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  • ‘The best gift I got from dad’

    ‘The best gift I got from dad’

    National Coordinator of the Nigerian Network of Women Exporters (NNWE), Nkiru Joy Okpala, is a holder of master’s degrees in no fewer than three different fields, including Law and Business Administration. She speaks with YETUNDE OLADEINDE on her love for training programmes, the potential of export services and its challenges.

     

    How is life as a lawyer who is helping to develop the export service sector?

    The law profession is very interesting. When I sit in my office and somebody calls me from the United States, saying, ‘Can you help me register a company?’ Or the person wants me to bring a company to Nigeria and I say, ‘Okay, it would cost you so and so amount,’ and he wires some dollars to me, what have I done? I am sitting in my office and exporting my service. This is how to tell you there are modes of exporting service. If I have not been put through by this organisation, I might not have understood that.

    What informed your choice of the Law profession?

    Although I studied Law, I also hold an MBA in Business Management and another master’s degree in Business Administration. I also hold a post graduate diploma in Management Accounting. These are apart from my legal profession where I have gone for post graduate and masters.

    When I was growing up, I saw lawyers in their wigs and gowns and I was thrilled, so I said I must also wear them. I also had another passion: if I see someone being trampled upon, I feel for them and wonder why someone would do a thing like that to another. That was how it started.

    By the time I got into legal practice, I joined FIDA. I am still a member of FIDA (International Federation of Women Lawyers) and the International Bar Association (IBA). As much as I had this passion, I also had the passion to help people come out of poverty. That took me to the other things that I do.

    I realised that most organisations are interested in doing things around violence against women, women’s rights and all that. Yes, they are good, but they have not actually addressed the other side of the woman—a process where a woman has confidence in herself and where she can compete with the men favourably. So, when this opportunity came, I was happy and knew I had seen something that would help women achieve their dreams, and I said I was going to work at it.

    I thank God that we have been achieving a lot and I am grateful that we are seeing results in what we are doing. When you work and you do not see results, you do not get encouraged.

    Let’s talk about some of the places where you schooled…

    I had my primary, secondary and university education in Enugu. Then I did my PGD (post graduate diploma) at the University of Ife and my LLM with Kogi State University. And aside those ones, I had a lot of international programmes. I have gone on a lot of executive programmes with the World Bank in Washington DC, and Policy and Economic Studies with the London Graduate School in UK. I also did Arbitration and alternative dispute Resolution at the University of Estrada in Germany. I have really travelled far and wide when it comes to executive training. I have been to about 68 countries of the world. Some were for conferences, some on presentation of papers and others where we had to sit with other people to understand how the shoe pinches them and how it pinches us. At the end of the day, we come back to implement what we have learnt.

    What gives you the drive to do all this?

    Well, I would say it is the passion for doing something you know would affect others. Mine is not about money because most times, I spend my money doing all this and come back to relay it to the women. I do a lot of research and I write articles for International bodies. I write for missions and I derive joy doing such work. It gives me great pleasure. If I am alone and not doing anything, I am not fulfilled. I feel as if something is missing from me.

    What influence did your parents have on you?

    My parents are disciplinarians. My father really influenced me. He was a banker but he is late now. When he was alive, he was comfortable and contented with what he had. He was not looking for the extras and he made us to understand that as well. He made us to realise from childhood that the best gift from him was the intellectual ability and knowledge.

    When we were growing up, he was not living with us because of the regular transfers to different states. Funny enough, whenever he was coming back, one thing I always looked forward to was his pile of newspapers.

    What is the focus of your organisation?

    It is focused on trade and services; trying to let women know how they can improve their economic status. I am the national coordinator of the organisation in Nigeria, and it was launched in Abuja in 2006, as well as in Lagos. It was officially registered in 2007.

    Was there a need for the organisation?

    Yes, there was. It came as a final project of the DFID, which was implemented by the International Trade Centre, a unit of the United Nations. It was like the world was going through a lot of innovations and things were happening. Research showed that every time, we talk about expanding a product, forgetting that the major driver of the economy is the service sector. Again, women in developing economies are involved in the service sector. Moreover, before any product would come into existence, there must be a lot of services, and those are the ones changing the economy and bringing about a lot of issues

    The outside world felt that developing countries, especially Nigeria as a major country in Africa, can show the use and essence of the service sector. So, that was how it came about. It was the executive director of the International Trade Centre who came in the company of other executives to launch it. In attendance was the then Minister of Commerce as well as the Minister of Women Affairs and the executive Director of the Nigerian Export Promotion Council.

    What were some of the programmes and projects you have carried out?

    We have carried out a number of projects. We were involved in advocacy projects. We first of all tried to understand the problems women are having when it comes to trade and services. So we had to also lead them through the dictates of export. Having done that for the people in the private sector, we brought in the public sector. We had to retrain them to understand that if the environment is not stable, there is no way that they can do business.

    We saw that the average person in business was suffering and so we had to go to them to understand their own role when it comes to efficiency in service delivery and expanding the non-oil sector through service. That was one. And then we went further to see that better education was put in place and we had to deal with other issues because we saw that the world is going global. In Africa, you find that we have the customs’ tariffs, which also affects the export of not just goods but also services. So we had to see how we could facilitate trade across the regions of Africa. And during the EPA negotiations, we had to make sure that the voices of women were heard.

    Again, the network has participated during the World Economic Forum in Abuja. We had to let them bring in the African world because the Forum was for Africa, to let them understand how to develop and handle the service sector, since we were talking about non-oil export. So, we looked at how to develop it and assist the women. Then again we have been very fast in gaining the consultative status with the United Nations.

    We have also been involved in the Millennium Development Goals (MDGs), which is coming to an end this year. And the new goals are sustainable development goals (SDGs). And where we are talking about developing the economy, the environment and the social aspect of life, the climate change, innovations and technology, in all this, trade and services as well as financial issues are involved.

    We were a member of the major group that went to Ethiopia to draft an African agenda that would be included in the high level political forum in New York for the SDGs in the world. We are also the protocol for financing for development, which is also coming up in Ethiopia this July. Not just for Ethiopia but also within the local area, we have also been able to gather some women who are involved in trading in products to see how we can help in establishing warehousing for them.

    One of the things we do is creating awareness and access to international markets. So, most times, we take the women on international symposia, international business meetings and even local business meetings. We now realise that these women are productive but cannot access markets for their products. One of the services we render to them is trying to liaise with other countries that are interested in their products, finding markets for them and seeing how they can improve on their exports through assisted delivery. These are some of the things that we have done.

    The other thing is that we have been in contact with the Centre for International Private Enterprise (CIPE), where they formed a network consisting of 17 women organisations. We have been with them and we have been at the forefront of issues about expanding their services as it relates to business, and we did a project on access to credit.

    Is it easy doing all these or are there challenges?

    There are numerous challenges. The number one is letting people understand that what they are doing is adding value to the society. When you are able to understand what you are doing and understand how to do it best, you stand a chance of competing favourably with others locally and internationally.

    The second is the access to funds that we work with. Because we do not have support from anyone, we raise our funds on our own. I should say that it was once that we received something from the Nigerian Exports Promotion Council. They are our parent body when it comes to supervision. When it comes to dealing with women and addressing their issues and helping them to come out of poverty, which is their major role, we are cash-strapped.

  • Ita-Giwa buries dad

    Ita-Giwa buries dad

    FEW women are gifted with both beauty and brains. Among the lucky ones is Senator Florence Ita-Giwa. At 69, she is still full of life. Recently, Mama Bakasi, as she is fondly called, staged a lavish burial ceremony for her stepfather, the late Godwin Akinwale Bajomo, at The Haven Event Centre, GRA, Ikeja, Lagos.

    There to grace the occasion were close friends and associates of the founder of Children of Bakassi Foundation, including Sisi Abba Folawiyo, Yeye Oge Opral Benson and Mrs Ireti Asemota, among others. Ita-Giwa ensured that her guests were pampered with choice dishes, drinks and dessert.

  • I want justice for my dad, says ex-FUTA VC’s son

    I want justice for my dad, says ex-FUTA VC’s son

    •Mimiko: killers will be punished

    The youngest son of the murdered ex-Vice Chancellor of the Federal University of Technology Akure (FUTA), Prof. Albert Ilemobade,  Adeseni, is seeking justice for his dad.

    The don was murdered by his domestic workers, who strangled him and left his body in the store of his Akure home.

    They escaped with his vehicle which they attempted to sell.

    Adeseni said justice must be served to his killers without delay.

    Daniel Ita, a guard, and Olayemi Bamitale, a former driver of the late professor, strangled him to death and fled with his Red Toyota RAV 4.

    Adeseni, the youngest child of the 78-year-old professor of Veterinary Medicine, called for retribution on behalf of the family.

    According to him, the way his father was brutally killed showed that his assailants acted a prepared script

    The younger Ilemobade recounted how Bamitale had previously stolen his father’s vehicle and driven it away.

    Bamitale, a 36-year-old indigene of Ekiti State, was a primary school dropout before he became the late professor’s driver.

    He could not sell the vehicle because it had been tracked by the police.

    llemobade said: “They did something similar during Easter. He took my father to church and disappeared with the vehicle. He was nowhere to be found with the vehicle.”

    “Imagine, this time around, he came down to murder my father,” llemobade expressed solemnly.

    Some observers, associates, family and church members noted that it took the police seven days to discover that the professor was not kidnapped.

    They said: “The police told us that they were in the house and combed everywhere in the compound and even interrogated his wife and other domestic workers, including the housemaid who was later arrested.

    “We have a failed security system in this country. This can’t happen in other countries where security of lives and properties is made a priority. We need more intelligence gathering.”

    The police said the suspected killers would be charged and they would see to it that they are brought to justice.”

    Governor Olusegun Mimiko yesterday vowed that the perpetrators would not go unpunished.

    Mimiko spoke when he visited the family at Ijapo Estate in Akure.

    According to him, the government would take every lawful means to make sure  justice is served.

    The governor, who led a delegation, described the late Ilemobade as a man, who devoted his life to the service of humanity.

    He, however, decried the manner of death, adding that every mortal has an exit date.

    The governor praised the  security agents for getting to the root of the incident.

    The governor who later visited the store where the body was kept by the culprits enjoined people to always carry out background checks of their domestic workers.

    Responding on behalf of the family, Prof Adesola Ilemobade, who is the first son of the deceased, thanked Mimiko and his team for the visit.

    He described his father as a great man.

    The senator representing Ondo North,Prof Ajayi Boroffice yesterday commisserated with the  family.

    Boroffice described the don’s death as painful and shocking.

    The lawmaker condemned the suspects for their inhumanity and wickedness.

    He prayed for the repose of the late Ilemobade’s soul.

  • Boy seeks police help to locate dad

    A six-year-old boy has run to the police to help him locate his father, Abel Daniel.

    The Nation learnt that Daniel, 41, who works as a security official at Adeomo Abija, GRA Ikeja, Lagos left his Sango, Ogun State home on June 17 and has yet to return.

    According to Michael Abel Daniel, all efforts to locate his father has failed.

    The elder Daniel’s younger brother, Etim, alleged that his colleagues said they were unaware of his whereabouts.

    He said: “I am the junior brother to Abel Daniel. We live together at 3, Owoyemi Street, Sango, Ogun State. We are three living together, myself, himself and his only son. He got the son when he was in school, out of wedlock. He has a fiancée based in Akwa Ibom State whom he is planning to marry.

    “She (the fiancée) called me on Thursday June 18 the day I wanted to go to Sango Police Station to report the incident. She said that she called him on Wednesday June 17, the day Daniel left house without telling anybody where he was going with his car. She said he told her that he would not go to work on that Wednesday and Thursday. On Thursday, the following day, she called him again and the phone was switched off. After several trials to get him on phone failed she then called me and asked of Abel, that his phone was switched off. I told her that Abel left house on Wednesday and had not come back and when I tried to get him on phone, his handset was switched off. Later that day, I went to Sango police station with one woman and reported the matter, on Thursday June 18.

    According to him, Daniel is light in complexion; 6.1m tall, speaks Efik and English fluently.

    “He left with his Nissan Prado with number-plate EY118SMK. He is always at home if he didn’t go to office because of son who is schooling in a private school at Sango. He finds it difficult to sleep outside because of his son. Now I have to be taking his son to school and bringing him back. I took excuse from work place and they allowed me to go and look for my missing brother.”

  • Editor loses dad

    Editor loses dad

    Pa James Omodara Otokiti, father of the News Editor of National Daily, Mr. Segun Otokiti, has passed on.

    Pa Otokiti died on May 29, after a brief illness. He was 80.

    He was a Supervisory Senior Pharmacy Technician with Ido/Osi Local Government in Ekiti State before he retired years ago.

    His Pharmacy career took him across many states in the South-West and Edo State.

    A Christian wake and lying-in-state will hold for him on July 16 at his 69, Ayetoro Street, Ijare, Ondo State home.

    He will be laid to rest on July 17 at his residence after a funeral service at St. Michael Anglican Church, Ayetoro Street, Ijare.

    Pa Otokiti is survived by wives, children, grandchildren, nephews, nieces and many other relations.

    Entertainment of guests follows immediately after burial at Anglican Grammar School’s open field in Ijare.

  • Babajide Coker loses dad

    Wealth, they say, is no shield against death. Hence the rich often experience their own share of grief. This bitter nugget proved to be true as death recently visited the household of popular Lagos businessman and socialite, Babajide Coker.

    Babajide recently lost his father, Chief Henry Theodore Okeade Coker, a Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN). Although Babajide has tried to maintain a manly stance by keeping his grief in check, he was overwhelmed by the incident as he shook in grief and struggled in vain to fight back tears.

    Babajide is not just a respected businessman; he is also a crowd puller. We gathered that the second week in June has been tentatively picked for a befitting burial for the man who was an achiever in every sense of the word. No wonder his friends and professional colleagues are warming up for the burial ceremony. They include the likes of Alhaji Aliko Dangote, Femi Otedola, Tunde Folawiyo, Liyel Imoke, Kola Abiola, Dejare Rewane Adegbenro, Gbenga Oyebode and Oba Otudeko, to mention a few.

    Already, the Cokers’ residence has become a beehive of activities as everyone tries to ensure that everything is in place for the D-day.

  • My dad made me a defender – Iorfa

    My dad made me a defender – Iorfa

    Nigeria-born England U-20 international Dominic Iorfa has revealed that he became a defender because his father and ex-Nigeria international striker Dominic Iorfa senior wanted it so.

    The young defender emerged through Wolverhampton Wanderers’ Academy ranks as a centre-back, but it is at right full back that he burst to prominence at Molineux in the just ended season.

    He said he preferred to be a striker like his dad and actually started as a striker until his father felt otherwise.

    “I started my career as a striker at Southend and I wanted to be a centre- forward like my dad, but ironically it was he who told my coach that he thought I should play in defence,” he told Wolves’ official website.

    “Ever since then I’ve always played in defence but when I was younger I wanted to be a striker really. Most of the professional games I’ve played have been at right back so I’m not really fussed. I will play wherever the manager tells me to play because I’m just happy to be playing matches.

    “I don’t really think at the stage I’m at now I can be dictating where I’m playing – I’m just grateful for the opportunity. I’ll play anywhere as long as I’m on the team sheet.”

  • Bukola Adeyeye loses dad

    Bukola Adeyeye loses dad

    Frontline interior decorator, Olubukola Adeyeye, recently lost her father, Chief Oloruntola Michael Owolabi. It was gathered that Bukola and her dad were quite close in his life time.

    Her late father was a pioneer member of the Nigerian Institute of Estate Surveyors and Valuers and a former Director at the Lagos State Property Development Corporation (LSPDC).

    Chief Owolabi, who was the Balogun of Ise-Ekiti, Ekiti State, passed on at 79 on Sunday March 22, 2015 in a Lagos hospital after a brief illness.

    Plans are already in full gear to give the late Ise-Ekiti high chief a befitting burial. Already, an event planning outfit, Zapphire Events, has been hired to ensure a spectacular burial ceremony in Ise-Ekiti on 14th and 15th of May. Before then, there will be a service of songs at his Lagos residence on May 11.

    Although his wife, Mrs. Ebun Christiana Owolabi, had died in September 2009, he is survived by many children, including Abimbola Owolabi a.k.a Vitamofen, a former PDP governorship aspirant in Ekiti State; Bayode Owolabi; Dr. Bosede Akamiokhor; Olabisi Olutu; Olubukola Adeyeye, the CEO of House to Home; Dayo Owolabi; Lanre Owolabi; Olajide Owolabi, the CEO of Flash I.T Solutions; Olumide Owolabi and Olasukanmi Owolabi.

  • Harrysong loses dad

    Harrysong loses dad

    Five Star Music recording act, Harrysong, is currently bereaved, according to report. The music artiste is said to be presently mourning the loss of his father, barely two weeks after he celebrated his 34th birthday.

    The old man is said to have passed on last Friday, April 10.

    His publicist, Desmond Ike, who was said to have confirmed the sad news said; “Yes it’s true, the call just came in a few minutes ago and he is currently demoralized. We’ll put out an official statement soon.”

  • My dad, by ace music writer Makinde’s son

    My dad, by ace music writer Makinde’s son

    Ace music writer and Odessa File colunmist Olutade Makinde, 71, was a committed and selfless journalist. In this tribute, Odunayo Ogumola writes on the life and contributions of the late Makinde to entertainment journalism.

    His death shocked his family members, professional colleagues, kinsmen, friends and associates.

    He was his lively self till about 11.00 pm on Friday when he hosted many friends and guests who came to pay their ‘homage’ as usual.

    The story changed about one-and-a-half hours later when he suffered some breathing problems and was rushed to the hospital where he was pronounced dead about three hours later.

    That was the story of prominent entertainment journalist Mr. Olutade Makinde who died at 3 am penultimate Saturday. He was 71.

    Many people who saw him some days before his death could not believe that the journalism icon was gone.

    Since the news of his death broke, sympathisers  have been trooping to his residence on Ilawe Road, Ado-Ekiti to pay their last respects.

    Makinde is a big name in entertainment journalism.

    He worked hard to promote musicians, theatre arts practitioners, film makers and others.

    The late Makinde contributed immensely to the careers of artistes, such as the late Fela Anikulapo-Kuti, the late I.K. Dairo, Sunny Ade, Ebenezer Obey, Shina Peters, Sikiru Ayinde Barrister, Kollington Ayinla, Oliver de Coque, the late Rex Lawson, the late Eddy Okonta, Sir Victor Olaiya, Dele Abiodun, the late Hubert Ogunde, Chika Okpala (Zebrudaya), and Moses Olaiya (Baba Sala).

    These artistes respected him and used to consult him on issues concerning their careers because he was an authority in the field.

    His homes in Lagos and Ibadan were a Mecca for the artistes, with some of them  sleeping in his house because of the closeness.

    The late journalist worked at New Nigerian and Daily Sketch both rested, where he dazzled on the entertainment desk.

    He rose to the pinnacle of his career as Editor of The Entertainer newspaper which was a big hit in the early 90s.

    The late Makinde was also a columnist with the Nigerian Tribune where he ran a popular column known as ODESSA FILE for about seven years.

    His son, Tade, described his late father as a committed and selfless individual who pursued any cause he believed in with vigour.

    Tade, Head of Entertainment Desk at Nigerian Tribune, said the “Fountain of Knowledge” sobriquet of Ekiti was the brainchild of his late father.

    He said: “I should be proud of that legacy. After Ekiti State was created and they were looking for a sobriquet for the state, it was my father that came up with the idea of ‘Fountain of Knowledge’ which has since been adopted.

    “My father was not in journalism  for awards or prizes but to make his mark and for the cause of expressing himself and pushing his ideas.

    “In his Odessa File column, he wrote an article which influenced the decision of President Olusegun Obasanjo to give Ekiti a senior cabinet position, which resulted in Prof. Tunde Adeniran being appointed Minister of Education.

    “He also wrote an article on the Ewi throne of Ado-Ekiti which made Obasanjo to send an emissary to the Ewi. As a journalist, he always told me to do what is right and expect nothing in return”.

    Tade explained that though his father had been practising journalism before he was born, the highlight of the late septuagenarian’s career was his editorship of The Entertainer when the weekly sold 500,000 copies.

    He said after his father retired from Daily Sketch, he published a magazine Variety Entertainment for about five years before being forced out of business soaring cost of newsprint.

    Tade also revealed that his father pioneered voting through newspaper coupon to determine the best performer in the music industry.

    The first of such awards through voting  determined by music fans saw the emergence of Sunny Ade as the King of Music. The music legend was crowned by the Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Lamidi Adeyemi in 1977.

    “My father came up with the idea of voting to determine who is the best musician or artiste of the year by cutting coupons from the newspapers. These coupons through which interested readers voted were counted at the palace of the Alaafin of Oyo who is a neutral person.

    “Sunny Ade came first, Ebenezer Obey came second, Dele Abiodun came third and Fela Anikulapo came fourth after the coupons through which people voted were counted,” Tade added.

    “My father used to tell me that people fear you because of the power of the pen but the moment you leave the profession, people will no longer give you the respect you used to command while in the profession.

    “He made friends as a journalist and that is why people came here to pay homage to him even after he retired and was serving as a consultant to people who needed his services.

    “He used to tell me that don’t expect anything in return and he told me to always make friends and never to pursue money.

    “He also used to say do your best and get on because you are the voice of the people. My father also used to say publish and be damned.

    “He was a selfless individual who used his influence in the media to assist people to get jobs, admissions, connections with people in high places. He was an unusual individual and we shall all miss him”, Tade said.

    Pa Makinde, who was born on August 25, 1943 will be buried on March 13.