasn’t working, I kept working on my craft and myself. As an actor, you never stop learning, you never have enough experience.

    How do you cope with them?

    When I did get an opportunity to work, no matter how big or small the platform, I threw my entire being into it. I was ready and I was ready to be even more ready.

    As an actor in this industry and as a growing industry as a whole, we’re faced with many challenges from available platforms from content to distribution. However, that resilient Nigerian spirit keeps you going; I never took ‘No’ for an answer.

    Who or wha t do you consider as the greatest influence in your life and career? What are some of the other things that occupy your time?

    My mother is the greatest influence in my life. She is instrumental to the drive that I thankfully possess. She gets me! I’m not afraid to share my dreams and aspirations with her. I remember being almost scared of telling her I wanted to veer into acting from investment banking.

    Surprisingly, she was and is still very supportive; she would make sure I was speaking to the right people as well as get the right training etc. She epitomises the strong African woman. Till date, if she sees an opportunity that will help better my craft or feels it is information I need regarding work, she will call my attention to it.

    Let’s compare when you started acting and now, what has changed?

    Let’s call it my growth process. I would say my growth process has been an interesting one; I’m constantly amazed by the characters I am offered; holding myself to a particular yardstick personally and professionally; meaning, asides myself, I have mentors and a team who advise me on how well or not I am doing professionally.

    The characters I choose to interpret in projects I’ve taken on over the years are a testament to my growth as an actor; being able to enmesh myself and unravel the character, whether as Hadiza in ‘North East/ Skinny Girl in Transit’ or Melissa in ‘Entangled’ or even Farida in ‘On the Real’, have all helped to give me direction and inspiration for the things that I do.

    What are some of the changes that you would like to see in the sector?

    Good question! From an actor’s standpoint, I will like to see more platforms and channels available to showcase and present the work thespians put in. I will like to see the necessary infrastructure in place to ensure the industry thrives. I will like to know we are operating in an enabling and not stifling environment.

    I will like to see things work and of course we all know that the pay can always be better. But from experience, we will have to get to a point where the ecosystem aligns to accommodate all these wonderful things.

    What is your definition of style?

    Style is what brings out your best self! What you’re comfortable in and what makes you feel great. There are two iconic quotes from equally iconic designers that typify my thoughts on what style is; “Dress shabbily and they remember the dress; dress impeccably and they remember the woman.”- Coco Chanel and “Fashions fade, style is eternal.” By Yves Saint Laurent

    What are some of the items that you treasure most in your wardrobe?

    Ah…that’s a tough one; there are several items that I treasure, from Fablane by Derin pieces to jewellery gifts to my most comfortable slides. There is just too many to mention. How do you relax?

    I am a foodie; so I love to go out and eat. And now that I am trying to make healthier choices when it comes to my diet, it has been even more interesting discovering ways to enjoy food the healthy way.

    What are some of the principles that you hold onto?

    Put God first in all you do. Never take ‘No’ for an answer and be the best in whatever you find to do. Hard work, determination and dedication are very important if you want to make it and stand out amongst your peers. The truth of the matter is that nothing good comes easy. The more you work hard at it, the better it becomes and in the process it actually becomes a way of life for you.

    Let’s talk about the people you admire and role models

    I am inspired by RMD’s consistency in the business. He is someone who has remained relevant in the industry for over three decades; that is something that sets him apart. I also admire Beyoncé’s drive. I have followed her career through the years and some of the things that stand out are her drive, her work ethics, how she constantly is pushing herself, experimenting with her music and not afraid to live her best life (smile).

    If you had to advise young people, what would you tell them?

    Don’t be afraid to dream, and don’t stop at just dreaming, do everything you can to make it a reality.

    What dreams did you have growing up?

    Growing up was very interesting and exciting for me. I attended Air Force Primary School and Air Force Comprehensive School for my elementary and post-elementary education respectively. I later went to Covenant University where I studied international relations. Upon graduation, I became an investment banker. I have always been good with numbers and finance so I found myself in an investment banking firm called Cardinal Supreme Partners. I worked there for a while.

    I have always nursed fantasies of becoming an actor since I was a child but I never thought that it was a realistic goal. I just wanted to go to school and secure a corporate job. After some time though, I couldn’t resist the passion again so I started looking for film schools that I could attend. It was a very tough decision to make because I was leaving certainty for uncertainty.

    Did your parents support the idea?

    I was initially very worried about telling my parents what I wanted to do, because I didn’t know how they would receive the news. The first person I told was my mother and she promised to support me. On his part, my father was also supportive, even though he was a bit skeptical at the beginning. I later quit my job and went to the New York Film Academy to study. I came back to Nigeria in 2014 and that was how this journey began. Looking back now, I am glad I took this step and there are so many potential in the sector that I would really love to explore.

    I come from a very close-knit family and I am the last of four children. I have always gravitated towards the arts since I was a child but I was also quite reserved. I was a little shy and it’s really ironical and funny that I am acting now. My childhood was really full of fun and I thank God for my family.

  • Wandering in the desert

    When you think about the desert, the image that readily comes to mind is a state of emptiness. In a love desert you would be thinking of a lost love and trying to fill in the gaps in your own way. It is at this stage that the one at the centre of an emotional storm becomes a wanderer. No matter how hard you try, it may just be difficult to get your bearing.

    Even when it seems like you have gotten a substitute, you just can’t let go and your mind just keeps wandering and wandering. But you can move on when you forget the negatives and build on the positive emotions that you had in the past. Here

    you can scroll down memory lane recalling the sweet memories you encountered here and there to get the emotional peace that you deserve. Dreaming about it would certainly lift your spirit, taking you close to the fairy tale stories that you have heard about. Still in doubt? No need to do that to yourself. Relax and cross over a bountiful emotional harvest. The type that happens once in a while and one that brings lots of happiness. Here you would find trees and shrubs of affection growing and churning out love branches that inspire and affect others. From the trees, you reap fruits that fill the hearts with tears of joy.

    Alternatively, you may find yourself stranded in an emotional desert. Here, all you are bound to be feeling is a state of hopelessness, helplessness and rejection. But the big question is what were you hoping to get in this emotional Sahara in the first place? It is obvious that the emotional cargo that you have decided to pitch your tent with is as stranded as you are. No matter how hard you try, you guys aren’t going to go far.

    The one you desperately trying to cruise with it has little or nothing to offer and this state of dryness isn’t going to do you any good. To get a better experience, it is better for you to move out of the desert to locate someone who would provide emotional sunshine as well as take you to the next level.

    In Coleridge’s Poem, “The Rime of the ancient Mariner”, the Wandering Albatross is actually referred to as ‘bird with good omen’.  Here we are also told about the metaphor of ‘an albatross’ around his neck, indicating an unwanted burden causing anxiety or hindrance.

    Interestingly, in the days when sailing was popular, the bird often accompanied ships for days, not merely following it but wheeling in wide circles around it without ever being observed to land on the water. It continued its flight, apparently not tired, in temptuous as well as modest weather. It is one of the largest birds in the world with the largest wingspan measuring up to about 3.5 metres. From the records, you would also find that the bird is one of the best studied species of birds in the world. Distance travelled each year is hard to measure but one banded bird was recovered travelling about 6000 km in twelve days. They spent most of their life on the wing returning to land only to court a mate and to breed.

    The behaviour of the bird is also very interesting having a range of displays from screams, whistles, grunts and bill clapping. When courting, they actually spread their wings, wave their heads as well as rap their bills together.

    Interestingly, the bones from its wings are used to produce needles, tobacco pipe stems fishhooks and flutes that would ultimately churn out romantic lyrics and songs.

    Of course, you would agree with yours truly that there are a number of romantic connections with this type of bird. However, if this bird is taken away to a lonely desert, so many things would happen. First it is going to lose its clear white colour at adulthood. Life without emotional water can be a nightmare and, of course, life in the desert is going to be very lonely.

    Instead of languishing in the desert, it is better to take emotional flight with a great pal. On the other hand when you want to take a flight, it is better to seek emotional refuge in a love garden? Here, there would be a variety of fruits to choice from and you would certainly get something you desire.

    Conversely, if you are in an emotional desert, all you would find are dry bones. Nothing good is ever going to come out of this kind of relationship because the environment is stiff and the dust of confusion won’t take you far. You would definitely be far from your low height and all the lullabies that you are used to won’t sound nice in this environment. To make a headway, this lovebird must move out of this environment to a better environment to look and feel good.

  • Parents, stop selling your girls!!!

    Dear Aunty Temilolu,

    I recently got admission into a higher institution and the deadline for the payment of my fees is next week. My parents don’t have money but someone is willing to help but on the condition that I’ll get pregnant for him and marry him (he resides abroad). I don’t like this guy at all. He smokes and doesn’t have a single quality I desire in a man and I’m just 21. My parents think he’s good for me. I’ve become sick as a result of crying. I looked for this admission for 5 years. What should I do please?

    L.

    My Sweet,

    Awww…Aren’t you such a damn good girl? At a time when the average girl would have sex with countless guys to have hair that’s not hers, latest gadgets and designer bags her parents’ one year salary can’t buy! To think there’s still a sane girl out there who doesn’t want to trade her life for a tertiary education she’s spent the last 5 years laboring for! A time when most girls would rather exchange their bodies, soul, spirituality and entire existence for inanities! Yuk! You are even wiser than those who brought you into the world! What an angel! Your story breaks my heart but I salute you and respect you and I’m so convinced God is going to spring a wonderful surprise on you! Of course, you know I won’t let you go into such a liaison and I know you wrote to me so I can encourage you and lift you spiritually. I insist God will send help to you in a way you don’t even expect. In fact, He has made arrangements already! He was only waiting to see if you’d choose Him or the devil. Expect a life-transforming knock on your door soon my uncommon, precious lady! Congratulations!

    Dear parents like L’s,

    May God forgive you for turning your daughters to merchandise!  If only you knew what goldmines you have under your roof, you’d do all you can to give them a comfortable life and help them harness their potentials than push them to men who would eventually turn them to slaves and remind them for life how they wouldn’t have been educated without them, how they own them and how they made you landlords!

    My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,

    You see why I keep screaming into your ears to prioritise your life and do all you can to pursue qualitative education! Let’s be factual, can a cleaner or domestic staff really afford to pay for his or her children’s tertiary education? Only in very few cases. I don’t know L’s parents’ professional qualifications nor if they even have any! But I tell you, bringing children into the world isn’t just about fulfilling God’s plan for us to multiply. It is highly irresponsible to get into a marriage and bring children into the world when you don’t have the financial means to give them a good living. We often hear of roasted plantain/fish sellers who have graduates as children but you don’t know what those kids have to go through and the type of menial jobs they have to do to support what they get from their parents. Sadly, you girls have been so badly brain-washed by the social media such that you’re no longer interested in hard-work as it appears not to make you a star so soon but would rather have guys drool over you, sleep with you and supply all your needs! I’m very sorry for you! You think they’re santas? If you knew what most of them have acquired by sleeping with some of you, emptying you of the virtues God has graciously given you to make you fulfilled and shine in life but which you’ve sadly sold for some small change; you’d wish you were never born! A lot of parents don’t even help matters, they are so hungry for the good things of life and they’d rather have you go with one rich man even if he’s going to pummel you to death! I imagine what you girls will do to your daughters in future- if care isn’t taken, you’ll probably sell them right from their childhood. May God deliver this sick society!

    Girls…girls…girls, the earlier you face your potential, make the most of it and map out a comfortable future for you and your unborn children the better. Stop having your head in the clouds, believing you will certainly end up with a rich man in future because you’re beautiful. There are too many beautiful women in the world today who have been turned to cesspits because they are dependent on men for survival! God has given you virtues that could fetch you what the resources of your entire generation can never have. Leave those boys alone for now please! Concentrate on God, your potential, education etc. and come and see if you won’t have more than you can possibly exhaust in a life time. May God bless you and make you Very Great in Jesus name!

    I invite you to follow me on Facebook –Temilolu Okeowo (not Temilolu okeowo girls club or Temilolu Okeowo Girls Club group). Instagram @ Okeowo Temilolu.

    Scam Alert: Temilolu okeowo girls club page and group as well as Temilolu cares for you are fake facebook accounts.

  • UGOCHI IHEZUE: It was great winning the top model title

    UGOCHI IHEZUE: It was great winning the top model title

    Ugochi Mitchel Ihezue is the 30th and current Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria, MBGN. She also emerged in the top 15 contestants at the Miss World beauty pageant last year.  In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, the queen talks about life as a queen, memorable moments and more.

    What is life as Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria like? What is your typical day like?

    The truth of the matter is that life as Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria is totally different from the way of life I was used to. Interestingly, life has become more adventurous because I get to meet high profile people as well as attend high profile events. What this means is that I have to be more cautious about the way I do things: how I walk, talk, dress and behave. In everything I do, I have to bear in mind that all eyes are on me and that there are people who look up to me and I should not fail them.

    What inspired you to go for the contest?

    I have been following this pageant for a while and I must say that some of the ex queens have been a great source of inspiration for me. Interestingly, some of them are actually my role models. Going down memory lane, I would say the lives of some of them inspired me to contest for this position.

    Let’s talk about some memorable moments as a queen. What was it like at the beginning?

    It been a very wonderful experience and I had great expectations at the beginning. Talking about memorable moments, I must say that there have been a lot of memorable moments for me and it began from the day I was crowned as MBGN queen. Some of the memorable experiences for me include visiting victims of abuse, my journey to the Miss World pageant, emerging top 15 and winning the top model title. That is not all. There are so many other high points that I cherish and I can’t start to list now.

    What are some of the challenges encountered?

    Uneasy lies the head that wears the crown. As much has there have been rosy moments, there have also been challenges in different forms. Changing my lifestyle all of a sudden was one, and so many others; but to whom much is given, much is expected, so I have learned to take one day at a time.

    How did you cope with them?

    To cope with the challenges, I learnt to take one day at a time and to always put God first. What I always do is not to look at them as stumbling blocks but to see them as stepping stones. I actually look at them as foundation building activities for the things that I do.

    Tell us about your projects

    I am working on projects that are related to gender-based violence. I am currently working with the Ben Bruce Foundation to fight this problem in our society. If you look around, you would find that everyday there are fresh cases of domestic violence, child molestation, rape and related issues in our society. Unfortunately, this menace continues to increase in spite of some of the campaigns that you hear about.

    On our part, we have visited some victims for counselling. In addition, we have also helped some victims to leave toxic relationships and helped them to start afresh in a unique way. You also have another group; those who have been abused in such a way that they need justice. Here we actually helped some of these victims to get justice and it was a great motivation to see them picking the pieces once again.

    I intend to do more of this as time goes by. The desire here is to make a mark by touching the lives of thousands of women and children, especially those who are going through abuse.

    What lessons have you learnt during your tenure?

    I have learnt to be patient, to accept rejection and to pick myself up after every fail and fall. I have also learnt to understand that there is more to life than meets the eye. In addition to all this, I have learnt to appreciate every little moment of life and to always smile.

    What was the experience like while growing up?

    Going down memory lane, I would say that growing up was indeed very memorable for me. I grew up with four brothers and I went to boarding secondary schools. I can confidently say that my life story, if written down, would make the world’s bestseller list.

    Let’s compare when you started and now, what has changed?

    A lot has changed. I have learnt a lot and some things don’t seem too difficult anymore because I am used to them.  Unlike when I started, I have become I more confident and bold. I no longer feel embarrassed when I go out or when people approach me for different things. As I look back now, I know that there have been lots of changes and I am happy with the way things have turned out now.

    What are some of the changes that you would like to see in the sector?

    There are a lot of things happening now in the sector that I would love to see changed. The first is that I would love to see the government getting more involved in what is happening in the sector. Secondly, it is important for people: both organisers and contestants to stop seeing it as a means to making fast money and fame.

    Thirdly and most importantly, are the bad moral notions people have about pageantry based on past experience. I would prefer that they should be willing to dig deep and see what’s in it for themselves instead of scratching the surface and making assumptions.

    What is your definition of style?

    Style, for me, should be personal and should portray one’s personality. The Nigerian fashion industry is growing so fast and I believe that Nigerian designers are ready to take the world. We have so many creative designers, some of which I have had the pleasure to work with. Most of these Nigerian top designers add their personalities to their designs and that makes every single one of them unique. I think that is an awesome start to the fashion industry in Nigeria and we are going to go places this way, as well as take over the world.

    What are some of the items that you treasure most in your wardrobe?

    My jeans and my T-shirts. I love comfort.

    How do you relax?

    I don’t have any particular routine for relaxation. Sometimes I sleep, or read a book if I hang out with my friends. It depends on my mood.

    Tell us about some of the awards and recognitions in your kitty

    I have quite a few: MBGN top model, Miss World Top Model, Great Ambassadors award and an award of honour from my hometown. I have every intention of expanding this list.

    What about some of the people you admire or role models?

    There are a lot of inspirational women, people I look up to and admire. My mother, Mrs. Ihezue Stella; Maya Angelou; The Obamas; Jennifer Lopez; Agbani Darego; Mrs. Grace Uredi. So many people, the list could go on and on. These people have achieved a lot in their different fields and have left a mark in the sands of time. I want to be like them when I grow up. Lolz

    If you have to advise young people, what would you tell them?

    My advice to young people is that they must never give up on their dreams. Time doesn’t wait for anyone, so keep fighting and keep pushing and never give up. And most importantly, put God first.

    What kinds of books do you like reading?

    Reading is good for relaxation and it gives you insight into so many things. I am a very broad reader; I don’t like to limit myself. I read everything that comes my way. So, you would find me reading books that include children storybooks to motivational pieces, encyclopedias and so many others. I strongly believe that knowledge is an ever-flowing stream and can be gotten from even the most unlikely places.

  • Yemi Alade: My first paid job was painting

    Yemi Alade: My first paid job was painting

    Yemi Eberechi Alade is a successful Nigerian artiste whose music is welcomed worldwide. She recently appeared for the fourth time in Coke Studio, an international music franchise performances from established and emerging artistes alike, and is the only African artiste who has appeared four times in the programme. In this interview with Medinat Kanabe, she talks about her love life, collaboration with Youssoupha and her love for painting. 

    What was the first job that earned you money?

    The first job that earned me money was done way back when I was four or five years old. I used to love to paint, so anytime my dad told me we were having an uncle or aunty around I would go and start painting. I would either paint the house next door or the ball on the floor and every time I painted something and presented it to this aunty or uncle, they would give me money so I started earning money that young.

    Who is Yemi Alade?

    Yemi Alade is an artiste. First of all, I am a child of Mr and Mrs James Alade. Music is what I do. I am just the girl next door. My name is not confusing as people seem to make it look. My middle name is Eberechi because my dad is from Ondo and my mum is from Abia State.

    Sometimes people tell me that I am from Abia State, but let me warn you that my father must not hear this o! I am Yoruba Igbo.

    This is your fourth appearance on Coke Studio, what has the experience being like so far?

    Even though it is my fourth time, the feeling is never old like every time I get the opportunity to be on Coke Studio, there are always new experiences. I always meet new artistes and the music director is always different. I always leave with great experiences, so being on Coke Studio is always an opportunity for me; an opportunity that I always look forward to, so I don’t feel like a veteran at all.

    The theme for the year is discover, what are the exciting things you have discovered so far in the show?

    Yes the theme for this year is discover and for me I think it should be the theme for every year because I keep coming there to discover. Every time I am on Coke Studio I discover new sounds, I discover new ways to actually entertain my audience in terms of the direction of the music, the structure of things. I always discover new artistes from different parts of Africa that I probably never heard their music before until I get to Coke Studio. I always find myself in awe of even the musical direction.

    The musical team is doing a lot; I don’t think a lot of people praise them but they are geniuses.

    What was your experience like working with Youssoupha?

    Yes, this year I was paired with Youssoupha from Congo Kinshaha and he is even based in Paris and Ivory Coast. I am trying to say he is very international and to be sincere I met and encountered his music for the first time on Coke Studio.

    When we were first paired I was told that he speaks more French than English but I said no problem it is going to be a bit of a challenge because as much as I speak French 50 per cent, I wouldn’t fluently hold a conversation in French but I would understand everything you say but I will rather reply in English or a little French.

    Youssoupha made it easy for me because he speaks English. Although not so good, I think his English is just as good as my French, so we sort of like met half way and I am super happy that he let me do the cover for his song les disquesde mon pere which is also a song of his father who is an artiste and he decided to redo one of his songs and I sort of like fell in love with the song because it suited my lifestyle.

    If you watch the song performance you would see that I really was lost in my own space because it was like I was telling a story about my own life.

    What should we be expecting after your collaboration with Youssoupha?

    Other than doing a cover of his song, we also did a feature together and the song is called Fire. It was produced by a Ghanaian, so it is a Ghana- Nigerian-Congolese thing. Since I got back to my country, the airplay of Fire has been massive. All over Africa, I have been seeing tweets, comments and I think there is really something about this one song and I also think Youssoupha and I should go ahead and shoot the video.

    Do you have any plans to collaborate with other Coke Studio Artiste after the show?

    During my time at Coke Studio, the only artiste that I spent time with was Youssoupha, but prior to that week I had heard of other artistes there but the truth is every year that I am on Coke Studio, I end up featuring an artiste from Coke Studio on my project.

    Like in 2016, I featured Nyashinski who is from Kenya on my song called Nakupenda off my Mama Africa album, so you can’t deny music.

    If you were to stand at the end of your career and look back, what would you want to see?

    I am a proper ojukokoro (Oliver Twist). I would like to see many things but I will just say I will like to see a life and a career well spent. I would like to look back and see that my music actually could stand the test of time and that the goal of my music which is to connect good people in the different emotions that they might be going through is actually achieved.

    Even beyond music, I believe that my career is not about music alone, it is also about being able to affect the lives of people around me positively. I hope that my success will not only inspire a large number of people around the world, but it would also help the environment; it would help to make the future better which is why I have been involved in so many campaigns that have to do with the future.

    Are you in a relationship?

    For those tracking my love life, I am single until searching.

    If your life had a theme song, what would that be?

    Can my life possibly be in just one song? It will be too difficult to put my entire life in one song because it would be only be possible if it were a series. Maybe that song isn’t out there yet. Haaa! Ogidi gan.

    Have you ever had a heart break?

    Of course, Johnny was a proper heart break song. He is not the first or only one; so, yes, I have had a heart break. Everybody has a Johnny in their lives so it is not a strange thing.

     

    What was the first job that earned you money?

    The first job that earned me money was done way back when I was four or five years old. I used to love to paint, so anytime my dad told me we were having an uncle or aunty around I would go and start painting. I would either paint the house next door or the ball on the floor and every time I painted something and presented it to this aunty or uncle, they would give me money so I started earning money that young.

    Who is Yemi Alade?

    Yemi Alade is an artiste. First of all, I am a child of Mr and Mrs James Alade. Music is what I do. I am just the girl next door. My name is not confusing as people seem to make it look. My middle name is Eberechi because my dad is from Ondo and my mum is from Abia State.

    Sometimes people tell me that I am from Abia State, but let me warn you that my father must not hear this o! I am Yoruba Igbo.

    This is your fourth appearance on Coke Studio, what has the experience being like so far?

    Even though it is my fourth time, the feeling is never old like every time I get the opportunity to be on Coke Studio, there are always new experiences. I always meet new artistes and the music director is always different. I always leave with great experiences, so being on Coke Studio is always an opportunity for me; an opportunity that I always look forward to, so I don’t feel like a veteran at all.

    The theme for the year is discover, what are the exciting things you have discovered so far in the show?

    Yes the theme for this year is discover and for me I think it should be the theme for every year because I keep coming there to discover. Every time I am on Coke Studio I discover new sounds, I discover new ways to actually entertain my audience in terms of the direction of the music, the structure of things. I always discover new artistes from different parts of Africa that I probably never heard their music before until I get to Coke Studio. I always find myself in awe of even the musical direction.

    The musical team is doing a lot; I don’t think a lot of people praise them but they are geniuses.

    What was your experience like working with Youssoupha?

    Yes, this year I was paired with Youssoupha from Congo Kinshaha and he is even based in Paris and Ivory Coast. I am trying to say he is very international and to be sincere I met and encountered his music for the first time on Coke Studio.

    When we were first paired I was told that he speaks more French than English but I said no problem it is going to be a bit of a challenge because as much as I speak French 50 per cent, I wouldn’t fluently hold a conversation in French but I would understand everything you say but I will rather reply in English or a little French.

    Youssoupha made it easy for me because he speaks English. Although not so good, I think his English is just as good as my French, so we sort of like met half way and I am super happy that he let me do the cover for his song les disquesde mon pere which is also a song of his father who is an artiste and he decided to redo one of his songs and I sort of like fell in love with the song because it suited my lifestyle.

    If you watch the song performance you would see that I really was lost in my own space because it was like I was telling a story about my own life.

    What should we be expecting after your collaboration with Youssoupha?

    Other than doing a cover of his song, we also did a feature together and the song is called Fire. It was produced by a Ghanaian, so it is a Ghana- Nigerian-Congolese thing. Since I got back to my country, the airplay of Fire has been massive. All over Africa, I have been seeing tweets, comments and I think there is really something about this one song and I also think Youssoupha and I should go ahead and shoot the video.

    Do you have any plans to collaborate with other Coke Studio Artiste after the show?

    During my time at Coke Studio, the only artiste that I spent time with was Youssoupha, but prior to that week I had heard of other artistes there but the truth is every year that I am on Coke Studio, I end up featuring an artiste from Coke Studio on my project.

    Like in 2016, I featured Nyashinski who is from Kenya on my song called Nakupenda off my Mama Africa album, so you can’t deny music.

    If you were to stand at the end of your career and look back, what would you want to see?

    I am a proper ojukokoro (Oliver Twist). I would like to see many things but I will just say I will like to see a life and a career well spent. I would like to look back and see that my music actually could stand the test of time and that the goal of my music which is to connect good people in the different emotions that they might be going through is actually achieved.

    Even beyond music, I believe that my career is not about music alone, it is also about being able to affect the lives of people around me positively. I hope that my success will not only inspire a large number of people around the world, but it would also help the environment; it would help to make the future better which is why I have been involved in so many campaigns that have to do with the future.

    Are you in a relationship?

    For those tracking my love life, I am single until searching.

    If your life had a theme song, what would that be?

    Can my life possibly be in just one song? It will be too difficult to put my entire life in one song because it would be only be possible if it were a series. Maybe that song isn’t out there yet. Haaa! Ogidi gan.

    Have you ever had a heart break?

    Of course, Johnny was a proper heart break song. He is not the first or only one; so, yes, I have had a heart break. Everybody has a Johnny in their lives so it is not a strange thing.

     

  • For old time’s sake

    The lyrics from the music were good and soothing. It talked about the good times as well as forgiveness for old time’s sake. Of course, it acknowledged that hurting was a part of loving and that moving on was the best tonic ever. It reminded her about the past and the need feel good once more.

    He was the best thing that happened to her life at that point. They actually met in her third year at the university. At that point, Deola didn’t want to be in any relationship at all. She had gone through hell and back and the memories from the break-up with Banji made her think that all men were bad.

    It was just too bad! But looking back many months after, she kept wondering what really went wrong. How can something that on the right foundation just cave in like that? The saddest part of the emotional bargain was that she invested everything she had in the relationship. She held nothing back and had this conviction that it was just the right place to be and the right thing to do.

    Scroll down memory lane and she tried to understand the reason for the break up as well as the things that led to it all. Banji, the lover boy was her man on campus. Initially, she rejected the offer to be his girl because there were so many other girls competing for his attention. The more she said no, to his request the more adamant he became and just refused to take no for an answer,

    Her friends then intervened and somehow she became convinced that Banji was really serious about the relationship. Should I say yes, should I say no? Well at this point, she had become convinced that the lover boy was truly in love (lust).

    They went everywhere together and did virtually everything together. They became the toast of town and she felt really loved by this jolly good fellow. Could it be a love made in heaven? ‘The climax of our relationship was when his mother celebrated her birthday and he invited me to the party. His family was really wonderful and somehow I just couldn’t believe it was all happening to me”.

    She definitely had the best of the emotional time and just when she thought this Romeo was hers for life, the emotional pendulum swung in another direction. “Initially, I just noticed that Banji’s attitude changed towards me. He got angry with things he once smiled and laughed about. We started having shouting matches and argued each time we came together. Shortly after this he made himself scarce and was always going on trips that he just could not explain.”

    Our friend simply got fed up and was thinking of what to do about the love going (or gone) sour. It was at this point that the new chic disorganizing their love quadrangle surfaced. Now, that she has found the emotional thief, what is she going to do about it ? The best option would be to give her a yellow card, warning her never to trespass on her love corridor again.

    Sadly, things had fallen apart and her emotional center could no longer hold again. The new heart was fully in charge and she had fallen off the cliff. This actually earned her the red card from the lady she thought was taking away what was already hers.

    “So, you are the pretender that has been hanging around my emotional throne all this while. I have heard so much about you and somehow, I don’t think I can take this anymore. Banji is mine and I am ready to do anything to make sure that he is mine forever.  If you like go as far as getting pregnant for him, I do everything possible to keep him. If you do not want to be tormented, then you better walk away from this relationship now”, she warned’.

    Was she going to walk away from this relationship just like this, she wondered at that point. The bitter truth is that it was wise to let go. The lady in question, she later found out was Banji’s ex- girlfriend. They had actually separated before she met Banji but someone the lady refused to let go. Now, she is back in his life and unfortunately for our friend, Banji decided to go back to her for old time’s sake.

    Lonely and alone, it was tough going through weeks and months of rejection. She practically broke down and everyone knew what had happened to her. “Are you sure that you did not do something that annoyed Banji or made him change his mind about you, many queried. No, there was nothing like that. She did not offend him in anyway, the only snag was that his ex came back and he made a u-turn.

    Two years after that experience, there a new heart lurking around the emotional corridor. Everyone thinks he would make a better replacement for the lost heart. Even if he fits into the vacuum created by Banji, she is still worried and skeptical about the pains of the heart break. The big question now is whether to open her heart for this lover boy? Would he be sincere or would he also run away when she needs him most.

  • ‘It’s not my cup of tea what people think’

    ‘It’s not my cup of tea what people think’

     For nearly two decades, Vanessa Nzediegwu has crafted her trade in Nollywood as an actress. Last year, she made her debut as a director with her movie, ‘What Lies Within’ which shone at ZIFF and BON Awards. In this interview with JOE AGBRO JR., she talks about her work, life and experiences. Excerpts

    OUR movie, ‘What Lies Within’, was your debut as a director. How was the experience like? Did anything prepare you for it?

    The experience was amazing because even though there was this fear of the unknown before we rolled camera, I settled in once the camera rolled knowing that whatever direction I take would determine the fate of the movie. I had also done a few clips since I left the film academy some years back so it was something I knew I had to do. The cast and crew brought their A games which also helped me focus on what I had to do.

    The movie won at Zuma and also at BON, even dusting movies from established directors. How did that make you feel?

    To be honest, it was already a win for me that my first feature film was nominated in the best categories for both BON and Zuma film festival, but I wasn’t prepared for the awards it eventually bagged as best film and best director, amongst other awards, and amongst other great and respectable film makers. I’m very grateful and appreciate the fact that my effort was recognised positively and it only goes to reassure me that I’m probably doing something right and can only get better from here.

    Many women have suffered domestic violence which ‘What Lies Within’ focuses on. How were you feeling while making the movie?

    The movie was set with intentions to entertain the audience and also to awake the consciousness of things happening around us. However, one of the many subtexts in the movie is relatable to experiences from close friends and family, so it was an emotional and very sensitive phase for me as I relived their experiences.

    Why did you produce ‘What Lies Within’ with Paul Utomi and Tope Tedela?

    I’ve always wanted to make films and kind of share the idea with people I knew, but it never really felt right at any point to start until I met Paul Utomi and Tope Tedela on a film set. Like every other person, we discussed how we wanted to make films but I noticed they were as passionate and excited as I was about it; the vibe around both of them was positive and throughout our stay on the film set, I learned how transparent, honest and trustworthy they both were. I knew at that point that they were the right team I needed to kick start my film career as a producer and director.

    How was it working with them?

    Working with them was tremendously great, I’ve heard a lot of people go their separate ways before a project is completed, but for these two amazing guys, it’s been an awesome sail and we all know when to let go just to move to the next level. I’ll love to work with them over and over again.

    What were the challenges you had making the movie?

    Being a first time director or producer, you have little or nothing to show your capability and convince investors about what you can do. Everyone wants to do business with already established names, so although we had decided to shoot a film, and had a great script, funding was a major problem. We put in all we had and it still wasn’t enough so we had to improvise and cut down on a lot of things because the show must go on. Thank God for a few family and friends who eventually saw the determination and hopped on the support wagon financially and otherwise.

    What would you suggest is the way to eradicate or reduce ‘domestic violence’?

    I believe one of the best ways to eradicate abuse is to stop people from becoming abusers in the first place. Kids who are victims of or witnesses to abuse in their homes are most likely to become abusers later in life. So a focus on what a child sees and hears from their families, neighbours, role models on and off screen and in social arenas, may have an impact. Awareness of a broad cultural message especially targeted at kids is one way to go, amongst others.

    Tell me about your pre-Nollywood time and how you found yourself in Nollywood?

    As a creative person, I wanted to lend my voice to the growth of the industry instead of criticising their efforts on projects, so that birthed the urge and made me start searching. Advice from the renowned Izu Ojukwu helped me prepare for what to come because I went on to join a dramatic group where I eventually met and shared a stage with the late Sam Loco Efe who urged me to register and get screened to be part of the Nollywood industry and I haven’t looked back since then.

    How was the reaction of your family when you took to acting?

    I grew up with my Aunt in Kano State and she supported me all the way even before I started acting professionally. She would always remind me how creative I was from dressing her up for outings to watching movies into the night and yet would be the first to get ready for school the following day. She always enjoyed listening to my stories from movies I had seen, and she believed so much in me even more than I did, so it wasn’t a problem when I told her I wanted to pursue a career in acting. I guess she would have been surprised if I did otherwise. It wasn’t also an option for my parents when they learned that I was starting a career in acting.

    How was growing up like for you?

    So I grew up with my mum’s elder sister and had the best education, although during the riot in Kano State, we had to leave so I ended up going to a boarding primary school, then to a boarding secondary school. All that boosted my self-esteem, made me independent, confident and a pace setter. I attended about three to four primary schools, then moved to Federal Government Girls College, Ikot-Obio-Itong, Akwa Ibom State. I then joined the movie industry up until 2009 when I went to the New York film Academy in California.

    Does acting pay your bills or what other things do you do to make a living?

    Well, I had to leave acting for a while for the art world. I founded a group called ETA (Extremely Talented Artists) but eventually found a way to juggle between both worlds as they’re both art.

    Aside writing, acting, and now directing, you also paint, what other hidden talent do you have?

    (Lol) So I edited my film which won an award for best editor, I believe that also makes an editor, right? I sculpt, use to be a presenter, okay I guess I’m good here. Lol, I shouldn’t be jack of all trade.

     

    Culturally, many Nigerians perceive actresses as loose women. Does that worry you?

    I love my job, so if I work hard to earn a living, preach, educate and at the same time put a smile on someone’s face with my craft then it’s not my cup of tea what other people think. I can only be a role model to prove otherwise and let them know that film business is serious business.

    You’ve been single since your entrance into Nollywood. How old are you and when do we expect to hear the wedding bells?

    (Lol) I’m old enough to let you know once the wedding bell is around the corner.

    As a beautiful woman, you’ll surely get attention from men. How do you manage men who ‘toast’ you?

    Politely decline.

    What is the most bizarre thing a male fan has ever done to you?

    Once I was walking down the street and there was I guy peeing at a corner and immediately he sighted me, he started screaming my character name and followed me just to say hello and ask questions about some things the character did. People were looking at us and laughing because the guy still had his hands on his property sticking out.

    Have you been sexually harassed in Nollywood, and if yes, would you like to share the experience?

    I believe sexual harassment is in different forms and in various industries. What matters is how you decide to fight it. My best option is politely decline, which will be hell for a while, but don’t quit. Be the best at what you do, make them hunger for your talent, and whether or not they harass you, truth is every business-minded person wants to get the best to succeed. They’ll eventually respect and come back for your craft.

    It’s 2018, what should fans expect from you?

    So 2017 was a launch into my directorial debut, but 2018 is to make a statement which is that “I’m here to stay”. I’ll work hard till I will not need to introduce myself globally. I’ll let my work do the talking.

  • 40 Golden quotes on chastity by Evangelist Temilolu Okeowo

    1. Girls, do you know you aren’t ORDINARY BEINGS? YOU ARE SPIRITUAL HOUSES WAITING TO EXPLODE IN SIGNS AND WONDERS. STOP DEFILING YOUR BODY!
    2. Girls, once you get DEFLOWERED, life is never the same again. There are too many DIRE CONSEQUENCES YOU CAN’T HANDLE. WAIT TILL YOUR WEDDING NIGHT!
    3. Girls, YOUR CHASTITY/HOLINESS could end up your saving grace when the enemy wants to destroy you! ASK DANIEL! STAY CHASTE! Dan.6:22
    4. Girls, keep away from friends who say “body no be wood!” If you can’t subdue your flesh, YOU CAN NEVER BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR DESTINY!
    5. You cry of demonic oppression in your sleep and KEEP DEFILING GOD’S TEMPLE! God knows those who are His! Repent and be free! 2 Timothy 2:19
    6. Sleeping with your lecturer is laying a cruel foundation of SEXUAL EXPLOITATION, SLAVERY AND BONDAGE! MAY GOD ARREST EVIL LECTURERS!
    7. Girls, ungodly sex DEMONIZE YOU. PURITY makes you TOO HOT FOR DEMONS and makes even your husband melt at your presence forever! Wow!
    8. Girls, your tongue is the pilot of your life! Talk to your body before your destiny crashes into smithereens! Resist fleshly lust!
    9. THROUGH SEX, Too many girls have exchanged WHAT CAN BUY THEM AN AIRCRAFT FOR BRAZILIAN HAIR! May you recover your stolen virtues!

    10.Girls, any guy who asks you for sex before marriage IS NOT PERMITTED BY GOD IN YOUR LIFE! Anyone not permitted is a LOADED DESTRUCTIVE WEAPON. RUN! RUN!! RUN!!!

    1. Girls, your make-up is on fleek, hair on fleek, gele on fleek! If your soul is not GOD-FLEEK, you are but CHAFF! Headed straight to hell. BE SOLD-

    OUT TO GOD AND ENJOY ETERNAL LIFE!

    12.Girls…girls…don’t let guys/men turn you to an EXPRESS-WAY OF FILTH! IT WILL COME BACK TO HUNT YOU! Wait till your wedding night!

    13.Girls, may the fire of God separate you from ENERGY VAMPS, VISION BLURRERS, DESTINY DISTRACTORS AND SATANIC BOYFRIENDS in Jesus name!

    1. Dear SINGLE LADY, the best you can do for yourself now is to EXPLORE AND GET SOAKED IN THE SPUERNATURAL! YOUR LIFE WILL MOVE SPEED!
    2. Girls, guys, DO YOU KNOW YOUR DESTINY COULD BE ATTACHED TO YOUR VIRGINITY? Study Joseph, Esther, Mary!
    3. Girls, believe me, A POLLUTED DESTINY MORE OFTEN THAN NOT ATTRACTS EVIL MEN! YOU HAVE JUST 1 LIFE TO LIVE! STAY CHASTE AND ENJOY LIFE!

    17.As a virgin till marriage, do you know you can dictate the type of marriage you want? Did you know as a virgin there’s something in you that can attract and deliver to you your original, paired up with you from heaven?

    1. Girls, no man should determine your destiny! You were created to be MAN’S BLESSING NOT HIS TOY OR SLAVE. SURRENDER TO GOD AND LET HIM FINE-TUNE YOU!
    2. In a world where 14-year-olds are engaging in sex like an indoor game, a lady who keeps herself till her 20’s or 30’s is made of the rarest type of gem!
    3. Ladies, believe it or not, with God in your life, you’ve not missed anything! If you missed marrying the richest man in the world because you refused to engage in pre-marital sex, I assure you his master’s master is on the way to ask for your hand in marriage.

    21.A virgin may end up marrying the devil if care isn’t taken! STAY CHASTE, ACTIVATE THE POWER OF GOD IN YOU AND MAGNETIZE YOUR DIVINE PARTNER!

    1. Girls, you want to be married someday? You need SPIRITUAL MATURITY! IT DOESN’T COME EASY! IT IS A SCHOOL YOU MUST ATTEND! ENROL NOW!

    23.Girls, when you struggle for a GUY’S ATTENTION, YOU SET UP YOURSELF FOR SATANIC EXPLOITATION! Does the bible recommend boyfriends?

    24.Girls…girls…girls, under 20, NO GUY DESERVESYOUR ATTENTION more keenly than THE HOLY SPIRIT AND YOUR STUDIES! These two will go a long way in determining the QUALITY and ALTITUDE of your life! May you receive sense in Jesus name!

    25.Girls, if God showed  you your GLORIOUS ORIGINAL, YOU WILL HAVE LESS TIME FOR BOYFRIENDS and get busy pursuing your destiny! May God open your eyes!

    To be continued.

     

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    Scam Alert: Temilolu okeowo girls club page and group as well as Temilolu cares for you are fake facebook accounts.

  • Moving on and getting over

    When it came to ladies, Debo liked them slim and trendy. But when he met Matilda, he changed his definition of a chic gal because she was on the round side. Her face was very attractive and each time he looked at her, he was convinced that this was the gal. They got talking and he really liked her but there was a snag. Matilda only had a school leaving certificate and he decided to sponsor her to study in the university.

    He invested everything to get her admitted and paid almost all the bills because she was an orphan. Everything went well but when she got into her final year, somebody stole her heart. “She met this other guy and before I knew it she told me it was over. She told me that what she felt for me was brotherly love and she just could not marry me. I was devastated.”

    Frantically, Debo made a number of moves to get her friends to remember the good old days, his emotional investments as well as his genuine love for her. “Only God knows what the gentleman did to her. She just did not look back again. Then suddenly, she changed her room on campus and I just could not trace her at a point. It took me a while to get back the pieces again.

    “Then I met another gal, this time around she was the slim type and I realised that Matilda was a mistake after all. She came back eight months after begging for forgiveness, the Casanova she fell for has finally thrown her out of his heart. He was also on her trail; around it was not to conquer her love or affection but to avenge the assault done to his emotion and pocket.”

    Like Debo, Tony feels so bad about the gal he invested his heart in. She dashed all his emotional hopes that he subsequently hardened his heart towards every other babe that came his way.

    “Women, I don’t think I want to waste any precious energy towards them. Once bitten, twice shy. They just cannot be trusted. They prefer men who deal with them and make them cry. If you are too soft, then they are likely to take you for granted,” he once told a pal.

    They had dated for about a year and it was something everyone described then as a sizzling romance. They actually inspired a number of other couples and everyone thought that the romance was actually made in heaven.

    Along the line, Tony lost his job and things began to fall apart. A few friends he ‘banked’ on to support him turned their backs on him and he handled the situation as one of those things. But the most painful thing he did not bargain for was his dear Remi. He had invested so much in her life and it was an opportunity for her to reciprocate all his kind gestures. Unfortunately, she showed him a different personality and it was a great disappointment for him. “The first two months after I lost my job, I was able to manage somehow. But by the third month, things got really bad and I asked her to give me some money which I would return later.

    “To my utmost surprise, she started avoiding me like a plague. I went to her house at different times and I was told that she was not at home. On each of those occasions, I heard her voice inside the house and I felt very disappointed and humiliated. How can a girl who promised to love me treat me this way? Can I still continue to love her after what she has done for me?”

    It was a very rough period in his life and she abandoned him and moved on. Three years down the line, this Romeo was back on his feet financially and his emotions had stabilised. A lady who understood the secret of giving and taking in relationship had stolen his heart and they were ready to sign the dotted lines together. It was at this point that the prodigal lover made a u-turn, realised her mistakes and wanted to claim this abandoned ‘mandate’.

    Now the song on her lips has changed. Was he ready to accept her and take her back into his life? Who was he going to drop now, his original love or this new found love? Well, the emotional ball is in his court. Our dear friend has repented. If only he could read her mind, the only lyrics it would be churning out are…… ‘Please come back to me’. But on a second thought, love is not for those who do not know how to make up their mind about what they want. Well, why did she allow him to wander away if she loved and admired him this much? Why was she playing to the gallery when it was obvious that this guy was good enough to be Mr. Right?

    Well, the truth is that we all make mistakes. Sometimes deliberately, or just because we fail to take a deeper look at the object (s) of our affection. Most times, we keep chasing shadows and allow what we would have cherished to slip away.

    Anyway, now that she has come to this realisation, she can still plead for forgiveness. After all, to err is human and a loving heart should not find it so difficult to forgive. Real love should be humble and flexible. If it is so rigid then it was never love in the first place.

    Restitution? No way! That would not solve the emotional problems that she had created. She had all the opportunity to show that she cared but she did not make use of the opportunities that he provided.

    At that point, there were too many suitors and she got so carried away. Now that she has suddenly discovered that he was the best thing that ever happened to her, he just wasn’t available again. It was damn too late.

  • Ovire Enoho: My dad is my greatest influence

    Ovire Enoho: My dad is my greatest influence

    Ovire Peggy Enoho is a Nollywood actress, model and fashion entrepreneur. The Delta State-born beauty queen won Miss Galaxy International Nigeria pageant in 2007 and Miss Tourism Delta. The fast-rising actress who also runs a fashion business, Peggy’s world, shares with Adetutu Audu her journey to fame and how her father has been her greatest influence.

    How has the Nollywood industry rubbed on you?

    Yeah, it is fun, it is stressful but I don’t think anything in life comes easy. So, it is fun as long as what you are doing is fun to you, you are enjoying it; for me everything is fine.

    You studied Banking and Finance, what inspired you into acting?

    I have been passionate about being an actress all my life, so when the opportunity presented itself, I ran with it immediately. Great actors and actresses such as Nkem Owoh, Ngozi Ezeonu, Angelina Jolie, to mention but a few, inspire me a lot. Basically, I just hope that the Nigerian movie industry gets bigger and better, because we are still growing.

    Which one is your first movie and how much were you paid?

    My first movie was ‘Best of Enemies’. Acting doesn’t pay my bills for now because I am also into business. I own a fashion outlet in Ikota Shopping Complex called Hubs Couture. I did not do it for the money per se. I did it because it is something that I am passionate about. Few years from now, I hope to see myself up there; be a better actress and being able to touch lives with what I do. I don’t want to be the girl with the pretty face who can’t do anything. I just want to impact on people’s lives.

    You joined Nollywood a few years ago, how has the journey been?

    My experience in the industry so far has been fun. I decided to go into acting because I’ve always loved acting and I was given a platform to act and I did. I got into Nollywood through a friend, a very good friend of mine who is into acting. She’s been there for a couple of years and so she told someone about me and that was how I started.

    So far, I’ve done ‘Best of Enemies’ ‘Troubled King’, ‘Unknown’, ‘Worst of Friends’, ‘Worst Sin’ and so on. My first movie was ‘Best of Enemies’. I have also gone to the New York Film Academy to hone my skills.

    When would you say your breakthrough came?

    It would be Husbands of Lagos. I feel so blessed to have been part of that project. I was on vacation when I was invited to take part in the series. Everywhere I go to now, even Europe, people recognise me as a result of that television series. Through it, I got the nickname Ego Oyibo.

    So, how do you strike a balance between modelling, acting and business?

    I find fulfilment in everything I do at the moment. It is easy to juggle all of them. I have assistants and sales representatives who stand in when I am not available or when I am on a movie locations. Modelling doesn’t take too much of my time either because it comes once in a while.

    You were once a beauty queen. How has winning Miss Galaxy impacted your life?

    As a student in Delta State University, I emerged winner of the Most Beautiful Girl on campus in 2003. That was a stepping stone to other pageants. I went for Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria in 2005 and emerged as the third runner up. That took me to Miss Tourism Delta, which I also won. The last pageant I won was Miss Galaxy International, Nigeria. I am not thinking of doing more pageants. I have decided to move forward. Life is in stages. I have left the stage of pageantry. Winning Miss Galaxy changed my perspective about life, it helped me to be more coordinated, get a wider view about life; it has impacted on my life positively. I leveraged on the crown to achieve greater heights, which include being the face of top Nigerian and international brands such as Bacchus tonic wine, featuring in Nollywood movies, my first being ‘Best of Enemies’, and running my boutique (Hugs Couture), amongst others.

    What gave you edge above others?

    God, confidence, beauty and brain.

    Did you engage in any pet project during your reign?

    My pet project during my reign was ‘Help for the African Child’, where I visited children lacking in rural areas and supplied them items, food especially. You will be amazed at how happy a N20 pack of biscuit can make a hungry child.

    It has become a fad for celebs to visit orphanages during birthday.  You also did. Why did you do it?

    I wanted to go somewhere people do not visit regularly, so a friend told me about ‘Sought after Children Orphanage’. So I visited the orphanage, asked them what they lacked in the place for the kids and I went there with my friends on my birthday with the items. Besides, I am in a position to understand how it feels not to have a mother by one’s side as one grows up. I grew up without my mother who passed away a long time ago; so to see kids smile, laugh and dance with me was a thing of joy to me.

    Who influenced you early in life?

    God and my dad have always been the greatest influence in my life. As regards my childhood, every moment of my life spent while growing up was beautiful and very memorable.

    How do you maintain your shape?

    I watch what I eat. I have discovered that eating right works for me. As much as possible, I stay away from carbohydrates. I eat twice a day at the maximum. Once it is 7pm, no food gets into my stomach, except fruits or water. What fashion item is hot for you now?

    One fashion accessory I love so much is shoes.

    How would you describe your style?

    Fashion is not a display of wealth. Style defines who you are.  Even before you introduce yourself, your style should tell people about you. My style depends on the function and how I want people to view me. If I am going to the office I have to dress properly. If it is a weekend and I am going to the cinemas, I have to dress differently too. I am not a one-sided dresser. I dress the way I feel I should. I could put on a pair of jeans and trainers and there are times I wear knickers and a T-shirt. I will never wear a tight jump suit because it does not look good on me. I think every lady should know what flatters her.

    What has being a celeb robbed you of?

    Being a celeb has not really stopped me from doing things I love to do. I still go/out sometimes with my good old friends when I am not working.

    Can you recount your experience first time on stage?

    My first time on stage was different. It was strange acting with people who were good at it, but I knew it was what I wanted. I was bit on the edge, but after one scene, I felt more relaxed and everything went well. I have worked with top actresses like Mercy Johnson, Tonto Dike and many others. Basically, I just hope that the Nigerian movie industry gets bigger and better, because we are still growing.

    What lesson has life taught you?

    Life has taught me that nothing comes easy but with hard-work and dedication you are headed for the top.

    I have also had to keep learning in order to get better at what I do and I’m always optimistic.

    What is your take on bleaching by some ladies in Nigeria?

    Truly, black is beautiful and everyone is beautiful. If any lady decides to be fair or white in complexion, I think it’s their choice and they should go for it. If they feel comfortable to turn from black to white, I see no problem in that. Everyone has reasons for their actions. Some will say Nigerian men do not appreciate dark ladies, but the question is when they were dark in complexion, what did they do to make their skin attractive rather than turning from black to white? There are lots of things they can do to glow than becoming fair or white.

    Being in the limelight has its own challenges, kindly share yours with us

    There is no profession that doesn’t have its challenges. My challenges have given me fame, it has made me stronger, it has given me connections and it has given me a lot of respect and acceptance in the society.

    How long do you intend to stay in acting?

    Forever. It is something I love doing and derive pleasure in.

    What does it take to be a successful actress?

    One must be patient because you can’t be successful in a day, no matter the profession you are in. Be focused, believe in yourself, learn from others and never stay away from God. With that, the sky will be your starting point.