Category: Glamour

  • MICHELLE DEDE – I admire Oprah Winfrey’s relentless spirit

    MICHELLE DEDE – I admire Oprah Winfrey’s relentless spirit

    Michelle Dede, daughter of Nigeria’s former envoy to Ethiopia, is a multi-talented TV presenter. She co-hosted the first and only edition of Big Brother Nigeria. She is a former co-host of Ebony Life Moments with Mo. She co-produced Flower girl and she acted in Desperate Housewives Africa.
    In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, she talks about her passion, early dreams and her role in the movie, What Lies Within.

    What gives you inspiration to do the things you do?

    God’s direction, passion for what I do, the fear of failure, perseverance and the desire to succeed.

    Who or what do you consider as the greatest influence in your life and career?

    Without a doubt, God! He led me into TV presenting and then acting.

    Let’s compare when you started and now, what has changed?

    The entertainment industry has evolved and is still evolving.  When I first came to Nigeria in 2006, many people claimed they didn’t watch home grown productions, now people anticipate the new cinema releases and actively discuss them. It’s an exciting time for the Nigerian film and television industry and I’m honoured to be part of it.

    What are some of the changes that you would like to see in the creative sector?

    In the creative sector, I would like to see more structures put into place to ensure better working conditions and pay for both crew and cast. It is also very important to have proper distribution channels for both large and independent productions, and more work for cast, based on their ability and talent, not just about their celebrity status.

    What is your definition of style?

    For me, my definition of style would be expressing your individuality through design and fashion. I believe that life is too short to look the same way every day, so it is exciting to experiment through fashion.

    What are some of the items that you treasure most in your wardrobe?

    Some of the items that I treasure in my wardrobe are my jumpsuits and jeans. They can be dressed up or down to suit any occasion.

    How do you relax?

    When it comes to relaxation, I prefer watching television series. When I am not doing this, then it would be going to the cinema, having dinner with friends, attending exhibitions, swimming and having spa days. Of course, that is when my work schedule permits it with free days.

    Tell us about some of your awards and recognition

    I have been an actor for two and a half years now. I haven’t won any award, however I have received nominations, including an AMVCA nomination.

    Let’s talk about the people you admire and role models.

    Professionally, my role models include Meryl Streep, Daniel Day Lewis, Viola Davis, Leonardo DiCaprio, Johnny Depp and Garry Oldman . These are actors that I admire greatly, because of their talent and ability to completely transform into and portray so many different characters of different backgrounds. They do so effortlessly and convincingly. To act alongside each of them or one of them, would be a dream come true.

    I admire Oprah Winfrey, because she has built a legacy that will outlive her. An empire that isn’t just about her wealth, but about her purpose, about her reputation, character and relentless spirit.

    I also admire Ryan Seacrest and Ik Osakioduwa; these are TV hosts that are at the top of their game on two different continents. All three are professionals who I’d love to be mentored by and learn from.

    If you had to advise young people, what would you tell them?

    For young people, my advice would be, ‘never take no for an answer. If you knock on one door and it doesn’t open, try another. Don’t compare your life journey with anyone else’s, focus on your own!’

    It is also very important to keep learning and improving upon the skills you have. This can be done through courses or work, even after you become successful, because when you stop learning, you’ll stop growing and evolving!

    There will be days when you feel lost and want to give up, hold onto God’s word; your faith and belief will be what keeps you going!

    Did you have an alternative career before this? What was the experience like?

    Yes, I did. I was doing something before acting, TV presenting and mc’ing events. When I left university in the United Kingdom, I worked in television marketing there. It was very different to what I’m currently doing, as it was a corporate environment.

    What dreams did you have about life while growing up?

    I wanted to become a fashion designer and that was why I studied fashion design/fashion marketing in the university, but I ended up working in television marketing. Interestingly, it was a holiday in Lagos that led to a career in media and entertainment. God clearly had other plans for me.

    How did your parents impact on your career choice?

    They were supportive of my initial career choice. When I came to Nigeria, my career changed and they were a little apprehensive. When my passion and focus became evident to them, they became very supportive.

    Where would you like to be in the next five years?

    In the next five years, I would like to be working with the best TV and film productions in Africa, the USA and UK.

    Can you tell us about your role in the movie, “What Lies Within”?

    In the movie “What Lies Within”, I play Fiona, the quintessential perfect, loving housewife, who cooks, cleans. She is very dutiful but has a dark secret and alter ego.

    Take us through the process of immersing yourself in your role?

    Acting is very interesting and it brings out your creativity in different ways. I transformed myself into the character, by imagining myself having gone through some of what my character went through as a child. It is interesting, because trying to put myself in Fiona’s shoes made it easy and so I could understand why she became this nice woman on the outside who had a completely opposite persona. This way I was able to become this character, without judging her.

    Do you share any personal connection with your role?

    Every actor has to find some connection with the characters they play, otherwise it’s difficult to do the character justice. The only trait Fiona and I share is that we are both caring. Other than that, no other similarities, as she is duplicitous.

    What makes “What Lies Within” unique or what thrills you about the movie?

    It’s a drama thriller, with suspense and it has unexpected twists. The story line hasn’t been covered in films here previously. That’s what makes it unique!

    What was it like working with the cast and crew?

    It was great, especially watching and learning from actors with several years of experience. Filming from 8am till 3am on some days, is always challenging, but it comes with the business we are in, so we all pulled through as a team to get the job done.

    In your opinion, why should Nigerian cinema viewers watch out for “What Lies Within”?

    They will be entertained, left trying to figure out which character is guilty, and the suspense and twists will keep them guessing.

    How would you assess our designers at the moment?

    80% of my clothes are from Nigerian designers, so I’m sure that can give you an idea of why I’m a big supporter of made in Nigeria designs. In the past few years, the Nigerian fashion industry has grown to a level where many designers like Lanre daSilva Ajayi, Lisa Folawiyo, Maki Oh and Bridget Awosika, Grey and many others have become brands that not only Nigerians, but also consumers in the west, as well as those in the rest of the African continent, now covet. I’m so happy that we finally want to buy Nigerian made brands, as much as we want foreign brands. Yes, there are luxury brands abroad that many people want more, but the gap is getting smaller each year. Like our music and film industries that have gone from “Nigeria to the world”, our fashion industry is doing the same; that is something we should all be proud of.

    Let’s talk about what you consider as the turning points in your career

    Coming to Nigeria on holiday and getting to host the first season of Big Brother Nigeria was the first turning point. Had I not been in Lagos in early 2006, I wouldn’t have ended up going for the Big Brother Nigeria auditions and getting the job. As it was the first time I had ever presented anything on TV, it is still the major turning point for me as a TV host. I went from being a novice with no experience, to learning fast on the job. 2014 was another turning point for me, as it was the beginning of my acting career. Actors Chica Chukwu and Uche Jumbo convinced me that I could play a part in Uche’s film “Almost Perfect” and gave me a role that turned from two scenes to more. Although I did it at that point because they believed I could, I wasn’t actively thinking of acting as a career at that point. I’m grateful to Chika for believing I could do it. Then in October 2014, I landed a lead role in ELTV’s African adaptation of “Desperate Housewives” playing Tari Gambadia (Susan Meyer in the original series). My friend Thelma Okodua Ojiji Jet pushing me to audition for over a month, thanks to her I went. I don’t believe in coincidences, I believe God got her to keep pushing me to go for it and try. I would say that was officially my baptism of fire, as I went from being a TV host to an actor within the four and a half months of the production. Knowing that the producers here and Disney approved the cast, eventually helped get rid of my doubts that I couldn’t play the part convincingly. Positive feedback from Nigerian producers, directors and audiences alike gave me a further nod to accept that I did indeed play Tari convincingly, which led to me officially taking the leap into acting as a career that has developed into a passion.

    Which is your favourite holiday spot, country; and what do you find interesting there?

    Kenya, namely Mombasa and Naivasha. Both are amazing holiday destinations. My friend from high school in Ethiopia and I went on a road trip from Nairobi to Mombasa, which took seven hours. It was one of the most amazing and adventurous holidays I’ve had in years. Yes, I’ve been to zoos and seen wildlife, but seeing some of “the big five” walking around or crossing the road was beautiful to behold. We also went hiking in the gorge in Naivasha National Park for three hours where “Lara Croft Tomb Raider” was filmed, swam in a natural sulphur pool in the middle of a the park and experienced the wonders of nature in a way I hadn’t done since I left Ethiopia as a teenager. We stopped at several places on the road trip, including a vista where we got amazing views of the Rift Valley. It was breathtaking!

    In Mombasa, I went snorkelling in the wonderous turquoise waters of the Indian Ocean, caught starfish and also went kayaking. The powder soft white sand beaches on the coast line are something everyone should experience. As someone who spent most of their life in the west, now that I live here, I truly believe some of the most beautiful holiday destinations are on the African continent. People just need to be open to travelling and discovering those hidden gems.

    Do you have young people that you are mentoring?

    Yes I do. Many people email or send direct messages on social media asking for mentorship. It’s often tricky trying to separate those who are serious from those who aren’t. Fortunately, I’ve found two who are. One in particular stands out as she is a fantastic writer and poet. She originally was trying to find her feet, considered modelling as well as presenting, but now she seems to be focused on her writing. She is a University of Port Harcourt student in her final year. I believe she will one day be an amazing author or screen writer and broadcaster. She seems to have shied away from the latter, but I’m certain she would make a fantastic TV host in future. She has been through certain challenges, has overcome them, continues to keep learning and will go on to bigger and better things.

  • Dangerous manicures to avoid

    Dangerous manicures to avoid

    Getting a manicure should be an opportunity to pamper yourself as you beautify your digits; unfortunately many ladies fail to realize that they could actually be putting their lives in danger at the manicurist. How? Investigations reveal that quite a number of nail studios pose a health hazard to clients due to their insanitary conditions. Furthermore lovers of acrylic nails need to be wary of a dangerous substance some contain, Methyl Metacrylate; a banned substance in many states in the US. Here are some of the dangers of exposure to MMA.

    MMA (Methyl Methacrylate) is an ingredient that was commonly used in early nail enhancements. It was used by orthopedic surgeons during bone replacements surgeries as bone ‘cement or grout’ and it has also been used in flooring products. Unfortunately it was not designed to be in contact with human skin. In the 1970s, the US Food and Drug Administration received a number of injury complaints associated with the use of MMA. As such, the FDA stated that the substance is poisonous. MMA is banned in 30 states.

    It is said that MMA can cause cancer, nail infections, respiratory problems, eye, nose and throat irritation, permanent nail deformities and allergic reactions. How? In order for MMA to adhere to the natural nail, the nail has to be buffed and etched, significantly. This procedure thins and weakens the natural nail, and puts it at a higher risk of absorption. While the strength of MMA is effective as an adhesion for bone and teeth in the medical and dental industries, it is not suitable for soft tissue such as the nail plate.

    Furthermore, because MMA is an extremely durable, hard substance, if the nail enhancement gets caught on something and breaks, it could tear the entire natural nail off its bed, an experience not a few acrylic nail wearers have been through. MMA liquid also burns the skin when it comes into contact. So when next you have a manicure/pedicure, take the time to confirm that the products used on you don’t contain this ingredient.

  • TOSIN POPOOLA: How I ‘charmed’ my husband with my long hair

    Tosin Popoola is a Republic of Ireland-based The Redeemed Christian Church of God pastor.
    In this interview with YETUNDE OLADEINDE and INNOCENT DURU, she speaks about how her engagement as a beautician during her days of working as a director with Mary Kay Cosmetics prompted her to blend physical make up with spiritual make up for her clients.

    WHAT’S interesting about your background? I live in the Republic of Ireland but I was born here in Nigeria. I am the last born of my parents. I had my primary and secondary education here in Lagos. I had my first degree in Philosophy from Ondo State University. My second degree was in the Republic of Ireland where I studied Law. I had my masters in International Development in Dublin City University. I run a non-governmental organisation., so I advocate for people, especially women and girls.

    Aside from running a non-governmental organisation, what else do you do and what is your organisation into?

    I am also a pastor. As women, we have a lot of issues that we are facing. In the Republic of Ireland, we advocate for women on issues of immigration. We also educate and encourage them on what they need to do to have a good home. My experience with some of our people in the Republic of Island is not a good one. Some of our people over there have no valid documents and do not have homes. So, they are always hiding from government officials. On many occasions, they are caught and put on the path of being deported back to the country. Such experience has also been a nasty one. There was a woman that was about to be deported but she had a baby there. Based on the Irish system, she was not supposed to be deported. We looked into her case and that was what saved her. There are so many girls that are depressed and suppressed in the society. We look into their condition and offer assistance to them.

    How is life in the Republic of Ireland, is it a bed of roses as we always imagine here?

    It is not a bed of roses abroad as many people may be tempted to believe. We also have our challenges in the Republic of Ireland. It is in Nigeria that I know that you can sleep as a pauper and tomorrow you wake up as a millionaire. Back there, if you don’t work, you don’t eat except you are into 419. If you are not into 419, you have to work before you can make both ends meet. Ireland is one of the safest countries in the world. We have Nigerians languishing in their prisons but it is always as a result of not having the right documentation. I have not for once come across cases of Nigerians involving in drug challenges over there.

    Ireland is not among the top countries that many Nigerians travel to. What really took you there?

    I was pregnant and just decided to go and have my third child outside Nigeria. I had the first and second here. I travelled to London to have my baby but on getting there, a friend of mine said why not in Ireland because it would give me the opportunity of having my residency and bring other children there. That was how I headed to Ireland. After putting to bed, I saw that the country was okay, I decided to stay back. I have been there since 2002; that is about 14 years now.

    What is the Women of Essence Award that you are in Nigeria for all about?

    The award was started in 2007 to encourage and inspire people who do a lot of things to improve the lives of others. How can we encourage such people to do more? It is not in our culture to give, we are fond of receiving. When we see people giving assistance to others, we need to encourage them. We started it in the Republic of Ireland with just three members in my sitting room, but now it has expanded to many other countries like Nigeria, Kenya and others. We have Kenyan members.  The unique thing about the Essence Award is not about giving awards to people alone. In the Republic of Ireland, we raise funds for the women refugees, we raise funds for children’s hospitals.

    Why did you choose to also honour the late Stella Adadevoh?

    We looked round in Nigeria to see which non-governmental organisation that we could partner with and Dr ASA (Dr Ameyo Stella Adadevoh) came to our mind. She helped to curtail the spread of ebola. The organisation is doing a lot of things and we decided to give the organisation and raise fund for the foundation so that they could go on establishing.  They are involved in training people on hygiene and other infectious diseases. They have been going around schools. The Redeemed Christian Church is not connected with Women of Essence. I am only a pastor in the church and my husband is also a pastor.

    What in your opinion are the challenges facing women in this part of the world?

    Some of the challenge facing women in this part of the world is that they are not allowed to have a voice. Traditionally, women are expected to be quiet. It shouldn’t be. Women should be allowed to be who they are. Women have talents and should be allowed to showcase them. They should not be suppressed in any way. Where I come from in the Republic of Ireland, we believe in reaching out to communities. We go out on the street to collect coins. By this, I mean that we go to departmental stores to help people doing shopping to pack things. When we do this, they give us a token. We join the money together and use it to reach out to people.

    Attendance in churches in Europe and America is said to be dwindling. Is it the same in Ireland?

    Attendance in churches is also dropping in Ireland because people are relocating to places like Canada, UK, etc. They always say they are going to seek greener pastures.

    You certainly have a busy schedule. How do you relax when you have the opportunity of doing so?

    I love action movies. To relax is to sit down quietly in the sitting room with the children and watch a nice movie. On my birthday I travel out of the country to catch some fun.

    You travel out of which country, Nigeria or Ireland?

    I travel out of Ireland just to spend some few days.

    Most Pentecostal churches’ pastors don’t wear jewelleries. How come you do?

    I am not a hypocrite. Christianity is not about wearing jewelleries or not wearing it. We have seen many people not wearing ear rings and they are worse than Lucifer. Wearing jewelleries does not stop me from serving God. I don’t see anything bad in that.

    Your make-up is superb. How do you go about it?

    I do it for myself at home. I was a Director in Mary Kay. While I was with the company, I received a lot of training and travelled to many countries. I also trained quite a large number of people.

    You studied Philosophy and Law, how did you get into cosmetics?

    When you see something that you love, you go for it. Somebody just introduced me to Mary Kay. I used the product and it was good on me.  I also love people looking beautiful so I decided to go into Mary Kay Cosmetics. I treated people with acnes on their faces, made them up and made them to know their skin tone and tell them what and what they can use to even their beauty. There is a difference between day and night cream.

    How long did you do this?

    I did it for between five and six years. I stopped because it was demanding. I needed to travel to train people and I needed to train people. When people were having parties, I had to be there. If they changed their clothes 10 times, I would have to make them up 10 times. You have to be at parties for as long as it lasts.

    But all that must have come with a lot of money

    Hmmm! It was not about the money it was about the fulfilment I had doing that. I love to see people looking good.

    If you compare being a beautician and being a pastor, which one will you prefer?

    Do you know that both touch lives? One gives spiritual food and the other makes people physically beautiful. Both of them will make you who you are. Some lack self-esteem and some don’t have spiritual stamina. When I was into  my Mary Kay business, I was severally asked ‘the way you are making people beautiful physically, why not also tell them about the Lord that can make them beautiful in spirit, soul and body’.  With that, I started ministering to women. Each time I was making people up, I would tell them about our Lord Jesus Christ. But it has not been easy for me to be making people up and be a pastor.  But I do have workshops and bring in experts in the field to train people.

    What striking thing would you say attracted your husband to you?

    My long hair and I was wearing one beautiful ankara known as ‘lombodi’ way back in 1988. When he saw these and my slim body and beauty,  that was just it. I wasn’t wearing make-up then as I was still very young.

     

  • Your mood, shape and looks

    THIN or skinny models?  Yes, that has always been the image that comes to mind when you talk about looking good, fashion or models for the runway. Interestingly, this appears to be changing and we have a number of body positive people who are strutting the runway with unbelievable curves.

    Interestingly, some of the designers at the 2016 African Fashion Week Nigeria event would be making use of some of this plus size but curvy models One of such fashion brands is JP Couture which focuses on and tries to bring out the best no matter your size or shape in. “I am about showing the curvy plus size ladies. The collection is called Otiti and it’s over the top. I feel most curvy ladies are worried and they tend to go into their shells. We have created a number of wonderful things that would make them trendy and comfortable. Now, you are going to stand up and be proud of who you are. As we have said, we are going to slay.” She adds that “I think looking good is more than the content or the colours. It’s about different moods and life in its entirety. Let’s feel free to explore the fashion scene.”

    For the brand ambassadors of Peter and Paul brand, it is not just about the shape and size that need to be addressed. “Our idea is to replace the corporate clothing with Africa designs and has a true African identity. You can dress African to formal events; gone are the days when looking corporate was when you wore clothes that were imported. We already have the Bank of Industry wearing our clothes instead of suits. We need to showcase our stuff to the whole world and Africa in particular.”

    Apart from finding something exciting for every body type, it is important to make sure that your total outlook is taken care of. For Bimbo, one of the hairstylists for the 2016 African Fashion Week, “we are working on the total endowments of our models. Our job is to make sure that your collection goes in the right way; from the hair, make-up, clothes and shoes. It is important to make sure that the lights, effects and everything you are working with complement one another. Our emphasis therefore is about style and drama.”

    Sola Oyebade, the show’s creative director, goes on to talk about the reality TV show tagged Nigeria’s Top Designer. “This year, we will be having the finals during the African Fashion Week on July 3rd and there will be 21 designers participating. We will also have awards for four outstanding persons and Swarovski will be here to take us through the skills and variety of options available.”

  • NENA My style’s unique, sophisticated

    NENA My style’s unique, sophisticated

    Nena Kal Hunter is known for designing and producing unusual high fashion hats. She also designs and makes exclusive headpieces and recently diversified into interior decoration. Her collections were featured in Vogue Magazine, and while she was still basking in that euphoria, she also got another deal from the Canadian Derby to produce a hat for auction to help raise funds for Breast Cancer Research. Canadian Derby is a similar event to the famous Royal Ascot race. The daughter of former Attorney-General of Imo State, Kalu Ogba, tells Adetutu Audu more about her personality 

    The beginning

    I studied Fashion and Textiles Design at De Montfort University, UK and trained in millinery (hat making) with a woman called Rose Cory, who was the official royal milliner to the Queen Mother of England. I came back to Nigeria in 2002, made a hat which I wore to a wedding and at the same wedding, I got many orders. That’s how I got stuck in hat making. I later registered my business – Nena Kal Hunter Limited in August 2003. I’ve been making hats and fascinators since then. In 2005, I branched into interior decor when I moved to my rented house. I designed the throw pillows, sofa, curtains and so on for my house and friends kept complimenting. From there, they started ordering throw pillows, beddings and even curtains. Gradually, I graduated into doing décor for people’s offices and hotels. Luckily for me, my millinery designs were getting recognition internationally and graced the pages of international magazines such as Vogue magazine four times, the Royal Ascot Magazine thrice, Brides UK twice, Whispers magazine USA, Oheema magazine Ghana, many blogs including Bella Naija, online magazines and lots of magazines and newspapers in Nigeria.

    Most fascinating jobs

    One of my most recent jobs which fascinated me was designing the new wing interior and all the public areas of Morning Side Suites. I was called in at a time the building was not yet fully completed. It had a good structure and the owner trusted my design taste since I had previously done the décor of his country home. I was determined to do a good job of it. It was important to me that this hotel décor was different from what I had done in the past, so the concept was not only to design the interior décor, but to also design as many products as possible which would be installed there. It was tedious, time consuming, and yet exciting. In any hotel interior decor, the hardest part is always the imaginative aspect, getting the right picture in your head, doing all the necessary sketches, choosing the colour themes for the different public areas, planning the spaces, sourcing the goods and following through the whole process. The fun part is the procurement stage because you feel like you are on a shopping spree even though the goods don’t belong to you.

    Difference between an Interior Decorator and an Interior Designer

    Many people make the mistake of mixing up these two professions. They are two different things. I keep hearing lots of furniture re-sellers call themselves interior designers and it just makes me crack up. As an Interior designer, you must have had formal training with a good knowledge of colour and fabric, understand computer-aided design (CAD), space planning, furniture design, and architecture. Designers usually apprentice with a registered and established interior designer before starting out on their own.

    An interior designer also has to pass an exam and register with a governing council before they can call themselves interior designers.

    They must know how to draw floor plans, and not just decorate a room, but also enhance the function of a room while interior decorators do not necessarily need formal training. It’s usually mere talent and an eye for detail. They can just help clients decide on a style, choose a color scheme, purchase furniture, and accessorise.

    Unique niche

    The design ideas both for interior décor and millinery are different,  futuristic and whimsical giving you a feeling of being in la la land. In our products, you can see the use of colours, materials and shapes in ways that the regular designers may not imagine; our styling ideas are daring and unusual. We love fantasy, we love boldness, we incorporate nature and its designs in our products and we design to suit the customer’s needs.

    Inspiration

    I draw all my inspiration from God Almighty. He is the greatest designer and engineer of all time. Look at the world He created, look at the animals  zebras, leopards, snakes, the birds, peacocks, look at butterflies, flowers, leaves and their various shapes, the sky, the sea, the rainbow…..all of these have colours, hues and patterns that have been carefully matched to blend. Look at the human palm with every human being with their own unique design, look at the picture of the internal human body with every organ doing its job, then externally with two vertical legs carrying the weight of the whole body….isn’t that amazing? He created a fantastic world and co-ordinates everything in it accordingly with every group or category having its own timing of things.

    Defining success

    Every individual measures success in different ways. For me, it is the thrill of designing and producing a product, which people place value on and agree to spend their hard earned money purchasing it. It also means appreciation from people especially in the same field as I am. Nothing excites me like seeing a milliner or another interior designer commend my work. That is what I call success.

    Style

    For me, style is simply an artistic expression of some sort. In terms of fashion, my style is simple, unique and sophisticated while my decor style is contemporary. Individuals have various ways of expressing themselves and that is what adds up to make up their style and who they are. When it comes to fashion items, I love shoes and unique clutch bags more than any other fashion item. I love them, because you can wear a simple frock, but with great accessories, the outfit can be instantly transformed into a sophisticated and elegant look.

    Growing up

    Growing up was real fun. We had piano lessons and guitar teachers at home. During the weekends, my dad took us to Concorde Hotel, parks and gardens to have fun. My father is a lawyer; he was the Attorney General then. I call him ‘a posh lawyer,’ because he is very polished.

    He is a man that I actually look up to because of his integrity. He has a good name and my role model. He is a man that looks after his family no matter what. My mother is Chinwe Kalu-Ogba. She studied Music at the university and specialised in voicing. She worked with the Imo Broadcasting Corporation (IBC), Owerri, where she produces classical music on radio and television. My mother does the flogging, while my father pampers the flogged.

     We never liked her flogging us then but now, we appreciate we were flogged to fall into the right shape. My maternal grandfather was a great disciplinarian, and I guess that was where my mother got her flogging habit.

    Advice for young entrepreneurs

    Be focused and follow your dreams no matter what! Do not let anyone discourage you. Make friends with the right people and those who are ambitious in a practical way. Pray and work hard to get contacts of people who can help you get to the top.

    Everyone needs a helping hand at some point; it doesn’t have to be money, most times, and word of mouth can work the magic. Always be honest with money and keep your word at all times. Integrity matters a lot in business. Meeting deadlines is a must.

    Always save your money and invest in growing your business. Forget designer clothes, shoes, fancy phones and cars for now. You have to make a sacrifice. There will always be newer and better designs by the time you get to the top. Run away from shallow and stupid friends. Always think of the future, fill your mind with positivity and have big fat dreams. No dream is too big. In fact whatever you think, you can achieve.

  • DJ NEPTUNE My wife is my number one fan

    DJ NEPTUNE My wife is my number one fan

    Patrick Imohiosen, aka DJ Neptune, in the early 2000s ruled the radio airwaves with his mixes on the popular Lagos-based radio station, Ray Power. He also featured in different events across the globe, which included working with major promoters and event companies like Storm Records (Nigeria), Rosabel (Nigeria), TPT (Nigeria), Nigezie (Nigeria), Hip Hop World (Nigeria), Orange Box Entertainment (Malaysia), N.R.C. After a hiatus, he has returned to UrbanFM. He shared his journey to stardom with Adetutu Audu

    WHAT is special about being a DJ? DJ-ing is an art of its own and also one of the strong pillars in entertainment. There is lot of creativity involved, from mixing different genres of music, to hyping and understanding what the crowd wants to dance to, knowing your music. Getting your cue points and timing right when mixing the songs is a whole lot and not everyone can do these things.

    How would you describe the journey so far?

    Rough and smooth.

    How does your background influence who you are?

    My background didn’t influence me in anyway; my dad was against the whole idea of me being an entertainer. He wanted me to be an engineer but I think along the line I would have still found myself doing what I am doing now because if it is not music then it’s nothing else. That cannot stop me from doing what I want to do and I will like to use this opportunity to advice other guys out there to pursue their desires. If you have talent, try and nurture the talent because at the end of the day, you never can tell which will bring food to your table

    What spurred your sudden interest in radio, and why Urban 96.5FM?

    I have been on radio as a DJ for six years on Ray Power FM Lagos and it was fun while at it. Though a part of me wasn’t happy when leaving because my radio show affected a lot of the listeners positively but I had to resign to focus to other projects. That said, I’m glad to be back on radio and it had to be Urban 96.5FM. The vibe is different from the norm.

    What motivates you?

    The things I see around me.

    How did you build up your DJ-ing skills?

    I had to practice a lot, read books on how to be a good DJ and also watch DJ tutorials online.

    Many see DJs as never do wells, was it the same for you?

     It was like that for me when I started but now the story has changed.

    When would you say was your breakthrough?

    That would be in 2004 when I got the chance to showcase my talent and skills on radio.

    How did you get your stage name?

    Very long story, but I will just keep it short. Some group of guys who have attended a couple of my gigs gave me the name Neptunes, so I took off the s and so you have Neptune the DJ.

    Tell us your low and high moments in your career

    A lot I can remember now but I have had more high moments though. I had my low moment at the early stage when I started. Then, after shows I would go home with nothing, but because of the love I have for DJ I continued. At some point, I had a second thought as to if it was going to be profitable in the future. As they say, no one knows tomorrow; I faced a lot of challenges when I started but here I am now.

    Sound quality is key in various music productions; to what extent do you go to provide your listeners with the best?

    I do a lot of research on this to ensure I get the best quality in terms of equipment and good music to work with.

    Nigeria has witnessed an influx of young artistes in recent years; most of them dropping out of school to pursue a music career. What are seasoned artistes like you doing to educate and enlighten these folks that education is essential?

    Education is key and no matter how successful you are as an artiste, you need to be well educated to understand the business. Most times it’s beyond the talent God has blessed you with. Being educated makes you understand a lot and in most cases it enhances your writing skills.

    Have there been any moments when you wished you had chosen another profession?

    Capital no.

    Can you remember your very first pay cheque for mixing or DJ-ing?

     3,000 naira.

    You are in the profession which attracts women. As a family man, how do you ward off female fans?

    Though I am married, ladies still chase me. I have never removed my wedding ring for any reason since I got married. Things could be a bit crazy with the female fans but it is left for me to respect my wife and be able to treat them as the fans that they are. I am a good boy and I always avoid trouble. My wife is my number one fan and she is very supportive.

  • NIYOLA I wish stardom Wasn’t so demanding

    NIYOLA I wish stardom Wasn’t so demanding

    Eniola Akinbo, popularly known as Niyola, the first lady of EME Records, co-run by hip-hop sensation, Banky W, discovered her affinity for music at the age of eight and has nurtured her musical skills over the years. Her unique story started in 2000 when she took part in the AMEN Starlet competition and was first runner up, she speaks with Adetutu Audu on her musical career and personality.

    HOW does it feel like being the first lady of one of the hottest record labels around now?

    I feel pretty special because having left the industry for so long and coming back to be on EME is special. I’m thankful to God and to EME for actually spotting something special in me to think that they would sign me. Everybody is constantly looking out for me. They are all like my brothers.

    Many people didn’t know about you before you joined EME. What was the music industry like in the past and which record label were you signed on to?

    The industry has changed and there are a new crop of artistes around. Back then, it was Sound Sultan, Faze, Baba Dee, Sasha, myself and Trybesmen, but the industry has grown and there are a whole lot more people now. I was on West Side Records. I had two singles out on West Side, one was Call My Name and the other was Bring It On. This was around 2008/2009. Before then, I was under Trybe Records.

    How does your personality reflect in your music?

    I am very reserved; I wouldn’t say I’m quiet. A lot of people can mistake that at times for cockiness but I’m really just a reserved person. I believe that everybody has something special and I think that my strength is in the talent that I have. With my music, I realise that one of my strong points is being able to reach out to people and make them feel better about themselves, let them know they can be better. I believe God has given me a platform where I can reach out to more than one person at a time. So, with my music, I’m passing across a message.

     What is the relationship between being sexy and succeeding as a female artiste?

     I always tell people that sexiness is not something that can be bought; you either are sexy or not. I am not as a result of what I’ve tried to be. This is who I am, I cannot help it. God created every woman as eye candies to the men. God created us for the men. The only thing that makes a difference is that if you let people see that this is all you are about, then there is a problem. Yes, I’m sexy; I’m not afraid to admit that I’m sexy. I’m proud to be sexy but that is not all that there is to me. This is what comes naturally. If people see it, it’s not my fault.

    What would you say are challenges of stardom?

    I think sometimes a lot of people think celebrities are super heroes forged out of steel and maybe water. They forget that when all is said and done, we all are humans. Being constantly in front of the spotlight can take its toll. You find yourself constantly having to put on a smile even if you’re having a terrible day.  There is always a price to pay for everything, but sometimes I wish stardom wasn’t so demanding.

    How did you get into music?

    Of all my talents I was blessed with or everything I can do or love to do, music makes me the happiest. I wake up every morning with a desire to make music and if for any reason I could no longer make music, the way I know how to, I know that I would be very unhappy. I knew I wanted to make music, but my professional debut happened unexpectedly and since that point on I have never looked back.

    What are the chances of female artistes to succeed, apart from being sexy?

    Look for your strength. There is something unique to everybody. If you’re not sexy, there must be something about you that is special. Maybe it’s your voice, maybe it’s your smile. Look at Jill Scott, the special thing about her is her smile. Her smile would melt anybody’s heart and that is her strong “selling point.

    Who is Niyola behind the camera?

    It’s really hard to put that in words because there are many sides to me. I can be very playful, very reserved. I can also be outspoken but the basic is, I like acquiring knowledge and impacting it.

    What stands you out from others?

    I am very passionate about women. There are over 500 million women in the world but God created me to affect the lives of people in one way or the other. If I had to do things with my songs, I would do it from a woman’s point of view. Beyond singing, I would love to do stuffs that will stay relevant years after; like Sade Adu, King Sunny Ade, Onyeka Onwenu, their songs are timeless. Those are the types of songs I would love to do. It’s not just about being beautiful or having a nice voice; the important thing is being able to reach out to people.

    If not music, what would you be doing?

    There are so many things I could do or know how to do but I most likely would have still been linked to entertainment as I studied Journalism and English Language

    Can you share your memorable moments with us?

    Every day is as important as the next; every moment I spend with a loved one or making music or performing is memorable. Many people would give an arm and a leg to have one extra day, not even a memorable one at that. I look at every new day as a chance to make memories.

    What would you say are your regrets?

    I have none so far. I have always believed that my life is not by chance and that everything happens for a reason. In time, even the most painful experiences will bring smiles to our faces, if only to be grateful that we survived the rough patches.

    Share the best and worst decisions you have taken with us

    The best decision I have taken is following my dreams. There was a point I wasn’t sure if I wanted to keep making music. Thankfully, I decided to stick with it. I can’t really think of any bad decisions right now. If I made them, then I am certain that I had valid reasons.

    How would you describe your style?

    I just like to keep it simple, yet classy. I don’t like extravagance.

  • ‘Why I quit my JOB music’

    ‘Why I quit my JOB music’

    Nkiruka Ogboruche, popularly known as Enkay, is former Community Investment Manager at Guinness Nigeria Plc. The only female vocalist in the award winning group, Tehilla Crew, noted for their Alabanza concert, is a chorister at RCCG, City of David. The mother of three who just went solo speaks with Adetutu Audu on why she went solo as well as her debut album, The Kingdom Anthem. 

    THE video of your hit song, Yes, you are the Lord, has been described as a hit. How did you arrive at that?

    When I recorded the song, it gave me a new direction; everybody is used to sing it as a worship song.  But I have a vision different from the norm. The album is an eclectic mix of urban contemporary sound with the fusion of alternative rock, RnB and hip hop. The album was packaged to meet the deep spiritual needs of the diverse audience cultivated.

     What message are you passing with The Kingdom Anthem?

    The 10 track album is an expression of my commitment to praise, exalt, honour, glorify and please God for the opportunity to minister to millions all over the world under an atmosphere of anointing, healing and breakthrough. I featured foreigners in the song because I want the music as global appeal. I have passion for music and that was why I dumped job with Guinness Nigeria where I worked for 10 years. The album featured fast paced upbeat energetic numbers Yes! You are the Lord, The Kingdom Anthem and O Sing featuring Sammie Okposo and Tim Tehila, as well as mid-tempo sonorous numbers such as I Need You featuring Onos Ariyo and Nikki Laoye, and Bless my Home’s Afrocentric feel.

     Why did you decide to go solo from your group?

    I have my own message and my own sound. And I thought it was necessary to explore it. That I am going solo did not mean I want to cut off the umbilical cord. Tehilla Crew still stands. If we need to do something together we will do, but this is just my own message.

    It is a general fact that most people who sing gospel are not rewarded as their counterparts who sing secular music. Why did you stick to gospel?

    The truth is it is a call and a ministry. I cannot sing any other song. It is my message to the world in song. It is like being a preacher. Whether it is paying or not. I am just doing what I am called to do.

    How do you juggle as a mother, wife and artiste?

    It has been God. There are periods that the kids have gone to school. I am coming back from work and I need to do something at the studio or minister somewhere. It has not been easy but thank God for a supportive husband, despite some lapses here and there, he is able to complement. That was one of the reasons I decided to quit my regular job so as to have time to regulate all the things in my life.   I needed to change my focus and concentrate on things that are important in my life. There is a fulfilment that comes from obedience; doing what you know that you are supposed to do. There is a restlessness that comes with not taking the right step.

    What inspires your songs?

    God, who manifested in different aspects. There is one for the family; the need to have God in our families. God also reflects on my personal work with him. All the songs in the album pointed to one fact: that no matter where our journey lies, whether good or bad, we should not lose focus that the kingdom of God is where we are going at the end of the day. The most captivating feature on the video is the location.

    Did just wake up one day and said you wanted to start singing?

    I grew up in a family where music is a predominant part of us. I remember recoding on a tape with cassette recorder with my father with a bottle and spoon he was using as instrument. He made us sing songs in three different Nigerian dialects and we kept playing that song for as long as we wanted and that kind of sowed a seed in my heart.  When I got to the university, it was harnessed as well, I was in one of the best choir in the university at that time, and on that platform I was able to get the definition of what I wanted to do. Different choirs in different churches, Tehilla group and finally my own song; it has been a metamorphosis of my journey in music.

    How do you revitalise your voice?

    Recently, I started taking lessons. I also have a vocal coach I work with regularly. I also have exercises I do. I am still in the process of learning; music is a wide area and you want to do it theoretically and in practice,

    Which of your songs do you like most

    That is a bit hard. Sometimes when I listen to one, I would say this is my best and when I listen to another, I say I prefer this one. I love all, each of them has a story behind them, and I cherish all of them.

    There is this perception that if you work in a brewery, you have to be a brewery yourself. Do you drink beer?

    Personally, I don’t. There are people who do and that is their choice. In the company where I work, it is not a prerequisite for work.

    How do you think gospel music has fared in Nigeria?

    We are coming to take our place in Nigeria. There is reasonably some acceptance but the promotion is not there. And due to the lack of promotion, many people think one cannot do gospel music for a living. So many people you see in secular songs and comedy are from strong Christian backgrounds. They are in secular songs because of lack of support and promotion. Lack of promotion is dragging gospel music in Nigeria behind and our pastors and Christian brethren are not helping matters.

    Many Christians will happily pay N5,000.00 to watch performances and shows that do not encourage Christianity but cannot come for free Christian performances and other events.

    So, what is the way forward?

    You have to be sure that you are called to do music. It is not enough to have a good voice. There are people who are great ministers of God who can’t sing.  And you have to also listen to know when it is right to step out.

    2016 is still very fresh. What should we be expecting from you?

    There is a lot in my arsenal. I have shot 2 other videos and I’ll be releasing them subsequently. I also plan on some concerts  before Alabanza which is my label’s project. I also plan on releasing one or two more singles. Then, towards the end of the year, I’ll start talking about my NGO. I have a passion and a burden to impact lives in certain areas but it is still under wraps now.

  • MUNACHI ABII ‘I’d rather be a regular person than a famous one’

    MUNACHI ABII ‘I’d rather be a regular person than a famous one’

    Munachi Abii, better known as Muna, had a remarkable reign as the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria in 2007. The International Relations and Diplomacy graduate is also a rap artiste, model, TV host and now an On Air Personality. She shares with ADETUTU AUDU her life and career experiences.

    LOST Nigerians got to know you after you won the MBGN pageant in 2007. But we understand music started for you way before that. When did you have your first major platform?

     I was first featured on a track with a rap group in Port Harcourt called specimen A and they were number 1 at the time. That was my first major platform.

    You seemed to be everywhere modelling, music, TV host and now OAP. What drives you?

    My passion to live out every single dream I have ever had is what keeps me going. It is also nice to be seen.

    There are so many OAPS around already, what will set you apart?

    Frankly, I do not think any human is different from the other, you only choose what you like and you go for it. As an OAP, I choose to share things that excite me and wet my curiosity. How any one chooses to see that is basically up to them.

    Why Urban96fm?

    Urban 96 represents the soul of Lagos, which is good music and of course hit tracks. Meaning, they represent the good stuff and who no like better thing? Lol. I love the people here, they are like family to me and they encourage me, so why not urban?

    Musically, would you say you are successful?

    Everyone has their own perception of the word ‘success’. To you, success could mean hit tracks, to me success could mean being able to complete a full song for self or for another human being. Am I successful musically? Definitely!

    Which is fulfilling for you in all the things you do?

    I wouldn’t do any of the things that I do if I didn’t find them fulfilling. Every goal/ project serves its purpose.

    Your kind of music is rap. Most female rappers are known to possess the attitude of a tomboy; how have you been blending your elegance with the rap swag?

    I just do me. What makes me comfortable and confident. Some days I’m a tomboy, some days I’m a lady. But I am always a queen.

    How would you rate your performance last year? Were you able to meet your goals?

    Last year was my study year. It was my goal to study my craft a lot deeper and find myself. I set out to do that and I did, so I met my goals.

    It seems like endorsement season for some of our biggest acts. Share your Lux soap endorsement experience with us

    Being a Lux ambassador was a great privilege for me. I am most grateful for the platform , experience and exposure it brought  me.

    What was life like for you before all the fame? Tell us some fond memories from then.

    Life has and still is quite decent for me. Not much has changed, except a lot more people know my face now. One of my fondest memories would be, sitting by the back door at home in Port Harcourt as it rained and I dreamed of days when I would be sort after by the world at large.

    Who influenced you while growing up, the good, the bad and the ugly?

    My environment influenced me. The music I listened to influenced me. My mother influenced me.

    The night you were crowned, what was going through your mind?

     I just thought “wow, I’m going to be on the internet”

    Did you really think you would win?

    Did I think I would win? Not at all. I thought Miss Bayelsa would have won. Participating in MBGN was a dare. As a child, I had dreams of being a beauty queen but it wasn’t top five on my wish list. I didn’t see the possibility at the time. But, other people saw what I didn’t and they encouraged me to go for it. My intention was always to pursue music.  Being a beauty queen gave me a platform to reach for the stars. Nobody taught me how; I had to learn everything on the job.

    What gave the edge over other girls?

    I have no idea. I was just me.

    Fame suddenly thrust itself at you, how are you coping since then and what has it robbed you of?

    I have learnt a lot from gaining recognition from the public eye. No one teaches you how to handle these things but you pull through, regardless. I have remained the same person over the years. Sometimes, I do get upset, calm or crazy. I am still me and I have grown up which is what change is all about. That is what everybody does. I know I am able to handle fame better than I did in 2007. I am just living my life. When I first won MBGN, people would ask and I would say that I haven’t changed. But looking back now, I guess people change because they start to say  “You’re now Hollywood. You’re now a celebrity”. It kind of makes me upset sometimes because if you have my number, call me. You see me, you know where I am, come and see me or vice versa. But if I come to see you and you’re feeling insecure, saying “What is she doing here?” Can’t I just be me, you know? So, I’ll say other people make it hard sometimes for you to be yourself but at the end of the day, you’re still yourself. Fame hasn’t really changed me. But now that we’re here, I would rather be a regular person than a famous one.

    Tell us a beauty trend you are rocking at the moment.

    I don’t know if it’s a trend, but I am rocking my natural hair at the moment and I love it.

    Apart from entertainment, what other things do you do?

    I have a foundation. It is called Muna Feeds. It would entail going to communities to cook, feed them and make them feel as important as you and I. That is my own way of giving back. As a foodie, I want to make these special people feel loved and special.

    Describe your personal style

    My style changes over time. Since trends also change, I endeavour to move along with it. These days, I am conscious of the way I dress because I do not want to send the wrong message. Because I am a rapper, people think I have to dress like boys to be understood. At a point, I shared their sentiments and it communicated the wrong message across to my fans. But, I am still a female and I do not want to do the things that make me feel as though I am swinging in the other direction. I have to be as feminine as possible and I need to dress the part.

  • ‘How Bob Geldof inspired me’

    ‘How Bob Geldof inspired me’

    Toyosi Lana has a background in film, media and journalism and worked in Glasgow, Scotland until recently. The lady who is Serena Williams’ look-alike is also passionate about table tennis. In this interview with YETUNDE OLADEINDE, she talks about her passion, working on a project called Nigeria Unite and the need to inspire the younger generation of Nigerians.

    WHAT are you passionate about? I love everything that has to do with the media. Last year, I worked with Hip TV and I was part of their event planning department. Apart from that, my entire life communicates with core media practice. I also love planning tennis.

    You actually look like Serena Williams. Has anyone told you that?

    Yes. A number of people have said that.

    Did she inspire you to play tennis?

    (Laughs). I wish, I had a story like that, but I don’t have that. I was a tom-boy while I was growing up. I played football and played everything. One thing that stuck to me was playing tennis; it’s a mind game. If you win, it’s your success .If you lose, it’s your fault.

    Over the years, there has been the strong black woman in the tennis world that represented breaking down barriers and somehow she is someone I want to emulate.

    What is the focus of your organisation?

    It is called Nigeria Unite (NU). We are an initiative. The idea is to utilise the cultural and artistic diversity and richness in our country to help encourage awareness, engagement for charity giving and accountability among Nigerians.

    What I mean by that is that everybody has their little community or a little social network, which we can use. If they put their mind at it, they can effect a little change, we can affect the way we think and the way they work. If they see an avenue to affect the structure they can, it doesn’t have to be societal or doesn’t have to be something big to effect change around them and that is essentially what Nigeria Unite is all about. To stand up for something unique in our community, in our social circle.

    What inspired the idea?

    The use of the art as a channel is also our goal. I recognised that we tend to be a bit blind sighted to certain things. We tend to be apathetic to the things happening around us and I think my defining eureka moment came when I was 18. I just finished watching a Bob Geldof’s show and it was a place where you got different types of arts from different parts of the world. There were all kinds of things from all over the world and it was all to gain a context to entertain the people but at the same time to create an awareness about poverty in Africa.

    The theme of the programme was make poverty an issue. That was in 2004, and people came from all over the world. It was broadcast everywhere and people who didn’t know about the issues in Africa knew about it, and Nigeria is one of the countries that benefitted from it. And I just thought, if they can do that, why can’t I do it as well?

    We had all that challenges and all that riches. So we can do what we want to do in Africa, it doesn’t have to be a big thing and we don’t always have to wait for government. Things like doing something for your local community like Opebi, do something and not just wait for the government. So we are working with people that have taken time out to change their world, their communities and are touching lives in different ways. We have grassroots organisations that are helping their communities and the less-privileged ones in different ways. We are working with them in Akwa Ibom, Warri and Lagos. We can use our avenue, our platforms to do the same thing. There is no original idea and if something has worked somewhere, it can work here too.

    What are the things that you are going to be doing to achieve this?

    It goes back to our core principle of engagement, accountability. At the moment, we are trying to organise youth groups, faith-based organisations to find out things in their community that can be done better. When you are engaging and also finding people that go out of their way to find grassroots organisations. It doesn’t have to be government all the time; it could just be a community, like Opebi.  I also appreciate people that take time to create fun or impact the society.

    So we have grassroots organisations giving free education to people. We have grassroots organisations giving food to the less-privileged ones in the society. You have this in Akwa Ibom, Warri and Lagos. We can use our medium, our platform to do things differently.

    What are you going to be doing to achieve this?

    It goes back to our core objectives which are awareness, engagement and giving to the needy. At the moment, we are trying to mobilise youth groups, organisation to find out things in their communities that immediately need addressing. Then you engage in it to make it better. We are also encouraging people to go out of their way to find charitable organisations in the grassroots that are helping their communities. So they nominate and the public would vote for them; this is their back story and this is why we want them to win and all. It is going to be open to all and it is going to be a bi-annual event.

    Would you be targeting a particular group, especially the youths?

    We are a youth group but we would not be targeting youths alone. We already have Yemi Alade on board and she believes this is a movement. It is not going to happen overnight.

    The organisation was conceived with the notion to help increase civic engagement and social awareness in Nigeria. As Martin Luther King Jnr. said, “every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.” The human race has been told through science that only the fittest survives. However, the most evolved societies and organisations are those that understand that for true growth to be achieved, social consciousness for your fellow man is key.

    The Nigerian NGO sector has for a long time depended primarily on international donor funding and some of the risks and consequences of a singular external funding focus have been seen for years. The global recession resulted in a massive reduction of international aid, both governments and private foundations and significant cut backs resulted in many NGOs closing shop or significantly reducing their reach and services.

    Our activities and events will give publicity and raise funding for charitable programmes that are innovative in their different sectors. We hope to skew the scale in favour of indigenous giving. This would of course require that the public is aware of credible grassroots programme, that they trust that these programmes are ethically managed, and that they are motivated to be involved financially and in kind.

    If excellently executed, as we envision , Nigeria Unites will help highlight and celebrate Nigeria’s rich and diverse artistic talents, indigenous fundraising and a transparent and accountable process of ensuring only deserving NGO’s and grassroots organisations benefits from the proceeds of public giving. We would work to ensure the phrase, ‘I Am the Change’, becomes a tacit part of socio-cultural make up as a nation, in the upcoming years.