Category: Sunday magazine

  • Engaging the breakthrough power of faith (2)

    Welcome to your regular column.

    Your personal engagement is key to the fulfillment of prophecy in your life. Nobody can fulfill destiny on your behalf. It will require your own faith, for it is to you according to your faith (Matthew 9:29). Therefore, to see prophecies fulfilled in your life:

    1. Take heed to them: The prophecies you don’t take heed to will never get fulfilled in your life. We have also a more sure word of prophecy; whereunto ye do well that ye take heed, as unto a light that shineth in a dark place, until the day dawn, and the day star arise in your hearts…(2 Peter 1:19-21).

    Recount and re-echo them (Proverb 4:20-23). Any prophecy you mock, you cannot partake of its benefits. If you count yourself out, you are out!

    2. Engage in spiritual warfare to see them fulfilled: This means, engaging in prayer. Put up a fight of faith to ensure the delivery of your own portion. This charge I commit unto thee, son Timothy, according to the prophecies which went before on thee, that thou by them mightest war a good warfare; (1 Timothy 1:18).

    You are called to engage in a fight, so you can ward off every adversary (1 Corinthians 16:9), and lay hold of what eternal life has in store for you (1 Timothy 6:12). You can’t be a spiritual civilian and conquer; you conquer as a soldier (2 Timothy 2:3).

    3. Give yourself wholly to the demands of the prophetic word: There is always a part you have to play, before you can commit God to do His part. When you give yourself wholly to those things, your profiting will be seen by all. Meditate upon these things; give thyself wholly to them; that thy profiting may appear to all (1Timothy 4:15). You need to work it out, not play with it.

    Make Your Faith Set: If faith is so powerful, then why do we appear so powerless? It is because our faith is not rooted and grounded enough. Every change of level meets people suddenly. Except your faith is ready, you will trash it. If your faith is not set, you will miss your set time. You need a set faith to take delivery of your next levels. Therefore, you need to build your faith or it will fail you when your lifting comes.

    Invest in making your faith set, by tapping into the depth that God has given to those who have it. Henceforth, every step you take towards building your faith, will produce amazing results. Grace to partner with God through building up your faith, receive it right now!

    Unveiling The Demand Of Faith: It is important to understand that every prophecy must be personally received, personally believed, personally expected, personally anticipated and personally fulfilled. It has to be personalized or you will just be singing it as a slogan.

    So, it takes your own faith to be saved; no one can be saved on your behalf. In the same way that it takes your own faith to be healed, it also takes your own faith to have victory.

    Even though God called Abraham and Sarah, He still dealt with them on individual basis (Isaiah 51:2). So, it’s vital for us to appreciate the individuality dimension of the race of life; that will take us to our next levels.

    Also note that It is not to you according to the prayers of anybody; it is only to you according to your faith. Even when you are being prayed for, your faith must be able to connect with it or you won’t get it.

    Remember, Jesus went to Nazareth and laid hands on people; but Jesus in whom the fullness of God dwelt, could do no mighty work,… And He marvelled because of their unbelief… (Mark 6:5-6). So, the anointing in your presence does not make a difference. It takes your faith to connect with the anointing.

    Friend, the power to see set your faith is the preserve of those redeemed. You are redeemed as you confess your sins and accept Jesus as your Saviour and Lord. If you are set for this new birth experience, please say this prayer: Lord Jesus, I come to you today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins. Cleanse me with your precious blood. Today, I accept you as my Lord and Saviour. Thank You, for saving me! Now I know, I am born again! I will conclude this teaching next week.

    I know this teaching has blessed you. Write and share your testimony with me through: Faith Tabernacle, Canaan Land, Ota, P.M.B. 21688, Ikeja, Lagos, Nigeria; or call 7747546-8; or E-mail: feedback@lfcww.org

  • Should churches pay  instrumentalists?

    Should churches pay instrumentalists?

    Many instrumentalists and singers are on collision path with churches based on compensation package, triggering a controversy with great repercussions, reports Sunday Oguntola

    It was supposed to be the most exciting moment of the service. Worshippers, ever eager and exultant, stood up prepared to dance. The regular praise leader took to the podium. For the next 10 minutes, he sang like always. But the congregation’s response was rather uncharacteristically dull.

    Something was missing in the praise worship session. The drummer and keyboardist were nowhere to be found. Their absence stalled what normally would have been an enjoyable praise session. Even the praise leader knew he could not move the congregation like before. The general overseer, a vivacious, observant preacher, realised the session marred the entire service.

    The congregation could not wait for him to end his sermon. Many of the worshippers headed home thoroughly disappointed, with what they described as the dullest Sunday service in the history of the Lagos-based Pentecostal church.

    The drummer and keyboardists stayed away in protest against the church’s failure to “appreciate their gifts”. The church, they argued, was always lively because of their talented performances. “We give our best but get nothing in return. Everyone returns home blessed while we are yet drained and broke,” the keyboardist explained.

    The drummer, on his part, said he was moving to a nearby Pentecostal church that has agreed to place him on a fat monthly salary. The appreciation, he said, will not only make up for his troubles but also motivate him to perform better. Sad as his exit was from his former church, he said he was left with no option.

    This scenario reopens the debate on whether or not it is proper for churches to pay singers and instrumentalists. Observations revealed that many Pentecostal churches have imbibed the culture of paying instrumentalists and musicians. This, it was gathered, is to prevent them from being poached and to secure good worship experiences.

    The general overseer of Jesus Liberation Squad, New Oko Oba Lagos, Apostle Dele Johnson, said instrumentalists and musicians should ordinarily not be drawing pay from churches. Johnson, a former instrumentalist with Foursquare Gospel Church and The Redeemed Evangelical Mission (TREM), however, stated present-day instrumentalists are not mature to the point of playing for free in churches.

    According to him: “It depends on how mature they are but I realised many of them are not. The Bible says God gives us gifts to profit, so they want money. And you really have no choice if you want to retain their services.”

    Johnson admits his church pays, stating that it is not totally wrong because “we must also learn to appreciate the gift of God in their lives.” Many pastors, he said, “do not value instrumentalists and treat them shabbily.”

    If the general overseer of House Favour Church Egbeda Lagos, Rev. Bayode Olubo, has his way, he would not pay. In fact, he said he was not paying until recently when he came across a full-time, professional drummer. “My grouse with them is that they equate themselves with men of God. They feel they also make things happen in churches and should be treated as kings,” he began.

    He said many instrumentalists were hopping in and out when he was not paying, a situation that bore negatively on services. Though he now pays, he warned instrumentalists and musicians to humble themselves and depend on God for sustenance.

    The senior pastor of The Stone Church Ibadan, Pastor Alex Adegboye, said churches really have no choice but to pay instrumentalists to get the best out of them. “We pay because we want the best. If you don’t, they just leave for another church and that will be it,” he stated.

    Admitting that the development amounts to monetisation of talents, Adegboye said instrumentalists should be left to their consciences to deal with the issue. “If they are really mature, they should do it free but since they prefer money, you just leave them to sort it out with God.”

    He, however, said instrumentalists have personal needs and rehearsals to attend, which he said makes paying them a necessity.

    The associate pastor of Sure Word Assembly Okota, Lagos, Pastor Aity Dennis-Inyang, gave a yes -and- no answer to the question. According to her, “If they(musicians and instrumentalists) are working full time, they should be paid since that is the only thing they do.

    “But if they work elsewhere, they should not be paid. That should be their contribution to the church and the ministry.” The award-winning singer said choosing not to pay exposes the musical talents to secular enticements. “If we don’t take care of them, the secular world is waiting for their talents and gifts.”

  • Chima Anyaso is third time lucky

    CHIMA Anyaso, the young dude behind Ceecom Oil and Gas, still believes in marriage. Last Saturday, he got married to Adanna Nzeribe. This will be Chima’s third attempt at marriage in the last five years. He dated former governor Orji Uzor Kalu’s daughter, Neya Kalu. Neya walked out of the union after a while in 2009. Chima then married Onyeka Odiegwu in 2011 in a top society wedding, but the marriage only lasted less than six months. Little wonder celebrity marriages crash and burn in record time. Notwithstanding this immutable fact, not a few people, particularly scions of the Nigeria’s rich, would contend that the uncertainties of silver spoon romance, the fatalism of cupid, as well as the dilemmas of conscience and egotism all critically constitute unfair influences in the crash of so many silver spoon marriages. However, family and friends of Chima Anyaso are praying fervently for his third marriage to stand the test of time.

  • Gbemi Saraki gets new friend

    Senator Gbemi Saraki, the beautiful daughter of the late godfather of Kwara politics, Senator Olusola Saraki, is now enjoying life to the fullest. Though she suffered defeat in the last general elections, the ever-smiling senator has revealed an innate resilience and passion that has kept her going against all odds. Though the battle for the gubernatorial seat of Kwara took a lot out of her, the affable young woman is content that she gave a good account of herself. While the campaign lasted, Gbemi made not a few enemies along the way, who at some point callously wanted her permanently silenced. After the death of her beloved father, she recoiled into her shell, which explains why she has not been sighted in recent times. She is now very close to a few people. One of those who are currently making her happy is Dr. Wale Babalakin, the erudite lawyer-cum-business mogul, who is the chairman of Bi-Courtney Group.

  • A tale of two colourful weddings

    AS it has become the in-thing among the elites to stage party across the seas, billionaire and oil mogul, Jide Omokore, threw a party that was not left out of the new trend when he staged an elaborate wedding for his son, Tosin Omokore, in Dubai penultimate weekend. The party featured a few equally prominent friends of Chief Omokore and several family members who flew to that country with the man who has come to give a new definition to hospitality and fun. The venues used would not forget in a hurry the about 300 guests who flew to the city to honour both parents, and it lived up to expectation as up to 25 rich and powerful Nigerians flew in their private jets. The entire JW Marriott Marquis was taken over by Omokore’s guests, while the 37th floor of the same hotel was where lunch was served for all. Other guests who didn’t stay at the Marriott were lodged at another luxurious hotel, Mirage Palace. Oluwatosin Omokore and Faizer Fari’s wedding would never be forgotten in a hurry with leading entertainers like DJ Jimmy Jatt on the wheels of steel on the wedding day and Wizkid performing to everyone’s delight at the wedding. Basketmouth, Godbless and Eboni Band also performed at the A-list wedding. Who-is-who in the Nigerian social and political spaces were in attendance. You could understand why dignitaries from within and outside Dubai would take more than a passing interest and go to great lengths to be part of an event attended by the creme of the elite crowd. It all probably came down to the fondness which many of them peddle for Chief Jide Omokore, whom many adjudge a jolly good fellow.

    …. Peter Odili stages high-octane wedding for daughter

    Njideka, the pretty daughter of former Rivers State governor, Dr. Peter Odili, penultimate weekend joined the league of married women as she performed her traditional marriage rites to Mr. Uzoma Nwosu Iheme, son of Justice Chioma Nwosu Iheme, a judge of the Federal High Court at the Ndoni country home of Dr. Peter Odili. Njideka’s mother, Justice Mary Odili, is a Justice of the Supreme Court of Nigeria. A week after, the wedding proper was staged in Abuja, had President Goodluck Jonathan in attendance with the creme of Nigeria’s political and social spaces in attendance. Governor Rotimi Chibuike Amaechi who missed the Ndoni traditional marriage surprised many when he arrived Abuja to witness the wedding ceremony.

  • Will Lola Omotayo and Peter Okoye seal their love this year?

    THEIR much-vaunted conjugal merger is one union the cream of the entertainment world and high society has been waiting impatiently for in the last three years. Since the news of their relationship became public knowledge, after gifting Peter, the other half of singing sensation, P-Square, two kids some years back, sweet looking Lola Omotayo, does not pretend about it any longer. As such, it was generally assumed that theirs would be one wedding that would make the society creak at the eaves. But how wrong they were! Though a lot of people were expecting the beautiful lovebirds to formalise their romance few years ago, it didn’t happen. The wait is becoming rather unbearable for fans of P-Square and friends of Lola. The question on the lips of many at the moment, is when would Lola drag Peter to the alter if he is still prevaricating? Or is she deliberately taking her time as a close friend of hers suggests? No doubt, with her striking, lovely looks and uncomplicated elegance, Lola is never going to be short of admirers though she is not getting younger again. Many of her close friends are hopping that the love birds will tie the knot before this years runs out.

  • Between Mina Okoloko and Sandra Solebo

    THIS is the story of two celebrity friends who grew up together, did everything together and married two prominent guys who were also best of friends but have now fallen apart. Regarded as one of Nigeria’s most beautiful young women with a smuldering beauty that can set off fire alarms, Sandra is the beautiful wife of Femi Solebo, a former banker and director at Notore Chemicals. She is also the daughter of Emmanuel Edozien, a former professor at the University of Ibadan. Mina, who is partly Scotish, on the other hand, is an Obafemi Awolowo University-trained lawyer. She is married to Jite Okoloko, who calls the shots at Notore. Mina and Sandra epitomised everything about true friendship prior to their marriages; they rocked the social scene together and were virtually inseparable. Not even marriage could drive them apart as they still saw each other from time to time. But at the moment, the two women are now keeping a low profile, while giving the party circuit a very wide berth. They no longer appear at events together and always cleverly avoid anything that would put them on pages of society journals.

  • ‘Nigeria needs more than prayers’

    ‘Nigeria needs more than prayers’

    Bishop Taiwo Akinola is the General Overseer of Rhema Christian Church & Tower International in Otta, Ogun State. He spoke with Sunday Oguntola on national issues. Excerpts:

    14 years after democracy, are we there yet?

    Of course, we all know we are far from being there. You know becoming a man is not a day’s job. So the task of nationhood is not a child’s play. We have come a lot way, no doubt, in the sense that we have been able to have uninterrupted democracy, but I also know there is still a lot to be done. We are a growing democratic culture but we still need to cover a lot of grounds.

    Some people have said preachers like you only tell people to pray while the nation is slipping away. Is prayer enough to save Nigeria?

    Yes, I believe developed nations did more than praying. I believe that prayer is effective in talking with God but you also have to talk to leaders. I am of the opinion church leaders must speak out and call political office holders to caution. Yes, we must pray, but we must always engage our leaders. I don’t believe we should fold our arms but we must speak out and take a stand.

    A prominent church leader joined the call for convocation of National Sovereign Conference recently. Will you support such move?

    No, I don’t. I believe those making these calls are ethnic champions with different agendas. If such conference holds, they will tear this country apart. Besides, we have elected officers representing various corners of this country. They should be able to discuss whatever challenges we have in Nigeria. Why should we duplicate that body again? All the ethnic lords will have their ways pursuing agendas that will not favour us. So, we don’t need national conference; let our lawmakers discuss all that should be discussed.

    There are fears and projections that Nigeria will not survive beyond 2015. Going by the tension in the political atmosphere don’t you see this coming to pass?

    I do not believe in that prediction or suggestion at all. That country has said its own. I don’t believe any nation can determine the fate of others. I know the country can begin to orchestrate events that will prove that prediction right. So, it is up to Nigeria to work against it. The glory of Nigeria is in our size. Everyone wants to come here to do business because of our population. So, it is in everyone’s interest that we remain one.

    Besides, the Bible says the boundary of nations is determined by God. God is the one that carved out Nigeria and we must not allow that suggestion to come to pass. We must work against it. Let us speak with one voice and our leaders should shun ethnic agenda. Nigeria is a solid nation and we will not disintegrate in Jesus name.

    How do you want to react to the monumental corruption in this nation?

    Corruption is a fallout of our moral decadence and cultural disorientation. When someone comes from the village and returns in six months with money, we celebrate him. We don’t bother how he came about the money. We then taunt his contemporaries who return with nothing. So, we are all involved in this. Traditional rulers, church leaders and religious institutions must work to change this. Let’s allow people to know that ill-gotten wealth is of no value. When that starts, it spreads to all sectors. The government gets the signal and act accordingly. We should even include anti-corruption subjects in our curriculum so that we can catch Nigerians from young.

    We have no country but Nigeria. No matter where you go, your skin marks you out. You can never be a first class citizen outside here. This is the only country we have and we have to change our people’s perception. Why should you pocket what belongs to others? Why should you plan to cheat me or anybody for that matter?

    Supposing pastors and church leaders decide to organise protest marches against government policies and actions, will you be willing to participate?

    I would not.

    Why?

    Thank you. You see there is no value for human life in this country. So many people can hijack the protest march and begin to destroy property. They can take over and derail the protests. When they do that, the government can send security men after the protesters, leading to loss of lives.

    But the church employed that method in the US to great success. Why not give it a try here too? Won’t it be cowardice to chicken out?

    Thank you, but you see we don’t all have to think alike. We have different perspectives to issues. If you regard it as an act of cowardice, I will ask you to go ahead. You are still my brother but I will not join you in any protest.

    In advanced countries, the police have regards for people. But here, they are quick to use fire arms to disperse protesters. I watch on CNN some days ago and saw how policemen were even protecting protesters elsewhere. I know how many people would have died if we try it here. I don’t want anybody to puff teargas into my system for nothing.

    Everything in this country has failed. How does that make you feel?

    No, every system here has not collapsed. We still have many things running. But having said that, we know things are deteriorating here. But we have ourselves to blame for it. If we all elect the best with our consciences, we won’t be where we are again. You find most of the protesters that you mentioned are only interested in dislodging the persons there so that they can take over and do worse things.

    We must all come together to fix this country. Pastors, journalists, doctors and traditional rulers must team up to save Nigeria. Things are bad because we are ready to change our lives. It takes Nigerians to change Nigeria. It takes Nigerians to move Nigeria forward.

    What will people find in Rhema Chapel that might be difficult to find elsewhere?

    Every living church believes in Christ and eternity but there is always peculiarity. Here, we were asked to raise a glorious army of champions. Here, nobody is allowed to suffer. We rally round one another and refuse to discriminate on any basis. We love one another and raise champions. The totality of the gospel is what we preach here.

     

  • As late Ebele Onyeador  departs mother earth

    As late Ebele Onyeador departs mother earth

    IF outpouring of eulogies and tears are potent enough to rouse the dead, Ebele Onyeador, the younger sister of late art aficionado and socialite, Angela Onyeador, who died penultimate Friday, would have sprung back to life. It would be recalled that Ebele died one year after her elder sister, Angela, died. Two years ago, their eldest sister, Stella, who was married to the late Dim Chukwu Emeka Ojukwu, also died. Ebele has finally joined her beloved sisters and to depart no more. She was buried in Lagos a few days ago. The eyes of many were bloodshot and not a few fought back tears. The sun was at its peak; yet they felt cold and walked with arms crossed. Ebele, before her death, was the only surviving child of the late Sir Alex Onyeador. Sir Alex owned over 100 houses in Port-Harcourt, including the Shell quarters. He was the first Nigerian to rise to the position of a manager in Shell. Ebele’s burial was organised by her sister- in-law, Dr. Ijeoma Onyeador, who flew in from London with her two sons for the burial.

  • Bold Lips

    Bold Lips

    DO you care for bold and plush lips? No don’t need to go extra mile instead, try bright poppy pink, a universally flattering shade colour. What you have to do is to dot the colour onto the centre of your lips, then use your finger to spread it out to your satisfaction for a glazed effect.

    Darker shades exaggerate little lines and flakes, so before you apply any colour, apply a lip balm to moisturise. You get better results on a smoother surface to make it last.

    With your lip brush, take out your lipstick of choice and feather the brush over the top till it has a decent amount of it. Then slide the brush on your lips, little dabs will do. Make sure the lipstick is evenly spread out so there are not any clumps.

    Once this is done, dab off any extra lipstick around the corners of your mouth and choose a lip liner. It should probably be a bit darker than your lipstick. Thinly line the silhouette of your lips, so it doesn’t look too thin or dark. This will give the illusion of plumper lips without the heavy colour lined around.

    After you’ve done this, let the makeup set again for a few minutes. Then, you can apply lip gloss to your lips. A thin coat should be just enough to give your lips dimension. This is optional.

    This look will last you all day! It’s a perfect routine for anywhere, whether just a day at any event or dinner. Enjoy your bold lips!