Category: Sunday magazine

  • Freda Edewor  finds love

    Freda Edewor finds love

    DELECTABLE Freda Edewor who runs Kritos, a jewellery store with Louise Priddy may have put the sordid tales of her crashed romance with Nigeria-international footballer, Osaze Odemwingwe, behind her.

    The Lagos big girl is said to be savouring romance with a UK based businessman and she seems to be bubbling with life now.

    Freda, who at a time was believed to be altar-bound with footballer, Osaze Odemwingwe, before they fell apart, opted to maintain a low-key life style until recently.

    Osaze Odewienge, before he decided to settle down with his Russian girlfriend, and Freda were hot items. According to a source close to her, she has definitely gotten over it and trying to enjoy her new relationship while it lasted

  • Iyabo  Obasanjo  plans  second  marriage

    Iyabo Obasanjo plans second marriage

    FORMER President Olusegun Obasanjo’s daughter, Iyabo has indeed moved on from the murky waters of Nigeria politics. She relocated abroad to further her studies, but the news making the rounds is that the mother of one is planning to give marriage another shot. We gathered that she met her new man abroad and plans are in top gear to solemnise the union. Iyabo Obasanjo’s former husband, Oluwafolajimi Akeem Bello, had since remarried his long-time girlfriend, Olajumoke Katherine Thompson, in December 2011, eight years after of he divorced the ex-president’s daughter.

  • Fashion and  Style Award 2013

    Fashion and Style Award 2013

    IT’S that time of the year again when awards are presented to those who distinguished themselves in their various fields. So it was at the 8th Annual City People Fashion & Style Awards that was held on Sunday 1st December, at the Balmoral Hall, Oregun – Ikeja, Lagos. Tara Fela-Durotoye and Banke Meshida-Lawal both received Special Recognition awards. By Olusegun Rapheal.

     

  • ‘My father worked himself to death’

    ‘My father worked himself to death’

    Prophet Obafemi Akinade, 27, is the son of the late founder of Christ Apostolic Church (CAC) Lion of Judah, Prophet Elijah Akinade. In this interview with Kunle Akinrinade, he opens up on his emergence as the shepherd of the church and the last days of his father. Excerpts:      

    How true is the allegation that your emergence as the general overseer was not in order?

    I never announced myself as prophet and leader of the church, my father did. In fact, it was the late Prophet Timothy Obadare that predicted my birth and that I would be a prophet of God. As a little boy at our parish in Ibadan, I was endowed with the gift of prophesy and a lot of members of the church were coming to me for spiritual counselling.

    It got to a point that I was no longer serious with my studies. On a particular day, my father was returning from the mountain where he had gone to pray when he saw a multitude of people waiting to see me and he became angry.

    And he said to me: “I command my anointing to suppress the gift of prophesy in you (me) so that you can face your studies, excel and become a graduate in life.” From that moment, I stopped seeing visions and focused on my studies. I went on to study Psychology and Counselling at the Covenant University, Ogun State. I finished in 2009 and did my youth service at Chevron, Lekki.

    At the completion of my service year, I was retained by the management of Chevron. However, in September 2010, my father asked me to resign from paid job and serve as his personal assistant. After hesitating for sometimes, I finally resigned from Chevron in December 2010 and he told me that God has told him that I should work as a full-time cleric in the ministry.

    Did he openly proclaim you as his successor before he died?

    He did and that was when I clocked 25 in March 2011.The proclamation took place on Sunday March 13, 2011 during service. He explained to the congregation how God had instructed him to anoint and allow me preach for three Sundays once I clocked 25.

    I was shocked beyond words and gave a good account of myself on the pulpit while delivering the sermon of the day. Shortly after the sermon, he asked me to stand before the congregation and anointed me as a prophet. He asked me to open my mouth and he spit into it before rubbing his head on mine.

    He went on to declare that from that day, my gift of prophecy had been restored. And from that day, I started seeing visions again. In the middle of the service, a prophetic message came from a member of the church that God has instructed that I should preach for the next seven days.

    Is it true that your father died from a mysterious illness?

    That is not true. On the contrary, he was ministering during a service, when he suddenly collapsed and was taken to Garki General Hospital, Abuja where he eventually died. I was with him at the hospital till he breathed his last.

    He was a workaholic and I remember that there was a time he ministered for 24 hours without a break. After the service, he travelled to South Africa where he had a ministration that lasted for several hours. All the tests carried out on him including his death certificate show that he died from accumulated stress and that his heart was over-stressed.

    All the negative stories about the circumstances surrounding his death published by a section of the media were fabricated by misguided people to smear my father’s image and that of his ministry.

    How were his last moments?

    He told me so many things on his sick bed. I remember that at a point he started praying for me, saying: “Stay by God’s words and the God whom I serve would strengthen and guide you.’’ However, his last days on the sick bed were traumatic because he was placed on oxygen for about one month and was gasping for breath.

    When he was about to die, he said in Yoruba,” Ija dopin, ogun tan (the battle is over, the final hour has come) Halleluyah, Halleluyah. He said the angels of God were around and that his time was up, and he passed on. He, however, warned me not to discontinue his outreach programmes and crusades.                                                                                 What kind of person was your father?

    He was forthright, moderate and disciplined. My father never deceived or exploited anyone that approached him for spiritual solution. Despite administering a flourishing church with many branches, he lived within his means and that is one thing he thought his children.

    When I gained admission into the university, he had no money to pay for my tuition and had to borrow money from a member of the church instead of dipping his hands into the coffers of the church. As a matter of fact, he did not build a house of his own but instead channelled his resources into building the church with branches in many parts of Nigeria and overseas.

    There was a particular day he got angry with someone who advised him to build a house of his own. He said the person in question was being used by devil to mislead him. He claimed that a genuine man of God must first strive to build his church before personal house. He did not have a personal house and as I speak we live in a rented apartment.

    How have the family and church been faring since his death?

    Well, God has been our strength since he passed on despite the challenge of meeting up with the standard established by my father. The church has continued to grow beyond our imagination as more people have joined the church as members. New branches have been opened in Ghana and in a couple of weeks from now, another branch will be opened in the United States of America (USA) and the Republic of Benin.

    We are holding one of his popular crusades ‘Destiny Recovery’ at the MITV Ground, Ikeja, Lagos in a few days.   One of those giving us financial support for the programme is a particular member of the church whom God had used my father to help.

    On a personal note, I have finished my Masters degree and I am currently running a doctorate degree in Criminology at the Covenant University. My siblings too are doing well and the divine grace has been our pillar so far. As a family, there is no rancour or cold war among us and we have conducted ourselves in line with the principles which our father established in his lifetime.

    What regrets do you have, not seeing your father again?

    It is so painful that he was not alive to witness my wedding and the birth of my child. But that has been the trend in our family because my grandfather too did not witness my father’s wedding or the birth of his children. However, that has ended with my father because I’ll live long to see my children’s wedding and their children.

     

  • RCCG prepares for Holy Ghost Congress

    The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) has expressed its readiness to host its annual Holy Ghost Congress believed to be the largest Christian gathering in the world.

    The conference with the theme “The overflow” holds from December 9-14.

    The Special Assistant to the General Overseer of the RCCG, Pastor Johnson Odesola, told religion correspondents last week that all participants from across the globe will be adequately taken care of.

    Part of the measures, he said, is the construction of more buildings to accommodate guests, improvement of hostel accommodation and provision of more car parks to tackle the perennial traffic gridlock on the Lagos-Ibadan Expressway.

    Odesola said: “We are expecting a multitude, therefore infrastructure has been put in place to accommodate the guests.

    “Although to accommodate all might be a tall dream considering the large numbers, still the church is making effort to consistently improve on its facilities.

    “In the area of traffic, the church has opened other exit roads and alternating roads to ease the traffic and provided car parks in order to ensure that nobody hinders the free flow of traffic during the duration of the programme.”

    The Managing Editor of Redemption Light and Assistant Pastor-in-Charge of Lagos Province 37, Pastor Olaitan Olubiyi, said the church is seriously working on alternative roads that people coming from Ikorodu as well as the Shagamu axis can use without necessarily linking the Lagos-Ibadan Expressway.

    He also added that accommodations and other conveniences have been tripled as against what obtained last year to ensure that the basic needs of the participants are taken care of.

    Odesola assured that personal and national aspirations will be fulfilled as participants call upon God.

    He said: “We are confident that not one person will leave the programme without a testimony of the miraculous in their lives because the programme was designed with them in mind.

    “There shall be a demonstration of the supernatural power of God as the anointing of God’s Spirit shall be present to heal many.”

  • Biodun’s top 10

    Biodun’s top 10

    Actress, producer and entrepreneur, Biodun Okeowo, reveals her favourite things to Kehinde Oluleye

    Favourite shoe

    I love Christian

    Louboutin, Jimmy

    Choo, Tory Burch and Niche.

     

    Favourite hand bag

    For my bag, I love

    Louis Vuitton and

    Hermes bags

     

    Favourite watch designer

    I love Raymond

    Weil and Calvin Klein

     

    Favourite Nigerian designer

    Africanso and

    Tiffany Amber

     

    Favourite perfume

    I love 1million dollar, Chanel, Bvlgari & Given

     

    Favourite pet Rottweiler

     

    Recent

    book read

    Rights of man,

    by Tom Paine

     

    Favourite car

    Honda Pilot

     

    Favourite skirt

    Short skirt

     

    Favourite bra

    La Senza

  • Rock in Red

    Rock in Red

    THE Christmas colours can be very creative when they are combined wonderfully. If you don’t want to combine the two, you can opt for one of the colours. Usually, the racy red colour can be very attractive and draw attention to you, no matter the event. It’s feminine, strong and confident, capturing the spirit of the cause in a symbol that women across the world can identify with and feel proud of.

    The red dress represents women’s courage and passion and their power for change as they share the truth with others. This is a season when you can play up the red dress in different shapes and cuts to make you stand out of any crowd. Interestingly, other colours and trends may come and go, but designers have always recognised that the red dress is so essential for women who have a great sense of style.

  • ‘Why foreigners are still  dominating our businesses’

    ‘Why foreigners are still dominating our businesses’

    Dr. Michael Omolayole, in his mid 80s,was the first Nigerian CEO of Lever Brothers. He is a Management Consultant of over 50 years experience in business. In an interview with Taiwo Abiodun, he laments that Nigerians are no longer positioned to be CEOs in multinational companies as foreigners remain dominant in businesses in the country.

    WHY do we still have many expatriates as Chief Executive Officers of companies in the country? Are Nigerians not competent enough?

    I have to go a little back into history. In the late 50s, all through the early 60s, Nigeria had a major focus on the development of human capacity. And the reason for that was that Nigeria had been a colonial territory for a very long time. She was about to become independent. And it was decided the independence would be in 1960. Most of the administrators in the colonial era in government were expatriates. Most of the professionals were also expatriates. The same thing happened in the private sector, most of the top managers were expatriates. The CEOs of most of these companies were expatriates. So as Nigeria was preparing to be independent, a lot of focus was put in developing people to the highest level. The terminology for it at that time was ‘Nigerianisation’. You couldn’t go through any newspapers for a period of one month without the policy of Nigerianisation being discussed at length. The general public and the politicians wanted to see Nigerians at the commanding heights. And the process had to be gradual because we couldn’t replace thousands of the expatriates overnight. That process was rapid in the public sector. It was so accelerated and by 1963, there was not a single senior expatriate left in this country in the public service, in the administrative cadre. If you had expatriates in the public service, they might be in some specialised areas such as in medicine, in aviation, or in highly technical areas. And every effort was made so that Nigerians could replace them. The same process was going on in the private sector. In the 70s, in the private sector, we had arrived at a situation where a number of Nigerians were now becoming executive directors of companies and becoming the CEOs in companies. That really was the progression.

    I was the first Nigerian CEO of Lever Brothers Nigeria Limited. Dr Abebe was the first CEO of UAC. Mr. M. A. Makinde was the first CEO of Nigerian Breweries. Dr Christopher Kolade was at Cadbury, and Chief Olusegun Osunkeye was at Nestlé. So, you can see how the progression produced the first Nigerians. It was a good policy in my own opinion for a variety of reasons: Reason number one, the Nigerian CEO is more cost-effective than the expatriate CEO, even if both of them should earn the same salary. The expatriate earned something that we called inducement allowance because he was not working in his own country. He was paid a lot for that at the expense of the company. It also allowed for him to have his children educated in his own country. He used to go on leave every six months while the national would go on leave once a year.

    So you can see that from cost effectiveness, the national is more cost effective. In another way, a citizen of a country where he is also CEO could have a lot of political doors open to him because those at the helm of affairs are his own kith and kin. He had gone to the same primary school with some of them, went to the same secondary school with some of them, the same university with some of them, and goes to the same club with some of them. When you talk about management, it is both of science and as well as an art. And art relates to culture. Whoever is a national will understand his country better than an outsider. Consequently, a national can interpret his own country and company better to each other.

    Having talked about the advantage of having a national at the head, it is therefore in my own opinion an aberration if you have to bring a foreigner if there is a competent and virtuous Nigerian or national. The logic of it is that you want the best person on the job, the best person who is cost effective and who can deliver most. All things being equal, a national should be able to deliver better than the non-national. All things being equal, it’s a prerogative of a company to ensure that you put somebody who can deliver.

    Let us ask ourselves the same question: If there are companies in Nigeria and some 70 years ago, and all the top people were all expatriates, why must they continue to be expatriates till today? I can’t understand that. Why must we continue to have them again? The majority shareholders are here not just for the profit they can make and take away, they are here to help the country develop. And the only reason they are welcome is because they help the country to develop. There is no development if the people here cannot reach the top. That really is the crusade we are about – to understand why is it that some 30 years or 25 years ago, we had several large companies that had Nigerians who were chief executives.

    I have another angle to it: A lot of businesses that invest in our country do so because of our population. We have a large population and, therefore, we have a large purchasing power. I think we welcome investors as our friends, not as exploiters. And those who are friends must be interested in leaving good legacy behind.

    We even have some foreigners, especially Chinese as artisans in Nigeria when we have Nigerians who can do the jobs. Why is this happening?

    Well, we go on inviting foreign investors. They bring a lot of good but they also bring some bad. A number of people believe you’ve got to take the rough with the smooth – that is the good and the bad. And I personally don’t believe in that. I believe in welcoming the investors but setting out the guidelines, setting out the parameters that would make their job easy and make them highly welcome. If you are going to be let us say a missionary who would be welcomed with open arms in this country, we would tell you first believe in the people, befriend them on what I call basis of equality not because you feel you are superior to them. And when you are already friendly with them, you can then begin to propagate some ideas. You are likely to win. If you come, sitting on a high horse, saying we know better than you do, eventually, you will not succeed.

    My advice is, when we invite foreigners into our country, we should set for them the parameters. If there is something peculiar in their operation that a Nigerian cannot do for now, they should bring someone from their country whose main job should be to train a Nigerian to be able to do that thing as quickly as possible. And the moment a Nigerian can do that thing, then the trainer goes back to his country because it is always far more expensive to maintain a foreigner than a Nigerian at any level. So if the purpose is to benefit the country and not just to be spending money, the sooner a Nigerian can replace him the better. So, if a Chinese comes because there is a peculiar way by which a company does its job and no Nigerian can do it within a year , for 18months at the lowest of level, that Chinese should go back. If he is still here two to three years after then the company does not mean well for Nigeria.

    Some Nigerians front for the foreigners in some business concerns? What is your take on this?

    That is most despicable. Now I often say the government has no reason to go into business, whether it is a state or federal or local, it has no reason to run business. We should have an enabling environment to allow businesses to run. It should be concerned about law and order. It should have laws relating to safety of lives and property. It should put in infrastructure like electricity that is constant, road that is well maintained, transportation, railway system, among other things. Having set the parameters, the government should invite truthful and honest businessmen to come but the authorities should monitor strictly what they are doing. There are some good businessmen you can trust; there are some sharp practitioners in every country. It is up to the government to ensure the business people are monitored. If you allow a company to do anything, it can produce something and say the quality is high while it may be rubbish. A company can just do anything, produce something and tell you the quality is high but it could be rubbish. The company can produce something that is toxic. If the company produces something that is dangerous, and government officials take bribe and allow the products into the market, it may be killing people. It is the duty of government to police all the processes. What I am saying is that if the government is checking, it would know that somebody is a front and it will plug that hole. If somebody says I am coming to train and he is not doing that and he is found out, the government should say, ‘No way, this is the last set of expatriates to be here.’ We don’t want a revolution in this country. The way we are going, 50 percent of our young people have no job. Don’t you think this government will fall?

    What was or is the role of our Indigenisation Decree in all these?

    The Indigenisation Decree of 1973 has to do with indigenisation of ownership of shares. It didn’t have to do with management succession. Management succession is controlled through expatriate quota. And that has been in existence for a very long time. Now, the process by which the expatriate quotas are renewed is a very defective one, otherwise there is no reason why a company should have been in Nigeria for 100 years and cannot produce one Nigerian as a CEO. What has it been doing here for 100 years? There are about 120 universities in this country now. And there are lots and lots of young graduates totally unemployed and not just for a period of three or six months, sometimes for two whole years, sometimes for four years. That is an explosive situation that can eventually lead to revolution if it is not nipped in the bud. So it is not in the interest of people who can train Nigerians to the very top and don’t do so. They can only operate in a peaceful and harmonious country. So, I can’t understand, I really don’t. The excuse is that some Nigerians had gotten to that top and failed. I would be the last person to say every Nigerian who got to the top most position succeeded wonderfully. Some have failed.

    Now, one of the reasons we are interested in what we are doing is to find out why they failed. After I would have talked to those who interacted with them when they were working and by talking to the same employers who now feel that they cannot have a Nigerian at the top. What did you find in those people? How can we find the right? if a multinational or a globalised company says, no this is what is wrong we can never get it right we would say leave our country, if any of the multinational companies say this is what is wrong and cannot put it right or they cannot improve or the country cannot improve then you leave the country. If you tell us what was wrong we would tackle it. Some of our people when they get to the top they become very loud, they become very ostentatious, they spend extravagantly.

    Auditors are supposed to play important roles in public and private sectors, but why do we still experience fraud?

    Well, auditors invariably come from outside the company. But a very good company will also have what we call the Internal Audit Unit. So you have two types of auditors. You have the external auditor who comes from outside and in many cases, statutorily, they are required to certify that the accounts are alright in accordance with the law – that is the Company and Allied Matters Act. Good companies are encouraged to have internal audit of their own. It is not compulsory but many good companies would have internal auditor. The internal auditors, are very good where corporate governance is close to what we call best practices , will report directly to the board so that he is not at the mercy of the CEO of the company. If he is at the mercy of the Managing Director, if he investigated the Managing Director himself and he found some financial malpractices, he might be coerced to suppress it one way or the other. They will find fault with him and sack him.

    So it is better for the chief internal auditor to report directly to the board so that the board will get a copy of everything that he reports. That is the only way we can have checks and balances. Some companies do it that way, some don’t. But any company that really wants to get benefit of the good internal audit system must make the internal auditor to report straight to the board , that is to the chairman , but he would still have to report to someone within the company for his ration and his discipline. If he is going to go on tour, somebody must approve that. If he wants to spend money, somebody must approve that. Since the chairman of the board, if he is not the executive, is not there all the time, he will still have to report to the CEO of the company.

    Now talking about external auditors, they come by the virtue of the law and they are powerful in the sense that the company cannot remove them without hearing from them, the shareholder. They can only be removed at an annual general meeting and the shareholders must vote on it, but they can resign on their own if they don’t want to do that anymore. Although they are important statutorily, they have limited access to information. I said limited. A company’s operation is over a period of a whole year. The external auditor is not there every day. You cannot ask him to come and audit all that had happened in a whole year over a period of a month. He can only pick documents at random; he cannot go through every single document. He will go through at random and he will then use the specimen of what he had seen to build an opinion.

    Sometimes, the opinion may not be entirely right because they didn’t look at every single thing and it is the internal company that gives them all of those documents they ask for. If the company didn’t give them the document they asked for, there is no way they can get it, so there is a limit to what an external auditor can do. And a lot of people don’t appreciate that there is a limit to what the auditors can do. An auditor can’t be everywhere. But sometimes, some of the external auditors are not firm enough. Every external auditor, apart from going through all the accounts and writing a report of all the accounts, should also write what we call a management letter to the board. All the things that are not quite right should be in that letter, and all these should be in their financial report. In most cases, the letters sometimes would get there late. Sometimes, there would be a number of questions, and the management of the company will be expected to react to those questions. But by and large, most external auditors do their best to comply with the provisions of law. There is no account that will be accepted if it is not audited by external auditor who is qualified to do so.

    You were involved in running the National Bank. Why did the bank crash?

    Well, I was invited by the owners because the bank was having challenges at the time I was invited. The owners then were the government of Western State, (Western Region in those days). The Western Region had asked a consultant to go and look into the operations of the bank, and the consultant came from London, the economic intelligence unit. And they discovered that the bank had been in existence for a long time , it had its own clientele , it also had a niche , and it could be put on really good footing if certain things were done. The board has to be restructured, they should try to increase the capital and then generally manage it better.

    So I took that offer as a chairman. They sent down an expatriate as managing director. That was part of the recommendations. The bank had never had an expatriate before. So they had go to the Ministry of Internal Affairs and got the expatriate quota. The expatriate managing director was exceptionally good; he had been in the banking industry for 45 years. When he came, we used his influence to get in touch with some other financial institutions, from Kuwait in particular. The financial institutions in Kuwait in particular were willing to help us. They wanted the federal government to guarantee us. The Federal Government then decided may be they could help. We wrote a memo and the FG looked at it and decided somehow to help the National Bank.

    We took the soft loan in 1974, and somehow the new managing director turned National Bank around and it was doing very well. So the government of the West wanted him to do same thing with Wema Bank, and then he retired. Subsequently, the National Bank wanted to help the ACB. They wanted him to do the same thing with WEMA Bank and then he retired. Subsequently, WEMA Bank continued to grow from strength to strength. By the time I became the chairman of Unilever in 1975 I told the government that I had done enough so I left the National Bank.

     

     

    Why did the bank eventually crash again after the Federal Government assistance?

    That was the help the FG gave to all those banks at that time. A bank is a very important institution in any country, and it has to be managed well. If it is managed well it helps the economy considerably, if it is not managed well, it will draw the economy down. In my time, we managed to revive the National Bank and I left it fairly healthy. The bank was owned by the government. In most cases, governments are run by politicians, and sometimes the objective of the politicians may not be exactly the same as what I would call long time interest of the bank and the society. Politicians are not there for long time, they run for election every four years. They have to renew their mandate. And in most cases, they will have to be there four or five years. They tend to have a short time or medium term view of business but a professional manager takes a long strategic view of business. You want to be there in the next 10, 20 or 25 years. This is not something that will make you take reckless decision, because you will be there to see what you have done right or wrong several years later. If it is a short time of five years, you will be there to see what you have done right or wrong several years later. That is the difference between the view of a professional manager and the view of a politician.

     

  • When the law is no help

    CONCERNED about the explosion of rape in the country experts at a forum titled, “Rape: Breaking the Silence and Ensuring Access to Care for Survivors,” in Lagos, called for collaborative efforts among the three tiers of government, family and media as a panacea for curbing the trend.

    Various speakers explained that in cases of rape, the Nigerian Constitution, police’ insistence on evidence, the judiciary’s disposition towards rape victims as well as the under reportage by the media of rape as a crime, increase the plight of rape victims. Yet, law enforcement agents admit that rape is fast becoming a nationwide epidemic with young girls and even boys becoming targets.

    “With the shame, psychological trauma and societal stigma associated with rape, conditions of victims are further compounded. The fact that rape is a traumatic violation that makes many survivors choose to continue in silence, preferring rather to blame themselves for the incident, while the perpetrators often walk away free.”

    In the view of Dr. Olufemi Kayode, CEO & Founder, Media Concern Initiative for Women and Children, a child rights advocacy group, “less than 50 per cent of those who muster courage to report (rapes) were satisfied with the way their cases were handled.”

    ON his blog, The Advocate, Olugbemi Fatula, argues that rape is a great insult against womanhood, as such, Nigeria’s criminal law should not only frown at it, but should also make it a serious offence in whatever form and circumstance it occur.

    “In Nigeria, following the Common Law trend, our courts have evolved the rule of practice of warning themselves on the dangers of convicting upon the uncorroborated evidence of the prosecutrix,” he writes.

    “While it is obvious that it is difficult to provide corroborating evidence in rape cases because the offence takes place in private and it is unlikely that there will be any other human witness apart from the parties themselves, yet, it is necessary for the law to corroborate the victim’s testimony with circumstantial evidence, such as her dishevelled state soon after the incident.

    “However, it has often been shown that such evidence should not be over-emphasized, for there is sufficient evidence that the victim’s first reaction to the assault is to clean up (before reporting) as though such could help wipe off the memory or wash off some of the perceived filth of the incident…”

    In the light of this, the Nigerian Senate, a few weeks ago, advocated stiffer punishment for perpetrators of sexual-related offences including rape. Senator Chris Anyanwu has sponsored a new legislation named ‘Sexual Offence Bill.’ She is demanding the creation of a unit within the Nigeria Police where trained professionals would ensure the preservation of the rights of humanity.

    A Lagos based activist, Ogechi Ekeanyanwu, advocates quick trial of reported cases of rape to serve as deterrent. Those found culpable should be punished and the insistence of evidence of rape by law enforcers should be dropped.

    She said: “If a rape victim reports, she must be treated with dignity…. the situation where victims are blamed for whatever reason must be stopped and rapists must be punished expediently.

    For Olufemi-Kayode, children who are victims of rape should not be subjected to adult courts; children cases should be addressed at family court. She pleaded that this should be corrected. Victims of rape have been abused and hurt enough. Their cases should be handled with all the sensitivity required. Police should desist from asking for evidences, and when they get to the court, judges, for humanity’s sake, should stop saying there is no case.

  • Violated in a youth camp

    Violated in a youth camp

    NOTHING you say would assuage her anguish. Her tears flowed like endless rivers of water. She turned her back on everyone in her parents’ living room. A few of the well-wishers were privy to what had befallen her. Few others were lost, trying to ask those sitting close to them, what exactly had happened to the young girl, who had gone missing for over forty-eight hours, but now sat, backing everyone, with her head covered in a black pashmina.

    She is Juliana (not real name), 18years of age – prospective student of a federal university currently awaiting her resumption date. As her mother got up from her seat to attend to certain matters, Juliana’s quiet voice cut into the silence in the living room. “None of you could ever know how dehumanising being raped is.” All mouths were agape in shock as people looked from the right to the left to be sure they grasped the words just uttered by the young girl.

    Swiftly, her mom, Mrs. Brown immediately snapped: “Please, keep your mouth shut and don’t ridicule this family for God’s sake!” The awkward exchange was followed by a long bout of silence.

    As brows remained furrowed and well-wishers sought clarity, Brown pleaded with guests to excuse the family. Everyone left except the reporter, who incidentally had been a family friend of many years. Thereafter, a closed session ensued. Juliana, the reporter gently pleaded ‘tell us what really happened.’

    Her words: “I had never wanted to sleep with a man till my wedding night. My father, in particular, has been a strong supporter in this wise. He talks to me all the time and so, does my mother. Because I had gained admission and was looking forward to my resumption day, I was invited to a youth camp; my parents believed there was no need to deny me permission. After all, I had behaved impressively through my years in high school. My daddy was especially proud of me. By the time I got my WASCE results, my dad bought me a gift because I did very well. I also did quite well in my post-UME. And I got admitted on the merit list. I will conceal the name of the group that invited me to the camp and the location we went to as I have been told.

    “One day at the camp, we were all to go for a particular activity. But because I had not been feeling well, I got excused to stay back and rest. About an hour after everyone had left, I thought I was all alone in the female wing of the camp, so, I had only my briefs on. Suddenly, I felt the instinct to look back. As I did, I gasped in shock as I saw one of the male campers standing by the door staring at me. I knew I had seen him since we got to the camp. But I never met or knew him before then. And we never related.

    “Then, he started walking close to me. I quickly grabbed my towel but before I could wrap it on me, he jerked it away from me and pushed me to the bed. I made to scream, but he tucked my towel into my mouth, reminding me that the rest of the group were far away from us. Before I could get my brains together, he had started raping me. I struggled hard but he was just smiling at me as he did the evil act. When he was done, he warned me that if I report him, he would deal with me.

    “I was in tears and terrified. I was shaking for hours till others came in later. It didn’t take long before some of the girls knew what had happened. I didn’t even tell any story, but was just crying. Then, one of them ran to call our supervisor, a lady. I was encouraged to clean up. Some girls assisted me.

    “Later, I was asked for his name. I told them I don’t know him. In about an hour, they brought out and lined up the other males in the camp and told me to identify him. I felt terrible. But he was nowhere among the lot. I felt he must have run away. We all came from different places. Only a few of us knew one another. I was then taken to the hospital and was admitted for two days.

    “Later, my parents were invited and told what had happened. They were crushed. I wept as I saw my mother wail. My father was shattered. That is why he has been indoors since he was told. All I pray is that God will not give that boy rest till he has repented of his evil to me, and who knows if he has other girls to his list of conquests?”